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Colossians 3, verses 1-7. And
we'll focus mostly on verses 5-7 today. Please hear the Word
of God. If then you were raised with
Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ is, sitting
at the right hand of God. Set your mind on things above,
not on things on the earth. For you died, and your life is
hidden with Christ in God. when Christ, who is our life,
appears, then you also will appear with Him in glory. Therefore,
therefore, put to death your members which are on the earth,
fornication, uncleanness, passion, evil desire, and covetousness,
which is adultery, Because of these things the wrath of God
is coming upon the sons of disobedience in which you yourselves once
walked when you lived in them. This is the Word of God. May
His Spirit add its blessing and teaching to us this morning.
You may be seated. Last week we saw in Colossians
3 verses 1 through 4 a transition. A transition really that is repeated
all over the scripture where you have the truth of God that
is used as an indicative from which the imperatives, the commands
flow. This is true, so this is what
we do. And in Colossians verses 1 through
4 in chapter 3 is a transition for the whole book. It takes
us from the indicative, what is true, to the imperatives of
what we are to do because of it. And in Colossians chapters
1 and 2, Paul details the supremacy of Christ. That he's the creator
God who's preeminent over all things. He created all things
by himself and for himself and for his glory. And he's sufficient
over all things and preeminent over all things. And then Paul
goes to his work. If Christ is sufficient and complete,
His work of salvation is sufficient and complete. And Paul makes
the point, if you're in this Christ, who is the fullness of
God, then you have fullness and completeness in Him. And the
key word is in Him. And since Christ has died to
sin, and He's been raised to live, and He's ascended on high,
then the Christian has died with Christ, has been raised with
Christ, and is complete in Christ. And specifically in verses 1-4
in chapter 3 of Colossians, the Christian has died and he's been
raised in Christ, and his life is now hidden with Christ in
God, and Christ is his life. and the Christian will be made
like Christ when Christ returns. Therefore, just in those first
verses, therefore, because of these truths, these indicatives,
the Christian is to live like this, the imperatives. He's to
set his regenerated heart on Christ and the things above.
He's to set his renewed mind on Christ and the things above.
He's to set his resurrection life on Christ and the things
above. Where Christ is in the heavenlies,
And those things above include all the virtues and inheritance
that Christ has won for His people and promises to give to His people. That's verses 1-4. We like verses
1-4. Those are good verses to memorize,
all of us. But then starting in verse 5, which is where we'll
start today. Starting in verse 5, Paul begins
to give us practical details of how to live. in several spheres
of life. Now, it's interesting, he says,
set your mind on the things above, not on the things on earth, but
now he's going to start talking about, well, how do we live our
life on earth? How do we handle the things on earth? He's going
to be telling us, starting in verse 5 through the end of the
chapter, really through the end of the book in Colossians, he's going
to tell us how we are to be who we are in Christ, in our private,
in our public life, in our relationships in the church, our relationships
in marriage, our relationships in the family, in the workplace,
and when we're dealing then with those who are outside of Christ.
That's a rough but very short outline to the rest of the book
of Colossians. He's going to be telling us how to put sin
to death in verse 5. How to put off practices of sin,
starting in verse 8. And then how to put on practices
of righteousness, starting in verse 12. Putting to death, putting
off, but then the positive things. These are the things we put on
as the new man in Christ, who's in the new man of Christ, which
is the church itself. And it really reminds us of the
great truths that we should never tire of. The great truths of
justification and sanctification. I neglected to print the catechism
question and answers in the bulletin. So kids, you're going to have
to help me. We haven't got up to that this
time around, but hopefully some of you know these songs to justification
and sanctification. Don't leave me hanging up here.
But when we get to the catechism, question 36, what is justification? It's one of the best biblical
descriptions of it. The answer is, Justification
is an act of God's free grace wherein He pardoneth all our
sins and accepteth us as righteous in His sight, only for the righteousness
of Christ imputed to us and received by faith alone. We'll get to that in a few weeks
for those in the class. And I'll make the teachers sing
it. This is a wonderful description of what justification is. Justification
is the act of God's free grace. It's different from the work
of sanctification. It's the act of God's free grace, where our
sin is removed, which satisfies the penalties of the law, because
our sin is removed and it's imputed to Christ, and He satisfies the
penalty of the law in our place, and then Christ's righteousness
is given. It's imputed to us, which satisfies the requirements
of the law for us. And in a sense, in justification,
sin is put off, which is what Paul is going to be talking about.
Sin is put off and righteousness is put on. But it's by an act
of God. It's nothing we do. It's by an
act of God. In a sense, justification would
be the indicative, the truth that we rest upon. Then sanctification
is the imperative. This is how we live. This is
what we do. And so we get to question number 38. What is sanctification? Sanctification is the work of
God's free grace. And you are singing. Oh, man, and to the image of
God and are enabled more and more to die and to sin and live
unto righteousness. And so, with sanctification,
we have the work of God's free grace. God is working in us,
and in some measure, by the power of God, we're able to participate
in that work of sanctification. And the point is, now that we've
been justified before a holy God, and we've been made new
in Christ Jesus, God empowers us to put it into practice, to
die unto sin and to live unto righteousness. The Catechism
question biblically states it. And again, we're putting off
the sin and putting on the righteousness of Christ practically in our
lives. That's the imperative that flows
out of the indicative. In reality, what Paul is doing,
starting in verse 5 of Colossians chapter 3, He's giving us directions. He's giving the Colossians directions.
