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If you have your Bibles, we're
going to turn to the book of Ecclesiastes, chapter 4. Ecclesiastes, chapter
4. I want to hit this afternoon
just briefly on a topic that we skimmed over this morning,
and that was that as Jesus began to send the twelve out, he began
to send them forth two by two. I want to talk this afternoon
about the power of fellowship. Jesus means for us to have fellowship
with each other. Jesus means for us to have fellowship
with other Christians. You could go to Ephesians chapter
4 and see how God uses the church to bring the church to full maturity
through the lives of one another. And then you could go to various
other places to see how fellowship is a necessity in the life of
a Christian. But specifically, this afternoon,
I want to look at the fact that there is power in fellowship. You know, whenever we think about
sending the disciples out two and two, it's a lot easier to
kind of tuck tail and run if you're the only one going, or
if you're the only one there. We've kind of been able to experience
that a little bit, me and Brother Isaac at Ripley, when there's
been some difficult things to do, and we might want to try
to worm out of those, but there's either been one or the other
that's just accountable to each other. So there is power in fellowship. Ecclesiastes chapter 4 gives
us some specifics in that. Ecclesiastes chapter 4 verse
9, It says this, it says, Two are better than one, because
they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the
one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him that is alone
when he falleth, for he hath not another to help him up. Again,
if two lie together, then they have heat, but how can one be
warm alone? And if one prevail against him,
two shall withstand him, and a threefold cord is not quickly
broken. We have three categories in Ecclesiastes
4, 9 through 12 as far as two being better than one and the
help that we get from fellowship with one another. The first one
is help through encouragement. If one falls, the other will
pick him up. But woe to him that is alone when he falls, for he
has not another to help him up. We need to encourage one another.
We need to be receiving encouragement from one another. There are various
things that happen in life, circumstances that we can get discouraged by.
multiple things that happen through the week that have a potential
to be discouraging and our tendency a lot of the times is when we're
discouraged or when we're upset or when we're frustrated or When
we're bothered by something when I say us, I guess it kind of
depends on the personality But it's very common whenever people
get frustrated about something to want to be secluded and get
off to their self and kind of clear their mind and I'm not
saying there's not a place for that but I am saying That in
isolation, usually what happens is, rather than finding encouragement,
we just kind of replay the discouraging details of whatever it was that
just happened to us. And so, rather than coming out
of that, we kind of sink ourselves into that more and more and more. So, help through encouragement.
Verse 11, if two lie together, then they shall have heat, but
how can one be warm alone? Help through comfort, comforting
one another. And then, help in adversity. If one prevail against him, two
shall withstand. And a threefold cord is not quickly
broken. So help in adversity. There's
a good illustration here out of, it's not really out of Psalm
23, but it's out of a shepherd sheep imagery. In Psalm 23, there's
imagery there of the shepherd leading the sheep through dangerous
valleys, keeping the sheep safe from enemies. And it's interesting
to see how it is and how it was then that the shepherds would
keep the sheep safe. And this is what would happen.
An enemy would get in. Adversity would come in. And
we're talking about an enemy. We're talking about a wolf. We're
talking about some sort of a predator. And as that shepherd would look
and look over his flock and as he would see that enemy get in
the flock, had he just left him alone, he could just pick off
the sheep one by one if he wanted to, and that would be that. It's
not very difficult for a predator to kill a sheep. What the predator
would do, or what the shepherd would do, is as soon as he spotted
that wolf, he would get up on a hill, and there was some sort
of call that he would do, and the reason I say it that way
is because it was different for each shepherd, but he would do a call
that the sheep would know. And they would all turn and look
toward him, and then they would all start running toward him,
and usually that wolf would get trampled and would be killed
as the flock fled to the shepherd all together. So that if just
one sheep were left by himself, it would have been impossible
for him to ever overcome a wolf. But together in adversity through
fellowship, and this is not just an illustration, it's a reality,
the sheep could kill an enemy that would just really easily
overcome any of them. We're the same way. We're the
same way. We need one another in adversity. We don't really like that very
much. Fellowship is a great blessing to us, but it also makes us admit
and opens us up to the idea that we really are vulnerable, left
to ourselves, and we really do not have it all together, left
to ourselves. We need each other. In Amos chapter
3, verse 3, It says, how can two, or it says,
can two walk together except they be agreed? Can two folks
have, really, fellowship? Now, when we're talking about
fellowship, a lot of times we throw that word out and we may not
be really clear on what we're talking about. So the word fellowship
really just means to have a commonality with someone or to have a joint
participation in the same agenda as somebody else. So that if
we're talking about having fellowship with Jesus Christ, we're saying
that His agenda is our agenda. We have that in common and we're
moving the same way. I heard somebody give an illustration
one time about fellowship and said, It's kind of like a couple
of fellers in a ship. They kind of made a funny joke
out of that, but the picture's a good picture. You got guys
in a ship, especially if you're talking about like a rowboat
or something, they're all rowing, they're all working to go in
the same direction. As long as you're going this
way, you're in fellowship. As soon as you start rowing the
other way, you do not have much fellowship. Fellowship can be
had over anything. Now we talk about fellowship
here because we say we have a commonality, and that is, and we're going
to get to that in a minute, our commonality is that we believe that we are
saved by the grace of Jesus Christ. But you know you can have a fellowship
over anything. You could have a hamburger fellowship for people
who love hamburgers. We could have a commonality and
have a hamburger fellowship every day if we wanted to. You could
have a fellowship over whatever. It's just a common thing, a joint
participation. And what Amos brings out is,
can two walk together except they be agreed? Well, the answer
to that is no. Fellowship does not occur just
spontaneously out of nowhere. Fellowship has some substance,
in other words. There has to be something that
you and I have in common, or there really is no fellowship.
