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We come now to the exposition
of God's holy word and congregation. Let's take our Bibles out together
and we want to turn in the word of God back to Ephesians. Ephesians
chapter 5. Continuing our exposition, considering
the various duties of the various members within the household.
Of course, the Apostle Paul addresses each in their order, speaking
to wives, speaking to husbands, speaking to parents and children,
and then speaking to masters and to slaves. We are looking
specifically at verses 22 through 24. And here, of course, we are
looking at those duties related to the wife. Paul writes in verse
22, Wives, submit to your own husbands as to the Lord. For
the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the
church, and he is the Savior of the body. Therefore, just
as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their
own husbands in everything. Let's now join together before
the Lord in prayer. Heavenly Father, we bow before
you as we come before your word. We pray that you would grant
the ministry of your Spirit that illuminating, guiding, comforting,
correcting presence, whereby the Word of God is brought fresh
to our hearts. And may he find our hearts receptive,
eager, and ready with humility and with true devotion to receive
the Word of God and to receive it so that we might be truly
those who follow in its paths, who seek to obey its principles,
and who desire in all things to obey your word, whereby you
would receive glory, honor, and praise. Father, grant this, we
pray, as we ask it all in Jesus' holy name. Amen. As we continue looking at the
subject of the wife's duty found here in these verses, we have
spent just a few weeks discussing the various duties related to
the wife's submission. We have said that the wife's
submission involves placing herself under the authority of her husband
as to the Lord in everything. We said that it is the common
understanding among Reformed Christianity, traditional historic
Christianity, that this idea of submission is fleshed out
with four types of duties that are incumbent upon the wife.
We said, first of all, it is this responsibility of reverencing
her husband. That's found in Ephesians 5 and
verse 33, where it says that the wife is to see to it that
she respects her husband. This is her duty to have this
deep, heartfelt respect for him, acknowledging that he is the
God-ordained head As God has said repeatedly in his word,
showing this respectful conduct and communication, both in his
presence and in his absence. Secondly, we said there is a
responsibility of obeying. the husband, not only reverencing
him, but obeying him. Titus 2 verse 5, 1 Peter 3 verse
6, those are some of the verses that explicitly command wives
to do this obeying. This obeying involves the abstaining
from doing what he forbids and by positively doing what he requires. And so that's the kind of the
two sides of the same coin. It is to be extensive in everything,
in all things that are lawful. And again, as we said, it is
as to the Lord. Thirdly, we said that this is
a responsibility, this submission of wives, that not only includes
reverencing the husband, obeying the husband, but then the responsibility
of assisting the husband. We looked in Genesis chapter
2 verse 18, the very purpose of the woman, was for the reason
of being a helpmate to the husband, a helper comparable to him, helping
and assisting. The wife's primary and her priority,
ministry, mission, and calling in life is her husband. Now, obviously, her ultimate
goal is the glory of God. That's the goal of every believer.
to live for the glory of God and living for the glory of God
for the wife is seeing in her husband the primary mission and
ministry and calling she is responsible for. It isn't juggling several
things poorly. It is focusing on what the priority
God has given the wife to be, namely, to be a helper to her
husband. Now, today we want to take up
a fourth responsibility, and that is the responsibility of
showing modesty in her apparel. Obviously, in a sense, both men
and women, married or single, are to be following principles
of modesty. But there is this idea of modesty
as it relates to the wife that is a part of her understanding
of showing honor due respect to her husband and honor to the
Lord, which is why it is included in these passages dealing with
the wife's responsibility. So what does the Bible say about
the wife having this modesty of dress or apparel? Well, let's
turn to a couple of passages. Turn with me first of all to
1 Timothy chapter 2. 1 Timothy chapter 2. Often we will find in the context
of the duties of wives, this issue of modesty of apparel. And we find it here in this passage
in 1 Timothy 2, and we'll just take up our reading in verse
8 and read down through verse 15. Paul writes and he says,
verse 8, I desire therefore that the men pray everywhere, lifting
up holy hands without wrath and doubting. In like manner also
that the women adorn themselves in modest apparel. with propriety
and moderation, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly
clothing, but which is proper for women professing godliness
with good works. Let a woman learn in silence
with all submission. I do not permit a woman to teach
or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence. For Adam
was formed first, then Eve, and Adam was not deceived, but the
woman being deceived fell into transgression. Nevertheless,
she will be saved in childbearing if they continue in faith, love,
and holiness with self-control. We already have looked at this
passage as it relates to the idea of patriarchy in the church. And we've already noted there
in verses 11 through 15 that women are not to have roles of
leadership in the church. They're not to be teachers in
the church. They are to be in a place of
submission in the church. They are not to have authority
over men. And we noted in verses 13 and
14, the reasons given are nothing cultural, nothing related to
Paul's day or the first century, but they go back to creation,
to the created order. That's where he bases his teaching.
