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One of the problems that human
nature has is we always want something we don't have. Now
that is one of the things that we struggle with. If we have
a big house, we want a bigger house. If we have a good-sized
bank account, we want a bigger bank account. If there is some
recognition on the job, we want more recognition on the job.
If you get two A's in school, you want three A's in school. We're constantly struggling,
reaching out. And of course, the American dream
is to be successful. Success means a lot of something. What that something is may vary. We're looking at the problem,
though. The problem is that this is what
we call envy or jealousy or greed or covetousness. It's reaching
out to get that which we don't have. It capitalizes on dissatisfaction. The thought of wanting what another
possesses or rightly deserves. often leads to disastrous results. I'm turning in the book of Genesis
to chapter 1, actually chapter 3, and I'm looking at the temptation
that Satan, the serpent, held out to Adam and Eve. particularly
here to Eve, Genesis 3.1. Now the serpent was more subtle
than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made. And he
said unto the woman, Yea, hath God said ye shall not eat of
every tree of the garden? The woman said unto the serpent,
We may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden, but of the
fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God
has said, Ye shall not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it,
lest ye die. And the serpent said unto the
woman, Ye shall not surely die, for God doth know that in the
day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened, and ye
shall be as gods. Knowing good and evil, that word
God, is the same as the word found in Genesis 1-1, in the
beginning, God created the heavens and the earth. It's that Hebrew
word Elohim. So, the serpent told Eve, you
know, instead of dying, you are going to become like Elohim,
just like God. Well, that was the temptation. The temptation was that they
should reach out for something that they didn't have. Well, what did they do? We know
what they did. Eve deliberately chose to sin.
She took of the fruit that God had forbidden. She gave it to
Adam and he ate it. The tragedy was instead of gaining
what they did not have, they lost what they did have. They lost fellowship with God
and they lost life. In fact, the scripture says,
in the day you eat thereof, you're going to die. And so they tasted
it, and immediately their relationship with God was broken. They died
spiritually. Instead of becoming like God,
they became alienated from God. Instead of getting a wife, they
received death. What led to that? It was reaching
out for something they didn't have, something which belonged
to God alone. Well, many years later, Jacob had twelve sons. Ten of the sons decided they
were going to to sell one of the sons, Joseph, into slavery. Well, you know the story about
this. The one that was being sold into slavery had been given
this lovely coat by his father. And then he'd had these fantastic
dreams of great prominence. And what happened is that the
other brothers got jealous. But they decided on they were
going to capture that braggart of a brother, the brother with
that fabulous new coat, and they were going to sell him as a slave. At first, they thought they were
going to kill him, but then they figured, well, we can make some
money out of it, so why kill him? And so as a result, they
sold him into slavery. Well, what happened? Did their
sin, did their jealousy, did their invade have a price? Well, as we read further toward
the end of the book of Genesis, we found out that later those
brothers were humiliated before Joseph, who was elevated to be
what we would call the vice president of Egypt. As well as the fact
that they had fear for their own lives, and for their little brother
Benjamin, as well as for their aged father. You know, it doesn't
really work out when we give vent to our jealousy. King Ahab, He was a mess from
the beginning, but King Ahab and his palace were right next
to a vineyard. A man by the name of Naboth owned
that vineyard. King Ahab decided he wanted that
vineyard. He had that covetous spirit,
that jealous spirit. Naboth to have that vineyard,
I want that vineyard. Now, he had plenty of money to
buy it, but Naboth didn't want to sell it. And so ultimately
what happened is he told his wicked wife about it, and she
caused the death of Naboth. And so Ahab then would have the
privilege of confiscating that property. Which he did. Did it cost him anything? Yes. It cost him, ultimately, his
life. And his wife, the prophet said
what would happen, his wife actually had her body eaten of dogs. fell out of the window, an upstairs
window in the palace, fell on the ground below. She died and
the dogs ate her body. My, what a gruesome price for
being jealous and envious and wanting what you don't have.