He's giving us directions on sanctification. How do we be
who we are in Christ? And, unfortunately, we didn't
study chapters 1 and 2. That's been a few years ago.
But I hope you remember something about Colossians in the first
two chapters. We find out that the Colossians
were given many wrong answers. There are many false teachers
and false teachings giving them wrong answers about how to be
sanctified. How to put off sin. They had
the wrong ideas of worldly philosophy, mysticism, and then legalism. If we could just adhere to all
these rules and traditions, that's how we can be more godlike. Well,
no. Or even asceticism. If I could
just put myself through some kind of harm and pain, then I'll
be more godly. No. What Paul is doing here in
Colossians 3 and following is, Paul is giving us the right way
to be sanctified. To be Christ-like. And so in
verses 5-11, if you look there in verses 5-11, Paul deals with
getting rid of the negative aspects of who Christians used to be. The more you live outside of
Christ, the more sins that are piled up. in your memory bank
that are there. You not only live through them,
but they're still on your mind. And the more habits you have
developed, and the more threads that wrap around to make the
rope tighter and tighter and tighter. And so now when you
become a Christian, sometimes God graciously cuts the ropes
completely. And it's just amazing how some
are sanctified seemingly so quickly. But for some of us, it takes
a long time. And so it's a plotting, with a D, not a T, a plotting,
a walking with Christ and His Word, getting rid of the negative
aspects of who you used to be, but who you are no longer. And
he does this in verses 5 through 11 by giving two lists, in verses
5 through 11, two lists of five vices that he specifically points
out. Put these to death, verses 5 through 7, and put these off,
verses 8 through 11. In verses 5-7, Paul describes
the sinner as he is in himself, moving from the outside, the
external, from the deeds of the sinner, to the inside, to the
internal, to the heart of the matter. He moves backwards from
the outside to the inside in verses 5-7. And he uses the sinner's
deeply private and hidden life, moving from sexual sins to the
heart of idolatry. And so the imperative of verses
5 through 7 is this. Put those sins to death. Don't
mess with it. Kill it. For you young men in
the audience today, this is a good day. You can kill things today.
You can even have that look on your face. Kill it, because that's
the attitude you should have. In verses 8-11 though, Paul now
describes the sinner, not as his private life, his own self,
but now he's describing the sinner in relationship to his neighbor.
He moves from the inside, the heart, to the outside, the deeds. He uses the sinner's public life
from the heart of anger to the speech that flows out of it in
relationship with others. And the imperative in verses
8 through 11 is this. Put those things aside like a
bunch of filthy clothes. Take them off. It's not fitting
for you anymore. You need to put on the robes
of righteousness instead. Well, I don't know if this will
make you happy or not. Today we'll only have time for verses 5,
6, and 7. Which means you have to come
back next week to hear the second list, verses 8, 9, 10, and 11,
for what needs to be put off. Today we'll look at just the
first five vices in Colossians 3, verses 5 through 7. And we'll
just have two overall questions. What are these sins that have
to be put to death? What are these sins that have
to be killed, have to be mortified? And then secondly, well, once
we identify what they are, how do we put them to death? How
do we kill them according to the Word of God? And so first
of all, we'll look at what are these sins that have to be put
to death, really only looking at verse five. So let me read
verse five again. Therefore put to death your members
which are on the earth, fornication, uncleanness, passion, evil desire,
and covetousness, which is idolatry. I really have three questions
within the question. First of all, I want us to look
at why does Paul use the word members? He says, put to death
your members, which are on the earth. So why members? But then
these sins that he lists are specifically sexual sins in nature. So the question has to be, well,
right off the bat, why those sexual sins? Why is he mentioning
sexual sins? And then we'll finally say, well,
what are these specific sins? We'll look at the actual words
themselves and try to see them in more detail. So first of all,
why members? Why does Paul say, put to death
your members which are on the earth? Well, turn to Romans chapter
6. There are many places in scripture we could go to. Last week we
turned to Romans chapter 6, so maybe it's good to look at it
again so you won't soon forget. Maybe over two weeks you'll come
to love Romans chapter 6, just like you'll come to love Colossians
chapter 3. And as you're turning there, you might remember last
week We use Romans chapter 6 as an example of this idea of the
indicative, the truths that are true about who God is and what
He has done in us in Christ, and then the imperatives that
flow out of it. And you have to get that in that order, otherwise
it becomes legalism. Otherwise we just jump and say,
don't sin. It's all on you. The point is, no, this is who
Christ is. This is what He has done. This is what He's done
in you. Therefore, once you have that as a foundation, now act
this way. And so in Romans chapter 6, The
first ten verses speak that way. It's basically answering the
question, well, gee, if grace abounds all the more, greater
than sin, so should we just sin all the more too? And he says,
no, absolutely not. And he goes through ten verses
saying, you've died to sin in Christ because Christ died to
sin. And He was raised again, and therefore you've died, and
you've been raised in Him. That's who you are in Christ. And so
finally when he gets to verse 11, and for those of us who are
from Iowa, you'll like this, he says, so reckon it to be true.
