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Good to have you this morning.
We're going to be continuing on. Pastor Tim taught last Sunday,
and we'll be carrying on with the issue on the family. And
I just want you to know that after he said that we were not
perfect parents, how dare him say we were not perfect parents,
that this morning I'm getting even. But let's go ahead and ask God's
blessing upon this anyway, OK? Let's bow for prayer. Our Father,
we are so grateful for your word, for we know that the essence
of all family dysfunction can be corrected through obedience
to the word of God. I ask, Father, that you would
bless us in these weeks ahead as we look to the condition of
society, as well as looking to the remedy for where we are going
as a civilization. So, Father, I ask you to bless
us as we begin to look at the foundation of family and pray
that you will just bless our time together in these weeks
ahead. Thank you for our time. In Jesus' precious name, Amen. Well, as far as getting even
goes, I'll just start with this. You're with somebody shut that
door there. Oh, OK, you got somebody coming
in. Great. It helps a little bit if the door shut. I think
Pastor Tim, little Timmy was probably seven or eight. Well, obviously, he was seven
or eight at one time, maybe nine. But anyway, we gave as parents
often do give our children multivitamins. So we gave him Micah multivitamin,
Tim a multivitamin. And so we didn't think any more
about it. And we saw him, we gave it to
him there in the kitchen and they took the vitamin. Well,
what we didn't know was his little Timmy was going over to the bathroom
and spitting it out in the toilet. And he flushed it. So I don't
know how long this is going on. Well, one day when I went in
there to answer the phone, I saw it. He forgot to flush it. Lo and behold, we had a problem
for about a day. So we sat Mike and Tim both down
and we said, now, who did it? Neither would admit it. And this
is the first time that determined, you know, we're looking at two
boys. One of them we know is guilty. There is no doubt about one of
them is guilty. And in case you didn't know, your pastor's a
stubborn little boy. Well, he did repent by the end
of the day and everything was good. I've got a lot more, so
we'll just let that go for right now. I entitled this today assault
on the family, which we'll be talking about and looking at
that, but probably it also should be called the foundation of the
family because the family is not man's idea. The family was
God's idea. God created the family. And he
is the one who loves the family dearly, as I think you will see.
So we probably should say that. I also want to give a warning,
not a warning, but I mean, I just want to explain to you that honestly,
you need to understand that probably what you're going to hear in
the next weeks is counterculture. It will not be, well, it won't
be politically correct, but it will also be going upstream against
the culture. But we have to understand that
I don't really make any apologies for that, because if I go back
to, say, the 1950s and I see where things have gone. What I do understand, though,
after him talking first about self-esteem, and we got all these
things now, we got all this psychologizing of our kids, we got all of this,
oh no, you don't discipline your kids, it's harmful, you go on
and on. We have all of these things happening, but I just
want to remind you that God's Word doesn't change, it's the
same. It was the same in 1950, and it's the same now. So I know
I'm going contrary to the culture. Proverbs chapter 3 verse 33 says
this, the Lord blesses the home of the righteous. The Lord blesses the home of
the righteous. That's beautiful. It's been said
that the nearest thing to heaven on this earth is the home where
husband and wife and children, parents, all are living in love
and peace and harmony for the Lord Jesus Christ. And it's also
been said that the nearest thing to hell on earth is an ungodly
home, damaged by sin, divorce, quarreling, bickering, alcoholism,
Abandonment of the children to the devil because of this and
that. All kinds of wickedness. And I think, you know, we get
the point, don't we? We get the point. Now, in the
wisdom of God, the family is the smallest complete unit of
society on earth. And as the family goes, so goes
the nation. And ultimately, the civilization.
No nation has ever risen higher morally, intellectually, or spiritually
than the families of which that nation is composed. If we attack the problems of
society, the problems of dysfunctional families, if we attack this by
combating crime, in hiring more police, we combat violence, it's
all got to begin in the home because if it doesn't, it's really
useless. Because it starts in the home, the basic fabric of
all of society which God has created. Until the homes of our
nation, and that means the parents, the husband and the wife, turn
to faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, our country will continue to
deteriorate morally. The home is the building block
of society. And so when we see now the increase
of dysfunctional families, we understand that this building
block of society, blocks are being taken out. You see? And once enough blocks are taken
out of the foundation, it will crumble. And we are in a perilous
situation today. That's why We battle, that's
why we teach truth, that's why we have church, that's why we
preach the gospel, because these are the answers to the problems
that God gives. A while back, I had a sermon
entitled, from Psalm 11-3, when the foundations are destroyed,
what can the righteous do? Good question, because today,
society is morally bankrupt, and I don't need to go on and
on and tell you that. We can talk about a husband,
a wife, parents' responsibilities, children's responsibilities.
