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so so You. you you you you You. so You may be seated. On behalf of the family, I want
to thank each of you for being here today. Your presence means
so much. There's been a real outpouring
of love and support for Bill and the boys and the family.
And it's a testimony of how much Phyllis was loved and the influence
that she had, not only in her family, but here in our church
and in the community. We're here to celebrate her life,
but we're also here to worship the Lord, the God who gave Phyllis
life and saved her by His grace and blessed her the way He did.
We confess that these are not easy
times. The elders have talked among
ourselves recently of the number of saints God has called
away from us. The challenge that that brings
to the church, the sorrowing and the grieving, and the lessons
that God has for us in those home goings. But there's another
aspect to it that's special in concern as far as
elders. There's a number of men here
that are pastors. of churches, missionaries, so
that they would understand this. Paul, writing to the elders,
the Ephesian elders, said, take heed over the flock of God, the
shepherd, the church of God, which he purchased with his blood. Well, Phyllis was one of God's
sheep, purchased by the blood of the Lord Jesus Christ. And
she was given to us as a charge to take care of her, to feed
her, protect her. And we loved this sister, loved
her fellowship, loved what she added to our church. But it's a burden as an under
shepherd to be faithful to that charge. And to know that we have
cared for her, and fed her, and protected her, and she is now
in God's sheepfold safely in heaven. There's some relief to
that. Because that's what we desire for all of the sheep that
God has entrusted to us. And her being one of them. We need the Lord. We need His
help today. And He's promised to be with us. And we need to
look to Him. So I'll ask every believing heart
to join me around the throne of grace as we ask God's help
and presence here today. Father, we thank you for the
life of Phyllis Kephart. We love this dear sister. We
thank you for what you have shown us through her life as she endured
suffering. And the sweetness in which she
carried herself for her love for Christ and her love for the
church and her love for family. And Lord, we do confess that
we already miss her, but we rejoice that she is with you and that
her suffering is behind her. And those things that she embraced
by faith on this earth have now been enjoyed and realized in
your presence. And we thank you that to be absent
from the body is indeed to be present with the Lord. And Lord,
we also confess that There's an admixture of emotion for the
joy we have for where she is and for the gladness that fills
our hearts to know that she is where she has longed to be and
where every born-again, blood-bought child of God longs to be. And
yet with that, gladness comes a separation from
earthly loved ones of husband and sons and daughter-in-laws
and sisters and brothers and parents and that's just difficult
for us and we confess that and we ask that you would minister
to us in our sorrowing and our grieving and we thank you even
as we're going to sing in a moment about Peace. Peace that can fill our hearts.
Peace that passes understanding can be granted to us even in
the midst of sea billows rolling and tempests and storms. So Lord, as we sing together
in worship to you and affirm truths that we know and believe
and were precious to Phyllis, use those things to minister
grace to us and to minister comfort to us. And Lord, as words are
shared here, family remembrances and scriptures are read and a
message is brought that you would use all of those things for our
good and for your glory. Hear us, we pray, for Jesus'
sake. Amen. Take your hymnal, if you would,
in front of you and turn to 371. 371. And stand with me as we
sing this together. you With my soul. It is well. It is well. With my soul. With my soul. It is well. It is well. In His name, in His name, in
His name, in His name. From this glorious song I sing
and glorify God the Lord. It is well in my soul, in my soul. It is well, it is well in my
soul. Lord, listen here, and my faith
shall It is well with my soul. It is well. It is well. With my soul. With my soul. It is well. It is well. With my soul. You may be seated. Part of my responsibilities at
Beacon is to visit folks in the hospital and shut-ins. And when
you do that on a consistent basis, you come to learn more about
the people. You come to love them in a special
way. And I certainly learned to love Phyllis in a special
way. When I asked Dr. Kephart if there was anything
in particular that he'd like me to share with you today, he
told me to share some of my personal experiences with Phyllis. The
long, drawn-out drama that has unfolded before our eyes in the
Kephart family has impacted all who knew them and know them.
