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He shall come with trumpet sound,
O may I then in Him be found, Dressed in His righteousness
alone, Faultless to stand before His throne. On Christ the solid
rock I stand, All other ground is sinking sand, All other ground
is sinking sand. All right, well done, good singing
this morning. Let's let the little ones go
to class. You guys can head out with Mrs. Schor. And the rest
of us, please, let's open our Bibles to Matthew chapter five. And continuing our study of the
Sermon on the Mount, Matthew chapter five. It's just a normal week tonight
at half five. Children's choir, Lord willing,
we need to have the kids singing soon. So maybe next week we'll
have them sing. Still praying about the family
conference and so pray that the Lord will give wisdom about that.
All right. No, I don't. Yeah. All right. It hath been said, is what we're
gonna look at this morning. It hath been said, Jesus will
say several times in our text, he's already said it actually
once, as he referred back to the law, and last week he looked
at murder, and he said, it hath been said, ye shall not commit
murder, but then he spoke about that seed of murder, or the sin
of murder, in the hearts of people, that curse, in the hearts of
people that hate without a reason, and get angry without a reason,
and how that sin is there, it's prevalent. And so he said, it
hath been said, but I say unto you. And so it's man's perspective
versus God's perspective. Self-righteous people will take
the law, they'll look at it and say, I can keep that, I can do
that. And I meet people all the time, they knock on the door,
and why should you go to heaven? Well, I've been a good person.
It's not, and they'll maybe say even something, it's not like
I've killed anybody, but we looked at last week how that that sin
is in our hearts, and we've committed it if we've ever hated somebody.
And so God's gonna continue that today as Jesus Christ preaches
that Sermon on the Mount up there on the Mount with his disciples.
And to those that perhaps are listening in that are self-righteous,
thinking that they're okay, thinking that their life's fine because
they've tried to keep the law and as best they understand the
law, they think they have. And yet Jesus is gonna take it
from, again, the outside, what people do, to the inside, where
people think, where people see. How that works in so the Lord
deals with other issues of the heart today and what we're going
to try to get through this morning Is what he says about? adultery divorce deceit and Vengeance
all right and just take it a step further and let's pray and ask
God to bless his word to our hearts this morning Father, we're
thankful for the privilege that we have to study your word. We're
thankful for the grace that you give. Lord, we need your help
this morning as we come to your word. Father, give us grace to
discern your truth and to apply it to our lives. Father, help
us to take it out of the context of a set of rules to see that
the rules mean something. It's not about externals. It's
not about not doing something. It's about not doing something
with the right attitude, with the right heart, with the right
love and the right desires. And so I pray, Holy Spirit, that
you help me as I speak. I pray, Lord, that you give grace
to the children in their class in the creche, that that will
go well. I pray that you give us grace as we look at the word
of God and consider a great sermon. Lord, I'd love to have sat at
your feet and listened to you preach your word, but I believe
this message would have been very convicting to those that
were there. And so give us grace to see the
sin in our hearts, in our lives today, and deal with it as you'd
have us do. is in Christ's name we pray,
amen. So the first thing that the law
said, it hath been said, is do not commit adultery. And that's
the obvious reading of the law, what it says, verse 27, you have
heard that it was said by them of old time, thou shalt not commit
adultery. And last week we looked at the
giving of the law and Moses on the mountain and the awful things
that were taking place on that mountain to show the power of
God and to put people in the fear of God. And one of those
awesome laws that God gave is thou shalt not commit this sin
of adultery. Adultery is a horrible sin. Adultery
tears apart a family. It's when somebody takes somebody
else's wife and lives with her as if they are married to them,
but they're not. It's a very wicked sin. It destroys
marriages. We came across some results of
adultery in the States when we were back, and it was heartbreaking.
