We are in Romans chapter 12.
Romans chapter 12. Therefore I urge you brothers
in view of God's mercy to offer your bodies as living sacrifices,
holy and pleasing to God. This is your spiritual act of
worship. Do not conform any longer to
the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing
of your mind. Then you will be able to test
and approve what God's will is, his good, pleasing, and perfect
will. For by the grace given me, I
say to every one of you, do not think of yourself more highly
than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment
in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you. Just
as each of us has one body with many members, and these members
do not all have the same function, so in Christ, we who are many
form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. We
have different gifts according to the grace given us. If a man's
gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith.
If it is serving, let him serve. If it is teaching, let him teach.
If it is encouraging, let him encourage. If it is contributing
to the needs of others, let him give generously. If it is leadership,
let him govern diligently. If it is showing mercy, let him
do it cheerfully. Love must be sincere. Hate what
is evil, cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in
brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.
Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving
the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in
affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with God's people who are
in need. Practice hospitality. Bless those
who persecute you. Bless and do not curse. Rejoice
with those who rejoice. Mourn with those who mourn. Live
in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing
to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited. Do not repay anyone evil for
evil. Be careful to do what is right
in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as
it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge,
my friends, but leave room for God's wrath. For it is written,
it is mine to avenge. I will repay, says the Lord.
On the contrary, if your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is
thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will
heap burning coals on his head. Do not be overcome by evil, but
overcome evil with good. May God add his blessing to this
reading from his holy and inspired word. Paul says, for by the grace
given to me, I say to every one of you, do not think of yourself
more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with
sober judgment in accordance with the measure of faith God
has given you. Do not think of yourself more
highly than you ought to think. If ever there was a culture that
needed desperately to hear that message, it's ours. We have spent
tons and tons of tax dollars to fund an education system that
has produced very little in the way of people who understand
and can effectively communicate in English and very little in
the way of people who can do math problems or understand even
rudimentary science. But we have produced a nation
of people who believe that we are the best and brightest the
world has ever seen. We have the most marvelous, high
opinion of just how bright we are. When our students are tested
academically against other students from around the, shall we say,
more prosperous nations, our students rank among the worst
academically. But when asked to evaluate how
they think they did in comparison to other students from other
countries, they put themselves right at the top. Some of the
students from other countries who did way better than we did
put themselves down toward the bottom in terms of how they think
they did because they have grown up in a mindset where basically
you haven't done enough, you haven't done enough, you must
do more, you've got to work harder. We know that's not good for children.
We want everybody everywhere to feel really good. And that's
why all of us are above average. Okay? Now, folks, by definition,
about half of us must be average or below. Does that make sense? I mean, just by definition, whether
we're talking about running a race, we now have a school system nationally
in which it is in many, many places considered inappropriate
to have any sort of competition where some children might not
win. We're all supposed to be winners. You're all winners. I want you to look at yourself
in the mirror and say, I am beautiful. Feel good about yourself, okay? That's what matters, is that
you feel good about yourself. Well, I would like to submit
to you that the Bible gives a different view. Jesus says, after you've
done everything that's commanded, you ought to say, I'm an unworthy
servant, all I did was what was commanded. And we've got a real
problem because we haven't done everything that was commanded.
So if somebody who does everything that's commanded is supposed
to consider himself an unworthy servant, what are we supposed
to think of ourselves? Well, Paul just gently tells
us, don't think of yourself more highly than you ought to think.
But instead, think of yourself with sober judgment. Now, there
is a pendulum here, and I want to warn you. Some people think
in order to be godly, you just need to go around all the time
sort of beating your back with a little whip and saying, I am
no good, I'm just, I'm ugly, I'm stupid, I just can't do a
thing. Well, that's not true either.
Well, I mean, maybe it is for some people, Come on, come on,
come on. We're not supposed to go around
focused on ourselves. Do you understand? We're not
supposed to go around focused on ourselves. Life isn't supposed
to be all about us. Our focus ought to be on God.
