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just a small slice of bread.
We're going to cut off today. Second Samuel chapter 12 and
verses 24 and 25. Then David comforted Bathsheba,
his wife and went into her and lay with her. So she bore a son
and he called his name Solomon. Now the Lord loved him and he
sent word by the hand of Nathan, the prophet. So he called his
name Jedidiah because of the Lord. Father, we thank you for
this, your word, and it is our desire to understand it in the
full scope of your redemptive history. Help us, Father, to
live it out. Help us to be a church that lives
out the transforming grace of the Lord Jesus Christ. And it's
in his name that we pray. Amen. Back in 2011, I told you how
Sir Edwin Lancer, the famous painter painted his first painting
on a wall. The situation was that he had
gone to this inn where he was eating some breakfast, I believe
it was, and one of the fishermen at the next table was gesticulating
as he was describing a story to his friends and one of the
times he was moving his hands it knocked the teacup out of
the waitress's hand and it splashed against the newly whitewashed
wall creating a dark stain there, broke the teacup. And this fisherman
was extremely apologetic, just profusely apologizing, was humiliated
over this. And Lancier, who was in the table
next door, witnessed the big kerfluff. He said, hey, let me
see if I can make something beautiful out of this. And after getting
permission, he made this beautiful royal elk out of, I believe it
was India ink that he used, some kind of ink. And I was looking
for that illustration because I thought that's exactly the
illustration I want to use today. And when I was looking, I discovered,
well, that's not the only time that he did a wall painting. There's a guy by the name of
J. Stuart Holton who has a little
summer cottage up in the highlands of Scotland. And he said the
mansion next to him has a room in it where the walls are absolutely
covered with sketches that have been done by various prominent
artists down through time. And apparently it was this Sir
Edwin Lancier who made the first sketch on that wall this time.
It was some soda that was on the wall and he used the outline
of that soda to make a beautiful waterfall bordered by trees and
Scottish wildlife. So there you go. He had two ugly
stains turned into beautiful paintings. And I want you to
keep that those two images in your mind as we go through the
sermon. The first image years ago actually was an image that
has kept me from being discouraged by my past, letting the past
get me down. And I hope that these are images
that will stick with you as well. I think most of us have had times
in our lives where we've done something that when we think
about it we're tempted to just cringe and just feel horrible
about our past and we are so thankful that any new people
that we've gotten to know don't know anything about that past
event in our lives. And it's interesting that David
did not take that perspective. We have already seen in Psalms
38 and 51 and actually the other Psalms he wrote during this time
He actually tells other people about his sin. He gets these
psalms to the chief musicians so that the whole congregation
can sing about the sins of David and, of course, the glories of
God's grace that covered over those sins as well. and enabled
him to look at that sin without cringing in absolute shame. Rather than feeling sick every
time he saw the stain on the wall of his life, David used
it as an opportunity to glory and to magnify God's grace. And some of you, I think, need
to learn to do that because you still have that cringing and
that sense of paralysis from things you've done in your past. What Jesus did for David was
on display for anyone who visited the proverbial mansion of his
life to look at. And as he said in Psalm 51, Restore
to me the joy of your salvation and uphold me by your generous
spirit Then I will teach transgressors your ways and sinners shall be
converted to you It was realizing what God had done to the stain
of his life That made him such a good counselor of other sinners
He went on to say in that psalm Deliver me from the guilt of
bloodshed, O God, the God of my salvation. And my tongue shall
sing aloud of Your righteousness. O Lord, open my lips, and my
mouth shall show forth Your praise. For You do not desire sacrifice,
or else I would give it. You do not delight in burnt offering. In other words, God doesn't want
you beating up on yourself, constantly cringing, being paralyzed over
your past, maybe for the hundredth time, confessing a sin that you've
already confessed numerous times before. He says He didn't take
delight in that. That's like slaying the same
sacrifice over and over and over again. That's not what God is
about. He wants you to get on with life.
