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Alright, we will be in 1 John
chapter 3 again this morning. We spent the last couple of weeks
talking about a fairly difficult subject, the subject of sin and
the believer's relationship to sin. Sin is certainly not most
people's favorite topic. In fact, there are many people
even even mention sin when you talk to them about it, they'll
shut off the rest of the conversation, especially when talking to unbelievers.
We've probably all experienced something along those lines once,
once or once or twice. So instead, today, we're going
to switch gears a bit and we're going to talk about love. Love
is a good topic, right? Everybody likes to talk about
love. Although I will warn you along with love, we also have
the contrast when we talk about murder and hatred too. But love
is the main topic that we'll be in today. So these verses
that we're talking about start in verse 11. Predominantly, we're
going to see the believer's relationship and association with love. And
specifically, keeping in mind the theme of the letter, what
are the characteristics of a true believer in regard to love? In his epistle, John is busy
showing us what a true believer is like, what characteristics
someone who has truly put their faith and trust in Jesus Christ
for their salvation has true of them. Not someone who has
just gone through the motions, who knows what to say because
they've heard it over and over and over again. No, what John
is talking about here is someone who is truly saved. And how do
we know that we're truly saved beyond a shadow of a doubt? And
this entire letter is written with the thought in mind that
a believer can know and should know whether or not they're truly
saved. And we haven't gone back to our
verse in a little while or in a few weeks, but in verse 13
of chapter five, we remember the theme verse of the entire
letter as John says, these things I have written to you who believe
in the name of the son of God so that you may know that you
have eternal life. So John is writing so that we
may have assurance of our faith. He's writing so that we might
be able to see in our own lives whether or not we match up to
what God says a believer ought to match up to. Do our lives
reflect what is true of the life of one who has truly been redeemed,
who's truly been born again and raised to new life in Christ?
And that's what John is showing us, so that we might see the
truth in our own lives or see that our lives don't match up
and have the opportunity to repent and make our lives right before
God so that we can look at these things and say, I've got some
areas to work on, or maybe that's not true of me. We have seen
over and over again that the distinction between those whose
lives do match up and those who don't is that the one group is
saved. And the other group is unsaved,
right? There's no other category that
we see here. These are tests of salvation
that John is presenting us with here. Now, when it comes to these
tests and these characteristics that he presents in this letter,
in order for these things to be visible, in order for us to
see them in our lives, what must be true of them? Their actions,
right? He's talking about things that
we do that manifest themselves outwardly. The test of the heart
of what is truly going on inside of someone, what has really taken
place in the, what you would call the invisible part of us,
in our hearts, in our inner being, is revealed by what comes out
of us. How do we act? How do we react?
How do we live our lives? The things that we do that come
out of us in the form of actions reveal what has happened to us
on the inside. If I go out to a large empty
field, and I plant some acorns in the ground. I find a big empty
field. I dig up a little hole and I plant acorns in the ground.
What would happen? What should that produce? Right? That's an oak tree. I had to
look that up at one time. Somebody just asked me as I was
coming in what kind of trees we have out here. I don't know.
I don't know trees. But I know that if you plant acorns, you
should get an oak tree. Well, if I came back to that spot years
later, I should see an oak tree standing in the middle of that
field. Now, if years later, I told you to go to that field and say,
oh, you should go to that field and you should see my oak tree
standing in the middle of that field. I planted it years and
years and years ago, and that's my favorite oak tree. And you
get there, and when you get to that field, you look and you
see a tree, but it's a large, green, pointy tree that looks
like a big Christmas tree, and it smells like pine. And you
think, that's an odd-looking oak tree. I didn't know that
oak trees could look like that. Is that what you would think?
No. You would look at that tree and you'd say, that's not an
oak tree. That's a pine tree, you fool. You'd tell me, that's
not the tree that you planted. That's not the right kind of
tree. What are you talking about? I would say, I planted acorns.
They're years ago. I know that acorns produce oak
trees. Therefore, that is most definitely
an oak tree. Would you be convinced if I said
that? Of course you wouldn't. Just by looking at what has been
produced, anyone could tell that that's a pine tree. That's what
a pine tree looks like. That's not an oak tree. Regardless
of what I say that I planted, regardless of what I say I did
on that spot years ago, regardless of what I thought I did when
I was there years ago, what grew out of that is obviously not
an oak tree. It shows no signs of being an
oak tree. It shows every sign of being
a pine tree. You can tell by what has been
produced what truly happened. Maybe I didn't know the difference
between an acorn and a pine cone when I planted it. Maybe my acorns
got dug up by squirrels and someone else came along and planted pine
cones there. Whatever the case may be, the evidence is obvious
based on what has been produced. And that's the same way it is
in the life of human beings, of people. Everyone on earth,
the evidence is obvious. What is implanted in your heart
is evident by the works that you produce in your life. That's
what John is showing us in this entire letter. That's what the
letter's for. It's that type of evidence that
he keeps taking us back to. In the last section that we looked
at, verses 4 through 10, it was in regard to sin and to righteousness. What does your life produce in
relation to these two? Remember, we're talking about
patterns of sin, patterns of righteousness, not an occasional
sin or occasional act of righteousness. He made it clear in verses seven
and eight. He said, little children, make sure no one deceives you.
