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We got new microphones. It's
hard to teach an old dog new tricks. John chapter 14, quickly
please, in your Bible, John 14. I may go a little bit over the
top of the hour tonight with this message, but you have nothing
better to do anyway except watch TV. John chapter 14. Look in
your Bible with me at verse number 26. John 14, verse 26. As I begin a series that I have
had opportunity now to preach in different parts of the country,
but never put it together in this exact form for Faith Baptist
Church. A year ago or so, you had the
embryonic form being developed in a number of sermons, I think
eight to ten or so online. And then I've condensed them
down into about four or five. You say, Pastor Marty, you can
condense your sermons? Yes, I can condense them. I can
also expand them. So please listen. And if you
behave, I won't do that. Matthew 14, verse number 26,
the Bible says this, but the comforter, which is the Holy
Ghost, I love the word, by the way, the comforter. He lives
inside us to bring us comfort in the difficult times of our
life. The word paraclete, or the word, one that is called
alongside to help. but the Comforter, which is the
Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name." Now note these
next words. "'He shall teach you all things
and bring all things to your remembrance whatsoever I have
said unto you.'" There is a connection between the Holy Spirit's office
as paraclete and comforter and bringing into remembrance the
things that Jesus said. In other words, part of the method
of comfort that the Holy Spirit gives us through difficult times
in life is to bring to remembrance the words of Jesus, the Word
of God. In other words, the Word of God has the answer. The Bible
says we're given all things that pertain unto life and godliness,
so the book that you hold in your hand, it has the answer.
Now, the Bible is not a psychology textbook by any stretch of the
imagination. But the best psychology that
we know is found in the pages of Scripture. And in this series,
I'm going to connect some of the dots within the Bible and
organize it in such a way to give us a method of thinking.
But I want you to notice the connection between the Holy Spirit,
who is the Comforter, and Him bringing us into remembrance
of the things Jesus said of the Word of God. Then what happens,
look at verse 27. Peace, I leave with you. "'My
peace I give unto you, "'not as the world give I unto you. "'Let not your heart be troubled,
"'neither let it be afraid.'" There is a connection between
the Holy Spirit, between the word of God that he will bring
to our remembrance, and between the peace of God that he leaves
with us. I want you to notice all of that.
So it teaches me this, Jesus said, I'm going to leave my peace
to my people. That is what Jesus said. Now
it begs the question though, Why do so many of God's people
sometimes struggle in the area of depression and anxiety and
fear? Why are those things such a reality
for God's people? After all, didn't Jesus promise
to leave peace with us? Yes, He did. But the promise
of peace is in two things, the person of the Holy Spirit, who
brings into remembrance the Word of God, and then frankly, the
necessity of our obeying Scripture. This is the problem. We miss
the mark because we think that somehow God should grant to us
some kind of peace without any effort on our part. When throughout
the entire Bible, but particularly the New Testament, God has given
us a pathway to peace, now let's use these words, if we obey. I want everyone to look at me,
look at me, look at me. This series of messages, four
or five or depending on how far I get tonight, whatever, you
know how we are around here. This series of messages, okay, will
intrigue you, but it will not help you if you don't do it.
The series of messages will interest you, but it won't help you if
you don't do it. The whole point in my giving
these messages is to give you something to do that will actually
help you. Now, I have this, I have this. Robbie, I need help. Robbie,
I need help. If there's one thing Robbie can
do, it's pass out papers. He's excellent, excellent at
this. And Nate, will you help him too?
Not that you need help, Robbie, but it'll go faster. I hope I
have enough of those. If not, someone can make more
copies. Pardon me. The peace of God. Now, let me
deal with the issue just as a little bit of a background issue. Anxiety
and depression. Recently, it was stated that
more Americans suffer from anxiety than any other mental ill. That
is fairly new. That's within the last few months,
because prior to that, the largest suffrage area was in the area
of depression. People suffered depression. Today
it is anxiety. There are many reasons for that.
But it is interesting that many times God's people suffer on
the same level, and some even more, than the world suffers.
