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But let's take out our handouts. And by the way, I'm not sure
I was late getting in because I was talking to someone, but
the leadership team has designated the final Wednesday of every
month to be an entire teaching time of question and answer.
And so start thinking about, and this is not about sports
or anything else, it's about counseling. Okay, I mean we're
limiting what we're doing. But next week and the last Wednesday
of every month, it's going to be, do you remember one time
we did a little Q&A on counseling issues and so many of you had
more questions that we decided we're going to do that as the
last class of every month. So next week, The whole teaching
time will be Q&A. If there aren't any Q&A, we're
going to dismiss early. You know, if you don't have any
questions. I'm just teasing. I'm sure that there'll be questions.
But that, you can plan on that. Like if you have, wondering where
to start with some issue, like where would be the first place
you'd go in the Bible if someone is abused, or if someone's husband
is going to divorce them, how would you counsel them? and those
kind of issues, or questions about even the text or lessons
that we've done. So remember that as the last
one for each time. Also, in your handouts, many
of you said, I didn't finish two weeks ago. How many of you
told me that? OK. Yeah. Come on. Be bold. OK. The fill in the blanks are underlined
in here. And we're covering it tonight.
But so that those of you that like completion, You can go back
to your old fill in the blank and the blanks, the answers are
underlined in the headers there. So you can find those there. But let's begin. Tonight I'm
finishing last week's platform exposure to temptation uh... to sin and what i'm using this
for is explain to you how you can counsel and disciple people
using this understanding where they are how far they've gotten
in their overcoming sin by faith or their giving in to sin by
habit and that's that's the two uh... directions that we go uh... but Tonight, our theme verse
for the month is the reminder that temptations are always stalking
us. And I disciple a young college
student. And I've been meeting with them
for a long time, and they came to me and they said, I've come
to the point that I can't remember the last time I looked at pornography
on the computer. I said, that's a real blessing.
But they said, I have this sense of like, I need to watch out
because I might slide back in. And I went right into tonight's,
I said, yes, because temptations are always stalking you. Remember
what it says, let everyone take heed lest you fall. When you
think you've made it, take heed lest you fall, because temptations
are always stalking us. So what I thought we'd do is,
recite our verse together. So if you have learned it in
the New King James, you can just close your eyes, and if you hadn't,
you can read it here or say it in your version, but let's repeat
it together. No temptation has overtaken you, except such as
is common to man, but God is faithful, who will not allow
you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but will with the
temptation will also make the way of escape that you may be
able to bear it. Now, the spiritual law of sowing
and reaping tells us that every time we yield to temptation,
we reap a result of that. And every time we yield to the
spirit, we also will reap a result of that. And then we began looking
at the consequences in daily life. So let's take our sheets. And what I'm going to do is,
starting on that consequences in daily life on your sheets,
remind you. And this is a little bit what
we ended with last week. Consequences abound in our life.
Driving over the speed limit can get us a ticket. Driving
under the influence can get us losing our license. Not paying
your rent can make you be evicted. Not showing up for work can get
you fired. And as all of us who have... Relatives in the military know
that if you get your drill sergeant upset at you, it can be painful. And so what happens is sensible,
as I wrote here, people who are law-abiding and moral, and I'm
saying they're unsaved, but they kind of learned the ropes, as
it were, they learned that it causes less trouble for themselves
in their life, and they're better off as long as they live in this
kind of moderate way. And compared to the person who
is irresponsible or promiscuous and gets some STD or who abuses
alcohol and drugs and can't get a job, neither type of individual. And that's what I was just talking
to someone and they told me that they deal with this businessman.
They said that they're actually nicer than a lot of people they
know in church. There are those kind of people. They're so moral,
but that doesn't get you to heaven. But what the Lord does is in
this present life, their life is better off. if they see this
balance of avoiding, you know, overdoing the evil and kind of
lightly staying, they've learned that balance. And if they follow
it as best as they can, even if their motives are self-serving,
it helps them. Now, this is what the Lord says.