The one who practices righteousness is righteous, just as he is righteous.
The one who practices sin is of the devil, for the devil has
sinned from the beginning. It all comes down to the one
to whom you are born. Are you born of God or are you
born of the devil? Everyone at one point is born
of the devil. That's part of our sin nature.
That's the nature that we have in our flesh. That's what we
start out with. We are born in that path. We looked last time
at Ephesians chapter 2. And we won't turn there again,
but Paul there talks about being dead in your trespasses and sins.
You were dead in your trespasses and sins, and you were walking
according to the prince of the power of the air. With the exception
of Jesus Christ, that is a condition that every person has ever lived
in, that's ever lived, has ever been in. Everyone started out
in that position. That is being born of the devil.
That's that condition. That's being born of the devil.
But those who have been saved, what's happened to them? They
have been made alive together with Christ, raised up as a new
creature, given a renewed life, freed from sin, now enslaved
to righteousness. And we saw several passages on
that when we looked at it a few weeks ago. The one who is saved
now belongs to God, is now born of him. And as one who was born
of God, we will now act like one who was born of God. That
is our new nature. That is now what is true of us.
If the acorn was truly planted and the growth was truly started
and brought about, then the tree that will be produced will be
an oak tree. And it will look like and bear
evidence of being an oak tree. And if my profession of faith
is genuine and the seed of the word of God was truly implanted
within me and by the grace of God and by the power of the Holy
Spirit, it took hold. That I will be holy as he is
holy, and that is the absolute truth of the word of God. In
verse 10, John said it again, reiterating this truth. He said,
by this, the children of God and the children of the devil
are obvious. Anyone who does not practice
righteousness is not of God, nor the one who does not love
his brother. Those who belong to God and those who belong to
the devil, they're obvious. It's absolutely clear, John says
here. And he gives two examples, two tests that will be evident
in the life of the believer. And I told you that verse 10
is our segue verse from the last section to this section. And
the first thing he mentions here was what was dealing with the
last section. It's about righteousness. Jesus
Christ is righteous. God is righteous. As those who
now abide in him have fellowship with him, our lives will be righteous. That's what will characterize
us, though we will manifest those characteristics. Not sin, that's
the contrast, but righteousness. But he also points out another
test, another example. And this is what's leading us
now into our new section for today. And that's the example
of love. What is true of the one who belongs
to God and the showing of love? Well, right here in verse 10,
again, he makes it obvious. There's no surprise where this
is going. The one who does not love his brother is not of God. That's what he says here. A true believer has love for
his brother. And that's other Christians,
right? We're not talking about family. Oh, I don't have a brother,
so I don't have to do this. No, we're talking about other
Christians, right? Let's just get that out of the
way right now. Other Christians. And that's what we're going to
see as we spend time going through the next several verses here
in 1 John 3. Now, this isn't the first time
that John has brought up this subject. He introduced it back
in chapter two. So if you look back in chapter
two, verse 10, for just a minute, he said there, the one who loves
his brother abides in the light and there's no cause for stumbling
in him. But the one who hates his brother is in the darkness
and walks in the darkness and does not know where he is going
because the darkness has blinded his eyes. And there's the distinction. It's the same as what we're going
to see here. The one who loves his brother
shows that he's in the light. Right? Remember the terminology?
That's salvation terminology, right? God is light. He abides
with God in the light. He's in the light. But the one
who hates his brother shows that he's not saved. He's in the darkness. And so John has already talked
about this, but he's going to go here a little bit deeper,
right? And John has this tendency to spiral around in his writing,
right, in his thought process. And we see that to a smaller
degree, right, because he talks about saved and unsaved, right?
So he keeps going from saved to unsaved to saved to unsaved,
right, in all these little arguments. But then in the bigger picture,
He goes around and around, but then in the bigger picture, even
with some of his topics, he keeps coming back around to some of
these topics. He talks about sin, he talks about obedience,
he talks about love, he comes back to sin, and then obedience
again, and then love, and he keeps coming around to these
different topics. So here we're going back to love,
talking about love. Now look back just a second at
verse seven of chapter two, where he introduced love before, he
said in that verse, beloved, I am not writing a new commandment
to you, but an old commandment, which you have had from the beginning.
The old commandment is the word which you have heard. So here
he's talking about love as an old commandment that they've
heard before. Now, why do we care about that?
