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Our subject has been the consequences
when there is no father. We've already learned a number
of things and here they are. When there is no father, there
is no voice in a child's life. No father, there is no counsel.
When there's no father, there's no leadership. There's no security. There's no correction. and there's
no genuine self-acceptance. Imagine that. And when there's
no father, there's no instruction. There is no wisdom. There's no
understanding. There's no learning the secrets
of life, and there's no knowledge, and there's no compassion. That's
where we left off. I want you to see, however, that
the consequences of an absent father go on. So with pencil,
paper, notes in hand, let's continue. For when there is no father,
there is no inheritance. Now look at this. A house and riches are the inheritance
of fathers. Every child needs the help of
a father to get a house and to have money to get started, seed
money. Fathers have often squandered
their riches. Budgets have not included help
for children to own houses debt-free. The financial disadvantages have
apparently not been noticed. Boys should have a home paid
for before they get married, debt-free. You might be thinking
that if that's true, then my kid isn't getting married till
he's about 50 years old. Not so. God gives us in the Bible
a biblical strategy of how sons can have no mortgages the entire
days of their life. Imagine the blessing that is.
We have fathers that are training their sons to save for their
homes now. Christmas and birthdays, sons
are saying, Grandma, Grandpa, it's okay, get me a little present
if you want to, but I'm really saving for my house. because
a father who is properly training his son is training him to have
a house. It's part of the inheritance
of a father. But no father, no inheritance. And if there's no
father, There's no proper boasting that a child can do, no glory.
Because this may be a surprise to you, because on television,
when a football player gets interviewed, he says, hi, mom, when he probably
should be saying, hi, dad. But look at this. The glory of
children are their fathers. Children need to be able to boast
properly about their fathers. Hey, you know what my father
and I are doing next weekend? Let me tell you what my father
and I did last summer. And do you know what my father and I
are going to do? My father and I, and they want to fill in blank
after blank after blank. They need to be able to boast
about their father, but no father, there's no boasting. An empty,
empty spot in a child's life. And then when there's no father,
there's not only no glory, no boasting, but there's no passing
on glory to the next generation. The scripture says, they shall
hang upon him the glory of his father's house. Each succeeding
generation should be building the family name, developing more
glory. And every succeeding generation
should be more glorious than the one before. That's how God
wants fatherhood to construct in the building of the future
of a family. Then, if there's no father, There's
generally no relationship with God. Now, check this verse. As the Lord God of thy fathers
has said unto thee. Well, we have fathers who don't
even know the Lord God. What God has taught fathers,
they are to pass on to their children. Children get their
concept of God from their fathers. That's why God's referred to
as the Heavenly Father, because He has so many fathers here on
the planet that are to represent Him. But if fathers are pursuing
false gods, so will the children, false gods of treasure, pleasure,
and leisure, or perhaps no God at all. If a father is not in
pursuit of God, the chances are his children will not be either.
No father, not likely going to have relationship with God. Then if there's no father, there's
no truth. And truth is really essential.
That's why we call our ministry Nothing But The Truth. Look at
this scripture. The father to the children shall
make known thy truth. This is the job of a father. To tell his children the truth. The truth about every subject.
The truth about love and marriage and sexuality. The truth about
how to handle problems, how to handle trouble, how to have money. In fact, there's no area of life
that fathers are not to instruct their children about. And they
need to know the truth. Not just any instruction will
do. In fact, your children need to
know how to parent, so you need to teach them. But isn't it strange
that that is not so much taught as it is caught? They learn to
be a parent by watching their father. If a father treats his
wife, their mother, properly, that boy will learn to treat
his wife properly. If the father doesn't treat his
wife, their mother properly, the chances of the boy doing
it are slim when he marries. Because this family stuff is
learned in the crucible of everyday life. When a daughter observes how
her father treats her mother, his wife, she learns how her
husband is to treat her. I tell you that the amount of
abuse that's going on in families today is directly related to
learning that abuse or failing to learn the truth in the home
from a father who's there. No father, no truth. No father,
no provision. Here's the instruction. If any,
provide not for his own, now look at this, especially those
for his own house, Now, look at this. Let me show you this
now. He has denied the faith. A father who doesn't provide
for his own children has denied the faith. And it gets worse
than that. Look at the next part of the
scripture. And he is, look at this, worse than an infidel. Somebody who doesn't even believe
in God. Somebody who's a pagan, a heathen, Father needs to provide. No father, there's no provision.