Look at 1 Corinthians 4, 5. It's printed out for you. The
Lord says, judge nothing before the appointed time. The reason
I think Paul wrote this is that sometimes we look at some unsaved
people and they almost have a better life than saved people sometimes. You ever notice that? The saved
people are scraping along, some of them, and they have all the
struggles, and they move from job to job, and they struggle
with their health, and then it looks like this unsaved person
is just having no problems. But the Lord says he'll bring
to light what's hidden in darkness. He will expose the motives of
their hearts, and each one will receive in the end from the Lord. And the consequences of life
are inexorable and unavoidable, and they don't usually bring
immediate consequences. So what we have to explain to
people as we counsel them is, and this happens to me all the
time, I'll talk to couples, and one or the other of them is dead
set that they don't want to get you know, back together. And
the other one will say, they are living in sin and the Lord's
not doing anything. And I am trying to obey the Lord
and everything's going wrong for me. And this right here is
what I tell them. It's just because God's judgment
are usually long delayed. See, the Lord doesn't instantly
ramp up the consequence into the life. And so we have to tell
them that they should realize that there will be negative consequences
for the believer. And you can read the rest, which
I read last week, but now turn to Galatians 5 in your Bible,
and I'm going to show you In Galatians 5, and something, if
you haven't yet marked it, this is one of those neat things to
have marked in your Bible. Starting in verse 19, you'll
see there are 17 listed sins. You can count them. And if you
go through them, you'll notice, if you circle them, eight of
them have to do with interpersonal relationships. What you see is
sin shows up very frequently in how we get along with people.
And that's what the Lord is talking about here, because most people,
most believers would say that adultery and fornication and
uncleanness and lewdness are really bad, and so is idolatry,
verse 20, and sorcery. But they still hate people. They
still have contentions. They still get jealous. They
still excuse outbursts of wrath. They still almost condone selfish
ambition. They side with those who are
having dissensions and heresies. They are guilty of envy, but
murder is wrong, and drunkenness is wrong, and revelry is wrong. Do you see what's going on there?
They're almost the excused comfortable sins that we say, yeah, they
have a problem with their temper. They have a problem with always
wanting the best or whatever. They're envious. But what's amazing
is that the Lord says, that there are negative consequences for
believers who persist in sins that God has said grieve and
quench the Holy Spirit. So what are they? These are some
of your fill-in-the-blanks that some of you want to know, and
these are the negative consequences that believers can face. One
is you can have a lost opportunity for service if we're not alert
to God's leading. You know, we should be very careful.
Some people have got this idea that God is going to do his will
no matter what I do. And there is a sense in which
God has a will that is what we call his will of decree and it's
going to happen, but within His allowance for us, we have choices
we can make. That's why the Lord says some
of the things you choose are going to make your life burn
up. Everything you've done is going
to be, and you're going to suffer loss. That's a choice. That's not God's
will. Others are going to be rewarded. That's a choice. God
didn't force that to happen. And so there are opportunities
for service. If we are not in step, in tune,
in sync with the Spirit, we will miss. For example, have you ever
felt in your heart you're talking to someone either on the phone,
you see him in person, or you bump into him, and as you're
talking to him, you feel this sense, I should say something,
I should say something, I should say something, I should say something,
but we don't, we don't, we don't. We have missed what would be
a prompting of the Spirit to serve the Lord, and that was
an opportunity for service. We felt we should have, maybe
confronted them about their sin, or we felt we should have encouraged
them, or maybe shared the gospel if they're lost, or else told
them how the Lord is at work in our life, and we don't, and
we've missed an opportunity for service. That's a negative consequence
that we can face. Here's another one. Every time
we excuse our Galatians 5 works of the flesh, and we are, in
verse 20, have hatred towards someone that hurt us, even though
we don't call it hatred, we call it righteous indignation, or
we're contentious. That means we argue our point. Did you know that James says
that the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable,
then gentle, then easily entreated? Do you know what a mark of a
spirit-filled person is? They can hold something very
close in an uncontentious way. Jesus, when he answered his enemies,
they marveled the way he spoke to them. I mean, they just couldn't
believe that he could be so Well, it says, he spoke like no one
ever spoke before. You see, we can, oh, every time
I put my Bible on there, it moves the thing. If we give in to our
contention or to our outbursts of anger, we have a greater propensity
to make the same bad choice the next time we're tempted after
having yielded to our particular sin. We can tell people as we
disciple and counsel them, don't habituate sin, you'll lose opportunities
for service. Don't keep on that sin because
every time you do it, it's easier to do it again. What it reminds
me of is, It's like when we resist sin, we're building up like a
little guardrail in our life. When we allow the Holy Spirit
to cause us, the grace of God teaches us to deny ungodliness,
there's a guardrail. But every time we give in to
sin, we flatten that guardrail, and it's easier to go back in
the ditch again. And that's what this is talking
about. So this college student that I was meeting with this
week, I said, you know what? Don't think that guardrail is permanent. You can't remember the last time?
