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If you turn again in your Bibles
to Ephesians I don't know if you picked that
hymn in particular after reading Ephesians 5 and 6, but that was
perfect. As we finish up Ephesians today, we will see that, I think
that is kind of the lesson from Ephesians, is God has made us
one, and we as a body, as we gather together, that is our
desire, that should be what we strive for. So what we're going
to do this morning in this, you may find this a little unusual,
but it's the best I could come up with. We're going to be on
vacation next week, so we won't be with you the next couple of
Sundays. And so I really needed to finish Ephesians today. And we're going to go through
and finish this morning, basically with the rest of chapter five
and into chapter six. And I'm going to skip the section
on the armor of God. And we're going to do that at
the one o'clock service. So it's a little out of order, but I
think it worked because it's pretty much that can be a standalone
series. In fact, if you've been here
a while, you remember that I did a series on that quite a while,
quite a number of years ago. So that's my intention, is to
do that and try to cover all these things. Again, in a survey
manner, not so much in a verse-by-verse thing, although we'll cover each
of the verses as we go. Now, just my way of remembrance
and kind of introduction to get us to where we are. Last week
we had looked at, after the matter of the book of Ephesians being
written to remind the Jews and the Gentiles of their relationship
to one another, and that God has now brought the Gentiles
into the church. And he's brought the Jews into
the church. The Jews aren't the church anymore. The Jews aren't
the chosen people of God. They are now brought into the
church, which is what Christ ushered in. And so after that
lean out of that doctrine, if you will, then Paul goes on to
start admonishing those who are gathered together, basically
in chapter 4, and we picked it up last week in verse 25, with
the admonition, therefore, put away lying. Let each one of you
speak truth. with his neighbor, for we are
members of one another. There's that theme again. There's
what we sang about. We are members of one another.
We have a relationship with one another. We don't just come here
because this is our church, like you might go to the Elks or the
VFW or any other club like that. We come together because we are
members of one another. And that means we're a whole
number of obligations that we have because of that membership
of being one another. Now, that brings us then this
morning to what I'd called continuing admonitions, as Paul goes through
these things here. And some of these I'm going to
try to go through briefly. You know that sometimes I fail
at that, but we're still going to try to get through them. Because
my intention in looking at these, and especially the first couple
about wives and husbands, My intention is not to teach you
everything there is to know about it. My intention is not to make
you think, oh, that's something I never thought of. My intention
is to bring this to your attention to say, you should be looking
at these things and you should be working through these things.
These are things that as children of God, are important enough
that God put them in the scriptures, and so we shouldn't take lightly
the admonitions that we see in scriptures. And so the first
one, which I kind of grouped under marriage, but really it's
broken up into wives and then husbands, is this admonition
beginning in chapter 5 and verse 22. wives submit to your own
husbands as to the Lord." Now let me just stop for a second
and say this. Do you realize how opposed that
is to the world's view? We don't do these things because
we receive them and go, oh, that's a good thing, or that's a logical
thing, or even that's a beneficial thing. We receive these things
because God has revealed them to us. They aren't easy things
to accept. As I go through the section on
wives, some of the ladies might think, oh, you're being hard
on us. Wait till I get to the husbands, OK? Because I'm a husband,
and I can be harder on myself. But in all of this, understand
this is because we are doing these things as to the Lord,
and we are not doing them perfectly. I really struggle with lessons
like this, where I come and say, man, I'm like the worst person
to be teaching this. But I have to teach it because
it's the Word of God. And as I teach it and as I prepare
for it, I say, hear these things yourself. Be open and be willing
to say, even at this age in your life, are you doing these things?