And so this passage we're going to be looking at in 2 Samuel
chapter 12, is a passage where David is getting back up on his
feet, he's moving on, and he's making something beautiful and
God-glorifying out of his stain. Sort of like the friend that
I mentioned, I think I mentioned her last week, who had had an
abortion, but God's grace had done such a beautiful work even
over that sin that she has been used by God to bring healing
and hope To many women who were like her just like David has
brought healing and hope to countless people down through the years
through the five psalms that he wrote During this period of
his life. So each phrase in this these
two verses here what we're gonna do we're gonna be pulling together
some of the the thoughts in the five psalms that he wrote during
this period and Try to apply it to our life And I think each
phrase is really illustrated beautifully in those psalms of
how God brought beauty out of ashes how he brought a painting
out of an ugly stain. Now verse 24 records the first
stroke that God the master painter painted onto the ugliness of
David's sin. It says then David comforted
Bathsheba. Now prior to chapter 12 David had really used Bathsheba. And
when he was done with her, he sent her back to her home. It
was lust. It was not love that David had
displayed toward her. He used her and he dumped her,
so to speak. And in my estimation, chapter
11 is as selfish a stain of sin as you could possibly get in
any person's life. And for men who have had ugly
sexual lifestyles in their past, this is a chapter that I think
can bring hope in their lives that they can change. They can
change by God's grace and God can make them into trophies of
grace. And really in the first verses,
of chapter 12 that we've already looked at in the past is showing
the beginnings of God's grace at work in David's life as David
now for the first time in quite a number of months is showing
more concern about the life of another person than he is concerned
about his own life. He wept and wept over what he
had done to this poor baby. We saw before that it's probable
that we can't prove it that the disease that the baby had is
probably the same venereal disease that David had and perhaps there
were other diseases that were involved here and David felt
so bad for that baby He wept he prayed he interceded that
God would heal this child and based on the Psalms that David
wrote those first verses show that God had begun to do a work
of grace in his life moving him from selfishness to and moving
him into ministry and care for others. Well this verse shows
the same ministry and care for Bathsheba that he had shown for
that child. And I believe that the Psalms
indicate that God had comforted David to the point where he was
fully equipped to be able to do so. And let me explain what
I mean. We've already seen the hell that David went through
in the previous week. He had suffered horrible guilt,
alienation from God, alienation and disgust from family members
over his smelly venereal disease, possibly other diseases, but
especially the crime that he had committed. Psalm 38 indicates
that his family hated him for what he had done. And you can
hardly blame them. David was in the pit of misery. And during this week, God helped
David to process through that agony via five Psalms. It's Psalm
6, 32, 38, 51, and 103. And when you read through those
Psalms, you see that God had done such a work in David's life
that God had brought healing both to his body and to his soul.
God didn't heal the baby, but he does seem to have healed David.
And I'm not going to give an exposition in this series of
Psalm 103, but I do want to read just a snippet from that psalm
to show how deeply grateful David was to God for what he had done. Let me read you just a little
bit of it. Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within
me. Bless His holy name. Bless the
Lord, O my soul, and forget not all His benefits, who forgives
all your iniquities. And what a marvelous phrase that
is. who heals all your diseases. And that too is a marvelous phrase. Who redeems your life from destruction. Who crowns you with loving kindness
and tender mercies. Who satisfies your mouth with
good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagles. The
Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding
in mercy. He will not always strive with
us, nor will He keep His anger forever. He has not dealt with
us according to our sins, nor punished us according to our
iniquities. For as the heavens are high above
the earth, so great is His mercy toward those who fear Him. As
far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions
from us. As a father pities his children,
so the Lord pities those who fear Him. For He knows our frame. He remembers that we are dust. And commentators say that this
psalm was likely composed during the time frame of the latter
part of this chapter. I imagine David being given inspiration
to write that psalm on the day that he washed himself, got a
new pair of clothing, went into the temple and worshipped in
verse 20. I can imagine that all five Psalms
formed a theological and a pastoral basis for him to be able to wash
his wife with the water of the word and to bring true comfort
to her. But in any case, David was uniquely
enabled to bring comfort because he had learned how to gain comfort
by God's grace. And here's how Paul words it
in 2 Corinthians 1 verse 4. who comforts us in all our tribulation,
that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble
with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. You see, apart from the dark
stain of chapter 11, David would never have known the depths of
God's mercy or seen the beauty of God's painting in his life.
