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This is Andrew Smith, pastor
of Christ Reformed Community Church here in St. Johns County,
Florida. I would like to extend to you
an invitation to worship with us each Lord's Day at 1015 a.m. Our address is 161 Hampton Point
Drive, Suite 2, St. Augustine, Florida, 32092. You
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broadcast live on Facebook every Sunday morning. Now, let's open
God's Word and listen to the sermon for today's broadcast. Well, let's take our copy of
God's word and be turning to the book of Romans as we continue
our study and really Paul's magnum opus. And we find ourselves in
Romans chapter 12. Now we're entering a section
of scripture, namely verses nine of chapter 12, going really all
the way through part of chapter 15, which is an immensely practical
portion of scripture. We began Romans chapter 12 a
couple of weeks ago, which begins the practical portion of Paul's
letter to the Romans. The first 11 chapters of Romans
is very theological, but the back half of Romans is immensely
practical. And we're going to begin looking
at verses 9 through 16. I want to read these verses in
their entirety, if you'd please stand in honor of the reading
of God's word. We're only going to look at a
few of these verses. We'll see how far we can get
this morning, but I at least want to Read verses 9 through
16 to give us a running start. Paul writes under inspiration
of the Holy Spirit, let love be genuine, abhor what is evil,
hold fast to what is good, love one another with brotherly affection,
outdo one another in showing honor, do not be slothful in
zeal, be fervent in spirit, serve the Lord. Rejoice in hope, be
patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer, Contribute to the
needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality. Bless those
who persecute you. Bless and do not curse. Rejoice
with those who rejoice. Weep with those who weep. Live
in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate
with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight. Please be seated and let's ask
the Lord to bless us as we look at this text this morning. Father,
we are grateful, Lord, that you have given to us sections in
Scripture that are immensely practical. And Lord, now as we
come out of this deep theological section of Romans, we really
get into the nitty gritty of the Christian life. This is where
the rubber meets the road. And so Lord, we pray, what is
so often difficult for us to apply, not to understand, but
these simple truths which are difficult to apply, we pray that
your Holy Spirit would help us. to understand, Lord, the areas
of our lives in which we need to nurture to become the Christians
that You have called us to be. We pray You would do this for
Your glory, and we pray and ask all of these things in Jesus'
name. Amen. If there is one catch-all
word for the Christian life, I think we would all agree this
morning that it could be classified or summarized in that four-letter
word, and that is the word love. The Bible has many different
Greek verbs that are used for love. Agape love is the sort
of love that is most common to all of us. It's the type of love
that is described here in the passage that I read to us this
morning. In fact, the word love, agape,
really dominates this particular portion of Scripture. But if
you think about it, agape love has dominated really everything
Paul has said up to this point in the first 11 chapters of Romans. except for the fact that the
love that Paul has spoken about in the first 11 chapters describes
the agape love that God himself has for us. It is the sort of
love that was first of all demonstrated at the cross. We saw in chapter
5 that God demonstrated his own love toward us and that while
we were still sinners, Christ died for the ungodly. It is not
only a love that was demonstrated at the cross, but it was a love,
Paul said, which was delivered into our hearts. Paul put it
this way in Romans 5, verse 5, that the love of God has been
shed abroad in our hearts. It's been poured into our hearts
by the Holy Spirit. So it is a love that has been
demonstrated at the cross, the love of God. It is a love that
has been delivered into our hearts. And it is a sort of love that
is determined to never let us go. Paul said at the end of Romans
8 that he was persuaded or that he was sure that nothing could
separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus. Not even
death, not life, not tribulation, not distress, not anything. That
is God's love for us. But beginning in verse 9 of chapter
12, Paul is going to shift his focus to speak about agape love
as it relates to all of our relationships within the Christian life, that
love, that four-letter word, is to mark all of our relationships
in our Christian life. And Paul gives a number of different
examples of this in verses 9 through 16. He speaks about how such
agape love relates to one another within the covenant community,
that is within the local church and by extension the universal
body of Christ. But he begins to speak how it
moves outside of the covenant community. Our love is even to
be expressed toward our enemies. And we see that in chapter 12
verses 17 through 21. It's even to be demonstrated
love is by Christians to the state, to the government. We
are to be citizens that have a good reputation. And whatever
country it is that we reside in, we are to be good citizens.
We are to demonstrate love in that way. Paul speaks about that
in chapter 13. In chapter 13, he also speaks
about just generally how we are to be good neighbors, loving
neighbors. We are to love our neighbors
as ourselves in society, whether that be coworkers or whether
that be people that actually live near us and in our own community. And Paul speaks in chapters 14
and 15 about how agape love is to relate to the weaker brothers
and sisters within the body of Christ. That is, those brothers
and sisters, I think that I can be frank enough to say here this
morning, that are difficult to love because of their immaturity,
because of their weakness. So Paul is very comprehensive
when speaking about love. He has spoken about God's love
for us through Christ. That is chapters 1 through 11.