And when our focus is on God, it will bring humility to our
hearts. When our focus is on Him, His
greatness, His holiness, His magnificence, we don't feel so
magnificent anymore. And then God awakens us in His
mercy to the fact that He actually created us in His likeness and
that we are to reflect His glory and we are in Christ more beautiful
in a significant way than we ever really imagined. And we
not only begin to appreciate the worth that God has invested
in us, but the worth that God has invested in others. And yet,
in order to appreciate that worth, we don't have to think we're
all the fastest runner on the team. That we can all jump higher
than everybody else. that we're all smarter than everybody
else. Instead, we discover that we
are part of a design that God envisioned, whereby each of us
has different gifts and different functions, different strengths
and different weaknesses. Have you ever tried to smell
something with your elbow? Have you ever tried that? I haven't,
but I was thinking about it this morning when I was meditating
on this text. I don't think I'd be able to
really do a very good job smelling stuff with my elbow. And the
reason is because elbows aren't designed with olfactory nerves. Your nose has specially designed
nerves in it, little receptors that send signals to your brain
about how stuff smells, okay? And if your nose is not too stopped
up, you can actually recognize the difference between, let's
say, minestrone and teriyaki, okay? right? You can tell the difference. A huge part of taste is smell. They're linked. And that's why
if you can't smell, food doesn't taste as good. It just doesn't
taste as good. You can still pick up some stuff
with your tongue because your tongue has special nerves also. And frankly, I love kissing my
wife, but I wouldn't want to kiss her with my nose. You understand my lips and my
tongue are good for kissing my wife, but my nose wouldn't be
so good. If I got a sloppy one from the nose, that'd be gross.
Right. And if I tried to see stuff with
my ear, it just, I can't, I'm looking, I can't tell if they're
smiling or not. I can't see with my ear. I can hear with my ear.
I'd have a terrible time trying to hear with my eyes. My eyes
aren't designed to hear with. They're designed to see with.
And within the body of Christ, as well as in life, we have different
gifts and different functions. and we're not supposed to put
ourselves down, and we're not supposed to put other people
down based on the fact that this person has this gift, that person
has that gift, and that person has that gift, and I've only
got this gift. Do you ever feel like in the
body you're just kind of a fingernail? You know, I want it to be a heart. I want it to be a lung. I want
it to be a liver, at least some vital organ, something really
important. And I, I seem to just be more
of a fingernail. Well, you may feel down on yourself
about that, but if you've ever lost your fingernail, you ever
lost a fingernail. Bummer. All of a sudden fingernails
are important, aren't they? I remember when I was a little
kid, I lost a toenail. I didn't know you could do that,
but I discovered you can, I was rather distressed and, and the
area where the toenail used to be, it turns out is very sensitive. That toenails there for a reason.
And so I gained as a preschooler, a new appreciation for my nails. You understand? What if you're
just a hair? Oh, I am. I'm just, I'm just
a hair. Do you know that your hair serves
a function? It really does. There is a purpose to every part
of you. And whatever your part within
the body of Christ, it's designed by God. Some people don't value
their hair. They just shave it right off,
but that's okay. It keeps trying to reassert itself.
I want you to understand something. Every part of you. And every one of you has value
and significance. God has a purpose and a plan
for your life. And you need to rejoice in the
fact that God's plan for you is good and acceptable and perfect. It's perfect. We already established
that in the opening verses. But when he says, for by the
grace given to me, I say to every one of you, do not think of yourself
more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with
sober judgment in accordance with the measure of faith God
has given you. Then he starts to talk about the members of
the body and says in Christ, we who are many form one body
and each member, listen to this, each member belongs to all the
others. That means we have a relationship
within the body where we belong to each other. We're connected.
We can't just work as lone rangers, you know. Oh, I'm really more
of a freelance artist within the body of Christ. I don't see
myself as really connected anywhere in particular. I'm just kind
of a, you know, freelancer. Really? I think we call that
a dismembered body. I would be horrified if I was
walking across campus and I saw a finger lying on the ground.