We can go on and on in that, but I want to say this. If we
are not right with our God, those things are useless and meaningless,
probably much like what Solomon said, vanity all is vanity. Because it comes back to the
point that it's the Bible that has the answers. And we have
a responsibility to know what those answers are by knowing
his word and knowing our God. I want to illustrate this in
just a minute from the Ten Commandments. But I want to explain, first
of all, I want to talk about three institutions that are entwined
together. And there's a reason why God
did it. First of all, government. When you look at such passages
as Genesis 9, 5 and 6, and then you look at Romans 13, we realize
from both Old and New Testament that God has designed government. God clearly established government
for the prevention of chaos, which, of course, is for the
protection of the family. God had the family in mind when
he created government. OK, it's for the protection of
the family, that integral part of society that is necessary. All right. We also know the church,
Acts chapter two, the body of Christ, God established and has
the body of Christ. We'll talk about the universal
church being all believers. But guess what? That is manifested
locally in the local church. And so the true church of Jesus
Christ is the one that is composed of believers. But that is manifested
as a our little haven, if you will. So that though we believe
that the church, when I talk about universal, the universal
church, it's all believers, whether they're dead or going to be born
in the future or wherever they're at. But we do know that God created
the church for the family. All right. So that brings me
to the next one. All right. Now you've got the family that
precious. It's so close to the heart of
God, and, you know, he established the family structure, which Satan
is trying to destroy. There is no doubt about that.
You can go all the way back to the fall of Genesis three to
note that Satan is out the serpent. He is out to destroy family.
There is no doubt about it. And we will be looking at some
of that. As we look at society now, the
society and the culture in which we live, we see that morally. And actually, many other ways.
We're turned upside down, right has become wrong and wrong has
become right. What is normal has been flipped and is abnormal.
Let me give you just one illustration. We know that the Marriage Act
is being greatly discussed today. The Supreme Court is going to
make a decision on this same sex marriage soon. I don't know
if you also heard a few weeks ago, and maybe I didn't get it
quite right, so you can correct me if I didn't, but it was, I
don't know if you heard this poll, 48 percent, I think it
was female, women I think, Forty-eight percent of women do not want
to marry. They live together. Forty-eight
percent of women are living together without marriage. They are cohabitating
together. Now, what is the irony of this?
What is upside down about this? What are we having today? Gays
want to marry. But guess what? A majority of
heterosexuals don't want to marry. Is that upside down? Biblically? Yeah. It's twisted. It's upside
down. Now, that's just one illustration
because there's a lot more. But God established the family
for the preservation of society. No doubt about that. But more
importantly, for the promotion of the redemption of mankind. He uses the family to pass on
the knowledge of God and his word, which contains the gospel. I want you to look with me at
Psalm 78. Psalm 78. I won't spend a lot of time here,
but I want to make sure you understand the emphasis of this. This is
God's heart. In Psalm 78, He relates much
of the history of Israel. Unfortunately, it is the negative
history of Israel, but at the beginning, He establishes how
it's supposed to be. So I want to begin reading in
Psalm 78. I'll just read the first seven verses. Give ear,
O my people, to my law. Incline your ears to the words
of my mouth. I will open my mouth in a parable.
I will utter dark sayings of old, which we have heard and
known and our fathers have told us. We will not hide them from
their children, telling to the generation to come the praises
of the Lord and his strength and his wonderful works that
he has done. For he established a testimony
in Jacob and appointed a law in Israel. which he commanded
our fathers, that they should make them known to their children,
that the generation to come might know them, the children who would
be born, that they may arise and declare them to their children,
that they may set their hope in God." That should be the goal
of every parent. that they may set their children's
hope in God. And it's not easy and it's not
done overnight. And it goes on to say, and not forget the works
of God, but keep his commandments. You see how the perpetuation
of the gospel is brought to the family over and over and over.
