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Turn with me, if you will, to
Genesis chapter number 37. Genesis chapter 37. And I want
to read just a few verses and preach to you a message that
the Lord's put on my heart for this morning. And it's not really
going to be an easy message to preach and not going to be, it's
probably not going to make you feel very good about yourself.
But I will say this that if it sounds like while I'm preaching
that I know what I'm talking about It's because I do because
I deal with it in my own life. This is one of those message
I've said this time and time again. I feel like I could just
set a mirror and in front of the pulpit and preach to myself
because I struggle with this and I think this is something
that all of us struggle with. But I do, and I guess this is
true with most things in life, I do believe that this is something
that if you will learn to take care of when you are young, and
not let it continue to be a problem. It's so much easier to deal with
this at a young age than when you're older. And so you pray
and we'll see what the Lord has for us in this text. Genesis
37, if you'd like, let's stand together one more time and honor
the reading of the word of God. Genesis 37. We're picking up
in a very familiar story. You'll find this is the betrayal
of Joseph as he is sold into slavery by his brothers. And
I want to begin reading in verse number 31 of this chapter. It
says, And they took Joseph's coat, and killed a kid of the
goats, and dipped the coat in the blood. And they sent the
coat of many colors, and they brought it to their father, and
said, This have we found. Know now whether it be thy son's
coat or no. And he knew it and said, it is
my son's coat. An evil beast hath devoured him. Joseph is without doubt rent
in pieces. And Jacob rent his clothes and
put on sackcloth upon his loins and mourned for his son many
days. And all his sons and all his daughters rose up to comfort
him, but he refused to be comforted and he said, for I will go down
into the grave until my son mourning Thus his father wept for him. I want you to look back with
me in verse number 33 at a statement that Jacob made. He said, it
is my son's coat and the evil beast hath devoured him. I want to preach this morning
on the evil beast of envy. the evil beast of envy. We understand
that what Jacob said in this verse was not literally true. He had been deceived. It just
appeared to him that his son had been devoured by a beast.
But I think there's a lot more truth in what Jacob said than
even he realized. And in fact, let me read you
this verse before we pray. If you wonder what it was that
motivated Joseph's brothers to betray him, in Acts chapter seven
and verse nine, in the great message that Stephen preached
before his storm, the Bible says this, and the patriarchs moved
with envy, sold Joseph into Egypt, but God was with him. So I just
want to take a few minutes and point out a few things in this
chapter about what envy does and how it works in our life.
Let's go to the Lord in prayer. Thank you for letting us be here
this morning. I know it's already been said,
but thank you for the message that you gave to our hearts this
morning through your servant. And Lord, I pray that you'd help
us to take it to heart and to let it change our life. And Lord,
I ask again that you would touch me as I try to preach for just
a few minutes. And Lord, for these young people
that are here, Lord, that you would work in their heart. And
you know the things that they're dealing with and the problems
that they are facing. Lord, I pray that you would just
do something special for them in this meeting. And Lord, we'll
thank you for all that you do. We love you in your name we pray,
amen. Thank you for standing. You can
be seated this morning. Now I'm not gonna spend much
time by way of introduction. Envy is an interesting study.
If you just take the Word and begin to search it throughout
the Scripture, it's really a very interesting study. You'll find
a lot of different things that are said about envy, and a lot
of different aspects of it are revealed throughout the Word
of God. And sometimes we'll, if we're
not careful, we'll kind of consider envy to be one of the smaller
sins, or one of the more insignificant things in our life. Sometimes
we'll ignore it for bigger sins that you'll find through the
Word of God. And there's a lot you could say
about it. All I want to say just by way of introduction is this.
