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Let's once again seek God in
prayer and ask for his blessing upon this time together. Our gracious Heavenly Father,
we thank you that we can come into your holy presence through
the Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, our Savior. And we ask once again
that you would give your Holy Spirit to us that you would take
your truth and bring it home with power to each one of our
hearts, that your word of truth would transform each one of us,
sanctifying those who are already genuine believers in Christ and
that same word used by you to save sinners this very night. Above all, we ask that you would
be glorified in our midst that we would know the reality of
communion with the Lord Jesus Christ. And so come to us, we
pray, and help us, we pray. In Jesus' name we pray, amen. Well, depending upon one's definition
of war, as well as the data that one uses in order to determine
whether or not a specific conflict is a war, It's easily estimated
that there are at least a dozen wars currently taking place in
various parts of our world. Politicians, diplomats, sociologists,
journalists, as well as ordinary individuals, analyze data and
information in order to answer the crucial question, Why is
there war? Why is there war? And although
there are secondary and tertiary causes which can be identified,
which help us to understand the reason for a specific war, the
central and foundational cause for all wars is often ignored. if it's considered at all, it
is quickly dismissed as irrelevant. The Apostle James clearly identified
and proclaimed to us what this central and foundational cause
of all war is. Turn in your Bibles to James
chapter 4. James chapter 4. For those who are visiting with
us, we have been working our way through this epistle of James,
and tonight we come to James chapter 4, and I'll begin reading
at verse 1. James chapter 4 and verse 1. Whence come wars and whence come
fightings among you? Come they not from this even
of your pleasures that war in your members? You lost and have
not. You kill and covet and cannot
obtain. You fight and war. You have not
because you ask not. You ask and do not receive because
you ask amiss that you may spend it in your pleasures. And there
we end our reading of God's Word. James' primary concern in his
letter is not, of course, the wars of nations, but rather the
wars that sometimes sadly occur within the churches of the Lord
Jesus Christ. That's his concern. Remember,
he was an apostle, he was a pastor, he writes as an apostle and a
pastor. And what I would like you to
notice now, first of all, is a connection and transition. Chapter and verse divisions in
the Bible are man-made and are usually helpful. However, there
are times when they are unfortunate, and this is a case in point.
So looking back in your Bibles at James chapter 3 and verses
17 and 18, which I'll read in a moment, it is clear that these
verses in James 3 are connected to and are a transition to the
opening verses of James chapter 4. So again, it would be good
if those chapter divisions were not there, but they are. But
look at James 3 verse 17 as I read it. But the wisdom that is from above
is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, easy to be entreated,
full of mercy and good fruits, without variance, without hypocrisy. And the fruit of righteousness
is sown in peace for those that make peace. And then we would
transition into chapter four. So James' point is that true
and heavenly wisdom looks for and produces a peaceable way
of dealing with difficulties and controversies, especially
among believers. James was not proposing, however,
that peace be achieved at the expense of truth and righteousness. He wasn't saying that. No, he
was asserting that Christians will endeavor to be like their
Lord and Savior Jesus Christ in all of their dealings with
their brethren, and labor to have righteous unity and peace
among the brethren. When James, as a faithful pastor,
wrote those concluding words of chapter 3, his mind and his
pen then turned to address the matter of conflicts among brethren
and the causes of these conflicts. So do you see the transition,
the connection? He's speaking about what it is
to sow peace, to make peace, and he understands that Christians
still have much in the way of remaining sin. Christians live
in a fallen world, and therefore there are times when there are
conflicts among Christians. So there's the connection and
the transition. But notice, secondly, The identity
of conflicts among Christians. In James chapter 4, beginning
with verse 1. The identity of conflicts among
Christians. In verse 1, James writes of two
broad categories of conflicts that can occur among Christians
within a local church, as well as among Christians of different
churches. And notice the first broad category,
which James used in verse 1 to identify conflicts that can occur
among Christians. The first broad category is wars
or warfare. When one evaluates the entire
letter written by James, it is very clear that he is not speaking
of literal wars and physical fighting among Christians. This
is not to say that a physical fight between two professing
Christians within a church can never happen. Sadly, that can
happen. I even know of a situation in
the past, not here, where that did happen. But that is not James'
focus. James' focus is upon the heart
and the words of Christians. Wars between or among Christians
in the local church can break out, and sadly do at times, and
they break out by brethren using the weapon of words. James has already addressed the
sinful use of our tongues in his letter. For example, in James
3, verse 6, we read, The tongue is a fire. The world of iniquity
among our members is the tongue. And remember from past lessons