But now chapters 12 through 16 is going to speak about the necessity
of our love for one another. And all of it is built upon what
Paul opened up with at the beginning of chapter 12, where he says,
I appeal to you, therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present
your bodies as a living sacrifice. Paul was clear that when we present
our bodies as a living sacrifice, this is wholly unacceptable to
God. And he was very quick to show
us, as we saw last week, that one of the ways in which we demonstrate
that we are living sacrifices to God is through the demonstration
of our spiritual gifts. We saw that in verses 3 through
8. Paul tells us that there are many gifts, verse 6, that differ
according to the grace given to us, but he is clear in verse
6, let us use them. If it's prophecy, we're to use
that. If it's service, we're to serve. If we are gifted with
teaching, we're to teach. With exhortation, we are to exhort. With contributing in a generous
manner, we're to do that. If we're leaders, we're to lead
well. We are to show zeal. We are to show kindness and acts
of mercy and so there are different gifts within the body of Christ.
Not all of us have been given the same gift or the same gifts
and so the way that we use our gifts will be different depending
on the context in which we use them, depending upon the local
church in which we are attached to, depending upon our personality
and our opportunity and all of those things. So some of verses
3 through 8 doesn't apply to every Christian because not every
Christian is gifted with prophecy. Not every Christian is gifted
with teaching. But everything Paul says in verses
9 and following does apply to every single Christian. Because
all Paul is telling us is that one of the ways to be a living
sacrifice, or maybe the chief way to be a living sacrifice,
is to demonstrate love in everything that we do. Now, you are going
to find it difficult to find any sort of arrangement and organization
to what Paul says in verses 9 and following. That is why many have
referred to this section of Scripture to be similar to Jesus' Sermon
on the Mount, where Jesus really gives some New Testament proverbs
on what it means to be a citizen of the kingdom of God. In other
words, Gone long ago are those long and weighty sentences of
chapters 1 through 11 of theological depth. Paul now is really going
to give us some bullet points. He's going to give us some principles.
He's going to give us some maxims, sort of like in staccato fashion,
like rapid machine gun fire, to tell us that love is non-negotiable
for the Christian life. So the principles that Paul gives
us in these verses are principles or maxims that are true every
time and they are true any time for every Christian. That agape
love... is a love that is commanded.
Jesus himself said that, love one another just as I have loved
you. By this all people will know that you are my disciples
if you have love for one another. So agape love is a love that
is commanded. Agape love is also a love that
is exemplified. It was exemplified in Christ.
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his
life for his friends. And Jesus serves as the greatest
example of love. Agape love is also a love that
increases. Paul says in Philippians 1 that
he prays for the Philippians that they may abound more and
more in love. So the topic of love is a topic
that Paul loves to speak about. In fact, Paul has spoken about
here in Romans chapter 12 in verses 4 and 5, for example,
that we are one body in Christ. That is one way to really emphasize
the fact that we are to love one another. We are part of the
same body. And he has then moved to describe, as I said earlier,
the diversity of spiritual gifts. We're all part of the same body,
but we're a different body part. And now he moves to say how the
demonstration of those gifts, the demonstration of our service
to one another within the covenant community is to be marked by
love. By the way, Paul did the same
exact thing in 1 Corinthians. In 1 Corinthians 12, he spoke
about the fact that we are one body in Christ. He spoke about
the fact that we all have different gifts, we're all a different
part of the body. And he concluded that whole section by describing
love. You're familiar with this portion
of Scripture, 1 Corinthians 13. You don't have to turn there,
but Paul says, If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels,
but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clinging cymbal. If
I have prophetic powers and understand all mysteries and all knowledge,
and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have
not love, Paul says, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and
if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I
gain nothing. Paul says love is patient. Love
is kind. Love does not envy. Love does
not boast. And then Paul says love never
ends. But prophecies will end. Knowledge
will end. Love is the supreme demonstration
of Christianity. Loving your brothers and sisters
in Christ is God's will for every Christian. It's God's will for
your life. And it's incumbent upon us this
morning as we begin to look at these 12 manifestations of love
that Paul lists in this passage to ask ourselves the question,
has our love for God or has our love for one another grown cold? And why has it grown cold? And
if it has grown cold, it's time to rekindle that love. So as
we look together at verses 9 through 16, Paul is basically telling
us that love is to mark one another within the covenant community.
This is what it means to be a living sacrifice. This is what it means
to be on fire for God, to be hot for God. It means that your
life And all of your relationships within the covenant community
is marked by love. And Paul gives us 12 manifestations
of love as we relate to one another within the covenant community.
Now, we're not gonna look at all of these this morning. We're
gonna divide this up between this week and next week. But
let's at least look at some of these manifestations of love. The first manifestation of love
is found at the beginning of verse nine, where we see that
love is characterized, number one, by authenticity or sincerity. Notice the beginning of verse
nine, Paul simply says, let love be genuine. Let love be genuine. Anapokratas is the Greek word
for love here. It means an undisguised love
or an unfeigned love or a love without hypocrisy. In fact, it's
related to the Greek word hypocrites where we get the word hypocrite
But this word for genuine actually describes that of an actor, someone
who is on the stage. So Paul is saying, when he says,
let love be genuine, he's saying that the church is not to be
full of actors on a stage. Love in the theater is not the
same thing as real love, real relationships, as the Reformed
commentator John Murray says. If love is the sum of virtue
and hypocrisy is the epitome of vice, what a contradiction
to bring those two things together. To bring love and hypocrisy together
is the height of hypocrisy. Let love be genuine. Paul is saying that love is best
spoken by our deeds, not merely by our mouths. That true love
uses every part of the body, not just our mouths, to show
our affection and our sincerity toward one another within the
body of Christ. That true love is not cold, formal
words. But it is warm, informal words
and ways and deeds of sincere affection. Agape love is unselfish
love. It is devoted love. It is genuine
love. Otherwise, it's artificial love.