It was heartbreaking for the churches that were dealing with
it. It was heartbreaking for those couples that had gone through
it, and by God's grace, there's hope that those marriages will
stay strong. And yet, adultery can wreck a
marriage completely. Just like murder. Remember murder
last week? We're looking at it. Why is murder
such an awful thing? Well, murder takes away something
that cannot be ever given back. doesn't it? And so does adultery. Adultery takes away a wife, it
takes away a husband, it takes away a father, it takes away
a mother, and oftentimes destroying that marriage and breaking apart
the family. It's a very awful sin. In Jesus' day, The Pharisees
knew what the law said about adultery. They tried to trick
Jesus by using what the law said, because the law had said in Leviticus
20, verse 10, and the man that committed adultery with another
man's wife, even he that committed adultery with his neighbor's
wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.
Wow. God was serious about sin in
the Old Testament. You know, he's serious about sin today. There
are other times where God said the death penalty, one of the
death penalties was for a rebellious son. Remember that? He wouldn't
obey his mom, wouldn't obey his dad. Guess what? That's one of
the Ten Commandments, isn't it? Honor thy father and mother.
But this son refused to, the punishment for that was death.
Punishment for adultery was death. The punishment for taking another
man's life purposefully was death. So God's very serious about the
sin. But the Pharisees came to Jesus with a woman taken in the
act of adultery in John 8, 4 through 6. They said unto him, Master,
this woman was taken in adultery in the very act. Now Moses in
the law commanded us that such should be stoned, but what sayest
thou? This they said, tempting him that they might have to accuse
him. They say it's a fact, there's no doubt that this was adultery
taking place, and Jesus, what are you gonna do about it? Expecting
that he would say, let's stone her, because that's what Moses
said in the law. And yet as Jesus looked at those
men that had brought that woman who was guilty of adultery to
him, he who could see into man's heart saw, I believe, in the
hearts of those men, not just sin, but the sin of adultery.
I believe that based on the context and the response of those men.
But he says, remember to them, he says, he that is without sin,
let him cast, he that is without sin among you, let him first
cast a stone at him. Jesus is looking in the heart.
Oh, they may not have committed the act of adultery, maybe they
have. but they had committed the thought or the mental or
spiritual adultery in their heart with somebody. And so Christ
could see into their very heart and that's where he's dealing.
You know, in the book of Chronicles, It says in 1 Chronicles 28 9,
Thou Solomon my son, know thou the God of thy father and serve
him with a perfect heart and with a willing mind. For the
Lord searcheth all hearts and understandeth all the imaginations
of the thoughts. If thou seek him, he will be
found of thee, but if thou forsake him, he'll cast thee off forever.
God doesn't just say, dwell before me in perfect action. He doesn't
just want us to have an outside shell that looks clean and looks
right if the inside is corrupted. Remember the Pharisees, they
diligently cleaned the outside, but God said on the inside, you're
full of dead men's bones. And so God doesn't want him just
not committing the act of adultery. He doesn't want him committing
the thought of adultery. And that's what he begins to
speak about as he says, but I say unto you, he begins to speak
about the adulterous heart. But I say unto you that whosoever
looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with
her already in his heart. It's not an accident. It's not
that this man's walking along and There's blatant immodesty,
and he looks away. That happens. That will happen
in life. There's gonna be times where
you're going along and there's somebody that's dressed immodestly.
But it's not the look, seeing, it's the look of lust. Looketh
upon her to lust after her. If there's lust, then it's sin,
and God says it's the sin of adultery. Job, in Job 31.1, it
says, I made a covenant with mine eyes. Why then should I
think upon a maid? Job recognized that there was
sin in a lustful look, and he said, you know, I'm going to
guard my heart. I made a covenant with my eyes, just like Daniel,
purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself. Job
purposed in his heart that he was going to guard his eyes.
And then he said this, and notice how it's connected. Why then
should I think upon a maid? I'm going to guard my eyes. Why
then should I lustfully consider a woman? You know, King David,
we all know his sin against God and where he failed God. It was
in this very sin. It was a sin of adultery. But
David, where did it start? The act of adultery started by
the look of adultery as he was upon his rooftop. In 2 Samuel
11 verse 2, it says, It came to pass in an evening tide that
David arose from off his bed. He walked upon the roof of the
king's house, and from the roof he saw a woman washing herself.