We've seen the steady faithfulness of Bill and the perseverance
of Phyllis through occasional mountaintops and increasingly
more valleys. Their journey has been instructive
and it's been inspirational for us all. Did they struggle privately
during the many hospital stays and rounds of rehab? To be sure,
they did, like all of us would. But anyone at Beacon who observed
Bill and the boys bringing Phyllis to church whenever she could
come, had to be prompted to praise God for their testimony. When
I told Phyllis this, she responded, do you really think so? Yes,
indeed, Phyllis, I really think so. Bill, like Phyllis, you and
your family are to be commended for your faithfulness. It's our
prayer that you're resting in the assurance that your dear
wife is beyond the struggles Beyond the uncertainties and
the fears, she's rejoicing in the presence of Christ. Psalm
61 was written by David, and I've shared it with Phyllis on
numerous occasions. David wrote, hear my cry, oh
God, attend to my prayer. From the end of the earth, I
will cry to you. When my heart is overwhelmed, lead me to the
rock that is higher than I. For you have been a shelter for
me. a strong tower from the enemy. I will abide in your tabernacle
forever. I will trust in the shelter of
your wings, Selah. For you, O God, have heard my
vows. You have given me the heritage
of those who fear your name." Folks, there can be no doubt
that Phyllis found her stability in her relationship with the
Lord Jesus Christ. And yet she needed the sense
of God's abiding presence every day as all Christians do. When
I reflect back on the times that I visited her at the hospital
or in rehab, the thought of ocean waves comes to my mind. There
were desperate times when the waves of MS crashed hard against
her and Phyllis ended up in intensive care, either unresponsive or
overwhelmed. There were other times at rehab
when the ebb and flow of MS seemed less threatening, but it seemed
endless by her own admission. During those times, she fought
being despondent. She would greet me with a faint
smile that seemed to say, here we go again. In times like those,
every Christian experiences the truth of Romans 8, 26. Likewise,
the spirit also helps in our weaknesses, for we do not know
what we should pray for as we ought. But the spirit himself
makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.
it all comes down to clinging to the rock Christ Jesus. Henry
March beautifully described the ebb and flow of God's providence
in a way that I believe was true of Phyllis. Deep to deep, incessant
calling, tossed by furious tempest roll, endless waves and billows
falling, overwhelm my feigning soul. Yet, I see a power presiding
amidst the tumult of the storm, ever ruling, ever guiding, love's
intentions to perform. Yes, mid sorrows most distressing,
faith considers thy design, humbly bowing and confessing all the
waves and billows thine. The homegoing of believers who
have suffered long can seem like a severe mercy. On the one hand,
there's sorrow of temporary separation. But on the other hand, there's
the gratitude and relief of knowing that our loved one is free from
all worry and pain. Bill, family members, to be sure
if Phyllis can sing as never before, it is well, it is well
with my soul. We're going to hear some family
remembrances, first from Bill and Phyllis' oldest son, Bill
Kephart III, and then Phyllis' brother, Roger Parrott. who was
a missionary to Hong Kong. He will come and share some remembrances,
but first we'll hear from Bill. Well, I appreciate modern medicine
and its ability to give us more time with my mom. One of the
unfortunate side effects of it is that it tends to draw out
what may have previously only lasted a few months or days over
years. And that had a severe effect
on my mom and my family. We watched her systematically
lose all of her physical abilities, almost all of them. And in the
later years, some of her mental ability as well. She went through
the last portion of her life, sometimes in a sleepy haze, cycling
in and out of lucidity. And although we are sad to see her
go, I think we can all agree that
it's better that she's not suffering anymore. Even though we can let her disease
completely define her, that was only a major part of the last
years of her life. There was a lot more to my mom
than that disease. I watched her in my younger years.
be a servant. That was her role to our family.