But verse 8 says, and may not be like their fathers, a stubborn
and rebellious generation, a generation that did not set its heart aright. And then it goes on, and if you
read the rest of this, you'll see the history of Israel. Up
and down. Paganism. Other gods over and
over, and then they repent and they come back and God has mercy.
And this cycle goes over and over. It's much like the book
of Judges. If you read the book of Judges, you will find that
period of history when man did what was right in his own eyes.
And yet God would be merciful, but then he judged them with
nations. And this cycle goes on and on. Unfortunately, that
is the sad part of Israeli history there. But he set the standard
and that's what we've got to note. That we as parents, as
grandparents, as a single or rather husband and wife together,
they have influence on cousins, children, they may have children
of their own. It's all there folks. That's
what we do is we perpetuate the truth, the gospel through this
means. Now, I think you can see. Okay, so the family promotes
the blessings of society. as well as being the avenue that
God chooses to pass on knowledge about himself and generations.
All right, now he has government established by God for the protection
of society, which is the protection of family. And then you have
the church, the bride of Christ, the local church manifested then
into the local church, and it functions as a haven for the
family. I really feel sorry for dysfunctional
families. For those people who do not have
a church to go to in the midst of the struggles. God designed
the church to be that haven for us, his children. And it is tragic
when people neglect the church. I understand neglecting a church
that does not preach the gospel, that doesn't even have believers
in it. So we're obviously not talking about that kind of a
church, are we? The church I think is a heaven
on earth. It's probably the closest thing,
the church and the family together. And I know many of you have testified
to me how much you love this church. But you know why you
love it? You love it because the people
here, the majority of the people here love to hear the word of
God because our pastor teaches the word of God and because it's
a haven to come together. You all work out there in that
wicked world. We need that shot in the arm. We come together,
we get to visit, we have fellowship. That's beautiful, folks. That's
just the foretaste of heaven. That's what it is. That's why
we need it. Now. The law of Moses, what does
that have in common with what we're talking about? Well, I
want to show that to you now, I'm just going to mention the
Ten Commandments. If you want to turn to Exodus
20, you can, but I'm going to go through them fairly quick. I
want you to understand that the Ten Commandments are divided
in three sections. Most of you probably already
know that. Let's go to the first section. I'm going to read the
first four commandments. Thou shalt have no other gods before
me. Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image. Thou shalt
not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain. Remember the
Sabbath day to keep it holy. All right. What do you notice
about this? It's all dealing with our relationship to God. Our relationship to God. This
is no accident, by the way. This is the word of God. God
always does it right, and he knows what he's doing. Because
your relationship to God is more important than your relationship
to your wife, your children, your pastor, your friends, or
anybody else. That is the single most important
relationship you can possibly have above all others. All right, now let's look at
5, 6, and 7. This is the fifth, sixth, and seventh commandment.
Honor thy father and thy mother. Thou shalt not kill. Thou shalt
not commit adultery. Obviously, those things affect
the family. Respect is what is needed. Children
must respect and honor their father and their mother, or it
hampers and hinders and destroys families. Thou shalt not kill. What do you mean by that? Well,
it means thou shalt not murder. Let me tell you how that happens. I had in a former pastorate,
had a missions board member on my team that killed his wife.
and then attempted to kill his two older daughters and let the
third one, the youngest one, live because she was too young
to know anything. Unfortunately for him, one of
the daughters lived to testify against her father. I remember walking out of the
courthouse when it was all over. And after he confessed to it,
finally, because he was being spared capital punishment. And
he's in prison the rest of his life today. But I remember walking
out of the courthouse and I was with a member of our church. And I was in tears. Because I
said, Satan just disintegrated a family in my church. Murder
destroys families. And this family was like it just
instantly was off the face of the earth. I saw Satan do that
firsthand. All right, so this is pretty
clear now. That that is these things harm family and therefore
family. Look at the next one, eight,
nine and 10. Thou shalt not steal. Thou shalt not bear false witness
against thy neighbor. Thou shalt not covet. OK. It's pretty obvious, isn't it?
