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Ready? If you would, turn to
Genesis chapter 30. In the second part of our study
on Jacob's family, we started way back with, well, I don't remember how far
back we started, really. We started with the Tower of
Babel. I remember we were going back there, but we'd been mostly
with Abraham and his descendants. Since, if you remember last time,
in the last chapter, in chapter 29, Jacob marries his uncle Laban,
who is his mother Rebecca's brother. His mother Rebecca's brother.
That's who Laban is. He married Laban to both of his
daughters. That wasn't Jacob's will. It was obviously God's will,
because that's how it plays out. But Jacob loved Rachel greatly. And Rachel loved Jacob. But Leah
was kind of thrown into the mix. first because she was the oldest
daughter of Laban, and Laban desired to have his oldest daughter
married first, and that's kind of how it was in that day. You
didn't want, it was kind of a shame on the family if the oldest daughter
was an old maid, as we call them today. Well, maybe we don't call
them that today, but it hadn't been too many generations back
that that's what they were referred to. A woman who went through
life without being married, was referred to as an old maid. In
their day and time, it was a shame on the family. And they didn't
want that. Laban didn't want that. And so
to keep that from happening, he switches the two daughters
on the wedding night, just before the honeymoon is to begin. At some point in there, and Jacob
is tricked into marrying Leah first. If you remember the story there,
he had worked for seven years to win Rachel's hand in marriage,
and is tricked at the last moment into marrying Leah. He wakes
up the next morning and finds out it's Leah that he's consummated
the marriage with. And then he approaches Laban
about this, gives him a good tongue lashing over it, and in
request that Laban let him work another seven years for Rachel. So he's going to have two wives. We saw where Leah began having children first. Rachel was barren and Leah We see, as Leah begins having
sons, we see their names. If you remember, we noticed that
Leah, the mother, is the one who names these sons. As it is,
once Rachel begins having children, it's the same way with her. The
women begin to name the sons. And we see, to start off with,
we recognize these names. These sons will be the 12 tribes
of Judah. They're the heads of the 12 tribes
of Judah. And the 12 tribes of Israel,
however you want to put it. But Jacob will have 12 sons. He'll also have a daughter. We won't study much about her
today. Her story is just mentioned. Her birth is mentioned. That's
about all we see today in today's chapter. We'll get to her later
on. And matter of fact, his 12th
son is not born until chapter 35. And so we won't get into
him until then. That's Benjamin. And not only You know, we see Leah
right off gives Jacob four sons. They're in the end of the last
chapter. And Rachel, like I said, is barren. She doesn't give him any at first. It's not until the end of chapter
30 that she bears a son. But there's other things that
happen between now and then. things that are similar to what we've seen
with Abraham and Sarah. Because of the jealousy between
the two wives, the two sisters, they persuade Jacob into things
that he shouldn't have done, at least This is what we, at
least what we see is scripturally, he shouldn't have none. And we
know even in that it's still God's purpose. God has a purpose
in it because everything that happens is for a reason. And we see later on the reason
when you get into the history of Israel. So let's start with
verse one in chapter 30. And when Rachel saw that she
bared Jacob no children, Rachel envied her sister. Envy is kind
of a mild word there, but what he's saying is she was jealous.
And she said unto Jacob, give me children or else I die. Now
is it Jacob's fault that she's barren? Is there anything he
can do about it? Absolutely not. It's not like
they had surgeons that could perform a procedure and open
her womb in that day. There was This was of God. And Jacob knows this. Notice
the next verse. And Jacob's anger was kindled against Rachel. So
if we see their first marriage spat, don't we? And
it's over children, or the lack of children. And Jacob's anger
was kindled against Rachel. And he said, am I in God's stead? Can I, am I God? In other words,
he says, am I God? Can I fix this? I can't help
you with that. And who has withheld from the
fruit of the womb? It's God. Jacob knows. It's God.
God is the one that's caused this, not me. They've been trying
to have children since the day they were married. And because
Leah has given him four sons already, Rachel is now jealous.
And what's Rachel's solution for the problem? And she said,
behold, my maid, Bilhah, go in unto her, and she shall bear
upon my knees that I may also have children by her. And she
gave him, Bilhah, her handmaid, to wife, and Jacob went in unto
her. Where have we seen this before?