And while I have in past sermons given you every reason in the
book why we need to avoid anything that even remotely will lead
us to the sin that David engaged in, It was because he had gone
through this that David has been able to minister to people deeply
in ways that no one else Perhaps could do certainly in Bathsheba's
life This was true out of the ashes of his selfishness God
raised up an attitude of ministry and care that as psalm 51 words
that would enable him to teach transgressors God's ways okay,
the second thing that we see in these verses is that is that
God redeemed an unlawful marriage and enabled David to bring something
good out of an absolute mess. And really this is something
that we have got to understand if we're going to be able to
reach out effectively to a messed up culture. And actually any
culture. My parents were missionaries
for thirty years in Ethiopia. and uh the first station that
they went to i was there they planted the first church that
was there and i tell you that church was filled with some pretty
messed up people uh people that would make our family integrated
churches just a little bit nervous i mean there were men there that
had three and four wives what do you do with that i mean obviously
they're disqualified from being elders they couldn't be elders
but my parents integrated them into the church and ministered
in their lives to enable them to have children who would not
repeat their sins, who would not be as messed up as the parents
were. So they brought them in. My parents
simply could not ignore the messy issues that this chapter addresses.
And I think as our society progresses in its downhill slide, we as
a church cannot ignore the messy issues that we're going to be
looking at this morning. And here's the point. God's grace
can make something good out of even the stains of unlawful marriages. Now let's think about that. Churches that reject people because
they've got unlawful divorces and unlawful marriages are never
going to be effective in reaching our culture and doing what that
last song that we sang is all about. Now I in no way want to
communicate that because God can bring a beautiful painting
out of a stain that we should just think of stains as being
not that important. Oh well, I'll just ask God's
forgiveness. No, no, no, no. We've seen in the past the absolute
disastrous consequences that came out of David's sin, not
just in his life, but for his descendants as well. And again,
we've seen that we have to, it's imperative that we avoid the
marital problems that David saw. But can God paint something beautiful
when a sinful marriage has already happened? Yes He can. And I want
you to see the significance of the next two words in the text.
The next two words are His wife. Now to understand the significance
of that we need to back up a little bit. We need to ask the question
was David's marriage to Bathsheba a horrible sin? And we saw in
a previous sermon, yes, it was. We gave a number of reasons why
he should never have married Bathsheba. Yes, he should have
owned up to his sin. He should have given financial
support to her. He should have supported the
baby. But he should not have married her. And in fact God
was so offended by the marriage that even though David had already
been married to Bathsheba in chapter 11 and Had been married
to her almost eight months Take a look at what verse 15 says
it calls her Uriah's wife. It's very interesting says in
the Lord struck the child that Uriah's wife bore to David and
it became ill and Now that's not by accident that it's calling
her, Uriah's wife, eight months after he's married her. In God's
eyes, she should not have been David's wife. It was a sinful
marriage. There was nothing about that marriage that was good.
Okay? It was a marriage based on adultery
and polygamy and a cover-up of sin. As far as God was concerned,
she should have still been Uriah's wife, even though he was dead,
of course. And even apart from the earlier
adultery, Jesus would have described this as being an adulterous marriage. He would have described it as
not being legitimate. But with David's repentance,
a whole new chapter opened up on their marriage. God himself
calls David's marriage to her. something that transcends that
adultery as it were. He declares her to be David's
wife. Though David's polygamy is clearly
called a sin in Deuteronomy 17, kings were not supposed to have
more than one wife. Okay? It was a sin for him to
have done that. Yet God was able to redeem and
regulate such marriages, even though they had been entered
into unlawfully. And those two words, his wife,
I think, bring hope and comfort to people who have started off
with unlawful marriages. There are a lot of divorces in
America that should never have happened. A lot of remarriages
in America that should never have happened. And so what do
you do when those kind of people come into your church? What you
do is you draw them into God's painting parlor and you help
them in this process of having God's grace make a painting out
of that stain. And it shouldn't have happened
in the first place, okay, but God is making something beautiful
out of something that should not have happened. Even though
we don't have a lot of polygamy in America, we certainly have
a lot of serial polygamy. We have all kinds of other things
like marriages of believers to unbelievers that should never
have happened. Sinfully entered but permanent. And so while the laws of harvest
that we looked at before are still going to bring negative
consequences even when there is forgiveness. And I think verse
14 makes that crystal clear. God's law seeks to minimize those
negative consequences, and God's grace enables such marriages
to still be vehicles of His healing work. Now, unfortunately, some
Christians have become so legalistic on this issue, or what Ecclesiastes
would describe as overly righteous, that means going beyond the law
of God, that they want the stain to remain permanent. They don't
want any of us painting God's grace onto that stain. For example,
Bill Gothard, as much as I appreciate a lot of the things that he has
done, has created havoc with divorced and remarried couples.