Alright, stealing, bearing false witness, coveting, that deals
with people around us, our neighbors, people in our church, society
around us, okay? So we have it for the family
in 5, 6, and 7, now it's society around us. These three deal with
attitudes, practices, and things that our family is involved in
all the time. Your children go to school, we
go to church, we have neighbors, okay? So I want you to understand
that point. But now, here is the point we
must not miss. And that is the order of the
commandments. Remember what I said? The first four? Our relationship to God. Listen.
Our vertical relationship clearly affects our horizontal relationship. Our relationship to God is the
most important thing. It must be right before we have
proper relationships with others. It's critical, folks, not getting
along with people here complaining about our jobs, complaining about
our church, complaining about our spouse, complaining about
this or whatever it is, we're very unhappy. If you're not right
with God, your home life and everything else you do will be
not right either. If you're one of these persons complaining
about everything in life, this is bad, this is bad. I don't
care whether you're a Christian or not a Christian. And you're saying
everything in life. We know people like and maybe
you found yourself in a situation. Nothing is right. Let me tell
you, you're not right with God. It's that simple. That doesn't
mean we don't go through trials. But what I'm saying is your joy
and your happiness comes from God first. and your relationship
with him. And then everything else falls
together. It doesn't mean you won't fail. It doesn't mean sometimes
you won't get discouraged or whatever, but God will bring
you out of it because your relationship to him is right. That is critical,
folks, whether we're talking about spousal relationships or
parenting, either one, it's critical and we must know that. So I want
to start it out like that. I want us to understand even
there in looking at the law of Moses, we see this truth. pointed
out there. All right, it's clear that God
cares for the family. For marriage and for children.
His very law is a reflection of that. Understand, without
a doubt. God can heal any bad home situation. I don't care what it is, and
quite frankly, we should say that there is none of us whose
home is so good that God's impressed, but neither is there anyone here
or any one of us where our home is so bad that God cannot set
it right when we are obedient to Him. And I'm going to say this, because
we'll be talking a little bit more about it later. Fathers,
it starts with you. I don't like being hard on the
man, because then it's hard on me. But Fathers, it begins with
you. We'll talk more about that. I
think it's interesting, the fifth commandment. The fifth commandment,
clearly, honor your father and your mother that your days may
be long in the land which the Lord your God gives you. The
commandment with promise, how beautiful that is. And there
we see it clearly deals with home and parents, of course,
in particular, doesn't it? It means we should look up to
those whom God has entrusted as our authority. as it placed
us over. In other words, we honor, we
obey, and we're grateful for our authorities and our parents
being the first one that we grow up in. The background of this
commandment is to be found in the natural human dislike of
authority. That's why the family is so important
in God's economy. If children are not taught to
respect their parents, but allowed to get away with disobeying and
dishonoring, they will rebel. And worse, if children are allowed
to punch a parent, and I've seen it happen at the grocery store,
you've seen it in places, where children actually slap or hit
their mother, or punch them in the stomach. That is so disgustful. When I
see it, if it's at the grocery store or whatever, it just wants
me to go over and grab that kid and do what she hasn't done.
But I realize I'll end up in jail if I do it. So, you know,
you just sit there and you grit your teeth when you see that.
But folks, okay, my second get-even story. When your pastor, Timmy,
was about two and a half years old, he was at home with mother. I was gone working or playing
or whatever I was doing. I wasn't home. And most of the
time when these, you know, these major things come up, it seems
like the wife's always alone. I don't know why that is. But
anyway, Joyce was there and she had Timmy very close to him and
he raised his hand like he was going to hit her. And so she wisely took his hand,
put him over her knee. Now, he's only two and a half.
She didn't do it when he was 18. OK, but there she put him
over her knee and spanked him until there was pain enough for
him to recognize something wasn't quite right. But this is what
she said to him before she spanked him. She said to me, or maybe
dear, whatever she said, I don't know, but it was very loving,
but firm. I love you too much to let you be abandoned and become
the devil's child. And I will not let you be disobedient
and spanked. And do you know what? He never
raised his hand again because he was taught at a young age.
That means pain. I don't think I want any pain,
but as they get older, it translates into respect. He didn't do it again until yesterday.