Because now we come to verse 11 of chapter three, and we see
a similar time element that he brings up here. He says in verse
11, for this is the message which you have heard from the beginning
that we should love one another. And once again, he introduces
the topic as not anything brand new. This was an old commandment
back in chapter two, and it's been heard from the beginning
here, he says. And this is very much a concept
that believers should well be aware of, and this pretty much
underlines it all. The concept of love is at the
very core of the Christian life. It is a capacity that we now
have that we did not have before, and I hope we all realize that.
We could not truly love prior to being saved, not in the way
that we're talking about here. This is sacrificial love. This
is agape love. We've talked about this before
already in the book. It's the type of love that God
showed us by sending his son to die for our sins. The love
that doesn't just say, I love you, then carry on selfishly,
or a love that is fueled by an emotional moment in time. This
is a love that works for the benefit of the one that you love,
regardless of the cost. regardless of what it means for
you. This is the kind of love out of which we were saved, right? And we saw that a few verses
ago at the beginning of chapter three. If you remember our discussion
on verse one, see how great a love the father has bestowed on us,
that we would be called children of God and such we are. For this
reason, the world does not know us because it did not know him.
Remember, this was John's astonishment, right? His astonished statement
on the love of God. Behold, see how absolutely unfathomable
a love the father has bestowed on us that we would be called
his children. And that's what we are. Our being
his children, being born into his family is at the heart of
everything that John has been talking about since. Since we
are born of him, since we belong to him, then his character is
now our character. That's what we're saved into.
That's what our new life brings. And that truth has been taught
since the very beginning, John says. He uses the term very beginning.
But the beginning of what? What does he mean when he says
the beginning? Well, you can see this idea of love all the
way back into the Old Testament. The responsibility for God's
people to love others was taught even back then. Leviticus 19.18,
love your neighbor as yourself. Deuteronomy 6.5 says, love the
Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all
your might, right? It goes back that far. Love is not a new concept. But I think what's more relevant
here is what the entire concept of their salvation has brought
about. What the new association with
Christ, the fellowship that we have through him has made possible
in our lives. Turn back with me to John's gospel,
chapter 15. In John, chapter 15, Jesus is
talking about the association that we have with him and with
the father are abiding in him. The concept of fellowship that
we saw earlier in first John. And the idea of abiding or remaining
that we've seen throughout, right? We've talked about that several
times in the letter. But as we come to chapter 15,
you look down at verse nine, we see one of the things that
our association with our new family, our new family association
of being born with God will bring about in us. He says in verse
nine, just as the father has loved me, I have also loved you. Abide in my love. If you keep
my commandments, you will abide in my love just as I have kept
my father's commandments and abide in his love. These things
I have spoken to you so that my joy may be in you and that
your joy may be made full." So here we see the association not
only with Christ and the love of Christ, that love that Christ
loved us with. He says that the one who is keeping
his commandments, again, these are actions, right? We're talking
about what we do. Having that outward manifestation
that reveals what's true inside of us. It's that one who remains
in the love of God, the one that is actually doing these things,
that Christ truly loves just as the Father loves Christ. Now
look at what he says going into verse 12 here. He says, this
is my commandment. that you love one another just
as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than
this, that one lay down his life for his friends." So here we
are. This is what we are to manifest
as those whom God loves. We are to love one another. In
what way? In the same way that he loved
us. This is exactly what John is
saying. In fact, you could point to this and say this is where
John got it, right? From what Christ told him, what Christ
had told the other disciples years before, you are to love
one another. So from the very beginning, the
beginning of the Christian faith, of the Holy Spirit adopting believers
into the family of God, the command has always been here. That has
always been at the heart of being born into the church, being born
of God. Love one another. Now, just because
something is commanded doesn't mean that it's possible. I mentioned
before that we now have the capacity to love. We did not have that
before. You can be told to do something, but only those with
the capacity to do it will be able to carry out a command.
A general can command an army. You can go to an army and say,
I want you to take your entire army, and I want you to go to
that hill and take the hill. Army can do it. I mean, there's obviously,
what's the opposing force and all that, right? But generally
speaking, that army can do it. That's a command that he can
give. The general could also go to this middle school and
say, I want all the kids in this school to go take that hill.
Could they do it? Probably not. It's not a command
that they could do, but the general could give them the command.
He could command it, but they have no capacity to be able to
do it. The ability to love one another is commanded of believers
and it is possible for believers, but what makes it possible for
us to love one another? The Apostle Paul says in Romans
chapter five, verse five, the love of God has been poured out
within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to
us. And he says also in the fifth chapter of the book of Galatians,
but the fruit of the spirit of the Holy Spirit is what? Love,
joy, peace, patience, kindness. That's the first fruit that he
lists as what comes from the Holy Spirit who has been poured
out into us. The Holy Spirit coming upon us
to indwell us because of his love, then gives us the capacity
to love as God loves. And therefore, we not only have
the ability to fulfill this command, but we have the expectation to
love based on our new life in Christ. we are to manifest the
love of Christ. We're all familiar with first
Corinthians chapter 13. We won't turn to that chapter.