Reckon it to be true. Count on it. It is true. And
therefore, verse 12, now we finally get to the command, therefore,
don't sin. But notice you have 11 verses
that say, here's the truth. Now we finally say, don't sin.
And then in verse 13, it gives more details about what you do
then. And so if we pick it up in verse
11, that's where we have this transition of reckoning. Verse
11 in chapter 6, Reckon yourselves to be dead indeed to sin, but
alive to God in Christ Jesus our Lord. Since this is true,
count it as true. That's the foundation. And then
in verse 12, Therefore, do not let sin reign in your mortal
body, that you should obey it in its lusts. And do not present
your members as instruments of unrighteousness to sin. but present
yourselves to God as being alive from the dead, and your members
as instruments of righteousness to God. For sin shall not have
dominion over you, but you are not under the law, but under
grace. And if you skip down to verse 18, and having been set
free from sin, you become slaves of righteousness. For just as
you presented your members as slaves of uncleanness and of
lawlessness, leading to more lawlessness, so now present your
members as slaves of righteousness for holiness. So Paul uses the
terms there of members, and he's using it in the way that you'll
see it often in Scripture. He's using the term members to describe
the sins of the flesh. The term members describes the
parts of the body that are responsible for committing the sin or even
committing righteousness. It's a way of saying if your
eye causes you sin, Rip it out. If your hand causes you to sin,
cut it off. It's that sort of thing. The parts of your bodies
are called members because they're associated with the sins that
they actually commit. Or, here, the righteous acts
that the Lord leads you to commit as well. Do you see how the word
members works there in Romans Chapter 6? Look back to Colossians Chapter
3. There's something a little bit different, though, in the
way Paul uses this in Colossians Chapter 3. In Romans 6, which is really
how it usually is being used, we use the term members to describe
the part of the body associated with the sin. But in Colossians
3, verse 5, he says, put to death your members which are on the
earth. And he describes them. He doesn't say arms, legs, eyes,
whatever. He says fornication, uncleanness,
passion, evil desire, and covetousness. Then he labels it all as idolatry.
He's not calling the members here the parts of the body that
cause the sin. He's calling the members the actual sins, the
vices that the parts of the body commit. And perhaps we should
be very grateful because he's describing sexual sin here. We
don't want to talk about the parts of the body. We want to
talk about the actual actions that are being committed. One way that Paul could have
said this, if you want to reinterpret or rewrite this in a way that
would help you see what he's trying to say, he's basically
saying, put to death, therefore, the effects produced by the sins
that are closely associated with the members of your body. I think he has a purpose for
doing it backwards here. Making the members being the
sin, not the parts of the body. First of all, why does he do
this? Because it intensifies the guilt of your sin by associating
the sin itself so closely with you. By saying, these are your
members, these things you're doing. He's saying, you are doing
this. When you commit these sins, it's you who are doing this.
It's part of you that is doing this. And when you're talking
about sexual sin, there's no sin that is so personal, so part
of who you are, which is why it's so utterly destructive.
There's nothing as personal that actually is a part of you so
much as sexual sin. The second reason I think he
flips it by having the members be the vice and not actually
the parts of the body, it's because he allows him then to name what
these vices are. Paul names names here. In Romans,
you might have noticed It just said, don't let your members
cause you to sin, so your whole body might be corrupted. That's
what Jesus says earlier. But you don't really know what
those sins are, do you? It's just more of a broad category.
By actually making the vices have the names, now we know exactly
what Paul is talking about, so we can kill them. You can't kill
something that you don't know exists, or what its name is,
or where it is. Now we can kill it. We can put it to death. So
that's why he uses the word members. But now let's look at why sexual
sin? Why speak about sexual sin? Of
all the sins to list, why does he, right off the bat, say fornication
and all these other things associated with sexual sin? We were just
up in the heavenlies in the first four verses. We liked it up there. Get your mind on Christ and the
things above. And now Paul says fornication,
uncleanness, passion, evil desire. I really don't want to think
about those things. He brings us down to earth very quickly.
Well, I think there's three very basic points. Why sexual sins? First of all, sexual sin is exceedingly
prevalent. It's everywhere. Those of us
who have been using the same Bible reading schedule recently
went through the book of Proverbs. I'm always reminded, and somewhat
amazed, in the first nine chapters of the book of Proverbs, the
foundation to all the rest, in chapter 2 and 5 and 6 and 7,
even chapter 9, Solomon is saying, son and daughter, keep away from
sexual sin. It will destroy you. It's the
same thing that's been tempting and destroying since man was
created. It keeps reminding us how central
this is to something we have to deal with, no matter what
century we live in, no matter what society we live in. With
the Colossians, they were living in a pagan culture, immersed
in sexual sin. Even in their pagan worship,
there was sexual sin involved in the worship of their gods.
It was a virtuous thing. And so the Christians in Colossae
had to battle both their own flesh, and dealing with who they
once were, and trying to cast those things off, and their sinful
nature, but also dealing with a culture around them that kept
telling them about these same things that they're trying to
put to death. Does this sound familiar to today? Is this anything
different than today? Of course, now if you're in a
reading schedule, you're in Ecclesiastes. Everything that once was, it
is now. There's nothing new under the sun. It's the same thing.