Rebekah, I'm sorry, not Rebekah, Sarah, and Hagar. Remember Sarah and Hagar, which
brought about the birth of Ishmael. Now the difference here is the
children that Jacob's going to have with this handmaid over
at Rachel's, and then later he's going to have children with Leah's
handmaid also. The difference is the sons from
these two are not going to go off and be the wicked people
that Ishmael was and not be the, they're not gonna be fighting
against Israel for generations to come. They're gonna be part
of Israel. Now, we'll do a study at some point in this on these
12 sons and we'll see where their tribes wind up and what part
they play in Israel later, but that's for a future time. But
we see, notice it says, she gave him, Bilhah, her handmaid to
wife. So he marries her. He doesn't,
this is not out of fornication. Remember these are godly, are
supposed to be godly people. They don't always act like godly
people, but they're They've been taught godly ways. And the ways,
the traditions, the godly traditions of their day was, you know, just
like in our day, that this part of God's law has not changed.
It was there before, from the beginning with Adam and Eve and
all the way to now, a man and a woman are not to
have children at a wedlock. That goes against God's teaching.
So the only way that this is, At least in their eyes, the only
way that this is going to work is if he marries this handmaid. Same way, remember, Abraham married
Hagar. Hagar was, even though she was
later referred to as a concubine, in the beginning of that story
she was referred to as his wife. He went into her as a wife. Sarah
did the same thing. She gave Hagar to Abraham as
a wife. And another tradition they had
in their day, and this goes back even further than these stories we've been
reading, the tradition in their day also was as if a man and
a woman, a wealthy man and a woman specifically, who had handmaidens
and servants, if the wife was barren and couldn't have children,
oftentimes she would give one of her handmaids to, and sometimes
more than one handmaid, to her husband as a surrogate mother,
and the mother, the wife, would raise the children as her own.
That was a common thing in their day. So it works two different
ways here. They're going by the worldly
tradition, but they're also trying to make it legal in God's eyes
also by him marrying her. Again, though, remember this
is how God planned for the 12 tribes of Israel. This is not
something that they sprung on God at the last minute. God planned
it this way. This is his providence. Some
would say, well, they did this out of out of God's will, but this was
God's will for this to happen. And we notice in verse 5, Bilhah
will be conceived and bear Jacob a son. So right off she gives
Jacob a son. How do you think Rachel feels
but now? Even her handmaid can have children, but she can't.
Psychologically, that's got to be playing on Rachel. You know,
her sister, who we saw where Jacob hated her, to start with, and loved Rachel. And it appears,
as we go through this story, it appears that Jacob spends
a whole lot more time with Rachel than he does Leah. And certainly
more than he does his handmaidens. But, look who he's having children
with. Not with Rachel, but these other
women. And so, that's gotta be playing
on Rachel's mind. Anyway, Bill Hall conceives and
bears Jacob a son and Rachel said, God hath judged me and
hath also heard my voice and hath given me a son. Therefore
called his name Dan. Notice she says, God hath judged
me. God has, she thinks God has blessed
her. Not only has he judged her by
not giving her children, whether she thinks it's a curse or whatever,
but he also has heard her voice. She says, he's heard my cries,
he's heard my prayers, and he's given me a son. But it's not
her son. It's her handmaid's son. The
only thing that makes it her son is the fact that she has
used her handmaid as a surrogate. And her, because she owns the
handmaid, the handmaid's her servant, even though she's Jacob's
other wife, now Rachel thinks she has a son.