If you ever wonder how serious that envy is, or if you ever
wonder how bad of a sin that it actually is, Then you can
go to Matthew chapter 27 and verse number 18, and you'll find
that the Bible tells us that envy was what was behind them
crucifying our Savior. In Matthew 27, 18, it's talking
about Pilate, but the Bible says that he knew that for envy they
had delivered him. So if you just ever wanna just
seal in your heart how significant that envy is, you remember that
the Bible says it was the reason that they nailed our Savior to
the cross. It was envy that caused them
to do that. So envy is a very serious thing,
and it will cause you to do a lot of things in your life that you'll
regret, and we'll see that played out in the life of Joseph's brothers.
But I'm interested, particularly in what Jacob said and the fact
that he's talking about an evil beast. And I don't know exactly
what animal Jacob was thinking of. The first thing I picture
in my mind is a lion. We know there would have been
lions present probably in this day and in this area. And you
could speculate exactly what beast that he was talking about. But one thing that is true is
that envy, spiritually speaking, has a very unique resemblance
to a beast. Real quickly, let me just give
you five things before we get into this text. Let me give you
five similarities between envy and between a wild beast or an
evil beast. The first thing I would say about
both of them is that they are contentious in their nature. They're impossible to tame. They have a rebellious spirit. We understand this with a wild
beast that you can put them in a cage and you can try to domesticate
them, but we've all heard the stories of how that usually turns
out. And it's usually not very good
because there's something in that nature to resist and to
push against and to rebel, any kind of constraint that's put
on that animal. And I'm telling you, that's exactly
how envy is. If you let envy in your heart,
it will develop a spirit of rebellion and a spirit of resistance against
anyone or anything that tries to direct you in the right path.
Not only is it contentious in its nature, but also, I thought
about the concealment of its nature. We've all watched as
maybe a lion, it'll sneak up, it'll try to camouflage itself
and sneak up on its prey or you've probably seen videos of a crocodile
and how it'll conceal itself in the water up until the very
last second to try to latch on to that prey. And you know that's
how envy works in our life. It's amazing how sneaky that
envy is. It will wiggle its way into your
heart and wiggle its way into your thoughts. And if you're
not careful, you'll wake up and be full of envy and really kind
of not even know how it ended up there. Why in the world am
I dealing with this in my heart? But that's how envy works in
our life. Not only is it contentious, it's
concealed in its nature. I would say this, that it's conceited
in its nature. Envy only thinks about itself. Envy will make you a self-centered
person. Envy will give you the idea that
the whole world revolves around you and you are the only person.
Is that not how a wild animal is? A wild animal has no care. A wild animal has no concern
for anything else. All it's thinking about is itself
and fulfilling its own desires. I thought about how envy is calloused
in its nature. We've all seen the videos of
wild beasts that will just completely devour its prey. It seems like
there's no heart. In fact, one of the aspects of
a wild beast that we're familiar with is many of them will destroy
their own offspring, their own children. They're just calloused. There's no feelings of care or
love for anything else. And I'm telling you, envy will
make you a very, very calloused person. As a young person, if
you don't deal with envy in your life, then it will callous your
heart and you'll become someone who doesn't have any compassion
toward the lost or toward the brothers and sisters in Christ
that God had placed you with. I thought about as well how that
it's cruel in its nature. The intent of envy is to destroy. That's the signature of a wild
beast. That's what the Bible said about
our adversary Satan in 2 Peter, that he has a roaring lion seeking
whom he may devour. That's the nature of a wild beast.