She served the family. She supported us in everything
we did. Any success that I have had or will have is at least
in large part due to my mom. She made me who I am, for better
or worse. I remember so many times when
she saved me from the impending consequences of my own forgetfulness. And I'd call her at school and
say, hey mom, I forgot my trombone for band. Can you bring it to
me? Hey mom, I forgot my lunch. Can you bring it to me? Hey mom,
I forgot my homework. And she was never upset. She'd say, Billy, why do you
always do this? But she was never upset to help
me or any of her sons. That's what she enjoyed doing. It was her greatest joy in life
to see us succeed. And she definitely made that
happen. I thought about what I was going
to say today, and there's no way I could adequately cover
an entire life in three to five minutes, so I'm just going to
try to share a few good memories. It's in no way going to completely
give her what she deserves. This will probably say more about
me than it does anyone else, but I remember, I'm not sure
if Dad remembers this, We were talking over dinner about solving
a system of equations that I had for a math bonus problem in Algebra
1. And we had gone through it in
every way that we could possibly think of for about half an hour.
And suddenly my mom chimes in with
the answer. At first, my response was outright
denial. No, there's no way that you could
have figured out what my dad just spent all this time going
over. But as I thought about it, I
realized she was right. And I went into class the next
day and turned in the answer and everyone was amazed. I was
the only person in the class to get it right. And that was
when I realized my mom was really smart too. I remember her bringing us to
school every day. I remember her coming to my soccer
games. I remember her coming to all
the extracurriculars that all of me and my brothers did, driving
us nonstop. it was a pain to see her lose
the ability to do what she had joy doing. Because she loved
being there for us. She loved serving us. She loved
helping us succeed. And she had to go from being
the backbone of the entire family to being the one that had to
rely on everyone for support. And that was really difficult
for her. But I will give her, I respect her very much for never,
I never heard her renounce her faith, even question it. I never
heard her waver. She never questioned God and that is That blows my mind. That's amazing
to me. So whatever I may believe, I
certainly respect that. Like I said, there's no way I
can give her justice. So I just would like to leave
everyone with the impression that she made me who I am. And
I thank her for everything she did for me. I'm going to try to give some
memories from an earlier time. Because Phyllis was the one in my family
that was closest in age to me, obviously one year apart to the
very day. And so kind of everybody assumes that you're going to
be really close when that's the case, you know. Sad to say, growing up, that
wasn't the case. We kind of fought a lot. I thought of saying we were kind
of like cats and dogs, but I think it was more like two cats in
a bag. We didn't get along very well for
many, many years. And then something changed, and
that was that the Lord came. When my sister and my older brother
got saved and my brother came and led me to Christ, God changed my heart toward my
sister. And to be honest, the first thing
I thought of was I got to go talk to her after I got saved. I suppose I was stupid enough
just to think that that's all it would take, because that was
all it took. I went and talked with her and told her what I
had learned from my brother. We had grown up in a church that
didn't believe the Bible, and thinking that, like most churches
like that, all we had to do was just try to be good. And as long
as we were good, and we were in church trying to follow the
whatever the church did and making sure we were involved in everything
that that was good enough and we could hope our way into heaven
we hoped and I talked with her and told her that you know found
out that's just not from the Bible you know it's not by works
of righteousness that we're saved but by his mercy and shared with
her the gospel, and God changed her heart too, and she got saved.
And the thing that happened after that is that all of a sudden,
we decided we liked each other. I enjoyed hanging around with
her. That final year in my high school, I enjoyed hanging around
with her and her boyfriend and my girlfriend. We were kind of
a foursome for a while. It wasn't Bill, sorry to say,
Bill. It was another guy, but he dropped
away before she came to college. I went off to college at BJU
the first year and missed her. And then she came the second
year and that was kind of neat. Getting to know my sister, we
got to do a lot of things together at the beginning of the year.
And then there was this stinker of a guy that came along named
Bill that took her away right about that time toward the middle
of her freshman year, I think is when you guys met, if I remember
right. I think that's right, at a dinner table. And I happened
to be there and see it happen. I said, oh no, I know what's
going on. And after that, she wasn't interested in being with
me. And when she went places, she wanted to be with him. And
whenever I did see her, all she could talk about is Bill, Bill,
Bill. That was it. That's just the way it was. And
I couldn't get her to give me an intelligent conversation after
that. I felt like that was it, Bill. But it was kind of a neat
thing to see how God brought them together. and brought them
to love each other. We didn't expect that so early
in her time at Bob Jones, I can tell you that. So it was kind
of a neat thing that God did. Because of the fact that I was involved in talking with
her getting to know her after she got saved and sharing the
gospel with her when she got saved, I just felt like, you
know, as I found out the morning after she passed away, my mom
called me and I had just gotten in the car to drive to a mission
conference up near Hampton, Virginia with my son and my daughter.