And she calls his name Dan, another name of one of the tribes. And
Bill Hall, Rachel's maid, conceived again, and bared Jacob a second
son. And Rachel said, with great wrestlings,
have I wrestled with my sister and I have prevailed. And she
called his name Neftali. So she brings up her sister's
situation now. She's like, my sister, she's
wrestled with this, she's prayed for God for children, and yet
Leah has had children, but Rachel hasn't. Now she's having children
by her handmaid, and is getting to, you know, she's the one naming
these sons, not the sons, these boys, it's not their mother,
it's Rachel that's getting to name them, and it appears Rachel
will be the one who raises them. When Leah saw that she had left
Bering, and if you remember, back in the last verse of chapter
29, it says, in the last part of that verse, it says, after
she'd had her fourth son, it says, It says, therefore, she
called his name Judah and left barren. So at that time, Rachel,
for whatever reason, now she's barren. Not Rachel, Leah. Leah is now barren. So she's
not able to have children at this point in time. But after
Rachel does what she does and has Jacob marry her handmaid,
and he has two children by her, Then Leah, it says, when Leah
saw that she had left bearing, she took Zilpah, her maid, and
gave her Jacob to wife. So now Jacob's got four wives.
Now, in the beginning, he had two wives with the same mother-in-law. Now he's got four wives with
three mother-in-laws. Well, they're servants, so maybe
their mother-in-laws weren't around. We don't know. And he says, and Zilpah, Leah's maid, bared
Jacob a son. He's having a bunch of sons,
isn't he? And Leah said, a troop cometh. And she called his name
Gad. And Zilpah, Leah's maid, bared
Jacob a second son. So he's got four. by Leah, two by Bilhah, and now
two by Zilpah. He's got eight sons so far. Leah's maid bear Jacob a second
son. And Leah said, happy am I, for
the daughters will call me blessed. And she called his name Asher.
Now, I I know this is a tradition in their day for what they're
doing right here. But it's almost as though Rachel
and Lee are in competition with each other now. Let's see who
can have the most children. Well, because they're both unable
to have children, okay, well, let's give them our handmaids
and we'll claim their children. I often wondered how these handmaids
felt about this because they just lost their sons. They had
to go through all the pains of the pregnancy And certainly you would think
when they consummated their marriages with Jacob, they had to have
some feelings for him. But now his first two wives,
these two sisters, are fighting and using these two handmaids
as pawns in their game to have more children. Because they can't
have any children now. But remember, all this is in
the Lord's plans. Whether we understand it or not,
while this is going on, this is in the Lord's hands. And he
will use all of these signs in the future for a purpose. And
Reuben, the oldest, remember, he is the oldest of Leah's and
the oldest of Jacob's sons, went in the days of wheat harvest
and found mandrakes in the field and brought them unto his mother
Leah. Then Rachel said to Leah, give me, I pray thee, of thy
son's mandrakes. Now, Reuben, from what I'm understanding,
couldn't have been more than four, five, six years old at
this time. I don't understand that, that's
what I read. But if he had four sons, or if there was three brothers
younger than him from Leah, That means he would have had, that
don't even make any sense. Like I said, I read that in a
commentary when I was studying this and I'm like, that don't
make any sense because, and that's why I warn everybody about commentaries. Make sure it's with God's word
because if he's only four or five years old, then how does
all this, where are all these other brothers playing to this?
All this happens This is all happening in order. So he's got
to be much older than that. He could be even as much as a
teenager, a young teenager. So be careful about that. But Reuben, in the days of the
wheat harvest, which would be in the spring in that part of
the world, These mandrakes, and from what
I'm understanding, these mandrakes that are mentioned here, and
I'm not familiar with mandrakes, I don't think I've ever seen
them, but they say that what we have today that are called
mandrakes are not the same as what we see in the scripture,
because what we have today, they don't smell that nice, and the
fruit that comes from them is not edible for humans. Here,
these mandrakes are similar to what we see in in the Song of
Solomon, they're mentioned there. The flowers were very fragrant
and sweet smelling. The fruit was very edible. As
a matter of fact, in their day, they considered the fruit to
be something that would, at least
they claimed anyway, they scientifically didn't know, but they claimed
that a woman who was barren who would eat this fruit, make her
fertile. And so, some say that because
Rachel was begging Leah for some of these mandrakes, that she
was hoping that these mandrakes would make her fertile so she
could have children. In verse 15, and she said unto
her, Is it a matter, or is it a small matter, that thou hast
taken my husband? This is Leah speaking. And what
is, they'll take away my son's mandrakes also. And Rachel said,
therefore, he shall lie with thee tonight for thy son's mandrakes. So, Leah is starting to fight
back here with Rachel. She tells her, you stole my husband. Remember, Leah's the first wife.