King David was looking out the window of his palace one night
and he saw a lady. And he decided he wanted that
woman for, if not his wife, then at least have sex with her. And
he made sure that she was brought to him. They sinned, and as a
result, what happened was that she became pregnant. He then
decided to have the husband killed so that he could marry the wife. What a tragedy, even the baby
that was born, a little boy, even that baby died because of
his sin. The wages of sin is what? Death. The wages of sin. and jealousy,
envy, wanting something we don't have. Whether it's sitting at
the desk in school and looking across at somebody else's answer
across the aisle, and we steal that answer. I want to have a
good grade, and I look over at Jim's or Mary's paper, and they've
got a pretty good record of making sure they pass. And I copied
their answer. because I was jealous, I was
envious, I wanted what they had. Sin always pays a price. Well, sometimes this idea of
being covetous, of jealousy, is an intention to deprive somebody
else by withholding from them what they deserve. This is wanting
to keep that which is not yours. Maybe it's a book that I borrowed
from somebody else. And I just like that book so
much. I'm hoping they'll forget that
they loaned me that book. And I can just keep it because
I'm envious. I'm jealous. I want what they
deserve. on an adult level, that has to
do with filing IRS forms and lying about what is on the form. And so we want something that
somebody else deserves, that our country deserves to have. In fact, sometimes we withhold
from God the offering that God deserves. The Bible calls that
robbery in Malachi 3.8. Jesus had had a phenomenal ministry. He'd performed miracles. He had
reached out to people. He'd healed people. He'd cast
out demons. He had gained the acceptance
and the approval and the acclaim of other people. You think everybody
was happy? Oh, no. The Pharisees realized
that they were losing their following. They were losing the recognition
they'd had before, and they were very jealous, very envious. And as a result, the Bible tells
us that for envy, they delivered Jesus. Well, with Him out of
the way, we're not going to have any competition. We can have
all the glory. We can have the acceptance. Everybody
will like us. if Jesus is taken away. In fact, they said to Pilate,
we have no king but Caesar. Somebody says Jesus was the king.
We have no king but Caesar. Did they pay a price? Yes. The
Roman Emperor Titus came in 70 A.D. and decimated Jerusalem. Just destroyed it. We understand
that the soldiers were told that there was gold in the mortar
of the temple. And they literally destroyed
the temple tearing off one stone after another after another to
try to find the gold that was in the mortar. When they said,
we have no king but Caesar, they paid a price because Caesar later
came and destroyed their very city and their temple. How about
war? Is that an example of people
that want something that isn't theirs? Yeah. At least some wars,
they are fought in order that people can gain plunder. In the
Old Testament, oftentimes the people that were captured were
turned into slaves. Now that's not so far from what
has happened in years past in our world, in our present world. 150 years ago, people were, there were wars
in Africa between tribes, and one tribe would defeat another
tribe and take their, the defeated people, take them as captives
and sell them to the slave traders, and the slave traders would then
bring them here to the United States or the Caribbean or various
other places and sell them. Tragedy. War. And there's an
example of that when Abraham's nephew Lot lived in Sodom and
a whole alliance of other tribes came against them, captured the
city, took the people captive, and also took a lot of plunder.
Well, Abraham fortunately had 318 trained servants He pursued
after them and recaptured the stolen plunder and people. Turn
with me to 1 Samuel chapter 18. We're going to spend the remaining
few moments in this passage, 1 Samuel chapter 18. We're looking at a situation involving
King Saul's jealousy of David. David had just come back from
fighting Goliath defeating Goliath, and the people looked at him
and they said, man, this David, he is really quite a person.
He's still a young person. Maybe he was the age of some
of you. He had fought Goliath and defeated Goliath. And so
he comes back, and there were people that said, Boy, this David
is wonderful. And they had a special chant
in his honor. 1 Samuel 18, verse 6. It came to pass as they came,
when David was returned from the slaughter of the Philistines,
that the women came out of all cities of Israel singing and
dancing. to meet King Saul with tabrets
of joy, with instruments of music. And the women answered one another."
Apparently one group sang one thing and one another. As they
played and sang, Saul hath slain his thousands, and David his
ten thousands. Actually, David had only killed
one person, and that was Goliath. But what they were saying was
that David is a greater warrior than our king. King Saul. Now King Saul was a big man,
but he wasn't as big as Goliath. In fact, he was head and shoulders,
the Bible tells us, higher, taller than the average Jewish person.