And envy wants to devour. It wants to devour the people
that you're envious of. But sadly, if you give envy a
place in your life, it will devour your own life. And it will devour,
you'll self-devour. That's how envy works. Now I
wanna look in this scripture. And I want to note just several
things in this chapter. And really I want to kind of
work my way backwards through chapter number 37. I know most
of us are probably familiar with this storyline of Joseph and
his brothers and the coat of many colors that is mentioned
in the first part of this chapter. But I want us to look at this
question. Why was Joseph's brothers so envious of him? I think there's
several things that we could point out in Scripture. The first
thing I would say as we move backwards through this chapter
is I think they were envious because of Joseph's purpose. Now as you read these first several
verses of chapter 37, and you see the dreams that Joseph had,
you'll realize that God had a special purpose for Joseph's life. Not
only did Joseph understand that, but I think that it was obvious
to his brothers and to his father that God had something special
he was going to do in his life. And it made, they had become
so jealous and so consumed with God's purpose for Joseph's life
that they hated him because of it. And I'm telling you, one
thing that envy does, now this makes no sense, I'm telling you,
envy just completely goes against what logic would convince us
of. It makes no sense that someone
who is saved, someone who is a part of the family of God would
become upset about the purpose that God has in someone else's
life. But has it not happened? I know
I'm gonna say some things this morning that none of us want
to admit to. We would never want to admit
that we think these things or that we've dealt with these feelings,
but I'm telling you nothing highlights our depravity like envy does. And if you're not careful, you'll
see God using someone else. You'll see God put a special
purpose in someone else's life. Maybe they are getting to do
something that you wish you could do. And instead of being happy
for them, which is what you would think would happen in the life
of a Christian, you would think we would be excited that God
wants to use someone else. We'd be excited that God has
a purpose for someone else's life. But sometimes instead of
becoming excited, we'll become envious and we'll become jealous
and we'll become bitter that God is not doing the same thing
for us. Not only were they envious of
his purpose, but also I think you could conclude from these
verses that they were envious of Joseph's passion. Joseph was
excited about what God has in store for him. He doesn't understand
it all He's just a young man with a few dreams that has his
whole life ahead of him But I can imagine you know the story how
the Joseph he comes in to the breakfast table one morning and
he begins to tell his father and his brothers about these
dreams and I mean I think you could tell in Joseph's life that
he just had a passion, he was excited that God had given him
these dreams. And I can't help but think in
their mind, Joseph's brothers looked at him and thought, what
are you so excited about? What in the world, you woke up
this morning so excited, you think you're something special
that God has given you these dreams? And they become envious
of the passion that Joseph had. Again, it doesn't make sense.
You would think, especially with young people, you would think
that when a young person gets excited about serving God, and
you think when you see someone excited about doing something
and whatever it is God has put in their heart, you would think
you would be excited with them. You would think you would praise
God for the passion that someone wants to do something for the
Lord. But how many times does envy sneak into our life, and
instead of being excited with someone else, and we think, who
do they think they are? Would they think they're something
special? They're coming in bragging about
what they get to do for the Lord. We're not careful, we'll misinterpret
what God is doing in someone else's life when we're full of
envy. knowing they were envious of his purpose, they were envious
of his passion. But let me say this, and this
is a tough point in this scripture. But I think they were also envious,
and we could maybe say this was even the primary thing that was
playing out in their lives, they were envious of His privilege.
Now one thing that we know about Joseph, in verse number 3, this
is the first thing that's said, you can see it in our text, 37
verse number 3. He said, Now Israel loved Joseph
more than all his children, because he was the son of his old age,
and he made him a coat of many colors. One thing that had produced
envy in the heart of Joseph's brother is that Joseph seemed
to have a privilege that they didn't have. Now we could preach
all day about how Jacob handled this situation. And I think there's
some good principles. I think it would be hard to say
that Jacob handled this situation right. It does seem like he showed
a lot of favoritism toward Joseph. And we could look at that and
we could preach on that. But here's what I want you to
understand, that they're so focused on Joseph's privilege, they're
so focused on the favor that he has, that they've forgotten
about their own position in the family. They're just, all they
can see, let me make this statement, I know you've heard your parents
say this, or somebody say this time and time again, and that's
that life is not fair. Sometimes, and I feel like the
least person here to be preaching this because I told you last
night how God has blessed me with such a good home. And I
was raised in church and I have no complaints about my life and
how the Lord let me be raised. And I feel I have a tough time
preaching this, but let me say this, there's probably some young
people here that your life isn't that great. You don't have such
a good home. You don't have so much opportunity.