Now, who stole whose husband? In all reality, Leah stole Rachel's
husband. Because Rachel was supposed to
be, according to Jacob, Rachel was supposed to be his wife.
His only wife. That's the one he wanted. But
Leah took her place. She's accusing Rachel of taking
her husband. And she's like, and now you want
my son's mandrakes. You got my husband, now you want
You want his, whether it was the flowers or the fruit, whichever
he was bringing to her, you want those too. So you can give them
to my husband is the way she's thinking. And Rachel said, therefore
he shall lie with thee tonight for thy son's mandrakes. She
makes a deal with her. Give me the mandrakes. And again, if
this is true about what they thought in that day, that mandrakes
would make her fertile, Rachel's like, give me the mandrakes and
I'll make sure Jacob spends time with you tonight. So that tells
us that Jacob was spending more time with Rachel than he was
Leah. In verse 16, Jacob came out of
the field in the evening. And Leah went out to meet him
and said, Thou must come in unto me, for surely I have hired thee
with my son's mandrakes And he lay with her that night. So she
paid him off. In other words, paid off her
sister to get to be with her own husband. And she makes no qualms about
it. She tells Jacob what's happened. And God hearkened unto Leah.
Again, this is God's plan. And she conceived. Remember,
she had been barren for a time. And bared Jacob, the fifth son.
So now Jacob has five sons just with Leah. That's not counting
the other two from each of the maidens, the handmaidens. And then it says, and Leah said,
God hath given me my hire because I have given my maiden to my
husband, and she called his name Issachar. So she recognizes that God has
blessed her, but she thinks it's because of her being generous
and giving Jacob her handmaiden. That doesn't make any sense,
does it? But that's what she says. Isn't that the way when
we do something wrong and then God blesses us afterwards? We
think that he blessed us for the wrong thing. Maybe he blessed
her for something else. Or maybe it's because God is
using her to build his nation Israel too. And it's not really,
not necessarily a blessing towards her, but it is in a roundabout
way, I guess, because he's given her another son with Jacob. But
also, this is God's plan to build his great nation. And Leah conceived again and
bared Jacob the sixth son. So now he's got ten sons. Six with Leah and four from the
two handmaidens. And Leah said, God hath endued
me with a good dowry. She's got a full family now. Six sons with Jacob. Now will
my husband dwell with me, because I have borne him six sons, and
she called his name Zebulun." So she thinks because she's had
more sons, well actually she's had sons and Rachel hasn't had
any yet, but she thinks because she's had a good, given her husband
a good family, a good stock of sons, that he'll begin to favor
her now. She says, now will my husband
dwell with me? But that's not so, is it? Jacob
still favors Rachel. And afterwards, she bear a daughter
and called her name Dinah. So we see now he has a daughter. This is the one and only daughter
that Jacob will have. He'll have 12 sons eventually.
and one daughter. And again, like I said, we will
get more into Dinah's story later in another chapter, but this
is all that's mentioned about her now. And God remembered Rachel. Now we turn back to Rachel. And
God remembers Rachel. And God hearkened to her and
opened her womb. So now all of a sudden, Rachel's
able to have a son. How? by the miracle of God. And she conceived and bare a
son and said, God has taken away my reproach. And she called his
name Joseph and said, the Lord shall add to me another son. And Joseph, remember, will become
famous over the coat of many colors. all the things he went
through in Egypt. That's a study for another time.
But also notice she says, the Lord shall add to me another
son. She's expecting another son from the Lord. And she'll
get another son, but it comes a few chapters later in chapter
35. Now, Jacob has a house full of
kids. And a house full of wives, too,
if you want to look at it that way. Four wives and 12 kids. He's got 11 sons and one
daughter. Remember the 12th son, the final
one in the 12 tribes doesn't come until later. So don't get
confused here. He's got 12 children, but one
of them is a daughter right now. And it comes to pass when Rachel
had born Joseph, that Jacob said unto Laban, send me away that
I may go into my own place and to my country. Remember, we've
been studying all this about Jacob, but remember where he
comes from. He comes from the land of Canaan, where his grandfather
Abraham was and where his father Isaac was. Isaac's still back
there. He hasn't died yet. So Jacob wants to go home. Why? Well, remember, he's birthright. He's supposed to inherit all
that Isaac has. And he knows this. He's raised
a family. How long has this been? Well,
we know he spent seven years working for Laban the first time.