And the woman was very beautiful to look upon. So here's a woman
that's immodest. She's down below the castle and
she should have been in a more modest way, but she's exposed
and David sees her and he looks on her with lust. And that leads
to the sin of adultery, but adultery was already there in the heart
of David before it took place. Can I say this too about Bathsheba?
Bathsheba was not without sin. She should have been more modest.
Matthew Henry in this passage says this, and if looking be
lust, they who dress and deck and expose themselves with design
to be looked at and lusted after are no less guilty. Men sin,
but devils tempt to sin. You know, for the young men's
sake, we're living in a very difficult day. There's a modesty
that's all around us. It's gonna take the grace of
God to protect our eyes and to look away and not to look with
lust because there are so many that are dressed in a way to
attract and seek wicked desire, right? It's there, it's prevalent.
But Job in his day made a covenant with his eyes. How we need to
do that, why? Because that sin does not happen just when the
act is committed. It can happen in a man's heart
when he looks with lust. So sin, in whatever form, whether
it's the act or whether it's the thought, needs to be dealt
with severely. There's people that are trusting
in their self-righteousness, and Jesus has previously said,
except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the
scribes and Pharisees, you shall in no case enter into the kingdom
of heaven. And they're sitting there thinking, I'm not an adulterer,
I'm not a murderer, but again, after last week, they had to
stop and go, you know what, maybe I have committed the sin of murder
if I've hated somebody. And after this part of the message
is Jesus says this, they'd have to look at their heart and say,
you know what, I have committed the sin of adultery because if I
ever looked on a woman to lust after her, that is the sin of
adultery. That's a severe thing, isn't it? It's a severe sin,
and yet that sin is more prevalent than we think. It's not just
the act, it's the thought. And so it needs to be dealt with
severely. Remember what Jesus said to the
woman taking an adultery, and she was guilty of the act. But
he said in John 8, 11, Jesus said unto her, neither do I condemn
thee, go and what? Sin no more. So though you've
committed, yes, a great sin, you've broken one of the Ten
Commandments, you've committed the sin of adultery, go and sin
no more, deal with it. Remember Rahab in the Bible? She's recorded in the New Testament
in Hebrews chapter 11 in the Hall of Faith. Rahab was a harlot. She used her body in a wicked
way, and she sold, basically sold her body for money. It's
a very sad sin. But Rahab got saved. Rahab had
imputed righteousness given to her by God. Rahab was forgiven
of that sin, but that sin had to be cut off. You know, carry
the word of God as Jesus deals with the sin in men's hearts.
He says, it's better to lose an adulterous eye than to go
to hell as an adulterer. Verse 29 says, if thy right eye
offend thee, pluck it out and cast it from thee. For it's profitable
for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy
whole body should be cast into hell. If somebody in our society
is into pornography, they might even be a pedophile. And they're
not willing to cut that sin off and deal with that sin and have
victory over that sin, that sin's gonna what? It's gonna lead them
to hell. And God says, you know what,
it's better to deal severely. If you're a right eye offendee,
pluck it out. And God's not saying self mutilation is what his intention
is. He's not saying that somebody
should physically take their eye and pull it out. But he is
saying you should deal with your sin so severely that even if
it's that severely, that's better than going to hell, isn't it?
And then he says, It's better to lose an adulterous hand than
to go to hell because of an unwillingness to repent of your sin of adultery. Verse 30 says, if thy right hand
offend thee, cut it off and cast it from thee. For it's profitable
for thee that one of thy members should perish and not that thy
whole body should be cast into hell. Do you know, I can illustrate
this very easily today. Because I assume this, and forgive
me if I'm wrong, but I think it's a correct assumption. When
I meet people and they're a couple, it's a man and a woman, I assume
first that they're living together rather than that they're married.
Because in the majority of cases, I found that that's the case.