I wouldn't pick it up and say, wow, that looks like a pretty
good finger. I could use this. No, the finger loses its ability
to function effectively and do what it's supposed to do if it's
not connected to the body. It needs to be in relationship
with the rest or it doesn't work right. Hey, I found this liver
out there in the parking area. And I was just wondering, anybody
here got a use for this? Folks, if it's not in place,
if it's not connected, then it's not gonna function the way it's
supposed to. And Paul says, we need to recognize that all of
us have gifts, all of us have a purpose, and all of us are
connected, and we need to function that way. And he describes it in terms
of gifts. The word here is connected to
the word grace. We have been given a function
that we don't deserve within the body. And it's all based
on grace. So then he gives a list of some
of the gifts in the body, prophesying, serving, teaching, encouraging,
contributing, leadership, showing mercy. And he says, whatever
your gift is, there are corresponding responsibilities. If your gift
is prophesying, then you should prophesy in proportion to your
faith. If it's serving, then go ahead
and serve. If it's teaching, go ahead and
teach. If it's encouraging, go ahead and encourage. If it's
contributing to the needs of others, give generously. If it's leadership, govern diligently. If it's showing mercy, do it
cheerfully. Because wouldn't it be sad if
you did your thing within the body, but you didn't do it cheerfully?
I mean, this is my job, it's my function. I know this is the
gift God's given me, but I really wish I had that gift over there.
I'd like to be in leadership instead of showing mercy. I mean,
I just, you know, mercy, especially if you're a guy, you know, mercy
is just, women ought to have the mercy gift. Men, men ought
to be like, you know, leadership. Contributing, I can see giving,
giving, that could be a legitimate gift for a man, but showing mercy.
Let me tell you, we need, can you think of any male figures
in scripture who really in a remarkable way showed mercy? Like maybe
Jesus, for example, or God the Father? If God wasn't merciful,
where would we be? The chapter begins with, therefore
I urge you brothers in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies
as a living sacrifice. And yet some people, if they,
you know, I don't feel very manly, my spiritual gifts test says
I'm a mercy guy. It doesn't seem very macho. Whatever your gift is, use it,
and use it cheerfully. And then he goes through and
he gives a whole list whole list of bullet points that I would
submit to you apply to all of us but a fellow who spent a lot
of time in the Word suggested that they may each of these little
bullet points may in a in a special way relate to the list of gifts
he's just given it is an interesting correlation take a look at it
with me beginning in verse 9 Let's suppose your gift is prophesying,
which is the first thing listed in the list of gifts starting
in v. 6. In v. 6, the first thing he lists is
prophesying. In v. 9, he says, love must be
sincere. Hate what is evil. Cling to what
is good. I can tell you as one who has
the gift of prophecy that that is a very important exhortation
for those of us with the gift of prophecy. Okay? Because it is very tempting sometimes
for those of us with the gift of prophecy to overlook 1 Corinthians
13 and fail to realize that if we don't love with the love of
God, we're only resounding gong or clanging cymbal. Okay? I mean, it's just utterly useless. We must love sincerely and we
must hate what is evil but cling to what is good. Sometimes prophets
hate what is evil and fail to cling to what is good. Then,
if it's serving, well, look at verse
10. Be devoted to one another in
brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.
That kind of sounds especially like serving, doesn't it? Be
devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above
yourselves. Hmm. What about teaching? Teaching
is a very valuable gift. Not everybody has the gift of
teaching. Not everybody should aspire to teach. But for those
who do have the gift of teaching, verse 11, never be lacking in
zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor serving the Lord. Can
you see where sometimes those who have the gift of teaching
really get excited about research and concepts and might sometimes
get a little cool and detached and academic about it all and
need to be reminded never to be lacking in zeal but to keep
your spiritual fervor serving the Lord? What about If it's encouraging, let them
encourage verse 12, be joyful in hope, patient in affliction,
faithful in prayer. That that'd be kind of a specially
effective word for somebody whose gift is encouraging. Wouldn't
it be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. It's a good word for encouragers.