He spent another seven years working for Laban for Rachel
the second time. And now he's had all these children.
And the oldest one, Reuben, he's got to be at least a teenager
by now. So he's been with Laban, been there in the land of Horan
for a long time. So I would guess 25, 30 years
would be my guess. I don't know, maybe somebody
has researched that out. I don't know, but I'm sure they
have. But he's been there quite a while. But now it's time to
go home. He's got his family, he's got
his people prepared, his descendants, his seed. And now he's ready
to go back and claim what God has promised him. He says, give
me my wives and my children, for whom I have served thee.
And let me go, for thou knowest my service, which I have done
thee." So he's worked for Laban all this time. And Laban first
paid him back with Leah, second paid him back with Rachel. Now
that he's got all these wives and kids, he's ready to go back
home. He's been working for Laban all
this time, even after the seven years he spent working for Rachel
twice, that's 14 years. He's raised his family, and as
soon as Joseph's born, it's not the last one, but as soon as
Joseph's born, the youngest is born, he's ready to go back home. He goes to Laban, his father-in-law,
and he's like, I need to be released. He's been like an indentured
servant almost. He's been working for Laban all
this time. Laban's let him live with him, fed him, took care
of him. He said, it's time to go. And
Laban said unto him, I pray thee, if I have found favor in thine
eyes, tarry, for I have learned by experience that the Lord hath
blessed me for thy sake. So Laban realizes that Jacob
has been a blessing to him because of God. How? Well, we'll see in a moment where
Jacob has been the one who has taken care of Laban's flocks
and his herds of cattle, his flocks of sheep and goats and
his herds of cattle. And he's made him a prosperous
man, made him a rich man. And he said, appoint me thy wages
and I will give it. So Laban's willing to pay him.
Tell me what I owe you and we'll let you go. And he said unto
him, Thou knowest how I have served thee, and how thy cattle
was with me. For it was little which thou
hast before I came, and it is now increased unto a multitude.
He's got a big ranch now. He started off with a small farm,
and now he's got a big ranch. For it was little which thou
hast before I came, and it is now increased unto a multitude,
And the Lord hath blessed thee since my coming, and now when
shall I provide for mine own house also? Jacob's not necessarily looking
for money. He wants part of what he's worked for, which is the
cattle and the sheep and the goats. And we'll see that. He wants to be able to provide
for his family. And he said, What shall I give
thee? This is Laban speaking. And Jacob
said, Thou shalt not give me anything if thou wilt do this
thing for me. I will again feed and keep thy
flock. Now watch, what he's about to
do is something that's not going to take a short time. This is
going to take a few more years for this all to happen. We read
this and we think, well, this happened right away. No. If you
know anything about animals, What Jacob's going to wind up
doing is breeding his own herd. He's going to take from Laban's
herd and build his own herds and his own flocks. That takes
time. You know, animals, when they have a period of pregnancy,
just like people do, it takes time. You don't get baby calves
and baby sheep overnight. I will pass through all thy flock
today, removing from thence all the speckled and spotted cattle,
and all the brown cattle among the sheep, and the spotted and
speckled among the goats, and of such shall be my hire." So
he's going to take all the blemished animals, in other words. Remember,
their goal in that day was to have perfect animals. Why? Because
that's what they used for their sacrifices. It was a goal of
theirs to have as perfect animals as possible. And how did you
produce perfect animals? You bred perfect animals to each
other, and that's how you produced. So if you had a speckled cow, more than likely she's going
to produce a speckled calf. Same way today. That's how it
works. If you had two that were unblemished, whether they were
red, black, or white, whatever, as long as they they had no speckles
on them, as long as they were all one color, then you had something to offer
to God for a sacrifice. You couldn't offer a speckled
animal to God for a sacrifice. So Jacob's actually helping Laban
out here. He's going to pull out all of
the marred animals out of his flocks and herds and keep them
for himself, which means Laban's going to have all purebred or
good bred animals. And he says, so shall my righteousness
answer for me in time to come, when it shall come from my hire
before thy face, every one that is not speckled and spotted among
the goats and brown among the sheep that shall be counted stolen
with me. And Laban said, behold, I would
it might be according to that word." The laborer agrees to
it. He's like, okay, let's do that.