that James would have been very familiar with his Old Testament,
what we call the Old Testament. He would have been very familiar
with Proverbs, which frequently addressed the sinful use of the
tongue as a weapon of war. For example, in Proverbs 12,
we read, there is that speaks rashly like the piercings of
a sword. That's just one example. So,
the first broad category which James used in verse 1 to identify
conflicts that can occur among Christians is wars or warfare. The second broad category which
James used in verse 1 to identify conflicts that can occur among
Christians is fightings. My translation uses that word,
yours may use something similar. These two terms which James used,
wars and fightings, they are not synonyms, although they are
closely related. The word fightings includes the
idea of strife and controversies, and such verbal controversies
can easily escalate into fierce verbal warfare. Again, we must
be clear that there are times when verbal battles must be fought
in order to contend earnestly for the faith which was once
for all delivered unto the saints. Jude chapter 1 verse 3. But when
that is the case, such battles must be fought without sacrificing
biblical principles and Christian virtues such as love. We should
also note that James does not, in this passage, identify any
specific fight or strife or controversy at this point, and he does that
for good reasons. James was more concerned that
his readers and you sitting here tonight hearing these things
examine themselves and mortify their heart sins which produce
such wars and fightings. So now notice that James turns
the attention of his readers to, thirdly, the causes of conflicts
among Christians. The causes of conflicts among
Christians. You see that again in James 4
and verse 1. He begins by identifying the
overarching cause of conflicts among Christians in the church.
He plainly states that the cause of such conflicts among Christians
is their individual pleasures. That is, what the word means,
their indulgence of the sensual delights of this world. their indulgence of the sensual
delights of this world. We get our word, hedonism, from
the word which James used here, which is translated in my Bible,
pleasures. The word hedonism. You probably
are familiar with that word. Such a plain statement should
cause you, if you are a genuine Christian, to pause and reflect
and ask the question, am I, am I indulging the sensual delights
of this world? Am I consequently, through my
indulgence of sensual realities, creating conflicts with any Christian
brother or sister within this church. And if you were here
in the morning to hear the morning sermon by Pastor Chansky, he
of course said many, many excellent things about church membership.
And he said something like this, I'm not the pastor of all the
churches of Northern New Jersey. I'm the pastor of this church. And as the pastor of this church,
myself one of the pastors, I am asking that question of you. Are you indulging sensual delights
in this world? You should be asking yourself
this. Through the indulgence of sensual realities, are you
then creating conflicts with any other Christians within this
church? Now, you may be asking the question,
is it possible for a genuine Christian to indulge sensual
delights of the world? Well, if you know your Bible,
your New Testament at all, you know that it is sadly possible
for a real Christian at times to be sinning by indulging the
sensual delights of this world. It's not just something that
unbelievers do. James pointedly declares that
it is possible for a genuine believer to indulge sensual delights,
that war, that is, that contend as in a military battle in your
very members. Think of Peter's words in 1 Peter
2. where he exhorted, Beloved, I
beseech you as sojourners and pilgrims to abstain from fleshly
lusts which war against the soul. James understood from scripture,
from the knowledge of his own heart, no doubt, from observation
of others about him, that sensual pleasures of this world are not
only sexual in nature. We all need to understand this.
James is not just speaking of, and may not even be primarily
thinking of, sensual sexual pleasures. In such hedonistic pleasure,
which James pinpoints, there can be a twisted pleasure in
one's members, one's heart, which indulges, for example, malevolence
towards another. That is a heart disposition of
ill will and bitterness toward another. as a consequence of
either perceived or real wrongdoing that has not been dealt with
biblically, without the gospel being applied. He's thinking
of those realities when he speaks of sensual worldly pleasures. It can include the indulgence
of such bitterness towards another member in the church. Because
of remaining an unmortified sin in the believer, such sensual
pleasures can also be manifested in boastfulness, pride, a thirst
for honor, a thirst for prominence. It can be manifested in rivalries
within the church, covetousness within the church, This indulgence
of sensual pleasures, James wants us to understand. You see, you
have to understand it so that it affects the way you actually
live. He wants us to understand the
overarching cause of conflicts among Christians is this. It is this indulgence, of sensual
delights of this world in your very members, including your
heart. But notice now, secondly here,
under the causes of conflicts among Christians. We have the
overarching cause of conflicts, but now James continues by identifying
the specific causes of these conflicts among Christians in
the church. You see that in James 4 and verse
2. He identifies them very specifically. He speaks of, first of all, lust. You lust and have not. And again, he's not just thinking
of sexual lust. You can be lusting for power.