Because, verse 13, Adam was formed first, then Eve. And secondly,
it was the woman, verse 14, who was deceived and fell into transgression. And so that is the universal
abiding reasons for that patriarchy. So we see patriarchy in the home,
in the church, and in society. But what we want to consider
is looking up earlier in the text and specifically looking
at verses 9 and 10 related to the apparel of women. Paul says in verse 9, if you
would please look with me back in verse 9, he says, in like
manner also that the women adorn themselves in modest apparel
with propriety and moderation, not with braided hair or gold
or pearls or costly clothing. but which is proper for women
professing godliness with good works." So here Paul speaks about
how women are to dress. That's the very idea of women
adorning themselves with modest apparel. Let's just look at these
words found in verse number nine. Now, obviously, the context here
is corporate worship. Women are addressed in this text. But, of course, these principles
are applicable in other contexts as well. Notice in verse number
nine, he says, first of all, that women adorn themselves. The word there, adorn, is the
word cosmeo. It is from where we get our English
word cosmetic, cosmeo. It almost sounds like cosmetic. It is this idea of how they literally
arrange, put in order, or to make one ready. That's the idea
of adorning. Notice he says they are to adorn
themselves in modest apparel. The word modest is the word kosmos. Think about the word kosmos speaking
of the world. Here this idea of kosmos is that
their dress is to be orderly, decorous, and decent. It is actually this word kosmos
is an antonym of chaos. It is the opposite of that which
is chaotic. It is to be orderly and decent. Look at the next word in verse
nine. It's the word apparel. Katastole is the Greek word. This word encompasses not only
the clothing itself, but the whole look of her apparel. You know, we use this kind of
terminology. We might see someone there dressed
in a certain outfit and we say, well, I know what look you're
going for there. It's the idea of everything about
the apparel in its totality. Look here again, verse number
nine, she is to adorn herself with modest apparel, that is,
with this idea of orderly, decent look, modesty in its orientation. And then notice there are two
words he attaches. to give even fuller description
of how she is to dress. For he says here that women are
to adorn themselves in modest apparel with, and here's the
two words, propriety and moderation. The word propriety is the word
ados in the Greek, and it means modesty that is mixed with reverence
and humility. This is why the King James translation,
if you have a King James translation in front of you, uses the word
shamefacedness. which is a rather interesting
word, somewhat archaic, but it tends to try to communicate the
idea of the word, the idea that there's to be this humility,
this reverence that is attached, that which is appropriate with
propriety, with a mixture of reverence and humility in her
dress of modesty." Now, look at verse 9 again. The second
word that is used, the word moderation, as it is translated in the New
King James, is the word sofrasune. And it has the idea of dressing
with soberness or with self-control. That's the meaning of the word.
So here we have all of these words that are used and they
are used to give more fuller understanding of guidelines and
principles which should guide the women in their dress. Listen
to what John Gill says here in this regard, and speaking specifically
of those last two words, propriety and moderation. He says, and
I quote, these are the two general rules by which dress is to be
regulated. It is right and proper when it
is consistent with chastity, when it is not immodest and imprudent,
and more like the attire of a harlot than a woman professing godliness."