Probably the most complete chapter on love. Where Paul makes it
clear that as a believer, anything and everything that we now do
is to be done in love or else it's not even worth doing. I
can do the greatest things for people. I can give to the poor.
I can help the sick. I can minister to the lost. But
if I'm not doing it, with an attitude of love, then Paul says,
I'm nothing. Believers in Jesus Christ are
to be characterized by love, having that attitude towards
others, and then manifesting that love towards one another.
And that's where it starts. And John tells us here, and what
Jesus told him is with a love of the brethren, love one another. That's what we are to be doing.
Now, why is it important for John to remind us that this is
nothing new? This is something that we've heard from the beginning.
You've been hearing this since the start of the church. This
has always been a command. The church in John's day had
only been around for about 60 years. Today, the church has
been around for 2,000 years, and yet it's still important
for us to remember that this is true from the beginning. Why
is that? Simply because God's word, his truth, hasn't changed
in that span of time. What we're reading today, 2000
years later, is the same that John was telling the churches
back then, 60 years after the church had been started. It's
not new. We look at the word new and we
think new, new is exciting. New is intriguing. New can be
exhilarating, but new is not better. In fact, new is dangerous. New usually is heretical. What
do I mean by that? Well, simply put, the canon of
scripture is closed. There's nothing new coming from
God today in the way of teaching, in the way of truth. I'm teaching
you the letter of 1 John. This book's been around 2,000
years. I'm not teaching you anything new here, right? And if I am
teaching you something, oh, I've never heard that before. Well,
examine that. Right? What we are responsible
for doing is to examine anything that comes along today and see
how it compares to what's old, to what has been revealed, what
has already been taught. That's the problem that the church
in John's day was experiencing. Here, 60 years later, they'd
been hearing these things, they'd been taught these lessons, and
now all of a sudden somebody was coming around and they had
new teachings. Oh, really? I hadn't heard that
before, teaching new concepts that they had never heard before.
And John is reminding them here, look, you shouldn't be looking
for what's new. You should be looking for what
has already been revealed. What's been taught from the very
beginning, because those old truths haven't changed. And if
you hear something that's contrary to them, you shouldn't be excited
about it, you should reject it. It was true in John's day when,
again, the church was 60 years old, and it's still true today.
The 2,000-year-old truth. The command is still true. It's
still relevant. It concerns me greatly, and it
should concern you, too, when people start to get excited about
new things, new teachings, new programs and processes. Oh, but
look how many people they're attracting by that. I know. Look
how many people they're attracting by that. That's not impressive. That's scary. That's terrifying.
People keep coming up with new ways to rehash old heresies. They dust them off, they repackage
them, they put shiny new cover on the book or on their video
series or on their podcast and they draw in more people that
just want to be lied to because they're now part of this new
thing that's really based off of things that are centuries
old. They just don't know that. The Gnostics in John's day are
really the same as they are today. You look back at Gnostic teaching
and you think, oh, they were teaching this and that and you
think, That's stuff that people teach today. Yeah, 2,000 years
old. That's not new either. They taught
the same things maybe in different ways, but the underlying deception
was still the same, and it still attracts people today as it did
back then. is those who have been saved
by the truth of the gospel. It's the basics of the gospel
message that we are to be standing in, that we are to be going back
to continually, daily, and making sure that those truths do not
waver and that they do not suffer and get forgotten. The message
that we have heard from the beginning is still the message that is
relevant today. And the specific message that John is referring
to here is that we love one another. Now it makes perfect sense for
him to say that we should love one another, right? Because John
has told us that God loved us. He's told us that we are in fellowship
with God and with other believers. We're in fellowship one with
another. And he's told us that we are now born of God. We are
all now born of God. And we will manifest the characteristics
of the one to which we are born. Therefore, believers will love
one another. That's how we will operate, then
that love will be evident in our lives. But as John always
does, he's not going to give us one half of the equation.
He's showing us without showing us the other half. He's got to
draw that distinction, that contrast, right? So we've gone to one side,
believers love one another. Now we're going back to the other
side. Having shown us what is true of those who belong to God,
he will now show us what is true of those that belong to the devil.
And that's what he does in verse 12. So he says, we should love
one another, not as Cain, who was of the evil one and slew
his brother. And for what reason did he slay
him? Because his deeds were evil and his brothers were righteous.
So here John uses his only Old Testament example of his epistles.
He refers to the account of Cain and Abel. He here assumes that
his readers are familiar with this account because he doesn't
go into any detail, right? Very familiar account. The first
two children that we have recorded in scripture, one of them murders
the other. Not a very good start, is it?
What John is going to do as he presents this contrast to love
is show what we would see as varying degrees of the contrast,
okay? But the point is that all these
things that he shows don't really vary at all. In verse 12, he's
contrasting love with murder, right? Cain killed Abel. He murdered
his brother. In verses 13 to 16, we'll see
him, he'll start talking about hate. Well, you've got murder,
that's really bad. Hate, okay, well, that's bad,
but it's not to the degree of murder, right, in our minds.