And if you're not careful, you'll look at someone else whose life
seems to be better. If you're not careful, you'll
look at someone else that they have parents that love them.
They have parents that encourage them in the things of God. They
have parents who take them to church. And if you're not careful,
you'll let envy begin to stir in your heart and you'll become
envious of the privilege that they have. It seems like they
have more opportunity. It seems like they have more
potential. It seems like they have more going for them. And
it's easy to get focused on that. And I think that's what happens
in the life of Joseph's brothers. Be very careful. Be very careful
in your life of not becoming envious about the privilege that
it looks like someone else may have. Let me say this lastly,
going back to verse number two. And honestly, in my heart, this
could be the whole reason that this could have been the thing
that started it all in the life of his brothers. But I think
they were envy of Joseph's purity. And here's what we're given in
verse number two. It says that Joseph, being 17 years old, was
feeding the flock with his brethren. And the lad was with the sons
of Bill and with the sons of Zilpah. That would have been
Naphtali and Dan, who was Bill's sons, and Gad and Asher were
Zilpah's sons. It says, and Joseph brought unto
his father their evil report. Now, I know everybody, I guess,
has a different opinion or perspective of this verse, and some people
make Joseph out to be a tattletale, almost as if he was in the wrong
in this text. Honestly, I don't see that in
this verse. Joseph was just a young man of integrity. Something had
happened, the Bible doesn't give us any description of what had
went on, but in verse number one, something had happened and
Joseph was the young man that had enough integrity to bring
this report to his father. I'm telling you, the one thing
that could have started it all was the integrity that Joseph's
had and his brothers were envious of that integrity. You know,
a lot of the times when you become upset about someone else doing
what's right, when you become upset about someone else's integrity
or them serving the Lord, it's because it's condemning your
own life. It's because it's highlighted the lack of integrity. And I
think they wanted Joseph to be just like them. Joseph, just
sweep it under the rug. It's not that big of a deal.
But Joseph was a young man of purity and a young man of integrity.
And his brothers were envious of that. I'm telling you, it
just doesn't make sense in our life. How many times have you
had emotions and have you thought things? And if you're really
saved and the Holy Spirit's dwelling in your heart, the Holy Spirit's
going to point those things out. But how many times have you had
those thoughts come through your mind and you've dealt with those
emotions and you think, why in the world am I dealing with this?
I should be happy for that person. I should be excited. I should
be thrilled that they have a passion to serve God, but yet the whole
time you just eat up with bitterness and jealous, and you don't even
wanna see their face because of what they're doing for the
Lord. It doesn't make sense. I'm telling you, if we're not
careful, we'll find ourselves there. Now, here's what I wanna do.
In our remaining time, I want you to look at what happened when
these brothers became so full of envy And it just begins a
progression in their life or a decline, I guess you would
say, away from what God's doing for them. Even though they may
not have had the privilege of Joseph, There's no doubt because
these, I mean, this was the beginning of the nation of Israel. God
had a purpose for their life. And let me tell you what envy
will do. Envy will get you distracted from the purpose God has for
you because you're so consumed about the purpose God has for
someone else. Envy is a thief. Envy, some of
you no doubt this morning, some of you are being robbed of the
greatest years of your life because you're so full of envy and you're
so distracted with the life of someone else. Some of you may
be here, you have a young family that God's blessed you with.
You're missing watching your kids grow up. You're being robbed
of some great years in your life because you're just so upset
about what's happening in someone else's life. That's a dangerous
place to be. There's people that are 60, 70,
80 years old and they've lived their whole life full of envy
and they've allowed it to rob them of any joy and any peace
that they could have had in serving God. So how does envy work in
Joseph's brother's life? I think it works exactly the
same way, just like a beast. Let me show you, I just wanna
give you, I don't know, six, seven things real quick of what
was the result of envy. Let me say this first of all.
that envy resulted in despite. It caused them to despise their
brother. Someone who they should have
loved. Someone who they should have been close to. Someone who
when he came to the breakfast table, they should have said,
Joseph, we're thankful for what God's doing in your life. And
we'll be there to encourage you. But it caused them to hate. Look
what the Bible says, let me show you just a few verses in this
chapter. 37 in verse number five, it says, Joseph dreamed a dream
and he told his brethren, or look with me in verse number
four, first of all. It says, when his brethren saw that his
father loved them more than all his brethren, they hated him.