Though already married to a second spouse, and sinfully married,
granted. He mandates that those people
divorce the second spouse and remarry the first spouse, something
that the law of God so clearly says is a sin and an evil and
an abomination. I just don't understand how he
can do this. But he has made people do that numerous times.
So listen to Deuteronomy 24 and what the law of God says on this.
When a man takes a wife and marries her and it happens that she finds
no favor in his eyes because he has found some uncleanness
in her and he writes her a certificate of divorce, puts it in her hand
and sends her out of his house, when she has departed from his
house and goes and becomes another man's wife, If the latter husband
detests her and writes her a certificate of divorce, puts it in her hand,
and sends her out of his house, or if the latter husband dies
who took her as his wife, then her former husband who divorced
her must not take her back to be his wife after she has been
defiled. For that is an abomination before
the Lord. And you shall not bring sin on
the land which the Lord your God is giving you as an inheritance."
Jeremiah 3 says the same thing, even if it was a A lawful marriage
to a second, whether it's lawful or not lawful, it doesn't matter.
You cannot go back to the first spouse. So beyond contradicting
Gothard's legalism, that passage indicates that God's law makes
provision for the messiness of life and regulates the messiness
of life, though it indicates, hey, there are limits beyond
which you could not go. And there's a lot of other limits
that scripture lays out. For example, if you married your
stepmother, which I can't imagine people doing, but they did it,
Old Testament, he said, man, you've got to divorce that woman
right now. And you've got to leave her, leave the relationship
right now, even before the divorce happens. And Paul talks about
that in 1 Corinthians chapter 5. Same would go for any incestuous
relationship, any homosexual marriage. You leave it right
now, even if legally you have to get a divorce. So there is
limits to which God's law regulates the messiness of life. But Deuteronomy 24 indicates
that even though David had defiled Bathsheba, even though he should
never have married her in the first place, pregnant or not,
and we looked at that. Once he sinfully married her,
he now had responsibilities toward her that he could not throw off.
And so I want you to get it. This is God inspired this narrative
here. It's God himself who calls her
his wife. Okay, that's God's opinion. It's
now a marriage contrary to the opinion of Gothard and many other
people. It is a marriage according to
God's opinion. But David's marriage to yet another
wife illustrates a similar messy problem that Christians have
had to deal with in Africa and that's polygamy. Now there are
a number of agencies in Africa who have gone way beyond the
word of God and they have forced a polygamous man to divorce all
the wives except for his first wife. And this has left these
women in a horrible, vulnerable position, many of them having
to engage in prostitution to even survive because they had
no one to take care of them. It's just not consistent with
the Old Testament or the New Testament. In the New Testament,
Paul says polygamists can't be elders. Well, what does that
imply? It implies there were people
who engaged in polygamy within the church of Jesus Christ. It
was a sin and God was going to disciple them out of that, but
they still were welcomed in. Now, the next two phrases illustrate
a better way to deal with yet another sticky issue related
to polygamy. One mission agency in Africa
is a little bit better than the previous ones that I mentioned.