Those who are young among us think, oh, you don't understand
how things are. No, it's never changed. It's
always this way. It's the same thing today, and
even in this so-called Christian culture that we are supposed
to be living in. It's amazing, and it's amazingly
discouraging how wide the range of sexual sin that we see in
our culture is so pervasive. And it's accepted today. Things that used to be valued
even by the lost, even by secular man, they knew these things.
Monogamy, sex only in marriage, they used to be valued by all. But now in our culture, yes,
in our culture, those simple but wonderfully virtuous things
of keeping oneself pure, it's ridiculed, it's even sneered
at. So the pressure is very heavy
upon us. Things that were once understood
to be perverse are not just accepted, they're promoted everywhere around
us. From homosexuality to pornography,
to now you have this vile and just incredibly sad hook-up culture
where young people, I suppose even older people, are using
sexual activity as if it's just like a sport, something you do
on a Friday night. It should make you sick. And they don't know what they're
doing, ruining their lives, physically, emotionally, even mentally, in
ways that they'll be dealing with for the rest of their entire
life on earth. And every type of media now is
overflowing with references and promotion of sexual sin. We can't
get away from it. And now the evil one has provided
us phones that we can carry around and know about it all the time
because we can connect to the internet anytime we want to. I won't go on my
rant, but it's just so pervasive and so difficult for parents
to try to shield their children from these things because it
reaches into the home. It's exceedingly prevalent. It's
also exceedingly destructive. That's the second reason why
he uses these sins. It's exceedingly destructive.
According to the Scripture and our experience, we know that
there's nothing more destructive than sexual sin. When we read through the Proverbs
2, 5, 6, and 7, we see it destroys the physical health. It destroys
the emotional, the mental health. Again, I even grieve today in
Romans chapter 1, the capstone in showing how sinful society
becomes. It says, even the women have fallen into and have chosen
sexual sin. We know men are dogs. I didn't
get any nods off the head, but we know men are dogs. At least
there was at one point, there was a sense that women would
have some virtue, but now even the women. And so now we have
young women who think the way to fit in is to just give themselves
one night at a time to whoever, and they don't know what they're
doing to themselves. Sexual sin destroys marriages,
therefore it destroys families, therefore it destroys society. We think of the examples and
warnings in the Proverbs. We think of the example of David's
life, that his pursuing of sexual sin brought so much destruction,
yes, to himself, to others, other families, his own family, even
the country that he ruled upon, ruled over. Sexual sin is prevalent,
it's destructive, and therefore we are to kill it before it kills
us. And it can. The third thing is,
it's exceedingly personal. Sexual sin is exceedingly personal.
And that is by God's design, God's wonderful design. Sexual
activity is deeply ingrained in the human heart and the human
being. And so the sin and the hurt and the scars of sexual
sin go deeper than any other sin. Read 1 Corinthians 5 and
6 and get a hint of that, how there's nothing so personal of
a sin than sexual sin. Sexuality is a great gift from
God. It's a wonderful gift to consecrate the marriage relationship
and to be enjoyed. Yes, to be enjoyed to the full,
but in marriage only. Maybe sometimes we as Christians
seem like prudes. We keep talking about the negatives
of sexual activity because it's in the context of sin. But sexual
activity in the context of marriage is a wonderful and beautiful
thing. And therefore it should be cherished
long before the marriage so it's protected. So you're protecting
the marriage you will have long before you're married. When Adam and Eve sinned, At
the time, they were naked and they were not ashamed. But then
when they sinned, they became ashamed for the first time. And
what did they do? In our day and age, they would turn on the
TV really quick, or look at the internet, because they could just get their
mind off of it and not think about it. But no, they put on clothes, or some
sort of covering anyway, and they hid, both from God, but
both from each other. There's now a break between the
husband and wife because of sin. But now when a man and a woman
unite in marriage, it now allows them to be naked again with each
other and each other alone and without shame and to become intimate
and to be fully open before each other. When one is married, that
whole symbolism of being naked means you can know me as I am
like nobody else can know me. It's a beautiful thing. It's
a risky thing, but it's a beautiful thing. And the great joy of marriage
and the gift of sex in marriage, even in Proverbs 5, after so
many descriptions about the negativity of immoral sexual activity, then
the Proverbs writer says, Rejoice with the wife of your youth,
which implies you're only to have one wife and just be the
first wife and rejoice in her and her alone, but rejoice with
the wife of your youth and always be enraptured by her love. It's
a beautiful thing. But oh, the great, great pain
of the abuse and the misuse of sexual activity when it's done
outside of marriage. When you have divorce, divorce
is so painful because now it's two people who are joined together,
naked together. Now at least one of them is saying,
I don't care. I've seen you as you are. I'm going elsewhere to somebody
else. And it rips the heart and the soul out of the one or both. It's been said that the worst
is always the corruption of the best. The worst is always the
corruption of the best. And that is certainly true when
it comes to sexual sin. The worst is always the corruption
of the best. God gives the best gifts for
man and woman to seal in their marital love, yet the world and
the sinner perverts it and turns it into idolatry. I don't know
if there's any better description of our society today that worships
sex. In any other sexual relations,
other than within marriage, even the desires and the thoughts
is a perversion and a horrendous abuse of this gift and the intention
of God. Any act of immorality outside
of marriage or the abuse or the premature use of God's gift is
a perversion and a horrendous abuse of this gift. I was trying to think of examples.