Tomorrow, you'll slip right back if you're not careful to not
make the same bad choice. Now, a third consequence is we
run the risk of an early death. Now, in my Bible, I always write
down these verses, but I want to show them to you so you can
mark them. First of all, look at 1 Corinthians, back up from
Galatians, two books. Look at 1 Corinthians 11. And
this is the early death verses. Paul said in 1 Corinthians 11,
verse 30, for this reason, many are weak and sick among you and
many sleep. God judges believers. with three
levels of chastisement. Weakness, we covered this about
four weeks ago, but if you haven't marked it, it's verse 30 of 1
Corinthians 11. Weakness, sickness, and some sleep. Look at the next
one is in James chapter five and verse 20. James five, let
me get there with you. James chapter five, not verse
20. Let me back up. Verse 13 is where
it starts and it goes through 20. Is any among you suffering? Let him praise. Any cheerful?
Let him sing. Is anyone among you sick? Let him call for the
elders of the church and they'll anoint him. And the prayer of
faith, verse 15, will save the sick and the Lord will raise
him up. And if he has committed sins, He will be forgiven. Now look at verse 16. You know,
I hear this verse used, but you have to look at where verse 16
is. Confess your trespasses to one
another and pray for one another. that you may be healed. The context of this is someone
who is sick because of their sin, and they have to confess. This is chastisement stuff going
on here. This is someone like 1 Corinthians
11 that is weak and sick because of sin, but if they confess their
sin, they're prayed over, then the Lord will heal them. And
then to see more of that, look at verse 19. You see, It's talking about the erring
ones within the church, and they're headed toward death. Now you
say, well, that one's not clear. Well, now go to 1 John 5. And
that's why you always have to look at whether or not something,
there's a constant stream of this through the Scriptures.
And in 1 John 5, look at verse 16. after those great prayer
verses in 14 and 15, in 1 John 5, 16, almost the same wording
as James 5, 20. If anyone sees a brother sinning
a sin which does not lead to death, he will ask and he will
give him life for those who commit sin not leading to death. There
is a sin leading to death. I don't say you should pray about
that. All unrighteousness is sin, and there is a sin leading
to death. And we know whoever is born of God does not sin,
but he who has been born of God keeps himself, and the wicked
one doesn't touch him. And on and on it goes. What it's
talking about is there is a risk for a believer of early death. And God's Word says if you partake
with unconfessed, unrepentant sins, God will judge you. and
bring weakness and sickness into your life and may ultimately
take you home to heaven in an untimely death. So that is part
of this negative consequences that we as believers can face.
Now what are some of the positive consequences? in Matthew chapter six, and these
again are great to have marked in our Bibles because you want
to also reinforce. Remember, we're supposed to bring
up those we disciple in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Nurture
is positive, admonition is negative. Now, you say, what's the balance?
Well, Paul said this, the balance in the church should be reprove,
rebuke, exhort. Reprove and rebuke are not always
thought of as positive. Exhorting is. So sometimes in
counseling, we are more hitting on the negatives, but we must
never leave out, if we have a good reprove, rebuke, exhort ratio,
at least a third should be this. Verse 19, and I love this, of
the Sermon on the Mount, Matthew 6. What the Lord is saying is
one of the positive consequences for obedience is this. And you can read, like negative
consequences, the effect of the positive consequences, and this
is in your notes, the positive consequence engine at work in
our lives usually doesn't show up immediately. They're long
term. And this can be frustrating, especially to our generation
that want everything instantaneously. And someone that thinks if they
obey the Lord, they should get rewarded today, kind of like
if the dog goes out, he gets a treat. God doesn't work that
way. The big payoff for followers
of Christ is almost majorly in the next life rather than here.