You can be lusting for prominence. Conflicts arise among Christians
when one professing Christian sets his or her heart upon and
longs for illicit desires which cannot be satisfied without doing
injury to someone else. Consider Judas Iscariot. He was
a professing disciple, was he not? Clearly not a real disciple,
I understand that. But consider Judas Iscariot,
a disciple of the Lord Jesus Christ, who lusted for money. And then, because of that lust
for money, betrayed the Lord Jesus Christ to death. for 30 pieces of silver. James continues with his specific
causes for these conflicts with murder. Many of your Bibles will
say, you kill. The word which James used here
is the word murder. James is stating that professing
Christians can, because of remaining sin, They can murder others. And again, does he mean actually
taking out a gun, taking out a knife, and physically killing
someone? Probably not at all. But he is wanting us to understand
that professing Christians, because of remaining sin, can murder
other members of the church. With their ill will. With their envy. with their hatred. Think of Jesus' words in Matthew
5, the Sermon on the Mount. You've heard that it was said
to them of old time, you shall not kill. And whosoever shall
kill shall be in danger of the judgment. But I, Jesus, say unto
you that everyone who is angry with his brother shall be in
danger of the judgment. And whosoever shall say to his
brother, Racha, shall be in danger of the council. And whosoever
shall say, you fool, shall be in danger of the hell of fire. Jesus teaches us clearly that
brothers can have sinful hearts with sinful speech and murder
their brethren. Are you sitting here tonight,
are you presently murdering someone else in this church? You say,
oh, that cannot possibly be. Do you have bitterness in your
heart toward another member of the church. You have your will,
jealousy, envy. You need to examine your heart.
It is painful to do so, but it is necessary and important so
that you will turn away from those sins in your heart and
turn to Jesus Christ for mercy, forgiveness, and cleansing. But
think also of King David. We know from our Bibles he was
a genuine believer. But what did he do at one point
in his life? He lusted for Bathsheba, and
then he murdered her husband, Uriah, in order to fulfill his
lust. You should not be sitting here
tonight thinking, well, I would never do that. I would never
commit adultery. Let him who thinks he stands
take heed lest he fall. You should never be thinking,
I would never physically murder somebody. Let him who thinks
he stands take heed lest he fall. You, as a believer, have remaining
sin. You have the seeds of every sin
in your heart. But James continues, you lust,
you murder, he then says, you covet. You earnestly desire,
whether things or people, that which it is not the will of God
for you to have. that which it is not the will
of God for you to have. Pastor Nichols once said, at
least I heard him say it at least once, it's very simple, very
accurate, it's so simple it seems almost silly, but it's not silly. Whatever is, is the will of God
for you. you presently are battling with
some sickness, could be cancer. Our sister Ruth is doing so.
That is the will of God. To try to get better from cancer
is not wrong, but you see we're not to covet something which
it is not the will of God for us to have. Ruth should try to
be cured from her cancer. She should pray and but we should
never covet for that which it is not the will of God for us
to have. Think of Achan in Joshua 7. When he was discovered, Achan
was discovered, Achan stated, I saw among the spoil a goodly
Babylonish mantle and 200 shekels of silver and a wedge of gold
of 50 shekels weight. Then I coveted them. He already
knew from Joshua they were not to take any of the spoil. It
was all to be destroyed. He knew that, you see. It was
not the will of God for him to take those things, but that's
what he did. He coveted them and he took them
to his own destruction, you see. Coveting is a very wicked sin. The world would not think so,
but you should think so if you're a Christian. But James continues,
you fight and war. Think of the Corinthian Christians
fighting among themselves. Think of Paul's word to the Christians
in the churches of Galatia in Galatians 5. For the whole law
is fulfilled in one word, even in this, you shall love your
neighbor as yourself, But if you bite and devour one another,
take heed that you be not consumed one of another." You see, Christians
sadly can at times bite and devour one another. So the indulgence
of these specific sins in heart, words and deeds, James wants
us to understand they will, indulge they will, cause conflicts among
Christians within the church. But notice now, fourthly, the
two roots which sustain these causes and conflicts. The two
roots which sustain these causes and conflicts. James identifies
these two roots at the end of verse 2 in chapter 4 and in verse
3. Look there in your Bibles. The first root which James identifies
is this. You have not Because you do not
ask. The end of verse two. You have
not because you ask not. What is James identifying as
a root that sustains these causes and conflicts within the church
amongst Christians? It is called prayerlessness. Prayerlessness. This is a root
which sustains these sinful causes and conflicts among Christians
in biblical churches. James wants his readers to remember
the words of the Lord Jesus Christ and put them into practice in
their individual lives. When Jesus said, ask and it shall
be given you. For everyone who asks receives. And on another occasion, hitherto
you've asked nothing in my name. Ask of the Father now in my name
and it shall be given to you. You see, Do not be prayerless,
but be prayerful. Instead of indulging pleasures,
lusting, murdering, coveting, and fighting in order to obtain
what you desire, go to God and ask in prayer for all your needs
and desires. For every good gift, James tells
us previously in this letter, every perfect gift is from above.