The first one was a trite example this weekend. We planted little
lilac sprouts four years ago, and this spring they finally
had blooms. I know young men keep thinking,
kill it, kill it, kill it. I'm going to talk about flowers
now. I love lilacs. They're beautiful in the smell.
You can't beat it. The thing is they only last about
a day or two. Once you cut them and you bring them inside, they
only last about a day or two and it's gone. And I kept waiting. I kept waiting.
I kept waiting until I thought those blooms would be ready to
bring in. You want to wait until they're all pretty much open.
And I finally, I cut them, I brought them in to show my wife, and
I realized I didn't wait long enough. I've ruined them. Most of them were still not open,
and therefore, in another day, they just wilt, and they're just...
It's a trivial little thing, but it made me very sad. I could
wait a whole year. But that's an example, I think,
maybe in a small way. You don't open things before
their time. You don't take the meat out of the oven until it's
done or it'll make you sick or kill you. And you can't put it
back in just like the lilac. I got nothing. I actually think a more gruesome
example fits the bill better. Recently we had an example which
has happened before. It just makes you sick to your
stomach. An example of someone who tricked
a pregnant woman and cut the baby from the womb so they could
have what was not theirs. Makes you cringe. I don't get
it. How can that be done? But I think
that's an apt description of what sexual sin is. It's forcefully
stealing what is not rightly yours. Or it's forcefully giving
away what is not rightly yours to give to somebody else when
it's sexual sin. And it's ruining one of the most
beautiful gifts our gracious God has given us. May we be appalled at sexual
sin in our society, but sexual sin in our own lives. And I will say, for the one who
is with us today, and I'm sure there are some, even when you
come to Christ, the sexual sins of the past, they're like scars
that are in your memory bank, and you ask for forgiveness and
for help to overcome them, but they're still there. It's difficult.
No matter where you are today, if you're suffering from such
sin in your past, or even right now, come to Christ Jesus. He can heal all wounds and make
all things new. So that's the why of sexual sin.
But now the third question of this first question. What are
the specific sins of verse 5? What are the specific sins of
verse 5? There are five vices and then there's a description
of what the whole thing looks like. And the emphasis is on sexual sin,
from the outside deed, starting with fornication, back into the
inside heart, the passion and the evil desire in the New King
James. But keep in mind that sexual sin is often used in the
Scriptures not just for the specific sexual sin, but as the example
of all sin and how we deal with it. It shows the principle working
of all sin and how we're supposed to be dealing with this. So number
one is fornication. It's speaking of the act of sexual
sin. It's speaking of sexual immorality. Any form of sexual
sin. But the focus of this being on
the act of sexual sin. Any type of intercourse outside
of marriage. is sexual sin. The scripture
makes it completely clear. I'm so tired of people trying
to argue the other thing from the scripture. If you're going
to use scripture to argue for any other way of sexual activity,
just throw your Bible away and admit it. You're not using it.
The scripture is clear. Any sexual activity outside of
marriage is against the will of God. It's against his holiness. The second word for uncleanness,
it's a way of saying impurity. It's deeper than the act. Now
it goes to the evil thoughts, the intentions, the affections
behind the act. So we're going backwards from
the act to the thoughts. And the third one, really the
third and fourth phrases or words, there's not much of any noticeable
difference between passion and evil desire. They're pretty much
the same thing. But now we're going to the desires
behind it. You go from the act, to the thoughts,
to the desires. It's backwards from what happens.
Paul is cutting away, trying to kill at the root, is what
he's trying to do here. Perhaps passion could be thought
of as the lust, and the evil desire could be the excessive
affection. Or maybe we could talk about
desire versus the inordinate craving for sexual satisfaction
in a sinful way. They're very much related. Can you see how this fits in
reverse the pattern of an evil desire, to the evil thoughts
that dwell on it, to the evil actions that come out of it?
And reminded of James 1.14, But each one is tempted when he is
drawn away from his own desires and enticed. Then when desire
has conceived, it gives birth to sin. And sin, when it is full
grown, it brings forth death. Or we can think of Jesus' words
in Matthew 5, starting in verse 28. But I say to you that whoever
looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery
with her in his heart. The Ten Commandments are not
just external things that are do's and don'ts. They cut to
the hearts. If you've had lust in your heart after a moment,
you've already committed adultery in the eyes of God in your heart.
And if your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and
cast it from you. For it is more profitable for
you that one of your members, there we have the word members,
it's more profitable for your members to perish than for your
whole body to be cast into hell. A little bit later, it's better
for you to cut off your right hand Cast that away from your
whole body to be cast into hell. And so that's the progression
backwards from fornication, the act, all the way to the thought,
to the evil desire that originates it. But then, why covetousness? There's a lot of questions in
these three verses. But why covetousness? Where does
that come from? Doesn't that seem odd to you? That this would
be the final vice? I kind of understand the flow
of the first four, but covetousness? We'll understand that there's
a sense in which covetousness is the source of all sin. At
its heart, covetousness is the desiring that which God has forbidden. It's the desiring that which
God has forbidden. Do you see the connection with
sexual sin now? I think we underestimate how
important covetousness is. It's one of those respectable
sins that Mr. Bridges would write about Paul
was brought to repentance when the law itself exposed his covetousness. He was like the rich young ruler
perhaps before. He said, I've done all these things, I'm okay.
