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Well, let's go ahead and let's
pray, and then we'll spend some time in the book of Proverbs
this morning. Father, we thank you so very much for your son. We thank you so very much for
all that you've blessed us in him. It's incredible to think
that you would not only save us, but then allow us to live
in this world, to minister to those around us, to share the
gospel, to encourage one another, that you would allow us to be
part of a church, a fellowship, a body, and that part of this
body is meant to minister, it's incredible. So Father, we ask
that as we listen to your word, that your spirit would be moving
in our hearts, causing us to see the things that we need to
see, that we'd have the right attitudes, the right perspectives,
and that we would, by the power of your spirit and by the urging,
leading, and guiding, we would be like your son, Jesus Christ.
We thank you for everything you've blessed us with in your son's
name, amen. A couple months ago, I was asked
to speak to a bunch of Bible college students in a class,
preparing them for ministry, and I was asked to talk about
balancing family and ministry. And one of the students asked
me a question at the end. He said, Pastor Caleb, is it
okay to pray for a godly woman who looks like a supermodel? I had lots of answers fill my
head. I didn't say them. I'll say them now. I thought
of saying, brother, the Lord has caused the Red Sea to part.
Brother, he's caused the blind to see, the lame to walk. He
even caused Lazarus to raise from the dead. Well, with a face
like yours, it'll be a miracle whatever woman you get. I didn't
say that. My actual answer was, Sounds
like you're describing my wife and you cannot marry my wife.
And then I gave an answer that I said, look guys, it's important
to remember when you're looking for a partner that character
and godliness matter far more than any other thing. Even in
the modern world where we look for compatibility, right? And there's these big tests that
you could take to be compatible. Are you compatible with this
person, that person? It's my experience that the marriages
that last the longest are those which are built on Christ, where
the people are indwelt by the power of the Holy Spirit. And
because of the power of the Holy Spirit and the gospel in their
life, they're exhibiting love, joy, peace, patience, kindness,
goodness, and self-control. That's the most important thing.
Everything else can be worked out, but as long as you're walking
with the Lord, that's the most important thing. It's amazing to me, as we're
going through the book of Proverbs, just thinking of the book. The
book starts off, remember, as a son is walking with his father. And remember, his father has
talked a lot about women. And part of that we said was,
It's the father giving advice on what kind of wife you should
pick. And it's amazing the father's
advice. Remember in the early chapters of the book of Proverbs,
remember the father's advice was like Proverbs chapter eight,
where it's this elegant, graceful, beautiful, attractive woman.
And his advice is you gotta protect her and you wanna find the one
that's wise. He also said you are to enjoy your wife and don't
enjoy anyone else, just your wife. We now come to the very
end, the very end of the book. Remember, it's still kind of
talking to boys, still kind of talking to sons. And remember,
Lemuel's mama, she is still talking, right? This next section is still
advice from the queen mother. And the queen mother not only
is saying, remember what mama says, she's now giving the characteristics
that the son should look for in a wife. And I'm gonna be honest
with you, they're not what you think. I was shocked at the advice
that she gave. When I first read it, I'm still
shocked. I'm still looking at some of
these images going, these are not the most feminine images,
okay? But remember, this is a mother
talking to her son. So we're gonna see four things
about a godly wife. These characteristics, in a godly
wife, and the hope is is that we would, one, praise the Lord
for all the godly wives, right? We would praise the Lord for
that. Also that we would pray for all the women in the church
that they would be godly wives. And most importantly, that we
would all be like Christ, who's the ultimate servant, and we'll
definitely see that servant heart here. But we're gonna see four
things in this text. In verse 10, we're gonna see
that a godly wife is very precious. Very precious. Incredibly valuable. Like jewels. Verse 11 through
12, we're going to see that a trusted wife, or a godly wife is a trusted
partner. Verses 13 through 24, we're going
to see that a godly wife is very productive. And then lastly,
25 through 31, a godly wife should be praised. And she will be praised. So let's look at this. Go to
Proverbs 31, verse 10. We'll look at this first description. And notice what Queen Mom says
to the king about a godly wife. Notice she says, an excellent
wife who can find. She is far more precious than
jewels. This speaks of her rarity, right? You can find them, but they're
rare. And when you find them, don't let go, right? This is
an important thing to find. Now, this word excellent is very
interesting. If any of you have ever done
any study on this word excellent, and I'm aware that out of all
of the passages of Proverbs, it is this section that is probably
the taught the most, right? I'm sure that many women have
gone through a series on Proverbs 31, and I'm sure you've probably
gone into great depth on this meaning of the word excellent.