But he had not gone out to fight Goliath. And so the people sang
that Saul has slain his thousands and David his ten thousands. Those of you in school perhaps
remember this is called a hyperbole. It's a deliberate exaggeration
for the reason of bringing a, emphasizing something in a special
way. Now Saul became jealous and afraid. And it's described in several
different verses there in that chapter. Saul feared the loss
of emotional acceptance by the people. And so what does he do? Verse 10, chapter 18, It came
to pass in the morrow that the evil spirit from God came upon
Saul. He prophesied in the midst of
the house, and David played with his hand. And another time there
was a javelin, a spear, in Saul's hand. And Saul cast the javelin
For he said, I will smite David even to the wall with it. I suppose
he didn't aim at his ear. He probably aimed at his chest.
Kill him. I'll smite him with the javelin. And David avoided out of his
presence twice. Two times. Then again, look over
in chapter 19, verse 8. There was war again and David
went out and fought with the Philistines and slew them with
great slaughter. They fled from him and the evil
spirit from the Lord was upon Saul as he sat in his house with
his javelin in his hand. David played with his hand apparently
on his hearth. Saul sought to smite David even
to the wall with the javelin. But he slipped away out of Saul's
presence, and he smoked the javelin into the wall. He threw it, but
it didn't connect to David. Boy, jealousy does crazy things,
doesn't it? It makes us not only want to
have what the other person has, but oftentimes it makes us hostile
against them. Well, he plotted David's death,
in fact, by promoting him as captain over a thousand soldiers.
Probably Saul wanted David to be killed in battle. But guess
what? He wasn't. In fact, his fighting
was so successful that the people gave him more and more praise
for being a great warrior. Of course, that made Saul all
the angrier. Again, Saul promised David the
hand of his daughter, Michael, if David could bring proof that
he'd killed a hundred Philistines. David actually killed twice that
number. Again, I think Saul felt that
he could put David in a situation of danger so much that he would
be killed in battle. But he wasn't killed. Well, what was the price for
Saul's jealousy? What actually happened to him
because he was so envious, because he was so jealous? In fact, the
Bible tells us God withdrew his blessings from Saul and blessed
David instead. Ultimately, Saul lost both his
life, his kingdom of course, and the privilege of having a
dynasty, of having others who were his descendants become king. And so he lost his throne, he
stopped being king, and lost the privilege of having his descendants
have the throne. He lost his life, and he lost
his ability to pray. He prayed and nothing happened,
and so he went to the witch at Endor, the woman
who spoke with the demons. Why? All this because he was
so jealous. Well, how do we solve the jealousy
problem? There are probably a number of
things. Let me share with you four ideas, or five ideas. First
of all, be conscious of the fact that God sees everything. God
knows not only what we do, but the very thoughts in our heart.
We should develop a spirit of contentment and reliance upon
the Lord. Hebrews chapter 13, and I'm looking
at verse 5. Hebrews 13, 5. Let your conversation be without
covetousness, and be content with such things as you have.
For He has said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.
Say, okay God, I may not have everything that I might have,
but you know what? I'm going to be thankful for
what I do have. I'm going to be thankful for what I do have.
I'm going to be content. I'm not going to be always edgy,
always frustrated. Oh, I wish I had this latest
fashion. I wish I had more money. I wish
I had so-and-so's boyfriend or girlfriend rather than them having
that one. And so I need to learn to be
content. Closely allied with that is number
five there. Cultivate a thankful spirit. In everything give thanks for
this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you. Be thankful
for what you do have. You know, wouldn't it have been
great if Adam and Eve in the garden had said, Praise God for
all these trees. All these wonderful blessings
that we do have. Praise God that He loves us.
Praise God that He comes down to fellowship with us. Praise
God that He's given us life. Instead, they reached out for
what they didn't have and lost what they did have. Well, I need
to counter, I need to learn to counter jealousy with a giving
spirit. Not only am I going to stop wanting
what somebody else has, I'm going to learn to give to others. Rather than trying to say, I
want more, I'm going to learn to say, I want to give more.
I want to make sure that I'm faithful in giving. Ephesians
chapter 4, and I'm reading verse 28, which says, Let him that stole steal no more,
but rather let him labor, working with his hands the thing which
is good, that he may have to give to him that needeth." Used
to be a robber. Used to take what he didn't have.