And are you and your wife living together as you should be after
41 years of marriage? And where there needs to be work
and improvement and confession, those things need to happen.
but it is because we are submitting as we submit to the Lord. For
the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the
church, and he is the savior of the body. Therefore, just
as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their
own husbands in everything. So, a couple of thoughts from
this, and let me just start too by saying, not everyone is a
wife. Not every woman is a wife, but
that doesn't mean there aren't lessons here as we look into
these things as to how are we to act, and in particular, if
we have no husband, how are we to act in submission to the Lord
and to the matters that God has laid out in the church. But notice
again, submission to your husband is a spiritual matter. This is
not some worldly oppression. This is not the evil patriarchy
and the patriarchy is absolutely scriptural and God-ordained,
but it's not some means of oppression of putting women down and making
them slaves and making them servants. This is submission in matters
that are very important because they're eternal. And so submission
to a husband is a spiritual matter. If you're struggling with submission,
you're struggling spiritually. And you need to recognize that
and deal with it from that perspective. And Colossians 3.18, I think,
says this in just a little bit different way that helps show
that. It says, wives, submit to your own husbands as is fitting
in the Lord. So you see, the submission to
husbands has to do with as to the Lord, as is fitting in the
Lord. It's a spiritual matter. And
the model is Christ in the church. Just back last week, the verse
21, the last verse we looked at in Ephesians, Ephesians 5,
21, submitting to one another in the fear of God. That's the
model for all of us. but it's also the model for wives
in submitting to their husbands. We submit in the fear of God,
not because we fear our husbands, not because we fear man, but
because we fear God. And God has said, wives, submit
to your own husbands. And of course, the benefit of
this submission to your own husband is more grace. James 4 and verse
6 says, but God gives more grace. Therefore he says, God resists
the proud, but gives grace to the humble. Therefore submit
to God. Resist the devil and he will
flee from you. Draw near to God and he will
draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners,
and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Lament and mourn and weep. Let
your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble
yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he will lift you up."
And you see the key here and how this is connected to wives
being submissive to husbands is the benefit of being more
gracious. James starts that by saying,
God resists the proud. What's wrong in modern society?
What is behind the entire feminist movement? that led to the whole
homosexual movement, that led to the whole trans pride movement. Pride. It's pride. Nobody's gonna
tell me what to do, not even God, especially not God. It's
been interesting in the news this last week with the shooting
at the school there and all the usual hype and nonsense that's
made over it, but that there's been this weird backlash from
Democrats, and it's one of those things that you can't quite comprehend
unless you understand their worldview, is mocking prayer. Well, yeah,
because they don't believe in God. So to them, praying is foolish. It's utter foolishness. But why? Because they don't acknowledge
God. They resist anyone but themselves. And God resists the proud. So as feminism tries to seep
into our society and into our churches, we have to be careful
that we don't let feminism come into the Reformed Baptist church
that we're in because it will seep in. It will come in. Satan
will try to use every little thing he can to harm and to hurt
us, but God resists the proud and gives grace to the humble.
So wives in particular, the benefit of submission to your husband
is grace. It's growing in the things of God. It's being gracious
and humble in the things of God. And you will see, and especially
as you see older ladies that have lived this way much of their
lives, you will see the benefits of that. And you will see how
women who are in true and proper submission to their husbands
and to their Lord and Savior are very happy and content people. And they are not constantly running
after the world and the things of the world and then always
upset because they didn't get it and having to take tranquilizers
because they're worried about this and they're worried about
that. And all those things that flow out of a lack of submission
because of pride. But then in verse 25, Paul goes
on and he says, husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also
loved the church and gave himself for her, that he might sanctify
and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that he
might present her to himself a glorious church, not having
spot or wrinkle or any such thing. but that she should be holy and
without blemish. So husbands ought to love their
own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own
flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the
church. For we are members of his body,
of his flesh, and of his bones. For this reason, a man shall
leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the
two shall become one flesh. This is a great mystery, but
I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless, let
each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself,
and let the wife see that she respects her husband." And so
as Paul goes through this, he doesn't jump on the ladies and
say, you do this or else, and now you men, you do what you
want. He brings an even greater weight to bear on the husbands
that we are to love our wives just as Christ loved the church
and gave himself for it. That's a great responsibility.