It shocked me all the same every time I see it, because it means
valiant in war. And you go, what? Xena the warrior princess, right? The idea is speaking of somebody
who has a good, valiant, excellent, strong, godly, wise, moral character. That's what the word excellent
means here. It's valiant, it's strong, it's godly. So who can find this godly, strong
woman? Because if you find one, Some
of us in this room have found one. Sorry, I got the best one
out of them all. We all lose. But when you find
one, it's the most valuable. It's the most valuable thing
in the world. You don't want to lose it. You don't want to get rid
of it, right? You can't replace it. It's irreplaceable. It's
so incredibly valuable. Remember as we've looked at several
times when we've talked about marriages and we've talked about
different spouses and sometimes it's not the best to live with
a spouse who's cantankerous and is always wanting to fight and
self-serving. That's not good. Here, it's saying,
man, when you find a spouse that is godly and seeks to be godly
and desires to be godly, has that strong, moral, biblical
mind, oh, there's nothing like it in the world. There's absolutely
nothing like it. It's valuable, and it should
be searched. When I was an RA in Bible college,
as a pastor, I will say this to everyone, Be careful with
the person you're attracted to if you're not married. You might
fall in love with the dimple and wake up next to the whole
thing. And that might be a bad day, friends. That might be a
real bad day indeed. It is always important to remember
that godliness is the most important thing. Wisdom is the most important
thing. That trumps all other things. You're having problems
in your marriage, number one advice, you start walking with
the Lord. That's the number one advice.
Start walking with the Lord, living by the power of the Holy
Spirit. Now, that might not clear up all of your problems, okay,
but that's what you're supposed to do, right? So when someone
finds someone who's godly, whether it's a husband or a wife, oh,
what a rare and valuable thing that is. It's the most valuable
thing. It's the most valuable asset, right? It's the most valuable
thing that you could see. When you're praying for your
spouse, this should be number one. I pray that my spouse is
excellent, godly, living for the Lord. Submitting to the Lord. That's number one. Number one.
Number one prayer for your spouse. That's it. That should be the
biggest prayer. That's where you spend most of
the time talking about your spouse. Help them walk for you, Lord.
Help them live for you. Help them trust you. You get
that? Man, that's really precious.
Now notice this next thing. So by the way, this is the first
advice from Mama, right? This is Mama's first advice.
First thing you look for, a godly woman, right? That's what you're
looking for, son. There's lots of other things that you might
want to think is the most important, but godliness is the most important.
Now think of the second thing. Man, she's a trusted partner.
Look at this. The heart of her husband trusts in her. She's
trustworthy. She's a partner, right? He can
trust her with things. He can say things to her and
know that she's not going to go around telling everybody.
He can make mistakes and ask for forgiveness. She will forgive
him and then not tell everyone around her her husband's mistakes. She is trusting. She is loving.
She is forgiving. Right? He is able to give her
responsibility, saying, hun, I need your help with this. And
she goes, I got you. I got your back. He can trust
her. He can give his heart completely
to her and says, out of anyone else in the world, she's got
my back. She's going down with me. Right? We're going down together. He
can trust her and knows what it says, and he will not have
any lack of gain, meaning that when he does trust her, it's
for good reason, and she will be trustworthy. She's a trustworthy
person. She's a person that loves him.
Think of this. The advice, the second piece
of advice that's given is find a lady that loves you and will
do good to you, right? Don't fall in love with one physical
attribute or a couple physical attributes. No, find a person
that really loves you for you and is willing to put up with
you, right? And in essence, we could say,
find a lady that loves you almost like I love you. Then notice
the next thing. She does him good, not harm,
all the days of her life. So he can trust her. And the
reason that he can trust her is because she has his best interest
at heart. She will do good, and she will
not hurt him. And notice that this is lifelong. This isn't right after, in the
honeymoon phase, she's gonna do good, and then she's gonna
turn on you. No, it's a woman who is committed
for life. Committed for life, committing
to do this. That's the type of person that
you're looking for. That's the type of girl you're looking for. As we're praying for our spouses,
we should hope that our spouse is this type of person, right?