In other words, it ought to be consistent with one's confession,
not trying to look like a harlot. He continues, when it is moderate
as well as modest, and suitable to one's age and station. I think that's very helpful.
And sometimes our older ladies, not in our church, praise God,
but some older ladies in our culture, it looks like they're
trying to look like their look is like trying to be a teenager
or something after the culture of our age. He says, it is to
be suitable to a person's age and station and is not beyond
the circumstances of life in which they are. There is no religion
or irreligion in dress, provided pride and luxury are guarded
against, and modesty and moderation are preserved. John Gill says
that there is no religion or irreligion in dress. And I think
that's a very helpful thing because there are some contexts of Christianity
that can move from following legitimate principles about dress
to become rather legalistic about how a woman dresses. And you
see this in some church cultures and in some denominations. And
I don't want to get into all the details there. I think you
probably already know who I'm talking about in those contexts. And it can get very extreme,
not necessarily biblical. And then these things are vaulted
to be like the judge as to whether someone is a Christian or not.
Well, did you see how short that skirt was? Or did you see how
short her hair was? And that becomes like the test,
not only of propriety and modesty, But it becomes the test of whether
a person is regenerated and is actually even a believer. So
I think John Gill is right when he says there is no religion
or irreligion in dress. provided that pride, luxury are
guarded against, and modesty and moderation are preserved. So this is the first text I want
us to see here. Here in the context of a woman's
submission, she is to submit to her husband. She is to submit,
as it relates to the church, And specifically, she is to submit
to the elders, the pastor, and, of course, in society at large,
and the dress that she has conforms and comports to that idea of
submission in all three contexts. Now, turn with me, please, in
your Bibles over to 1 Peter chapter 3. 1 Peter chapter 3. And here again is another one
of those classic passages as it relates to the apostolic instruction
to women, to wives. And the context here is in the
context of the relationship she has to her husband. And so reading
again, 1 Peter 3, beginning with verse 1, Peter writes and he
says, wives like wives, be submissive to your own husbands. that even
if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be
won by the conduct of their wives." That is, the husband may not
be a believer. And yet her submission is a testimony. It will be a blessed pointer
to Christ because she's been transformed by the power of the
gospel. Verse two, he continues on this
theme of the husband being one when they observe your chaste
conduct accompanied by fear. And then notice in verse 3, the
subject of her dress, her clothing is brought up. Do not, verse
3, let your adornment be merely outward, arranging the hair,
wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel. Rather, let it be the
hidden person of the heart, with the uncorruptible beauty of a
gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight
of God. For in this manner, in former
times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves
being submissive to their own husbands, as Sarah obeyed Abraham,
calling him, Lord, whose daughters you are, if you do good and are
not afraid with any terror. So in verse three, Peter speaks
to the issue again of adornment, apparel. And what is interesting
here is that Peter is assuming she will, as a godly woman, adorn
herself with moderate dress. But he takes it a step farther,
and he says it's not only the outward modesty that is important,
but it is the inward modesty that is also just as important. That's what he says. Look again
at verse 3. Do not let your adornment be
merely outward. Certainly it is to be outward,
but not merely outward. John MacArthur in his commentary
says this, and I quote, Peter was not here condemning all outward
adornment. His condemnation is for the incessant
preoccupation with the outward, to the disregard of one's character. Every Christian woman is, especially
to concentrate on developing that chaste and reverent Christ-like
character." End of quote. Well, what does this look like?
Well, we are told here, he says that they're not to be all wrapped
up and all concerned as they're consuming concern with the arranging
of hair, the wearing of gold, and putting on a fine apparel.