And I don't know whether that's your experience or not. That's
my experience. Most people today, even in their
60s, I meet people that are living together. You know, it's possible
at times that we're gonna have somebody come to our church,
and they're living with somebody. They're not married to them,
but they're living with them as if it's their wife, as if it's their
husband, but it's not. And they're in that sin, and
as the word of God's preached, they're gonna come under conviction,
and they're gonna realize, you know, that sin's not right, and God's
against that. But they might decide this. They
might say, I'm not willing to deal with that sin, and so I
reject Christ. You know, it's better for them
to deal severely with that sin, even if it meant separating from
that person that they've spent years with, living in sin, so
that they could get saved and that they could go to heaven
when they die. That'd be better. And that's what the Lord's saying.
He's not saying it's good to cut off your hand. He's not saying it's good
to rip out your eye, but he's saying it is good to deal severely
with sin. And as believers, we're struggling
too with sin, and as that sin becomes a pattern in our life,
we need to deal severely and say, you know, if it's setting
aside technology, if it's setting aside something that's okay,
I'm gonna set it aside for the sake of myself, for the sake
of my family, so that I can please God. That is what Jesus is teaching. And so again, the self-righteous
person says, well, I'm not an adulterer, but God steps in,
Jesus says, maybe you are. There'd be very few people in
life, men, that have not committed that sin of adultery by looking
and lusting. And yet God seeks to deliver,
God seeks to help men to do what's right. So he says, guard your
heart. That's a great sin. Then secondly, he says, not only
do not commit adultery, he says, do not divorce. Do not divorce. Divorce in the Old Testament
had become a matter of convenience. It says in verse 31, it hath
been said, whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her
a writing of divorcement. And so back in the day, I mean,
there might have been a disagreement takes place. And a man says,
I don't love you anymore. And I want to end this marriage. They could go, they could get
a writing and say, I divorce you. And they could be divorced.
And so it hath been said, let him give her a writing of divorcement. But God never intended divorce.
That's very clear in the New Testament that divorce is not
something that God ever intended. In fact, the Pharisees came to
Jesus and they said, is it lawful for a man to put his wife away,
like Moses said? And Jesus answered them, Matthew
19, six, Wherefore they are no more twain,
speaking about marriage, but one flesh. He's saying when people
get married, they become one. It's a precious, that's why adultery
is such a wicked sin. It adds somebody else into that
union. But two become one. There's a one flesh of marriage
that God does. My dad used to illustrate it
this way from the Old Testament, speaking about, shall man cleave
unto his wife, they too shall be one flesh. It's like two dirt
clods that are soaked, you know, and then they join, they become
one. You can never take them apart. If you pull them apart,
there's always something on the other left with either one, right? because they're united, and God's
given that precious unity within marriage. But then divorce comes
along, and divorce says, rip them apart. But Jesus said, in Matthew 19, six, he said, therefore
God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. You could
ask, is marriage biblical? Well, does it sound biblical
when God is the one that joins them? Think about that statement. A
marriage, a man and a wife, why? Because God put them together.
God did that. Well, God has joined together,
let not man put asunder. It's like man is created in the
image of God. One of the things about murder that's so awful
is man is in God's image. It's a sin against the creator,
designer to take somebody's life because he's their creation.
He's made in the image of God. And so there's this union that's
of God. And so, God never intended it
to be torn apart. Divorce was because man was so
hard-hearted against God. Matthew 19 passage again, verse
eight. But from the beginning, it was not so. Jesus says the only reason that
divorce was ever allowed was because of your hard hearts,
your rebellion against God. So it's not God's intention.