That's a great weight for us to bear. And again, even though
not all men are husbands, we still have that example as to
how we're to behave in the church and how we're to serve in the
church. We are to give ourselves for the church of God. And we
are to seek to serve and to honor in whatever ways we can. And
we are to do that also with our wife, which I think is an example
in the world that the world sees that, and they don't maybe understand
all the things about the church, but they see how we treat our
wives, and they see how we act with one another as husband and
wife. And so Christ is our example of self-sacrificing love. for
our wives. Back in chapter 5 in verse 2,
it says, And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and
given himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a
sweet-smelling aroma. Think about that, men. As we
seek to serve our wives, how are we to do it? Just as Christ
serves the church and sacrificed his own life He didn't get to
do all the things that you think of as a man wanting to do because
he was busy sacrificing and ministering and serving the church that was
being brought into being by his death and resurrection. And so,
husbands, we need to guard and promote our wife's spiritual,
mental, and physical welfare. at the expense often of our own
selves. Again, I think this is a huge
difference in the world. You have comedians is the nicest
place you see it, you have men and women that joke about it,
but that men and women that go their own way. They may be married,
they may be living in the same house, but they do their own
things. The guy's a fisherman and every weekend he's out on
his bass boat fishing. Nothing wrong with that if you
fish, okay? I don't, but if you want to, that's fine. But the
wife has her friends, and she does her thing, and she likes
to whatever, shop, antique shop, whatever. And those, you know,
that's just the way things are. That's not the way things should
be. Men and women as husband and wife are to promote and guard
their spiritual, mental, and physical welfare, often men at
the expense of your own desires and your own pleasures. There
are times that you may want to go off and do something with
the guys and you have to say, no, I have a responsibility to
my wife. Wife and children perhaps. And
I should be doing those things instead. Hebrews 13 and verse
15 says, therefore, By Him, which is Christ, by Him let us continually
offer the sacrifice of praise to God. That is the fruit of
our lips, giving thanks to His name. But do not forget to do
good and to share, for with such sacrifices God is well pleased.
And so do you see the application there in Hebrews? Offer the sacrifice
of praise to God, the fruit of our lips, thanks to His name.
But don't forget to do good. You can't just say to your wife,
oh honey, you be spiritual, now I'm going to go do what I want.
We have to do good. We have to take care of them
spiritually, mentally. The world is constantly out trying
to damage the mental and thought process of our wives. Be on guard
for that. Talk to them about it. Ask them,
what do you think of this? Have you thought this through?
And of course, their physical welfare. We need to make sure
that they're physically well off. And that doesn't just mean
they're comfortable and have everything they want, but that
they're physically doing OK. And we should look out for these
things. These are responsibilities that we have in the doing good
and the sharing. And in doing that, we live together
for our mutual benefit. Now, this shouldn't be your motivation,
but it is certainly a benefit. 1 Peter 3 and verse 7 says, husbands
likewise. dwell with them with understanding,
giving honor to the wife as to the weaker vessel, and as being
heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not
be hindered." And so, husbands, we're to dwell with our wives
with understanding. That's the hard part. There are
times I don't understand my wife. Why do you do that? You gotta stop and say, work
at it, deal with these things, understand and give benefit and
give patience and give honor to the wife as to the weaker
vessel. Now again, not in the worldly sense of, oh, she's weaker,
she can't do, yes, women can go into, no, they can't, that's
silly, but whatever. That's not what it's talking
about. The weaker vessel is in the more delicate vessel, the
more, kept and watched over a vessel. I tried to think of a good example.
The best one I got, sorry, best one I got. I have a truck. I
know some of you don't think it's a real truck, but I got
a truck and I have a car. And the car, I see you laughing
out there, and the car is, it's a nice little car. I like it.
I got it when I could get it. I enjoy it. We enjoy riding around
in it. My truck has scratches on it. Why? Because it's a truck.
When I needed to drive out into the fields and throw some wood
in it, I drove out in the fields, a bush scratched it, and it's
got some scratches in it. It's a truck. If my car got scratches
like that, I'd be a little upset. I'd be down there buffing it
out. I'd be trying to take care of it. Why? Because it's more
delicate, all right? It's more... reserved for a certain
purpose, for a certain use. Well, think of the wife in the
same way. We don't treat our wives roughly.