They cared for those women. And they mandated that the polygamist
man had to set up a house for each of his second, third, and
fourth wives, had to provide food and clothing, financial
support, but that he could not engage in any kind of Romance,
any kind of sexual intimacy with his second, third, and fourth
wives. But that too left the poor wives,
again, very disadvantaged. And often the marriage, the first
marriage in this country that a 20-year-old or an 18, 19-year-old
would enter into was to somebody who was 20 to 40 years older
than them. It was like a forced marriage
for the political gain of their parents. It was just an absolute
mess any way that you looked at it. But think about the women
in this situation. Even though they were financially
cared for, even though there was some room that was made for
painting some beauty into their lives, God's law about providing
for the emotional and the sexual needs of the second and third
wives was ignored. And so this too is a form of
legalism. The next phrase in verse 24 addresses that point
as well. God's grace changed the adultery
into legitimate relations between husband and wife. Now it does
appear from Psalm 38 that David was in the doghouse with all
of his other wives and his children. And you can definitely understand
that. And so Those two were able to
care for and minister to each other while David sought to repair
the other relations that he had destroyed. And from the Psalms
I really do believe that he was trying to work on his other marriages. and take responsibility for this
one. Verse 24 says, then David comforted
Bathsheba his wife and went into her and lay with her. Now again,
was David's sin to Bathsheba, I mean marriage to Bathsheba
sin? We say yes. Deuteronomy 17 made it very clear
husband, kings were not supposed to multiply wives to themselves.
But once the marriage had happened, what was David's responsibility?
Well, the law of God, again, makes it very clear that he was
responsible to nurture her, to provide food and clothing for
her, and to minister to her sexually. Exodus 21 10 says, if he takes
another wife, he shall not withhold her food, her clothing, or her
conjugal rights. Now, if a polygamous man took
Exodus 21 verse 10 seriously at all, he would be one worn
out man. because he would be responsible
for providing for all of these wives ministering to them and
anybody who studied polygamy knows it's virtually impossible
to do satisfactorily. Another good reason to stay away
from polygamy. But my main point is that life
is messy and yet like the two stains on the wall that Sir Edwin
Lancer turned into beauty, We can look to God to bring some
degree of beauty out of messed up marriages that we're progressively
going to be seeing more and more and more of in America. There's
no reason to let yet another marriage go sour. We should let
them make something out of the stain and turn it into a painting.
So the Bible gives consequences for sin, but it also gives some
beauty for ashes. The fourth area of David's life
that was painted by the brush of God's grace was in giving
and in loving a new son from that messed up relationship. Verse 24, so she bore a son and
he called his name Solomon. Now the Lord loved him. God did
not curse all of her offspring. He opened up her womb. He gave
her a special son whom it says He loved. Now earlier He had
comforted David with the first child that had already died with
the knowledge that that child would be in paradise. Here He
comforts David and Bathsheba by letting them know that He
loves this child. In fact, he goes to all of the
extra effort of sending a prophet. He says, Now the Lord loved him
and he sent word by the hand of Nathan the prophet. So he
called his name Jedidiah because of the Lord. Now this would have
been such a comfort to not only David and Bathsheba but also
to Solomon as he grew up. When you're the child of a less
than ideal union It's very easy to feel unloved. This was the
problem with Jephthah in the book of Judges. He had developed
an orphan spirit because nobody in his family cared for him.
They treated him with disrespect. Solomon may have received persecution
from his other brothers. Psalm 38 makes clear that the
rest of the family was absolutely disgusted with David and Bathsheba. And he may have grown up with
at least some of these brothers and sisters kind of stiff-arming
Solomon himself. Certainly David cried out in
anguish in one of his Psalms here. My loved ones and My friends
stand aloof from My plague, and My relatives stand afar off. And given the strong attitudes
that his family had toward David and Bathsheba in Psalm 38, I
think it would be very, very easy for the three of them to
allow those attitudes to make them feel I'm a stain. I'm a blot. I'm useless. There's
nothing that I can do that will be pleasing to others. It would
have been so easy for that to filter into Bathsheba's sense
of self-worth as Solomon grew up, for it to factor into his
lack of self-worth. But they now know God loved them. God loved this child. In fact,
verse 25, has, as I mentioned, God even putting it into prophetic
form. And this is an incredible comfort
to the children of criminals and the offspring of fornication
and of incest and survivors of botched abortions or other parental
relationships that just are not good relationships. I've known
adults who have taken on their parents' sins as if it is their
identity. and as if it means that they
are second-class citizens. They're Jephthahs in effect.