Now, when I give this message, and I think I've been very transparent
about this in the past, so I'll say this very publicly again.
I have been a person in my life who has suffered from depression. I have no problem telling you
that. Now, you say, Pastor Monty, you always feel like you're on
top side. Well, I usually can be at church. I can be at church. I'm very
good at church. But sometimes, you know, you have your way from
the audience, and sometimes you collapse. I have no problem saying
that. Can someone in the audience name
for me a famous preacher who was honest about the fact that
he sometimes struggled with depression? Yes, Tim. Charles Haddon Spurgeon. Charles Haddon Spurgeon, the
greatest of preachers in the English language. He was very
open about that. In fact, a young man was working
on his doctoral dissertation for a seminary and later that
dissertation was published into a book. It is a book entitled,
you might jot this down, Spurgeon's Sorrows. The young man took all
of the preaching of Spurgeon and went through it, and he collated
everything that Spurgeon said about the area of depression.
When you read the book, you come to find out that Spurgeon, late
1800s, was light years ahead of the medical community in understanding
the nature of depression. But I have on and off in my life
struggled with bouts of depression or bouts of downtime. I have
also in my life struggled with anxiety. Often, by the way, those
two ills are two sides of the same coin. I've often struggled
with those things and fought to get through them. Now, a year
and a half ago, whenever it was, back in February 2017, I went
through what is unmistakably the worst, most difficult time
of my life, when my twin brother took his own life. That was very,
very difficult on a multitude of levels for me. I had never
faced anything so horrific as that. Even my father's death
when I was 12 years old did not impact me to the level that my
brother's taking his own life did. That was very serious. I
would be honest with the audience and say that it impacts me today.
It continues to impact me. But it created in me, at first,
a great sense of anger. I was working out of anger. It
also created in me a great sense of wanting to move away from
that and just get back to normal. And so I did that very rapidly.
I will confess to the audience here at Faith Baptist that I
got back into the pulpit far too quickly after that level
of a mental jolt. However, You could not have convinced
me at that time not to do it. You could not have talked me
out of it. But I look back on it now and I recognize that I
probably shouldn't have been in the pulpit because I'd faced
such a mental jolt at that particular time. I moved rapidly through
some things. I had to move my mother here
very quickly, get her settled in, deal with all of her financial
and legal issues, sell her house, move all of her possessions down
here. I had a series of things that I needed to do as well as
preaching here at the church and then fulfilling obligations
that I'd made in other ministries as well. And so all of this stuff
was very much mounting, but what I did, what I did was I just
moved full speed ahead, and I just didn't think, I tried not to
think about the issue, as jolting as it was, I tried not to think
about it. Then some friends, some well-meaning friends, said
something like this to me. They said, you know, preacher,
You know, you need to go through the five stages of grief. How many have ever heard about
that? The five stages of grief. I asked them, what do you mean
by that? And they said, well, I don't know, buy the book. They're
so important, they couldn't even name them. And they said, because
if you don't, here's what they said, if you don't go through
all these five stages, whatever those are, you know, whatever
they are, they said, if you don't, you'll just blow up. You'll blow
up. Well, I have a friend who's a psychologist, and I went to
ask him about it. And I said, you know, I said,
I think I've been handling this differently. I said, in a lot
of ways, I've just been refusing to think about it. It was interesting,
my psychologist friend said this. He said, that probably is the
best way to deal with this. probably the best way. Now, most
people at one time or another suffer from some level of anxiety. Depression and anxiety can affect
more than six million Americans each day. Ninety percent of those
affected have a paired disorder. Depression with anxiety, suspicious
mind, that is intuition or speculation, intolerable uncertainty, always
concerned by not understanding what is going to come ahead.
All kinds of things go along with this. And what are the causes?
I've listed some of them in your outline. Causes can be, of course,
stress, a major cause. Medication, sometimes sleep aid,
causes anxiety in people. Your cell phone. Your cell phone. Now, let me just be plain. I'm
not against technology. I have a cell phone. But recently,
I've read a book recently called The Distracted Mind, written
by two psychologists who talk about the danger of the cell
phone and the rise of anxiety, particularly among young people.
