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Please turn in your Bibles to
2 Timothy chapter 1 and verses 3 through 7. This is the 15th
in the series of sermons on women of faith. I thank God, whom I
serve with a pure conscience, as my forefathers did, as without
ceasing I remember you in my prayers night and day, greatly
desiring to see you, being mindful of your tears, that I may be
filled with joy. When I call to remembrance the
genuine faith that is in you, which dwelt first in your grandmother
Lois and your mother Eunice, and I am persuaded is in you
also. Therefore, I remind you to stir
up the gift of God which is in you through the laying on of
my hands. For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power
and of love and of a sound mind. Amen. Father, I thank you for
your word, and I pray that you would enable me to faithfully
preach it. Father, that we would be edified as we wrestle with
the various texts we're going to look at this morning. Help
us as a congregation to grow. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen. Well, the passage that I just
read was written in A.D. 65, that is 15 years after Paul
first recruited Timothy in Acts chapter 16. And the question
is, how old was Timothy? And there is a bit of debate
on that. Many believe that he was in his mid-40s when Paul
wrote 1 and 2 Timothy to him. I believe he was actually 39,
almost 40. And in 2 Timothy, he was 40 years old. Now, obviously,
those two positions come from two different presuppositions,
both of which may be wrong. But let me share with you why
most scholars who have looked at all of the evidence are 100%
convinced that Timothy had to be somewhere between 39 and 45,
somewhere in there when 1 and 2 Timothy were written. Some believe that he was ordained
to the ministry in Acts 16, and based on Numbers chapter 4, quite
a few verses in chapter 4 actually, and 1 Chronicles 23 verse 3,
they state that he would therefore have been at least 30 years of
age, and so 30 plus 15 equals 45, so that's where they get
that. But there are several reasons
that make it at least possible that Timothy was as young as
25 in Acts chapter 16. And I'll just give you two of
the reasons for believing this. First, Numbers 8 verse 24 allowed
apprentices to the office of eldership to begin their training
and to be involved in ministry, including preaching, while they
were going through that apprenticeship. That was at the age of 25. Timothy
could have been older than that, but probably not younger. At
age 25, they couldn't be ordained, but they could begin ministering
and learning the ropes. And this is exactly the situation
of Timothy. For the first five years, he's
just on the team, working with Paul and the others as a support.
And I believe it's not until later that he is ordained with
the laying on of hands of the presbytery. So it is equally
possible that in Acts 16, Timothy was being conscripted as an apprentice
for ministry. Second, 1 Timothy 4, verse 12,
which was written earlier in the same year that 2 Timothy
was written, says this, let no one despise your youth. Commentators
generally believe that the Greek word there for youth probably
could not go beyond the age of 40. As one commentary says, the
word naates could be used to indicate any age up to 40. Well,
if he started eldership apprenticeship at the age of 25 in Acts 16,
that would make him almost 40 in 1 Timothy, and it would make
him 40 when 2 Timothy was written. And so it would fulfill the meaning
of that word, noates. But others still strongly argue
that Timothy was in his mid-40s at the writing of 1 Timothy.
Now, I'm just doing this for the sake of the argument. He
may have been older, which would prove my point even more strongly,
but let's assume the younger age. If Timothy was 40 in AD
65, was 25 in AD 50, then he was born two years before Jesus
even went into the ministry. And yet 2 Timothy 3.15 says he
was being instructed in the scriptures from infancy by a believing mother. This makes Eunice an old covenant
believer who had been looking forward to the coming Messiah.