coming down from the Father of lights. Christians can at times
be discouraged because they do not have various good things
that they believe are legitimate, necessary, and desirable. But
sadly, what do they do? Many times Christians just bemoan
the fact that they do not have this legitimate need met, this
legitimate desire fulfilled. They bemoan it. but they do not
go to God through Christ and ask. Instead, they become downcast,
anxious, fretful, unbelieving, hopeless, and embittered. It is then that Christians are
tempted to take matters into their own hands in order to get
what they desire. They yield to a brooding spirit. They become discontent. They
begin to connive and manipulate and strive and fight to get that
which they covet. But they will not receive, for
they are not going to their gracious, omniscient, and omnipotent God,
and asking in prayer for what they desire and what they need. So I ask each one of you individually,
you who are members of this church, or even if you're not a member
of this church, you who are genuine Christians, born again by the
Spirit of God, believing in the Lord Jesus Christ, I ask you,
do you pray? I don't mean do you just simply
say prayers, I'm not asking if you thank God for your food before
you eat it, you should do that. I'm asking you, do you in private
earnestly plead with God for the real legitimate needs of
your soul? for the real legitimate needs
of the souls of your spouse, wife, or husband. The real legitimate
needs for the souls of your children. Do you pray? Oh, I'm so busy,
so busy. The demands at work, 14 hours
a day at work, and then the demands at home, and then the in-laws,
then the friends, then this and that. Martin Luther supposedly, I've
never read this with my own eyes, so I'm not sure if it's really
true. I think it was Martin Luther
who supposedly said, my day before me is so busy I must spend several
hours in prayer. Now I'm not suggesting that you
need to take that approach. Mothers still have to tend to
the crying baby in the middle of the night who needs to be
breastfed. Wives still need to be preparing the things in the
home for children and husbands still need to be going to work.
But when it's all said and done, I'm asking you as Christians,
are you making time in private to pray? and bringing all of
your needs to God, your gracious, omniscient, omnipotent Heavenly
Father through Jesus Christ. But notice, the first root which
James identifies is that people don't pray. But notice in verse
3 of James 4, the second route which James identifies. In verse
3, you ask and receive not because you ask amiss, or you ask for
evil purposes, that you may spend it in your pleasures. So these professing Christians
are praying But they're praying like the Pharisee in the Lord
Jesus parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector. You know,
that Pharisee, he was, quote, praying, but it really wasn't
praying at all. The publican, the tax collector,
he truly was praying in that parable. But James is saying
this. Sometimes the real problem is
the Christian, the professing Christian, is praying. but is
not praying in accordance with God's revealed will in the Bible. They're praying with wrong motives,
evil motives, or self-indulgence. So are you not praying, but should
be praying? Or are you praying, but you're
praying in a wrong way? Well, notice now from James the
clear corrective to kill these two roots. You know how it is
when you have crabgrass and dandelions in your grass, in your lawn at
home. You need to have the right killer
to really kill the dandelions, to really kill the crabgrass.
Well, what's the clear corrective? It's very simple. It's called
repent. Change the way you are thinking.
