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You are listening to the preaching
ministry of Faith Baptist Church. This morning we're going to take
a little bit of a different approach to the sermon. Rather than expositing
a whole passage or a chapter, we're going to be comparing two
stories. two stories from the Gospel of
John that instruct us from the life of Jesus about how we can
be witnesses, more effective witnesses for Christ. Before
we get to the passage, I want to share a little bit of My own
experience as a young person growing up in the public school
system here and what it was like to be a witness in that environment.
I knew as a high school kid that my classmates, my peers, they
were my main mission field. I mean, my life was church and
school and home. Everyone at home was saved, everyone
in church that I knew was a believer, but lots and lots of people at
school were not. And so if there was anyone that
I needed to win to Christ, it was those people. Those were
the individuals, my classmates, that I had a gospel impact on. Now, as a young person, of course,
you can imagine you have a lack of confidence in your own ability
to share Jesus with anybody, let alone, you know, your own
classmates that you see every day. And it didn't help that
I was already dealing with my own regular teenage struggles
that just about every teenager goes through. It made it difficult
to be effective. Most of my friends knew that
I was a believer or that I went to church or had some religion
in my family, some faith that I was following. But unfortunately,
I was not as regular in telling them about that faith. In fact,
to my own detriment, my friends probably knew more about my views
on current events and politics rather than they did about my
faith in Jesus. My senior year became the turning
point, though, because I realized in 12th grade, this is my last
opportunity to talk to my friends and make an impact in their lives.
I had a burden for one particular friend named George. This guy
was an exceptionally bright kid. He took way too many advanced
placement classes, more than he needed to. He really challenged
himself and pushed himself. We had a lot of the same classes
together throughout high school. We both were Hispanic. We both
loved baseball. He's had a lot of common interests
that way. But he was not saved. And I was determined to change
that in my senior year. I asked him one day, could we
meet up for lunch during a school day when we don't have a lot
going on, we have more free time? And in my mind, I'm planning
to use this lunch meetup to share Christ with him. I didn't know
what I was going to say. I didn't know how I was going
to present it. I just knew, you know, this may not be my last
time, but it's one time I can schedule and plan for, where
this is what we're going to sit down and talk about. And so we
met up at a deli near Queens Plaza, where our school was.
After we got our food, we started talking about our plans after
graduation. And at some point, probably early
on in the conversation, I just took the plunge. I said, you
know, George, I really wanted to meet up for this reason. And
I started to share Christ with him. As best I could, I gave
him the whole gospel. And, you know, to my surprise,
he really listened and asked thoughtful questions. And, you
know, again, he knew I was a believer. He had grown up in a Catholic
family, so he had some understanding of Jesus and the Bible and Christ's
death and resurrection. That wasn't news to him. But
when the conversation ended, I couldn't help but wonder, what
would George do with Jesus? I really had no way of knowing.
My conversation with him, even though it was planned for, I
didn't feel prepared. When you're 17 years old, it's
hard enough doing an oral presentation for class, let alone trying to
convince one of your best friends that he is on a fast track to
an eternity without God and that he needs Jesus to rescue him.
Now, at that time, again, I was having plenty of challenges in
my own life, and talking to George, I didn't feel spiritually or
even emotionally capable of talking to him on this level. All I knew
was that George was on his way to hell, and I had to do something
about that. As believers, I think we all
know that the gospel is our sacred trust. The Great Commission is
ours to complete. And yet, more often than not,
we feel ill-equipped, we feel incapable, and even scared to
share our faith with unbelievers. The problem is not so much you
know, the fish in the pond, as it were. I mean, we see people
all the time. It's not for a lack of people that we can't witness
or we don't witness. The problem ends up being with
our lack of confidence. We don't know what to say. We
don't feel adequate enough. You know, how can I persuade
someone else to believe on Jesus and trust him for salvation?
Thankfully, We are not left without an example in the New Testament.
Jesus was a master evangelist. Jesus was a master at interacting
with people who were not saved, who were searching for spiritual
answers, who were looking for eternal life. We're gonna look
at two such conversations. You're familiar with both of
them, I'm sure. Jesus and Nicodemus in John chapter three, and Jesus
and the Samaritan woman in John chapter four. We're not gonna
read all the passages necessarily, but we will reference different
verses throughout our study here. My point is to compare these
two stories, what they teach us about how to be more effective
witnesses. And really the point I wanna
draw out from these stories and the lessons that we can learn
is simply this. Use the strategies that Jesus employed to share
the gospel. If he's our shining example,
if he's someone we can look to for answers as to how do we do
this? How do I share my faith? How do I grow in my confidence
to know what to say, how to say it, who to talk to, when to talk
to them? All those questions that we usually
have in an evangelistic situation. Jesus gives us a lot of answers
here. These stories don't give us the definitive, these are
all the answers, but there are many here. And specifically,
we'll see later on in the message, we're going to look at six lessons
that he gives us. But before we do that, I want
to jump into just comparing these stories. Again, we're familiar
with Nicodemus. We're familiar with the Samaritan
woman. We might forget details here and there. But we get the
gist. We understand what's happening
here for the most part. But let's recap. Let's pretend
we don't know very much about these people at all. In John
3, there's a Jewish leader. named Nicodemus. He comes to
Jesus at night to talk to him. He knows what has been going
on with Jesus. He knows about the miracles that
he's performed, as he calls them signs. He knows about what Jesus
has taught about the kingdom of God. And so Nicodemus approaches
Christ in a one-on-one conversation and says, hey, I have some questions,
Jesus, can you answer them? He knew that Jesus did not act
alone. If he was doing these miracles, if he was teaching
this way, God must be with him. The Lord then turns the conversation
to pretty much his favorite topic in all the gospels, the kingdom
of God. He says, Nicodemus, if you want
to enter the kingdom of God, you must experience the new birth.