What about. Those who have the gift of giving
the gift of contributing to the needs of others will look at
verse 13. Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality
that seems to be especially relevant to them, doesn't it? And then
and then in verse 14. Bless those who persecute you.
What in the world could that be tied to? Bless those who persecute
you. Bless and do not curse. Well,
if if this pattern really does exist, that would be tied back
to leadership. Those who are in leadership are supposed to
govern diligently. Why would a person in leadership be told
to bless those who persecute you? I don't get it. Well, if
you don't get it, you've never been in leadership. Okay? Because if you are in leadership,
you are guaranteed to have a whole bunch of people mad at you who
will go out of their way to try and make your life miserable.
Guaranteed. Guaranteed. If you don't believe
it, become a parent. Alright? I'm telling you, there
is a kind of interesting correlation here. And then what about the
last one? If it is showing mercy, let him
do it cheerfully. Verse 15. Rejoice with those
who rejoice. Mourn with those who mourn. That
sort of fits, doesn't it? So again, Pastor, what are you
saying then that I just need to find my gift and then go over
there to verses 9 through 15 and find the one that applies
to me? No, they all apply to us. They all apply to us. But some of them are going to
be especially applicable based on what our gifting is and therefore
what we are most inclined to do and fail to do. Got it? God's Word is rich and multi-layered
and the more you study it the more amazing it becomes Verse
16 live in harmony with one another live in harmony with one another
Live in harmony with one another I've shared with many of you
the illustration of Meryl Dunlop the musician keyboard artist
from Oak Park, Illinois who I heard back in the mid 1970s, Merrill
sat down at the piano and did his annual thing. Not only played beautifully,
but had written a number of songs and he would offer anybody in
the congregation could, Suggest a basically a scripture or a
line some Statement or whatever and he would on the spot compose
a song about it now These generally were not masterpieces, but they
were nice. They were credible He had enough
music in his soul and enough years of experience in his 80s
That he was able to just compose on the spot some Inspirational
song built around whatever somebody would say, you know the faithfulness
of God and he would I Forgiveness. I mean, it was it was impressive,
but not nearly as impressive as what I saw him do one time.
I've never seen anybody else do it. I hope someday I will
see someone else do this. It was really impressive. Merrill
said, I want to play a familiar song for you this morning, and
he played what a friend we have in Jesus. Lovely song. Then he said, now that was in
the key of whatever it was. And he said, I'd like to play
it for you now in a different key. And he played it in a different
key, and it was still just as lovely. And he said, now I'm
going to play it in this key with my left hand and in this
key with my right hand. And he proceeded to play in two
keys that did not go together at all. The result was horrible
discord. It was taking a lovely song and
making it just like fingernails on chalkboard or contemporary
Christian music. Oh, I'm joking with you. I love
some contemporary Christian music. But it was, I mean, it was horrible,
discordant, just painful stuff that the notes clashed with each
other. It was just awful. And when he
got to the end, he said, now, my left hand didn't miss a note. My right hand didn't miss a note. Both of my hands can say to the
other, I did it right. But he said the result was awful. And it didn't make you think
of what a friend we have in Jesus. It made you want me to stop. It's not enough to be right. We've got to live in harmony
with one another. You understand? He said, now
I'm going to play in two different keys that work together. And he played again. What a friend we have in Jesus.