Now, he is not saying here women shouldn't comb their hair and
fix their hair. He's not saying here that they
shouldn't ever wear gold, that it's sinful for you to wear gold
or a ring or having fine apparel. That in itself is not sinful
in its modest expression. But, verse 4, let it be the hidden
person of the heart with the uncorruptible beauty of a gentle
and quiet spirit. That's what pleases God. That's
the mark of a godly woman. She has a quiet and gentle, or
a gentle and quiet spirit. These things are very precious,
verse 4, in the sight of God. Again, a quote from John MacArthur
in his commentary, he writes, here is beauty that never decays. As the outward body does, Gentle
is actually meek or humble. And quiet describes the character
of her action and reaction to her husband and life in general. Such is precious, not only to
her husband, but also to God. Notice in verse five, Here, Peter
says, this is how godly women dressed in former days, and so
let's follow their example. For in this matter, verse five,
in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned
themselves being submissive to their own husbands. So he says
that the look here that you are to seek is inward, not outward. It is an issue of inner beauty,
character, and modesty. And you are to consider as examples,
not the modern feminized world in which we live, where there
is all manner of immodesty and all manner of that which is cringeworthy,
quite honestly. No, look back to godly women
of past ages. See how they dressed. See how
they, as godly examples, conducted themselves. It is this mark here
that the godly woman and wife will have the past as a helpful
guide as she lives to the glory of God in the present. So regarding
modesty, let me just give you a couple of quotes. First of
all, listen to Joel Beakey. And I've already given you the
reference, his book that is kind of one of those go-bys we're
using for this study. He says this about modesty. He says, quote, all outward adornment
and show is useless. if the woman's heart is not right
before God, and sinful if it displays a rebellious heart towards
her husband's headship." You see, that's the issue. You say,
well, how is modesty connected to the husband and submission
to the husband? Well, that is exactly how, as
Joel Beakey points out. It is connected to the husband
because if she is not dressing with that outward adornment that
is modest, with that propriety and moderation, then it is a
display of a rebellious heart against her husband's headship.
Joel Beakey continues, if she neglects to furnish her heart
with grace and dresses to be seen by men, then she is neither
a blessing to her husband nor faithful to her duty before God. This then is a wife's best, most
precious, and therefore most coveted adornment, the adornment
of her spirit with grace before God, resulting in the adornment
of her life with good works before men, beginning with her husband."
1 Peter 3 and verse 5, the text that we just read. So the idea
there is that this is the mark of godliness. And not living
with this inner and outward modesty and propriety and moderation
is a sign of rebellion to your husband, to God, and it is contrary
at its very heart. to the godliness that a wife
is seeking to follow. Listen to the words of Edward
Rayner, a Puritan. He wrote this in 1657, but it's
very helpful, and it is, the thing that he wrote is called
The Considerations Concerning Marriage, and as he's dealing
with marriage, he gets into this issue of dress, and he says this. He says, this duty of modesty
with regard to a woman's apparel is not to be understood to prevent
the wearing of gold jewels and precious things by a woman. but
is to set a limit, set or limit their use within certain boundaries. These boundaries include the
following, and then he gives four boundaries as it relates
to how a woman dresses. Number one, first, she should
wear that which does not exceed responsible financial stewardship. Very practical advice. Second,
she should not wear clothing which manifests wastefulness,
wantedness, or desire for the newest fashions. Number three,
she should not dress vainly, excessively, or with pride, as
if her clothes make her better and more than she is before God. And then number four, she should
strive above all else to adorn herself inwardly rather than
outwardly, striving to be more precious for her graces and good
works than for her garments. and endeavoring that whatever
she wears before men shows that she herself prizes her inner
Christ likeness far above her outer beauty. And that is a very
helpful list of advice, principles to follow. So what are some of
the aims in this modesty of apparel? I want to look at three passages.