And the text says that that same faith dwelt first in her mother,
Lois. And that means that Lois was
an old covenant believer before Eunice. Lois trusted the Old
Testament message long before Christ entered into the ministry,
probably before Eunice was born, and, if it was an older age,
possibly even before Christ was born. We'll save the practical implications
for this for a little bit later in the sermon. But first of all,
let me introduce you to the family. The most famous family member
was obviously Timothy. 2 Timothy 1.5 says his mother's
name was Eunice. Acts 16 says she was a Jewish
believer. And Timothy's maternal grandmother
was Lois. She too was a believer, and most
commentators believe she too would have been a Jewish. Now,
how far back did this faith go? When you compare Acts 16 with
2 Timothy 1, it becomes clear that Eunice was a strong believer
before Timothy was born, in other words, before A.D. 25. if we hold to the later date,
it becomes probable but less sure that Lois was a believer
before Eunice was born, and all three of them are said by 2 Timothy
1.5 to have had a genuine faith. In fact, Paul greatly admires
the faith of all three of them. He says it fills him with joy
when he remembers the faith that dwelt in all of them. But that
faith did not come out of the blue. It is a faith that Paul
says was passed on from Timothy's mother, Eunice, and from Timothy's
grandmother, Lois. So there was a covenantal passing
on of the same faith, which means that both Lois and Eunice had
a strong faith in God as well. Now, just as a side note, a number
of commentaries say an absolutely necessary deduction from that
verse is that the faith of Old Testament saints is the same
faith as the New Testament saints, okay? There is a continuity in
the religion and the faith itself. We won't get into that. But the
next thing we see in these two women is that they had a faith
that impacted all that they did. Now, this is a very, very important
point to note when we're dealing with why was it that covenant
succession happened with these two? There are two Greek words
in verse 5 that indicate this. 2 Timothy 1.5 says, when I call
to remembrance the genuine faith that is in you, which dwelt first
in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice, and I am
persuaded is in you also. Now the word for genuine faith
means non-hypocritical faith. There was nothing pretend about
their faith. Sometimes people can pretend to be Christians,
but that was not them at all. What you saw outwardly was also
present inwardly, and commentators point out it's an ongoing faith
that characterized their lives. They lived by faith. Now, the
second Greek word is enoikeo, the word that's translated as
dwelt in. Very interesting word. Very rare
word. It's only used by Paul in the
New Testament. And it too emphasizes that this
faith was an active faith that took up residence in them. Here's
how one Greek expert translates this. To house in you continually. The idea is that their faith
didn't just make an occasional appearance, but it was a full-time,
year-round resident. It impacted everything they did.
They were sold-out believers. Now, Lois and Eunice were Old
Covenant believers initially, but they were sold out to God.
This brings up a major, major problem. In fact, some people,
liberals especially, say this is just a flat-out contradiction
in the scripture. If Eunice and Lois were believers who approached
everything in life through the eyes of faith, how on earth could
Eunice get married to an unbeliever? Okay, that's the problem that
they're facing. Turn to Acts chapter 16. This
passage shows two glaring failures in this household. Acts chapter
16, let's read verses one through three. Then he came to Derbe and Lystra,
and behold, a certain disciple was there named Timothy, the
son of a certain Jewish woman who believed, but his father
was Greek. He was well spoken of by the
brethren who were at Lystra and Iconium. Paul wanted to have
him go on with him, and he took him and circumcised him because
of the Jews who were in that region, for they all knew that
his father was Greek." Now, the two glaring failures are that
Eunice married an unbeliever, and she failed to apply the Old
Testament sign of the covenant to Timothy. Circumcision was
the sign of the covenant. And scripture is quite clear
that even if there was just one spouse, You were duty-bound before
God to apply the sign of the covenant to your children, set
them apart to the Lord. In fact, in Genesis 17, it says
that any male child that was not circumcised would be cut
off from the covenant. He has broken the covenant. So
how on earth did covenant succession happen with this massive failure? The other failure was being unequally
yoked. We know that the father was an
unbeliever from two words that Luke uses here, the words but
and Greek. So she was a Jewish believer,
but he was a Greek. Okay, being a Greek is contrasted
with being a believer. And by the way, that's a common
way to use the term Greek was as opposed to being a believer.
It's unbelieving pagan. So how do we reconcile this with
previous data points, which clearly show that Eunice lived out her
faith from the time and before the time that Timothy was born.
And it's actually worse. Problem is worse. Many commentators
believe that the Jewish grandmother Lois was also unequally yoked
together with an unbeliever, and they get this conclusion
from four facts in the scripture. First, Paul only singles out
the two women as having faith in Timothy's previous generations—2
Timothy 1-5. That would be extremely unusual
if the fathers were believers. Second, Paul states that Timothy
was immersed in the Old Testament Scriptures from the time he was
in the womb, which means that Eunice believed in God before
Timothy was born, 2 Timothy 3.15. But third, 2 Timothy 1.5 says
that Lois was a believer first, which fourth means that Lois
was a believer when Eunice got married to this unbeliever. How
could a believing couple allow their daughter to marry a pagan?
