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There never was a sweeter melody,
it's the melody of love. I love the Christ who died on
Calvary. Oh, he washed my sins away. He put within my heart a melody. And I know it's time to sing
in my right hand. with me Amen. Please remain standing
for prayer this morning. Brother James Benson, would you pray
for us, please? Heavenly Father, we thank you for the opportunity
to be in your house today and worship you. Bless the service. Have a good time in your house
this morning. Amen. And thank you. May we see you
unless you celebrate a birthday or anniversary. We'd like to recognize you at
this time. and return they come and see
you and return they do Well, it's good to be in the
Lord's house today and to have each one of you with us. A few
things from the bulletin. We've got the men's recharge
happening this week. And so guys, we're looking forward
to that. We'll be having a meeting following
the afternoon service about going down to recharge. And so that's
Friday, Saturday. If you have any questions, the
meeting after the afternoon service would be a great time to ask
those. There'll be a ladies dinner.
on Friday night at Sombrero's at six o'clock. All ladies invited
to go to that. And then we've got revival scheduled
next Sunday. I don't know who put this schedule
together. He's kind of crazy. But we've got Brother Harold
Wells with us. It'll be Sunday through Wednesday.
Looking forward to having them with us. Sunday will be regular
service hours, and then Monday through Wednesday will be seven
o'clock each evening. So I'd encourage you, if you
haven't already been praying about that, to definitely be
praying and expecting God to work in our lives. Outreach October
7th at 9 o'clock and Then continue to pray for the repair process.
It's good to have Gus and Allie with us and good to see The work
that they've been able to get done. We're not staring at Studs
any longer and we're not having snow fall out of the ceiling
So we sure praise God for the progress pray for safety You
know, we don't want anyone jumping off the scaffolding or falling
off the scaffolding, any of that kind of stuff, and so we should
praise God for the work that's been going on. It's good to be
together today, and the Lord bless you for being here. Gonna
have Brother Foster come back, lead us in a song, then I'll
be introducing our speaker. Sing hymn number 131, Christ
is all I need. Christ is all I need. Christ
is all I need. All, all I need. is all I need. Amen. Well, it's our honor to have
Brother Roy with us again this year. Brother John Roy pastors
in Phoenix, Arizona, and we sure appreciate the ministry that
God's given him. Brother Roy, if you wouldn't
mind coming, reintroduced wife. Thank you very much. All right. Well, it is good to be back with
you. It's just over. Well, just shy of a year ago,
we had the opportunity to be here, had a wonderful time at
the men's recharge. And I do have my wife with me,
Rachel, over here sitting with Kira. And then I have my son,
Hayden. He is with us. We have five children.
He is our second child. He is going to be turning 16
this week. We miss his birthday almost every
year. We're away for the Global Independent Baptist Fellowship
meeting that's taking place in St. Joe. And so we took him along
this year because of 16. He's, you know. able to drive
and so forth and all those different things and so grateful to have
him with us as well. If you would, go ahead and take
your Bibles, turn to 1 Corinthians chapter 13, 1 Corinthians chapter
number 13. I do appreciate the theme that
you have this year, faithful and Pray that is your desire, and
we're going to look at a verse right around that area as well
in just a moment. But 1 Corinthians 13, verse 1,
the Word of God says this, Though I speak with the tongues of men
and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass
or a tinkling cymbal. Though I have the gift of prophecy
and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though
I have all faith so that I could remove mountains and have not
charity, I am nothing. Though I bestow my goods to feed
the poor, and though I give my body to be burned and have not
charity, it profiteth me nothing. Charity suffereth long and is
kind. Charity envieth not. Charity vaunteth not itself,
is not puffed up, doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not
her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil, rejoiceth not
in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth, beareth all things,
believeth all things, hopest all things, endureth all things. Charity never faileth. Now, chapter 12 of this book
ends with verse 31, but covet earnestly the best gifts, and
yet shall I unto you a more excellent way. Paul is writing to this
church at Corinth here, and he's trying to get the church to understand
that God gives gifts to a church, gives gifts to individuals to
use for the glory of God. Now he's writing to them and
saying, covet the best gifts. That doesn't mean that I want
to say, okay, this is the best gift in the church, the gift
of preaching, the gift of singing, the gift of teaching, whatever
it is. He is saying, covet the best
gifts. Well, the greatest gifts a person is given is what God
has given them. And so to covet the best gifts
would be to covet what God would want for you and God would have
for you. Now we should desire to do our
best for the glory of God and for others that there always
will be those though in ministry or in life that might be better
at things than us. I mean, there's people that can
sing really well. There's people that can preach.