You must be born again. Now Nicodemus didn't understand
that immediately, so Jesus explained further. He used pictures and
he explained passages from the Old Testament and he brings all
these themes to clarify what he meant. And he really draws
it home at the end to point to the answer that God provides
in his son, the only begotten son who gave his life for the
sin of the world. In John 4, the second conversation,
John records for us Jesus' conversation with a Samaritan woman. She's
unnamed, but he's traveling through Samaria, and he arrives at this
well, Jacob's well, and he's tired. It's a hot day, and he
stops to rest. Now, mind you, Samaria is an
area hostile to Jews. They don't take kindly to Jewish
people. Jesus rests by the side here by the well and encounters
this woman who is coming from the nearby town to draw water
for herself. Now Jesus surprises this woman
by asking her a favor. Can I have a drink? Jews and
Samaritans don't talk to each other, let alone a Jewish man
and a Samaritan woman. So the woman you can imagine
is very surprised by this. And even though she is taken
aback, she does continue the conversation. She doesn't shut
it down. And eventually Jesus reveals that he knows a lot about
her own personal life. He knows about her marriage situation.
He knows about some of the sins of her past. Their conversation
then concludes with some religious back and forth, you know, arguing
over, well, where do we really worship? And Jesus draws her
home when he reveals himself as the Messiah to her. So both
stories, again, we're familiar with. But you may not have thought
about the similarities, how these stories really compare to each
other. Both stories are obviously gospel conversations, right?
Jesus is telling these people about eternal life, about how
to have a relationship with God. Maybe he doesn't follow the format
that we would expect. That's okay, he's God and he
knows way better than I do how to win these people. in those
situations. He shares the central purpose
of his teachings on earth, pointing people to himself as the answer
for salvation. He explains the gospel with simple
common pictures, things like birth, wind, light and darkness,
water, right? These are common everyday pictures
we deal with all the time. The conversations were both one-on-one.
Jesus didn't do a Bible study group, or he wasn't talking to
a large crowd, he was just talking to these individuals. And then
finally, in both accounts, Jesus teaches from the Old Testament.
Now, he doesn't necessarily always reference a particular verse.
In one case, he does mention a story of Moses lifting up the
bronze serpent on the pole to Nicodemus. But otherwise, he
kind of is drawing from a lot of Old Testament truths and themes
that you find throughout the Hebrew Scriptures. The similarities,
though, if you're looking for any more, really end there. Because
John 3 and John 4 present very different situations with very
different people. You almost couldn't get more
different. The first story is about an influential, well-educated,
religious Jew. Jewish man, right? The second
story is about a Samaritan woman who is a serial adulterer and
practices, well, a different kind of Judaism. She's practicing
the Samaritan version or style of Jewish belief. In chapter
3, Nicodemus is the one who approaches Jesus with his questions. So
the unbeliever is the one who comes and approaches Jesus. In
the Samaritan woman's story, though, he comes to her. He's the one who approaches her
in that situation. Nicodemus came to Jesus looking
for a spiritual discussion. He was absolutely looking forward
to getting his spiritual questions, his Bible questions answered.
The Samaritan woman didn't come for a spiritual conversation.
She came to get water. In fact, she came at that time
of day purposely to avoid people, avoid a conversation. But instead,
she gets confronted by the Son of God. Now comparing the stories
reminds us that gospel conversations come in a variety of ways with
a variety of people. We recognize some of the situations
here because we find ourselves in the same situation sometimes. The chance encounter with a stranger,
a scheduled meetup with a close friend. These opportunities come
our way and very often we don't think of them as gospel opportunities.
We miss out on the chance to engage others with the truth
about Jesus. We also recognize the kind of
people Jesus spoke with, the religious observer, the wayward
sinner. These are people that we know.
We have relationships with people like this, and the Lord expects
us to give them the good news, just the same, not any different.