And see, that's why Jesus says there, lay up for yourselves
treasures in heaven. And much of the positive consequences
are also internal. Positive consequences of knowing
God include the wonderful inner qualities of wholeness. Now,
you all know the Jewish expression, when Jewish people say hello
to each other, what do they say? Shalom. or the word peace actually
comes from a verb, a three Hebrew letter verb, S-H-L-N-M, shalom,
which means to be made complete. And what the Bible says is that
we who are saved have wholeness that unsaved people don't even
know about. St. Augustine, 5th century, said
this, we are restless until we rest in you. See, that's the
wholeness that salvation brings and also fulfillment. You know,
people are always looking for fulfillment. You know what the
greatest fulfillment is? Knowing you're doing exactly what God
designed you to do. There's something about going
through life and knowing that, in fact, Proverbs, let me show
you Proverbs chapter 4, and I hope I can find, I should have it
marked. Let me find it, Proverbs chapter
4. Yep, here we go, verse 18. Proverbs 4.18, but the path of
the just is like the shining sun that shines ever brighter
to the perfect day. the way of the wicked is like
darkness, and they don't even know what makes them stumble.
See the contrast of the two ways? And you see how the Lord wants
to give us wholeness, he wants to give us this awareness of
what he's doing, and he wants to give us contentment. And the
positive consequence of contentment, by the way, every time my Bible
touches this it won't go, Contentment is learned. Paul said, I have
learned to be content. Contentment is not a spiritual
gift. It's a learned art. And it's one of the byproducts
of learning to obey the Lord. Well, let's go on to the high
cost of sin. And let me see. That's not in
your notes, but here we go. The downward steps. Let me see
if that's in your notes. Here we go. Yes, it is. Let's
go to the high cost of sin so that we get through this, because
last week I only got through this. The downward steps of ungodly
choices. I showed you these last week.
We're exposed to temptation. We trifle with sin. Psalm 66,
18 says, if I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord won't hear
me. Then we surrender to sin. Then we start, it becomes a habit. And we know it. It's just like
there's no guardrail. We just slip into that rut every
time. This is where I said last week and ended that I believe
most believers can get to this level, but this is where God
doesn't let us go, the abandonment of God. This is where I believe
between four and five is where weakness, sickness, and untimely
death happens because God won't let us persistently live like
an unbeliever. And then You know, it says in
2 Timothy 2, some people can actually become tools in the
devil's hands used by Satan. And finally, hell sampled on
earth is the ultimate. So we already covered that last
week. But let's go to the next one. And in your notes, this
is new for you. The upward steps of godly choices. Choice number one, deciding you
want to obey God. And you know Daniel 1.8 says,
Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself. And this is actually where I
start, especially when I'm discipling those that are trying to get
out of habituated sin. I says, it starts in an instant. This is what we were talking
about last week, that God's results are instantaneous. You can make
a decision right now that you want to obey God. Then, the only
way to overcome sin is by faith. And you know what it says in
Hebrews 11, and you might not, so let's turn there. Hebrews
11, verses 25 to 27. And what amazes me as I read this is the
power that God displayed in the Old
Testament. This is in the life of Moses,
and it says in 1125, talking about Moses, choosing rather
to suffer affliction with the people of God than to enjoy the
passing pleasures of sin. Moses was in the court of Pharaoh. He had all the privileges. He
could do anything he wanted to do. But he knew, watch what the
next verse says, esteeming the reproach of Christ. Now that should get your attention.
Moses. is equated with being aware of
Christ. It doesn't say he knew who he
was, but the reproach of Christ is equated by the writer of Hebrews
with obeying God. Esteeming the reproach of Christ
greater riches than the treasures of Egypt, for he looked to the
reward. You see the faith? You overcome
sin by faith because you know God has a promise that you haven't
yet realized that is yet ahead. But look at verse 27. It says,
by faith he forsook Egypt, not fearing the wrath of the king,
for he endured as seeing him who's invisible. It's a choice
to say, God, I believe that you can deliver me from this. I believe
that you are making a way of escape, like our memory verse
says. I believe there's an exit there. By faith, I'm going to
take it. Now, you've heard many times my story that I've told
about this, but I'll always remember this verse, Hebrews 11, 27. I was on a missions team. I was
traveling, delivering Bibles. I think I talked about that Sunday
morning. We used to travel 6,000 miles at a time. We delivered
tens of thousands of Bibles, and we worked as a team. Always
we were risking going to jail. We were all college kids. And
when we would get done with a trip, we'd go to a safe city in the
West, not in Eastern Europe. We'd go to a safe city, and wealthy
Christians had donated these palatial homes. And all these
teams would gather there. One place we went in Vienna had
It was the size of Downton Abbey. It had 50 bedrooms in it. And
the whole team spread out through the thing. And I remember jumping
out. I was the driver, and I'd been
driving sometimes 12, 18 hours a day. And I was so tired that
I threw my backpack on my cot. I picked a library because they
had all these 17th century books, and I was all excited about it.