First of all, turn with me, please, in your Bibles to Matthew chapter
5. This is the words of the Lord
Jesus on the Sermon on the Mount. Basically, the aim is that the
woman's apparel would be in keeping with her pursuit of practical
holiness and godliness. She is saved by the grace of
God and she has new life in Christ. If she is a new creature in Christ,
then she wants to conform everything about her life to the will and
the word of Christ and seeks to show that in every respect
of holy, godly priority and pursuit in her living. So notice with
me the words of the Lord Jesus, Matthew chapter five. Again,
very familiar words. Jesus says this, you, verse 13,
is where we're looking, chapter five, verse 13. You are the salt
of the earth, but if the salt loses its flavor, how shall it
be seasoned? It is then good for nothing but
to be thrown out and trampled underfoot by men. You are the
light of the world. A city that is set on a hill
cannot be hidden, nor do they light a lamp and put it under
a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who
are in the house. Verse 16, let your light so shine
before men that they may see your good works and glorify your
Father in heaven. Here Jesus is saying we as believers
are to live as salt and light in the midst of a perverse, rotting,
decaying culture in which we find ourselves. The idea of salt
is that it is a preservative against decay. How we live, how
we interact in our world is a stopgap. It is an influence for good and
it is the opposite of the flow of debauchery and decay that
is presently in our world. The idea of light is the idea
of illuminating in darkness. We live in a world that is in
darkness. And they do not know the light.
They have not come to the light. In fact, they hate the light
because it exposes the deeds of darkness. And yet here the
Lord Jesus says, I don't want you simply to go along and get
along and blend in with everybody else. And don't ever be controversial
and don't ever have anything that might rub the world wrong.
No, he says just the opposite. We are to live in the world and
be like salt that preserves and stings in the wound of sin found
in our society. We are to be not just keeping
our mouths shut whenever wickedness is going on. We need to be sharing
the light and illuminating the truth and God's word in the midst
of the darkness. So it's not just saying, well,
we want to be liked and we want to be nice, so we better not
say anything. No, it is being salt and it is
being light. You say, Pastor, what does this
have to do with the women's clothing and adornment? Well, godly living
provides a testimony of the saving power of God, every aspect of
our lives. And the way we dress testifies
to whose we are, at least it ought to. Your apparel should
be a testimony. You're not following the latest
trends. You're not trying to look like what is in the latest
edition of Vogue magazine or whatever. No, you're following
a different standard. You have a different Savior and
different Lord and different priorities. And this applies
as it relates to a woman's dress. So the question for our ladies
is simply this, does your apparel, that is how you clothe yourself,
does it testify to the transforming power of the gospel? Or does
your apparel mimic the immodesty of the masses? That's a good
test to take. What is your dress, your apparel,
seeking to accomplish? What does it line up with? What
does it look like? We're called to be salt and light. Amen? We're called to be different
and distinct. And yes, it even includes how
we adorn ourselves in our wicked world in which we live. Now,
another biblical aim, not only being salt and light, which should
inform how the dress is to be, but turn with me over in 1 Thessalonians,
1 Thessalonians chapter four. 1 Thessalonians chapter 4, and
look with me please at verses 3 through 5. 1 Thessalonians
chapter 4, verses 3 through 5, the apostle Paul writes and he
says, verse 3, for this is the will of God, your sanctification,
that you should abstain from sexual immorality. that each
of you should know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification
and honor. Verse five, not in passion of
lust like the Gentiles who do not know God. Now again, it's
another one of those examples. We talk about believers in Jesus
Christ. We talk about Jews and Gentiles. And here he is speaking to a
church comprised of Gentiles. And yet he says, you're not to
dress like those Gentiles. Because you're different. You're
a part of the Israel of God. You are a new identity. And so, therefore, you're not
going to dress like Gentiles because you're a part of God's
covenant community. But notice, if you will, that
our God has as the will for our lives, verse 3, our sanctification. The idea there is the idea of
separation and consecration unto the Lord, of pursuing holiness
and not living as if we were in the world. Yes, we are in
the world, but we are not of the world, and so therefore we
are to be different, and that impacts even how we dress. And