Now, thankfully, we're not left without an example of how to
talk to people like this, the way Jesus did. There are many
examples in the New Testament of witnessing evangelism opportunities,
but maybe none are more influential and impacting and memorable than
these stories right here in John 3 and 4. The stories are giving
us extended, personalized conversations with the Savior that he had while
he was on earth. I want us in the rest of our
time to look at six lessons that Jesus gives us that we can draw
out from these passages about how we can be more effective
in our own personal witness, how the Lord can grow us and
make us better at this commission he's given us to share Christ
with the lost. The first one is this, know your
audience, know your audience. These accounts are presenting
people on two opposite sides of the spectrum, right? We already
discussed this. Nicodemus represents the well-educated, the religious,
the respectable, the ethnically pure and acceptable class, right? What does the Samaritan woman
represent? Well, she symbolized everything on the bottom rung
of the social ladder, right? She was disgraced. She was shunned
by society because of her lifestyle choices. And to top it off, she's
a mixed-blood Samaritan, half Jew, half Gentile. So in her
situation, I mean, she's in a very bad place. She's very disadvantaged. Jesus knew in both conversations
how to approach these people. He didn't approach them the same.
He approached them distinctly, uniquely. Now, first of all,
you notice with Nicodemus, and again, we won't have time to
read through the whole passage, but we'll pick apart different verses
throughout our time. Nicodemus is a fellow Jew educated
in the scriptures. So Jesus took that approach with
him, with this man. He knows he knows the Bible.
So when he's talking to him, he expects him to understand
Old Testament truth. In fact, Jesus brings up this
whole idea of being born again, you must enter the kingdom of
God by being born again. And what is Nicodemus' response?
Wait, so you're telling me I'm supposed to, like, go back to
my mom's womb? Go back and be born again? Like,
how does this work, Jesus? And Jesus explains it to him
again and uses even more, you know, uses even more pictures.
He talks about wind and all of these things. And Nicodemus'
response is still, but, but Jesus, how can these things be? And
finally, Jesus just has to say, wait a second, Nicodemus, aren't
you a teacher of Israel? How is it that you did not know
these things? How is it that you are unaware of what is going
on here? He doesn't treat Nicodemus with
kid gloves. He recognizes the person he's talking to is a well-educated
man, well-versed in the scriptures, so he's gonna talk to him that
way. He also refers to himself as the son of man, right? This
is an idea that comes from the prophets in the book of Daniel.
And then we're very familiar with how in verse 14, before
he gets to the famous, you know, for God so loved the world, Jesus
brings Nicodemus to kind of an obscure Old Testament story.
The nation of Israel has sinned against God and God sends snakes
into the camp. to plague the people, to bite
them and make them sick and even die. And the people are like,
Moses, you've got to help us. And God's answer to Moses is,
Moses, I want you to construct and fashion a bronze serpent,
a metal serpent. And I want you to hang it up
on top of a wooden pole. And anyone who looks at that
snake on the pole will immediately be healed. They will not be sick.
They will not die. Kind of a strange story. But
Jesus takes this truth out of it. Just like that snake was
lifted up, Moses lifted it up, and when people saw it, they
were healed from the curse of this plague. In the same way,
the Son of Man would be lifted up to cure the curse of sin for
all mankind. What a beautiful picture. Nicodemus,
as a religious Jew, should have had no trouble following that
story. Now in chapter four, we find Jesus in a bit of an awkward
situation with this Samaritan woman. He's alone with her at
the well. She's not expecting this, even
though he seems to have expected it. Reading the story though,
you realize Jesus obviously had some supernatural knowledge of
her past, right? Because not only does he mention
her current marital status, you don't have a husband right now,
but he also mentions the exact number of previous marriages
that are already broken. So, okay, that's not something
anybody told him. He knew that. I mean, he's God.
He understood that already. But what we may not realize is
that this woman, by being there at the well at that time, actually
gave away a bit of her own life. She kind of gave us a clue as
to what kind of a woman she is. You notice here that as John
is recording the story for us. He says specifically the Samaritan
woman comes to the well And it was I'm sorry. Jesus comes to
the well. He's weary from his journey in
verse 6. It was about the 6th hour It's
midday. That's 12 o'clock noon right
as it's it's burning bright The Sun is is bearing down on all
of it all the land of Palestine and here this woman comes in
the heat of the day to draw water when no one else is around and
Now, if you're a smart woman from the town there, what you
would have done is gone to get your water earlier in the day,
when it was much cooler, when it wasn't as hot. But this woman
does something different. In fact, it seems like she's
intentionally avoiding people. So, whoever this woman is, clearly
she is either one, a recluse, someone who's just introverted
to herself, or she's an outcast. She's someone that society does
not accept. Now, Jesus recognizes not only
her sinful past, but also the inherent need that she had. She comes to draw water, and
what does Jesus offer her? Living water. He says, in fact,
this living water that I'm offering, it so satisfies, it so quenches
your thirst, that it will be like a fountain of water inside
of you, gushing up into everlasting life. She's so drawn by this
beautiful picture from the Savior that she eventually asks him,
give me this water. I need this. Whatever you're
offering, stranger, I want that. And Jesus eventually turns the
conversation over to her past, but also to man's intimate need
for a relationship with God, for this idea of worshiping God. Where does that happen? It doesn't
happen in a temple or on a mountain. It happens in the heart because
God is a spirit and they that worship him must worship him
in spirit and in truth. And he draws all the dots together
by revealing himself as the Messiah. The one who speaks to you, I
am he. So knowing your audience, it's an important part of any
speaking engagement, right? If you've spoken professionally,
if you're a teacher, if you've given a presentation at work,
if you have an oral project at school, if you sit for a job
interview, I mean, you've got to know who you're talking to,
right? And who you're talking to determines how you present
your message, how you go about what you say. In this case, the
same is true for the gospel, right? Thankfully, the gospel
message is still the same. The men yesterday, we looked
at 1 Corinthians 15, how the gospel is the simple story that
Christ, the Son of God, the Messiah, came into the world to die for
our sins. He rose again, and anyone who believes on him will
be saved. That's the basic story of the
gospel. So that message never changes.