Change the way you are living. Repent of your praying with evil
motives. Repent of praying with self-indulgence. Repent of prayerlessness. And
then pray without ceasing. Pray with purpose according to
the Word of God. Pray and ask God to help you
that all of your petitions will be in agreement with the teachings
of the Holy Scriptures. It's very simple, this means
of killing these two roots. Repent and then begin to pray
according to God's Word. So by way of review, we've seen
a connection and transition the identity of conflicts among Christians,
the causes of conflicts among Christians, the two roots which
sustain these causes and conflicts, and the clear corrective to kill
these two roots. So I ask at the end of this message,
are any of you here in this auditorium from the youngest to the oldest,
Are you indulging any of these evil sins like lusting, coveting,
envying, bitterness, hatred, ill will? Are you presently indulging
any of these sins in your heart? Are you expressing them with
your words or in your text messaging or your emails? or social media. Observe how hideously ugly and
destructive are the sins of lust, envy, coveting, strife, selfishness,
pride, fighting, ill will, hatred, and murder. They're extremely
ugly. God wants us to see how ugly
they are. so that we will hate them with
a holy hatred, first of all, in our own hearts and lives. But you must read and think upon,
remember, and obey various scriptures. And so, therefore, you need to
be reading your Bible every day. You need to be bringing the Word
of God into your mind, into your heart every day. Think of these
words from 1 Thessalonians 5. See that none render unto anyone
evil for evil. A brother or sister in this church
does something to you or says something to you, and as far
as you can see, it really was sinful, it was evil. They seem
oblivious to it. So what should you do? Go home
and brood upon it in your bedroom for the next hour. Stew. Think over again and again how
unkind, how rude, how selfish that particular Christian brother
or sister was in the way they spoke to you. Of course, that's
not what you should do. See that none render unto anyone
evil for evil. If it was truly evil, don't return
evil for evil. You see, if you're reading through
your Bible regularly, you will come across passages like this,
and it should smack you in the head, spiritually speaking. Wait
a second. Even if it was evil, I should
not return evil for evil. And what does Paul continue to
say? Always follow after that which is good, one toward another
and toward all. Now if you need to resolve that
problem with that brother or that sister, go to him, go to
her. Don't go to everybody else. If you don't want to go, then
cover the sin matter, if it's a sin, with a blanket of real
Christian love. And follow after that which is
good, one toward another, toward all. But Paul continues there
in 1 Thessalonians 5, the very next verse, rejoice always. If you are a Christian, you have
a thousand reasons every day to be rejoicing, notwithstanding
the reality of real remaining sin in your heart and life, notwithstanding
the realities of troubles in the world about you, notwithstanding
the trials that are there in your own life and family. They may be many trials, real
trials. But when you think about all
that Jesus Christ has done for you as a believer, he has taken
the wrath of God upon himself for all of your sins and all
of your iniquities so that you bear them no more. And when you
die, you shall be forever with the Lord and all of his people
in perfect bliss for eternity. When you think on those realities,
it puts all of the problems and trials and all of the difficulties
in this life into a proper perspective. Rejoice always. And what's the
very next phrase here in Paul's words in 1 Thessalonians 5? Rejoice always. Pray without
ceasing. In everything, give thanks. Do you thank God for the troubles
and trials in your life? I'm not saying you thank God
for sin. Don't thank God for sin. He is in control of sin. He's sovereign. He's not the
author of sin. He's not tainted by sin. Don't
thank God for sin. But do you thank God in everything? Lord, thank you for this heartbreaking trial that I'm experiencing now because
of ABCD. And you tell them the ABCD. You need in everything to give
thanks. Why? For this is the will of
God in Christ Jesus toward you. Very plain. Trust in the Lord Jesus Christ
for this life. Trust in Him to enable you to
love one another in this church with a true, sincere love, so
that the onlooking world sees that reality and wonders what
makes you different. Trust in the Lord Jesus Christ
for everything in this life and for eternal life. Remember that
Jesus said, I am the bread of life. He that comes to me shall
not hunger, and he that believes on me shall never thirst. What
a wonderful promise to think upon, to meditate upon, that
he, Jesus, is the bread of life. and that going to him I will
never hunger or thirst, spiritually speaking. And remember how he
said, truly, truly, I say unto you, he that believes has eternal
life. I am the bread of life. So tonight, through the word
of God, Jesus Christ, the exalted risen Jesus Christ, through this
word is offering to everyone here He is saying to everyone
here, from the youngest to the oldest, Jesus is saying, I, not
me, Jesus, I am the bread of life. He that believes in me
has eternal life. You are to come to Jesus Christ,
believe in him, take him as the bread of life for your own very
soul. And then, and then, Do not live
for yourself, do not live for your lusts, for those evil desires
that remain in your heart, but repent from all of them, trust
in Christ, and live a life of joy, thankfulness, and peace
amongst the brethren in the church for the glory of Jesus Christ.
Let's close in prayer. Lord, we come to you tonight
and we ask that you would so work in all of our hearts, our
minds, our wills, our very beings, that we who are your genuine
disciples would all the more love you first of all, but also
all the more love one another in truth. We pray our God that
you would help each one of us to put away from ourselves these
various evil sins that create conflicts between brethren, among
brethren, in the churches. Lord, help us all to be determined
that by your grace we will not at all create such problems within
the local church, but rather glorify you, our God and Savior,
by loving one another as Christ has commanded us. We ask for
these mercies in his worthy name. Amen.
James Part 25: How to Handle Conflict in the Church
Series James
| Sermon ID | 615252310385543 |
| Duration | 45:36 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - PM |
| Bible Text | James 4:1-3 |
| Language | English |
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