It's fake love. Now, Jesus said in Matthew 24,
because of lawlessness, and because lawlessness will be increased,
the love of many will grow cold. And that is why Paul says, let
your love be genuine. It is to be attached to the law
of God. Jesus said that God's law is
summed up in love of God and love of neighbor. So love that
is genuine is love that is sincere, not love that is merely sentimental. It's not based upon mere feeling. And the Bible is clear about
this throughout. For example, Peter says, Having
purified your souls by your obedience to the truth for a sincere brotherly
love, love one another earnestly from a pure heart. This is love
that is sincere, not love that is merely sentimental or sappy. It is to be sincere, not sentimental. True love is to be Spirit-empowered,
not simply self-induced. This isn't sort of a love that
is conjured up by the works of the flesh. That is artificial
love. It's something that only the Spirit of God can produce.
That's why the first fruit of the Spirit that Paul lists in
Galatians 5 is love. In fact, love that is genuine
is so foundational to the Christian life that John tells us that
its presence actually reveals the authenticity of our faith
and the absence of love reveals that we're not even true Christians. 1 John 3, 14, we know that we
have passed out of death into life because we love the brothers. Whoever does not love abides
in death. And maybe the greatest example
of hypocritical love was the fake love of Judas. You know,
Judas's mask of fake love came off while he performed on the
stage of life when he betrayed Jesus with a kiss. And Luke 22
verse 48 tells us that Jesus read Judas's heart and said,
are you going to betray me? with a kiss. Jesus knows our
hearts. Someone once said, the truest
thing about me is what God says about me. And so the question
this morning is, what does God say about our love toward our
brothers and sisters in Christ? Is it real? Is it genuine? Or
is it artificial? The Queen Mary was the largest
ship to cross the ocean when it was launched in 1936. And
it served our country through four decades and even a world
war until the ship was retired. It was anchored as a floating
hotel and a museum in Long Beach, California. But during the conversion
of the Queen Mary to become a hotel and a museum, her three massive
smokestacks were taken off put on the deck to be scraped down
and to be repainted. But as they began to do this,
nothing was left of the three quarter inch steel plate from
which the stacks had been formed. All that remained were more than
30 coats of paint that had been applied over the years because
the steel had rusted away. You know, when Jesus called the
Pharisees whitewashed tombs, He meant that they had no substance.
They just had an exterior appearance. They just painted themselves
with coats of paint to look spiritual. They were like actors on a stage
that had paint on their face. And what Paul is saying here
in Romans 12 and verse 9 is that our love is not to be hypocritical.
It is to be genuine. It is to be unfamed, undisguised. It is to be authentic. It is
to be sincere. Now, that is the first manifestation
of love, and it is really the foundational manifestation from
which all the other manifestations flow from. So, let's look at
the second manifestation of love. Love is characterized, first
of all, by authenticity, but secondly, love is characterized
by consistency. By consistency. The next phrase
closely follows what Paul just said about love at the beginning
of the verse. Notice the back half of verse 9. Paul goes on
to say, In other words, Paul is saying
that love has the ability to discern. Love is not willy-nilly. Love is not wishy-washy. Love
does not turn with the tide. It knows how to love. It knows
what to love. It knows who to love. So verse
9 in this phrase, abhor what is evil, hold fast to what is
good, is a call to wisdom and discernment and consistency to
know what to love and on the other hand what to hate or what
to abhor. This teaches us that love, as
I sort of said earlier, is not blind sentimentalism. It's discerning. It's discriminatory. Biblical
love is not kumbaya love. In fact, biblical love is so
passionately devoted to loving the right sort of things that
it hates any evil that gets in its way. That's what Paul is
saying. This is love's hatred of evil. Paul is saying that
hatred of evil is really the other side of love. It's no different
than what Proverbs 8, 13 says. The fear of the Lord is hatred
of evil. So Paul says, abhor what is evil,
hold fast to what is good. He said in 1 Corinthians 13 and
verse 6 that true love does not rejoice in unrighteousness. So to truly love rightly, we
must abhor or hate what is evil on the one hand, and then on
the other hand, Paul says, hold fast to what is good. Now that
phrase, hold fast, is one word in the Greek. Kalao is the Greek
word. It literally means to glue something
together. In fact, it's used throughout
the Bible to refer to a marital relationship, which is a one-flesh
union. So you can think of it this way,
Christians are to have a one-flesh union with what is good, not
with what is evil. 1 Thessalonians 5.22, abstain,
Paul says, from every form of evil. Now these staccato injunctions,
these 12 manifestations of love that Paul gives, it's like machine
gun fire that Paul gives. He gives no elaboration on this. There is no legalistic list of
principles of what to do and what not to do. And so it's going
to require wisdom in order for us to consistently in our own
lives love what is good on the one hand and abhor or hate what
is evil. But it always begins when we
guard our hearts. David promised, for example,
in Psalm 101 in verse 4, a perverse heart shall depart from me. I
will know no evil. That was David's desire that
he would know no evil. And you and I both know we don't
need to feel sorry for ourselves this morning about the state
that the world is in. We know that evil marks the world,
but we are to hate the ways of the world. If love is to abound
within the covenant community, we are to hate the ways, the
ideals of the world. Proverbs 6 is a wonderful passage
to turn to to describe the ways of the world, because the Bible
says there are several ways of the world that God hates. The
Bible says in Proverbs 6 that God hates, for example, haughty
eyes, a prideful spirit. God hates a lying tongue, a tongue
that is dishonest, a life that is not full of integrity. God
hates hands that shed innocent blood. And this might be physical
murder, but it could also be, borrowing from Jesus' words on
the Sermon on the Mount, murder within our hearts, calling people
other names. or hearts that devise wicked
plans. Proverbs 6 says God hates that. Hearts that are manipulative
toward other people and their relationships. God also hates
feet that are quick to run to evil. God also hates a false
witness who breathes out lies. God also hates one who sows discord
among the brother. And this is all taken from Proverbs
6. And so when Paul says in Romans 12, 9, that we are to abhor what
is evil, and we are to hold fast to what is good, we are to love
the things God loves, and we are to hate the things God hates.