Somebody we can trust that won't do us any harm. If you're praying
for your spouse, this is a good prayer request, right? That they're
godly, that they're trustworthy, that they love me and have my
best interests at heart. I imagine that there are some
in this room who know that really difficult position of being married
to somebody that does not have their best interest at heart
and how difficult that is and how hurtful that is. Over and
over and over again, not being able to trust, not being able
to love, not willing, not being able to share, being scared of
making a mistake because the other person is going to exploit
that mistake. I can't think of a worse existence
than that type of thing. So when you're praying, this
should be a good thing. By the way, some of you, as you're
thinking about the marriages in the church and how can you
be praying for some of the marriages in the church, this is a great
one, that they love the Lord, oh, that they love each other,
that they're willing to forgive one another, that they're doing
what's good for each other. But here, this really accentuates
this idea of the biblical femininity that as God's designed us, he's
made both men and women in the image of God. Therefore, we're
equal in dignity, right? We all can stand before Jesus
equally, right? It's not that one's better than
the other. No, we both equally stand before God. We're made
in the image of God. We have that dignity. He did
design us to have differing functions. And this is going along with
that function of the wife, and those are complementary to each
other. And so notice here that the heart
of the wife is, I want to serve. I want to serve. I want to be
trustworthy. I want to do good. I want to
help. I want to support. That's the
role of the wife, is this supporting role. Now, you might think, well,
that might seem antiquated and old, and that might sound like
I'm just advocating that all the ladies stay home barefoot
and pregnant. That is actually something very
different from what Mama Queen is going to say, right? Because
notice the next thing that is said. This woman is very, very
productive. Notice how productive she is
in verse 13. She seeks wool and flax and works with willing hands. Now, this is not saying that
all the women need to go out and learn how to make their own
garments and learn how to weave and weave wool and linen. And if you don't do that, well,
then you're not a good wife, right? That's not what this is
saying. What this is saying is that she works hard at helping
out her family. In the ancient world, this was
a necessary skill that was needed for the family. You couldn't
go to the store and buy clothes. You couldn't go and just buy
a new shirt. It had to be made, right? And unfortunately, It
was left to those who stayed at home to learn these skills
to make these clothes and to seek these things. And here was
this woman who was looking out for the needs of her family,
saying, oh, it looks like little Johnny's going to need some new
pants. So guess what I have to do? I'm going to go out and get
him some nice pair of wool pants, and I'm going to make it. Right?
Sounds like fun. Who here wants wool pants? No
takers. Wow, that's amazing. But notice
the attitude. The attitude is far more important.
So it's this idea of she's looking, but notice, she works with willing
hands. She is willing, right? It's not
begrudgingly. She's willing. This is voluntary.
This is out of love. She's giving of herself out of
love. By the way, isn't this a great example of Jesus, of
how Jesus served? Jesus came down, voluntarily
served, gave of himself. Jesus is the example on how to
be human. He's the best example for us
as believers, whether you're a man or a woman. We can all
look to Jesus and learn. And, gentlemen, we can look to
our wives and we can look to our mothers and how they willingly
sacrifice for us and go, well, that's what a servant's heart
looks like. That's what a Christ-like servant
heart looks like. That's what she is. She's a servant
and she's willing to serve. And then notice this next thing.
Kind of an interesting image. She is like a ship of the merchant
and she brings food from afar. Really interesting image, right?
Israel wasn't necessarily known for its ability to navigate the
seas. They often were reliant upon
other people, other nations. And they would often go to port
cities and these port cities would have these ships that would
go all around the Mediterranean. Guess what they would bring?