All the way there, I'm thinking about, you know, about my sister. One of the things that occurred
to me, you know, is that because I know she was saved, I saw her
get saved, and talked with her and knew how much she loved the
Lord. I thought over and over again,
you know, yeah, she died, but for us, death is not so bad as
for some people. For us, as Christians, it's just
a temporary parting. Because the Lord's coming back
and we'll see her again. And we'll be with her forever.
And that's something I look forward to. And I also thought, you know,
death is, the Bible says precious in the sight of the Lord is the
death of one of his saints. It's a precious home going. She's
not, um, She's not sad that she's not here. I know that. We're sad, but she's
not sad at all because she's home. And last thing I thought
of, and it's been said already, is the sense that her death is,
I think, a blessed release. from all the pain and suffering,
difficulty she went through, because the Bible says now, she
has a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. And she
has a body that's not racked with pain like it was. I know, I think, as her brother,
I feel a need to speak for her. You know, the Bible, there's
only one story in the Bible that Jesus told in which we see people
in heaven and people in hell. And in that story, it's interesting,
they're both are very interested in seeing the people back on
earth saved in that story. And they're talking about how
they can get saved. And I thought, I think I need
to talk for my sister here, because I'm sure that's what she's concerned
about right now. She's not concerned about herself,
she's concerned about us. And I know Phyllis's heart was
to see all her family, all her relatives, all her friends come
to know the Lord. And I think that, I'll just say
this, I've already shared a little bit about how we were brought
to Christ and we realized that all our works were filthy rags
and weren't worth even talking about and getting saved and that
we needed to trust in the Lord. And I just want to say this,
that if you're not saved, I think I speak for her. I can say for
sure, the best gift you could give her is to believe in the
Lord and get saved. I'd like for you, if you have
your Bible, to turn to the book of Job. Job chapter 19. I want to look
at just three verses there. This passage, I think, helps
answer a question. And that question is, what gave
purpose and meaning and stability to Phyllis in the uncertainties
of life, in the throes of her daily battle with MS, and the
challenges and the limitations the disease brought upon her. In part, 2 Timothy 1 and verse
12 helps us to know how she did endure and how she did that so
well, how she maintained a consistency, a faithfulness. Paul writes,
for this reason, I also suffer these things. Nevertheless, I
am not ashamed, for I know whom I have believed and am persuaded
that he is able to keep what I have committed to him until
that day." God kept Phyllis Kephart in the
faith. He sustained her through the
ebbs and flows of life and through some very challenging times. As we look at Job chapter 19,
verses 25, 26, and 27, I want to speak to you about four aspects
of God honoring faith. Four aspects of God honoring
faith. And we have a definition from the writer of Hebrews of
faith, that faith is the substance of things hoped for. So faith
isn't just a leap in the dark. There's substance to our faith. It's the substance of things
hoped for. And not hoped for like we hope
it doesn't rain in a little while when we go to the cemetery or
I hope it doesn't, this happened to spoil this plan or that plan
I have. Biblical hope is defined this
way. It is a confident, assurance
or expectation of an absolute certain future reality. There's
no wishful thinking tied to biblical hope. Faith is a substance of
things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. Our faith
stands up to scrutiny. It can be examined, and when
it's examined, there is evidence that supports it. One of the strongest evidences,
in my opinion, concerning Phyllis's life is something that was brought
out in John Newton. Some of our folks are reading
Jewels of John Newton. It's a devotional book. And on
Thursday, John Newton said this, He's referring to Philippians
chapter one and verse 27. To you it is given not only to
believe in Jesus, but to suffer for his sake. And that was true
of Phyllis. He goes on to say, when he enables
us to bear affliction with due submission and patience, he is
glorified. Then his grace and power are
manifested in us. It provides a proof that our
religion is not merely notional, but that there is power and reality
in it. And the Lord's people are encouraged