And we are to pray that by the power of the Holy Spirit, our
lives might not be marked by the things that the world is
marked by. and that the covenant community
above all communities must be a shining light in the midst
of darkness in order for love to abound. Well, there's a third
manifestation of love. Paul is just giving these very
quickly. He tells us at the beginning of verse 10 that love is characterized
by what I'll call affinity. Affinity. Notice the beginning
of verse 10. Paul says, love one another with brotherly affection. Now here we find one of the New
Testament's famous one another commands. We are to love one
another. And the word for love here is
actually not agape, it's philostorgos. This is the type of love that
refers to the natural love found within one's family, like that
between a parent and a child. So when Paul says, love one another
with brotherly affection, he's saying that the same sort of
affinity or love that you have for your own children is the
same sort of affinity or love that you should have for those
in the body of Christ, which he mentioned in verses four and
five, that we're all part of the body of Christ. Love one
another. And then that phrase, with brotherly
affection, just reinforces this, because this is a different Greek
word. It's the Greek word philadelphia, which refers to brotherly love.
So Paul says, love one another with brotherly affection. And I need to point out that
Paul's point is not, please hear me on this, that the fellowship
of the saints replaces your family as the object of your love. That
is not what Paul is saying. Although it may come to that,
Jesus said we ought to be willing to hate our fathers and our mothers. We ought to be willing to hate
our brothers and our sisters and our children in comparison
to the love that we have for Christ in comparison to our zeal
and following Christ as a disciple. But his point is not that the
fellowship of the saints replaces our family as the object of love.
Paul says in another place that we are worse than infidels if
we don't provide for our own family. Paul's point is rather
that Love among the fellowship of the saints is like the sort
of love that you have for your family, because God is our Father,
and we are brothers and sisters in Christ. And I might say, just
by means of a caveat here, that you cannot love the church like
your family if you don't love your own family that God has
given you. So this is not an either-or, this is a both-and.
If you love your family well, then you will love those in the
church well. It has been my experience, and
again this is my opinion, that those who come from broken homes
and broken marriages are never ideal church members. And here's
the reason why. They don't learn and they've
never learned how to love those that are closest to them, those
that God has given to them. And so those who are dissatisfied
with their closest relationships are going to have a very difficult
time loving those within the church that they're not related
to by blood. Children that are disobedient
to parents are not going to be those who come into the church
that will obey church leadership. Wives that do not respect their
husbands at home are not going to be wives that are going to
willingly submit to the elders of the church. So if you want
to cultivate love and unity within the body, then make the necessary
repairs on your home life. That healthy, loving homes create
healthy, loving churches. So Paul is giving to us here
12 manifestations of love. He's not elaborating on these
in any great detail, but he has told us that love is characterized
by authenticity. Love is characterized by consistency. Love is characterized by affinity. There's a fourth manifestation
of love. Paul tells us that love is characterized
by dignity. Notice the second half of verse
10. Paul simply says, outdo one another in showing honor. Now,
dignity is ascribing worth to others by honoring them. This
is one way, I think Paul is saying, that the brotherly affection
that he mentioned at the beginning of verse 10 is demonstrated.