There's people that can just they just have a a love and outgoing
spirit. I mean, God gives different individuals
different gifts. But there's one gift that I believe
every Christian has and needs to develop that gift. And that
is the gift of charity. Now, love and charity. Now, this
often chapter 13 of 1 Corinthians is often called the love chapter.
And you know, there's a difference though between love and charity. They're two different concepts.
Love is an intense feeling of affection for something with
pleasing qualities, beauty, or worth. Okay, so I love something. You know, I come to Kansas and
I love barbecue. So I went to Joe's Barbecue,
first thing, in the gas station, and we were, you know, it's 11
o'clock in the morning, what's better to have at 11 o'clock
in the morning than Joe's Barbecue, right? And so we went there,
and I love barbecue, so we ate barbecue, and had it even since. But charity is this, benevolence
to others less fortunate than ourselves. So charity is providing
goods or encouragement to others and encouragement to somebody
in need. So charity may need to suffer
or face things it does not prefer. So you'd say, I love something,
I love an individual. Well, sometimes when you love
an individual, but don't show charity to an individual, when
that person does something against us, then we don't love them anymore. We say, you know, people have
said this, I've had people in my office, well, we've just fallen
out of love for each other. Well, charity and love are two
different concepts, because love often is, well, I love something,
and the next time, I don't love something. Well, charity is loving
at all times. Charity may need to suffer or
face things that it does not prefer, but it does rejoice in
the truth to benefit others. Now, look back with me at chapter
one of 1 Corinthians, and notice what the word of God says in
verse number seven. 1 Corinthians 1... Sorry, that's not the verse I
want. Okay, that's not the verse I
want down. I wrote it down last night and
I was reading a different verse. Here it is, verse 1. Paul called
to be an apostle of Jesus Christ through the will of God to Sothenus
our brother unto the church of God which is at Corinth to them
that are sanctified in Christ Jesus called to be saints with
all that are in every place call upon the name of the Lord Jesus
Christ both heirs and ours. Grace be to you and peace from
our Lord Jesus Christ and from the and from the Lord Jesus Christ. I thank God always on your behalf
for the grace of God which is given you by Jesus Christ, that
in everything ye are enriched by him in all utterance and in
all knowledge, even as a testimony of Christ was confirmed in you.