He did kind of threaten her with something. He was over it. He
got he was but. You know, when we think about
that time, we really I want you to understand that Joyce won
that battle. You have to understand you're
in a war for your children. And if you don't understand that,
you better first of all understand they're already in a war from
the devil. I'll tell you the most precarious person in the
world today and the most dangerous to be killed by the devil are
children. I have never seen it. I've been reading books about
Sobibor and World War II so much that it just blows my mind how
many children were murdered and killed. And I look today, whether
it's abortion or whatever, children, it's dangerous to be a child.
So we need to understand, parents, that your children are already
in a war. Now you must win the battles of your war with your
child. George and I used to talk about this. We believe that roughly
there are three to four major battles you will have with a
child when they're young and they begin to grow up. And those
battles are usually over probably by, if you're doing your job,
they'll be over by five, six, seven, eight, somewhere around
in there. And they're just major things like this one with Pastor
Tim I just told you about. That was defiance. And you know,
even small children can dig their heels into the sand. Boy, can
they. We know that, don't they? Even
if they can't walk, they can still dig their heels into the
sand. And you don't understand. What's the matter? Everything
was going just great, and all of a sudden, you're so stubborn.
And you just sit back, and you won't do it. You tell them to
do something, they won't do it. Okay. This is a major battle.
This is how we looked at it. Joyce won that battle. We believe
that there are three or four that you'll go through before
you begin to see success as a parent later on down the line. And I
think your goal is when you start. That's why it says parent early.
That's why it says discipline early. That's the whole reason
for it. Because by the time you're 7, 8, 9, 10, most likely you
won't have to spank anymore or it would be rare. OK, so this
is what you want to do. This is where you want. This
is where you want to move. And we'll talk a little bit more about
that later. But I want to understand it's much easier to win this
battle at age three than it is age 10. Or age 13. Or age 60. If you wait that long,
it may be too late for that aspect of it, it's never too late in
the sense that God can always save your children and he can
work in their lives in other ways. Problem is, as parents,
when we don't do our job in the years that God has given us to
proclaim the gospel to them, make them understand what sinners
they are, and what Jesus Christ came to do, and do our job in
discipline to require obedience as the head of the home, then
what happens is God has to take over. And when God takes over,
I'm going to tell you, it's more painful at 21 to be disciplined
by God than it would have been by you as a parent when you're
young. Too often you see that at two and a half, I keep talking
about two and a half, but parents, all they want, of course, this
is the culture. That's why I say we're going against the culture,
but they want to reason with the two and a half. Don't you
know that that'll hurt mommy's tummy? Don't you know that that
will hurt your little brother if you hit him on the head? No,
they don't know. That's why they have you. God
made you the parent. You are in charge and you are
to teach them. You don't reason with a two and
a half year old. He can't reason unless you're
a two and a half year old. Then you can reason, figure out
how a two and a half year old thinks. But if you're not two
and a half, you don't know how they're thinking. And the best
thing you can do is take control of your family and demand obedience
and respect will follow. We have a world today, even in
the Christian world, they always want a reason. They got a reason.
The child needs to know God put you in charge. I am the parent. And in the younger age, you don't
have to give a reason why you demand obedience. That's not
required. God doesn't say you have to do that. Now, it does
come naturally as the child begins to grow a little older. Yes,
as my kids got older or whatever, seven, eight, nine, ten, five,
depending on the situation, you begin to say, now, this is why
certain things, OK, that more will hurt you. OK, there'll be
certain things. But you've got to understand when you've got
a small two year old child, don't try to reason with them. They
don't need that. What they need to know is that
you're the parent. Now, why do I say everything
I'm saying? Listen, if children are not taught to respect their
parents, but allowed to get away with these things, they will
rebel against other forms of authority. If they disobey their
parents and disrespect them, they will disobey the laws of
the state. If they do not respect their parents, they will not
respect their teachers and the teacher will always be at fault.
And unfortunately, The worst is, if they do not honor their
parents, they will not honor God. They have never been taught
to respect authority. Then, God has to take over for
your child. If you are a diligent parent
praying for their salvation, I believe God will answer that
prayer most likely. But you have to understand something.
God is going to take your older child through the woodshed. You
just need to be there to comfort him. Keep telling him about God
and keep doing what you can do. But I'm telling you, he'll come.