And he says, now I'm going to learn to give what I do have. Learn to develop a generous spirit. And then, further in 2 Thessalonians
3, I'm looking at verse 10. 2 Thessalonians 3, verse 10. For even when we were with you,
this we commanded you, that if any would not work, neither should
he eat. Learn to be a diligent worker,
determined to legitimately earn what is needed. So if I need
something, rather than trying to take it or fantasize that
I have it when I don't, I work in order to earn what is needed
so that I can have it. Be a diligent worker and then
keep your eyes on the Lord and His return. This world is not
your home. Don't allow yourself to get mired
in the mud of this world. Well, these are some ideas, very
practical ideas in dealing with jealousy. We have so much to
be thankful for as God's children. God has given to us eternal life
as we have invited the Lord Jesus Christ to come into our life,
forgive us of our sins, and give us His gift of everlasting life.
You know, we can just say, praise God for everlasting life. Whether
I'm poor or whether I'm rich doesn't make a bit of difference.
The thing is, I am rich when I have everlasting life. When
I have the Lord in my life, when I have the Holy Spirit, when
I have the ability to freely come and study God's Word and
share it and teach it, whether it's teaching in craft or whether
it's teaching in Bible memory or whether it's teaching by missionary
stories, by whatever the approach is, how blessed we are to have
the privilege of ministry. I close with this. My wife and I used to go to a
nursing home in the city where we lived and served up in Montana. And when we were there at that
nursing home, we saw a little lady that was brought into our
service when we had services on Sunday, and they rolled her
in on a gurney, a cot with wheels on it. She was totally paralyzed,
couldn't do anything except listen and rejoice in the Lord. You
know, I have thought again and again of the blessing that I
have of serving the Lord. I like music. I like to hear
Brother Richard play the piano. I like to play the piano. Think
how difficult it would be if suddenly I were stricken with
paralysis in one or both arms. You know, I praise God for the
privilege of serving. I like to teach and preach. Think
how tragic it would be if I could no longer use my vocal cords.
Now, Stan has been struggling with cold. Richard, I don't know,
it must be the Calvary Baptist Tabernacle Plague or something. Both of them have had a hard
time even talking. But think how hard it would be
if we couldn't talk. I guess we take the ability to
walk for granted. And I guess there is such a thing
as wheelchairs. I remember one of the ladies
that was in the church when I was growing up just outside of Denver,
Colorado. She was paralyzed from her waist
down for years and years. Her husband, a very strong, muscular
man, would literally open the door of the car where she sat
on the rider's side, reach in and pick up his dear wife, and
carry her into church, and sent her down on the pew. I guess
we take a lot of things for granted. We have the privilege not only
of receiving blessings, but of sharing blessings. And you, our
VBS team, you are a blessing already. You're going to be a
greater blessing as the days progress. And you have the privilege
of serving. And I'm looking forward to how
God is going to bless. And I'm so thrilled that Brother
Scourgill has come to head up the team, to provide the direction
that is needed. And so isn't it fun to be able
to serve? Wouldn't it be terrible if you
couldn't? If God said, well, it's all over, you can just sit
back and do nothing. Your service days are finished. God gives us that privilege.
And so we can be thankful. Let's never be jealous because
somebody else can do things better than we can. Let's just say,
Lord, I'm going to give you my best. Lord, you use it. Somebody else might be able to
do a better job, but I'm going to do the best I can. And because
of that, we're going to have victory in our lives and in these
next few days here in Gardena, California. Let's pray. Thank you, Heavenly Father. We
rejoice in the privilege of belonging to the Lord Jesus. We can sing
the song, Now I Belong to Jesus. Thank You for the privilege that
we have of having the Word of God. We can sing the song, the
B-I-B-L-E. Thank You, Father, for the privilege
of serving You. As we sang the song tonight,
I will serve Thee. Thank You, Father, for the privilege
of looking forward to the second coming of the Lord Jesus, and
know that some of these days He's going to come back and take
us to Himself. So we can sing the song when
the roll is called up yonder, I'll be there. Father, we have
so much to be thankful for. Help us not to be jealous over
what we don't have, but that we might use what we do have
for your glory and with eternity's values in view. In Jesus' name,
Amen.
The Monster of Jealousy
| Sermon ID | 830047826 |
| Duration | 31:23 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - PM |
| Bible Text | 1 Samuel 18:5-16 |
| Language | English |
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