so that you come behind in no gift, waiting for the coming
of our Lord Jesus Christ. So he's saying in verse number
seven, so that you come behind in no gift. So he's saying that
the church at Corinth was a very gifted people. Okay, so there
was nobody that he knew of that was more gifted than the church
at Corinth. They were gifted, and Paul gave
them that. And Paul said, it's by the grace
of God that you're gifted. Now, they were greatly blessed
in many areas. They were not lacking in gifts. I mean, they had the abilities
to know things that others did not know and do things that others
could not do, but they had fallen in love with their gifts. And
gifts does not equal godly. Okay, gifts, just because a person
has a lot of gifts in ministry or in life doesn't necessarily
mean they're godly. What is true Christianity? True
Christianity in this passage of scripture is really defined
for us. One writer said it like this,
the acid test of genuine Christianity is not language, but love or
charity. I remember when I worked at a
jewelry store growing up I started working there when I was 15 and
I started working with jewelry and different people would bring
jewelry in to sell or say okay I want to find out if this is
real it might have had a 14k stamped on it but anybody could
do that and so we would have a test kit to test if that was
real. And so you would scratch a little
piece off and put a chemical on it and the reaction would
tell you if it's real, if it's solid, if it's bladed, and so
forth. And so the acid test of that
would tell it if it was real. I mean, think about that. If
someone was to scrape away the outside of our gifts, If somebody
was to scrape away the outside of our looks, what would they
see in our life that is real, that is genuine? You see, the
word charity here is agape love. Agape love is very clear. It's clear in the sense that
this, that Jesus Christ loves us, right? That is agape love. It's a clear love. It was a love
that Jesus Christ, or God had for sinners, for God so loved
the world that he gave his only begotten son. So that is a giving
love, a sacrificial love. That's what he's talking about
here. Charity is that kind of love. Now, it's clear, it's commanded,
but it's also challenging in our life. Because oftentimes
we are commanded to love, we are commanded to be charitable,
but it's not as easy as it sounds. Because times call for the different
things in our life and we're saying, hey, this person hasn't
treated me well, how can I respond to that? Well, sometimes it's
not as easy as it sounds to respond right to somebody who's done
wrong to you, right? So it's not gonna be easy to
do, but it's loving as God loves. So when Paul tells him in chapter
12 to covet the best gifts, he says in verse number one of chapter
13, though I speak with the tongues of men, and of angels, and have
not charity, I'm become as sounding brass or a tinkling cymbal. So
what is he saying here? He's saying this. If I have this
great knowledge, if I have this great tongue to speak, and though
I have all knowledge, he says, I'm become as sounding brass
or a tinkling cymbal. He's a bunch of noise. You're
making a bunch of noise, but it doesn't have an effect on
anything. Years ago there was a commercial,
and it was a commercial about a Tide pin. And a Tide pin, anybody
know what I'm talking about? A Tide pin would be if you got
a spot on your shirt or whatever. So this man, I believe the setting
is, it's an old commercial, the setting is this man goes in for
an interview at an office, and he's trying to be interviewed
for a job, and he's got this spot on his shirt. And every
time this man answers a question, the guy that's listening to it,
he sees the spot on the shirt and it's like bleh, bleh, bleh,
bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh,
bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh,
bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh,
bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh,
bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, bleh, ble trying to explain something and
he can't explain it or he can't say it because the person is
just focused on the stain on his shirt. It's kind of like
when you talk to somebody and they got something in their teeth
or whatever, you're like, should I tell them? I don't know if
I should tell them. Should I let them know? I mean, and you don't
even know what they're saying because they got a big piece
of broccoli in their teeth. And then you're like, why didn't
you tell me I had some broccoli in my teeth? You know what I'm
talking about? I mean, that's kind of like the thought here. Here's a person that says, I'm
a Christian. I'm saved, I'm on my way to heaven,
I love God, and we can say all of those things, but if it doesn't
show in our lives, the Bible says yours become a sounding
brass or a tinkling cymbal. You make a lot of noise, but
somebody doesn't see it for real. Somebody doesn't experience it
in your life. And so Paul is saying, Church
at Corinth, you have a lot of gifts. You've been given a lot
of abilities in your life, but you make a lot of noise, but
you don't make a lot of sense. See, The first three verses here,
he talks about genuine Christianity. He says, though I have the gift
of prophecy and understand all mysteries, and though I have
knowledge that I have all faith so I could remove mountains,
and though I have and have not charity, I am nothing. You see, there's a difference
between what you say you are and what you are. And Paul is
saying to this church, you're not going to be an effective
church just by what you say. You're going to be an effective
church by what you do and how you respond. And people need
to see a church or a people that is full of charity, full of compassion,
full of love, finding somebody who's unlovable and loving them. Finding somebody who doesn't
have the abilities that you have, but trying to encourage them
in the things of the Lord. You see, Paul had to come a long
way with this. You see, Paul didn't have time for people who,
at one point in his ministry and in his life, he didn't have
time for people who fell by the wayside or messed up. Remember
when the contention in Acts chapter 15, I believe it was, that Paul
and Barnabas, there was contention between them because Barnabas
wants to bring John Mark with him, and Paul says, I don't want
to bring him with me, because he left us before. I don't have
time for that. Now, Barnabas could have said
something like this. Hey, Paul, remember, nobody wanted you in
Acts chapter 9, but I took you. You see, Barnabas was an encourager.