Not just young people, but older people. Our tendency to have
our hearts skip a beat when it vibrates in our pocket. the irresistible
desire to look at it when it bings or pings no matter what
circumstance we're in. Those are some reasons that can
cause anxiety in people's life. But the one I'm going to focus
on really in the series is this, poor mental processing or undisciplined
thinking. I believe this, that you must
become the guardian of your mind. Now listen carefully, Jesus commands
this, Paul commands this, and the Bible teaches this. But the
Bible doesn't teach it in an organized form. It is scattered
throughout the Scripture, particularly in the New Testament. But the
idea is this, that anxiety, my worry, my concern, and anxiety
is the inability of the mind to shut down. Defined, it is
a completely endless loop that people go through. For example,
have you ever been kept up at night over a problem? and you've
thought about it over and over and over again, and you can't
get it out of your mind, and it seems like your mind will
not shut down, that is a classic definition of anxiety. So that's what anxiety is, the
inability of the mind to shut down over something. Now, we
create that, I think, in ourselves by a lack of mental discipline.
Notice in your outline, if you will, I have given you a verse,
Proverbs 23, verse 7. Now, I want to do something with
this, so I've got a very high-tech digital piece of equipment. that
I wanna haul over here. I'm telling you this, it worked
better than any PowerPoint presentation you could ever have. Now, notice
the verse that we have from Proverbs. As a man, thinketh in his heart,
so is he. Now, can everybody see this?
I'm trying to angle it so that you can see this. Can everybody,
hopefully everyone can see this brilliant technology. Okay, now
watch this, watch this. Okay, down here, are our thoughts, our thoughts,
okay? If you look on your outline,
you'll see something similar. You'll see the word thoughts.
Up here are emotions, or feelings, if you will, and down here is
behavior. Okay, now watch, you see that
on your lesson outline, but notice this, you take your thoughts
and draw a line up to the emotions, then draw a line from the emotions
to the behaviors, and then from behavior back over to thoughts. The Bible says this, now watch,
watch as I'm quoting the verse, as he or as a man thinketh, that
is your thoughts, In his heart, that is your emotions, so is
he, that is your behavior. Does everyone see this? This
is absolutely fundamental to what I'm going to teach you.
As a man thinks in his heart, so is he. My thoughts produce
my emotions, my emotions drive my behavior. If you will get
that paradigm in your mind, It will explain why you are the
way you are. And by the way, not just for
depression or anxiety, but if a person is prone to anger, your
thoughts produce your emotions, anger is a negative emotion,
and your emotions drive your behavior when you get angry and
yell and carry on like a banshee of some sort. So thoughts produce
emotions, emotions drive behavior. So how can I change my emotion? In other words, how can I stop
the emotion from coming? Here's what you do. You have
to nip it in the bud. This is Barney Fife psychology,
okay? Barney Fife psychology. Nip it,
nip it, nip it. Nip it in the bud right here
at the point of thoughts, okay? The things that I think produce
my emotion. My emotion drives my behavior. Now, that being true, if I could
control my way of thinking, listen carefully, disciplining my thinking,
I can affect my emotions and avoid negative behavior. Take your Bible with me, turn
to 2 Corinthians chapter 10. 2 Corinthians chapter 10. Please follow this line of reasoning
carefully. 2 Corinthians chapter 10. I think
I quoted verse 4 in the morning message. 2 Corinthians 10 verse
4. For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through
God to the pulling down of strongholds. Verse number 5. This is a key
verse. Casting down imaginations, and
every high thing that exalted itself against the knowledge
of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience
of Christ. I want you to notice that verse,
how key that is. Casting down imaginations, every
high thing that exalted itself against the knowledge of God,
and bringing into captivity every thought into obedience of Christ. Folks, look at me. Often in our
circles, We use that verse to tell people they ought not have
dirty thoughts. And you can apply it that way.