It's not God's plan. It's a sacred covenant before
God. You know, marriage is so wonderful in God's eyes that
he lets marriage be an example of Christ's love for the church
and vice versa. He says in Ephesians 5, 25 through
28, husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the
church and gave himself for it, that he might sanctify and cleanse
it with the washing of the water by the word, that he might present
it to himself, a glorious church. Just like a wife is presented
to her husband as a glorious bride, that Jesus loved the church
and brought the church to himself, and God takes that picture of
marriage. And he uses it for Christ's love for the church
and for how a husband is to love his wife. It's a very precious,
precious entity. Institution ordained by God for
the purity and protection of the family. And it's for God's
glory, isn't it? a good marriage. I love meeting
people that have been married 50 years, 60 years. What a testimony
to this generation of steadfastness and commitment, just like the
commitment of God. So Jesus gave only one valid
allowance for divorce here. He says in verse 32, remember
he says, it hath been said, you can get divorced easily. But
I say unto you, that whosoever shall put away his wife, saving
for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery,
and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced, committed adultery.
The only valid reason that Christ says is allowable is the sin
of fornication, it's sexual sin. She's entered into an unlawful
relationship with somebody else, or some way has perverted that
relationship, And God says in that case, divorce is allowed,
but notice it's not commanded, right? It doesn't say because
this sin takes place that there has to be a divorce. It doesn't
have to take place. But Jesus says, if that's not
the reason for a divorce, That what happens when you, you know,
she burnt the toast or something and you say, I divorce you, what
you're doing, you're causing her to enter into an adulterous
relationship with somebody else. And whoever enters a relationship
with her is committing adultery. See, you thought it was OK in
your self-righteousness because the law said you could. said
you could easily end this marriage. And so you're just gonna say,
well, that's it, you burnt the toast. So marriage annulled and
what you've done, you've entered again into a great sin that we've
already talked about. One of the 10 commandments, the
sin of adultery. And so man's perspective versus God's perspective. And so do not divorce, do not
divorce, do not commit adultery. And then the third thing that
we can look at this morning, is do not swear an oath. Do not
swear an oath. An oath is a promise with God
as your witness. Do not swear an oath. Because
an oath before God was binding, verse 33, says again, ye have
heard that it hath been said by them of old time, thou shalt
not forswear thyself, but shalt perform unto the Lord thine oath. A promise that was made with
God as your witness has to be kept. Why? Because otherwise
you're breaking a promise to whom? God. And that's not a light
thing. Any promise that is made before
God is a promise that has to be kept. Be very careful if you
ever promise God something. When you surrender your life
to the Lord, say to God, God, however you want to use my life,
use it. I know a friend of mine growing
up, he had an older brother. And that older brother at one
time surrendered to preach. In fact, I was told by his mom
that he and another friend both surrendered to preach. Told God
that they would serve him full-time in full-time ministry. Instead,
he rebelled against God. He ended up marrying a Catholic
girl, and he worked at a bike shop down in South Florida. A
guy that was taking boot camp or something like that came in,
had an argument with him, went out to the vehicle, came back
in, and took a gun, put it up to his head, and killed him.
It's a very, and I'm not saying necessarily that's why he died,
but it was interesting that his mom said, both of them are dead.
Both of them. Isn't that interesting? It's not a light thing today
to promise God something. We might treat it like it's no
big deal, God doesn't. But men, in an attempt to lessen
the severity of an oath before God, try to add to it, and they
kind of thought, you know what? Let's change the wording. Rather
than saying, I swear before God, let's say something like, I swear
before heaven. You know, Jesus said, in verse
34, again, this is one of his statements, but I say unto you,
swear not at all, neither by heaven, for it's God's throne.
He said, he's trying to get out of it, trying to make it no big
deal. You know, have you guys, you cross your fingers, put them
behind your back, and that means I can promise something and it doesn't
mean anything? They do that here? They do that in the United States,
right? You got your fingers crossed behind your back, you can promise,
and it doesn't mean anything. That's kind of the same idea.
These Pharisees or these self-righteous people, they thought, you know
what, I will promise before heaven. It's kind of like putting your
fingers behind your back, because you know heaven's not that big a deal.