They just cannot come to any grips with their life being having
God's approval. In fact, they desperately long
for the approval of others. And if you're one of those people
who desperately longs for approval from others, let me remind you
that it's God's opinion of you and God's love of you that should
really drive your life. And Ed Welch's book, When People
are Big and God is Small, I think can help you to sort through
that. Now the fifth gift from the stroke of God's paintbrush
was that the turmoil that resulted was finally replaced with peace. And David named his son appropriately
Solomon. Now Solomon is pronounced in
the Hebrew Shalomon. and it means His peace. Commentators
are divided. Does the His refer to David's
peace or does it refer to God's peace? And I really can't settle
that question for you this morning. But either way, it doesn't matter,
the name speaks of the depth to which God's paintbrush of
grace was at work. The dictionary amplifies on the
meaning of this shalom or this peace by saying that it means,
quote, completion and fulfillment of entering into a state of wholeness
and unity a restored relationship. And isn't that exactly what David
was longing for in the Psalms that he wrote during this time?
He was longing for that wholeness, that restoring of relationship
with God. He prayed, Lord, give me your
shalom, and God granted it. He was praying for shalom with
his wives and his children. And whether he got it, how soon
he got it, we don't know. But the Psalms seem to indicate
David was certainly going to be working seriously on that.
Shlomo refers to the reversal of all that was lost in the fall,
and it can include wholeness of body, soul, relationships,
and fulfillment. To me, it's just a beautiful
testimony to the fact that God delights in bringing beauty out
of ashes and a painting out of a stain. Now because Solomon
stands as a symbol or a type of the Lord Jesus Christ in the
book of 1 Kings, it is possible that it has a messianic reference
here. Now certainly several of the
commentators believe that it has a messianic overtone here. And if that is the case, then
what's going on here is pointing to Jesus. It would ultimately
be through Jesus that the ugliness of David's marriage stain would
find some beauty. It was through the final Solomon,
Jesus, that David would receive forgiveness and cleansing and
restoration that we looked at in Psalm 51 last week. It would
be through the shalom of Jesus that judgment could be replaced
with favor. Now the final stroke of God's
brush is the name Jedidiah. Commentators point out that Jedidiah
has the same Hebrew root as David. It might not look like it, but
in the Hebrew it definitely is. David means beloved and Jedidiah
means beloved of Yahweh, okay? And as one commentator said,
its connection to his father's name hints at the fact that Solomon
Jedidiah would become the successor to his father David. Now, if
that is true, then it indicates that covenant succession is what
is being talked about here, the fulfillment of the Davidic covenant,
that God would not cut off his blessing. And so to me, this
is so encouraging. Covenant succession can happen
even in messed up families, okay? Covenant succession can happen
even when the marriage did not start off as being lawful. Now obviously the sins are visited
to the third and fourth generation as well. And Solomon picks up
the sin of polygamy and you see other kings who do the same thing. So yes there's bad things that
are passed on. But praise God where that happens
to the third and fourth generation God's graces go to a thousand
generations of those who love Him. And so this I think hints
at covenant succession. So even though it's a tiny little
passage I think it points to the fact that God delights in
bringing beauty out of ugliness. He loves to turn what Satan used
and intended to absolutely destroy David and Bathsheba into something
that actually strengthened David and Bathsheba. Made them cling
to Christ the stronger. Made them more committed to Him.
Now in conclusion I want to remind you of three lessons that I gave
to you back in 2010 when we began this whole series with the genealogy
in Matthew. And I think that these three
applications are tightly knit together with this passage that
we've been looking at. First of all, Matthew, by the
inspiration of the Holy Spirit, made it unmistakably clear by
the names that he emphasized that Christ does not just associate
with people who have it all put together, okay? Instead, we find
that He is a friend of publicans and sinners. You look in the
gospels. You see that Jesus welcomed into
His inner circle a lady who was a former prostitute, right? He
was not ashamed to associate with the worst of men and women
because that was the whole purpose of Him dying, coming to the earth
and to die on their behalf. And so the genealogy leading
up to David was preparing Him to depend upon the Messiah alone,
by grace alone, through faith alone. David knew that if God
withdrew His grace for even a moment, he would be in deep trouble.
He's experienced it in this chapter. And so he learned to hunger for
God, to depend upon God. And so the stories leading up
to David, as well as his own experience in this chapter, made
David look to the coming Messiah for his security, for his righteousness.