Barnabas was the one that was trying to strengthen somebody.
And so the Bible says the contention was so sharp with them that Paul
went his way with Paul and Silas. You read about them in Acts chapter
16. And Barnabas and John Mark go the other way. Now, Paul had
to come a long way in his ministry and in his life because Paul
was not always easy to get along with. You see, Paul was so sold
out, like, hey, when my life was changed on the road to Damascus,
I don't have time for people who are going to be babies in
the Christian walk. I want to just get going. His
zeal was great, but also he had contention at times. So Paul
had grown a lot by this time. See, a writer said this, You
can take nothing greater to the heathen world, says Drummond,
than the impress and reflection of the love of God upon your
own character. That is the universal language.
It will take you years to speak in Chinese or in the dialects
of India. From the day you land, that language
of love, understood by all, will be pouring forth its unconscious
eloquence. It is the man who is the missionary,
it is not his words. His character is his message. In other words, the writer is
saying this, you may be called to a mission field, you may be
called to do something great for the cause of Christ, and
you may not understand language, you may not understand culture,
but I will say this, everybody understands the language of love.
Everybody understands the language of compassion and caring for
individuals. So I want us to just take a moment. We don't have long to go all
through all of these, but I want us to take a moment through this
list of different truths that we need to have in our lives,
and let's see the nature of charity. So if I'm going to be a Christian
that is being what I should be and not just say what I'm supposed
to be, but what is the nature of my life and what should it
be? Well, first of all, he says here, charity suffereth long. Now, the quality exhibited here
is patience. Love or charity understands and
therefore it waits. Suffereth long. Long suffering
is more than patience, though. It's self-restraint when faced
with problems. It doesn't retaliate. So it's
not like, hey, I'm going to get this person back. Usually, it
was kind of like that way. I grew up in a big family. I
have six brothers and four sisters. So when a brother would smack
me, I'd turn around and smack him back. I didn't have any long
suffering. I just, hey, you hit me, I hit
you back. We get even. But the mentality of us Christians
sometimes is that's the way it is. Well, did you hear what that
person said about me? Well, I got to turn around and
say something about them. And we don't have any long-suffering
in our lives. So he says, charity suffereth
long, it doesn't retaliate. I want you to think about this
for a moment. What's a good example in the word of God that we can
say somebody doesn't retaliate when faced with problems? Well,
I think of David and Saul. Saul was the Lord's anointed,
right? I mean, David, at one point, or more than one point,
had an opportunity to take Saul's life. I mean, he had every right,
in the sense, even the men, hey, God hath put Saul in this cave,
and he knows that you're there, so now you have a chance. God's
the one that put this orchestrated together so you can take him
out. And even just cutting the skirt, of Saul, it smote David
in his heart, that he had lifted up his hand against the Lord's
anointed. And so here's David, and David had to learn some suffering
long. Saul tried to kill David. When
you look at it, do a study, over 20 times one way or another. Now, if somebody tried to kill
you 20 times one way or another, that'd be kind of hard to be
long-suffering, don't you think? David didn't hit back. He did
not retaliate. David waited for God's time.
You know, as a pastor, and I know this is the way in a lot of churches,
I know as a pastor in Phoenix, here's what you're dealing with.
You're dealing a lot of times with people that, well, they
said this, or they did this, or this problem came about in
the church, and it's two people going against each other because
somebody in the group is not long-suffering. Somebody's not
patient and working along with others. You see, David waited
for God's time. When you look up this long-suffering
or suffereth long, in the Strong's it means this, with long-enduring
temper. That you don't just automatically
lash out when somebody says something or does something. So then he
gives us another truth here. Charity suffereth long and is
kind. Well, what does the word kind
mean? Well, I open the door for people, that's kind. I help somebody
to the car with something, that's kind. Well, what does this mean?
