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Hello, and welcome to Ask Pastor
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every day as we go verse by verse through the Bible. I am the pastor
of Compass Bible Church in Aliso Viejo, California. And yeah,
we're doing ministry here in Southern California. A few of
us left preaching the Bible. There's plenty of us out here,
but I say that because most of you think there's no Christians
in California. There's some of us here. We're doing the work.
We're doing the best we can. Let's answer some questions.
Melody asked, do you have any books on what God says about
marriage? Yeah, I got plenty of those.
You got a friend here, da-la-la-la-la-la, yeah. Okay, well, you want books
on marriage, yeah. I guess there's a lot of books
I could give you on that. OK, Piper wrote a book on this
momentary marriage. It's good about the permanence
of marriage. John and Noel Piper. R.C. Sproul wrote a book called
Intimate Marriage. That's a great book talking about
the practical guide to building a better marriage. A little deeper
about the importance of marriage and family, the Kostenbergers,
Andreas and Margaret Kostenberger. We recommend that often by Crossway
Publishers. Andreas Kostenberger and his
wife Margaret, a great couple, great theologian. It's called
God, Marriage, and Family, Rebuilding the Biblical Foundation for Marriage.
Wayne Mack, that's a great book too, called Strengthening Your
Marriage. There's a few. That'll get you
started, Melody. All right. Marie has written in, I'm a mom
of a teenage girl at youth camp. The pastor said that basically
every guy, even married men, struggle with pornography. Is
there a better way to teach on this or should all women just
assume every man has an issue with pornography? All right.
Well, that sounds really depressing, doesn't it, Marie? Well, yeah.
Yeah, how do I answer this question? Well, I guess here's the thing.
No, not every single last man in the world, but in some ways,
Marie, it's like asking this. Does every woman love a warm
hug and a man saying, you're a wonderful woman, a beautiful
woman? Does every woman love that? I mean, really? Are we
supposed to believe that every woman loves to be held in a warm
embrace and told that she's beautiful and wonderful? Yeah, I think
just almost every woman loves that. Well, yeah, and in return,
men are wired to love beauty and the form of a woman without
clothes on. Yeah, that's kind of how it's
made. That's how the world works. And
so that's always going to be an issue. read the first 10 chapters
of Proverbs and you'll see that that's going to be the challenge
in this world. So, I don't mean to depress you,
Marie, but I am going to say that is going to be an issue
that, I'm not trying to pile on what your daughter has heard
at camp, but yeah, it's going to be an issue. That's why modesty
is important for gals. And I am going to say there's
plenty of sins the Bible talks about that women are prone to,
And some sins men are prone to. And I'm not saying every last
man in the world, but yeah, it's certainly one that most are prone
to. And men have to work to make
sure they do all that they can. to strengthen their lives against
those kinds of things. And there are certain things
that everyone, equal, men and women are equally prone to certain
sins. You know, I think of gluttony, right? I guess we all have an
appetite to overeat, all of us men and women are equal in that
regard. But we're wired differently when it comes to gratifying the
desires of the flesh in certain ways that relates to the opposite
sex. So, yep, sorry about that. All right. 1-877-913-5357. Let's
go to the phones. Matt, you're on the air with
Pastor Mike Fabarez. How can I help? Hi, Pastor Mike. I got a question that I think
I've misunderstood for a long time. I tend to oversimplify
wanting to make everything black and white, and I miss the deeper
meaning. The Kingdom of God, there's places like in the Beatitudes
where it says, you know, certain people inherit the Kingdom of
God. Then there's other places where there's warnings of, you
know, we'll not inherit the Kingdom of God. I tend to think, okay,
you'll go to heaven or you won't go to heaven. But I'm finding
out, I'm hearing that that also means could mean, if you don't
inherit the kingdom, God means, doesn't mean you necessarily
won't go to heaven, but you may not have the power of God in
your life here on earth and now. Can I get your take on that?
Yeah. People make a separation between inherit the kingdom or
enter the kingdom, and I think that's a false distinction. And
I don't think you should make that distinction. Now, people
make that distinction usually when they're trying to say that
you can become a Christian simply by believing the facts of the
gospel, but it doesn't have to transform your life. And that's
why you can kind of go unchanged as a Christian and not have any
real fruit in your life. And those are the kinds of people
that aren't going to have any real rewards in the kingdom.
They'll enter the kingdom, but they won't really inherit anything
in the kingdom. And that's how they kind of talk
their way through what it means to be a fruitless citizen of
the kingdom, but they won't get any real rewards in the kingdom.
And then they'll hope that maybe you'll go from being a believer
in Christ to a disciple of Christ and they'll say, well, that's
the second tier Christianity. You go from just a rank and file
Christian to a real, you know, varsity Christian. And that's
a false dichotomy that's been created in Christianity and I
reject it. And I think all, well, I don't
think, I know, I mean, 19 centuries of Christianity have rejected
it. It's a modern creation and only the last hundred years or
so of Christianity have even dabbled in that kind of dichotomy. So if you've heard it, and you
may have heard it in a sermon, you may have read it in a book,
but I have messed with it. I dove deep into kind of hearing
the argument and I have come out of it rejecting it completely.
But I've heard it and I understand it, but I think there is nothing
to it. So every time you hear inherit
the kingdom or enter the kingdom, there's no difference. To enter
it is to inherit it. To inherit it is to enter it.
So if I'm living a fruitless life, I say I believe in Jesus
and I trust him as my Lord and Savior, but I've got no fruit,
it's possible that and it says you will not inherit the kingdom
of heaven, that means you're not going to heaven. Correct.
You're not a real Christian. That's correct. That's correct.