What we need to work on though and practice ourselves is tailoring
our message to the people we're talking to. You know, just last
month, My dad called me and said that a family friend that we've
had for many years called him and said that he wanted to know
more about salvation, know more about God and how to be saved. This man has had a difficult
family situation for many, many years. He's done well financially. His work and everything, he's
always done well for himself. But many years ago, his wife
divorced him. His three adult children don't
speak to him anymore. They have no contact with him.
So this is a man broken in a lot of ways. And he knew he had hit
rock bottom in his own life. And he had nowhere to turn but
to God. Sharing the gospel with him between
my dad and I was actually very fruitful than previous conversations
we've had with him. My dad has witnessed him many
times, and it never quite clicked. He never quite got it. It wasn't
until he realized his need, until he was so broken by the deadly
consequences of his own choices that he came to the end of himself.
Knowing my audience, knowing the person we were talking to
and the needs that were there made our conversation that much
more effective. And I pray that he genuinely was saved. I really,
I can't say I know for sure. But at the very least, he knew
the decision he had to make. And I pray that he did make that
choice. So knowing your audience, very important in Gospel Witness.
Secondly, answer questions with the scriptures. A gospel presentation
is really incomplete without confronting the lost with scripture. It's not necessarily that we
need to quote verses verbatim, we need to know them word for
word, but we need to definitely share with lost people, with
unbelievers, what the scriptures have to say about who God is,
about who Jesus is, and what he came to do for us. There's
nothing that convinces people more than biblical truth empowered
by the spirit. Romans 10, 17, faith comes by
hearing, hearing by the word of God. We can be as persuasive
as we want, but if we're not communicating scriptural truth,
people's lives will not be changed. Jesus knew this. He approached
Nicodemus with lots of biblical references, right? His teaching
on this new birth is kind of obscure. It's not clear where
he's drawing that from in the Old Testament. Many people believe
that he's drawing from Ezekiel 36, in which the prophet Ezekiel
talks about how in the new covenant, the Lord is going to give his
people a new heart and a new spirit. That seems to be indicating
some kind of spiritual change or rebirth happening. Of course,
you have the Old Testament story of Moses putting the serpent
on the pole to heal the nation from judgment. The conversation
with the Samaritan woman, though, is a lot less focused on Bible
references. Like, Jesus is not exactly quoting
from Scripture. You could argue, it's very possible
Jesus, when he's talking about this living water that he offers
to the woman, I'm gonna give you water that can offer everlasting
life. It's very possible he's drawing
from the prophet Isaiah, in Isaiah 55, when he says, come everyone
who thirsts to the waters, they're here for you to take. And it's
an offer of salvation, it's an offer of God's deliverance. In
any case, knowing the scriptures was vital to winning this woman
to the Savior, even though she herself was not fully Jewish.
In a similar way, we can't disregard the importance of the Bible in
our evangelism. There are many gospel presentations
you can find that walk you through different Bible passages. One
of the more famous ones is the Romans Road, right? You know,
starting with, you know, there is none righteous, no, not one,
Romans three, and it kind of walks you through some different
verses in the book of Romans that talk about gospel truth,
our sin and the judgment of sin, how Christ came to die for our
sins. He gives us the gift of eternal life. All of that you
can find in the book of Romans. If memory doesn't happen to be
your strong suit, and that's definitely some of us, right?
Then by all means, buy a pocket New Testament, mark it up, highlight
it, put bookmarks in your Bible so that you know where to go
if you need to address certain verses with the person you're
talking to. Carry gospel tracts with you that use scriptures
that talk about the gospel and explain the gospel story. Most
importantly, know the gospel well from your own Bible study.
Friends, I can't tell you how many times I've read just in
my own personal devotions, and I'm reading through and I don't
anticipate it, but I come across a verse and I say, wow, that's
a great gospel verse. That's a great passage to use
if I'm sharing the gospel to explain this point. Look out
for those kinds of things in your own Bible study. And finally,
Another key ingredient is being able to explain the identity
of Jesus and his mission from the Old Testament. Be familiar
with some of the prophecies of his birth, his miracles, his
deity, his life and his death, his resurrection. That's all
found in the Hebrew scriptures, friends. Now, if all of that
sounds like it's too much information to process, I mean, there's no
way I could remember all that stuff, Pastor Christian. That's
okay. I'm not telling you these things
so that your next gospel conversation, you have everything lined up,
you know exactly what to say. As you digest that kind of biblical
truth, as you meditate on it, as you're thinking on it, and
you're communicating those truths to different people, over time
it will become very familiar. I mean, it's like a person who's
training in martial arts, right? Maybe at the next fight, you
don't know all the moves, all the skills that you need to use.