Jews were never supposed to marry pagans, and Christians aren't
either. And so commentators believe that Lois too was married to
an unbeliever. So how do I reconcile this with
the previous point? I'm not sure. I'll be quite honest. True believers do sometimes marry
unbelievers. We saw last week, that's what
happened with the patriarch Jacob. He married an unbeliever. Rachel
was an unbeliever. It doesn't make it right. but
people of faith can still do bad things. But it may be that
both marriages were arranged and neither Lois nor Eunice had
a say in the matter, or it could be that they were deceived just
like Jacob was, or there could be another reason for we're not
told why. And I think God deliberately
keeps us in the dark so that those who now are unequally yoked
for whatever reason can still look to Lois and Eunice and find
challenge, find comfort, find hope through their testimony. And so if you have friends who
are mega discouraged because they're unequally yoked and they
finally woken up to the fact of how bad this is, you can show
them and encourage them through Lois and Eunice. With no Christian
father or grandfather, it would have been very, very difficult
for Lois to pass on the faith to Eunice and for Eunice to pass
on the faith to Timothy. The statistics are definitely
against that happening. They're very strongly against
that happening. And yet, despite the statistics,
these two women prove that God's grace can perform covenant succession,
even when the husbands are not sold out to God, if certain things
are in place. And we'll look at those certain
things a little bit later. But what are the statistics that
would have been against them? They vary slightly, but let me
read from one study reported in Discipleship Journal. There's been many, many surveys
that have been done over the years, and they come out pretty
similar. It says, when the father is an
active believer, there is about a 75% likelihood that the children
will also become active believers. But if only the mother is a believer,
this likelihood is dramatically reduced to 15%. Now, the study
had a pretty low standard of what constituted an active believer.
It's basically your average evangelical who goes to church, tries to
be a nice mom and dad, And I think with our worldview and, you know,
with the covenant theology that we have, the statistics definitely
show a much higher rate, a 95%. Some of the studies show even
higher than 95%. But they were looking at average
Christian homes with a good dad. Well, I want to spend a bit of
time talking to you fathers because it's not enough to be a good
dad. A 75% statistic is not good enough. Now, this Greek dad appeared
to be a pretty good father. He provided for his family. He
must have been fairly easygoing. One commentator pointed this
out. He said, he must have been fairly open-minded because he
did not hinder his wife and mother-in-law from instructing Timothy in the
Holy Scriptures. Even though he didn't believe
in that fairy tale stuff himself, he thought, yeah, it's good morality.
I don't have any problem with you teaching our kids that. But
he was not supportive. He was okay with it. The only
thing that he really seems to have put his foot down against
was circumcising Timothy. Absolutely not. And given the
disgust that the Greeks had over circumcision in that day, it's
understandable. And so commentators assumed that
this was not a failure on the part of Eunice. It was a prohibition
on the part of the dad. So where did that put Timothy?
I put him in the place of a God-fearer. He followed the religion of Israel,
but without the sign of the covenant, without becoming a full Jew.
And we can thank God that his father was one of the more broad-minded
Greeks who tolerated a lot in the home. But bringing home the
bacon is not enough. Playing with the kids occasionally,
you know. and reading stories is not enough.
Any pagan dad can do that. And my prayer is that every dad
here will aspire to be a much better dad than Timothy's good
dad was. Let me read you an article in
which Irma Bombeck remembers her good dad, a father who could
be like many a dad today. She said, when I was a kid, A
father was like the light in a refrigerator. Every house had
one, but nobody knew what either of them did once the door was
shut. My dad left the house every morning
and always seemed glad to see everyone at night. He opened
the jar of pickles when nobody else could. He was the only one
in the house who wasn't afraid to go to the basement by himself.
He cut himself shaving, but no one kissed it or got excited
about it. It was understood whenever it rained, he got the car and
brought it around to the door. When anyone was sick, he got
the prescription filled. He set mousetraps, cut back the
roses so the thorns wouldn't clip you when you came to the
front door. When I got a bike, he ran alongside me for at least
1,000 miles until I got the hang of it. I was afraid of everyone
else's father, but not my own. Once I made him tea. It was only
sugar water. But he sat on a small chair and
said it was delicious. Whenever I played house, the
mother doll had a lot to do. I never knew what to do with
the daddy doll. So I had him say, I'm going off
to work now, and threw him under the bed. When I was nine years
old, my father didn't get up one morning to go to work. He went to the hospital and died
the next day. I went to my room and felt under my bed for the daddy doll. When I found
him, I dusted him off and put him on my bed. He never did anything. I didn't know his leaving would
hurt so much. I still don't know why. Now,
what that father did is what really many American fathers
do. They're good fathers, but that's
not a biblical dad. A biblical dad has an active
faith that actively gets involved in leading his family, washing
his family with the water of the word, instructing, guiding
his family, commanding them in the way of the Lord. And when
he leaves that door, He continues to guide his family. Mom says
to the kids, oh, this is the way dad would have us do it.