Yeah, James 2.14, what good is it my brothers to say I have
faith and I don't have works? Can that faith save him? That's
a rhetorical question that's answered in the rest of the passage,
and the answer is no. And the whole book of 1 John
is about that. If I say I have faith and there's
no fruit, then I'm lying, I'm deceiving myself. And so this
has been a convenient way people have kind of two-stepped their
way through saying, well, maybe there is a way that you can enter
the kingdom but not inherit the kingdom. But that's not true.
It's just not true. then trying on your own power
to make fruit, you can't do that unless you're abiding. It has
to happen naturally. Correct. I tend to want to, okay, wait,
I got to make some fruit. I got to show that I'm saved.
Right. But you're going to, here's the thing, people like to conform
externally to their environment, and a lot of churchgoers say,
well, I'm going to try really hard to fit in here. But what
we need is an encounter with God, with real abiding trust
in Jesus, that changes us from the inside out. And this is the
whole promise of regeneration. The Spirit of God invades our
life, changes our heart, the Spirit envelops us. Here's how
it's put in the Old Testament. The Spirit of God invades us
in Jeremiah 31, Ezekiel 36, the Spirit of God dwells in our lives
and moves us to keep the precepts of God. God is going to work
from the inside of us to move us along. Or as you just quoted,
or at least you alluded to, as it says in John 15, we're going
to abide in the vine and we're going to bear fruit. This is
an organic thing. This is the Spirit of God working
within us, as though we're drawing that sap from the vine, and we're
going to bear fruit because we're connected to God. And it's the
Spirit of God within us that's going to produce this, the fruit
of the Spirit. Galatians chapter 5. We're going to have the fruit
coming out of us because God dwells in us. Now, does it feel
like work? Of course it does, right? We're going to have to
say no to the flesh. We're going to have to say yes to God's Spirit.
But it's going to happen because God is going to make sure it
happens because we're abiding in Christ and Christ is in us
and therefore it's going to happen. But it's going to be work. We're
going to have to do all that we can, as Peter says, make every
effort to add to our faith and then he lists all the virtues.
Yes, it's going to happen, and we can't say, like some people
do, just believe the facts in your mind, and then, you know,
if you want to get serious about this later, then you can do that.
But you've got your insurance policy in your back pocket, so
you'll be fine. That's not how it works. That's
a false assurance. Go ahead. So is it oversimplistic
or insufficient? the verses that say, call upon
the name of the Lord and you will be saved. Is that too oversimplistic? So you got to take the whole
of scripture, not just one of those. It says right here, just
call upon the name of the Lord and you will be saved. Well,
yeah, you're quoting Romans 10, and I'm all about that, but you've
got to read all of that in context, right? The whole point is, if
you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in
your heart that God raised him from the dead, you'll be saved.
For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the
mouth one confesses and is saved. everyone who believes will not
be put to shame. There's no distinction between
Jew and Greek. For the Lord is Lord of all and bestows riches
on all who call on him." And this concept of him being the
boss, the king, Lord, right? We're not used to that word,
but that word means you're the boss, you're in charge, you're
the one who's going to call the shots, right? I'm calling on
him as my king. And we just throw that around
today in religious contexts, right? At least if we would go
back a thousand years, we would at least be living in the time
of kings and lords and ladies and bishops and, you know, we
don't have that anymore. But we need to think about when
we use the word Lord, we're talking about the boss, we're talking
about the king, we're talking about the one in charge. So, if we
read the whole context of Romans 10 and we're calling on the Lord,
you're calling on the one who's going to now be in charge of
your life. So, it's not just saying, hey, I'm going to ring
up the Roto-Rooter and he's going to fix my eternal problem, right?
It's not just saying, hey, help me out here and give me my insurance
policy so I don't go to the bad place. This isn't just making
a phone call. This is laying my life in the
hands of the King And now I'm saying, I'm yours. I'm a servant
of the Lord, right? I'm now a living sacrifice saying,
here, take my life and I'm yours. That's how this works. The whole
point of the book of Romans is saying, now I'm a slave of the
one who has redeemed me. The whole concept of redemption
is taking me out of the slave market of sin and becoming a
servant and a slave of Christ. Now again, you don't read Romans
10 until you've read Romans 6 and Romans 6 has already said, I've
become a slave of God. okay, well, I can't think in
those terms and then just kind of parachute into Romans 10 and
think, oh, I just make a phone call to God at camp. Well, I've
already grappled with the concept of no longer being enslaved to
sin and being a slave to God. See, so I just don't like the
cherry picking and some guy preaching from camp you know, Romans 10,
well, the book of Romans was meant to be read to the Roman
church in the first century and understanding one chapter at
a time. It's like reading, you know, Huck Finn and only dropping
into chapter 22 and reading one paragraph and forgetting that
it's part of a whole book. So, yeah, I'm not saying I'm
against Romans 10. I'm just saying let's read it
all in its context. Right. Okay. To tie it together,
and I'll be quick, I don't want to take everyone's time. If I
could just ask one last question to tie it together. What about someone
who would say, man, I believe in Jesus with all my heart. I
worship Him. I praise Him. I count on Him
as my only hope. I truly believe that with my
heart. And yet, I deal with a sin problem. I mean, I know we all
do, but I mean, for someone who has a sin problem, how do they
get that assurance that, look, I'm not producing any fruit.