But eventually, when the time comes, those skills are going
to kick into place. They're going to kick into gear
because you've been practicing. You've been going and training
and practicing for many, many hours. That's the idea with your
witness. It doesn't happen automatically.
It happens by, over time, accruing more and more gospel truth that
you store and that you use at the right time. I'll close with
this on this point. Sometimes an unbeliever asks
a tough question. Sometimes they ask a question you don't know
the answer to. Friends, it's okay to say, I don't know. It's
okay to say, I'll get back to you. Let me research that. And
then do that. Look it up. Ask pastor myself. There are lots of good books
and resources that can give answers to all sorts of questions. And
more than likely, the Bible might just have the answer that you
need. And that's why we need to point people to the scriptures.
Number three, be creative and thoughtful. I love this point
because Jesus does it so well in both stories. One of the more
memorable aspects of John 3 and 4 are the pictures Jesus uses
to communicate gospel truth. Nicodemus really gets the heaviest
dose, doesn't he? Because in his story, I mean,
Jesus starts with birth, right? You must be born again. We think
of it as a spiritual term, but in Nicodemus's mind, that's like,
I know what birth is, I know what again means. What does that
mean together? It was very confusing for him
when he first heard this. The best way to describe how
you enter God's kingdom is you experience a new birth. You experience
spiritual transformation. Just like man is born physically,
he must also be born spiritually. except that this birth is not
easily noticeable. Like when a baby's born and a
baby comes out of mom's womb, right? That's obvious. We know
when that happens, but what does it look like when someone gets
spiritually born? Jesus uses a second picture.
He says, Nicodemus, it's kind of like the wind. The Spirit
of God moves this way. He's the author of that spiritual
birth. And the Spirit of God moves like the wind. You can't
see it. You can't touch it. But you know
the evidence of it. You know when the wind is whistling
through the trees. You know when it's blowing around
the garbage all around the streets of New York. It's there. It's
evident. It's provable. The Lord closes
the conversation by contrasting light and darkness, right? He
talks about how the Son of God has brought light into the world
and it dispels, it moves away the darkness of man's sinful
hearts. The Samaritan woman got only
one picture and that was living water. Jesus uses this casual
request, can I have a drink, to kind of as an excuse to bring
up his own spiritual point, right? Revealing this woman's need for
thirst quenching water. The living water offers true
satisfaction. It produces this inward change.
It becomes that fountain of water that turns into everlasting life.
If Jesus didn't refrain from being a little creative in his
gospel witness, what does that mean for us? I mean, Jesus could
have explained these passages of scripture, he could have talked
about the Old Testament in lots of different ways, just like
a teacher would, right? Expositing the scriptures. But
he didn't. Instead, he taught about salvation
with pictures. He employed images that were
memorable, that stick with us even today. We sing about being
born again. We talk about being born again.
We'd say to friends and family, you know, I'm a born again Christian.
We say it like everybody should understand what that means. But
it's because we know the story of Nicodemus so well. We know
that truth and it sticks with us. Same with this idea of Christ
satisfying our thirsty hearts. We know what it's like to crave
water and Jesus meets that need. These pictures are important
because they show us our need to employ illustrations when
appropriate. You know, there's no doubt, all
of us, if you've ever had a gospel conversation, you've ever talked
with someone about Jesus, we all have our own styles of conversation,
our own unique personalities, our own backgrounds and experiences,
that's okay. Some of us are probably more
prone to use pictures, because that's easy for us, that's how
we process information. And some of us are like, give
me the textbook, man, that's all I want. Give me the textbook
answer, that's how I want to get it across. I would say whatever
your personality is, whatever your style is, it's not a bad
idea to introduce some gospel illustrations that really communicate
the truth about Jesus. If you're familiar with our children's
ministry, you know that many times, especially in vacation
Bible school, we've used the wordless book. It's a very good
tool because it helps kids associate gospel truth with a color. And
kids love colors, right? So each color is a different
truth about the gospel message. One picture that I would recommend
for adults is one that we've talked about before, the three
circles. This is one we've taught about in family camp. A few years
ago, we had an evangelism class and we actually taught through
how to use the three circles. If you're looking for what that
looks like and how to do that, sharing that with someone, that's
not a believer, you can certainly just Google online, or you can
actually go to Pastor Thomas's old blog, shepherdthoughts.com,
and the detailed information is there as to how you do the
whole presentation. I'll close with this on this
point. We can also be creative, not just in how we present, but
in the medium through which we present. Sometimes we think the
gospel is just words, right? It is a message, it is words,
no question about that. But what if you communicated
the gospel through your actions? What if communicating the gospel
looked like cutting your neighbor's lawn? What if it looked like
picking up a project from your coworker? You didn't have to
do it, but you just, you wanted to. Boy, those acts of love,
those intentional, deliberate acts of service for other people
probably prove the gospel better than any message you can give.