Let's do it. In other words, his guidance, his leadership
characterized the home all the time throughout the week. Timothy's
dad was an Irma Bombeck kind of a good dad. He didn't have
an active part in the faith of Timothy. He no doubt did a lot
of fun things with Timothy. No doubt provided well, but when
the door closed as he went off to work, he was like that doll
tossed under the bed and forgotten. The only leadership he had were
on the big things like politics and whether Timothy could get
circumcised or not. And if you're like Timothy's
dad, you put a tremendous burden upon your wife that God did not
intend women to have. Such women are at a huge disadvantage. And of course, it's never too
late to change. And even though this sermon will
show how women married to good dads can still pass on the faith
as Lois and Eunice did, it's much better if the dads are actively
involved. 95% is much better than 15%. or even 75%. So dads have an
active faith. Be more than a good dad. But
what made things even more complicated for Lois and Eunice was that
Timothy had no male Christian role models until Acts 13 or
Acts 14. There was no church to help out
Eunice or Lois and to encourage them. Now, how do I come to that
conclusion? Well, both history and archaeology confirm that
there was no synagogue in Lystra that they could attend to strengthen
their faith. People say, well, what about
those Jews, you know, that came in chapter 14? Well, they came
from Antioch and from Iconium. The mobs that welcomed Paul and
Barnabas in Acts 14 and tried to worship them as Zeus and Apollos
are the same mobs that stoned him in that same chapter. They
were pagans. There was no known Jewish population
in Lystra. It wasn't until Jews came from
Antioch and Iconium spread lies about them to the Gentiles that
the Gentiles were turned against Paul. So here's the point. The
nearest synagogue was in Iconium, 20 miles away as the crow flies. It would be a little bit longer
because you're going through windy paths in the mountains.
The next nearest synagogue was in Antioch, eighty miles to the
northwest, also through the mountains. Eunice, no doubt, was occasionally
allowed to attend synagogue twenty-one miles away, as the crow flies. But it would have been a very
inconvenient trip by foot. And even then, Timothy would
have been segregated. He was a Gentile. He would not
have been able to sit with the rest of the Jews, but he would
have been able to attend. And there is some evidence that
Timothy did indeed seek to attend a synagogue before he became
a Christian. Now, why am I painting all of
this background? It's because I want you to have
a picture of how difficult things were for these two women. It
makes their actions of faith stand out the stronger. You know,
we have Eunices and Timothys spread out in small towns all
over America. They don't have any church to
attend. They don't want to attend the local liberal apostate church. And I wish there was some way
we could accommodate these poor, forlorn, and isolated Christians
via distance membership. It's something I would love for
the CPC to discuss. Is there any way that we can
accommodate these people through circuit riders or in some other
way accomplish this? But back to the painting, the
easygoing nature of the dad can also be seen by Timothy's name.
It's obvious to commentators the dad did not name Timothy.
Eunice did. His name means one who fears
God. Not exactly something that would
be first to come to the dad's mind. Now he's okay with Eunice
doing that. He's okay with a lot of things
that Eunice does in the home. and that Timothy had a good reputation
that lived up to his name can be seen in Acts 16 verse 2 where
it says years later he was well spoken of by the brethren who
were in Lystra and Iconium. Timothy had already been involved
in serving in both places prior to AD 50. But let's take a look
next at their relationship to Paul. As We have seen they were already
Old Covenant believers long before meeting Paul. And I believe that
Timothy became a Christian disciple by at least Acts 14 when Paul
was ministering the gospel in Iconium and possibly as early
as Acts 13 when Paul was ministering in Antioch. And the reason I've
come to this conclusion is because 2 Timothy 3 verses 10 through
12 speaks of Timothy carefully following the apostles ministry
and his life. He had been an admirer of him.