specifically, abstaining, verse 3, from sexual immorality. Possessing, verse 4, your vessel
in sanctification and in honor. And that includes how we adorn
ourselves, dressing with moderation and propriety and modesty. It is God's call that we pursue
holiness and live lives of consecration so that our dress expresses the
inner chastity of our hearts, and it does not tempt others
to lust so far as we can help it. You see, there are some people
who say about the dress, well, it doesn't really matter because
it's all about the sinful mind of the beholder. That's where
the problem is. Well, certainly that is a part
of the problem, but just because that is a problem doesn't mean
that you should, well, therefore I'll just dress however, because
if they lust, it's their problem, not mine. No, it is your problem,
too, because you have been called to conduct your vessel in a worthy
manner, verse 4, with sanctification and honor. And so you are to
seek to put up guardrails and hedges so that Men are not immediately
drawn to look with a look that tempts them to lust. The issue
is not only the sinful mind of the beholder. Notice, if you
will, looking still in 1 Thessalonians, just turn over a page or so in
your Bibles and look with me in chapter 5, verse 22. 1 Thessalonians 5 and verse 22. Paul writes and he says, abstain
from every form of evil. Abstain from every form of evil. Immodest clothing is evil, amen? And so therefore, you need to
abstain from that. Dressing immodestly, dressing
provocatively, dressing in a manner like the world dress, That is
immodest. It is evil, and God commands
that you abstain. Now, obviously, this is true
for men and women also, but we're talking as it relates to women
and wives, as we noted in 1 Peter 3 and 1 Timothy 2. Your apparel and adornment should
reflect the inner beauty of holiness and consecration. That's God's
will for your life, your sanctification. So that is pleasing and honoring
to the Lord. I want to conclude this morning
by sharing with you some principles from another writer from another
era. And it's a list of things. I'm
just going to read through these rather quickly. And you don't
really necessarily have to take notes. You can listen to it later
if you like. But the writer, the preacher,
is someone by the name of Vincent Alsup. Vincent Alsup. He died
in 1702. And it is in his work on practical
godliness. And there is a section in this
work on practical godliness. Remember, we're talking about
sanctification, godliness. where he has a whole section
entitled, The Sinfulness of Strange Apparel. I like the way they
put things back then. You know what? There's a lot
of strange apparel in our day too, isn't there? If you don't
believe it, just go to Walmart sometime. You'll see a lot of
strange apparel. But listen to what he says, just
basic principles for women, for wives, as they are to dress.
And there's about 13, I'm gonna read them quickly. Number one,
do not be ambitious to appear first in any fashion. A modest Christian in conscience
as well as in courtesy will not think it unwise to let others
go before him. In other words, don't seek to
be first in some sort of a new trend or fashion. Number two,
Do not strive to come up to the height of fashion. Stay back
from the limits and well within safe ground. That is, don't always
have your desire. Well, what is the most cutting
edge and the most noticeable new trend as it relates to fashion? No, stay back within the limits. Number three, follow no fashion
so fast or so far as to run your finances into ruin. And all the husbands said, amen. Advise first with conscience
what is lawful, then with your purse what is practical. We cannot always do what we would
like to do. Number four, if you determine
to follow lawful fashions, then keep in step with those who are
your equals in religion and holiness, having them as your pattern. That is, rather than just breaking
out and whatever the latest thing is, well, what are the other,
not ungodly women, but godly women doing? And look to them
as an encouragement and guide in how you dress. Number five. do not come near those fashions
whose numerous implements, trinkets, and tackling require much time
in dressing and undressing. Number six, suit your apparel
to the day of God's providence and to the day of His ordinances. That is to say, in a day of mourning,
dress for mourning. In a day of joy, dress for rejoicing. In a day of worship, dress for
worship. and see that there is never a
day of immorality to dress immodestly. And so the idea is dress appropriate
to the occasion, but always with modesty. Number seven, in all
apparel, stay a little above contempt and somewhat more below
envy. Number eight, let the ornament
of the inward woman be your rule for adorning the outward woman. Number nine, let the heart mortified,
or rather get the heart mortified and that will mortify the clothing. That's one of the best ones so
far. Mortify your heart and that's gonna mortify the clothing. Number
10, Avoid in your own dress whatever fashions of apparel you have