Then if there's no father, there's no protection. Now we learn about
this because David was the shepherd. And there came a lion and a bear
and took a lamb out of the flock. And David says, so I went out
after him and I smote him. I went out after him. And that's what fathers do. They're
protectors. They're the guardian. not just
of the house and the home, but of the wife and mother and of
the children. He's the protector. But if there's
no father, then there's just a deserted post. Somebody is
neglecting his duty, and children are not getting the physical,
mental, emotional, social, and spiritual protection that ought
to be theirs. They become vulnerable, subject
to wolves who steal them away. And then if there's no father,
there's no proper raising of the children. Now, notice these
instructions because every one of them is critical. While I'm
taking you through a list of what happens when there's no
father, if you wanted to know what fathers do, you would just
take the opposite. For example, in this case, no father, there's
no proper raising. But if there is a father, there
will be proper raising. And you can end up with a job
description for fatherhood just by reversing out each of these,
interpolating each of these points. But look, fathers, look at this
now, fathers, don't provoke your children to wrath. Why are children so angry? Just being absent, dad, is a
serious provocation. But look at this, because the
next part of this verse says this, and it's talking to fathers. You fathers provoke them not
to wrath, but you fathers bring them up in the nurture and the
admonition of the Lord. Fathers are to bring up the children. We've too long. I don't know
where we got it from. That's mom's idea to raise the kids.
It's dads, according to the Bible, according to God, according to
the scriptures that have been proven infallibly true. So here
we go. Fathers bring them up. He fathers bring them up. But
if there's no father, there's no proper, raising of the children,
and they will pay a severe price. And then if there's no father,
there is no male nourishing. Now watch this. And ye fathers,
provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in,
bring them up in the nurture, in the nurture. Fathers need
instructions to be nurturing towards their children. The greatest
cause of gender confusion today is because boys don't get proper
male nourishment from a father. And thus is born the possibility,
the high possibility of homosexuality. Boys who don't get proper male
nourishment from a father will often get nourishment from a
wicked male. from another man or boy and little
girls. Little girls who don't get proper
male nourishment from a father will probably end up in the arms
of a wicked boy or man with wicked intentions. An increase in fatherlessness
equals an increase in immorality. And by the way, this is a cycle.
An increase in immorality equals an increase in fatherlessness.
No father, no proper male nourishment. Then if there's no father, there's
no godly admonition. Now, this word, admonition, is
a big word. It just means encouragement to
do right. You fathers, provoke not your
children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and in
the admonition of the Lord. Encourage them on the standards
that the Lord has to do what's right But if there's no father
there is no godly admonition No father. There's no sureness
of well-being the scripture says honor your father. Look at this
that it might be well with thee. Oh Lessons learned in home or
not learned, will carry over to all other relationships, whether
it be on the job or any other enterprise. They're learned in
the home. No father, no well-being. No father, there's no long life.
Scripture says, honor thy father, look at this, that thou mayest
live long. Proper family relationship give
a level of being disease-free. It can come from no other source.
No father, no long life. And then if there's no father,
there's no shepherd. And I want to conclude with this
one because I want you to catch this now. Because when Jesus
saw the multitudes, he was moved with compassion on them. Here's
why. Because they were scattered abroad
as sheep having no shepherd. Can you imagine that? No shepherd. No leader, and now literally
millions of children, millions of children are trying
to live life without ever having had a leader, a father in the
home. This is a tragedy. Now what we want to do, having
learned the 25 consequences when there's no father, is we want
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Fathering 02 The Consequences of No Father in the Home
Series Fathering Series
| Sermon ID | 51822205274628 |
| Duration | 16:03 |
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| Category | Sunday Service |
| Language | English |
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