Using two different keys, but they harmonized. They blended. Magnificent, beautiful, amazing. I'd never heard it before, I've
never heard it since. I don't know how he did it. I
don't know how he had the mental discipline and concentration
to be able to teach his hands to clash like that and then to
blend like that. How amazing. But within the body
of Christ, You and I sometimes have our particular points that
we are just absolutely certain this is not only true, it is
important. It is important. You've got to
get this. And somebody else over here is
saying, I believe God has shown me this and I can't believe that
you're saying that because I believe this and I'm just sure that this
is true. And I can't see how I could be
right and you could be right. I'm going to try and out shout
you. And the result is not harmony because we're not loving each
other and we're not serving each other. We're just insisting on
our own way. We're thinking more highly of
ourselves than we ought to think. We're not in love serving one
another. We're commanded by God to live in harmony with one another. The difference between harmony
and unison is something that a lot of people in the body of
Christ don't understand. Unison means we all sing the
same note all the time. Have you heard when Andrew and
Hannah or Seth and Megan are up here? Mr. Andrew, Mrs. Hannah, Mr. Seth, Mrs. Megan
are up here leading us in worship and they're not singing the same
note. Who's right? They're both right. They're singing
harmony. Now, I would demonstrate that
for you like Meryl Dunlop did this morning, but I only have
one voice. I can't do harmony. Okay. But I can tell you this. In the body of Christ, we don't
have to all sing the same note, but we need to be sensitive to
each other, and we need to harmonize with each other, and we need
to bless one another, and we need to encourage one another,
and we don't all have to have the lead role. Is that clear? So, verse 16, live in harmony
with one another. Do not be proud. but be willing
to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited. Do not be conceited. Don't think
of yourself more highly than you ought. Don't go around thinking
I'm too good for that. I shouldn't be asked to do that.
People need to recognize my gifts. I need to be more appreciated.
People don't seem to realize just how special I am. Okay? I mean, you don't... You just
don't get it. I am so smart. I'm so smart. I know so much stuff. Well, apparently
you don't know nearly as much as you think you know. Because
if you were really smart, you wouldn't be so impressed with
how smart you are. The more you learn, they call
it in school, the sophomore mentality. Yeah, last year I was a freshman,
I didn't know anything. Now, I really know this stuff.
Sophomores have a tendency, historically, to be really impressed with how
much they know. Because they've learned so much
since freshman year. Okay? And then all of a sudden
they become juniors. They realize so stupid sophomores. I remember last year. I thought
I knew so much. Wow. Was I wrong? I'm a junior now. The further you go, the more
you realize, Oh my word, there is so much. I don't know. There
is so much. I don't know. Don't be conceited
and be willing to associate with people of low position. Again,
who are we supposed to be like? We're supposed to be like Jesus,
who didn't consider equality with God something to be grasped,
but emptied himself and became one of us. God was willing to become a zygote. I don't think I know what a zygote
is. What is that? That's one of the
earliest stages of development in the life of a human. Yeah,
it's like even before they call it a fetus. Yes. God became one of us in the womb. and then a little baby wrapped
in swaddling clothes lying in a manger because there was no
room in the inn. Jesus is God become man. In light of that, how can we
possibly say that we want to be his follower, but I can't
be assigned to dig ditches or pick up trash or make the drive
to the dump or oversee the burn pile, or have to clean up after
other folks. I just don't think that's really
appropriate. Let me tell you something, folks.
If we're going to be followers of Jesus Christ, we can't think
of ourselves more highly than we ought to think. We need to
get our eyes on the Lord, and in light of who He is, be very,
very grateful that we're alive. Holy, holy, holy Lord God of
hosts, as we worship Him we will begin to think rightly about
ourselves. I was thinking this morning about Billy Graham who
is, as I record this, is in the hospital with, they think, pneumonia. I've had the privilege of knowing
some very impressive people in my life, some famous people,
some very successful people, some multimillionaires and sports
figures and all kinds of folks. I've never known anybody who
is as impressive in his accomplishments as Billy Graham. I've never known
anyone who was more humble than Billy Graham. And I think the
reason that Billy was so humble is because Billy knows God. And when you know God, you are
much less tempted to think of yourself more highly than you
ought to think. Let's remember that as we go
to the Lord in prayer. Father, we thank you so much
for your magnificence that you have revealed to us in Jesus
Christ. And we thank you for the unfathomable
truth that one day we're going to be like you. That you have
not just forgiven us, but you have reconciled us to yourself
and made us in Christ one spirit with you. It does not yet appear what we
shall be, but we know that when Christ will appear, we'll be
like Him, for we shall see Him as He is. So, Lord, we worship
You and we praise You and we thank You in Jesus' name. Now help us to use the gifts
You've given us to serve others. Amen.