How is it demonstrated? When we outdo one another in
showing honor. This means that showing mutual
brotherly affection involves demonstrating mutual honor or
dignity toward others within the covenant community. In other
words, instead of pursuing honor for ourselves, we should promote
the honor of one another. Now I think there is a verse
that sort of clarifies Paul's seed thought here and that is
a verse we looked at last week, namely verse three. If you skip
back up to verse three, Paul says, for by the grace given
to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more
highly than he ought to think. but to think with sober judgment,
each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned. There Paul simply told us we
are to have humility and he calls it here sober judgment toward
our fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. That is we are to
treat one another with honor or dignity. We aren't to overestimate. people within the body of Christ,
making them the center of the church's attention, but nor are
we to underestimate their value to the body of Christ. We are
to have a humble spirit, one that appreciates and recognizes
the various gifts of those within the body of Christ. We are to
have a spirit of honor toward even the least among us. In fact,
Paul said in Ephesians 3, verse 8, that he considered himself
less than the least of all the saints. That's the spirit of
what it means to outdo one another in showing honor. When Paul says
he was less than the least of all the saints, it didn't mean
that he shirked his duty of preaching. It didn't mean that he had no
authority in the church. It didn't mean that he didn't
confront sin, that he didn't preach against bad doctrine and
bad behavior. It just meant that he didn't
view himself as better than other people. He didn't have a superiority
complex. In fact, the book of James really
helps us with this. If you turn with me to James
chapter 2, James describes to us the importance of outdoing
one another and showing honor. This is how James describes the
same principle. James chapter two, verse number
one. My brothers, show no partiality
as you hold the faith in our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of
glory. For if a man wearing a gold ring and fine clothing comes
into your assembly, and a poor man in shabby clothing also comes
in, and if you pay attention to the one who wears the fine
clothing and say, you sit here in a good place, while you say
to the poor man, you stand over there or sit down at my feet,
James says, have you not then made distinctions among yourselves
and become judges with evil thoughts? Listen, my beloved brothers,
has not God chosen those who are poor in the world to be rich
in faith and heirs of the kingdom which he has promised to those
who love him? But you have dishonored the poor man. Are not the rich
the ones who oppress you and the ones who drag you into court?
Are they not the ones who blaspheme the honorable name by which you
were called? If you really fulfill the royal law according to the
scripture, which is this, you shall love your neighbor as yourself,
James says, then you are doing well. But if you do the opposite,
if you show partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted
by the law as transgressors. For whoever keeps the whole law
but fails in one point has become guilty. of all of it. This is
very similar to what Paul said in 1 Corinthians 13. You can
have all the gifts imaginable. You can have the most important
gifts in the church, but if you don't have love, if you don't
have that one principle of obeying God's law, which is summed up
in love, then you're guilty of breaking all of God's law. You're
guilty of showing partiality, of not honoring every member
of the body of Christ. And so Paul says, outdo one another
in showing honor. And of course, there are various
ways in which you can do this. One of the chief ways to do this
is simply to say an encouraging word to someone or to tell someone
how much you value their friendship or you value their spiritual
gift or you value being able to see them each Lord's Day.
Well, this then takes us to a fifth manifestation of love. In verse
11, Paul tells us that love is characterized by duty. Love is
characterized by duty. There are three staccato-like
commands, but all of them are related together in verse 11. They're related to this idea
of duty. Notice verse 11, Paul says, do not be slothful and
zeal, be fervent in spirit, serve the Lord. First Paul says, do
not be slothful in zeal. Now we all know Christians within
the covenant community that are slothful. We could say that they
are spiritual couch potatoes, or maybe to be even more spiritual,
pew potatoes. They sit there, they're slothful,
they're lazy. But Christians above all are
to be marked, as it says here, by zeal. Do not be slothful in
zeal. That is to say, we are to be
go-getters. Christians are not to be laid back. regarding our
duty and serving our master. There needs to be a sense of
urgency to living the Christian life. Jesus, by the way, is our
example. Jesus said this. He said, we
must work the works of him who sent us while it is day. Night
is coming when no one can work. Paul said in Galatians 6.10,
so then as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and
especially to those of the household of faith. Or we could go to the
Old Testament, Ecclesiastes 9.10, whatever your hand finds to do,
do it with all your might. Or again, back to Paul's words
to the Ephesians, in Ephesians 5, walk not as unwise, but as
wise, making the best use of our time, because the days are
evil. So Paul says, do not be slothful
in zeal. Now, if you're using a King James,
it's probably translated, do not be slothful in business.
But it's not speaking about a businessman or a businesswoman. It's not
speaking about commercial enterprises, although it applies to that.
As a Christian, if we're a Christian businessman, we're to be the
best Christian businessman that we can be with zeal. We aren't
to be lazy. But really, it's describing the
business of the kingdom of God, that whatever our vocation is,
whatever our spiritual gifts are, wherever it is our lot in
life is, we are not to be slothful, we are to be zealous. And you
ask the question, why is being zealous and not lazy a manifestation
of love within the covenant community? Well, I can answer that by quoting
Proverbs 18, 9, which says, he also who is slack in his work
is brother to him who destroys. We live in a society that is
full of a lot of people that simply want free handouts and
it's destroying our society. Paul is saying that the society
of the church ought never to be marked by slothfulness or
laziness, that everyone has something to contribute. Throughout the
course of every week, I am oftentimes phoned by various people. They
could be in the community, they could be outside of the community,
and they'll ask what time our services are on Sunday. And this
past week, I received a phone call from someone out of state
who said that her friend had moved to the area. She was going
through a very difficult time and she needed a church to go
to. And as I began to really ask
some questions of this lady's friend who wanted to attend our
church, I began to realize that this was an example of a person
who wanted to come to a church and not contribute anything.