And then in verse 17 to 18, he's gonna talk about indifference
or apathy. Okay, well, now I just don't
care about someone. I don't hate them, but I just
don't care about them. But in reality, the point that we're
gonna see here is that none of these is love. And if you're
going to hate someone or even be indifferent towards them,
that's really showing you to be in no better position than
if you were going to murder them. And it's with that ultimate contrast
of murder that John starts off here in verse 12 with the example
of Cain. I think that most of us would
agree you can't get much further away from loving someone than
murdering them, right? I mean, that's like, that's it.
That's the most extreme example you could find. They're pretty
much polar opposites. Now, we won't take the time to
go back and look at it, but you can find this account in Genesis
chapter 4, verses 1 through 8. There Cain and Abel, they both
offer their sacrifices, right? Cain is a, he grows crops and
Abel is a keeper of flocks, right? So Cain brings a grain offering
and Abel brings an animal offering. Well, God rebukes Cain for his
sacrifice. It says in verses four and five
of Genesis four, and the Lord had regard for Abel and his offering,
but for Cain and his offering, he had no regard. So Cain's offering
is unacceptable and that makes it Cain angry. He's mad about
that. So God comes to him. God actually
speaks with him and warns him in verses six and seven. Why
are you angry? And why is your countenance fallen?
If you do well, will not your countenance be lifted up? And
if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door and its
desire is for you, but you must master it. So basically Cain
here, God even tells him, you've got an option here, right? You
can be obedient and you will do well, or the alternative is
that sin is crouching at the door. It's waiting there for
you. It's desires for you. Well, we know what Cain decides,
because if Cain didn't decide the one, we wouldn't be talking
about this, right? He ends up killing his brother.
He chooses sin. He goes right along with sin.
Well, it's curious though. In my mind, why did Cain kill
Abel? It wasn't Abel that made Cain give the wrong sacrifice.
It wasn't Abel that had no regard for Cain's sacrifice. We don't
have any record that Abel was making fun of Cain for his sacrifice,
but it was Abel that became the object of Cain's wrath, as Cain's
hatred was directed at his brother. Why was that? Well, John tells
us why here in verse 12. And there's really a couple of
things that he says that point to it. The first thing he says,
which is at the underlying stage of it, is that Cain was of the
evil one. Cain was of his father, the evil one. He was of his father,
the devil, is really what that means. The word for evil one
that John uses here is the same one that he used before back
in chapter two, when talking about those who have reached
the spiritual maturity of young men. Remember when we talked
about fathers and young men and children? The young men, it says
in verses 13 and 14, same phrase is used, you have overcome the
evil one. You have overcome Satan. You
don't give in to his influence, to his desires. You're no longer
born of him. That's different from Cain, isn't
it? God told him, get your act together
or you're going to succumb to sin. And that's exactly what
Cain did. He gave in to sin. He didn't
overcome it. He didn't master it as God told
him to do. But believers, those with a true
knowledge of the truth, overcome the evil one. We don't belong
to him anymore. We now have the ability to resist
him. But those that do belong to him,
as we've seen before, will act like him, will give in to him,
because they are enslaved to their sin. A passage that we've
looked at before, again, we won't turn there, but John chapter
eight, and I've referred to it many times over the last few weeks.
John 8, 44, Jesus says, you are of your father, the devil, and
you want to do the desires of your father. He was a murderer.
from the beginning. It's not surprising that Cain
killed his brother because he was of his father, the devil,
the evil one, a murderer from the beginning. So that explains
why Cain was evil. But specifically, why did he
direct his wrath against Abel? Why did he kill Abel? John tells
us that in the latter part of the verse here. He says, and
for what reason did he slay him? Because his deeds were evil and
his brothers were righteous. Why did Cain kill Abel? Because
Abel was righteous and Cain was evil. I don't believe this is
referring to just the acts of the sacrifice. It's not saying
that, well, Cain had a bad sacrifice and Abel had a good sacrifice.
I believe John here is making a statement about the two brothers'
lives. He's making a statement about their character. The pattern
of Cain's life was to do evil things. while Abel did righteous
things. And as John has already told
us, that's an indication of their true character. There are only
four times that Abel is referred to in the New Testament. And
he's referenced in those passages because of his righteousness.
Three of them, including this one, specifically mentioned that
he was a righteous man. So John is basically saying here
that Cain killed Abel because Abel walked in the light. And
Cain walked in the darkness. And as we've previously seen
in our studies, the darkness hates the light. It can't stand
the light. So for the unbeliever, the very
fact that a believer does righteous things, acts in righteousness,
is enough to condemn him. It is enough to be a murderous
offense. When you manifest the character of God, the love of
God, righteousness, holiness, the world is going to hate that. It's going to hate you. And as we continue on, that's
where John takes us in the following verses with this line of thinking.