Threw my backpack in there, ran off to the shower when I came
back. one of the team members was sitting on my cot. I said,
hi. And they said, well, I'm staying
in this room tonight. I said, oh, OK, well, I'll get my backpack.
They said, no, I'm staying with you. I says, no, you're not. And I always remember, it was
the strangest thing. I reached in and got my cot,
and I pulled it out from under her. And she fell down into the
library, and I pulled it out. And what I said was, I will set
nothing wicked before my eyes." And I pulled my cot out, like
that, into the living room. And she came up to the door,
and I always remember this moment, glaring at me, and she took that
big, thick, as only in a castle, oak door, and just, boom, slammed
it shut. Did you know, as a college kid,
For about a very minuscule second, I thought, what would it have
been like to have been on the other side of that door? But
do you know what the Lord says? Look at verse 27 again. By faith,
we overcome sin in the moment the Lord gives us grace by faith
to say no to sin. It doesn't mean that that grace
covers you for the rest of your life. You have to keep buying
faith, overcoming sin. It isn't like you get one, it's
not like an immunization to sin. It's overcoming moment by moment,
situation by situation, by faith. Now, keep going to Romans 6,
18, and these should be highlighted in your Bibles because we've
covered them so many times in the previous lessons, but look
at verse 18 of Romans 6. Having been set free from sin,
you became slaves of righteousness. Now, look at this. The third
choice, when we're exposed to sin, we make a mental choice. We want to obey God. Then we
say, Lord, I trust you for the grace to say no to sin right
now. What we want to do is we want it to become a habit. And this is how Paul puts it.
Look at verse 18. Having been set free from sin, you became
slaves. You know, some people, they say
they're slaves to their job, they're slaves to their whatever.
We can become slaves to righteousness. We have become enslaved by surrendering
to the Lord. Second Corinthians 2.14 says,
thanks be unto God who always leads us in triumph. And the
Lord, if we will surrender to follow him, he will go before
us and lead us into triumph. You say, so how hard is it to
fall from there down all these steps down there? See, we never
arrive. It's always God that is, by His
grace, as we believe, as we surrender, keeping us, but you can tumble
down these stairs. We're not strapped on to any
of them, but we can become. In fact, I think the college
kid I was meeting with this week, I think he's right here. but
he's so aware of what he used to be. And so what I encourage
him to do is start memorizing Romans 6. In fact, just for a
second, look, you're in Romans 6. Look at verse 11 of Romans
6. And if you haven't circled this
yet, this is the turning point of the book of Romans. Verse 11 says, likewise you also,
and what's the next word in your Bible? Reckon. What you can't
see in your Bible is that is the very first imperative in
the whole book of Romans. You have six chapters of doctrine,
and then God makes a command. And you know what a command is?
It's a response is requested. God says, do you want to do something
based on all that Christ has done for you, all that the Spirit
has done, all that the work of justification has done? Then
this is what you're supposed to do. Verse 11, reckon yourselves
to be dead indeed to sin, but alive in Christ Jesus our Lord
to God. It's a choice, and that choice
is all this habit of surrendering. Okay, number four, look at Colossians
3 and verse 2. Colossians 3, here's another
choice. And did you know this is, I love this because I regularly
look at this list. And you know where this list
comes from. One of the last missionaries in China was John Stamm, John
and Betty Stamm, 1949. They were from Wheaton, by Chicago. They went to China as newlyweds
with their infant child. They went to China in 1949 and
started working there in church planning, and they were captured
by Mao Zedong's army, the People's Liberation Army, and they were
imprisoned, and finally they were executed. They had their
heads chopped off, but before they were, they wrapped their
baby up, put him in the drawer of the house that they were imprisoned
in. put the baby in the drawer and
shut it and prayed the Lord to take care and put a little note
on the baby. And the believers came into that
house after they had executed, the communists had executed John
and Betty. And they said, we know there's a baby in here somewhere.