And there's lots of other ways I could mention, but those acts
of love are gonna be very demonstrative of what Jesus has done to change
your life. Let's move on to number four here. Engage with a variety
of people. Engage with a variety of people.
We've already noted how different these two people are, Nicodemus
and the Samaritan woman, but the differences become even more
apparent if you look further in their stories and how people
responded when they started sharing Jesus with others. On the one
hand, you had Nicodemus, a respected religious figure in his community.
Yet under cover of night, he comes to Jesus to ask his questions
because his own religion, his own Jewish faith wasn't meeting
those needs. He didn't understand what Jesus
came to do and what the kingdom of God was about. Nicodemus found
the answers he's looking for. I mean, apparently he did believe
on Jesus, except that he really didn't bring anybody else with
him, at least as best as we can tell. The Gospel of John is our
only record of Nicodemus' life. He's mentioned nowhere else.
We don't know much about him except after this conversation,
he did a pretty good job of hiding his faith, not being very public
about his approval of Jesus's message. There's an occasion
in John 7 where the chief priests and the Pharisees are arguing
about what Jesus is saying and what are we gonna do with him?
How are we gonna deal with this? And Nicodemus kind of sheepishly
says, hey, should we really cast judgment on a prophet before
we've evaluated him? He doesn't really give an affirmative
like, hey, I believe on Jesus. Look what he's doing. He gives
no positive affirmation that way of Christ's work and ministry.
And then in John 19, after Jesus dies, Nicodemus shows up on the
scene again to help bury Jesus in the tomb of Joseph of Arimathea.
But after that, he comes off the scene and he's gone in the
pages of history, as best we can tell. These actions, though
well-intentioned, show us that what John said about many of
the Pharisees was true. Even though they believed on
Jesus, some of them did, They were not willing to follow him
openly because they loved the praise of men. Because they were
more worried about their religious positions rather than following
the truth, no matter what it cost them. So that's Nicodemus,
a religious man you would expect to stand up for his principles,
right? A man of conviction. Oh no, he cowers in fear. The Samaritan woman, on the other
hand, a woman with no social capital at all, was willing to
go out to some of the very same men in the town that knew her
as a harlot. They knew her as a loose woman,
a woman of the streets. And yet she's running around
to all of them and saying, hey, have you seen this Jesus? Come
and hear him. He told me everything about me.
He told me everything about my past. He knew me from top to
bottom, beginning to end. Come and listen to what he has
to say. and they were all compelled to come. They all were persuaded
by this woman. In no time at all, the people
flocked to Jesus from the town of Sychar, and all over Samaria,
many believed on him. John later writes in chapter
four, that woman was more persuasive than an influential religious
Jewish man. If nothing else, these stories
are teaching us to cast our gospel nets very wide, not to restrain
them. Jesus didn't shy away from talking
to the strict religious man or to the loose, promiscuous woman.
He made himself available to all these people. His everyday
interactions were leading him to people just like this. He
didn't restrict himself to a certain class or social circle. He was
friendly, he was courteous, he was engaging with all sorts of
people that he came across. Sometimes when we do evangelism,
if we're in the midst of outreach, right? We have in our minds the
kinds of people that will respond to the gospel, right? We measure
up people in our heads and we say, that person over there,
they're gonna take the track. That person over there, mm-mm,
no, probably not. We do this, we do this mental
gymnastics. I've been guilty of that. I've done that plenty
of times. And you know what, we make those decisions purely
based on our own human biases. We have no reason to cast that
kind of judgment because we're not seeing from God's eyes. But
when we look through God's eyes, I think we might just be surprised.
In his view, anyone is a candidate for salvation. The educated,
the spiritually curious, the seeker, the socially awkward,
and yes, even the outcasts. You may be surprised to learn
that there are spiritually sensitive people, people who know the Bible,
who know God's truth, but they're not saved yet. When you tell
them the gospel, they're not quite ready. or at least they're
very hesitant to make that decision. Let me think about this a little
more. Let me research it more. Let me look at other religions.
Meanwhile, the guy on the street with tattoos all over him or
the lady with weird piercings all over her body, that may just
be the person the Lord has prepared for you to talk to because they're
ready to hear. We have no idea. All we can do
is cast our nets wide and let God do the rest. Number five,
prepare for planned conversations. We look at the story of Nicodemus
with great enthusiasm, right? Because Nicodemus was the one
who came to Jesus. Boy, that's great. If every conversation
with the lost person was like that, I'd be on cloud nine. That'd
be so, that'd be wonderful. If people just came to me, if
lost people just talked to me instead of me seeking them out.
If you read the story, you find that this conversation was planned
ahead of time, right? It does seem like there was some
element of planning. Nicodemus met Jesus at a certain
time, certain place, at nighttime, because he had lingering questions.