The hatred of the world towards believers. Look at what he says
in verse 13. He says, do not be surprised
brethren if the world hates you. We know that we have passed out
of life, out of death into life because we love the brethren.
He who does not love abides in death. Everyone who hates his
brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal
life abiding in him. So John starts off talking about
hate, but as you can see, he ends up again talking about murder,
right? They're tied together. That's
because we're going to see that there's really no difference
between the two as far as the one who's doing them. The world
belongs to their father, the devil. John made it very clear
back in chapter two, that there was that distinction between
that which belongs to God and that which belongs to the world,
right? He said in verse 16 of 1 John 2, for all that is in
the world, the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the
boastful pride of life is not from the father, but it's from
the world. We are not to love the world,
he said in the verse prior to this one, because the world is
opposed to God. They're opposites. The world
is opposed to God. Those who are in the world belong
to the world, and they love the world, and they are children
of the devil. And therefore, what the world
does shouldn't surprise us. Look again at verse 13. Do not
be surprised, brethren, if the world hates you. Don't be surprised. This is no shock to us. The world is going to hate you.
We see the word if here, right? He uses the word if, if the world
hates you. But this is what's known as a
first class condition in the Greek, which means that it's
an assumed reality. That means that this if, you
could really use the word since, or a popular phrase we like to
say today is if and when, right? If and when the world hates you.
Turn back with me over to John 15 again. We were here a few
minutes ago. There's a portion a little further
down that we need to see. I think we ended up in verses 12 and
13 last time, where Jesus is telling them his new command,
love one another. Then as he goes down through
the next verses, we get an indication of what that love looks like,
right? Lay down your life for your friends, being friends of
the one to whom you belong, bearing the fruit of the one who chose
you. And then in verse 17, which is where we're going, he finishes
that up with the same command again. This I command you, that
you love one another. Okay, so this is what he's telling
his disciples, in extension us, this is what we should be doing,
love one another. So that's the context of this.
But then he goes on and he says this in verse 18. If the world
hates you, you know that it has hated me before it hated you. Now, remember the new association
that we have, the identity that we now have as followers of Christ,
the new life that we have as we abide in him, right? That's
what he's been talking about here. This is part of what that
means. If the world hated Christ, which
we all know that it did and that it still does, if the world has
that hatred for Jesus Christ and we are now identified with
him, then what do we expect? that it will hate us as well.
And that's exactly what Jesus goes on to say next. Verse 19,
if you were of the world, the world would love its own. But
because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world
because of this, the world hates you. We are no longer of the
world. We've seen that we've been chosen
out of the world. Therefore, we can expect hatred from the
world. We now belong to the world's
enemy. Therefore, those in the world
hate us. So this should not be a surprise to us. He goes on
to say then in verse 20, you remember the word that I said
to you, a slave is not greater than his master. If they persecuted
me, they will also persecute you. If they kept my word, they
will keep yours also. In other words, however the world
treated Jesus, we can and should expect the same. We are now part
of him. We are now identified with him.
Christian pastors being jailed in foreign countries, not surprising. Missionaries being martyred,
Christians being humiliated in the news, false religions being
given preference so that they aren't offended while Christians
are told to shut up for offending others with the truth of God's
word. Don't be surprised at that. It's not shocking. It's what
Jesus told us was going to happen. This is what we can expect as
Christians. Before Jesus was even gone, before
he'd even died for our sins, he told us this is the way it's
gonna be. Hatred from the world comes along with the Christian
faith. Turn back to 1 John 3, if you're not there already.
We live in a hostile world. We live in enemy territory. That's
what's going on here, right? It'd be like walking around in
Nazi Germany in 1942 wearing a USA t-shirt, right? You would not be popular. Or
the other way around, wearing a Nazi Germany shirt in the United
States in 1942 would not be popular. Hatred will come from the world.
So back in 1 John 3, we see In verse 14, he again talks about
love as a defining characteristic for the believer. He says, we
know that we have passed out of death into life because we
love the brethren. And again, this is part of our
assurance as believers. This is part of how we can know
that we have eternal life. Remember how Paul put it in Ephesians
chapter two, talking about the spiritual condition that we were
in before we were saved. He says, you were dead in your
trespasses and sins in which you formerly walked according
to the course of this world. As believers in Jesus Christ,
we are no longer dead. We have passed out of death into
life because God has made us alive together with Christ. That
is a spiritual fact. How do we know that that has
actually taken place in us? How can we be sure? We're told
that. We're told that that's what happens. How do we know
that that happened with us? Well, one of those bits of evidence,
do we love the brethren? How do our actions show that
towards other believers? How do we behave around those
with whom we share in fellowship with Jesus Christ, with each
other, with those right here in this room? Do we love one
another? Now we're gonna leave that question
open for just a minute here and come back to it, right? Because
remember, John's circling around believer to unbeliever, believer
to unbeliever. So John is once again doing that back and forth
here between believers and unbelievers. And I wanna follow the unbeliever
theme here first, before coming back to what he says about believers.