That's just, you might say, the laws of nature. Listen, the laws
of God. Let me say it that way. But in
this commandment, we see clearly the need for the discipline of
children, a responsibility which the Bible is explicit. We all
know about Proverbs 22, 6. Train up a child in the way he
should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it. We
basically read that. We think we know what it says.
Later on, I want to unpack that verse. I think you will be surprised
at the depth of the truth of what that's really saying. And
so I do want to share that with you later. Proverbs 19.18 says,
Discipline your son while there is hope. Do not set your heart
on his destruction. Now, we don't set our heart on
their destruction. But if we don't discipline, we
are. It's the same as if we did. And yet I've heard people, I've
heard parents say, I love my child too much to spank him.
I love my child too much. I want to let him have this.
I want to let him play it. I want him to enjoy life. I want mine
to enjoy life too when they're older as well. Anyway, I'm getting
I'm sorry about that. I'm going on here over here.
I got to get back to the center and talk about what we're talking
about. All right. Family. God's will for the family is
clearly established, but it was thwarted by the fall. All right. Genesis, Chapter three. Ultimately,
the serpent. We know the story of the serpent.
And we know the fact that this is the devil, the devil assaults
the families. Turn with me to First Timothy,
Chapter four. First Timothy chapter four. I really appreciate Pastor Kim
last week in. He gave us chapter 3, verse 16.
Remember that verse that says, where Paul says in chapter 1
Timothy 3, 16 or 15, but if I am delayed, I write so that you
may know how you ought to conduct yourself in the house of God,
which is the church of the living God, the pillar and ground of
the truth. And without controversy, there
is a great mystery of godliness goes on about God manifested
in the flesh. The gospel and all that. So here we are. And
Tim explained that, frankly, what we have here, without a
doubt, is the role of the church. We are the pillar. Here's a pillar,
OK? You know what a pillar is? It
supports, right? That's what a pillar does. But
do you know that a pillar won't stand very long if it doesn't
have a foundation? So the ground, the pillar support and ground
is the foundation. The church is the ground. And the pillar, which what? Supports
truth and supports the gospel. That's our goal. Now, keeping
that in mind, that's what the church is supposed to be. Let's
go to chapter 4, verse 1. Now, the Spirit expressly says
in the latter times, some will depart from the faith, giving
heed to deceiving spirits and doctrines of demons. Verse 1 explicitly says that
in the latter times, some will fall away from the faith. It's
an apostasy, yes, in the latter days. But what I want you to
notice, it says deceiving spirits and doctrines of demons. So what does that say? Satan
has a Bible too. Satan has a Bible that he promotes.
There are doctrines and the teachings of demons. And that's what he
does. That is what he is involved in
doing. He has his own Bible. Oh, he knows what God's Word
says. He knows it better than we do. There's no doubt about
it. But he has his own. And it is that Bible that he
is promoting. Okay? Now, question. What is the means
of spreading his Bible doctrines? Look at verse 2. Speaking lies
in hypocrisy. having their own conscience seared
with a hot iron. How do they do it? Speaking lies. Speaking lies and deceiving is
how they spread Satan's doctrine. Speaking lies. They foster and
promote lies. Same sex marriage is one of them.
You can just go on, can't you? There's all kinds of things today
that we are that we are constantly bombarded with and you can see
them and it even affects Christians, unfortunately. And that's sad.
But the devil speaks lies. All right. What then is Satan's
agenda? Let me just kind of phrase it
that way. What is his agenda? Verse three, forbidding to marry. and commanding to abstain from
foods which God created to be received with thanksgiving by
those who believe and know the truth. What is his agenda? In his lies, in his doctrine,
in his Bible that he is spreading is, obviously, forbidding to
marry and abstaining from food. Now, that's interesting, because
you think, well, he spent all his time on debunking the deity of
Christ and switching the gospel, doing whatever he has to do.
You know, here, look what he's doing, forbidding the Mary and
abstaining from foods. Why would he do that? Well, it's
a warning to the church that that's the way it's going to
be in the latter days as they fall from the truth, a departure
from sound doctrine. Accepting unsound doctrine. How
many times have you heard in the last, I don't know, whatever,
ten years? Have you heard that doctrine doesn't matter? Well,
you hear that all the time, don't we? Well, doctrine just doesn't
matter. We just need to love each other. Some shall depart
from the faith. That's a doctrinal apostasy as
well, okay? The philosophy today is, no,
in most churches, hey, man, I'm telling you, doctrine divides.