But then the law brought to his mind, do not covet. And he says
in Romans 7, he says, I would not have known sin except through
the law, for I would not have known covetousness unless the
law had said, you shall not covet. And the other nine, perhaps somehow
he could rationalize those. Oh, I'm keeping those things,
because he's looking externally. But when you get to coveting,
isn't it beautiful how God has made that be the last of the
ten that represents His moral law, His eternal moral law? Do
not covet. That tenth commandment, do not
covet, is the final one, the one that cannot be seen. And
so it cuts to the heart. It's proof
that the Ten Commandments were not merely external, but they
cut to the heart. And then when you get down, you start off with,
know other gods before me. Love the Lord thy God with all
your heart, soul, strength, and mind. And we go to know idols, not
taking the Lord's name in vain. What day do we worship? Then
you have obeying your parents, adultery, killing, lying, stealing. You have all these things. But
then we finally get down to coveting. Don't covet, which is number
10. But then that last one loops us all the way back to the top.
Because not to covet means, if I'm not coveting, I don't have
any gods before me. I'm only looking to those things
that God wants me to look for. I'm looking to God Himself. And
so it loops back up to the top, and we start over again. And so for coveting, breaking
the Tenth Commandment, we're breaking the First Commandment.
And here, the word for covetousness It speaks of an insatiable selfishness. An insatiable selfishness. A
self-seekingness. And all sin is selfishness. And sexual sin is covetousness
because it's nothing more than a self-seekingness. I want what
I want. Not what God wants. I really
don't even care about the other person. The one who sins in this way
cares nothing about the other person, else he or she would
not drag the other person into it. He or she is only caring
about his or her own godless, selfish, animal desire to be
satisfied in a sinful, sexual way. So that brings us then to, which
is idolatry? I hope you see the connection
between covetousness and what we talked about before, but now,
which is idolatry? Paul's trying to help me keep
you awake by having question marks. He'll say, well, okay,
I can stay awake for a minute. What is idolatry in here for?
Why is covetousness labeled as idolatry? Well, understand, if
you're coveting, then you're not content with what God has
provided, and you're not content with God himself. And if you
covet what is not yours, you're not content with what God has
given you, you're engaging in self-worship. You're engaging
in idolatry. All sin is selfish, and therefore
it's self-worship. In Colossians 3 verses 1-4, we
are talking about setting our hearts and our mind and our life
on Christ and the things above. We're lost in Christ. But what
if we put this into the secular idea? What if we substitute self
for Colossians 3-4? It would be like this, I am sufficient
in myself. This is what the sinner would
say. I am sufficient in myself. So I don't need to be raised
in Christ Jesus. And therefore I'm on the throne,
so I'll set my heart and my mind and my life on the things that
I want. And what I desire. Do you see how this is idolatry?
Sin is desiring and pursuing what I want, while rejecting
what our holy Creator God demands. And so all sin is covetous, it's
idolatrous, it is will-worship. It's saying, I am the standard
and I do what I want. It's idolatry. And so a quick
application before we go on to the second question. Young lady, if a young man says he loves
you, but he's touching you, or he's pressuring you to do so, that is not love. Instead, that young man is a
self-worshipping, covetous, idolater whose evil desires are centered
only on himself, and who merely looks at you as a means for his
own self-satisfaction and worship. That is not love. And you can
tell that, young man. My pastor said, you are a self-worshipping,
covetous idolater whose evil desires are centered only on
himself, and you're merely looking at me as a means for your own
self-satisfaction and worship. Repeat that to yourself and even
to them. And sadly, these days, young man, I have to say the
same thing to you. If a young woman says she loves you and she's
asking for the same things, it's the same thing on the other side
too. But all of us, any sexual sin
from lust, to pornography, to the physical act itself, is nothing
but self-worshipping, covetous, idolatry, indirect rebellion
against your Holy Creator, and therefore you must kill it, you
must recognize it for what it is, and you must put it to death. Look at Ephesians chapter 5 very
quickly. Ephesians chapter 5, verses 1-5. I'll just try to read this without
comment. Colossians and Ephesians, they go together. If you study
one, you should study the other. I think this helps us. The first five or so verses of
Ephesians chapter 5. Therefore, be imitators of God
as dear children, and walk in love as Christ also has loved
us and given himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to
God for a sweet-smelling aroma. But fornication and all uncleanness
or covetousness, let it not be named among you, as is fitting
for saints." The point is, those clothes don't fit you anymore.
It's not fitting. "...neither filthiness nor foolish
talking, nor coarse jesting, which are not fitting, rather
giving of thanks." Now notice here, even in our society, and
even in the Christian society, we make jokes, we make comments.
It's part of our language. And Paul says, don't even have
it be mentioned in your words, in your jesting. And Christian,
get it out of your vocabulary. We don't mess with it. For this you know, that no fornicator,
unclean person, or covetous man who is an idolater has any inheritance
in the kingdom of Christ and God. Let no one deceive you with
empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes
upon the sins of disobedience. Therefore do not be partakers
with them." Those are the sins that Paul
is listing in that first verse. Now, how to kill them. How to
kill them. There's three things. How do
you kill them? First of all, kill them. Kill them. Put them to death.