I've got this sin problem. And I'm afraid that I'm not going
to go to heaven because, you know, it says here I'm not going
to go to heaven, but I believe in Jesus with all my heart that
that's my only way in and I can't earn it. but I've got this sin
problem. Well, yeah, a problem. I'd want
to make sure it's the problem, the kind of problem that Peter
describes in 1 Peter 2, verse 11. He says, we're sojourners
and exiles here. First of all, I want to start
with that. Is this problem the kind of problem I cozy up to? Because the Bible says if I'm,
in James 3, if I'm a friend of the world, Well, then I'm an
enemy of God, right? So, I've got to be a sojourner
and an exile to the kinds of things that someone might call
a problem, right? I'm supposed to abstain from
the passions of the flesh. Now, here's what it says in 1
Peter 2, verse 11, which wage war against my soul. Okay, if
you're willing to call your problem a war, that it's waging against
my soul, because I really don't belong here in this world, I'm
a sojourner in exile, then I'm fine with that. Okay, you got
a problem with sin? Let's just call it what it is.
I got passions, and I've got these desires, they're waging
war against my soul, because I don't even belong in this world.
Okay, and I hate it, right? And then you can say with James,
in James 3, 2, hey, we all stumble in many ways. I'm fine with that,
right? We have problems. We're sinners.
And he says in James 3, right, that the easiest sin to commit
is the one with our tongue as it flaps around as a deadly,
you know, fire within our own mouth. So, I can hardly control
it. Right? So, yeah, I'm fine with
Christians admitting that they're sinners, as 1 John 1 says, if
we say we're without sin, we're lying. So, yes, absolutely. But I want to put it in its proper
context, because a lot of people shrug their shoulders and say,
nobody's perfect, you know, but I believe in God. No, no, no.
You've got to make sure you're putting in its proper context.
I want Christians to weep over their sin. I want Christians
to say, yeah, I hate my sin. I hate the fact that I'm embattled
over this. And if that's the case, then
I'm with you, man. Every Christian feels that way. And I'm a friend
of every Christian who's fighting their sin. Absolutely. Because
I am too, and every Christian is, and we all hate our sin and
we're fighting it every day. and may God give us all the strength
to fight it. I often talk about being friended
with the embattled saints because we are all embattled in this
world. There's lots of scars that we bear because we fight
the flesh, we fight the devil, and we fight this world as sojourners
and exiles. Oh, thank you. There's a lot
of hope in that, and that really has helped me a lot. I hope maybe
it's helped somebody else, too. I'm sure it has, Matt. Thanks
for the call. Appreciate it. 1-877-913-5357. That's the number
to call. Let's talk to Jeff. Jeff, you're
on the air with Pastor Mike. How can I help? Well, hello,
Pastor Mike. My question has to do with, I
have a family member that has dropped himself and his family
out of church, except when we take his kids. When asked for
part of the reasoning, the big part of the reasoning that he
has is that we have a security team, we have a safety team,
and that he feels that it's not right that if someone were to
come into the door that we might actually defend the congregation
and shoot someone that's unsaved, thus possibly causing them to
go to hell. And therefore, it's his reason
for not wanting to be involved with church. And I'm going to
be sending this to this individual, sending the link and so on. But
I'm hoping for your take as a pastor and why it's important to, in
this day and age, unfortunately, and I'm 58 years old and I would
have never dreamed when I was even 20 years ago that we'd have
to have guns in church, but why it's important to be able to
protect the congregation and kind of my thought on this was
was, well, he's concerned about the person coming in the door
with nefarious thoughts in mind that's unsaved. But what about
the unsaved that's sitting in the pews, that perhaps we should
protect them as well as, of course, our own families? So it's kind
of the opposite. It's the other side of it, that
we need to protect those that are there for good reasons, and
not those that are there necessarily for bad reasons, if they're there
to kill and aim and destroy. And I'd just like to know your
thoughts, and like I said, I'm going to send this to him, and
see if he can pass on your thoughts as a pastor. All right. Well,
let's think of your friend for a second. Is he employed? Yes. Where does he work? Do you have a sense? Not just
the general, what kind of business is he involved in? City government. Okay, city government. So he
works at a city government. Does he work in an office, let's
say? No, sir, out in the field. Okay, he works out in the field.
Let's say he's working out in the field, I don't know, let's just pick
a kind of work that he does. Let's say he works building roads
out in California, we call it Caltrans, and he's building bridges
and so forth. Let's just say he's got 30 guys
in his team, he's building a bridge and he's fixing a road or whatever,
and all of a sudden a van pulls up and six guys come out of the
van and they've all got chains and clubs and knives and they
start charging after his team. And his team, they're stuck under
this culvert there and under this underpass. And he's sitting
there with his cell phone and thinking, oh man, maybe I should
call the police. Is he going to call the cops
that have guns on their on their hips and he's going to have them
come, like my dad was a cop, my uncle was a cop, my cousin
was a cop, he's going to call my father and my uncle to come
and possibly shoot them with a .40 caliber handgun and kill
those men and send them to hell. Is he going to do that? and really
have their souls go directly into some time, a period of torment,
to save himself and those co-workers. I'm going to say, well, that's
a horrible thing to do. Why would he ever do that? As opposed to,
who cares where it's at? Is it at church? Is he saving
some teenager sitting there studying the Bible or saving the pastor
or the worship leader or the choir member? I mean, what difference
does this make where this is, right? It makes no sense to me
that someone would say, no, I'm going to let people kill people
indiscriminately wherever they're at. This is absurd to me to think
that it makes any sense that we are not going to protect myself
or the people I love or even the people I don't even much
love, I just work I just tolerate. Maybe the irritating coworker
I've got, Charlie, who's always late for work and always leaves
early and puts in a half-hearted effort all day. I still don't
want him knifed by some guy who pulls up in a van and has got
him cornered under an underpass. I want the cops to show up and
to neutralize the threat. Of course, I'm going to call
the guy with the .40 caliber to neutralize the threat with
his Glock. Yes, I'm going to do that. I
want deadly force used against someone who's going to kill my
coworker. and I'm thinking to myself, why would I not? I don't
want someone unjustly slain at work. Yes, and I don't care where
it's at. I don't care if it's at the day
school. I don't care if it's a nursery.