But that is not the only application of that verse. That verse tells
me that I am in charge of my thought life. Now, pause here
for a moment. Don't you for one minute get,
well, Pastor Monty, you know, I can't help the way I think.
My thoughts just sort of run around in my brain. You perhaps
have lived that way your entire life, but you can help how you
think. In fact, how you think is absolutely
key to your emotional well-being. Now, I want to say something,
and I'll say this a thousand times. Do not, you say, Pastor
Monty, are you telling me that I should get off of my medication?
Look at me. No. No. I'm not telling you that. I'm not a doctor. I'm not a medical
doctor. I am telling you that whether
you are medicated or not, what I have to say is very, very good,
and it is very biblical. And I think sometimes, this is
just my personal theory, I think sometimes doctors are eager to
pass out a pill because we are all eager to take a pill because,
frankly, taking a pill is a lot easier than disciplining your
thoughts and changing the way that you think. And for many
of us, our thoughts have run around in our head like a wild
bronco throughout our entire lifetime. We've never disciplined
them. We've never even bothered to examine them. Some of us have
never even challenged our thoughts. What is this verse teaching?
2 Corinthians 10 verse 5. It is teaching this, that I am
to challenge my thought. That I'm going to examine my
thought. Let's put it this way, that I'm going to think about
my thought. And I'm going to consider my
thought. Now, later on in the series, I'll give you some guidelines
for judging your thoughts, for evaluating them. But right now,
it's simply enough to say that I have to look at my thoughts,
and there are certain thoughts that I cast down. Thoughts that push God out of
the equation. I've gotten a little ahead of
myself, but there are some things that I do. The assumption of
Scripture, ladies and gentlemen, is this, that you control your
thoughts and that you should be confronting your thoughts
before they produce a negative or wrong emotional mindset. Philippians
4, verses 6 and 7, be careful for nothing but everything by
prayer. and the peace of God shall keep your hearts and minds.
All of that has to do with my thoughts. How am I thinking?
What are my emotions? Philippians 4, verse four, rejoice
in the Lord. Isaiah 26, three, that will keep
him in perfect peace. Who? Whose mind is stayed on
thee. I hope you're following this.
In other words, it is my thinking that can produce a sense of peace
or a sense of anxiety and depression. So understanding that paradigm,
I will refer to that paradigm repeatedly. Now go to the next
page, go to the next page. How do we eliminate anxiety by
controlling our thoughts? How do we do that? Okay, to be
very biblical, and by the way, this is a process. Now listen,
I'm gonna go through this, and I'm going to beg you to start
doing this. Pastor Monty, you know, it sounds
like hard work to think about every thought. It is hard work
at first. Can I teach you something real
quickly? Okay, so when I first started
doing this myself, it seemed really laborious. And the first
week was kind of hard, and the second week was kind of hard.
After a while, I gained the mental muscle to do this almost automatically. My brain now knows when it's
thinking a thought, it shouldn't be thinking, and my reaction
is to capture that thought, to confront that thought, and to
deal with it. This is just good, plain old
good, healthy thinking. Okay, what are we going to do?
Number one, learn to capture your thought. We read about that
in 2 Corinthians 10, verse 5, bringing it into captivity of
Christ. You must control your thoughts, only you can do this.
The Bible commands disciplined thinking. Philippians 4, 8, whatsoever
things are true, etc., etc., think on these things. It is
a command of Scripture that we discipline our thinking. We capture
that thought. You confront your thinking, determining
if it is legitimate and biblical. In the other sessions, I'm going
to give you guidelines for evaluating your own thinking. But just get
the idea in your head now, I'm going to stop my thinking, and
I'm going to confront it. I'm going to determine if it
is legitimate and biblical. I'm going to learn to recognize
unhealthy and unbiblical thinking, and this will require discipline,
okay? I capture the thought. Then what
do I do with that thought? There are two possibilities. Look back again at chapter 10,
verse number 5. casting down imaginations, and every high
thing that exalted itself against the knowledge of God." Casting
it down. Now, that verse is talking about
my thoughts. There are certain thoughts that
I should pluck out of my head and throw away. I should cast
them down. I'm going to use the word refuse,
refuse. There are certain thoughts I
simply need to refuse. In refusing a thought, you stop
the unbiblical thinking in its tracks. You even say to yourself,
no, I don't think about that. And then you don't think about
it. And Pastor Ronnie, you're telling
me to forget. I didn't tell you to forget.