Now, as we begin to get closer and closer, we'll see what we're
talking about. Specifically, as we define who it is that we
as Christians have Christian fellowship with. So, 1 John 1
gives us a good idea here. 1 John 1, verse 3. It says, That which we have seen
and heard, declare we unto you, that ye also may have fellowship
with us. And truly our fellowship is with
the Father, and with His Son, Jesus Christ. And these things
write we unto you, that your joy may be full. This then is
the message that we have heard of Him, and declare unto you,
that God is light, and in Him is no darkness at all. If we
say we have fellowship with Him, and walk in darkness, we lie,
and we do not the truth. If we walk in the light, as He
is in the light, we have fellowship one with another. And the blood
of Jesus Christ, his Son, cleanseth us from all sin." And he continues
to go on there, but the point John makes here is this, we are
declaring unto you that which we have seen, and the reason
we declare this to you is so that we might have fellowship
with you. Then he goes on to say this, our fellowship is with
the Father and with his Son, Jesus Christ. As you go down
through there, then he continues on with that, but the point that
John's making is, as far as Christian fellowship, the only test of
Christian fellowship ought to be those who have fellowship
with Jesus Christ. So that if you have fellowship
with Christ, I can have fellowship with you. If we were to take
the word fellowship out, it just means this. If you are walking
in joint participation with Jesus Christ, and in the process of
Him conforming you to His image, then we have something in common.
We have an agreement somewhere along the lines, and we can walk
together. And as I say that, I want to
make it clear that I really do mean that. Period. Now, there's degrees of fellowship
that we have, but as far as the prerequisite for Christian fellowship,
it's those who are following Christ. Now, those are going
to vary. The closeness of how we can do all that is going to
vary, but we do not have a... you know, a Christian country
club where we say, you come up here and we'll punch your ticket,
you go to the back door and maybe, you know, next week if you do
what you need to do then you can come in. That's not it. We
have fellowship with, we have a commonality with, we have joint
participation with those who are following Jesus Christ. There's a connection there that
we have with them and God means for us to do them good and for
them to do us good as well. It says, our fellowship is with
the Father and with the Son, Jesus Christ. And these things
we write unto you, that your joy may be full. And here's the
message, that God is light and in Him is no darkness. If we
say we have fellowship with Him and walk in darkness, we lie
and we do not the truth. And whenever we look at a verse
like verse 6, you know as well as I do that you know, probably
at least where we are, when I say we are, I mean in the cell, you
know, 8 out of 10 folks that you talk to claim to be Christians. But as John goes on and continues
to boil this thing down, he says this, if we claim or if we say
that we have fellowship with him and we walk in darkness,
then we do not the truth. So what John is saying is our
fellowship is not based on a declaration necessarily, But our fellowship
is based on a way of life. You're trying to live a life
that pleases God. I'm trying to live a life that
pleases God. We have fellowship. If you're trying to live a life
that pleases God, and I claim that I'm doing that, or I've
claimed that I'm a follower of Christ, but my life has really
no resemblance to that at all, there's no fellowship there.