It means to show oneself useful or to act benevolently. to show sympathy. Kindness is
not waiting, it is eagerness to be in action. How can I show
my kindness to someone? So in the first truth he gave
us, charity suffereth long, is saying, how do I withhold my
temper when somebody does me wrong? How do I withhold that
feeling in my heart? It's holding back. Kindness is
stepping up. So the first one, you're kind
of saying, I don't want to cause any ripples, and so I'm going
to let God take care of it. Because God knows better than
I do, and God can take better care of it than I can. But this
is showing kindness. So somebody has done you wrong.
To show true charity is how can I respond in kindness to that
person? I'll just tell you this. The first time somebody does
something against me, that's not my first reaction normally.
How can I show kindness to them? Well, that person, they were
talking behind my back. They lied about me. Well, how
could I show kindness to them? I'm going to take them out to
eat. No, I want to take them out in the backyard and do something
else. No, you see, charity suffereth long and is kind. Doesn't sound like what the world
would put in view, right? Doesn't sound like how man would
normally respond. Well, when you think about that,
think about Jesus. He was kind, compassionate, helping
to others. Barnes said it like this. The
Word denotes to be good-natured, gentle, tender, affectionate. It's an action that's not harsh
or sour. So you find somebody that has
said something about you, or somebody's done something. Maybe
you have an unruly neighbor, and you're sitting there, and
that neighbor is just, they're always on you about something.
They're always doing something against you. Whatever it is,
how do you repay that person? Do you repay them with, I got
them back, or do you repay them in kindness? So charity suffereth
long and is kind. Now, this is genuine Christianity.
This is Christianity. Well, what is a Christian? Well,
a Christian is somebody who believes in God. No, a Christian is somebody
that is trying their best to follow the example of Christ.
Christ, yon, Christian. I'm a Christian, and so I want
that in my life. So charity suffereth long and
is kind. Then it says another thing here. Charity envieth not. Well, what does this mean? means
to have a warmth of feeling for or against, to be jealous over.
Well, wait, wait, wait. I'm supposed to be jealous? What someone has or how someone
is treated? Charity envieth not. No, it's
envieth not. What someone has, how someone's
treated you, the praise or position somebody gets. Love does not envy the other
person's happiness they enjoy. When you think about that, you
know, it's hard. Sometimes there's in ministry
or in life, in church, well, they're doing that just for show.
They're doing that for... I know exactly, I know who they
are. It's easy to look at somebody
and try to manufacture motives, is it not? Towards another individual. And so, charity envieth not. It's saying, I'm not gonna worry
about them, I'm not gonna envy the praise they get. Charity
delights in their welfare. Now, we usually do not envy others'
success if we're not trying to be what they have or what they
are. You see, when I look at somebody and I see drywall and
do drywall work and stuff, I like to work with my hands. One of
the things I'm not real great at, I can build stuff a lot of
times and different things like that, but one thing that I'm
not good at is drywall, probably because I don't do it very often.
And I just, you know, you put some mud on, you put some more
mud on, you put some more mud on, and, you know, it just doesn't
work too well. And so I'm like, something's
going wrong here. And I see somebody else do it,
and I think, man, it looks so easy. And I know practice makes
perfect and so forth. But you see, if I was building
something, though, or I was somebody in the same category, then somebody
else makes something, and I make something, and somebody else
likes theirs better. I'm not supposed to envy that
person. I'm supposed to praise right
along with everybody else. They did a great job. They do
something great. But usually, we don't have a
problem with somebody who's not on the same praise level. You
see what I mean? If somebody sings well, you're
not sitting there going, yeah, they're all about themselves
if you don't sing well. See, here's the competition when
it comes in Christianity sometimes. In ministry or in life, it's
easy for things to become a competition. You have competition with how
people dress, competition, what kind of food you make. I mean,
I love get-togethers. I love potlucks and stuff at
the church, but it's usually, here's what I get. Pastor, you
gotta try this. Oh, you have to try this. This is the best.