They wanted to be a getter and not a giver, and so I kindly
revealed to this individual that perhaps our church was not the
type of church this person was looking for. Because although
there are seasons in our lives in which maybe we need to be
ministered to more than we are ministering to others, we can
never take a day off as a Christian. We are all called to contribute
to the needs of the saints, to the body of Christ. We are called
to be in relationship with one another. A church is not a place
that we sit. It is a place that we do. And
so Paul says, That love is characterized by duty. Do not be slothful and
zeal. And then notice that second phrase.
He says, be fervent in spirit. This just reinforces the phrase,
do not be slothful and zeal. The word fervent is zeo. It literally
means to boil. And so Paul is metaphorically
saying that Christians are to be boiling over in their spirits. They're to be hot. in their spirits
for God, there to be fervent. Whatsoever you do, whether you
eat or drink, do all to the glory of God, Paul said in 1 Corinthians
10 31. Someone once well said that it
doesn't take much of a man to be a Christian. It just takes
all of him. And that's what Paul is saying
here when he says, be fervent in spirit. Do not be slothful
and zeal, be fervent in spirit. And then he says at the end of
verse 11, serve the Lord. This is what motivates our service
to the Lord, our duty to the Lord. It's being reminded that
he is our master, we are his servant, we are to serve the
Lord. This helps us not to grow weary
in our well-doing, as Paul says in 2 Thessalonians 3.13. Paul
lived by a certain very important principle, and I'm convinced
that Paul was an avid sports fan. Because he said in 1 Corinthians
9.26, I do not run aimlessly, describing the Christian life,
I do not box as one beating the air. That was a way of Paul saying,
I live my Christian life with purpose. I live my Christian
life with urgency. There are priorities in my life,
and my biggest priority is the kingdom of God. So Paul is saying
we are to give ourselves in love to others, boiling over in service,
being fervent. We are literally to exhaust ourselves
as a living sacrifice. for God. It was D.L. Moody who
said, A story is told that when James Calvert when as a missionary to the cannibals
of the Fiji Islands, the captain of the ship sought to turn Calvert
back. He said to Calvert, you will
lose your life and the lives of those that are with you if
you go among those savages. To which the missionary Calvert
replied, we died before we came here. In other words, we have
already given ourselves as a living sacrifice to God. And come what may, we will serve
God because it is our duty to serve the Lord Jesus Christ.
And one of the most disturbing things to me, I think I mentioned
this last week, are Christians who think that ministry is left
to the professionals. left to those who are seminary
trained, left to those who are ordained. Whatever our gifts
are, whatever our vocation is, we are to serve the interests
of God's kingdom. I remember reading one time about
a dry cleaning store that also dyed clothing. And on the door
of the store, it said, we dye to live, D-Y-E. We dye to live,
we live to dye. The more we dye, the more we
live. The more we live, the more we die. That's what it means
to be a living sacrifice to God. We understand that it is our
duty, whether we're in full-time ministry or not. In fact, the
Apostle Paul, at one point in his ministry, made tents on the
side just to prove the point that every Christian is to pull
their own load, that whatever we do, whether we make tents
or whether we preach the word of God, we have a duty to serve
the Lord Jesus Christ. And this is a demonstration of
what it means to love the church, what it means to love the kingdom
of God, what it means to love Christ. All of this takes us
now to a sixth manifestation of love. Paul tells us in verse
12 that love is also characterized by persistency. There's another
triplet of staccato commands here in verse 12. They're all
related to this idea of perseverance or persistency. Paul says rejoice
in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer. This is
another way of saying that the Christian life is a marathon.
It's not a sprint. So Paul says rejoice and hope. And of course we know from studying
the first half of Romans that Christians can have joy. Christians
can rejoice in almost all situations because we have hope. This is
a reference, I think, to future hope, the future hope of eternal
glory that the Apostle Paul described back in chapter 8 and verse 24,
when he said, for in this hope we were saved. Now, hope that
is seen is not hope, for who hopes for what he sees? But if
we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience. It is this future hope that grounds
the Christian, that keeps the Christian grounded in the midst
of present trials. And that's why Paul goes on to
say next, be patient in tribulation. Our future hope helps us be patient
in our present tribulation. The word for tribulation there,
you might want to circle it. It is the Greek word thalipsis.
It literally means pressures. It can be applied to persecution,
but really it can be applied to any pressure that the Christian
has in his or her life. Paul says, rejoice in hope. Be
patient in tribulation or pressures. And then he says, be constant
in prayer. Of course, we are constant in
prayer because we all know how reliant we are on God's grace
to bear us up under the pressures of life. And let me just say
this, verse number 12 is not a verse that's telling us to
pull ourselves up by our own bootstraps. We know that the
pressures of life are difficult. That's why we must constantly
be in prayer. But we also know that the pressures
or the tribulations of life produce within us a sort of spiritual
callous to make us tougher, to make our lives be marked by tenacity. In fact, if you just turn back
with me to chapter five, I want to remind you what Paul says
about toughness and tenacity as it's tied with hope. Romans
5 and verse 2, Paul says, through Him, that is Christ, we have
also obtained access by faith into this grace in which we stand.
We stand in God's grace. We stand on the foundation of
His grace. So Paul says, we rejoice in hope of the glory of God.