And as I say that, I don't mean There's no fellowship there because
I've decided to cut you off. I mean, genuinely, there is no
fellowship there. It's just as sure to say that
as it would be to say there's no snow on the ground right now
outside. It's just a fact. We might try
to make it work. We might go throw some ice outside
on the pavement. It's not going to be long until
it's melted and it's water. It's not going to last in the
heat out there. And so the same way here, we
might try to make something work with someone who's not really
in joint participation with us, but the truth of the matter is,
if there never was fellowship, it's just not going to work,
if it's not there, if the substance isn't there. And then 2 Corinthians
chapter 6, 2 Corinthians chapter 6, verse 14, says, Be not unequally
yoked together with unbelievers, for what fellowship hath righteousness
with unrighteousness, and what communion hath light with darkness,
And what concord hath Christ with Belial, or what part hath
he that believeth with an infidel? And what agreement hath the temple
of God with idols? For ye are the temple of the
living God. As God hath said, I will dwell
in them, and walk in them, and I will be their God, and they
shall be my people. Wherefore, come out from among
them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean
thing, and I will receive you. and will be a father unto you,
and you shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty."
Now, a lot of times, and probably most of the times that we hear
this phrase thrown out, be not unequally yoked with unbelievers,
we hear that usually in the context of marriage, but this is not
speaking directly in the context of marriage. This is talking
about fellowship. Do not have fellowship. Do not try to have
fellowship with unbelievers. But then he goes on and pretty
much says this, it makes no sense. What commonality has light with
darkness? So if we were to have a list
of light and darkness and we were to say what's the same about
them, what's different about them? Well, there would be nothing
on the what's alike list, right? I mean, what's alike? What's
the similarities? What do light and darkness have
in common? Well, nothing. He says, what does the temple
of God and the temple of idols have in common? Nothing. There's
nothing in common there. And so again, he's making a point
that we made earlier. It's not that he's saying you
can try, but you really shouldn't try to do that. But what he's
saying is the fact of the matter is it makes no sense because
there's no substance there. Do not be unequally yoked with
unbelievers. It doesn't make sense. In Proverbs
chapter 27, Proverbs chapter 27 verse 17 says, Iron sharpeneth
iron, so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend. As
iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpeneth the countenance of
his friend. So just as when two pieces of
iron come together, they don't just automatically begin to sharpen
one another, but one is used to sharpen the other, or maybe
vice versa. And so, purposefully, a man,
through his fellowship, can sharpen the countenance of his friend.
Again, that goes back to the idea, and I'm probably going
to say this on every verse, but the idea is this, we need one
another. You need fellowship. You weren't
created, you weren't designed to do life, to live life on your
own. You weren't created, you weren't
designed, and salvation does not work with those, when I say
it doesn't work, I just mean It doesn't come to full fruition
with those who want to be hermits. It doesn't work that way. God
designed us to live together and to grow together and to help
one another through fellowship with each other. In Hebrews,
I'm sorry, in 1 Corinthians, chapter 12. 1 Corinthians, chapter
12, verse 18. He says, But now hath God set
the members, every one of them, in the body as it has pleased
Him. And if they were all one member, where were the body?
But now are they many members, yet but one body. And the eye
cannot say to the hand, I have no need of thee, nor again the
head to the feet, I have no need of you. Nay, much more those
members of the body which seem to be more feeble are necessary,
and those members of the body which we think to be less honorable
upon these we bestow more abundant honor, and our uncomely parts
have more abundant comeliness." And then he continues on there.
The point that Paul is going to make here is this, we need,
as far as the body, we need all of our members. He makes the
point, would it make sense for the eye to say, would it make
sense for your eye to say, I don't need you ear anymore? Would it
make sense for your arm to say, I don't need you leg anymore?
It's not silly, but it's just kind of a crazy example, because
the answer is obviously no. And he says it would be just
as crazy and just as silly for me to say, I don't need any of
you, I'm good on my own. It would be just as ridiculous
for me to say that. And yet, we do have those tendencies
at times. Because there are things about
people in every congregation that get on other people in every
congregation's nerves. There are things about people
that rub other people the wrong way. We all have the tendency
to think that we think a little more clearly than the guy in
front of us and behind us and the girl, whatever. We all think
there's something about us that's just a little more on target
than somebody else, depending on who it is you're considering.
And so what he says is this, you are not sufficient by yourself,
but you need every member of the body to be what God is calling
you to be. In Hebrews chapter 3, in Hebrews chapter 3. Verse 12,
it says, Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an
evil heart of unbelief in departing from the living God. But exhort
one another daily while it is cold today, lest any of you be
hardened through the deceitfulness of sin. Now, these two verses,
it's pretty interesting the way they're set up. First, he says,
be careful unless there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief
in departing from the living God. He says, be careful that
that does not happen. And then he says this, But, he's
going to contrast here, rather than letting this evil heart
of unbelief set in, do this instead, but exhort one another daily
while it is called today, let any of you be hardened through
the deceitfulness of sin. Fellowship strengthens our faith.