We don't know why exactly, it had to be at night. It could
be that Nicodemus was just trying to get Jesus at a time of day
when there were no crowds and no people around, and he had
one-on-one time with him. It might be that he was afraid
of the Pharisees and what they would say if they found him with
Jesus. Knowing this conversation was
coming, Jesus had the time, the ability to prepare his thoughts,
think through, okay, I know this man knows the Old Testament,
so I'm gonna give him the Bible. I'm gonna have him, I'm going
to draw him into Old Testament passages that will clearly explain
why you must be born again. The only way to enter the kingdom
of God is this way. These kinds of scheduled meetings
with unbelievers don't happen very often. Rarely does a person
come to us with a question like, hey, I want to know more about
God. Can you show me? I want to know how to get to
heaven. Can you tell me how to do that from the Bible? That doesn't
happen very often. But if it does happen, friends,
we have a responsibility to arm ourselves with a defense for
the faith. We need to consider our audience
and address their spiritual needs accordingly. I'll tell you a
story. Several years ago, I went to
a movie theater in the city to watch a documentary on biblical
manuscripts, a great blockbuster, right? I went with actually a
visitor who was coming to FBC at the time. He wanted to see
this film as well, so we both went to see it. And after the
film, we came out of the theater and there was this Indian woman,
an elderly Indian woman who was in the theater with us. There
were not many people there, so it was easy to tell who was in
the attendance. And we started talking to her
and I assumed she was a Christian because who else would come to
see a Bible documentary except a Christian, right? So as we're
talking to her, that's how I'm addressing her. And then I come
to realize she reveals herself to be a Muslim. I was shocked. I was like, if you don't mind
me asking, why would you come to see a Bible documentary? And
she said, well, actually I'm very curious in other religions.
So I knew about this and I came to watch it too. Long story short,
we got to exchange numbers and we've met up for coffee and theology
several times. and have had great conversations
together with this woman. Now, knowing that she was Muslim
helped me to know how to prepare. I didn't know much about the
Islamic faith at the time, but learning and listening and reading
books and doing my own research helped me understand more about
what Islam believes, and more specifically, what Muslims believe
about Christianity. So doing my own work on that
end helped make those conversations productive. And I still have
an open door with this woman to this day because she knows
I care enough about her faith to research it and talk about
it intelligibly. And friends, we can do a similar
kind of thing in our own lives if we want unbelievers of all
kinds of faiths and ideologies to be drawn to the Savior. Finally,
very last point here, number six, optimize everyday occurrences. If Nicodemus and his story represents
the planned, scheduled conversation, the Samaritan woman represents
the everyday occurrence, right? This woman wasn't planning to
come to the well to have a spiritual discussion, but Jesus did. I feel like we do need to approach
witnessing more like that scenario, where it's us who are gonna have
to be the ones to address spiritual topics, bring them up, even if
it's not comfortable, even if it's a little awkward. It's uncomfortable
for many of us who are introverts ourselves, we're bad at small
talk, or maybe we're just awkward around strangers, right? We don't
know how to address people that way. Even if you are comfortable
in those situations, it's not always easy to know what to say.
How do I take happenings in my routine life of work, home, sleep? You know, that's my Monday to
Friday, nine to five, right? How do I take that schedule and
maximize it for gospel impact? Let's take a cue from Jesus.
If you look at chapter four, you'll notice that he doesn't
start with anything spiritual. What is his first words to this
woman? A question, right? A favor. Give
me a drink. I mean, a simple casual request
you could ask anybody in almost any given situation. And specifically,
this is one to meet a real physical need, right? I don't think he
was just making it up. He was tired from the hot sun. He was
thirsty. He wants a drink of water. Now
we know Jesus wasn't afraid to break social conventions either.
Talking to this woman was enough to put him in an awkward spot,
let alone asking her for a favor. but he turns the woman's frustrated
response, right? Why would you talk to me? You're
a Jew. He turns that into a spiritual transition point. He says, hey,
if you knew whom you were actually talking to, if you knew the gift
of God that I'm offering to you, you would be asking me for a
drink of water. Wow, what an interesting switch.
What an interesting turn of the tables, right? Let me ask you
a question. Have you ever made a gospel contingency
plan? Now, a contingency plan is, you
know, it's a plan that you set up for emergencies, right? Like
when there's a fire or a tornado, if there's a robber that comes
to your house, you know, you plan for these drastic emergencies. What do I do? How do I respond?
How do I get to safety? In a similar way, we can prepare
ourselves for gospel contingencies in our everyday lives. How can
I plan to share Christ as I go about my day? Just spitballing
here for a few examples, how about this? When you stop by
the food cart outside of the office or outside the subway
station, when you're going into work Monday morning, you're picking
up breakfast, you see the same vendor every day. He knows your
name, he knows where you work, says, hey, you know, how you
doing? Every single day asks you the same question. How can
you introduce Jesus to this man in that conversation that lasts
all of two minutes? It's not a bad idea to think
about a gospel contingency plan for that kind of situation. If
you're filling up your car at the gas station, and this doesn't
happen all the time, usually people don't talk to you at the
gas station, but if the guy next to you or the lady next to you
happens to say, these gas prices, man, they're killing me. How
can you share with that person that, you know what, my confidence
is not in the strength of the US economy, it's in my God who
takes care of me. What if that was how we viewed
that conversation? When you go to the park on Saturday
with your kids, you see the same moms, the same grandparents,
they're always there every weekend, they're playing on the same playground.