They're not just one of the guys. You shouldn't treat your wife
like one of the guys. She thinks different, she acts
different, she has different needs. She is the weaker, the
more precious vessel. And we are heirs together of
the grace of life, together. We are heirs of the grace of
life. And men, the final warning here
in Peter, that your prayers may not be hindered. Your spiritual
life will be hindered by the way you treat or mistreat your
wife. Give thought to that. That's
sobering as a man and as a husband to realize that. And then finally,
in this area here. I wanted to say this, and I tried
to say it in a way that was short and precise, and hopefully this
makes sense. This is complementary companionship, not equality. And I knew I'd be pressed for
time, but I'm going to touch on it anyway. We go back to Genesis
8, for in the day that you eat of it, you shall surely die.
So man has a job, and man has a commandment to obey. Religion. Right here. Right up front. The
very creation of man. Okay? And so obviously by the
creation commandment, God is telling him, you and I have a
relationship and there are rules and there are benefits to it.
And there is that fellowship that comes and that was spoken
about of God walking in the cool of the garden in the afternoon
with Adam and Eve. And the Lord God said next, it
is not good that man should be alone. I will make a helper comparable
to him. Again, before the fall. Man has
a job, man has a relationship to God, and God says it's not
good that you should be alone. I will make you a helper comparable
to you. Think about that in terms of
the companionship aspect. of what we have in our wives.
It is a complimentary companionship. It is not equality. As soon as
you accept the feminist notion that men and women in a marriage
are equal, you are on the wrong path. And you are gonna end up
in wrong places. Because if men and women are
equal in marriage, well then why aren't the men and women
equal in the church? And next you got a woman pastor. And you
see, okay, I skipped a few steps, but you see how you get there?
Because you've accepted a wrong premise. Eve was created as a
companion for man because he needed a companion. But it was
complementary companionship. It was not equality. And we do
well to be careful to not adopt the thinking and the words of
the world when it comes to relationship between men and women. And it
doesn't mean that the opposite is, oh, it's women are oppressed.
Women should be treated like cattle. Absolutely not. That's
not in the scriptures. but understand the roles that
God created. And so Adam goes on to say in
verse 23, Adam said, this is now bone of my bones and flesh
of my flesh. She shall be called woman because
she was taken out of man. Therefore, a man shall leave
his father and mother and be joined to his wife and they shall
become one flesh. There's so much to unpack there
that I can't begin to touch on. But you see this in the modern
feminist movement. They're spelling woman different.
Why? Because they don't want to recognize
that even after all the translations, we still in English see man and
woman. Woman got man right in the middle
of it. And something that somebody else pointed out recently I got
a kick out of. I've never had much use for hyphenated names.
I don't think anybody has one. But if you do, don't mean to
be offensive. It's your parents' fault. I get that. I'm going
to hyphenate my name because I'm not going to take my husband's
name. Right. you're gonna take your grandfather's
name. See, you can't get away from the patriarchy. It's silliness. And then as the person was saying,
and it falls down because now the next kid, what are you gonna
do, do another hyphen so you got hyphen, hyphen, hyphen and
four names? No, it's ridiculous. It's self-defeating. It's just like homosexuals. In
order to propagate themselves, what do they have to do? They
have to get children from other people and brainwash them into their
thinking. They can't produce their own
children. And so wrong thinking against God has its own consequences
built into it. And that's a comfort in some
ways to us as we look at the world and we think things are
terrible, things are bad. Yeah, but there's a self-correctingness
to God's creation that I think we sometimes underestimate. But
what is it that Adam said? Man and woman are one. Therefore,
a man shall leave his father and mother. There's a point,
men, at which you need to leave your mom and dad. and move out
and become a husband and a leader in your own new home and be joined
to your wife and become one flesh with her. And you see, that's
the issue that you have with all the perversions of homosexuality
and lesbianism and all the other things. They can't be joined
together. They can't be one flesh. It doesn't work that way. And
so therefore, understand that the creation of man and the role
that he's been given as a husband is to be complementary companionship,
not equality in the marriage relationship. Now, we have a
couple more necessary submissions that are addressed here as we
move into Chapter 6. And we'll start first with the
first one, which is to children. Now, of course, I realize there's