I don't care if it's at In-N-Out Burger. I don't care if it's
at the office that I work at. I don't care if it's at church.
Yes, we're going to protect people, especially, and I'm thinking,
my brothers and sisters at Christ that are gathered to worship,
of course we're going to protect them. and you bet we're going
to have gatekeepers or however you're going to call them, people
that are going to protect us as security guards at church.
Yes, of course. We're gathered there with our
children and our teens and our elderly and we're worshiping
God. Yes. and I have precedent for
it in scripture, not only the Old Testament law that gives
me the right to protect myself, not only in the scripture itself
that gives the principle in the Noahic covenant that I know that
the sacred nature of people made in the image of God are to be
protected and that even the state is given the right to execute
people that take anyone's life and the protection that's built
into the Mosaic Law that I'm even able, if someone comes into
my house at night under the cover of darkness, to steal something
that I have the right and I'm exonerated completely to defend
myself by killing him and God says, no, you're off scot-free,
right? That kind of protection within
the Mosaic law itself, not to mention the New Testament in
Luke chapter 22 when the apostles are being told to go back to
normal proverbial life after Jesus tests them without taking
a wallet, a money bag, a knapsack, an extra set of sandals. He says,
listen, if you don't have swords, right? You better go sell your
cloak to get some swords." And Peter goes, yeah, we got a couple
swords. He goes, great, I don't need you, you don't need an arsenal,
but you better have a couple swords with you. And they have
swords. These are the apostles. These
are missionaries. Yeah, you need a wallet, you
need a money bag, you need a knapsack, you need some sandals, you need
a cane to walk with, a walking stick, and you need swords. Of
course you need swords. You need to protect your loved
ones. You need to protect your fellow missionaries. And in church,
you better have some people that are armed who know how to defend
people that they love, defend the pastor, right? I'm not packing
on the platform. I'm worried about preaching out
of the two-edged sword of God's Word. I need someone who's able
to protect me from some crazy that's going to stand up and
shoot me. So yes, of course I want that. and why wouldn't I want
that? I would want that in any context. I would want someone
who's out to kill my co-workers at work or someone at a restaurant
who pulls a gun in the middle of dinner. So, I don't think
it makes any sense, and I think he's got a double standard, unless
he's going to offer up his children and his wife and himself in his
own home late at night when he's having dinner, which I don't
think he will. So, I have biblical precedent
for it, and even if he's going to offer himself up, because
he doesn't want to hurt the criminal. I have biblical rationale for
saying I'm not going to do that. And I just think not only does
the Bible give me that right of self-protection, but even
our secular government still reflect enough of the biblical
law to give me the right of self-protection and self-defense, and I'm going
to take that, and I have every right to do it. And of course,
the church I think we're sitting ducks if we don't and thankfully
we've got some good examples of churches having good security
teams protecting themselves and their congregations and sometimes
that's taking place and we've seen some videos of that not
too long ago out there in Texas and thank God that we have it
in our church and many good churches that have large groups gathering
together are well trained with law enforcement that are ready
to protect congregations that are assembling together. So I
don't know if that's going to convince your friend, but I hope he's
not going to offer up his children or his daughter or his sons to
criminals and let them be killed. I hope he's going to protect
them. Loving your family, loving your friends, loving your co-workers,
and loving your fellow parishioners, I hope would certainly do, would
certainly prompt you to do what the Bible not only allows you
to do, but I think love demands that you do to defend them. Well,
as I like to say, somebody that walks into a church with those
sorts of activities in their brains, well, they put a quarter
in the jukebox. what their intent is, and they
put a quarter in the jukebox, they get to pay the price. They
get to dance. Yeah, and think about this guy shooting through
the window of this Catholic church, you know, just this last week. I mean, if you could have seen
him draw his gun outside before he shot through the stained glass,
and you see him aiming his gun, put your friend who's against
having any security at a church, and saying you could have saved
those children from being shot in prayer in the church and the
adults that got wounded or killed, right? And you wouldn't have
taken him out, right? Are you telling me you wouldn't
have done that? I'm thinking then I think there's something
wrong with you. I really do. I'm sorry. I think you have a
requirement in loving the people that you should be called if
it's within your power to help them in that situation. You should
definitely spare them that kind of harm. And in that case, they're
being carried off to their own death by some madman. Yes. Anyway, all right. Well, I greatly
appreciate that. I'll be passing this on to him.
Okay. Maybe he'll listen to this. I
appreciate it. We'll see. Okay. All right. Thank
you, Jeff, for the call. 1-877-913-5357. Maybe that was passionate because
that story is so fresh on my mind from the news. And yeah,
it's insane what has been happening. And certainly churches are increasingly
a target of all of that. And let me look up a passage
that may help. Yeah, I'm thinking of this text
and I got to find it here. It's lurking in Proverbs. Proverbs chapter 24. Verse 11, "...rescue those who
are being taken away to death, hold back those who are stumbling
toward the slaughter. If you say, behold, we did not
know this, does not he who weighs the heart perceive it? Does not
he who keeps watch over your soul know it?" Okay. Proverbs 24, 11 and 12. If I
see this guy taking aim through a stained glass window, shooting
people in his And the Catholic school he went to, right, and
he's aiming to kill children assembled in the chapel that
he graduated from. If I have a chance to rescue
those children by neutralizing that threat and I don't rescue
them, right, and I don't hold back the threat in that case
and say, well, you know, I'm not going to do that. Here's
the threat from God. Does not he who keeps watch over
your soul know it? And will he not repay you according
to your work? I just, yeah, I just think there's
too much in scripture for me to sit back and say no. Anyway,
all right, Jeff, thanks for the opportunity for me to rant on
that a little bit. 1-877-913-5357. Let's go to Roger
now. Roger, you're on the air with
Pastor Mike. How can I help? Hi, Pastor Mike. In my tradition growing
up, John chapter three, In particular, verse number five, this is when
Jesus is in dialogue with Nicodemus. My tradition has said that this
has been a proof text for the salvific necessity of water baptism. I don't believe this is the case.