There's the word hope used again, the future glory of God. And
notice he says in verse 3, not only that, But we rejoice in
our present sufferings because of this future hope of the glory
of God, knowing that suffering produces endurance and endurance
produces character and character produces hope. And hope does
not put us to shame because God's love has been poured into our
hearts through the Holy Spirit that has been given to us. And
it is the testimony of all Christians, isn't it? That in the midst of
tribulation, in the midst of the pressures of life, it isn't
fun. But when we come out the other side and we are stronger,
our faith is stronger as well. And we can thank the Lord and
praise the Lord for what he put us through to make us more like
Christ, to make us more grateful. and also to make us more sympathetic
to our brothers and sisters in Christ. One of the reasons you
must persevere and be persistent in all the tribulations and trials
that you face is because you and I need to be there for one
another. In fact, just sort of skipping
ahead, notice what Paul says in verse 15. He says we are to
rejoice with those that rejoice, but we are also what? To weep
with those that weep. How are we going to weep with
those that weep? How are we going to be sympathetic with others
that are struggling if we ourselves have not gone through struggles?
In fact, later in Romans, Paul tells us in chapter 15 that whatever
was written in former days was written for our instruction that
through endurance and through the encouragement of the scriptures,
we might have hope. When we have other saints that
we can look to, who have been strong and sturdy and faithful
and that God has held up, it gives us confidence that God
will preserve us as well. So Paul says in Romans 15, 13,
may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace and believing
so that by the power of the Holy Spirit, you may abound in hope. The story is told of a great
never say die general, who was taken captive by the opposing
army, and he was thrown into a deep, wide pit with a number
of his own soldiers. And in that pit was a huge pile
of horse manure. And as the general was getting
ready to be thrust into that pit, he said to his soldiers,
follow me, before he dove in and then made the statement,
there has to be a horse in here somewhere. He was demonstrating
the fact that he had optimism. In the midst of the pile of the
mess of life that we all walk through, that we all face, that
stinks to high heaven, that is not fun when we walk through
it, we are those who can have hope. And when we have hope,
It's one of the most loving things we can do in the context of a
covenant community because when we have hope through the stinking
mess that we are facing, when others go through a stinking
mess, they too are strengthened and can have hope. There's a
seventh manifestation of love. Paul says in verse 13 that love
is also characterized by generosity. Notice the beginning of verse
13. Paul says we are to contribute to the needs of the saints. Now
the word contribute here is the verb koinoneo. It actually literally
means to share. It's related to the word koinonia,
which you're familiar with, which means fellowship. And I think
in our own day, fellowship, that word is often a misused word. It's a diluted word. When Paul
says contribute to the needs of the saints, he's saying to
share toward the needs of the saints. The fellowship of the
saints, this is not describing a church potluck or a church
social event. The church is not a country club.
The church is a fellowship. It's a place to share. In fact,
when we partake of communion, we are partaking of a fellowship
feast, a love feast. And when Paul wrote to the Corinthians,
he told them that when they come together, they were to share
their food together in this love feast. They were to share their
gifts, their resources, and even their food, because everyone
is expected to share something, contribute to the needs of the
saints, whatever it might be. Now, as I've said before, this
could be applied to the sharing of our financial resources when
Paul says, contribute to the needs of the saints. Every Christian
is meant to contribute in some form or fashion, at least by
minimum, by way of the tithe, to contribute to the kingdom
of God. Oswald Sanders once said that the basic question is not
how much of our money we should give to God, but how much of
our money we should keep for ourselves. And Thomas Watson
said, there is a blessed kind of giving, which though it makes
the purse lighter, makes the crown heavier. God blesses those
who contribute. And perhaps this is financial
contribution because back in verse eight, Paul spoke about
those who contribute in generosity. So apparently there are some
in the church who have a special gift of contributing financially
out of their wealth. But I think this term also applies
broadly to any way that you can share, whether it's your spiritual
gift, whether it's financial resources. We are to share everything
in love with the saints, whatever And this can be illustrated by
the grandfather who gave a box of chocolate to one of his grandchildren
and a box of chocolate to the other one of his grandchildren.
And the first grandchild took the box of chocolates, went to
his room and stuffed his face with them so that he had chocolate
smeared all over his face. But the second grandson, upon
receiving that box, opened it up, looked at the candies, lifted
it up and said, since you gave this to me, I want to give you
the first piece. Now that is a simple illustration
that even children can understand. And I'm convinced that one of
the clearest signs and indicators that a child is a true believer
is when they are marked with kindness and sharing and giving. It is very unnatural to share
and to give. But even children who have been
saved by the blood of Christ know what it means to be kind,
what it means to give. Paul is just giving some simple,
almost elementary level maxims. This is not deep theology when
he says in verse 13, contribute to the needs of the saints. Love
is characterized by generosity. So we're looking at the many
manifestations of love in the Christian life. What does it
mean to be a living sacrifice? What does it mean to be on fire
for God? It means that our lives are marked
with love. Love of authenticity, love of consistency, love of
affinity, love of dignity, love of duty, love of persistency,
love of generosity. We'll end with this one this
morning, the end of verse 13. Paul tells us that love is characterized
by hospitality as well. Not just generosity, but hospitality. Notice he says, contribute to
the needs of the saints, but then he says, and seek to show
hospitality. Now, the word hospitality, I'm
convinced, is also another diluted word in our vocabulary. When
we see the word hospitality in the Bible, we are not to think
this is just having church people over to our house for socializing. That's often what Christians
think of when they think of hospitality. But no, true hospitality is serving
anyone, anywhere, and for whatever reason. In fact, if generosity,
which was spoken about at the beginning of verse 13, and contributing
to the needs of the saints, emphasizes what we do within the covenant
community, then seeking to show hospitality is how the covenant
community demonstrates generosity outward to strangers. In fact,
the word hospitality is phyloxenia. It literally means to love strangers. So it's showing us that the way
that church folk are to live is to not just have an eye to
ourselves, but to look outside of ourselves. In fact, the way
that the word hospitality was used in the first century can
help us understand this. Ancient inns were not prevalent
in the first century, and they were often unsafe and, shall
I say, unsavory places of establishment. And so this meant that Christians
oftentimes had to open their homes to traveling preachers
or to Christians who had been displaced because of persecution. They would open their homes to
complete strangers who named the name of Christ. In fact,
the Apostle Paul was on the receiving end. of such hospitality as he
was a preacher of the gospel. But I think today we have lost
what it means to show hospitality. I would just put it this way.