That was the beginning, they hate him. Verse number five,
it says, he dreamed a dream, he told his brethren, and they
hated him yet more. Look with me in verse number
8. It says, His brethren said unto them, Shout thou indeed
reign over us, or shout thou indeed have dominion over us.
And they hated him yet the more. Look with me in verse number
11. It says, And his brethren envied him, but his father observed
the same. What had happened is their envy
had caused them to despise their brother. We understand what the
Word of God says about hate. It's a strong word that's used
in the Bible. And as a Christian, we should
have no place, no matter what happens, there should be no place
in our heart for hate. But what envy does is it will
bring hate into your life. It will stir up that emotion
of hate that all of us deal with. Not only that they despise him,
but you'll also find that they cause division. Envy resulted
in division in their life. Just like a wild beast will take
its prey and rip it to pieces. If you let envy have control
in your life, it will start to rip apart everything that you
love. Look what the Bible says in verse
number four. This is a strong statement. It
says that when his brethren saw their father loved him more than
all his brethren, they hated him, and notice this last phrase,
and could not speak peaceably unto him. They were so envious
of Joseph that they couldn't say one nice thing. They couldn't say anything to
unite. Everything that they said was to divide. Listen, I know
how it works, especially as a young person, especially in a youth
group, You'll develop envy in your heart, and all of a sudden,
and we're really good at it in the South, we know how to frame
it very sweetly, but everything we say is to divide. Everything
we say is to make us, what about the person, you probably, if
you're dealing with envy, you can see a face in your mind this
morning. What about the person that every time you see them,
the first thing in your mind is what can I say to hurt them?
You cannot, I mean, as much as you know you're supposed to be
a Christian and you know you're supposed to do right, but you
just can't find it within yourself to say one good thing. You're
so envious of what's going on in their life. And listen, it
can be good and bad. Asaph talked about being envious
of the wicked. And you can get to a place, maybe
it's not what the good that God's doing in someone's life, but
you may be a young person and you're envious of what someone
else gets by with. You're envious of the sin that
they're in. And you're just serving God out of duty because you know
that you have to, but you're looking at a young person across
the aisle and you're envious that they don't have any rules
and regulations and they get to do whatever they want. And
you may be in that situation. And you're in a place where every
time you see that person, the first thing in your mind is I
can't stand them. What can I say to hurt them? What can I say
to tear them down and make myself look better? Envy always brings
division. Along with that, another thing
I want you to notice in verse number 8, we already read this
verse just a second ago. But envy, it produces defiance. Look what they said to his brother.
Now I get the situation. I understand where they're at.
That they don't want to have to submit to their brother. All
of us that have siblings can say amen to that. You're not
going to tell me what to do. So I get it. I'm relating to
them in this verse. But they said, shalt thou indeed
reign over us? Or shalt thou indeed have dominion
over us? But here's what they don't understand.