Okay, I'll try some of that. No, no, no, no, you gotta try
this one. I made this one. It is the best. And I'm not saying
they're doing it for competition, but man, by the time my plate
is like this, because I have to try everybody's special dish. You see, because sometimes in
life, though, we can make anything a competition. Competition and
charity will not go hand in hand. We're not in a competition with
each other in church. I'm not in a competition to have
better kids. I'm not in a competition to have
smarter kids. I'm not in a competition to have
more money. I'm not in a competition in life.
I mean, my goal is to please my Savior. It's not to be above
somebody else. It's not to have a nicer car.
It's not to have a bigger house. It's not to have more money.
That is not my competition. My goal as a Christian should
be to please my Heavenly Father. So then it says here, Charity
envieth not. Charity vaunteth not itself. Now, vaunteth. How many people
use that word? I vaunteth not myselfeth. No,
we don't use this. So what does the word mean? Well,
Phillips said it like this. A person who vaunts themselves
parades his own imagined superiority. parades his own imagined superiority. Simply put, a braggart. A person
that is boastful. A person that likes to show off
and draw attention to themselves. Many problems that can happen
in our Christian lives is when there's more than one going against
each other. Like I said, the competition
comes in. Love and charity is not like that. You see, if someone
does that on earth, they do it for praise, that's their reward,
the Word of God says. So if they're doing something,
if somebody is up there singing, if somebody's making something
beautiful and they're doing it and say, look at what I've accomplished,
that's their reward. A person that is just charitable
and loving, they'll say, hey, I'm not in this for me. I'm not
gonna be bragging about it. Then he says here, another one,
he says, Charity vaunteth not itself is not puffed up. Well, that sounds kind of like
not be a braggart. Well, it means to be inflated
or to make proud. You see, here's a person that
you see the progression here when a person is not vaunting
himself, is not puffed up. It's like, I'm going to brag
about what I do so that I can puff myself up about what I've
done. You see, a person that is like
that is not being charitable, not being genuine in their Christian
life. This person is one who's exaggerated,
has an exaggerated idea of the importance of himself or herself. But charity is not like that
because charity is humble. I like what one writer said about
this. Love comes out of the shade to do its kind deed and retires
back into the shade again. Love comes out of the shade to
do its kind deed, then retreats back into the shade again. It's
like, I'm not doing this for show. I'm not doing this for
anyone else. I'm not doing this so people
will recognize how much that I do in church. I'm willing to
just come out and do something good for somebody and then hide
behind the shadows. There was a man that I, Just
loved in our church. His name was John Boley and he
was a very handy man And he you know, his wife had some health
issues and his family, you know different situation So he really
could only come usually to church on a Sunday morning Do you know
John John Boley was there every? Tuesday and every Thursday sometimes
more and He would be there every day early morning four o'clock
in the morning. He only used electric tools on
to cut all the grass, he took care of all the grounds of all
the church property. You know, we're talking acres
of property, and of course, you have a lot of grass and little
things. And you know, not one time did he want any recognition
for it. He did it when nobody was looking. He did it, and everybody
said, oh, the properties are always so nice and clean, because
he wanted it just perfect. And he didn't do it for himself.
And almost everybody says, who does your landscaping here? They
wanted to know who the company was. I mean, here he is taking
pride in his church, but not for himself. He was willing to
come out and do a deed for somebody and do a deed for something and
then just hide back in the shadows. Still remember, had the opportunity
to do his funeral. And I talked about what kind
of man John Boley was. And a lot of people were like,
I didn't even know he did all of that. You want to know why? Because he didn't do it for the
praise. He did it for his Savior. John
Boley didn't sing. He didn't preach. He didn't teach
Sunday school class. All he did was just say this,
God, you've given me the ability to do some things, and I'm going
to do it to the best of my ability. And that's what a Christian does.