no children here this morning. In fact, there's never any children
here because they're downstairs. So as I go through the children's
section, one, I'll try to keep it brief, and two, Parents, it's
your responsibility to teach your children these things. Children
don't naturally know these things. So verse one, chapter six and
verse one, children, obey your parents in the Lord for this
is right. Honor your father and mother,
which is the first commandment with promise. And the promises
that it may be well with you and you may live long on the
earth. And you fathers do not provoke your children to wrath,
but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord. So
a couple of thoughts. And this is, I think, more relevant
to parents in a sense than it is to the children. Although
children need to hear and be taught these same truths. Children
need to understand they are under an obligation to obey their parents
because God said they were. Not because daddy's bigger than
me, or daddy's smarter than me, or any of those things. And see,
that's where the world gets into this silliness of, well, your
children are just, let's let 12-year-olds vote. Let's hear
what they say. Who cares what a 12-year-old thinks? They haven't
got the world figured out yet. Some 12-year-olds might more
than some adults, but that's not the point. Children are to
obey their parents in the Lord, for this is right. And they are
given a commandment. Think about the fact that in
the Ten Commandments, OK, only ten commandments and one of them
is about children honoring their parents. That's how important
this is. And so childhood obedience is
commanded by God and includes a promise which includes an implied
threat. that it may be well with you
and you may live long on the earth. If you don't honor your
father and mother, it may not be well with you and you may
not live long on the earth. Now, that doesn't mean that you
can always say, oh, they were bad, they died early. No. but
there is a promise from God, and it is one that we would do
well not to simply ignore. And then notice also that along
with this goes the idea that fatherly discipline is commanded
by God, and there is guidance and boundaries given in the word
of God. Now, as an aside or as part of
this, the mother's disciplinary authority is delegated from the
father. Always keep that in mind. Mothers, you're not on your own.
All that you do with your children is because you are acting under
the authority of your husband, who is acting under the authority
of God. You see how that works together? And that chain of command,
if you will, is beneficial. And so when a child disobeys
their mom, if the mom can't bring the child into compliance, the
mom can take the child to the father and say, you need to deal
with little Henry. I was trying to think of a name
we don't have. And you need to deal with this. And fathers,
you better deal with it. And I think it's interesting,
and we have to be careful, because a lot of people have taken this,
and you fathers do not provoke your children to wrath, to be
the idea that, well, you can't discipline them if they get upset
about it. That's not what it's talking about. It's saying don't
provoke your children to wrath, but there's a contrast, but bring
them up in the training and admonition of the Lord. I think there's
two aspects to this that we overlook. One, if you don't discipline
your children, they are going to be subject to wrath. God's
wrath because of their disobedience and the world's wrath because
they don't put up with stupid nonsense. I have seen this over
and over again where a young person comes into the workforce
thinking that everything revolves around them and quickly finds
out not here it doesn't because that's not how it works. We don't
care what you feel like today. Get to work. Get that job done. If you don't get the job done,
guess what? You can go work for the next guy you think you're
smarter than. But I think that's part of this. Not provoking them
to wrath is making sure they're prepared to stand before God
and to be in cooperation with men. But it is also a matter
of directing and guiding them how? By the way of God. In the training and admonition
of the Lord. It's not up to you to make up
how you discipline. It's up to the word of God. And the word
of God directs us how and when we are to discipline. So we should
take note of that as parents and particularly as fathers.
So you see, I might have said that was the children's section,
but it really was still the father's section for the most part. And
I think we should take great heed to those things. And again,
I look back on this going, boy, there's a lot of things I wish
I'd done better as a father. And there's some things I maybe
did okay, but we always are going to do that, but it doesn't mean
we don't stop looking and learning and helping and giving direction
to our children, to our grandchildren, to others. It's all part of being
one body in Christ. And then finally under submission,
the section verses five to nine regarding bond servants. And
before I read it, let me just say, I take bond servants, I
think to be in a very broad sense, anyone who works for anyone else.