by what they see of his faithfulness to others. And this church benefited from
Phyllis's suffering more than she knows. God manifested His grace in her
life and we're the beneficiaries of it. But back to Job chapter 19, four
aspects of God honoring faith. I want to show you the certainty
of faith, the possession of faith, the foundation of faith, and
the expectation of faith. The certainty of faith. Job says,
in verse 25, Job says, in verse 25, Job says, in verse 25, Job
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25, Job says, in verse 25, Job says, in verse 25, Job says, in verse 25, Job
says, in verse 25, Job says, in verse 25, Job says, in verse 25, Job says, in verse 25, Job says, in verse 25, Job
says, in verse 25, Job says, in verse 25, Job says, in verse
25, And what did he know? He knew in the midst of all of
his confusion, of trying to make sense of his life, that the only
place to make sense of life is having a vertical orientation. Job is a fascinating study. God said some things about him
that you'll be hard-pressed to find him saying about anybody
else. God said this about Job as he
confronted Satan and said, "'Have you considered My servant Job,
"'that there is none like him on the earth, "'a blameless and
an upright man, "'one who fears God and shuns evil?' Now, no
man said that about this man, Job. God Himself said that about
this man, Job. Therefore, what God said about
him had to be true. But despite the fact that God
said that about him, What do we see going on in Job's life
as the result of losing what? Family, and fortune, and friends,
and then his health. Friends come to console him and
to minister to him, and through those friends, he sustains harsh
criticism and false accusation. Job chapter 19 and verse 6, Job
says, God has wronged me. Verse 8, he says, He has set
darkness in my paths. Verse 10, he says, My hope He
has uprooted like a tree. He has also kindled His wrath
against me. Verse 13 he says, He has removed
my brothers far from me, and my acquaintances are completely
estranged from me. Verse 14 he says, My relatives
have failed, and my close friends have forgotten me. He says in
verse 19, All my close friends abhor me, and those who I love
have turned against me. Verse 20 he says, My bones cling
to my skin and to my flesh, and I have escaped by the skin of
my teeth. He says in verse 21, O you, my
friends, for the hand of God has struck me, why do you persecute
me as God does? Now, we may have a hard time
reconciling those words of Job with what God said about him
in chapter 1. That's the same man. The Bible
gives some raw honesty about the challenges that come to our
faith. And Job's faith was being sorely
tested. But in spite of everything that
he says, he comes to this conclusion. There's a certainty about his
faith. I know one thing. I know God. I know Him and He knows me. And
I may not understand what's happening to me. In fact, I can't make
sense out of what's happening to me. But I don't need to know except
to know that He knows. And that's what he says over
in Job chapter 23 and verse 10. But he knows the way that I take. When he has tested me, I shall
come forth as gold. And that's why there was a certainty
about his faith, because his faith wasn't dependent on him
knowing why God was doing what he was doing. He bowed to God's
sovereign rule and right. And even though he doesn't say
it this way, we see in his life, he was basically saying whatever
the Lord ordains is right. I bow, I submit, I surrender,
I yield. It's a great confession of faith
that he makes there in chapter 23 and verse 10. He knows the
way that I take. He knows what's happening to
me. I don't need to know what's happening to me. I want to know
what's happening to me, but I don't know, but He does know. And not
only does He know what's happening to me, Job says, when He has
tested me. God has planned what's happening
to me. Now, I may not understand that
either. But God knows what's happening
to me. God has planned what's happening to me. And number three,
He says God has a sanctifying purpose in what's happening to
me. When He has tested me, I shall
come forth as gold. Gold. So what helped Job? Why did he
have a certainty about his faith? Because he had a vertical orientation.
He yielded to God. And we saw this wonderfully demonstrated
and manifested in Phyllis's life. I marvel just how God manifested
that last Lord's Day. Bill and some of his family went
to Florida on vacation, drove down there, drove back, spent
a long week in Florida. For any of us, that's tiring.
Sunday morning, Phyllis is right down here. Sunday school, she's
in her place. Sunday night, she's right here.