Have you tried getting to know them, showing them the love of
Jesus through your words and actions? You know, I could mention
many, many more. You're probably thinking of some
yourself in your own everyday routine. It's not hard to come
up with these situations where I'm interacting with strangers,
with people all around me, right? It's hard not to in New York
City. We know they come up, but it escapes us to consider how
the gospel might enter that kind of scenario. Instead of letting
these open doors pass us by, what if they were maximized for
gospel impact? You know, just a few weeks ago,
my wife and I, in case you didn't know, we've been in the midst
of moving. We've been done moving for a while now, but last month
that was all we were doing for several weeks, moving stuff back
and forth. And one day we took a pit stop
at the Rego Center Mall at Panera Bread. And we said, let's just
take some time to relax. It's just the two of us. This
is great. And we sat next to someone, and
this lady asked us if while she went to the restroom, we would
watch her stuff. Sure, no problem. Well, she came
back, and we finished our food. And as we were leaving, my wife,
being a good wife, says, honey, why don't you give her a track?
And she pulled one out from her purse and, you know, I wasn't
thinking that way, but I'm glad my wife was. And giving that
woman, that lady, that track turned into a 10-minute conversation.
I was so glad it did, you know, because I wasn't anticipating
that. That made me more happy than the rest stop at Panera
because, you know, when do you get these opportunities? It was
amazing. This woman told us that she actually believes in Krishna.
And, you know, that's where she draws her beliefs from. She shared
some of, you know, some of her viewpoints and some of her religious
beliefs. In that short time, we gave her the gospel, we handed
her a track, we invited her to church. We said, you know, hey,
if you ever have any questions, you know, here's my phone number
and, you know, we'd love to talk with you more, have a Bible study
with you. You never know what opportunities are going to come
your way. But it's worth asking the Lord for wisdom to know how
to respond in those situations. have given us six lessons from
Jesus from this story. We haven't really, you know,
exposited these passages so much as just observed. What did Jesus
do in order to be effective in his evangelism? Because yes,
he's the son of God. Yes, he knew exactly what to
say and how to say it so that these people were convinced to
come to him, to come to salvation. But you know, it's not an accident
that we have these stories recorded for us. They're written down
for our learning. And I hope that these have been
a help in understanding more about how I can be a witness.
This Saturday, we have the street fair outreach. We're gonna see
lots of people there we don't know. We're gonna see lots of
people from different faiths, different backgrounds, different
ethnicities, different ages. What a great opportunity to get
the gospel out. What a great chance to exercise my evangelism
muscles. Say, okay, I may not know much
about how to share Jesus, but I know my testimony. I know what
God has done for me, and I can share that. I can hand a tract
to someone. I can say, God bless you, come
visit our church someday. We'd love to have you. That's
all it takes. It starts there, and Lord willing,
it can grow into having full-fledged gospel conversations with people
that produce fruit for the kingdom of God. I'll close with just
sharing the rest of my high school friend, George, and his story.
After I told him about Jesus at the deli over lunch, again,
I wasn't sure how he was going to respond. I wasn't sure, would
George see me any differently? Would we still be friends? Who
knows? As we ended our talk, Around
that time, we were gonna have a teen rally here at church.
We were gonna have a special evangelist, a speaker come, and
he was gonna talk to the teenagers. And I thought, shot in the dark
here, let me invite George to this event. And he said he would
think about it. Well, the day of the event came,
and George never confirmed with me whether he was coming or not.
And I was just, I was like, well, that stinks. But a few minutes
before we were getting things started, I got a call from George.
He says, hey, Christian, I'm here at the 7 train. Could you
give me directions to the church? I don't know where to go from
here. I was more than happy to tell him that. And how surprised
I was to see him walk through the doors of our church. We sat
right there, right where Brother Marius and Debbie are. He sat through the whole rally,
and he enjoyed it. He was paying attention. At the
end of the special speaker's message, he actually came to
George. I don't know how he knew he was
not a believer, or I think I may have told him he was my friend,
I'm not sure. But he took George aside for a few moments. And
at the end of their time, at the end of talking together,
they came back and the speaker said, George, you want to tell
Christian what you just did? And George said, Christian, I just
got saved. And man, I couldn't tell you,
there was nothing more joyful than just knowing that a friend
of mine came to know Jesus. I haven't talked with him since
high school, but at the very least, I know he knows the gospel.
And to my knowledge, he's a believer. It didn't happen by accident,
George's salvation. It happened because, by God's
grace, he was showing me, Christian, you've got to make intentional
choices to be a witness in the mission field that you are at.
My mission field was high school at that time, a 17-year-old.
Who are the people in your life that need to have that same conversation?
Again, whether spur of the moment, unexpected, or something you've
planned and something you've prepared for, apply the lessons
from the life of Christ and watch him turn you into a fisher of
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How to Be a Witness
| Sermon ID | 52322186226493 |
| Duration | 53:40 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | John 3 |
| Language | English |
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