That when they're resisting Joseph, they're resisting God's plan
for their life. This was all in the organizing
of God. God was the one that had laid
all of this out. And they thought they were just
going against Joseph. They just thought, oh, this is
his little brother and he thinks he's going to be the boss. Well,
he has another thing coming. But they don't understand in
their envy towards someone else that they're going against God's
plan for their life. Here's what you don't understand
a lot of times. When you let envy fester in your life, and
it calls you to, we still know the verse in Ephesians 5, submit
yourself one to another. That's not just for adults, that's
for young people too. That's the way we're to live
our life as a Christian, submitting to our brothers, sisters, and
Christ. And when you raise up, and they're not gonna tell me
what, they're not gonna act that way to me. Who do they think
they are? You don't understand, you're not just rebelling against
them, but you're rebelling against the word of God. Envy will sometimes
deceive you to think that it's just against that person, but
the truth is, they were going against what God had planned
for them. They didn't understand all of
this. Envy will produce defiance in our life. Not only that, notice
with me in verse number 18, I made a statement similar to this a
few minutes ago, but you'll see that envy produced depravity. Now look at how bad this gets
in verse number 18. Now we know the story how that
Jacob had sent Joseph to check on his brethren. Joseph in obedience
goes and the Bible says in verse number 18 that when they saw
him afar off, even before he came near unto them, they conspired
against him to slay him. Their envy had become so serious
in their life I don't know how long it's been since they've
seen Joseph, but they're out here taking care of their father's
sheep, and they see Joseph, and the first thought is we need
to figure out how to kill him. We've got to destroy him. We
can't get to where he's at. But man, we can take away what
he has. You can imagine as they ripped that coat to pieces how
satisfied that they were in their flesh that they were doing this
to Joseph and they were bringing him down off of his pedestal
is what they thought. And envy had called, it really
highlighted their depravity. Thank God for civil laws that
keep a lot of this stuff from happening. And we'd probably
be surprised how many Christians, they're saved, and I don't think
any of us would say we would go this far as to want to kill
someone, but how many times, if you dealt with the emotion,
you become full of envy, and the first thing in your depraved
nature, the first thing is, I just want to hurt them. I've got to
try to bring them, I've got to try to tear them down. It happens
so many times. It happens so often. There'll
be a young person who's serving the Lord and doing what's right.
And it's a lot easier to try to tear that young person down
than to try to get to where they're at. It's a lot easier to try
to destroy their life. That's what they do with Joseph.
Let me give you a couple more things. Also, I want you to notice
this, that envy had caused a delusion in their life. Now, what they're
envious of, remember, is the favor that Joseph had with Jacob,
and they're envious of his dreams. These dreams, it seems like it's
what had drove them to full-blown envy in their life. But they
don't know what Joseph is going to have to go through to get
to that place. All they see is the dreams. All
they see is the purpose. And envious had made them delusional
to that. In their mind, they thought Joseph
is gonna have this wonderful life. They don't know that Joseph's
life is gonna go to the pit, and then it's gonna be in Potiphar's
house, and then it's gonna be in prison, and he's gonna be
forgotten about in prison, he's gonna interpret dreams, and then
he's gonna be forgotten about again, and they don't know the
ups and downs in Joseph's life. And I dare say, I dare say this,
that if they would have known what Joseph was going to have
to go through to get to those dreams, they'd have probably
said, no, thank you. We'll stay right here at home
with dad and we'll enjoy our life. Joseph, you can have all
the dream business if that's what we're going to have to go
through. And I'll tell you what Envy will do in your life. Because
all we see, especially in this day with social media, all you
see is the highlights of everyone's life. You see the good things.
You see the good days. You see it when they're smiling.
You don't know what they've had to go through to get there. You
may see the purpose and you're envious of what it looks like
God is doing in someone else's life. And you're thinking, man,
I wish that was me. But honestly, in reality, you
might not even be willing to go through what they're going
through to get to the place that God is taking them. Envy will
make you delusional. Envy will get you focused on
someone else's life, thinking, oh, they've got everything going
for them. They've got it so great. And sometimes you'll miss what's
going on in your life that's good. These men were still a
son of Jacob. God still had a purpose for their
life. They still had some great things in store for them, but
they were so focused on Joseph's purpose that they completely
missed it. Joseph had to go through a lot of things to get to these
dreams. Let me give you this one. I want you to turn, in fact,
with me to chapter 42 in verse number 21. Let me say this, that
envy will produce disgust in your life. This is such, this
is so interesting to me. Chapter number 42. As these men
come to Joseph, it's been years now since they had seen Joseph.