That's pretty much all of us. All right? Back then, a bondservant
meant it was a servant who had attached himself to someone,
either voluntarily or involuntarily. But here, I think we have a little
broader realm here that it applies to those who have to work for
others. And even when you work for yourself, you have to work
for others. You're providing for your family. You're having
to satisfy your customers, et cetera. But bondservants, be
obedient to those who are your masters according to the flesh
with fear and trembling in sincerity of heart as to Christ, not with
eye service as men pleasers, but as bondservants of Christ. doing the will of God from the
heart, with goodwill doing service as to the Lord and not to men,
knowing that whatever good anyone does, he will receive the same
from the Lord, whether he is a slave or free. And you masters
do the same things to them, giving up threatening, knowing that
your own master also is in heaven and there is no partiality with
him. Isn't it interesting that in a book written about the church
of Christ, we get down to the nitty gritty of husbands, wives,
children, bondservants, those who work in regard to one another.
God is concerned with these details in our lives. And so we should
especially take away from these verses, we should work for God's
glory and not our own. We can be motivated by interest,
we can be motivated by aptitude, but pleasing God should be the
central thing we look to do in whatever we put our hands to.
And men and women, okay, we think of men being the workers outside
the home for the most part, but all of us have obligations, whether
we're working in the home, whether we're working outside the home.
Everything that we do should be for God's glory and not our
own. I will tell you, this is one of the hardest things I've
had to wrestle with over the years, because it's too easy
at eight o'clock or nine o'clock, whenever you go to work, or seven
o'clock for many of you, as you go to work, it's too easy to
all of a sudden forget about God and focus on what you got
to do for the day. And oh, the boss wants something.
And if your boss likes to have a list ready to go first thing,
and all of a sudden you're getting all these messages, and immediately
you forget about working for God's glory, and you're plunged
into working to get things done, and to make sure everybody's
happy, and you're not getting fussed at, and people are good
with what's going on. But we need to stop and cultivate
A sense of our motivation is for God's glory and not our own
glory, not our own benefit. Even though God does bless us
and benefit us, we are taught in the Lord's Prayer, give us
this day our daily bread. And that's not in the context
of the scriptures especially. That's not in the context of
I'm just gonna sit around and wait for food to fall on me.
That's in the context of work. He who doesn't work won't eat.
That's the context. But God says, as you work, as
you get your daily bread through work, do it for God's glory.
And so even when the service is involuntary, and there are
times, and I know in my years of working, there are times that
you're working in fear and trembling. And you might say, well, it's
not involuntary. You can quit if you want. No, because there's
family to feed at the end of the day. And you've got to put
up with some of the nonsense and you've got to deal with it.
And there's a time and a proper time when you say, enough, I'll
go find something else to do. But even when it's involuntary
and there's fear and trembling, we should be sincere in heart
with goodwill towards those we work with, towards those who
are telling us what to do, knowing there's an eternal reward. God
compliments the servant who is faithful, who has done what he
was commanded to do. That doesn't mean going to far
off lands and saving thousands of souls for Christ if what God
has given you to do is go to your job, do it diligently, do
it faithfully, speak of Christ when you have opportunity, and
at the end of the day, go home knowing you gave it your all
and you did what you were supposed to do. There is eternal reward
for that faithfulness in the service that you've given, just
like Adam would have received reward when he was put in the
garden and told to tend it and care for it. We should keep that
in mind. God gave Adam a job, God has
given us jobs. And if you happen to be in a
position of power, sometimes more or less, but some of us
manage other people, we should remember who has placed us there
and why. It is easy when you're the boss to fall into the, because
I said so, don't ask questions, get it done. And there are times
you have to do that. But there are also times that
as you work and you exercise power over others, you should
be reminded what it was like when you were having to be told
what to do. And how did you perceive those
things? And even from the spiritual aspect
of how can I treat this person so that at the end of the day,
they come back and say, I don't know, you're a good boss, and
that's not the goal, but you're a good boss, you treat me fairly.