Do not play with it like a cat plays with a mouse. Don't play
with it. Do not give it an honorable funeral. Put it to death. Don't play with it. Kill it purposely
and at the root, just as Paul traced from the outside deed
to the source of the lustful, covetous, idolatrous heart. Kill it proactively, with a real
action against it. There must be a plan, and you
must put forth effort to kill something. You must acknowledge
it for what it is, so you can put it squarely in the crosshairs
and shoot. Paul names names here. He calls
it for what it is. We should name names as well.
And kids, when your parents tell you, when you do something wrong
and your parents say, you know, Tony, you really should go to
your sister and apologize for what you've done. And if you
go to your sister, Tony, and you say, well, Katie, I'm sorry. Is that good enough? Nah. And you would never do it that
way. You'd be more full with it. The idea is, Katie, I'm sorry that
I did this. It's a sin against God and it's
a sin against you. Please forgive me. It has to be named. It has
to be pointed out. And it's the same thing we should
be doing. We cannot overcome besetting sin without naming
it, without owning up to it, without confessing it. We might
say to God, I have done this thing again. Please forgive me
and try to walk off. But that doesn't work. We must instead
confess, I have done this deed again, O Lord, because I have
a selfish, covetous heart that seeks to fulfill my evil self-worshiping
desires and rebellion against You. Please forgive my idolatry
of worshiping myself and my desires. Please forgive my rejection of
You." Make it thorough and point out what it is. So we kill it
by killing it purposely and at the root. We kill it by starving
it. You can die by not eating. You can kill things by starving
it. Don't dwell on it. Stay away from the temptation.
Don't feed upon it in word or in deed or in thought. It should
be obvious what not to feed on considering your sinful heart.
I'm not a fundamentalist, but I'm still appalled so often in
the Christian community how easily we accept certain kinds of entertainment,
certain jokes, certain activities, as if it's just okay, without
discernment. We justify our feeding of our
sin through these things, rather than starving it. Hebrews chapter
12 says, you don't just get rid of the sin that ensnares, but
you get rid of every weight that hinders you. Don't dance around
the sin. Get away from it. And don't mess
with it. An assignment would be read Proverbs
5, 6, and 7 frequently. Perhaps once a month. Yes, it
will combat sexual sin, but also the principles apply to all sins.
It will help you to see sin for what it is. You need to read
that when you're going towards that sin, you're like an ox led
to slaughter. You're like a crust of bread.
You're a fool, and it leads to death and hell. Thirdly, kill
it by feeding on the good. Starve it, but feed on the good.
It's not enough just to say, I'm not going to do this. If
I tell you, stop thinking about the color blue, what are you
doing? Well, you're thinking about the
color blue. I need to tell you, think about the color red. And
that will get your mind off the color blue. In verse 2, Paul
told us to set our minds on the things above, not on the things
of the earth. So we have to feed on the Word of God to saturate
our mind and our soul on the Word of God and the things of
God. Think of Philippians chapter 4 verse 8. Think on these things. Renew your mind. Romans chapter
12. Take a book like Jerry Bridges' Pursuit of Holiness. If you're
dealing with a besetting sin in this matter, And read it a
chapter a day trying to push out the bad and put on the good
because it takes several weeks to change your thought patterns
when they're in certain sinful ways. And seek accountability
from the brothers and sisters in the church and seek prayer.
Seek contentedness and satisfaction in Christ and Christ alone and
His people alone to feed on the good. kill it, starve it, feed
on the good. But then, the second thing is,
after killing it, what else can we do to put these sins to death? Well, remember who you are. Remember
who you are. Paul said, therefore, and he's
pointing back to what he just said, and he's just telling you,
this is who you are in Christ. This is who Christ is. This is
who you are in Christ. So remember who you are. Remember
your union with Christ, your identity in Christ. You are in
Christ. Be who you are. And he said in
verses 6 and 7, you used to be sons of disobedience, deserving
the wrath of God, and you once walked in these sinful vices,
and you even lived in them, but you're not that person anymore,
because you died in Christ, and you've been raised in Christ,
and your life is now hidden in Christ, and Christ is your life.
Earlier in Colossians 1, Paul was saying he's praising the
Father for delivering us from the power of darkness and conveying
or transferring us into the kingdom of the Son of His love, in whom
we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins.
He's saying you once lived in the kingdom of the evil one,
but now you've been transferred by the power of God into Christ's
kingdom, the one who's all supreme and sufficient for all things.
So live that way, not like you used to live. If we had time,
we look at 1 Corinthians chapter 6, another example of this indicative
and this imperative. Look at 1 Corinthians 6, some
day today on the Sabbath day. Here in 1 Corinthians 6, Paul
is making the point that being united with Christ means that
we're not only identified spiritually with Him, but even our bodies
are united with Christ. He says we're united as members
of Christ. Our body is a member of Christ.