As far as they know, he doesn't even exist anymore. They sold
him into slavery. We know the Bible changes through
Joseph's life and everything that he goes through and how
God brings him to this place of power, to the palace, and
he brings him for the salvation of the world. It's just amazing
just the design of God in this entire text and all of these
circumstances. But as they get, of course you
remember Joseph knew who they were, but they didn't know that
this was Joseph. And he tells them they're going
to have to go back and bring their younger brother. He accused
them of being spies. Now here's what happens in verse
number 21. Remember this is years after everything has taken place.
And look what the Bible says, as soon as they're confronted
with this situation, they're scared to death, they've been
accused of being spies, they know how Jacob feels about the
younger brother, Benjamin. In verse 21, it says, and they
said one to another, we are verily guilty concerning our brother
in that we saw the anguish of his soul when he besought us
and we would not hear, therefore is this distress come upon us. Joseph had gotten past what they
had done to him, but they were never able to get past it. The
first thing that came in their mind when something went bad
is they said, this is because of what we did to Joseph. It's
for years, what happened that day has haunted their memory.
For years, it still seems pretty fresh in their mind. In fact,
they're pretty descriptive, more descriptive than what we see
in chapter 37. Because they said in verse number 21 that he besought
us and we would not hear. Obviously, Joseph was begging
them not to do this to him. He said, we would not hear, therefore
behold also his blood is required. They had a guilty conscience
because of choices they made when they were controlled by
envy. And here's what's so dangerous about, especially as a young
person, what's so dangerous about envy in your life is you'll make
choices that are spurred by envy that will live with you the rest
of your life. You'll say things in a moment of envy that you'll
regret for the rest of your life. You'll destroy relationships
because of envy that you'll have to deal with. And thank God for
forgiveness. All of us have said things that
we shouldn't have. And I'm thankful for forgiveness. But I'm telling
you, envy will cause you to do things that will haunt you. That's
where his brothers are at. Let me give you this one lastly.
You'll find that, and this is sort of the obvious statement
of the chapter, you'll find that envy produced destruction. That's what they thought that
they had done to Joseph. They thought that they had destroyed
him. That was their intentions, is they wanted to destroy Joseph's
life. But honestly, you know the story,
Joseph wasn't the one that was destroyed. It was their life
that was affected by envy. Their relationship, here's one
thing that's so interesting about envy. Now who in this text, who
is the person that they want favor from? It's from their father.
That's what they're envious of, is the favor that Joseph has
from the father. And in trying to hurt Joseph,
they end up hurting the person that they claim to love the most.
the one they claim to want his attention and to want his favor,
that's the person who they hurt. In fact, look in our text, in
verse number 34, chapter 37, verse 34, it says, and Jacob
rent his clothes and put on sackcloth upon his loins and mourned for
his son many days. And here's what he said in verse
number 35, for I will go down into the grave until my son mourning,
thus his father wept for him. And you'll find later on in the
chapters that Jacob was still upset, he was still mourning
when they took Benjamin away to take him back to Egypt. He
said, I've already lost Joseph and he was still affected by
what had happened. This completely destroyed the relationship that
they had with their father. Here's what's so sad about envy,
is you'll allow your life to be consumed by envy, and you
think you're gonna hurt that person you're envious of. What's
gonna end up happening is you're gonna hurt the people you love
the most. How many young people that have been consumed by envy,
and their intention, it was never to hurt, it was never to hurt
their parents, it was never to hurt their friends, they tried
to hurt that person they were envious of, but they ended up
hurting the person they loved the most. How many spouses, husbands,
and wife have been moved by envy, and they never intended to hurt
their marriage, but they destroyed their marriage because of envy.