Well, let me tell you why I treat you fairly. And you see, now
you have an opportunity to talk about your relationship to God
and the fact that even though you're in a position of power,
God's put you there and you answer to God, not to your boss. So
bond servants, all of us keep these things in mind. Now, the
next section that we would have covered If we've been doing this
in order, was the armor of God, we'll do that at the 115 service. I hope you'll all be here to
hear that. I think it's an excellent summary of the Christian life
and an encouragement to the Christian life, but I'm not gonna go aside.
I'm gonna wait, okay? But let me cover two small things,
because obviously it's only four verses left here. First of all,
in chapter six and verse 21, we are taught fellowship among churches, Ephesians
6, 21 says, but that you also may know my affairs, Paul's,
what's he doing? What's he up to? And how I am
doing. Tychicus, a beloved brother and
faithful minister in the Lord will make all things known to
you whom I have sent to you for this very purpose that you may
know our affairs and that he may comfort your hearts. So while
we are to fellowship amongst ourselves, and I emphasize that
a lot, I am often talking about fellowship amongst ourselves,
we should also build bonds with other sheep, in other flocks,
and make an effort to maintain and strengthen one another in
the greater church of God. We have the advantage of here
in our area, we have several churches that are close to us,
even geographically close that we can fellowship with. We have
things like the Keech Conference where the churches in Virginia
in general get together. But we should work at fellowshipping
with one another in our church as well as in establishing relationships
with other churches so that as we read the missionary letters,
we know those people because we've been involved with them.
It doesn't mean you have to pack up and go off to visit them.
If you can, I encourage that. It's a whole new perspective
on life when you've seen the church and you've seen the people
and you've seen what their daily life looks like. But you don't
have to do that, but you can at least engage in the reading
of the letters, and praying for one another, and fellowshipping
with other brothers and sisters that you know, and saying to
them, how are things going in your church? How are things spiritually
at your home and your church? And fellowship amongst ourselves.
And then finally, the summary is this, and it is pretty much
a doxology in verse 23. Paul says, peace to the brethren,
and love with faith from God the Father and the Lord Jesus
Christ. Grace be with all those who love our Lord Jesus Christ
in sincerity. Amen. And so I'd leave you with
just a couple of thoughts here, a couple of questions for you
to think about, because I do hope you may not do it right
away, but I hope you'll go back and dig into some of these things
as they pertain to the needs in your life. But do we strive
for the peace and love of God among the brethren? That's what
should bring us together in this place, that we love one another
and we love with faith, not because we're perfect, not because we're
the epitome of what love should be, but peace to the brethren
and love with faith from God the Father and the Lord Jesus
Christ. It is Christ that allows us to gather together with all
the different backgrounds and ways of thinking that we have
and to fellowship together. And so then I think the final
question is this, is therefore Jesus Christ the center of everything
in this church? As a church, as we go through
time, as we go through different decisions and different difficulties
and different ideas, we should always come back to, is Jesus
Christ the center of everything we do in this church? If not,
Throw it out. Get rid of it. Discard it. Because
Christ is the center of all things. Without Christ, there is no salvation. Without Christ, there is no fellowship
and there is no worship together as the people of God. Let's close
with a word of prayer. Dear Heavenly Father, we do thank
you for your word. We thank you that it is the word
that is clear and speaks truth to us. And Father also convicts
us as well as encourages us and helps us to grow in the things
of God. Bless us in these matters, direct us as we read and hear
these things, and may your name be honored and praised as we
worship together this day. Do be now with our brother Breyer
as he brings the word in our 11 o'clock service Do gather
together the people of God in this place and glorify your name. We pray in Jesus name. Amen
"Survey of Ephesians" Part 9
Series Survey of Ephesians
"Survey of Ephesians"
Part 9
| Sermon ID | 831251446496142 |
| Duration | 40:27 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday School |
| Language | English |
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