All of the stuff that comes from Egypt. All this stuff that comes
from Greece and from Italy and all this stuff that comes from
Spain. All of this stuff that's gathered and it comes in as a
ship and it comes to the port. and you would go to the port
and you would buy all this exotic stuff that you don't have around
here, but they have it over there and they're bringing it in. And
so notice that not only is she looking and seeking out wool
and how to make linen and she's doing this willingly, she's also
going out and she's like a merchant and she's looking for food that's
far away and bringing it. And this is exotic stuff. She's
looking for the best stuff. Right? She's thinking of her
family as she's going out going, oh, so-and-so likes this, so-and-so
likes that, so-and-so needs this, we need this, I like this, this
is interesting, we don't have one of these in my house. And
it's this idea that she's like a merchant, she comes in and
every time she walks in the house, it's got stuff, stuff that's
exotic, stuff that's expensive, stuff that is purposely picked
specifically for the person, right? Moms do this really well. My wife does this really well.
She'll go to the store, next thing you know she comes back
and she's got a whole bunch of exotic food. If you don't believe me,
look at me. She does this really well, right?
Godly wives do this really well. They look to the needs. And it's
not just that they look to the needs. This is something beyond
just needs. This is so-and-so wants. This is expensive, this is special. So she's looking to do something
special for the family. What a servant, to think of the
family, to think of the needs of the family, to think of the
needs of the husband, but then also say, I'm gonna fulfill those
needs, I'm gonna do it willingly, but I'm also going to do things that aren't necessarily needs.
You might like this. My husband might like olives.
I'm going to go out and get an extra thing of olives. Your husband
might like that chicken dip that you made on game night. So get going. No, I'm joking.
Notice the next thing. It says, she rises while it's
yet night and provides food for her household and portions for
her maidens. She is, here this woman is one
who's clearly in charge and clearly has servants, but what kind of
person is she? She's the one that looks out
for her family. She makes the food for her family.
She takes on that responsibility. She wakes up early, and then
she's up before the maids, and she says, here are the jobs.
Here are the things that you need to do. So she is a manager.
Right? This is what is said. Remember
when we were studying and Titus was talking about a woman and
we looked at some of those things that were said and remember one
of the descriptions that Paul gives of a woman is that she
is a house manager. She is managing the house. She's looking at stuff and she's
planning stuff. She's decorating stuff. She's
had stuff. already laid out. She's making food for the guys
that are going out to work, right? And she's making lunch, and she's
making sure that all the stuff is plying perfectly, and everybody
knows what they're doing. She's the manager. Sometimes
we as husbands like to micromanage our wives. Be kind, be gentle to our wives. They do have the right to live
in that house and make decisions of that house. And in one sense,
you really want your wife to make your house her own. And you really want her to love
on you by decorating and managing. And if wife says no shoes on
in the house, Guess what? I can be a loving leader and
still take my shoes off at the door, right? Amen. Why would
I? If I trust her to make good decisions
in managing the household, why would I then undercut that every
time I come home by going, well, I'm the head, I get to wear my
shoes inside the house. You can't tell me what to do.
No, let's be loving, right? She can manage the house, and
this is kind of what she does. So think, this is a strong go-getter
type of woman. She's definitely not just sitting
still. Notice the next thing, verse
16. She considers a field and buys
it. By the way, this would have been scandalous in the ancient
world. You give your wife money? You let her go out and make purchases
without your consent? In the ancient world, this would
have blown everyone's mind. They would have said, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no. You don't do that. You don't
do that. But here's this godly woman.
She's wise. She's good with money. She's
a manager. She's thinking about the family and how best to support
the family to the point that she's even willing, even given
charge of money and making major purchases. and then notice what it says,
it says, with the fruit of her hand she plants a vineyard. Now,
this is much more than she just has a garden out back and it's
really cute when she puts on the gardening gloves. to make
a vineyard, this involves digging, this involves security fence,
this involves hiring people to watch it, this involves know-how
on how to make wine, this is adventure to make money, to be
productive. She's not just sitting back going,
well, he better provide $50,000 a year, and I'm going to sit
back and do nothing. She is actively productive, adding
to the value of the family, adding to the genius of her husband,
adding to the value of the family, and growing in property, and
thinking, how can we be productive? And she enters in, she becomes
a small business owner, has a vineyard. Notice what else it is. She dresses
herself with strength and makes her arms strong. It's a strong
woman. It's a woman that is strong morally,
strong in work ethic, that is willing to work hard. Notice
she makes her arms strong. This has this idea of she's constantly
working. She's strong. She's constantly looking at how
can I serve? How can I be productive? How
can we make this better? What can I add? What can I add?