So, could you please ask or answer what is the significance of the
water in John 3, in particular verse 5? Yeah, this is a reference
to what is being told in the Old Testament about the water
description in the promise of the New Covenant. the promise
of the New Covenant was that we would be washed clean. This
was what Jeremiah 31 talks about. And he chides him, remember,
because he's a teacher of Israel and he doesn't know these things,
right? And he says, you should know
these things because you're like the Old Testament professor,
right? And you should know how this works. And you don't know
it and you ought to know it. And so, the water is not about
baptism. It's an anachronism to say that. And by that, I mean,
you know, we don't have the institution of the New Testament form of
baptism. And by that, I mean the kind
we see in the book of Acts that hasn't been inaugurated yet.
And what we see, though, throughout the book of Ezekiel and Jeremiah,
when we see the coming of the new covenant, is that God is
promising the sprinkling clean of the idols and all of the sin
being removed and that is symbolized by the water. Forgiveness is
symbolized by water and spirit is symbolizing our hearts being
made from stone into flesh. and that we are made new from
the inside out. So, heart of stone being made
into a heart of flesh, and my forgiveness being symbolized
by the water. Ezekiel 36, 26. And when that
takes place, right, I think a teacher of Israel should know that. Verse
25 says, I will sprinkle clean water on you, you shall be clean
from all your uncleannesses, and all your idols I will cleanse
you, and I will give you a new heart and a new spirit, and I
will put that within you. I'll remove a heart of stone
from your flesh and give you a new heart. I will put my spirit
within you and cause you to walk in my statues and be careful
to obey my rules." And to say, well, you know, the water's literal.
I'm going to say, no, it's not literal any more than putting
a new heart in you is literal, right? The spirit is being put
in you, that's clear. But spirit, remember, is also
the word for wind. And he uses the concept of wind,
saying you don't know where it's going, you don't know where it's
coming from. So, I just think there's too much connected to
the image of forgiveness being connected to water and the newness
of life being connected to spirit and God's spirit changing us
from the inside out. Jeremiah 31, Ezekiel 36, Ezekiel
34, all the promises of the new covenant coming down to two basic
images of water and spirit and that's where I think Jesus ties
that all together in John chapter 3. I preached a sermon on this. Actually, I think I preached
it on Easter, not this year. But if you go to pastormike.com
and look at my John 3 sermon, I kind of leaned into this to
make really clear why I think this is all about water of the
new covenant promise. And I did it much more eloquently
than I did here in the three minutes I explained it just now.
But yeah, I don't think it has anything to do with water baptism.
That wouldn't make sense in the context and I don't think it
makes sense in the timing. I think one of the parallels
that has been used is that just a couple of chapters earlier,
when John the Baptist was baptizing for repentance, and then he himself
was looking forward to someone greater to come, which is the
one who will be baptizing with the Spirit. Right. Does that make any sense? Well, remember, even that, you've
got to make a decision whether or not we're talking about something
good or something bad. When he talks about what the
Spirit is going to do there, he talks even about the fire
that's going to be, baptism with fire. If you look at all that's
said about the baptism that's coming, And that, unfortunately,
is a scary kind of baptism in Matthew 3, 11, and Luke 3, 16. And the concern I have about
the baptism with the Holy Spirit and fire is those are both a
negative that you're going to be either You're either going
to be baptized with a kind of cleansing or you're going to
be baptized with a kind of judgment. So, yeah, I get the fact that
the Spirit is going to divide you, just like it says in Luke
chapter 1, Israel is going to be split into two camps for the
rise and the fall of many in Israel. And I think that's the
picture there. And of course, the spirit is
laden throughout the book of John. You see it in the first
chapter, right out of the gate in John 1. So, You know, I don't
think just a mere reference of the Spirit is going to change
my view that he's speaking to a teacher of the law in John
3 and he's referring to the new covenant because clearly I think
that's what's in view in John chapter 3 is the new covenant
promise. And he's trying to say, I'm the one and you're a teacher
of Israel and you don't know this and you're a Pharisee and
you should know this. Wonderful. You have answered
my question. Thank you so much. Okay, Roger.
Thanks for the call. 1-877-913-5357. 1-877-913-5357.
That is the number to call. Let's see what else we've got
going on here with the written in questions. David says, hold
on, I'm going to reload this page here. It's not reloading
now. It's reloading. Very good. Garcia, family of
six, do you find a difference in the way you preach the three
sermons? Okay, well now you know enough
to know I preach three sermons every week. I preach the same
sermon on the weekend three times. I end up preaching three times,
three different sermons every week just about. What's your
favorite and your hardest one? That's a personal question, but
I'll talk about that. Yeah, I preach the same sermon
for the weekend just because we don't have Well, we're in
the middle of a remodel right now. And even in our setup, we
don't have enough space to do one service. So I do three services,
five on Saturday and two on Sunday morning. And so I preach the
same sermon three times. You say, What difference? Yeah, the difference
is there are differences. Yeah. And you say, which is your
favorite? And I always tell each of the
services that they're my favorite. And I do that tongue in cheek,
of course, because they're all my favorite. It's like children,
right? They're all my favorite. Which is the hardest to preach?