There was a certainty about her faith. She wasn't shaken. Sure,
she had questions. Sure, she wondered from time
to time. Sure, there was dark clouds that engulfed her from
time to time. But there was a certainty about
her faith. But not only do I see a certainty about Job's faith,
and speaking of Phyllis' faith as well, but I see the possession
of faith. Notice what Job says. He says,
for I know that my Redeemer lives. My Redeemer. Job didn't say, I know my wife's
Redeemer lives, my parents' Redeemer lives, my grandfather's Redeemer
lives. No, I know that my redeemer lives. We love to sing here, I am his
and he is mine. There's no greater assurance.
There is nothing that will stay us in our earthly pilgrimage
like that to know that he is my redeemer. He's redeemed me
at the cost of the blood of His own Son. Therefore, my life does
not belong to me. My life belongs to Him. And it's
not for me to tell God what my life should look like, but for
me to surrender to His sovereign script. And that's what Phyllis
did without complaint, without bitterness. Martin Luther said the meat of
the gospel is found in the pronouns. My redeemer, my redeemer. I must stop and ask this question.
Are you a possessor? Or are you a professor? Or maybe
not even a professor. The benefits of Christ are for
his redeemed. Can you say that this afternoon
or this morning? Is he your Redeemer? Can you
say, my Redeemer? That was the bedrock of Phyllis'
faith. There was a certainty about her
faith. There was a possession about her faith. But not only that, what else
do we see? We see the foundation of faith.
What is the foundation of faith? For I know that my Redeemer does
what? He lives! He lives! And were it not for that fact,
if it were not for the resurrection, our faith would be meaningless. Paul says in 1 Corinthians 15
verse 14, if Christ is not risen, then our preaching is empty and
our faith is also empty. Verse 17 of that same chapter,
he says, if Christ is not risen, your faith is futile and you
are still in your sins. Verse 19, he says, if in this
life only we have hope in Christ, we are of all men to be saved.
Pitied. No, the foundation of our faith
is that Christ lives. And because He lives, we shall
live also. Phyllis, her life didn't end. She just changed addresses. She's
more alive today than she's ever been. And only because her faith was
in a risen Redeemer who conquered sin, death, and the grave. So the certainty of faith, and
the possession of faith, and the foundation of faith. But
there's more. There is the expectation of faith.
Listen to what Job says. He says, For I know that my Redeemer
lives, and He shall stand at last on the earth. And after
my skin is destroyed, this I know, that in my flesh I shall see
God, whom I shall see for myself,
and not my eye, and my eye shall behold, and not another. There
was an expectation about Job's faith. And we say, well, how is that even possible? The
book of Job is one of the earliest books given to us. Job lived
many, many, many, many, many years before Christ coming to
this earth. And he's talking about a Redeemer
that had not yet come. Well, he's speaking of faith
on the promises of God. There was promises of a Redeemer
all the way back in Genesis, and Job laid hold of that. Obviously God revealed this to
him, and God granted him faith to believe it. But if Job, who
lived on that side of Calvary in redemptive history, and those
of us who live on this side, who not only are looking and
hoping for a Redeemer to come, we're looking back at a Redeemer
who did come, who lived the life we didn't live, who died the
death we deserve to die, and rose victorious over the grave,
and has ascended. He's risen. And there's this
hope that the believer has. It's an expectant hope. and expectant
faith. Last Saturday in this very place,
as we gathered to worship the Lord and remember the life of
Jerry Jarrell, we sang a song congregationally together of
his choosing, face to face, and the words say this, face to face
with Christ my Savior, face to face what will it be? When with
rapture I behold him, Jesus Christ who died for me. What will it be? What will it
be? Oh, if we could ask Phyllis. Not a hope to her. It's a reality
to her. Oh, Phyllis, what is it like? Oh, to look into the one who
bought you, redeemed you, saved you by his grace. what rejoicing
in his presence, when are banished grief and pain, when the crooked
ways are straightened and the dark things shall be plain. Face to face, I shall behold
him far beyond the starry sky, face to face in all his glory. I shall see him by and by." Of all the reasons why Phyllis
wouldn't want to come back, there it is right there. She is enthralled. She is engulfed. She is preoccupied
with her Redeemer, whom she longed to see with believing
eye and faith. Faith has given way to sight. So from Job we learn about the
certainty of faith and the possession of faith and the foundation of
faith and the expectation of faith. And may God cause these words to linger with
us and to bear fruit in our hearts and lives as those of us who are redeemed and knew our sister
as a sister in Christ. We're longing to be where she
is. She has finished the race. She finished it a bit ahead of
some of us. All of us, really. She finished
ahead of all of us. Some of us aren't too far behind
her. But God was with her all the
way. And there's uncertainty, isn't
there? I think of how fragile our faith can be at times. And
particularly when the path that God has laid out for us involves
struggle and suffering and difficulty like the last third of her life
has been. When you realize God has us bookend,
what do I mean by that? Well, we sing John Newton's famous
hymn, Amazing Grace. Time to think of the stanza.