What can I do? What can I do? Notice verse 18, she perceives
that her merchandise is profitable, her lamp does not go out at night.
So it's this idea that she realizes that as she's making this wool
and this flax and as she's bringing in all this exotic stuff and
yes, by the way, she bought a field and she made a vineyard. with
vineyard comes grapes and wine. And as her reputation is growing,
guess what happens? People go, we'd like to buy some
of that stuff because not only does she work hard, she works
excellently. And people say, can we buy that?
And notice what she does. She stays up late to make sure
that her product is good and able to buy. She is profitable.
She's thinking, how can I help with increasing the value of
the family? So think of this, she is an early
riser and she goes to bed late. She's working hard, right? Notice what else it says in verse
19. She puts her hand to the distaff
and her hands hold the spindle. This speaks of the fact that
she knows how to use a weave. She knows these necessary skills.
Then notice this next thing. She opens her hand to the poor
and reaches out her hand to the needy. So not only does she love
her husband and her family and seeking to be profitable for
her family, but she has care for other people. And as she's
making this money, making these decisions, she has enough discernment
to look at somebody who's needy and who's poor and says, you
know what? I have some extra money. Here you go. Here you
go, I'm gonna help you. So think of this servant-minded
woman, right? That's what she's saying. Look
for a woman that's wise, discerning, but is servant-hard. She's productive,
she cares. Notice the next thing about her
productivity. Notice this, verse... Verse 21,
she's not afraid of snow for her household, for all her household
are clothed in scarlet. Now, I'm gonna be honest with
you, when I first read this, I thought, sweet, she has the
necessary stuff just in case there's something bad goes on,
goes wrong, right? My wife does that. Every time
we get ready to go somewhere, she's the one who packs. And
she always packs way extra. And I go, why do you pack way
extra? She goes, well, just in case. And I said, where are we
going? There's a Walmart, just in case. And she goes, well,
why would we need to do Walmart when we already have it here?
True, true, true, right? Good wives do this. But this
is different. Because when I read this, I thought,
wow, they just have jackets. No, no, no. They're dressed in
scarlet. You realize how expensive scarlet is? This is like saying
you live in Oregon, and you know it rains, so she has rain jackets
made of silk. You would go, how much money
do you have to spend on silk to make a rain jacket out of
it that can withstand the elements? We're talking about she not only
clothes them and provides for the family, but she does so richly. Right? Yep. What an incredible thing. And then notice this. She makes
her bed covering for herself. Her clothing is fine linen and
purple. This speaks about how she invests
back into the family, right? And then it says, her husband
is known in the gates when he sits down amongst the elders
of the land and she makes linen garments and sells them and delivers
sashes to the merchants. This is talking about a woman
who's incredibly productive, incredibly loving, incredibly...
richly productive, looking at the needs and the wants of the
family and says, I'm gonna provide that. I'm gonna provide that.
And this is the advice given from Queen Mama, right? Queen
Mama says, son, this is what you need to be looking for. This
is what you need to be looking for in a wife. When I was in Bible college and
I was single, I did spend some time in this passage on what
kind of lady I should spend my time with if I was interested
in marrying her. In Bible college, there's a lot
of godly ladies, but there was one that caught my eye who did
this, and these were some of the things that I looked at.
How did she do this? How does she deal with this?
How does she deal with that? How does she look at this? Those
are some of the things. I'll be honest. There's some
young ladies in this room right now. I'll be honest. You can act a
certain way and dress a certain way and you can attract a certain
kind of guy that's the wrong kind of guy. It's not worthy
of you. Be careful. Make sure that as
you're living your life, as you're growing and maturing as ladies,
that you look at these types of things and say, these are
the things I'm going to focus on. And I guarantee this, if
you focus on these things and you develop these things, the
type of guy that will be attracted to this is husband material that
will love you and take care of you. That's what you want. Sometimes
you might fall in love with the dimple and wake up next to the
guy. Bad thing. That could be the
worst thing. Develop this. Develop character. And character will attract the
right kind of guy. We have an elder Blatchel up
there running a sound right now, Philip. Philip, when you're looking
for a lady, look for a lady of character, right? There's a certain
type of lady that will dress and act a certain way. Stay away,
that's not wife material. You want one that's gonna be
like this, that's gonna love you, that's gonna take care of
you, that's gonna treat you right, right? And if you find yourself
staring at a girl that's not wife material, stop looking at
her. Now notice the next thing about
this wife. She's praised because she's godly,
because she cares, because she's such a servant. Notice what it
said. It says strength and dignity
are her clothing. Wow. She's dressed with dignity
and strength. She's a strong woman. She has
strong work ethic. She's uncompromising in her beliefs. She follows the Lord and she's
godly. And notice the next thing that
it says. It says, this is a dignity, right? She is godly. She's dignified,
not in the sense that she's old and distant, but this idea that
there's a sense of purity around her. There's a sense of honor.