Yeah, that's hard to say. I always tell people this, when
they find a difference between my sermons, like, we have small
groups based on my preaching. I write questions for every sermon
I preach, and if you hear my preaching locally, you'll know
that if you happen to be listening and you're part of my church.
If you go to small groups and somebody in your small group
went to like the Saturday service at five and then someone else
going to the 11 and they say, oh, yeah, he didn't say that
in my service. When you hear the distinction between the services, that's
a service probably you're going to know Pastor Mike probably
wasn't happy with that weekend sermon, at least what didn't
come out as well as he wanted it to on the Saturday, because
if there's changes, you know, that's a sermon that needed some
work overnight or between services. So Yeah, those are weekends that
probably aren't my favorites because I struggle. But yeah,
the best sermons are the ones where there's not much change
between the three. So hardest ones, I mean, on a hard weekend
like this last weekend where it was hot and I was preaching
outside, yeah, the last one can be the hardest one to preach
just because I'm spent. It takes a lot out of you to preach, believe
it or not. Okay. Hmm, hmm, hmm, hmm. Let's see. Colleen asks, is it
wrong to use the name Yahweh? I'm doing a study on the names
of God and came across a few articles that due to the nature
of the holy word, it's better to use the word God or Lord.
Yeah, Jews don't, they don't articulate the word Yahweh. They
call it the tetragrammaton. They think it's too holy to articulate. I don't believe that's the case.
As a Christian, I don't think that's the case, but that is
how the Jews treated it. So I don't have a problem using
the word Yahweh, and I think even sometimes as I'm preaching
through an Old Testament book, when I have taught through an
Old Testament book, sometimes it's helpful to use the word
simply because, you know, when you start just using the convention
of the capital L capital O-R-D, if they're all caps, and sometimes
you're using it next to a word that, the word Adonai, which
is also translated Lord. If it's not in caps, sometimes
it's just helpful to use the word Yahweh, which is translated
into our English translations, capital O-R-D, and it's just
an English convention. If all this is confusing to you,
just go to the beginning of your Bible and there's a section at
the beginning of every translation, English translation of the Bible,
that's going to explain how they use the word Lord in translating
both the word Yahweh, which is used over 7,000 times in the
Old Testament, and the word Adonai, which is also translated Lord.
So, Yeah, I don't think it's wrong to use the word Yahweh.
I don't think so, no. Not a problem. Alright, Colleen's
question. Paula says, I've had a concordance
for years, but all it's done is sit on the shelf. Yes. How do I use it to help me better
understand the Bible? That's a great question, Paula. I love that question. A concordance.
Here's what a concordance is. It's a weird word. A concordance
is a book that is pretty much passe these days because of computers. And even if you don't have Bible
software, which I think everyone should get some Bible software,
if of course you have a computer, If you don't have a computer,
well, then you should pull your concordance out because the concordance is
helpful. Concordance takes every English word and it does two
things. It assigns, well, here's the
simplest thing it does in English. It takes your English word, it
lists them in alphabetical order, and it will give you every reference
Every biblical reference, an address for every time that English
word shows up in your Bible, which is helpful. If you want
to see the word endurance, and you'll find every time that it's
used in your Bible. But, you'll also assign it a
number based on the Greek word, like the word hububene. Hupomone
is the Greek word normally translating the word endurance. But you might
find in some passage, maybe the word macrothymia, which is another
word usually translated patience, that could be in some passages
translated endurance because of maybe how the sentence is
working. And they'll say, oh, that too is translated endurance
in this passage. And so, It'll help you kind of
understand the underlying text and sometimes you'll understand
why it's translated the way it is. So, it's just going to help
you get around in the Bible. But here's the thing, most of
you have a tablet or a phone, obviously, that has the internet
access. Here's a way for you to understand what a concordance
does, and it's a lot easier than flipping pages, even if you don't
have Bible software, which you should all get. If you don't
know what Bible software to get, here's what I recommend. Download,
go to Logos.com, L-O-G-O-S.com and download. Just the engine
won't cost you anything and click around on it. You can download
the free versions of, you know, King James Version. I don't know,
and probably get the NIV. I don't know what else it'll
give you for free, but get all you can get for free. and it'll certainly
have a concordance for free. And you can click around on all
of these things and it'll do it automatically at a touch of
a mouse button. And that'll be easy to start
to understand how you can do some concordance work. Or another
way to do this is to go to the Blue Letter Bible. Blue Letter
Bible, you can start with, I would go to the New American Standard. And if you pull up the New American
Standard, Let me just do this with you real quick and this
will help you. Blue letter Bible. Let me get this pulled up. If
you go to the NASB 95 and then you click on the thing, the little
button that says Strong's, which is a concordance, a Strong's
concordance, every word will have a number next to it. I don't
need to explain this, but it'll have a G and then a number, which
is the kind of concordance number because they had to change the
numbers. I won't explain all that, but later they had to add
the G because they had to renumber them because of a few words they
left out when they first did, when Strong's first did this,
but blah, blah, blah, blah. But like, I'll pull up John 3.16,
for God so loved the world. Okay. Well, next to the word
love, there is a G25. If I click on G25, it'll take
me to the Greek word, Strong's Greek word, agapao. Agapao, right,
is going to get, it's going to spell it out with the English
letters. Then it's going to give me the Greek letters, which if you
don't know Greek, it'll just look like Greek. It's all Greek to me.