We need to all come together and love Jesus, and we're going
to unite, and everybody who loves Jesus, we're going to come together.
The only problem is which Jesus. But you remember what Pastor
Tim said just not too long ago, I don't remember, it was last
week. He said that when we compromise with other religions or organizations
that we know are not biblical, truth always suffers. You can't
mix truth with error and come up with truth. Doctrine divides. You know what? They're right.
Doctrine does divide. And do you know what? That's
not negative. That's positive. Because whether doctrine divides
in a family, or divides in a church, or divides anywhere else, it
makes truth come out. Because those who are in truth
pull away from those who are in false. I've seen that happen
in my own family. The Bible's clear about that.
The Gospel divides families. So they're actually right. But,
you know, without doctrine, you don't really have the real Christ.
You don't have you know, you don't have sin. You don't have
hell. You don't have anything else. It's OK. Well, this thing of
doctrines doesn't matter. Here's my point. When you get
into that, we know churches, there's a lot of churches here
right here in Kansas City. Some of us know people will go there. You
know, doctrine doesn't matter. Understand that's from Satan's
Bible. Doctrine doesn't matter, that
is Satan's words. There is a demonic influence
today that is so powerful, seeking to seduce you and your family,
your loved ones away from truth. Now, look again at that agenda,
forbidding to marry and abstaining from food. Forbidding to marry. Now, what does that mean? Well,
I maintain that it means at least three things. Forced celibacy. We're familiar with that. It
can affect men and women alike. Depending on religion or culture
or maybe somewhere remotely in the world, whatever for celibacy.
I believe that's involved, but I also believe same sex marriage
is involved. Why? Because there's no procreation.
God says that's an abomination. That is no family. Same sex marriage
is not family. Period. Plain and simple. It's
just not. But what's the other one I think
is living together, cohabitating together. Now, isn't that interesting? Think about this. Okay, forced
celibacy, homosexual marriage, living together or cohabitating
together. Notice all three have something in common. They all
abolish the family. Satan is so smart. He's so much
smarter than we are. It is really amazing. Because
he doesn't need to talk about, especially in this church, he
wouldn't dare come in and start saying Christ is not really God.
He wouldn't dare. But he can sure attack us in
a lot of other ways. He is. And it's amazing to me
because you would think, like I said, he'd be on these other
major big doctrinal things. No. Do you know what he uses
to destroy sex and food? Amazing. That's not hard to figure out
if you just watch TV. What is he using to destroy you and your
children? Sex and food. Sex and food. And we've got a world of people
cohabitating together. You know, I remember many, many
years ago, I probably preached the same sermon 40 or 35 years
ago. But it amazed me there. It was
usually the younger generation that was living together, cohabitating.
Now, the old people are just as much. You've got almost as
many old people cohabitating together. God forbid, it's just
all right now. Next, it says, OK, good. I got about five minutes abstaining
from food. OK. Forbidding to marry, of course,
devalues marriage. But guess what? Abstaining from
food, what we do is we exaggerate one food or the other. We put
a value on this food and we devalue another food or completely say
you can't have it. I mean, I grew up hearing this.
Don't eat pork. Can't eat pork. You know, in the first place,
folks, not eating pork is only for Israel. That's just the way
it is. Eat only veggies. Just eat vegetables. And I maintain, if all you eat
is carrots, that's rabbit food. Frankly, I don't care for just
rabbit food. I like a little bit of rabbit
food with my steak. And I'm not wrong. And I'll tell
you why. Because God said I'm not wrong.
But what happens is, it doesn't matter what it is, we get into
these things and it's that kind of teaching that originates from
Satan's Bible. And the way this is manifested
is by overemphasizing, like I said, animals. Okay, the value, we
all know about India, don't we? People starve and cattle and
rats are running in the homes eating their grain. All of this,
why? Because animals have been elevated
to deity in some cases. This Eastern mysticism we now
have in America, we just don't call it that. Listen, when you
elevate animals to such a plane, you devalue human life. God, man, animals to serve man. Instead, we turn it around and
we have animals, man, and if you're lucky, God's on the list,
then he'd be number three. Do you see, what did I say, upside
down? Yes, things are upside down.