And so God forbid that you take the members of Christ and join
it to sexual sin, or any sin for that matter. You're taking
Christ with you. How dare you join what is united
with Christ to such a sin, and how dare you do that to the temple
of the Spirit of God. You are bought at a price, you
are not your own, therefore glorify God in your body and be who you
are. And lastly, kill it. Remember who you are. But lastly,
look to Christ. Look to Christ. This is how we
put these things to death. Look to Christ. See sin from
God's perspective. In verse 6, Paul wrote, Because
of these things the wrath of God is coming upon you, if you
are a son of disobedience. When we compare our sins to others,
we look pretty good sometimes. But we need to see sin from God's
perspective. How does God see sin? Look at
the cross. Look at the cross. When we look
at the cross, there we see the holiness of God demanding justice
for our sin. When we look at the cross, there
we see the wrath of God being poured out in full on our Savior
because of our sin. When we look at the cross, there
we see the gruesome punishment for our sin in full view, the
Savior becoming sin for us. When we look at the cross, The
Son, who earlier sweat drops of blood while agonizing at the
thought of becoming sin for us, is now on the cross. And now
you hear Him cry, My God, My God, why have you forsaken Me?
And that was not merely the physical nails in His hand, as it was
taking the wrath of God that was stored up for all of His
people, that would take us an eternity to suffer. And He's
suffering it in three short hours. It reminds me of the hymn, Stricken,
Smitten, and Afflicted. The first three verses, Stricken,
Smitten, and Afflicted, see him dying on the tree. Tis the Christ
by man rejected. Yes, my soul, tis he, tis he. Tis the long-expected prophet
David's son, yet David's Lord. By his son God now has spoken.
Tis the true and faithful word. Tell me, ye who hear him groaning,
was there ever grief like this? Friends, through fear, his cause
disowning, foes insulting his distress. Many hands were raised
to wound him, none would interpose to save. But the deepest stroke
that pierced him was the stroke that justice gave. And then verse
3. Ye who think of sin but lightly,
nor suppose the evil great, Here may view its nature rightly.
Here its guilt may estimate. Mark the sacrifice appointed. See who bears the awful load.
Tis the word, the Lord's anointed Son of Man and Son of God." That
is how God sees sin. And that is how we must see sin
too. And then how can we not desire to kill it, to have no
part of it, to put it to death? Looking to the cross gives us
hope. It's the greatest display of God's mercy, grace, and love,
and the power over sin that Christ can give us and encourage us
to put sin to death in our lives as well. So in closing, two quick
things. For the Christian first. For
those who are outside of Christ, second. For the Christian, remember
who you are in Christ Jesus. Just like we said last week,
remember who you are. If you are in sin, what are you
doing living like that? Christ took on flesh. He became
like you. He died for you. He's not ashamed
to call you brother. Not only that, He's not ashamed
to dwell in you and to cleanse you and to empower you to be
like Him. Your whole body has been cleansed, Christian. So
now come to the One who can cleanse your feet again and again and
again. and come to the One who can empower
you to put off those old, filthy clothes, those clothes that no
longer suit you, those clothes that no longer fit, so you can
practically then put on the Christ-likeness that Christ gives. If you're
not a Christian, you do need your body cleansed. You do need
your whole body cleansed. Rather than putting to death
the members of sin, your sin has put you to death. And that
results in hell. Rather than being dead in Christ,
you are dead to Christ. And so I plead with you to run
to Christ, who alone can take the wrath of God coming upon
you. Come to the one who alone can
remove the filthy rags of your sin, and clothe you with His
glorious robe of righteousness, that you might then stand before
God in the way that He has provided for you to do so. Stricken, smitten, and afflicted
ends with this. This is what we'll close on before we pray.
Here we have a firm foundation. Here the refuge of the lost.
Christ the rock of our salvation. His the name of which we boast.
Lamb of God for sinners wounded. Sacrifice to cancel guilt. None
shall ever be confounded. Who on Him their hope have built. Let us pray. Dear Holy Father, Oh, we thank
you and we praise you. You are so full of grace and
mercy and love and you showered it upon us from the infinite
fountains of Christ. We thank you for Christ. We thank
you that in Christ Jesus our sins can be removed and righteousness
can be given. We pray for those who are outside
of Christ this very day. They need Christ. They don't
understand. They need Christ. There's no
other hope for them. I pray, Lord, by Your Spirit,
You convict and move in their hearts and their minds and their
soul, that, Lord, they be moved to repentance and confession
of sin and placing their faith on Christ, the only Savior, for
their sin sick, their sin dead soul. And for those of us you
have graciously saved, I pray, Lord, you enable us to desire
to put to death the sin that Christ died for, to remember
who we are in Christ Jesus, and to look to Christ and Him alone,
that you would make us more and more like our Savior. It's in
Jesus' name we pray these things.
Therefore, Put (Sexual) Sin To Death
Series Colossians 3
Paul's first focus on how to live out the life of Christ is perhaps surprising, as he deals with sexual sin. But this area of sin is dealt with first because of how prevalent, how destructive, and how personal it is. And it gets to the heart of the matter. Therefore, we are instructed to kill this sin: purposely, proactively, and at the root.
Paul emphasizes how serious this area of sin is by rightly equating it with covetousness and idolatry.
| Sermon ID | 42215118362 |
| Duration | 58:45 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | Colossians 3:5-7 |
| Language | English |
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