And they opened all the drawers and there's this little baby
who survived and lives now in Chicago. But this list was found
in John Stam's Bible in the front. You can see in your notes, look
at the bottom under upward steps. Do you see the little footnote?
John Stam, the triumph of John and Betty Stam, Moody Press,
page 22 and 23. If you ever want to read an interesting
story, it's right there in your notes. But this is what John
Stam taught, different words. His words are, I think he's from
the 20s, and they didn't make sense to me, so I just made them
a little different. But the same concept, this is
what he taught the Chinese, who were opium addicts, who were
all kinds of stuff. He told them that if they want
to obey God, they can overcome opium. If they overcome opium
by faith, God will give them the strength. They can have the
habit of surrendering to God instead of opium. They can set
their mind on things above, as Colossians 3 says. And now Colossians 3, 2. Set
your mind on things above, not on things of the earth. And in
verse 1, the same thing. Seek those things which are above.
Both of those are Both of those verses, those action words of
seek and set, are choices because they're in the imperative mode.
So you can make the choice to set your mind on things above.
Isaiah 33, you can make the choice of seeing the king in his beauty.
You can look, that's a great verse. You can make a choice,
as Paul said, be followers of me. And, as Ephesians 2, 6 through
10 says, you can, choose to live out the joys of
being seated in heavenly places. So, in your notes, that quick
list. Now, let's move on so we can
have time to pray about this at the end. Hebrews 4 talks about
how we can make a choice in our lifelong struggle. And let me
read to you, identifying the flesh in our lives, this is back
to your printed notes, is a lifelong task. Our flesh will do anything
to avoid being put to death. We do not readily recognize the
flesh in ourselves apart from obedience to Jesus and our ongoing
feeding in the word. Now look at Hebrews chapter four,
the text there, because I want to show you one of the signs
of lack of spiritual growth that we covered a few weeks back is
this idea of verse 12. The word of God, Hebrews 4.12,
is living and powerful, it's sharper than any two-edged sword,
and it pierces to divide between the soul and the spirit and the
joints and the marrow and the thoughts and intents. And it's a discerner,
at the end of verse 12, of the thoughts and intents of the heart,
and there's nothing hidden from his sight before him, before
whom we have to give an account. It's the Word of God that points
out the flesh that needs mortifying. As we read the Word of God, The
Spirit of God, as it says here, pierces us, and we see that we
are going to have to, at the end of verse 13, give an account.
Now, I had a great discussion with someone recently, and they
said, are accountability groups in the Bible? And I said, no,
accountability groups aren't in the Bible. An accountability
group of everybody sitting around and telling what sins they're
sinning isn't in the Bible, but there is, Hebrews 4.13, a group
of people that are around you that say, look at the end of
verse 13, do you think what you're doing in your life is gonna be
pleasing to the one before whom you're gonna have to give an
account? That's a true accountability group. not me wanting to know
everything, every time you go in the gutter and what sin you're
doing, and it's kind of like this sharing fest of who can
top the other, of how bad they are. That's not, that kind of
a group isn't in the Bible. That's derived from James 5,
where it says, confess your faults to one another, but that's in
the context of chastisement and getting delivered from sin, that
you need to be healed because God is chastening you. The idea
of everybody in the gutter telling about how bad they're doing is
in the Bible, but this kind of accountability group is. Hebrews
4.13, where it says, Do you think that what you're
doing in your life is going to please, in the eyes of him, that
you're going to have to give an account to him? Do you think
that's pleasing to him? That's more biblical, and there
are several references to that, but that's why, and if you go
under the verse that's in your notes, that's why Paul described
the Christian life as, and there's a Greek word there, agonizomai. Agonizomai means a very great
struggle. In fact, that's the word that
we get agony from, from that Greek word. And Paul said, life
is a struggle against the flesh. And my choice every day is either
to feed it or mortify it, either to resist it or allow the Spirit
of God through the sword of the Spirit to kill it. Now, its mortification
is kind of like Roundup. You spray it on, but it isn't
like you spray it once and it's good forever. The seeds come
back in the wind, and you've got dandelions the next year.
You can kill them, but they'll come back. So it's a lifelong
struggle to do this. I only have two minutes. Okay. I'll read this, and then I want
to end with us singing, so just follow along. In other words,
he's saying the Christian life is a long, hard spiritual battle.