They don't do it for praise. They do it for God. Barnes said
it like this, a man may be very proud and vain and not express
it in the form of boasting. I mean, here's a person that
can be proud and vain and they may not do it. They just, they
kind of boast up and they kind of puff themselves up. But he
says, is not puffed up. Then quickly, look at what he
says here. Doth not behave itself unseemly. Now what does this mean? It means
to conduct improperly or disgracefully or in a manner to deserve reproach. Charity never acts out of its
place or character. It's never rude, bearish, or
brutish. Paul said it like this in 1 Corinthians
9. To the weak became as I weak
that I might gain the weak. I am made all things to all men
that I might by all means save some. You know what Paul was
saying? He didn't have to boast about what he had done and what
he accomplished and who he was for the cause of Christ. He said,
I am weak as to the weak. I am become all things that I
might win some. So he says, charity suffers long,
doth not behave itself unseemly, Then he ends with, well, we're
going to end with, seeketh not her own. See, in the previous here where
it says, doth not behave itself unseemly, love knows how to behave
as a gentleman or a lady, not artificially, but genuinely. But here's the last thought.
Seeketh not her own. Love and charity is not selfish. Love does not pursue its own
interests. You know, that's sometimes very
hard. Because oftentimes, I think about me, myself, and I. And
it's easy to do so. Charity does not insist in having
its own way. Well, I want it this way. I think
it should be this way. Barnes said it like this, there
is perhaps not a more striking or important expression in the
New Testament than this, or one that is more beautiful, sets
forth the nature and power of that love, which is produced
by true religion. Its evident meaning is that it's
not selfish. It does not seek its own happiness
exclusively or mainly. It does not seek its own happiness
to the injury of others. You see, I want others to be
praised. I want others to be put up on
a pedestal. I don't want to have the limelight. I want to be the one in the background.
That's the kind of, not behave itself unseemly, seek it not
her own, is not easily provoked. All of these truths are in the
word of God for our learning. You see, we don't have to live
life unhappily. Joy will come when we think of
someone else other than ourselves. And I think about the greatest
example of this I would think about is, remember Abraham and
Lot? Abraham in the Bible had been
given all sorts of land and God had given him promises and great
things and God had blessed Abraham and Lot so much that they had
so much that they're fighting over their What you say their
servants were fighting over land because it was I mean they had
been so blessed They had too much and it was getting tight
for them And so Abraham comes to him and he says, okay, this
is all my land, and I'm going to choose what land I want, and
then you can go to the other one because I should get the
best. Is that what he did? You know
what Abraham said? God had given it all to him.
And Abraham said, you choose what you want, and I'll go the
other way. Wait, wait. But God gave it all
to Abraham. And Abraham said this, you choose
what you want, and I'll take what's left. That would be a
different attitude than most of us would have. It would be
the mindset of, well, I worked hard for this. I'm the one that
should deserve this. And no, the Bible says, is not
puffed up, does not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own. This isn't about me. This is
about building a kingdom for God. And I don't care if I get
the praise or not. I don't need accolades. I'm just
going to serve God. I'm going to be a genuine Christian
and love God, love people, show compassion, and not let the things
of this life, well, they said something. They did this. Doesn't
matter because I'm not here for them. I'm here to serve God.
That is a genuine, true Christian, and that's what we should desire
in our lives. Drummond said this, to close. There is no happiness in having
or in getting, but only in giving. Half the world is on the wrong
scent of pursuit of happiness. They think it consists in having
and getting, and in being served by others. You know, that's our
world today, is it not? It's all about me. What can you
do for me? You serve me. But in reality,
a Christian, to enjoy the blessings of God, you serve, you don't
be served. Let's ask the Lord to bless the
Word. Lord, I thank You so much for the truth of the Word of
God. Thank You for the attention this morning. Lord, I do pray
that You would help us to take these truths and be reminded
of them once again. Lord, I think of this church
that was so gifted in their life, Gifts do not mean godliness. And so I pray that we would take
what we've learned this morning, apply it to our heart and life.
Bless the next hour as well. And we'll just thank you for
it. In Jesus' name I pray, amen.
Serve Don't be Served
Series Guest Speaker
| Sermon ID | 917231651287080 |
| Duration | 43:24 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday School |
| Language | English |
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