That sounds like a good idea. And he removed that day the he-goats
that were ring-starked and spotted, and all the she-goats that were
speckled and spotted, and everyone that had some white in it and
all the brown on the sheep, and gave them into the hand of his
sons. So Jacob gives all these into
the hands of his sons, and his sons begin to sort them out from
Laban's herds. And he set three days' journey
between himself and Jacob, and Jacob fed the rest of Laban's
flocks. So they separate three days' distance. So why? So they
can't mix together. You get three days apart, it's
going to be hard for them to go back to each other. And that
happens even today. You know, when you go to herding
cattle or sheep or goats, When they've grown up together and
they get used to running together, it's hard to separate them. You
separate them, you've got to put several miles between them
before they'll not have the desire to run back. And so that's what
they've done here. They've separated out Jacob's
animals from Laban's. And yet, you see Jacob still
goes back and helps Laban feed his flocks. He's still working
for Laban. He hasn't left yet. And Jacob
took him rods of green poplar and of the hazel and chestnut
tree and piled white stakes in them and made the white appear,
which is in the rods. So what he did, he took sticks
or but what we might call post today, and he stripped the bark
off of them. That's where the white comes from, because if
you strip the bark off a tree, it's somewhat white. And he set
the rods which he had piled before the flocks in the gutters in
the watering troughs when the flocks came to drink that they
should conceive when they came to drink. So they had watering
troughs. He builds what's similar to what
we would call a corral. He gets them together. He builds
a big pen for them and turns the bulls or the rams in
with the herd to breed the cows and the sheep. And it says, the flocks conceived
before the rods and brought forth cattle, ring-straked, speckled,
and spotted. And Jacob did separate the lambs
and set the faces of the flocks toward the ring-straked, and
all the brown in the flock of Laban. And he put his own flocks
by themselves and put them not unto Laban's cattle. So he made
sure his flocks and his animals didn't mix in a breed with Laban's,
to keep Laban's pure, all of one color. And again, Jacob takes
all those that are spotted, those that are blemished. And it came
to pass, whensoever the stronger cattle did conceive, that Jacob
laid the rods before the eyes of the cattle in the gutters,
that they might conceive among the rods. And the reason for
this is when they come to drink and they get full of water and
of food, whatever they have there, they calm down and they begin
to do their thing, basically. And when the cattle were feeble,
he put him not in. So the feebler were Laban's and
the stronger, Jacob's. Now, we see what he does here.
Jacob kind of connives his way and tricks Laban into taking
the weaker cattle, doesn't he? And he keeps the stronger ones.
What's the purpose in that? Well, he's about to take a journey.
Remember, he's about to go back home to Canaan. And so he needs
all the stronger animals to go with him. You don't want a bunch
of weak cattle on a cattle drive because they wind up dying on
you. And a man increased exceedingly, and had much cattle, and maid
servants, and men servants, and camels, and asses. Now Jacob's
a wealthy man. He's just come out from under
Laban's servitude himself, and now he's got, it says, he has
much cattle, he's got maid servants, he's got man servants, He's got
camels. He's got a small army here of
people and a small start to a ranch. He's got camels and asses. They're
ready to go. He's got everything he needs
now to go back to Canaan and to start his life and to get
a good footing for his family. We're going to stop there for
this morning. Next time, we'll see Jacob's leaving and his travels
back to Canaan with his family. And actually, if you look, if you look in The next chapter,
chapter 31, verse 38. He says, this is Jacob speaking,
and he's speaking to Laban. This tells us how long Jacob
was with Laban. This 20 years have I been with
thee. Jacob was with, at that point in time, was with Laban
20 years. So I said 25 or 30 earlier, but
I was wrong in that. He was actually there 20 years. So we'll look more at the ages
and the time and all that next time. And we'll get all that
straightened out. So that's all.
Jacob's Family: Part 2
Series Stories in the Bible
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