You cannot forget, but you do not have to ruminate. Listen
carefully. You cannot help it if a bird
flies over your head, but you can keep it from making a nest
in your hair. And so sometimes a thought will
come into your mind, a remembrance of something negative, and the
mind will have a tendency to ruminate on that. And what I'm
asking you to do is to discipline your thinking in such a way that
you say to yourself, no, I'm not thinking about that. After
my brother took his life, a little more than a month after that,
I was driving down to Pensacola Christian College. I'd been asked
over a year previous to speak at the Bible conference at the
college. I had agreed to do so. After
what happened took place in my life, the college called me and
they said, they said, Dr. Motti, would you still like to
come? to the college and preach. I said, oh, yes. I said, absolutely.
They said, well, we're just checking to make sure you feel up to it
because they understood what had happened. Just checking to
make sure you feel up to it. I said, yes, that'll be fine.
By the way, when I got there, it was so nice. The college had
reduced my speaking. I think it's normally three or
four times in a Bible conference. I think they reduced it down
to twice. And they put both of them on
the same day. And the first day I didn't have to do anything.
I spoke twice the next day. And the next day I didn't have
to do anything except just take it all in and relax, enjoy that. And I know the college planned
it that way and was very kind to me about that. I really appreciate
that. They never said anything, but I knew exactly that they
had done that. So that was very nice. But on the trip down, I
was driving down. It's about a 12 hour trip. And
on the trip down, that was the first time in just over a month
that I was actually alone with my thoughts. You'll recall that
a lot of people, a lot of friends of mine from all over the country
came, and some of them stayed for several days in our home
and would just stay up with me, and really a blessing. I had
so many people come and were just a blessing to me in that
time. But this was the first time I was alone with my thoughts.
And so, of course, I'm driving on the highway, I'm by myself.
I'm driving down the highway, and all of a sudden, those thoughts
come into your head, right? And really, I had not had time
to ruminate about it, to think about it very much. I'd been
so busy in the course of all of that. And so they started
coming into my mind, and I started getting negatively emotional. And by the way, this was before
I studied any of this out. And you know what I did? I just
told myself, no, I'm not thinking about that. That's what I did.
Well, but Pastor Juan, don't you think you should think about
it? I'm not sure why. Well, but Pastor Monty, don't
you wish you knew a reason why? Well, maybe, maybe, but what
difference would that make? Can I be super, can I be real
practical with you right now? A lot of psychology tells you,
oh, we need to know the reason why. Why this happened, why that
happened, why did so and so blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Knowing
the reason why doesn't change anything. Sometimes you can search
your whole life and never find the reason why. But fundamentally,
knowing the reason why doesn't change anything, and the search
for the reason why can become frustrating in and of itself,
and it doesn't change the facts of how things are, and it can
place you into a very negative position emotionally. And so
I just simply told myself when I was driving, and my mind would
start wandering over there, I would just say, nope, nope, we don't
think of that. And I turned on some preaching I was listening
to, or a podcast I was listening to, or my favorite podcast, Ben
Shapiro. I turned on Ben. How do I listen
to Ben? You ought to listen to Ben every day. Ben Shapiro, he's
smart. He's a very smart man. I would listen to something,
but take my mind off of it. I wanted to learn to refuse to
think about it. Now, let me give you an idea
here. Look at verse number five again.
Casting down imaginations, casting down every high thing. Well,
what are these high things and imaginations we're casting down?
Here's the definition. That exalted itself against a
knowledge of God. Pause for a moment. Any thought
that takes God out of the equation should be refused. Do you follow
what I'm saying? Any thought. Any thought that
takes God out. Any thought that exalts against
God. Any thought that eliminates God.