He was following his journeys and greatly influenced by Paul
before Paul even knew very much about Timothy. That verse says
he carefully followed what had happened to him from the time
of Antioch. Well, that would be from Acts
chapter 13. Timothy must have traveled to Antioch And then
Paul left Antioch to Iconium and then later to Lystra to get
in on his teaching. It says, But you have carefully
followed my doctrine, manner of life, purpose, faith, longsuffering,
love, perseverance, persecutions, afflictions, which happened to
me at Antioch, at Iconium, at Lystra, what persecutions I endured,
and out of them all the Lord delivered me. Now the word for
carefully followed is paracallotheo, and it refers to something more
than an academic interest in Paul. Here is the dictionary
definition. to be closely associated with someone, viewed as an authority
figure, to follow, to be attendant upon, to follow, accompany, attend,
to conform to someone's belief or practice by paying special
attention, to follow faithfully, to follow as a rule. In other
words, he's already been convinced of the gospel in Acts chapter
13. And when he left there, he went
to Iconium, then into Lystra. He had been a disciple for some
time. Now, this means that they quickly became a part of the
first Christian church that Paul established in Lystra. That was
the city that he got stoned in, and may well have been one of
the disciples who bound up his wounds after he was stoned. We
don't know how long Paul was in Lystra, but 2 Timothy 1.5
indicates he must have been there long enough to develop a fairly
close relationship with Lois and with Eunice. Paul recalls
So he's remembering his time there. He recalls the genuine
faith that was in Lois, Eunice, and in Timothy, and he says that
it filled his heart with joy. So there seems to have been some
kind of a relationship that had developed. Then their son, Timothy,
was called into the ministry at somewhere between age 25 and
30 in Acts 16. And what a joy this would have been for these
old covenant believers who had been looking so long for the
coming of the Messiah. And then they discover, hey,
the Messiah has already come. And then Timothy is being called
to be an apostle, not an apostle, a servant, an ambassador for
this Messiah. All of the hard labors of motherhood
had paid off. And so given all of the disadvantages
that Lois and Eunice had, how were they able to pass on the
faith so successfully? And that's what I want to spend
the rest of the sermon on. If we can imitate these two women
on these things, I think it will hugely increase our covenant
succession. Obviously, God is sovereign,
but these are the things God loves to use to that end. First,
they didn't focus on what they didn't have. They didn't have
the support of their husbands. Now, sure, husbands didn't resist
the faith too much, but neither were they supportive. They didn't
have a good local church. For most of Timothy's younger
years, they didn't have a good male Christian role model for
Timothy to be influenced by. They didn't have much fellowship
with fellow believers until Paul came along. There was a lot they
didn't have. But if you focus too much on
what you don't have, it's easy to become bitter, and bitterness
is incompatible with faith. Maybe they made a bad decision
when they got married. We don't know. But if that was
the case, like the Apostle Paul, they would have to learn to just
fling all of those past mistakes behind them and to start living
by faith now, moving forward. Listen to what Paul said. He
had plenty of regrets, but listen to what he said in Philippians
3, 13 through 16. One thing I do, forgetting those
things which are behind, and breaching forward to those things
which are ahead, I press toward the goal for the prize of the
upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Therefore, let us, as
many as are mature, have this mind, and if in anything you
think otherwise, God will reveal even this to you. Nevertheless,
to the degree that we have already attained, let us walk by the
same rule, let us be of the same mind." So he's calling us to
do the same thing. He says, do not stew about all
of your disadvantages. Forget about those. Do what you
can by faith. Forget about the mistakes of
the past. Press on for the future. Second, make your faith real
to everyday living. As we talked about earlier, the
two words in 2 Timothy 1.5 show that this faith pulsed through
their lives continually. As one person translated the
word enoikeo, to housing you continually. Robert Yarbrough
states, in Paul, Enoikeo describes divine, dynamic, and transforming
presence. The faith of Timothy's maternal
forebears was not passive, merely external or pro forma, but deep
and alive. Lived in, in the NIV, is accurate
enough, though perhaps a little bland. No wonder Timothy's appropriation
of this faith, not shared, it seems, by his father, resulted
in a fidelity and fervor that Paul found matched by few, if
any, among his distinguished co-workers, Philippians 2.20.