It will then give you the transliteration, which is great because that's
in English. It'll give you a pronunciation and even the blue letter Bible
will give you a little speaker there. You click on it and it'll
pronounce it for you. And then it'll give you some etymology,
like what's the root of it. It'll tell you how many times
it shows up in the New Testament. It'll give you a little dictionary
form from one of the oldest and, you know, common Bible dictionaries,
the Vines Expository Dictionary, which is a great resource, and
it will go and tell you how many times it's translated in certain
ways. Like, it's translated 135 times into the word love in the
New Testament, it's translated seven times into the word beloved
in the New Testament, and it goes on to explain all that it
explains, which is a lot of different things, a lot of different ways
that it's translated in different forms in the New Testament. Anyway,
that's all that a concordance does. It just does it a lot easier
by the click of a mouse here, which is great. And you can search
by book, eight times in the book of Matthew, five times in the
book of Mark, 13 times in the book of Luke, 37 times in the
book of John, which is interesting, right? You say, wow, he's really,
right, the apostle that Jesus loved, he uses the word love,
agapao, 37 times. 8 times in the book of Romans,
2 times in the book of 1 Corinthians, anyway. And by the way, 1 John,
28 times in the little book of 1 John. So, great way to use
it. Blue Letter Bible. If you don't
have any Bible software, it's got a lot of cool things. You
can check it all out. Better yet, invest a little money
in Bible software. I like Logos because it's got
the most resources available. But anyway, that's what a concordance
is, Paula, and hopefully that'll help you. All right. 1-877- 9,
1, 3, 5, 3, 5, 7. All right. Kimberly, my, oh,
let's see what we got here. First Corinthians 11, 10. What
does this mean? Oh, that's a good question. I
know this passage. First Corinthians chapter 11, verse 10. Uh, yeah,
wife ought to have a symbol of Florida in her head because of
the angels. I love that, uh, that we're bringing
this up because we just talked about a concordance. Um, yeah,
angels. Uh, angels is a word that is
a Greek word. It's, we're not translating it.
The word angels. Here's a few places where the
word angels maybe should be translated. Well, it should, I don't know.
It's like the word baptizo. I always say this to my church
when we have baptism. It's good if we were to translate it because
we would always wonder if we're talking about, are we talking
about being dunked into water or being dunked into Christ?
Are we being placed into water or being placed into Christ?
We'd want to know the context. If I said, does baptism save
you? You'd want to know, what do you mean? being placed into
Christ, right, judicially, legally, right, by the Spirit, being placed
into a relationship with Christ, that does save me. Being placed
into water, no, that doesn't save me. Angolos, in Greek, right,
that's a Greek word, we just transliterate that into English,
like we do the word baptizo, we just turn it into an English
word, baptize, right? Angolos is the same way. We just
turn it into an English word. which I wish we translated, because
if we did, we would translate it into the word messenger, because
that's what the word anglos means. But instead, we just turn it
into an English word, anglos, or angels, is what we did. Well,
here's one place, and in the book of Revelation, where it
may be helpful if we did translate it, because then it would read
this way. The wife ought to have a symbol of authority on her
head because of the messengers. Okay, Paul's talking here about
the practice in Corinth. Paul has got messengers going
back and forth with these letters. Verse 16 says, if anyone is inclined
to be contentious about this matter, we have no such practice,
nor do the churches of God. Paul can't get a letter to the
Corinthians without messengers. Messengers are bringing these
letters to them. I've said this just recently,
I was preaching Second Corinthians to my congregation and this last
week and I reminded them that Corinth is the Orange County
of the ancient world, right? It's at the crossroads on an
isthmus. It's just got a lot of money
there and it's progressive. And so, you know, feminization
of this area in terms of feminist movement and the empowerment
of women and all the rest of the cutting-edge stuff. And it
showed here in 1 Corinthians 11 when you had a lot of feminists
saying, we want to take the pulpit and we don't care about gender
roles and we're going to do all this stuff well. they wanted
to press the limits of gender distinctions and they were wanting
to cast off women being feminine and men being masculine and there
was blurring of the lines here that Paul's trying to correct.
Well, even this picture of why women should be covering their
head and having, you know, even it depends on how you read this
text, the covering of their hair as their glory, this is in verse
15, a woman has long hair, it is her glory, it's given to her
as a covering, uh, you know, the women cutting their hair
off and trying to, you know, wear man's hair, uh, styles,
all the rest. He says, no, that shouldn't happen.
At least, it says, for the sake of the angels. Well, what angels?
When we hear the word angels, we think these, this other class
of beings that, that, you know, are, are angels like Gabriel
and Michael and Satan. No, that's not what we're talking
about. Probably talking here about the messengers that are
bringing these letters back and forth for Paul. and they are
not living in Orange County, right? They're from Cincinnati,
so to speak, right? They're coming from other places
and as he brings up in verse 16, they have the traditions
or the practices and that's even where it starts earlier in the
passage when he talks about the traditions and, you know, I think
that's probably what's in view here. And even the ESV puts a
footnote here next to the word angels and it says, or messengers,
people sent to observe and report for the Apostle Paul. The other
passage I said where it probably would be helpful if we did translate
it is Revelation chapters two and three, because it says at
the beginning of all those seven letters to the seven churches,
to the angel of the messenger, I'm sorry, to the angel of the
church of Ephesus, you know, and the Asperna, and it goes
on Pergamum, Thyatira, and on through the seven churches. Well,
the angel, probably not talking about an angelic being, we're
probably talking about the pastor, the preacher, the messenger,
the one who brings the message, the one who brings the sermon.
