Proverbs 20 verse 6 says, most
men will proclaim everyone his own goodness, but a faithful
man, who can find? There's a touch of irony here.
If everyone is good, why is it so hard to find a faithful man?
Obviously, it's because most men only fool themselves and
others into thinking that they're good. King David cried out in
Psalm 12, 1, Help, Lord, for the godly man ceaseth, for the
faithful fail from among the children of men. We can look
good when comparing ourselves with other men. But that's lowering
the bar, as we discussed in our previous proverb devotional. And even using that standard,
it proves the rule. If I compare myself to other
men, and I think I'm good in comparison, why is that? It's
because most men are worse than I am, and I know good and well
I'm not very good. So that demonstrates that men
are not inherently good, and the only reason I may come out
looking good is because most other men are not really good
at all. There's another point to consider,
and that's by asking, how are you defining the word good? Define
the word goodness for me. You see, most people today wouldn't
bat an eye, including abortionists who kill babies, mothers who
kill their babies, politicians who use tax money to kill babies,
and voters who elect the baby killers. They'll all be seen
as good by most people as long as they're not otherwise terrible
and doing horrible other things. When you define the word good
like that, you're not good. And the same goes for people
caught up in unrepentant, habitual sins of fornication, adultery,
pornography, sodomy, blasphemy, extortion, embezzlement, lies
and false witness, hatred and abuse, domestic violence, etc.,
etc., in a wicked society and culture where sin has been normalized. and called by other names like
an affair for adultery, or art for pornography, or love for
lust, or any other Orwellian-like abuse of the English language.
Isaiah 520 warns, woe unto them that call evil good and good
evil, that put darkness for light and light for darkness, that
put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter. And that perversion
of what it means to be good is what is behind the lack of faithful
men and women in modern culture and society, just as it was in
the days of growing apostasy during the reign of King Solomon,
when this proverb was written, and as it always is during times
of evil and apostasy. When wicked men are so deceived
as to think that they are good even in their wickedness, then
you'll find them unfaithful. And when wicked men make up the
mass majority of men in society, then finding a faithful man is
like finding a needle in a haystack. A faithful man who can find. And I have lovingly, patiently
confronted men through the years, and in nearly every case, they
simply try to justify themselves and declare their goodness, even
in the face of their blatant unfaithfulness to God or to a
spouse or to me or to others. In nearly every case, I hear
them tell it, I am just a self-serving jerk, or that person who's accusing
me, they're just mean. and they go along their merry
way to self-destruction and shipwreck, ignoring Isaiah 5.21 that goes
on to say, woe unto them that are wise in their own eyes and
prudent in their own sight. If you are faithfully serving
the Lord and being a faithful spouse or faithful parent or
faithful friend or in any capacity, thank God for enabling you in
spite of our nature towards sin and selfishness. As we are found
faithful, we give God the glory, because it is by the power of
His word that we are able to have any real goodness and bear
any good fruit. It's as Jesus said in Luke 8,
15, in the parable of the sower. He said, quote, but that On the
good ground are they, which in an honest and good heart, having
heard the word, keep it and bring forth fruit with patience." End
quote. Sometimes people mean well and
they'll compliment me on this or that that I'm doing in ministry
or the years of ministry. And I always tell them, give
thanks to God. It's only by his word and by
his spirit that you see what you see from me.