And that last verse that he referenced says, for I have no one like-minded. There was nobody that measured
up to Timothy's faith in his estimation. So all three of them
had a vibrant, dynamic, ever-resident faith. Now in our sermon on Peter's
mother-in-law, we showed how it's possible to make faith stamp
everything that you do in your home. And one of the super, super
easy ways of doing it is once a week have a praise and thanksgiving
time where you're thanking the Lord for the answered prayers
that he's done during the week. And as you do this, your kids
begin to realize, you know, God is constantly at work in our
family. It's not a Sunday go to meeting
kind of a faith. where it's different there than
it is the rest of the week. No, this is a faith that lives
out. And if you have that kind of a dynamic faith, not only
do you have a greater chance of winning your children, 1 Corinthians
7 says you have the greater possibility of winning your unsaved spouse. Now, if you flip over to 2 Timothy
3, I see all of the rest of the keys to this covenant succession
listed here. And we're going to start with
2 Timothy 3 and verse 15. It says that from childhood you
have known the Holy Scriptures. You know, it really does pay
to look at definitions. And if you look up the word for
childhood, it's brephos. And here is the dictionary definition.
It says, almost always, this word means, quote, a child that
is still unborn, a fetus. It can occasionally, some people
actually reference this as one example, a born child, but almost
always, and I think always really, but always, this is referring
to an unborn child. So let's focus on that. How could
an unborn child or fetus know the Holy Scriptures? Paul says
that Timothy did know the Holy Scriptures when he was a fetus.
And the word know is oida. It's a very strong word for knowledge. It's not seed faith. It's stronger
than that. Here's how the dictionary defines
oida. It says to have information about, to know, to be intimately
acquainted with, or stand in close relationship to, to know,
to grasp the meaning of something, to understand, recognize, come
to know, and experience. How on earth is that possible
for a fetus? Doesn't the Bible say that fetuses
don't know a whole bunch? They don't even know the right
hand from their left hand. Yes, it does. At that stage in a fetus's
or a child's life, that is true. But there are other scriptures
that say that a fetus knows a lot. How do we reconcile those scriptures?
They seem like opposites. This is only a theory, and I
don't usually preach theories, but I think I've got a lot of
scripture to back up this theory. I'm speaking it with a great
deal of fear and trepidation, but it's the only explanation
that makes any sense to me. I believe that in the first weeks
in a fetus's life, Before the brain even exists, the mind of
the newly created spirit of the child can think clearly without
the limits of a physical brain. The process in which a brain
develops does not even begin until week five. But it's not
until week six or seven that the neural tube closes, and the
brain separates into three parts. But even there, it's not much
of a brain. Once the brain is formed, it seems to act, I liken
it to a step-down transformer that actually limits the ability
of the mind to think. When a baby dies and goes to
heaven, Its spirit is no longer hampered by the body's limitations. And even if it didn't learn language
yet, it's instantly able to communicate in heaven completely. A newly
created mind is not a tabula rasa. It's not a blank slate.
Okay, Adam and Eve instantly had language. They didn't have
to learn language, instantly had language because their brains
were formed to correspond with their mind, match up with their
mind. So when God creates a spirit,
it has huge capabilities. But let's trace a few scriptures
that hint at this idea that from day one, infants have some knowledge. Romans 1-2 says that the work
of God's law is written on the heart. Psalm 58-3 and other scriptures
say that babies sin against God's law in the womb. How can they
sin against God's law if they don't know God's law? There are
many scriptures like 2 Timothy 3-15 that seem to indicate that
fetuses can know God's word and scripture is crystal clear there
is a vast difference between the mind and the brain. We cannot
confuse the two. The mind normally thinks through
the brain, but if there is no brain, that does not mean the
mind does not think. If this is true, then during
those early weeks when the mind of the child's spirit is unfettered
by the brain, the spirit of the fetus can understand voices,
learn music, know language, and put an active trust in God."
And there are actually scientific studies that are beginning to
demonstrate that this, you know, point in that direction. Verify
this. that newly created spirit can also rebel against God's
law that it hears. For example, Isaiah 48 verse
8 says, you are a transgressor from the womb. Now the word for
transgressor, pasha, is an active word that shows rebellion against
God's law. In other words, it's not just
describing the sin nature, it's describing a conscious action
of sin. How could a fetus in the womb
transgress or rebel against God's law if it did not know God's
law? Psalm 22 9-10 says David trusted God and totally cast
himself upon the Lord in his mother's womb and continued to
have that faith when he was on his mother's breasts. So how
Was that possible? Faith is trust in God's word.