So we see that the believer loves the brethren, but what does he
say at the end of verse 14? He says, he who does not love
abides in death. So the one who doesn't love,
doesn't manifest this love that he's talking about, abides in
death. And that's the same death that Paul's talking about in
Ephesians chapter two, you being dead in your trespasses and sins.
This is where the one who doesn't love continually dwells. He's
still in that state. He is lost in his sins. He's
never been made alive together with Christ. And John makes it
even more clear in verse 15, where he says, everyone who hates
his brother is a murderer. And you know that no murderer
has eternal life abiding in him. And here he's equating hatred
and murder, right? We see that, how are the two
the same? How can they be the same? You
think, well, you know, if I hate someone, I didn't actually kill
them. Well, murder is just the external action of what's already
in someone's heart. The one who hates is already
guilty before God, whether he's actually murdered anyone or not.
Turn over to Matthew chapter five with me. In Matthew chapter five, Jesus
is giving a sermon on the mount here and he's telling the multitudes
things that they never heard before, right? I told you that
we don't like new things, but when Jesus was here, he taught
new things, right? That was okay because he's the
one that could do it. But in Matthew 5, look down at
verse 21. He said there, you have heard
that the ancients were told you shall not commit murder and whoever
commits murder shall be liable to the court. Okay, that's an
easy one, right? That's a no brainer. Everybody knows this.
You don't murder. If you murder, you're liable
to the court. You're guilty, right? You're going to pay for
that. But then he takes it a step further,
verse 22. But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his
brother shall be guilty before the court. And whoever says to
his brother, you good for nothing shall be guilty before the Supreme
Court. And whoever says you fool shall be guilty enough to go
into the fiery hell. What he's showing here are all
the things that would be considered hatred, not loving your brother. If you have hatred towards your
brother, if you are under the same guilt, the same penalty
as if you murdered him. The reason is because sin is
an outward manifestation of what's in the heart. And in the heart
of those who do not belong to God, there is hatred. Just because
someone hasn't murdered anyone, They've only hated them, they're
not off the hook. That's not any better. They're
still abiding in death. They do not have eternal life
abiding in them. They aren't saved. If your propensity
is to hate others, especially believers, we're talking about
the context of believers here. If you have no desire to be around
believers, if you can only stand to be with the people in this
room for one hour a week, maybe two, and that's about it, then
that doesn't get you off the hook. You sit there and you say,
well, you know, I never heard it. I know I can be around them.
I don't want to be around them. I don't want to have anything
to do with them, but I didn't murder any of them. That doesn't
get you off the hook. That hatred, John says here,
makes you as guilty as a murderer anyway. Hatred is a manifestation
in the life of the one who is not saved, not of one who belongs
to the light. Now we've seen murder and we've
seen hatred, which is the equivalent of murder. But next John is gonna
talk about one that may seem more minor, right? Murder is
the big one, now we have hatred. And now we get down to one in
verses 16 and 17 here, where he starts to talk about indifference
or apathy. He says in verse 16, we know
love by this, that he laid down his life for us. And we ought
to lay down our lives for the brethren, but whoever has the
world's goods and sees his brethren in need and closes his heart
against him, how does the love of God abide in him? Now we're
going to deal with verse 17 first and come back to verse 16, right?
Because I'm, like I said, I want to focus on the unbelieving side
here for a minute. The contrasts. In verse 17, what do we see?
We see the one who has something that his brother needs. And he
does what with that knowledge? Oh, I know this person needs
something. I see that he has this great need. And what do
I do? Well, he withholds it from him.
He keeps it for himself. He doesn't give his brother what
he needs. They're being selfish with what they have. They're
being selfish against their brother who is in need. Now, selfishness
is not what true love is. In fact, again, that's the complete
opposite. True love, agape love, is love
that sacrifices, that gives of itself. Right here in verse 16,
the ultimate example of what love is, he laid down his life
for us. It's from that example that we
even know what love is. So when it comes to our brethren,
to those around us in need, and we are withholding even the most
basic essentials, we are closing our heart against them. We see
that need and we think, that's their problem. What is that saying
about us? That's the act of one who does
not love. That's the act of the world.
That's the act of those who are of their father, the devil or
children of the devil. The unbeliever would rather not
worry about anyone else unless it suits his own needs. The one
who doesn't have the love of God abiding in him does not show
love towards others. Now, as I mentioned before, this
gets a little harder for us, right? We might not have a problem
with wanting to murder someone. Oh, that doesn't, that's never
crossed my mind. Hopefully that's not something
we struggle with. Then we talk about hatred, the hatred thing,
and that might, well, you know, there's a, maybe there's one
or two people that I haven't, you know, not my favorite person
in the world. But then we come to indifference
and that might be something that's a little harder that we have
to work on. Is this something that may sound
like us? How do we respond to those around us who are in need?