When she walks into a room, it's graceful, and everybody knows
her character, and they see the strength of her character and
her godliness. And that's what everybody sees. That's her clothing. And it says, and she laughs at
the time to come, meaning that she is not scared of the
future. She trusts in the Lord. She does
good to her husband. She's been planning and preparing. And then notice what it says
next. She opens her mouth with wisdom. Oh, when she speaks, it's with
wisdom, right? She says things that are true
to God's word and those things which are found in God's word,
those things which promote Christ, that's what comes out of her
mouth, comes out wisdom. Get closer to the Lord, Jesus
Christ, faith in Jesus Christ, walk by faith. And it says, and
the teaching of kindness is on her tongue. She's wise, and she's
kind, and she's dignified. And it says, and she looks well
at the ways of her household, and she does not eat the bread
of idleness. She doesn't sit around. So here's this character.
So notice what happens. Notice what happens when there's
a woman like this. Her children rise up and call
her blessed. Very interesting phrase here.
When I first read this, I thought they'd wake up in the morning
and go, mom, I love you. That's probably true. You know
what this is? This is most likely speaking
of when there comes a time for a toast. You know, a special
time where somebody would like to give special recognition in
a large group. You know, it says, well, let's
give a toast. You know what the children say? Let's give it to
mom. Let's give it to mom. Mom was a godly woman. Look at
all that she did. Let's give it to mom. And then notice what else it
says. It says, her husband also. Meaning that given the opportunity,
the husband will be the first to sing her praises. And will
say, let's toast my wife. Let's toast my wife. And notice
what he'll say. And he'll praise her. Many women
have done excellently. Yeah, there's been many godly
women. But you have surpassed them all. You're way better than
all the rest of them. Probably because you said yes
to me, right? That's probably the husband's
thinking. Because you said yes to me, that makes you a lot better
than all the women that said no. My wife saying yes to marry me
is what I find to be one of her most attractive qualities. praised, right? The whole family
praises her because they see her love for the family. They
see what they've done. She's not just doing this begrudgingly,
she's willingly providing and producing and productive and
she's a servant. She's a servant bar none and
she serves them with love. And so notice, notice what Mama
says. Charm is deceitful and beauty
is vain. When a lady that is incredibly
charming for the wrong reasons, very flirtatious, that goes away
real quick. And the ones that spend a lot
of time to beautify themselves because that's all they got,
oh, that goes away real quick as well. But notice, notice,
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. That's the
one. That's the one you want. The
one that takes God serious. That's the one you want. Lemuel,
listen, kid. The one you want is the one that
shows up early to church, right? The one you want is godly. It's
the one that prays. It's the one that speaks wisdom
and knows the truth. The one that's strong. And notice
what else it says. It says, give her the fruit of
her hand and let her works praise her in the gates, meaning not
only does the family praise her, but all the people on the outside
go, man, you lucked out. I don't know what you did to
land a lady like that, but she's awesome. She's incredible. So like I said, I got the best
one of the bunch, so all the rest of you guys got second place,
and I know that some of you husbands are going to come up and say,
no, I got it, and I'm going to disagree, and I have the pulpit
right now, and so I'm right. It's amazing to me, when I think
of this text, and I think of the advice given a long time
ago, on finding a spouse, and specifically for young men, on
finding a woman that's worthy to be a wife, how this advice
holds up, and how this is the most important thing, their godliness,
their character. And it's amazing that we live
in a culture that has abandoned these types of things, even in
the church. In the church culture, this stuff has been abandoned.