Where did he get God's word when he was in his mother's womb?
Well, I think he got it the same way that Timothy did. David's
mother and father were reading the scripture while he was in
his mother's womb. He heard the word when he attended
church. while the benediction was being given, and in other
ways was exposed to the Holy Scripture. So that's Psalm 22,
9 through 10. Job 10, 10 through 12 seems to
indicate that Job's spirit, that was the self-conscious I and
me of the passage, was conscious while his father's sperm was
still in the womb. That's day one. In fact, that's
one of several passages that people go to to prove the spirit
is created at the moment of fertilization, at the moment of conception. Luke 1.44 speaks of John the
Baptist's joy in the womb meeting the Messiah. Now obviously it
was prophetic, but the prophetic somehow was understood by the
baby's mind in some way. Joy is a rational concept. Now
these are all simply hints of how it could happen, but we can
know from 2 Timothy 3.15, by faith, that children can know the holy
scriptures. It's enough for me. God says
it. I believe it. Okay, so what difference does
that viewpoint make? Well, those verses spurred Kathy
and me to make sure there was never a day that our children
did not hear the scriptures read to them, in the womb even, and
scriptures sung and scripture discussed. In fact, the scriptures
were an atmosphere in which our children swam. When you have
that kind of an atmosphere, there's no guarantee of results, but
kids cannot help but be impacted powerfully. They see the reality
of God and of God's worldview rather than seeing the hypocrisy
of one way of living on Sunday and a different way of living
the rest of the week. Immerse your born and unborn children
in the Holy Scriptures. Next, have confidence that those
scriptures can produce faith and salvation. 2 Timothy 3.15
goes on to say, the holy scriptures, which are able to make you wise
for salvation through faith, which is in Christ Jesus." Now,
this verse continues the theme of the scriptures that Timothy
had been brought up on. When they trusted those scriptures,
God honored their faith. Now, for those who think that
other people's faith cannot impact our salvation, I love to turn
them to Mark chapter two, where Peter's roof was torn up and
they lowered the paralytic down. Remember when we preached on
Peter's mother-in-law? And it says in verse five, when
Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralytic, son, your sins
are forgiven you. There was a direct connection
between their faith and the salvation and forgiveness of sins of the
paralytic. And in the same way, there was a direct connection
between the faith of parents in the power of scripture to
change and transform, and the salvation of our children. So
trust God's word, and you will use it constantly. The next thing
I see in 2 Timothy 3 is in the first part of verse 16. It says,
all scripture is given by inspiration of God. Lois and Eunice believed
that. They treated the scripture as
the ultimate authority. It had higher authority than
their husband. And so when it called them to
do something that their husband didn't care about, they had to
obey the higher authority, right? It was God's thoughts communicated
through the prophets to our minds. Now, if the kids do not see scripture
as our highest authority, how on earth are we going to expect
them to treat it as their highest authority? Then the verse says,
and it's profitable for doctrine. Doctrine is the substance of
what faith is founded upon. Now the phrase, the faith, with
a V in it, can refer to the beliefs God's people trusted or to the
inward trust itself. And there's debate back and forth
on, you know, here, but most commentators say you cannot artificially
divide between the object of faith and the subject of faith. in an absolute way. So teach
and apply doctrine constantly. Faith comes by hearing, and hearing
by the Word of God. The two are knit together, and
the more practical your doctrine is, the more practical your faith
will be. Many parents don't get the practical
ramifications of doctrine. But if you don't apply doctrine,
You don't see its practical outworking. The doctrine of the Trinity and
the inter-Trinitarian relationships are taken from passages that
are profoundly transformational, you know, on humility and mutual
care and leadership and delegation and many other things we looked
at in the Trinity series. The doctrine of total depravity
has huge implications to your parenting. I've got a paper that
shows the connection of this presupposition to how we approach
discipline. other aspects of parenting, psychology,
science, philosophy, education, politics, art, religion, apologetics,
many other areas. In other words, you're going
to be misled in those areas if one of your presuppositions is
not the doctrine of total depravity. I won't go on, but the point
is we must learn how to apply doctrine. The next key in verse
16 is for reproof. Disciplining our children should
always come with scriptural reproof. The children need to see the
discipline in a Godward direction, not simply a parental direction. We do, after all, want them to
trust God, not us. We do, after all, want their
consciences to be gripped and directed by God, not what everybody
thinks about them, right? So reproof should be backed up
by Scripture. This passage says the Bible is
sufficient for all reproof. I mean, this is one of the things
that the book by Bruce Ray, what is the name of the book? Withhold
Not Correction. Thank you, Michael. It was so
great on as it's showing how to make all of our proofs biblical
reproofs, scriptural reproofs. Those are going to be far more
transformational reproofs. The next key word is for correction.