Envy will destroy relationships in your life. You can even look,
I don't know if we could attribute it, directly to what happened
in chapter 37, but you look at chapter number 38, and what happened
in Judah, and the horrible sin that was committed in chapter
number 38. You know, a lot of times envy will lead you to other
sins. You let envy in your life, and
it'll take you further down a road of sin. Let me give you this
verse as we close. Job chapter number 5. You don't
have to turn there, I'll just read it to you. Job chapter 5
and verse number 2. I think Job made a very wise
statement. He said, Envy ultimately will destroy
you. You've heard the illustration
so many times about jealousy or bitterness. It's like drinking
poison, expecting it to hurt someone else. And it's not going
to. It's so interesting. I've been thinking about this
the last few days, and I'm closing. You could go through the Word of
God, and you could see how envy works. And it's interesting to
me. Now, let me give you this. I guess I shouldn't close without
giving you the remedy of envy. If anyone had a right to be upset
and bitter and envious, it was Joseph. He's the one when he
was sitting in the pit. He should have been the one that
was so bitter and consumed with what had been done to him, but
he wasn't. He just kept his focus on what God had called him to
do. And he just stayed the course. He was faithful in the pit. He
was faithful in Potiphar's house. He was faithful. Joseph was just
faithful. And he said, you know, I've been hurt. I've been betrayed.
Joseph could have sit around and cried a bucket of tears at
Potiphar's house over what had happened in his life, but he
didn't do that. He just stayed busy. He said, God's been too
good to me. I'm going to stay faithful. Joseph
should have been the one destroyed by Andy. All the circumstances
were against Joseph, but he was just faithful. And you see what
God did in Joseph's life. Listen, I'm telling you, the
remedy to envy is just stay faithful to the Lord. Just do what's right. Just say, I'm not going to let
anything else distract me. I'm going to stay faithful to
the Lord. I thought about David and Saul. If anyone had the right
to be upset in that situation, it was David. Saul was the one
that was trying to kill him. And yet David just stayed faithful
to the Lord. He just did what's right. Saul was the one that
ended up dying a miserable death on a battlefield and God blessed
David's life. Haman and Esther in the book
of Esther. If anyone that should have been upset, it should have
been Esther. She should have been the one that was consumed
with bitterness, but she was so close to the king that she
invited Haman to the banquet that she had prepared twice in
the book of Esther. She wasn't distracted, but Haman
was the one that was so consumed with envy that he ended up hanging
himself, he ended up being hung on his own gallows because of
envy in his life. It plays out the same way every
single time. It plays out the same way you
think you're going to hurt someone else. Because envy feels good.
Just like that wild beast, and I'm done. Just like that wild
beast. How many times have you heard the story of someone who
had a lion, a tiger, they've had it for years. And then one
day, they thought it was their pet. They thought they had everything
under control. And one day that animal turned
and destroyed their life. And I'm telling you, envy is
a really, I don't know any better way to say this. I think you'll
understand. It's a good pet sin. It feels good. Envy really feels
good to our flesh. And it just grows and grows.
And it's just so easy to try. I'm telling you, it's our depravity.
And you'll think you have it under control. You think it's
your pet sin that you'll play with and everything will be okay.
But you'll turn around one day and it'll destroy your life.
God help us to be careful. of the evil beast of envy. Pastor,
you come. Lord, I thank you for your word.
And Lord, I pray that you'd speak to the hearts of the young people
that are here. And the Lord has already said, I need this in
my life. It is so easy. We're so prone to jealousy and
envy. And Lord, I pray that if there's
a young person that's dealing with that this morning, that
they would get in the altar and they would get that right. Lord,
it was said last night how much potential is in this room. And
Lord, there's probably a young person that they're consumed
by envy and you wanna do so, if they could just see the plans
that you had for their life. If they could just see the purpose
that you have for them and what you wanna do through them, and
yet, if they're not careful, they're gonna let envy take it
all away. I pray that you would work and you would do what only
you can do. We love you, Lord. Amen.
The Evil Beast of Envy
Series Youth Conference 2023
| Sermon ID | 3423172913703 |
| Duration | 42:01 |
| Date | |
| Category | Conference |
| Bible Text | Genesis 37:31-35 |
| Language | English |
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