As we look at our own lives and we contemplate that, let's go
back and see what John says does characterize believers, right
back up to verse 14. He says, we know that we have
passed out of death into life because we love the brethren. Okay, now look at verse 16. We
know love by this, that he laid down his life for us and we ought
to lay down our lives for the brethren. You see, we know that
we are saved. We know that we have passed out
of death into life because we love the brethren. That's our
test of salvation. What is love? Okay, I'm to love
the brethren, but what is love? What does it mean to love the
brethren? Well, look at the example. Look at the act by which we are
to know what love is in verse 16, that Jesus Christ laid down
his life for us. He went to the cross and died
for us. That's the type of love with
which he loved us. And if we are to love as Christ
loves, That's what we are to do. And because of that, and
the fact that we are now identified with him and we abide with him
and we are born of him, these are all things we've seen already
in this letter, what are we to be willing to do? Lay down our
lives for the brethren. That's a sacrificial love that
we're talking about. Now, of course, this isn't saying
that we all need to go out and die today, that we all lay on
the railroad tracks. No, that's not what he's saying
here. But he's using the most extreme example, right? We all
need to ask ourselves, what are we willing to do for one another? Or better yet, what would we
not be willing to do for one another? If we're to be willing
to give up our lives for each other, then what else would we
not be willing to give up? Are we willing to give up our
time, give up our property, give up money? Remember the believers
in the early church, they were selling their property for one
another, giving to anyone that had need. The needs in the early
church were great. There were many that were starving,
many who had lost everything because of their new faith in
Christ. Now, maybe we don't have all
that going on, but we have many in our midst who do have needs.
How are we willing to respond? Regardless of the specific circumstances
surrounding what was going on in the early church, the fact
remains believers had needs and their brothers and sisters in
Christ were willing to do whatever was necessary to love them as
they should. And that responsibility in the
church has not changed between then and now. Remember, love
is action, right? We sometimes sit there and we
say, we hear about people's needs, we tell them, okay, I'll pray
for you. And sometimes that phrase, we
should pray for them, I'm not saying we shouldn't pray for
them, but sometimes we use that phrase because we say, that's
my get off the hook phrase. That's great because essentially
when we pray for one another, we sit there and say, I can now
walk away feeling satisfied that, well, I've done all I can do. What are we willing to do out
of love to provide for others' needs? How can we go beyond praying
for them, feeling compassion for them, telling them that we're
pulling for you and actually serve them in some way? Our love
for one another ought to be sacrificial. It ought not to be modeled after
what the world says love is. Tell them that you love them
and then go about your business. No, it's to be modeled on what
God says that love is, on what God showed us that love is. Remember when we talked about
verse one of chapter three, the great love that God showed us
up in verse one. The phrase for great love was
a foreign or alien kind of love. It's a love that the world doesn't
even understand. Why would you do that for someone
else? Why would you love someone that way? It's almost beyond
comprehension. It's a love that has a willingness
to lay down everything that you have for the benefit of someone
else. Look at what John says in verse
18. This is the last verse we'll get to today. Little children,
let us not love with word or with tongue, but indeed in truth. Again, here is John's appeal
to believers. When all is said and done, how
are we as believers to love one another? with deed and action,
not just in word and tongue, not just, oh, you know, I feel
bad for you, I'll pray for you. We pray for them, again, not
belittling praying for them, we do that, but then what? We love them with deed and action,
action based on the truth of the word of God, not just by
lip service. That's true love. I can tell you I love you, but
if I never do anything for you, if I turn my back on you, if
I close my heart to you, then I am as guilty of that act as
Cain was in murdering Abel. There's no difference. They are
both acts devoid of love. A believer loves the brethren.
It's not just what we are able to do, it's what we're going
to do if we truly abide in Christ and we're truly saved. That's
one of the ways that we can know, have assurance of our salvation
if we have love for other believers. Let's close in a word of prayer
this morning. Dear Heavenly Father, we come to you, we thank you
Lord for this opportunity once again that we have to be in your
word and we thank you Lord for the truth that John is presenting
to us here. We thank you for these tests, Lord. And sometimes
as we look at these tests and they might make us uncomfortable,
they might make us squirm a bit, Lord. We just pray that we would
use that to spur us on, to make changes if we need to, Lord,
and just know that everything that we do as your children is
to be due to glorify and honor you. And I just pray, Lord, that
as we serve one another, as we love one another, Lord, seek
what's best for each other, that we would just honor you in that
way. And Lord, that we would just manifest that characteristic.
We thank you, Lord, for our time. Once again, we pray that as we
go into the next hour, that that would be a time that would honor
you as well. And Lord, we just pray these things in Jesus name.
Amen.
The Love of a True Christian
Series PBC Bible School
| Sermon ID | 93241446503503 |
| Duration | 56:05 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday School |
| Bible Text | 1 John 3:11-18 |
| Language | English |
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