God is, but heaven's not. But Jesus said, wait a second,
heaven is God's throne. Don't swear by that, that's God's
throne. and earth is his footstool, verse 35, nor by the earth for
it's his footstool. Again, they're thinking, I can
get away with it. I swear by earth that I won't do this. And
yet that's God's footstool. Don't swear by Jerusalem, neither
by Jerusalem for it's the city of the great king. I mean, that
is the city where it's all gonna take place, where it all has
taken place. That is the city that God set his love upon that
he chose. That's the city of the great
king. Don't swear by that. Nor by your own head, he said. Neither
shalt thou swear by the head, because thou canst not make one
hair white or black. Why is my hair the color it is?
Because of God. I'm his creation. So don't swear
by yourself, because you're God's creation. But what's he saying?
After he takes out all their sub-clauses, he lets us know
that God's more concerned about integrity than what we promise. Does God care what we say? No,
He cares what we do, right? You know what I'm saying? I mean,
He doesn't want us to promise Him something. He wants us to
show that promise in our life. Verse 37. He said, just say yes
or no. And let it stand by itself. Just say yes. Just say no. You know, our yes
should mean yes, and our no should mean no, right? Have you ever
had somebody, and I know somebody comes to my mind very quickly
when I think about this topic, because it does, it bothers me
a bit. Often as I'm speaking to them,
they'll say words like this, honestly, honestly. Or they'll
say, to tell you the truth, pastor. To tell you the truth, right? What's the problem with that?
Should I have to say when I'm speaking to somebody, this is
the honest truth? I have an integrity problem right
away if I have to back up what I'm saying by an oath. Don't
I? Shouldn't my yes mean yes and my no mean no? If not, I've
got an integrity problem. And so it doesn't matter if I
swear. It doesn't change the condition that's in my heart
that God sees. And that's that I don't have integrity. When
I see yes, my yes doesn't mean yes, my no doesn't mean no. But
God says don't let it be like that. Don't swear, don't persuade
yourself, don't call heaven to witness against you, don't call
God as your witness, just say yes and mean yes. Just say no
and mean no. Again, we live in a day, I feel
like, and maybe I'm just missing it somehow, but I talk to people
all the time, I knock on the door, and I ask them about heaven,
and I'll ask them about sin, and they'll say, you know, I'm
a good person, and I'll say, have you ever lied? Do you know
what they all say? Every single one. Little white
lions. Do people right now in our day
and age, do they think lion's a big deal? But God does. God does. Just like swearing an oath before
a holy God and breaking it, God sees integrity of the heart as
a big deal. Our yes should mean yes, our
no should be no. So don't make a vow and not keep
it. It's better not to vow and just
let your yes be yes and your no, no. And then, do not avenge
yourself, is the last thing that we'll look at this morning. Do
not avenge yourself. You know, the law gave an opportunity
for vengeance. And I've spoke with people that
are not saved, but they'll say, I love that. I love the Old Testament. In my mind, I'm thinking of a
guy very specifically. I love the Old Testament, an
eye for an eye, this way said, and a tooth for a tooth. What's
he love about the Old Testament? Vengeance. You know, the law
wasn't created for vengeance. What was the law created for?
It was to protect the innocent. Yes, vengeance was there as punishment
for the guilty, but it was not for the delight of the avenger.
It was not for the person to say, yes, I can get even an eye
for an eye, a tooth for a tooth. And I love this Old Testament
because it allows me to avenge myself. But that's what the law
became to these self-righteous. Verse 38, you have heard that
it hath been said, an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. That equal penalty, why was that?
Again, it was to protect the innocent. Somebody, you know,
if the punishment didn't fit the crime, then the crime would
just be committed more often. And so there was equal punishment.
And so people began to, you know, begrudge others and what vindication
against others. And after all, an eye for an
eye, a tooth for a tooth. But Jesus said, it hath been
said, but again, he's going to say unto you, but I say unto
you that ye resist not evil. Wow. It's kind of different. As self-righteous
people, I can do this. I can have my own way because
God gave me license to give back in the Old Testament. An eye
for an eye, a tooth for a tooth. And Jesus goes, I'm just gonna
interpret that a little bit differently for you, help you to understand
what it means. It's not made for vengeance.