In fact, if you're not struggling, you're probably not making a
lot of good choices. The more good choices we make,
the more our life becomes spiritually embattled because it's an agonizing
thing to bring the flesh under the domination of the Holy Spirit.
Now, I have a friend, Jim Berg is his name, and he likens the
Christian life to being in a canoe. And he says, you can be in a
canoe, or some of you like kayaks, and you can be in a river with
a current, and you're just having a great time until you put your
paddle in. And especially if the current
is taking you away from where you want to go, as soon as you
put your paddle in and pull the first time is the first time
you can feel the strength of the current. And that is what
the flesh is like. If this is what God wants for
us, the river of our flesh is taking us this way. And all of
a sudden, when we look at where the Lord wants us, if we try
and resist the current and start paddling the way the Lord wants,
that's this agonizomai, the denying or resisting the flesh, and that's
what the lifelong struggle is. So, last point, making the choice
each day to be living for Jesus. You knew I'd get here, right?
I know of no clearer pathway of killing selfishness and encouraging
consecration than adopting the same life purpose that Thomas
Chisholm embraced in his poem, Living for Jesus. This poem expresses
the marching orders of one who read these scriptures and said,
Lord, how do I harness my life? How do I mortify my flesh? How do I make a lifelong choice,
to go back to this, of of these things, of deciding I want to
obey, and overcoming by faith, and seeking the habit of surrender.
And what I see in Chisholm's poem that was put to music is,
he goes through this. He says, I want to live for Jesus
a life that's true. I want to strive to please him
in all that I do. And I want to yield allegiance,
glad-hearted and free. He just made it into a song. The next paragraph, each of us
can affirm His flesh-crucifying, life-consecrating words. We can
say them to the Lord because there is a positive consequence
to what we express to Him. We can decide today that we want
to sow to the Spirit, back where we started in Galatians 6, we
can sow to the Spirit by denying and crucifying our flesh, and
then we can make every day a day of living for Jesus. So I'd like
to read these words with you, and then what I thought we'd
do is we would sing the chorus. I understand there's some choir
members in here. In fact, Mark told me some of you aren't in
a choir, you're in this class." And so I said, well good, then
we'll make them sing tonight. Okay, so let's read the first
stanza. And then we'll sing the chorus,
and then you can close. You have about five to seven
minutes that you can discuss anything you need to before you
go, but let's read that line here. I think I even printed
it out, this one, but it's in your notes. Together, living
for Jesus a life that is true, striving to please him in all
that I do, yielding allegiance, glad-hearted and free, This is
the pathway of blessing for me. Now on the chorus, you should
know it by now because I think we have, if I counted John Althoff's
count, I think we've sung this 50 times in the last four years. Almost once a month I get to
it. But this chorus is actually a prayer that we can make. It's the prayer of surrender
that is just like here, deciding you want and seeking the habit
of surrender. If you want to understand that
idea, think of this chorus. So let's see if we can, if you
know the words well enough, use your papers, but if you know
the words well enough, close your eyes, and that'll help you
think of it as a prayer. Sing those words as a prayer
to the Lord. Let's try that together. ♪ O
Jesus Lord and Savior ♪ ♪ I give myself to Thee ♪ ♪ For Thou in
Thine atonement ♪ ♪ Didst give Thyself for me ♪ I own no other
master. My heart shall be thy throne. My life I give henceforth to
live, O Christ, for thee alone. And Lord, as we talk a bit before
we go, as we encourage one another, your word says we're to exhort
one another. I pray that we would make it
a habit of surrendering consciously, willfully, and if needs be, even
audibly to you every day. I can't count how many times
when I get in the car and start driving to work, that I actually
say, you know this already, but Jesus, Lord, Savior, I just wanna
again tell you, I give myself to you. Help us to get in the
habit of taking those steps toward you by conscious choices of yielding
and surrendering and of enslaving ourself by your grace to your
righteousness. Help us to encourage one another
to that end, and those that we get the privilege of discipling
and counseling in your way. In Jesus' name we pray, amen. Spend the rest of the time in
your groups, and then those of you that have to go get your
kids, don't forget to get them.
BC&D-16 - Lesson 5-3 - How To Counsel And Disciple People Using The Platform Of Expos
Series Biblical Counseling & Disciple
| Sermon ID | 9962615038100 |
| Duration | 43:54 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Language | English |
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