Fellowship strengthens our faith. Whenever we withdraw ourselves
from fellowship, we are very vulnerable to a hardness of heart
that sets in. When we withdraw ourselves from
fellowship, we're very vulnerable, really, to any of Satan's attacks,
because none of us can handle those on our own. By the way,
not only do we look at that end of it, but if we flip the coin
around, it's this. We need to be exhorting, you
need to be encouraging one another daily. Again, that takes some
vulnerability, that takes some opening up, that takes some knowing
something about somebody. If I'm going to encourage you
in a meaningful way, it's got to be more than just a slap on
the back saying, hang in there. It's going to be more than just
some generic something, if it's going to be worth anything to
you. And so through real relationships comes real encouragement, and
that only happens really as you spend time together and you get
to know each other more and more and more. I'm not saying that
doesn't happen at all, but I'm saying it ought to happen generally,
it ought to happen way more in our churches than it does. Exhort
one another daily. Encourage each other daily. Hebrews
chapter 10, verse 23, Let us hold fast to the profession
of our faith without wavering, for He is faithful that promised. And let us consider one another
to provoke unto love and to good works, not forsaking the assembling
of ourselves together as the manner of some is, but exhorting
one another, and so much the more as you see the day approaching. And so, same thing, it's an exhortation
for us to exhort one another, encourage one another to faithfulness. You see a good picture of this
in, or at least this getting ready to happen at the very beginning
of 2 Timothy. 2 Timothy chapter 1 in verse
6 says, this is what Paul says to Timothy, he says, Wherefore
I put thee in remembrance that thou stir up the gift of God
which is in thee by the putting on of my hands. For God hath
not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and
of a sound mind. Whenever he says, I put thee
in remembrance that thou stir up the gift of God, what Paul
is saying there is, Timothy, I'm writing this to remind you
of a few things to try to kindle the gift that you have. The word
to stir up there means to kindle a fire, to blow oxygen on a weakening
fire in hopes that the flames will rekindle and the fire will
begin to grow and grow and grow and grow. He takes this entire
letter here to do that with Timothy. The first thing he does is he
reminds them that he's not been given a spirit of fear, but of
power and love and of a sound mind, and then he continues to
go on from there. And it's obvious when you read the letter to Timothy
that Paul knows Timothy, Paul knows Timothy's struggles, and
Paul knows what he's going to say to encourage Timothy as he
goes about to rekindle the gift that Timothy has. And then in
Ephesians chapter 4, Verse 11, this is speaking of the gifts
that God gives to the church. It says, He gave some apostles
and some prophets and some evangelists and some pastors and teachers
for the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry,
for the edifying of the body of Christ, till we all come in
the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God
unto a perfect man, under the measure of the stature of the
fullness of Christ, that we henceforth be no more children tossed to
and fro, carried about with every wind of doctrine by the slight
of men and cunning craftiness whereby they lay and wait to
deceive. but speaking the truth in love may grow up into him
in all things which is the head, even Christ." And what Paul is
saying here is that God gave the church gifts through the
ascended Christ and he did that for the perfecting of the saints
until we were all or until we are all brought to full maturity. And again, you can't make it
from verses 11 down to verse 16 and escape the idea that you
need me and I need you if we're going to get to where God has
planned for us to be. It just doesn't work without
fellowship because God designed it that way. And so I would encourage
you This afternoon, there's power in fellowship. Power in fellowship.
And so it's not just a message to be preached and heard, but
I would encourage you to be strategic about your fellowship. To be
thoughtful about who it is you're going to encourage and how you're
going to encourage that person. And then just about the time
that you spend with one another. I realize everybody has lives
and you only have so much time and you probably don't have enough
time to do what you have going already. But it is a valuable
thing to invest your time in fellowship with other believers.
It's how maturity, spiritual maturity occurs. Let's pray. Father, we thank you for your
design for the church. Lord, we thank you that you've
revealed that to us. I thank you for the fellowship that you
bless us to have around the commonality of being sinners that are saved
by grace. I pray that you would bless us
to strive to remain in fellowship with you and that the fellowship
we have with one another would be based on that. I pray for
the church here that you would strengthen them through one another,
that you would bring them to full maturity in Christ. I pray
that you would just continue to bless them. I pray in Jesus'
name. Amen.
The Power of Fellowship
| Sermon ID | 729141749541 |
| Duration | 22:29 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - PM |
| Bible Text | Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 |
| Language | English |
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