It's made to protect the innocent. So I say unto you, resist not
evil. Now Jesus, in our day, he'd not
be an activist. He wouldn't be out politicizing
and saying, ah, let's go against the evil. In activism, he would
stand up at times, but always for who? God. Always for God's
glory. He wouldn't be the first one
to get back at the wicked. He said, I resist not evil. On the
cross, how did Jesus do that? He said, Father, forgive them,
right? for they know not what they do. He could have called
10,000 angels or legions of angels to destroy these wicked people
that put them on the cross, killed the Son of God on a cross. But he didn't. He said, Father,
forgive them for they know not what they do. And so, what does
he instruct us to do? He says, if you get hit, let
him hit you again. But whosoever shall smite thee
on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. This person is
going eye for eye, a tooth for a tooth, and Jesus says, look,
if he hits you on the one side of your face, you turn your face
and let him hit you on the other side. You take it, why? For Christ's sake. Take it, why? For God's glory. Take it, why? To show the grace of God. You
know, there's a gracious power possessed by those who can suffer
and not feel the need to punish back. Isn't there? Isn't that
meekness? Isn't that strength under control?
Doesn't that take great grace to take a beating and allow it
and say it's okay? Remember that bold deacon of
the early church, Stephen? He was a giant of a man. And just like our Lord in his
death, he's being killed in Acts 7, verse 60, he kneeled down,
he cried with a loud voice, Lord, lay not this sin to their charge. And when he had said this, he
fell asleep. Could you do that? Or would you be an eye for an
eye, a tooth for a tooth? Christ says that's not the New Testament.
But I say unto you, take it. Why, for God's glory. Take it,
allow it. Why, you know, an eye for an
eye, a tooth for a tooth, held grudgingly onto, what's it lead
to? Bitterness? Anger? Hatred? Years of just
contamination of your own heart? You know, it's far better to
forgive and to say, it's okay, it's okay. You know, they treated
my Lord worse than you're treating me. It's okay, just like Stephen
did. Let him hit you again. And then
give more than he demands, verse 40. And if any man will sue thee
at the law and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloak
also. It's probably an injustice that's
taking place already. They've been brought before the
law, and the law said you're gonna lose your coat. You've
gotta surrender your coat as security until you pay your debt
or whatever the case. He takes your coat, give him
your cloak also. Say it's okay, I'm gonna give you a bit more.
I'll tell you a story. I thought about this as I was
looking at this passage. It's just one opportunity. God
allowed us as a family to practice this, but I won't tell you the
whole story, except that I realized that there was a church that
supported us. This is way back when we were
raising support to come over here. I just realized I had,
I disagreed with some things about the church, and I just
thought, you know, it'd probably be better not to have that relationship
of them supporting us. And I called the pastor and I
said, pastor, I'm sorry. I said, but I want to, you know,
here's my concern. It was about music. They weren't
musically where we are. And it concerned me. And I said, you know, I'm concerned
about that. And we talked about that. And I and I offered to
send back the support money that they had given to me. That pastor
sent me a bill with love offerings that they gave to us, the exact
amounts. He sent me a bill with the months that they had supported
us. They showed more support than our mission agency showed
that they'd given to us. He charges for electricity for
plugging in our caravan at his property. You know what I said? I wrote back and said, Pastor,
that's fine. I said, and I want to send you an extra $100 because
I know we did laundry there and some other things. I want to
make sure that everything's covered. You know, that's what God wants
us to do. I don't say that to pat myself on the back. You know
what's neat about that story? God totally took care of it.
My mission agency, when they heard about it, a pastor that's
passed away, his name's Doc Cummins, that man who put the fear of
God in you more than anybody, he called up that pastor and
he talked to that pastor about what he had done. I couldn't
do that, but he could. But you know, our mission agency
totally took care of it. It was like $1,100 at a time
where we didn't have any money. We really didn't. We had very
minimal accounts at that time. But you know, God honors that. Why shouldn't you get upset and
go, why do you treat me like that? You know, today I can honestly
say I'm not bitter against that pastor. I'm not. And I'm not
bitter against that church. I don't think the church has
any idea what took place. Why? Because God protected us by allowing
us to practice what Matthew 5 speaks about, and that's when you're
sued, give more than you're sued for. So give more than he demands. And then serve more than expected.