Through many dangers, toils and snares, we have already come. Tis what? Grace. has led me safe
thus far, and grace will lead me home." So we have grace that
has led us and will lead us. And then David could say in Psalm
23, in the very last, goodness and mercy shall follow me all
the days of our life. Now think about that. We're heading
to glory. How are we going to get there?
What confidence do we have we're going to get there? Well, grace
is leading us. Grace has led us all the way
through every trial, through every difficulty. And goodness
and mercy are following us. How are you going to get lost?
Phyllis didn't get lost. The Lord led her all the way,
didn't he? We sang on a Wednesday night
here just a week or so ago. And this song was sung from this
very podium within the last week. In shady green pastures, so rich
and so sweet, God leads his dear children along and says, that's
what I want. I want green pastures. I want rich and I want it sweet.
That's what I want. Where the water's cool flow bays
the weary one's feet, sounds like paradise to me. Now, stanza
two says, sometimes on the mount where the sun shines so bright,
God leads his dear children along. Sometimes in the valley, in darkest
of night, God leads his dear children along. And then the
refrain, some through the waters, some through the flood, some
through the fire, but all through the blood, some through great
sorrows, but God gives a song. God gives a song. There was a song in Phyllis'
heart when she gathered with the saints. She'd be down here,
joining her voice with the voices of her brothers and sisters,
singing the songs of Zion, affirming her faith, confessing her faith
in God and in Christ. And she has taken her place with her Redeemer. And we are
very, very happy for her. Shall we pray? Our Father today, we are thankful for Phyllis May
Parrott Kephart. We're grateful for her testimony
of believing faith We thank you that she had a certain faith,
that she had a possessing faith and a faith with foundation,
and she had an expectant faith. And that faith that was a consistent
witness manifested through a godly life. We thank you for her influence
upon her family, upon her friends, upon this church and upon all
who knew her. And Lord, we rejoice at her gain
and we grieve our loss. We ask that every grieving heart
might know your comforting presence today, that we would know your
perfect peace. We thank you for promises that
you have made, that you will keep him in perfect peace, whose
mind is stayed on thee because he trusteth in thee. Lord, today
we are reminded of the brevity of life. Help us to live each
day with gratitude for your blessings. With deep commitment to Jesus
Christ and with vibrant hope of eternal life through faith
in him. Help us today in our sorrowing
and in our sadness. And help us to remember that
weeping may endure for a night. but joy comes in the morning. We pray in Jesus' name. Amen. I guess we want to sing another
hymn before we close. If you'll look with me, What's the hymn, brother? 462?
462. 462, let's stand and sing. you ♪ And I will be God ♪ ♪ And as
I hear the poor man's empty praise ♪ ♪ How I hear their praises loud and o'er the air ♪ ♪ O my vict'ry cry ♪ ♪ May I meet
heaven's eyes ♪ ♪ On my death's side ♪ ♪ God of my own heart
♪ ♪ I am your equal ♪ ♪ Still be my vision ♪ ♪ My hope and my
guide ♪ Shall we pray? Now may goodness and mercy follow
us the remainder of this day, next week, next month, yea, all
the days of our life. And may, by your good pleasure,
gather us all together to dwell with you forever and ever, I
pray in Jesus' name, amen. and and so
Phyllis Perrott Kephart Funeral Service
| Sermon ID | 42917132550 |
| Duration | 1:06:30 |
| Date | |
| Category | Funeral Service |
| Bible Text | Job 19:25-27 |
| Language | English |
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