found to be a temptation to your own soul when worn by others. Number 11, let all your indifferences
be brought under the government and guidance of religion. That is, see everything, even
those things that may be seen as a liberty where it's a matter
of indifference. But nevertheless, still look
at it through the lens of godliness and holiness as you decide. Number 12, use all these indifferent
things with an indifferent affection for them and an indifferent concern
for them and about them. Clothes will not commend us to
God. so we should not place stock
in them as if they will. And then number 13, he says,
seek above all else that honor which comes from God alone. Let us so dress that it may be
clear that we seek his honor and his commendation, not the
honor and approval of an evil world from whom he has separated
us unto himself. Our ultimate desire and goal
is honoring God and pleasing him. So, congregation, as we
conclude this morning, let me just say, by way of summary,
these principles about women's clothing and apparel, and they're
just six bullet points. Number one is the priority of
modesty. The Bible encourages modesty
in dress, meaning clothing that is appropriate, decent, and not
overly revealing or flashy. Number two, self-control. It is important to dress with
self-control, avoiding extremes and appearance that draw undue
attention to oneself. Number three, inner beauty. Focus should be on cultivating
inner beauty, good works, and a godly character, rather than
solely on outward appearance. Number four, decency. Clothing should be chosen with
decency and propriety, reflecting respect for God, your spouse,
and others. Number five, distinguishing roles. Deuteronomy 22 in verse 5 highlights
the importance of distinct gender roles, even in clothing, as a
matter of respecting God's design. In other words, women are to
dress like women and men are to dress like men. That is a
principle that has not changed. And then number six, avoiding
temptation. Clothing that is provocative
or seductive can lead to temptation and should be avoided. Modesty, self-control, inner
beauty, decency, distinguishing roles, and avoiding temptation. Beauty is a matter of the heart,
and we seek And our women, our wives, they desire that they
follow after godliness and holiness. And this is another one of those
occasions like last week where I wanted to say a word of commendation
to our women. Our women dress with that kind
of modesty which is pleasing to the Lord and we give thanks
to God for that. We congratulate and we praise
our wives and our women because that is a mark of our ladies
here in our congregation. Those who do not follow after
these pursuits will be said it really is an issue of the heart.
And so the first thing, the first priority is not the outward apparel,
but the inner condition. And if you have not come to faith
in Jesus Christ, then the call of the gospel to you is to turn
and receive Christ. Find in Jesus Christ a satisfaction
that is so beyond the outward and external that those things
will seem to be merely perfunctory by comparison. You come to the
Lord Jesus and he will change you. Your priorities, your pursuits,
your desires will be different, and that by the transforming
power of the gospel. Turn and trust in Jesus Christ. Let's bow together in prayer.
Our gracious Heavenly Father, we thank you again for your word
to us. Lord, we thank you that while
you have called us to be in this world, you have not called us
to act like this world. You have not called us to be
of this world, but you have called us to be salt and you have called
us to be light. Father, we pray that these basic
principles related to moderation and apparel will be principles
that not only are embraced as they are, but they'll be enlarged. And we will see in this day that
we are salt and light so that the world can see that indeed
the gospel transforms. It transforms us, and God, we
give you praise because we could not do it ourselves. We pray,
Lord, that you would draw sinners to yourself even today, those
apart from Christ. In accordance with your sovereign
mercy, you would draw them and they would run to Christ and
be delivered from their sin. Father, this all for your praise,
your honor, and your glory. And we pray all of this in Jesus'
holy name. Amen. Amen. This time we'd like to stand
together as we prepare to be dismissed with our benediction.
Again, we do so with the words of Holy Scripture, the Lord bless
you and keep you. The Lord make his face to shine
upon you and be gracious unto you. The Lord lift up his countenance
upon you and give you peace. All of God's people said, amen,
amen.
Duties of Wives (Pt. 5)
Series Ephesians
In this sermon, Pastor Linehan considers the meaning of Paul's instruction to wives regarding their submission to their husbands. The duty of modesty is specifically considered.
| Sermon ID | 72025151416288 |
| Duration | 52:03 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - AM |
| Bible Text | Ephesians 5:22-24 |
| Language | English |
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