And so the first names in that genealogy taught us, like this
passage does, God turns unbelievably ugly stains into paintings that
we treasure, into treasures of grace. And if God welcomed the
Davids and the Bathshebas of this world into His kingdom,
we need to welcome the Davids and Bathshebas of this world
into this church, even if they look different, even if they
make us somewhat uncomfortable. In fact, I've invited a friend
of Joel's and told him, invite your whole motorcycle gang to
our church. It's Christian Bikers Association. But some of these guys are former
Hells Angels. They're covered with tattoos.
They look different. They wear their leathers and
everything. And brothers and sisters, when they come here,
if they come here, I want you to give them a warm welcome,
okay? I want you to say, welcome, brothers. We're so thankful.
They're doing some awesome ministries in the pro-life arena. They're
doing some awesome things. working, trying to witness to
prostitutes. And one of these guys has a special
ministry to women who are trying to rescue them out of prostitution. Some of these girls have been
kidnapped, so to speak. And there's other neat things
that they're involved in. So give them a warm welcome even
if they look different than we do. Anyway, that's the first
lesson. A second lesson that we learned
from the genealogy from David to the exile was how much trouble
David's polygamy led to. It led to a lot of problems,
obviously one of them being that some of his sons, grandsons,
great-grandsons thought polygamy was an okay thing to do. After
all, Grandpa David did it and he's a man after God's own heart.
Why can't I engage in polygamy? And we saw how critical it was
that men be one-woman men and women be one-man women, okay? We saw how critical it was to
take seriously courtship and to prayerfully be praying for
a godly spouse Be preparing yourself to be the best spouse that you
can be before you even get married over half of David's descendants
from the time of David to the time of the exile. Over half
of them had messed up lives. Why? Because they had adopted
some of the same problems such as being driven more by romantic
attractions than biblical blueprints. They had some of the same problems
that led to David's sin in this chapter. But we saw God's grace
went through all of that even though sometimes it was shining
pretty faintly. And so our actions do have consequences. Do not
take the sermon as an excuse that, you know, that because
God turned stains into something beautiful as an excuse for sin
and saying, oh well, sin's not that important. It is disastrous. The last lesson that I want to
remind you of from 2010 as that we should strive with all of
our might to lay up a spiritual heritage for our children's children
in covenant succession as successfully as we can possibly do it. The
men in David's line after the exile had finally learned the
valuable lesson of covenant succession. And you all know what covenant
succession is, right? That means passing the faith on to your
children, to the next generation, and next, and next without any
stop. It's not enough to be a good guy like David and then lose
your family. The men in the last section of Matthew's genealogy
learned from their ancestors you cannot take your children
for granted. They learned what a disaster
it is to have multiple lives and they abstained from polygamy. They learned how important it
is to take care of your own household before you try to fix culture.
David was so intent on fixing culture he neglected his own
family. He did not give the discipline
that he should have. They learned how important it is to catch
the hearts of your children before they grow up. They learned the
power of God's grace to make generation after generation of
godly descendants. Now David longed for that, but
he messed up so bad, not just with the polygamy, but his failure
to discipline and nurture his children that he didn't see it
as effectively in the next generations as he could have. So strive with
all your might to lay up a spiritual heritage for your children, not
just having lots of children. So the bottom line from this
passage is that God can make an ugly stain into a beautiful
painting of God's grace, but it's better to avoid the stains
in the first place. May it be so, Lord Jesus. Amen.
Father, we thank you for your word, the warnings that it gives,
the encouragements that it gives. We pray that our own hearts would
be encouraged to press hard after you. and to apply your grace
daily in our lives. Help us to be a welcoming church
that welcomes the Davids and the Bathshebas who have blown
it in the past but who really desire to follow after you. Help
us to be a transformational church, not only transforming relationships
within, but drinking so deeply of the Lord Jesus Christ that
out of our innermost being would flow rivers of living water out
of this church into the communities that each one of us represents.
Father, we pray this in the strong name of Jesus. Amen.
From Ugly Stains to Beautiful Painting
Series Life of David
This passage shows the amazing way in which God's grace can make beauty out of our ugly stains of the past.
| Sermon ID | 9953161844171 |
| Duration | 41:50 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | 2 Samuel 12:24-25 |
| Language | English |
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