The idea of godliness, the idea of following the Lord, is put
on second tier, opposed to pop psychology of compatibility. Man, it's no wonder there's lots
of people having problems. Marriage is tough. It's tough
with two godly people. Can you imagine if it was just
simply on the basis of, I like the way she smiles, and I think
we like the same kind of music? We should pray for the young
people in our church, those who are looking. for spouses someday,
pray for them, that they would look for the right kind of godly
people, and that God would bring those godly people in his time.
All of us husbands should be very thankful for our wives.
We should talk up our wives a lot. They put up with a lot. Trust
me, I met all you guys. Your wives put up with a lot. But those godly wives, they should
be encouraged. Thank you for being a godly wife.
I think one of the other things, too, that we can see is we can
see that this is Christ-like. That a godly wife is Christ-like
in the fact that she serves. She serves like Christ serves.
She gives of herself like Christ gives. And Christ is the example. And Christ is the example to
all of us. and even husbands should serve in this way, serve
like Christ served. This thus ends my introduction
to the book of Proverbs. Next week we'll start with Proverbs
1.1 and go really in depth. No, I just want to say this as
we close out in the book of Proverbs. I thank you for allowing me to
teach through the book of Proverbs, not many people would sit and
listen to a really long series on the Book of Proverbs, right?
You are a special bunch, and this has been an incredible study
for me. I've felt myself mature by years each week as I've been
studying the Book of Proverbs, and I pray that this study has
also been a blessing to you as well, a
blessing of during the really strange time of COVID, right?
We found ourselves in Proverbs before COVID, in the midst of
COVID, and after. And I found that the book of
Proverbs spoke to our situation in COVID perfectly every week.
And it put our minds on the right things. Fear the Lord, trust
the Lord, Take him seriously in life. Every aspect of life
is touched by our awesome respect of the Lord and seeking to honor
and glorify him above all things. That's number one. It doesn't
matter what's going on in the culture. It doesn't matter what's
happening. It doesn't matter that the whole world shut down
for how long it did. That's not our focus. Our focus
isn't on that. Our focus is on we must right
now act in wisdom based upon God and his attributes and his
will, and we must seek to honor and glorify him above all things. It's been an incredible lesson.
It was by God's providence that we were in this book during that
time, and I hope that that lesson really came out. And I hope that
as we learned, we had a really good picture of what does it
look like when a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ really
seeks to honor and glorify Jesus in every aspect and facet of
our life. And I hope that as you go back
time and time again to this amazing book, that you'll remember some
of the things that we studied, and that I will offer a great
diving board for your further, deeper study, and that the Lord
would bring back remembrance of how important it is to fear
Him. I'm not gonna tell you what we're
gonna do next week, because I'm not 100% sure I know what we're gonna
do next week. But I wanted to thank you all
the same for putting up with your pastor seeking to go verse
by verse through the book of Proverbs. You guys are champs.
I think you guys deserve a pizza party for what you went through.
But I am just very thankful for the Lord, for his word, very
thankful for you, and I'm very thankful for my wife, who's the
best wife in this room. So let's go ahead and let's close
in a word of prayer. Father, we are just so very thankful
for your word. We're very thankful for all that
you've given us, even down to, we have a great church family.
We have great families here. Thank you for bringing people
into our lives that are there with us all the time. We're just
so very thankful that you have blessed us above and beyond. anything we could ever imagine.
We thank you for the book of Proverbs. We thank you for the
lessons that it taught us. Father, I pray that the lessons
that are found in your word would be profound despite the person
that has taught them for the past couple years. Father, we
ask that we would be wise and that we would be Christ-like
and discerning and that our number one goal would be to honor and
glorify the Lord Jesus Christ. We thank you and love you for
everything you've given us in your son's name, amen.
The Godly Wife
Series Proverbs
Explore 'The Godly Wife' with Pastor Caleb Hilbert as he dives into Proverbs 31:10-31, shedding light on the profoundly valuable attributes of a godly wife-her steadfast trustworthiness, remarkable productivity, and praiseworthy life.
| Sermon ID | 827231740545429 |
| Duration | 43:46 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | Proverbs 31:10-31 |
| Language | English |
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