Verse 41, whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him
twain. The Roman soldiers in that day could come up to you
and say, here, take my bag and carry it a mile. They could legally
do that. But what Jesus says, if he compels
you to go a mile, don't go kicking your toes in the ground, grumbling
and complaining and saying, this is awful. Why should I have to
carry your bag? Just talk to the guy, say, hey,
you know what? I'd be happy to carry that another mile for you.
And do it. You heard the phrase, go the
extra mile? Guess what? This is where it comes from.
comes from the Bible. Go the extra mile. Don't just
give something because you have to. Kids, mom and dad ask you
to pick up your room. Go beyond that. Do beyond that. Don't say, oh, begrudge, I've
got to do this. And so this is what I'll do,
and not anymore. You know, dad and mom said to
clean my room. That toy made it out into the hallway, and
so that's out of bounds. No. It's the spirit of the law. It's obeying with the heart.
Serve more than expected. Do you go the extra mile? and
then freely share what God's given to you. Verse 42 says,
give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow
thee, turn not thou away. It's that liberty of sharing
what God's given to us. God's given us things that a
lot of people don't have. These poor Syrians that are pouring
out of Syria and having to take a treacherous journey across
these countries, these people are poverty stricken. They don't
have anything. They need people to come along.
It's legitimate. It's not fake. We get sick of the fakery on
the streets. I know a guy, I've talked to
him. He sits on North Bridge and he sits on the left hand
side down by Balmoral, the Balmoral. He's
always there. And I've spoken to him. I asked
him one time, I said, how's your day going? He's going, oh, it's
not going good. I said, why not? He said, well, I've only made,
I think he said like 10 pounds in a couple hours that morning.
And normally he's made like 40 by that time of day. These people
are raking in the dough. And I mean, he's not interested
in work. He's not seeking a job. He's a fake. He's a fraud. But
just because there's frauds doesn't mean that we ignore everybody
that asks us for something. I shared last week, there was
a man that I spoke to, he's been homeless for two weeks, and I
took him and I bought him breakfast. Why? Because that's what God
wants us to do. Share what we have. You know,
when somebody has a legitimate need as a church, that's why
we desire to know about that and seek to meet a physical need.
Because that's the spirit of the law. See, they had it wrong.
They had this idea. Well, the law says do not commit
adultery. And so I've never committed the
act. And Jesus said, well, wait a second. What about your thought
life? What are you thinking about? Are you looking on a woman to
lust after her? And Jesus says it's the same
sin. It's the same sin. So deal with it as severely.
He said, do you think you can divorce and just, you know, and
commit adultery, you know, by the fact that you're divorced?
And he says, not so, because you're causing her to commit
adultery. And if you remarry, another scripture says you're
committing adultery as well. And so easy divorce, that's out.
And he deals with this spirit of the law and responding and
not swearing, but letting yourself have integrity. Like your yay-be-yay,
your nay-nay, you know, so that you say yes or no, people go,
you know, mom said yes, that means yes. Dad said yes, that
means yes. Pastor said yes, that means yes.
That we can keep our word, have integrity of heart, because what
does God really care about? our promise, or our actions. He cares about our action. So
may the Spirit of God just speak to our hearts and help us to
see as God sees, not externals, internals. And how does God see
your heart today? Let's pray. Father, I pray that
the Holy Spirit would speak to our hearts now. I pray God give
us grace to respond to you as He desires to. It's in Christ's
name I pray, amen.
"It Hath Been Said"
Man looks at externals but God looks at the heart. Jesus takes the law and opens it up as the Law Giver. He does so to help mankind understand the depth of their failure.
| Sermon ID | 91315734327 |
| Duration | 42:24 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | Matthew 5:27-42 |
| Language | English |