And you know, the letter that Christ is bringing to these churches
are going to be read by the pastor of those churches. So, that probably
should have been translated there, too, I think would have been
helpful. But every time the word angolosh shows up in the Greek
New Testament, it's usually just transliterated instead of translated. If it were transliterated, we're
left with a little confusion. If it were translated, we'd probably
do better and think, oh, are we talking about a heavenly messenger
from heaven? Are we talking about like a pastor,
like, or a messenger from the Apostle Paul. All right. All
right. All right. All right. Okay. What do we got
going on here? Cindy writes in, in a marriage
situation, is pinning someone down on a bed considered physical
assault? Yeah, it is. Should police be called even
if it's a month later? Well, it would have been better
if it were immediate. Is a husband's apology or repentance enough
to not see it as assault? Well, assault is assault, whether
there's apology or not. I mean, what you want to see
is repentance, and that's, I suppose, up to your discretion whether
you're going to accept this repentance. And if you see change, then yeah,
maybe it's worth moving forward, but your concern should be whether
this is going to recur and whether you feel as though you are in
danger, right? That's the concern. At least
in the state of California, assault is different than battery, and
even if you're pinned down on a bed, that may actually constitute
battery. you need to look up in the California
Domestic and Family Codes, you can do that online, what constitutes
physical assault and battery, and those are distinguishable
and defined very clearly in the California Family Codes. And
anyway, yeah. So, what I say is the book of
Romans chapter 13 is very clear that the government is there
for the reason, and as an extension and minister of God, it says
in that passage, to punish bad behavior. And when bad behavior
takes place, right, it is, you know, your call to pick up the
phone and to see this enforced when there's bad behavior to
see it punished. So yeah, I think you should talk with your pastors,
you should talk with your parents, your family members if you have
some, and yeah, someone should be dealing with your husband
in all of this. And Yeah, certainly we don't want to see you in danger
and you probably are the best one to decide whether that's
the case or not. And if this is a one-off in terms
of your husband's never touched you in anger before, well then
maybe this is a one-off. But if you fear that this is
going to happen again, then yeah, maybe it's time to see the government
do what it's called to do. Talk to your pastor and talk
to your family if you need to. And again, if you ring the bell
with the family, just remember that's a bell you can't unring.
So start with your pastors and see the context for all this.
All right. David, how can suffering and
death on a cross for a few hours and not eternity in hell be enough
to pay for eternal punishment we all deserve? for sin? Great
question. Just like a lot of things, I
see things all the time, like let's talk about a squirrel run
over in the road. I don't see any out the window.
I looked out the window to see if I could see a squirrel run
over. I don't see any, but You see road kill all the time, and
you probably don't think much about it. I don't know, maybe
your eight-year-old daughter does, but if you saw a man killed
in the middle of the road, man, yeah, it'd wreck your whole day. That'd be a big deal. If you
saw your daughter killed, it would wreck your whole life on
the road. So do you see what I'm saying?
Who this is makes a world of difference, right? And when we're
talking about who was crucified on a cross, who was punished,
who was hit, who was whipped, who was beaten, who was spit
upon, who had a crown of thorns on his head, this makes all the
difference in the world. This was not just a human being.
right? This was the Son of God. This
was the one in whom the fullness of deity dwelt in bodily form.
This is the eternal one. This is the one who was, who
is, and who is to come. So, his suffering, David, was
not just any suffering. One human suffering would be
enough to save one person. And what we have in Christ is
the eternal one. So you just answered it with
your question, be enough to pay for the eternal punishment. The
eternal one paid for the eternal punishment of eternity, right?
Of all the eternal people, right? Of the eternal amount of people
if he chose to. So this is where we have to remember
who we're dealing with here. We're dealing with the one who
is the infinity, right? He is the one who has all. power, all authority. I mean,
read Daniel chapter 7. This is the one who has all things.
And because of that, he can pay for our sins by his punishment
in one second if he wanted to. But it was appropriate for what
he paid for. And for that, we are eternally
grateful for certain. And yeah. So David, that's how
that happened. And just think about it, right?
Even in our world, the difference between someone hurting a school
kid versus hurting the president, these are two radically different
things, not to mention, as I started with, a squirrel getting run
over on the road. versus your family member. This is the creator
of the universe who created the human hand being beaten in the
face by human hands. This is an amazing amount of
punishment. So for that, we say God has accepted
that as a full payment for eternal punishment. All right, Mike Fobar
is signing off for today. Thanks for everyone who participated
in the program today. We'll see you next time. Bye-bye. You're listening to Ask Pastor
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Ask Pastor Mike Live: September, 3 2025
Series Ask Pastor Mike Live
2:31 Do you have any book recommendations on marriage?
3:36 I heard that everyman has an issue with pornography, is this true?
6:00 What is the meaning and use of the phrase "Kingdom of God" in the Bible?
17:35 Why do churches need armed security?
29:50 Is John 3:5 a proof text that water baptism is salvific?
36:14 Do you find a difference in the way you preach the three different sermons on a weekend?
38:32 Is it wrong to use the name Yahweh?
40:12 How do I use a concordance to better study the Bible?
45:31 What does 1 Corinthians 11:10 mean?
50:42 In a marriage, is pinning someone down on the bed considered assault?
53:00 How can suffering and death on a cross for a few hours be enough to pay for all the sins of the world for all time?
| Sermon ID | 93252358353673 |
| Duration | 57:04 |
| Date | |
| Category | Question & Answer |
| Bible Text | 1 Corinthians 11:10; John 3:5 |
| Language | English |
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