If we just tell our children, do it because I told you to,
that's not enough. Now, obviously, our children need to have instant
obedience. But more and more, our correction
needs to come from the scripture, or their faith will not be in
the scripture. It's going to be in us, and we're going to
let them down. Scripture will never let them down. The next
key is for instruction and righteousness. This is showing the put-ons.
This is showing the positive directions that the children
need to go. When you teach them to think and to manage their
time and to manage their money, and do their chores, do it through
a grid of scripture. And there's so much in the scripture
that we can't get into that, you know, economic, biblical
economics. and biblical self-government and service. Pam Forster's book,
I think I've recommended it before, Instruction and Righteousness.
You may not agree with everything that's in there, but she tries
to show both the put-offs and the put-ons and scriptural illustrations
and giving you ideas that relate to every sin and every righteous
habit we want to instill in our children. The last key is in
verse 17, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped
for every good work. Now, if it is clear to our children
we really believe that, and we go to Scripture for everything,
they too will begin to mind the Scriptures for themselves. And
if we let them know we're constantly discovering new things from the
Bible, they're going to know we don't know everything. It's
okay to admit we don't know, but we're going to continue to
mind the Scripture, or go to people who have minded it more
than we have. But let me end with four more brief applications.
If the Holy Scriptures that were being used by Eunice were being
used from the time that Timothy was an infant, they were the
Old Testament scriptures. New Testament hadn't been written
yet. And yet Paul says that those Old Testament scriptures that
Timothy knew from childhood are themselves sufficient for faith,
salvation, for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for
instruction in righteousness that the man of God may be complete,
thoroughly equipped for every good work. Yes, we praise God
for the New Testament, but Paul had high praise for the Old Testament
as well. Luke says Paul was able to prove
everything he taught from the Old Testament. So don't neglect
the Old Testament. You do not have all of the blueprints
for life if you neglect the Old Testament. Second, though God
can perform covenant succession through our moms, you dads play
a vital role in making sure it happens in a clean and healthy
way. Many books on Timothy have pointed out that Timothy's fears
and insecurities may have arisen because he didn't have a male
role model growing up that was a Christian. Now, Paul sought
to correct some of those fears and insecurities later on. But
it's better if we can provide the healthy environment our children
need from an early age. And this is especially important
in our day of gender confusion. Try to make the time to be more
than a good dad. Statistics show a huge payoff.
Third, take advantage of some of the role models in the church
just like Timothy did. Have kids, enter apprenticeships
in Christian businesses. Where there is an absent father,
the church can be a rich place for alternative male role models
to influence and to guide. And then finally, let's all pray
for the key role that moms and dads play in this church. It's
hard. to be more than a good mom and
a good dad. Very, very hard. It takes a lot
of study and sacrifice and prayer and time. So let's pray that
our moms and dads strive to be men and women of faith of whom
it could be said that they have an unhypocritical dynamic faith
that is housed in them continually. Amen. Father, thank you for this
word. Thank you for all of the examples
that you set in the scripture that could be challenges to our
faith or warnings against compromise. Help us, Father, to be more and
more consistent in our Christianity, to not get discouraged when we
look at the high standard, because all of us will fall short, but,
Father, to strive ever toward that upward calling that you've
given to us in Christ Jesus. And it's in His name that we
pray. Amen.
Lois and Eunice
Series Women of Faith
Many women have husbands who are very uninvolved in the faith of the family. This sermon addresses those tough situations and what can be done to ensure covenant succession still happens. It also addresses the difficult situation of families that have no local church.
| Sermon ID | 8102141484635 |
| Duration | 46:33 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | 2 Timothy 1:3-7 |
| Language | English |
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