Any thought that says God is not here or God is not present
or that does not include God. All of those thoughts should
be refused. They are to be cast down. And
I learned to do this when I confront the thought, for example, for
example, someone will think, you know, I'm getting on in years
and I haven't saved enough money. I'm just not going to have enough
money in retirement. Okay. And that thought can cause a
person emotional insecurity. But you know what that thought
has done? That thought has eliminated God from the equation. Because
there is a God in heaven who says this, I've never seen the
righteous forsaken nor his seed begging bread. There is a God
in heaven who has promised in Matthew chapter 6 that he will
provide for our daily needs if we put him first. And sometimes
those thoughts that come that cause us the most unrest are
simply present because we have removed God from the equation
of those thoughts. I need to learn to refuse those
things. Sometimes I need to consider the source. Consider the source.
Most of my bad thinking comes from me. It really does. It just
does. Okay? And your human nature has
a way of doing this. There's another possible source,
though, too. Acts chapter 5, verse number 3. The Bible's speaking
about Ananias and Sapphira. Peter said, Ananias, why hath
Satan filled thine heart to lie to the Holy Ghost? Now, what
does that mean? I think it is possible, and I
don't understand all about this, but I think it's possible that
the devil has some level of access to our mind, not the devil himself
personally, but likely more demon influences, and that the devil
can place thoughts in our mind. The Bible defines Satan as the
accuser of the brethren, okay? So anytime you have a thought
that is in the second person... By the way, do you think in sentences?
I do. I think in English sentences.
I've said that to audiences. Later someone comes up and says,
Pastor Bonnie, I don't think in sentences. Well, how do you even
think then? I think an English sentence,
by the way, do you know that I'm constantly preaching in my own head? Constantly
preaching in my own head. And it's great preaching, by
the way, but constantly preaching in my own head. And the devil
has access. Whenever you have, listen to
this, whenever you have an accusatory thought that comes in the second
person, you, you better pause and examine that thought. For
example, this would be one of them. For example, you are not
smart enough. That's an accusation. The devil
is the accuser of the brethren. And it's usually something like
this. You are not smart enough to teach that Sunday school class.
And the devil can use that accusation to prevent you from serving God.
Or you are not handsome enough, or you are not pretty enough.
or you're not talented enough, or you're not a good enough speaker.
Usually it's something that the devil places in your mind that
denigrates you as a person, and it reflects upon you as an individual.
May I say something, ladies and gentlemen? Those accusatory thoughts
are false. And do you know why? Because
your identity is not based upon your looks. Your identity is
not based upon your level of education. Your identity is not
based upon your native talents. Your identity is based upon who
you are in Christ. And my identity is not my talent
or ability or my looks. My identity, ladies and gentlemen,
is in Christ. And the Bible says in Christ,
I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me. It is
Him, not me. Consider the source of your thoughts.
Often they're from yourself, sometimes they could be from
the devil. Okay, that's refusing thoughts. And what I'm going
to do in the next couple sessions, I'm going to give you a method
by which you can actually evaluate your thoughts to know which ones
you need to refuse. For right now, suffice it to
say that any thought that eliminates God from the equation is a thought
that you need to refuse. Number two, though, here's another
method. We can sometimes reframe our thinking. Reframe. In other
words, change your unhealthy and unbiblical thinking to come
into line with Scripture. Now, why do we want to do this?
Because My thoughts produce my emotions. My emotions drive my
behaviors. So let's take a look at the thoughts.