Animals to some people are more important than human beings.
Animals today are given dominion over man when God said clearly
that man has dominion over the animals. But today man serves
the animals instead of the reverse. Oh, you can't go hunting. It's
a sin. You killed Bambi. That's horrible. You know, we
just can't go hunting. I mean, I've heard that said,
and I'm going to just tell you the best word I know about what
you tell me. The Bible teaches that we can't
hunt hogwash. It's as good a word as any to
be kind, you know. Hogwash. Killing an animal today
for some people is like murder. Please understand, I am not against.
I mean, I'm not at all for abusing animals. I don't I don't believe
in that at all. I think that's wrong. Never should you abuse
or torture animals. I would never suggest that. But
I will say this. If killing an animal is murder.
then God is the biggest murderer that exists. And he began in
Genesis 3, he was the first to kill animals to clothe Adam and
Eve, with all kinds of theological implications. So yes, I would say God's the
biggest murderer. Plus, keep in mind, you remember
what, how about all the sacrifices? You couldn't have a place to
contain, it'd be an ocean of blood if you collected all the
blood, all the millions of sacrifices that God required of the children
of Israel. Remember Acts chapter 10? We
won't go there, don't have time. Give me just another minute here
and we'll close. You remember Peter, the vision of the sheep?
God said, here it is, kill and eat. What does that mean? Peter,
go hunting and kill that pig. or kill that cow or whatever
you want to and eat. And Peter, of course, was shocked
at first, but the truth came out. Listen, folks, you know,
the trend toward vegetarianism today is is if it's done because
of moral reasons or spiritual reasons is wrong. Vegetarianism
based on moral or spiritual reasons is unbiblical. Now, if you do
it for health reasons, you feel or taste, maybe you just really
don't like meat or maybe you have an allergy to it. That's
not a problem. Of course not. If your doctor says for some
reason you really and you've got to be, you know, I understand
that's not what we're talking about, but it's the propaganda
of PETA. and the likes of them, and you
know about them, promoting, not killing animals. And the animals
are, Pastor Till was sharing with me something a while back,
I think he was teaching it to his class, about this one guy
who's promoting all this, and he says, chickens, rats and mice,
they're our brothers. I mean, this is very serious.
This is what they're teaching our people in school. You know what's scary?
Our young people are growing up to believe they've got to
be a vegetarian. And it's affecting them now in the universities,
And in the early 20s, we're seeing so much of that. It's unbelievable. I mean, you know, but Scripture
says just the opposite. Man has dominion over the animals.
Now, let me just briefly tell you what that means. It means
when my brother mouse enters my house, I will have capital
punishment for my brother. And if my brother cockroach walks
in, I will stomp him to death. Because they're dirty and they
spread disease. And they're not my brother, anyway. Food and marriage are gifts from
God. In the book of Genesis, remember
what God told Noah? I am now giving you meat to eat.
God said, I gave you animals to clothe you, to keep you warm.
I give you animals to eat. I give you animals for all these
things. Enjoy your steaks, guys, and your hamburgers and your
pork chops. Not too many. Don't eat it. You
know, eat a healthy lifestyle, but enjoy life. Why would God
say all these things about me to Noah if they were harmful
or if if in some way I'm going to kill my brother or sister?
No, no, no, none of that. And I will tell you, oh, by the
way, did you know Isaiah 25, what it says about in the millennial
kingdom, we will be eating choice meats, choice steak. That's going to be great. A banquet
of choice meats. So you see, it's really. Wrong,
I believe, to if you're going to be a vegetarian and you do
it for the reasons of spirituality. So understand that God is very
firm on this. And in verse four, well, I won't
read this. My time is up. I'm sorry. I went over a few
minutes. Apologize, ushers. Go ahead and open the doors.
We're going to pick up next week and I'm going to be wanting to
get into the marriage manual. The Bible has a marriage manual.
Oftentimes, we want to know why things don't work. Do you ever
sometimes really got to read the instructions? Sometimes when
you read the instructions, you get it put together. That's what
we'll do next week. God bless you. We'll see you
in a week.
The Assault on the Family
Series Marriage and Family
| Sermon ID | 425222222136056 |
| Duration | 48:57 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Language | English |
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