Showing hospitality is not showing off your house to your guests
that you already know. It's showing love to those perhaps
you don't know and those that maybe you do know but that you
know cannot give anything in return. This is true biblical
hospitality. And the Bible says that we are
to do hospitality without complaint. 1 Peter 4, show hospitality to
one another without grumbling, without grumbling. We are to
show hospitality without complaining, without thinking that we are
being inconvenienced, that this is part and parcel of what it
means to demonstrate love, even to complete strangers. Jesus said this in Luke chapter
14. He said, when you give a dinner or a banquet, do not invite your
friends or your brothers or your relatives or your rich neighbors,
lest they also invite you in return and you be repaid. No,
Jesus says, when you give a feast, invite the poor, the crippled,
the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed because they
cannot repay you, for you will be repaid at the resurrection
of the just. There are many examples in the
Bible of those who have shown great hospitality. In fact, the
Apostle Paul was so appreciative of the hospitality shown by one
man that he mentions him in Scripture. 2 Timothy 1. He speaks about
a man, he says, may the Lord grant mercy to the household
of Onesiphorus, for he often refreshed me and was not ashamed
of my chains, but when he arrived in Rome, he searched for me earnestly
and found me. May the Lord grant to him mercy
on that day, because you all well know his service that he
rendered to me at Ephesus. Now you and I might not have
our names recorded in scripture, like Onesiphorus' name was recorded
in scripture, but we can have our deeds recorded in heaven
and great will be our reward on that day when we show similar
hospitality. Jesus said in Matthew 10, whoever
gives one of these little ones even a cup of cold water because
he is a disciple, truly I say to you, he will by no means lose
his reward. So as you can see from this really
comprehensive list As Paul defines love, love is far more than a
feeling. Love is lively. Love is active. Love is practical. Love is comprehensive. It covers every Christian and
every part of the Christian's life. And Paul isn't even done
yet. He's going to give four more manifestations of love. But I believe the best way to
conclude this sermon is to pray that the Lord might give us strength
to demonstrate this sort of love. You know, in studying the first
11 chapters of Romans, the great challenge is just trying to understand
what exactly Paul is saying. And trying to understand and
wrap our minds around the depth of that rich theology, it's difficult
to understand. What Paul says here is not difficult
to understand. It's just difficult to apply.
And it is only the Holy Spirit that will help us be Christians
who have lives that are marked by the single greatest quality
a Christian can possess. And that is love for one another. Let's pray that he help us. Father,
thank you for your words of truth. They are heavy words of truth,
not because they are difficult to understand, but because we
are difficult people. We are stubborn. We are hard-hearted. We are by nature selfish and
self-serving. And it is very difficult for
us to love our neighbor As we love ourselves, but Lord, you
have called us as Christians to do that. Our great motivation
is the mercies of God that have come to us through Christ. The
great manifestation of love. and your son coming to this earth
and dying for sinners. That is what should motivate
our love, our giving, as the Spirit of God empowers us to
do that. Lord, we pray that you would
be with us even as we partake of this fellowship feast, this
love feast, as we share together in this communion meal, as we're
reminded of the gospel, that we might be reminded of our duty
toward one another. That we might have a love that
is characterized by authenticity and consistency. That it might
be marked with affinity and dignity and duty. Lord, that our lives
might be marked with generosity and hospitality. and a duty that
wants to serve others and the interests of your kingdom. So
thank you for this blessed opportunity to partake of this meal. And
even as brother John plays and we prepare our hearts, Lord help
us to be ever grateful for the greatest sacrifice that was ever
made. And that was the sacrifice of
your son on our behalf to give us eternal life and to forgive
us of our sins. We give you the glory and we
pray all of this in Jesus name. Amen. I hope this sermon from God's
Word has ministered to your soul. For more information about our
church, you can visit our website, www.ChristReformedcc.com. Also, for access to more sermons,
articles, and a podcast I host entitled, Today in Church, His
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Relating to One Another, Part I
Series Romans
| Sermon ID | 85241559478039 |
| Duration | 57:46 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | Romans 12:9-16 |
| Language | English |
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