You've got it on your lesson outline. By the way, this is
my speaking outline that you have in front of you. Notice
an unhealthy thought. Okay, here's the thought. Nobody
likes me. Nobody likes me. I'm going to
eat dirt and die. Nobody likes me. That is the
thought. What is the emotion? It produces
the emotion of loneliness or isolation. What can be the behavior? You know what the behavior can
be. In extreme cases, the behavior could be suicide. Could be all
kinds of negative behaviors. Nobody likes me. Loneliness,
isolation. What if, though, this? What if, though, this? I stop
that thought. Now, folks, look at me. Look
at me. I capture the thought according to the Bible. I capture
the thought. I look at that thought. By the
way, that took God out of the equation. Hello? Jesus loves
me, this I know, for the Bible tells me so. Okay, but that thought
took God out of the equation. Does everybody see that? So I
have this thought that nobody likes me. That's a wrong and
unhealthy and unbiblical thought. But let me reframe that thought.
Let me change that thought around. What if I change the thought
to this? I should make new friends. Okay, there's a similarity between
that and nobody likes me, okay? However, the thought I should
make new friends, it produces the emotion of hope. Does everyone
see that? It doesn't tend toward despair,
because it says I can make new friends, so I should come to
church, and I should join a Sunday school class, and I should go
to the ladies Bible study, and I should get active in church.
I should make new friends, and it gives the idea of hope rather
than despair. Here's another unhealthy thought.
My husband works too much. He doesn't care about me. He
works, by the way, by the way, ladies, look at me. If your husband
works like a dog, thank God. I, as a pastor of 30 years, can
point you to a thousand men who are lazy, good-for-nothing, low-down,
rotten slackers. If you've got a worker, you've
got a good man. But, a lady might think my husband works too much.
I feel abandoned. then bad things can happen with
that feeling. What if she changed her thinking
to this? My husband is a good provider. What if she changed her thinking
to this? By the way, this is a great thing to think, ladies.
My husband shows his love to our family by being a good provider. A lot of men do that. A lot of
men don't remember roses. A lot of men are not good with
words, but a lot of men show their love by being good provider.
What emotion is then evoked? Something like thankfulness,
thankfulness. Let's do another one. The thought, I am no good. It evokes inferiority. Many,
many emotions can go along with that. But reframe that to be
biblical. I am God's child, and that gives
me courage. Does everybody see that? I want
you to see this. It's changing your, well, Pastor
Monty, this is just kind of Pollyannish thinking. No, it's not. Because it's biblical. I understand
you're no good from a spiritual standpoint, for all have sinned
and come short of the glory of God. I'm not talking about that.
When I say I'm no good, that's you saying that I'm inferior
to everyone else. And you are not inferior to everyone
else. Do you know why you're not? Do you know why I know you're
not? I'll tell you why I know. Because you are made in the image
of God. Because if you're born again,
you are a child of God. Because God made you specifically
as you are for a specific reason, for a specific purpose. And the
God who counts the very hairs on your head understands exactly
who you are, and He made you for that purpose. That is biblical
thinking. It is not, well, I just want
to be more realistic. I'm no good at anything. Why
are you denying, listen to me, why are you denying the image
of the glory of God in you by that kind of thinking? Why? Do
you want to know? It could be the devil. It could
be the devil trying to tell you that. How about this one? I can't
do this anymore. What is my emotion? It's a resignation
to failure. I can't do this anymore. Okay.
What about this biblical thought? I can do all things through Christ
which strengthens me. Does everybody see this? Did
you get the idea of what I'm doing here? I'm saying if you... You ready? There it is. Is that working?
Okay, sorry about that, everyone. If I learn to reframe my thinking,
listen carefully, to bring it in line with scripture, here's
the bottom line. My thought that I've captured
in Obedience II Corinthians 10.5, my thought which I've captured
is changed, so my emotional response is different. Now, here's the
risk, here's the risk. Can I give you the risk? If you start doing this, you
have to stop something. What am I gonna stop, preacher?
Wallowing in your own misery. I'm going to be very honest here.
