Proverbs 19.13 says, a foolish
son is the calamity of his father, and the contentions of a wife
are a continual dropping. The first half of this proverb
hits home for me and a lot of other men who weren't good sons
while underaged and living at home especially. I've told some
stories through the years, but I've been very selective and
really quite reserved when talking about my life before being saved.
I don't want to sound like I'm glorifying my sinful past or
trying to get attention as one of those, look how bad I was,
exhibitionists that we've seen so many times through the years.
But I also want to be as transparent as possible so that other sinners
can know that God saves the worst of sinners and did so whenever
he saved me from my sin. No matter how sinful your sin
may seem to be, The blood of Jesus is more than sufficient
to wash that sin away and save you from hell. So if you see
yourself in this text when it says a foolish son is the calamity
of his father, you're not alone. My father died in March of this
year that this devotional is being recorded, the year 2024.
He was 80 years old. I all but ruined several years
of his life 30 some years ago. And he would admit that he wasn't
perfect. He made mistakes as a father,
but my actions were way beyond anything that any decent son
would do to his father. And yet when I got saved and
made things right with my heavenly father, I then approached my
earthly father and found forgiveness from him as well. Of course,
he was a born again Christian. So this is a warning to men,
young and old, not to be foolish and bring calamity onto your
father's head. But we also want to remind sons
that there is forgiveness with repentance and confession of
sin made to your Heavenly Father by faith in the shed blood of
Jesus Christ. 1 John 1.9 says if we confess
our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and
to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. But this is also a reminder to
fathers of sons who have demonstrated such foolishness, never forget
that you were once a sinner too. If you're a Christian father,
then your response to repentance and confession by a wayward son
should be in line with that of your heavenly father. And if
your son gets saved and comes to you with a broken and contrite
spirit of repentance, then we're commanded of Christ in Luke 17
3, take heed to yourselves. If thy brother trespass against
thee, rebuke him. And if he repent, forgive him. And of course, this is really
true across the board, especially, as I said, for Christians. It's
true for mothers and sons, fathers and daughters, mothers and daughters,
and really anyone who may have brought calamity upon you or
anyone else claiming to be a Christian. We're reminded again in the next
verse, Luke 17, four, And if he trespass against thee seven
times in a day, and seven times in a day, turn again to thee
saying, I repent. Thou shalt forgive him. Now,
true repentance means that you're not forgiving them for the same
exact sin over and over and over seven times a day. But no matter
how many sins, we should respond to repentance with forgiveness. And we're reminded of that over
and over in scripture. Who are we not to forgive? That's basically what my dad
said when I made things right with our heavenly father and
then made things right with him. He said, I'm a sinner. Who am
I to say that I wouldn't forgive my son? And Ephesians 4.32 reminds
us, And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one
another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you. God is
so gracious. Let us be gracious after His
example in His name and for His glory. And we say, Amen.
Some of us were foolish sons. Some of us have been father's facing such a calamity. All of us are sinners and should demonstrate repentance and grace, no matter where we find ourselves in this context...