If you really start doing this, you have to give up being a victim. You have to. If you really start
doing this, you have to give up whining. Hard to do, right? If you really start doing this,
you have to give up the constant negativity that you've lived
in for so long that it has come to characterize your life. Well,
Pastor Monty, I'm just not gonna put on those rosy colored sunglasses. Do you know why you're not going
to? Because you love being negative. because it's who you are. Or
you love whining, or you are addicted to complaining. Or negative,
well, Pastor Monty, I'm just viewing the world in a more realistic
way. Oh, really? Are you viewing the world more
realistically than I am when I point to a verse of Scripture
and say, I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth
me? Is that really more realistic? See, the Bible is real. And our thinking often has us
chained in such a manner as to limit us dramatically and bring
us into depression or bring us into anxiety or bring us into
fear. All of our thinking will do that
in order to bind us and keep us right where we are. Someone
will criticize this and say, well, Pastor Monty, this all
sounds too simple. No, I'm going to guarantee you something. This
is not simple. But if you will begin with this
now, it will absolutely change your life. So here's step number
one. Here's what I'm going to ask you to do. I'm going to ask you
from the Bible to capture your thoughts. You can read the tips
of reframing thoughts at the end of that later. Don't read
it right now. I'm summing things up. I'm going to ask you to capture
your thoughts and confront them. Okay, by the way, married spouses,
married spouses, help your spouse. Wives, look at me. Look at me,
wives. I give you full permission to
question your husband's goofy thinking. And I also proclaim
he is not allowed to get angry about it. And if he does, he'll
have me to deal with. Just call me up, I'm bigger than
he is. Husband's the same thing, the same thing. You have a right
to question your wife's thinking. Now watch what we're gonna do.
We're going to start capturing thoughts, bringing them into
obedience of Christ. Okay, that's, by the way, the
idea of reframing your thinking. We're going to capture our thoughts.
We're going to choose some of them that we're just gonna refuse.
Any thought that exalts itself against the knowledge of God,
any thought that crowds God out of the equation, I'm not thinking
about that. I'm not thinking, well, Pastor Ron, you know, this
horrible thing happened back to me. This horrible thing happened
to me 36 years ago. You knew it would come up. You know what? It's time to quit
wallowing. Can I just be honest? I'm just
being honest. Well, the best money I've got to work through.
Look, listen to me, listen to me, 36 years, you should have
done that work through a long time ago. I'm just being honest with
you, okay? I'm not being uncaring, okay? You have to learn to deal with
things. And do you know what? There are some things, how many
know there are some things in life that happen that it's just
better not to think about? How do you know that? Because
if you think about it, it ruins your day, it ruins your week,
it ruins your month, it makes you sad. There are some things
you just need to not think about. Anything that drives God from
the equation is not something you think about. So you just
refuse that. Do you know of some thought that puts you into a
bad mood or a foul mood? Do you know something like that?
Or something that happened in the past? Do you know something
like that? Okay, can I just tell you, don't think about it. Well,
Pastor, sometimes it comes to mind. Okay, stop ruminating over
it. Just tell yourself, no, I don't
think about these things. That's number one. Number two,
reframing your thoughts, okay? When I bring them into captivity,
I'm also to bring them into conformity to Christ. So a thought that
I have that is not biblical, change it to a biblical thought,
and then watch God change your emotion. Do you know why I know
this works? Because as a man thinketh in
his heart, so is he. Scripture says that. It all begins
with the mind. Ladies and gentlemen, learn in
this week to challenge your thinking. And in the successive weeks,
I'm going to give you ways to evaluate your thoughts and what
to do with those as we evaluate them. Let's pray together. Father,
thank you for your word tonight and for the powerful lesson it
gives us in regard to our own thinking. Father, there is so
much in the Bible regarding this that I pray you will give us
wisdom and remembrance. Father, bring these things into
remembrance as we would capture our thoughts, as we would cast
away those thoughts that eliminate God from the equation, as we
would bring into captivity and reframe thoughts to come into
line with Scripture. Help us, Lord, to do that this
week, to begin this practice of thinking about our thinking.
Bless us, we pray, as we seek to walk in obedience to you.
We pray in Jesus' name. Let's stand together, please,
everyone.
The Peace of God - Undisciplined Thinking
Series Peace of Mind
| Sermon ID | 99930181924210 |
| Duration | 39:56 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - PM |
| Bible Text | John 14:26-27 |
| Language | English |
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