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Okay, we're going to study today
again in the book of Proverbs. You can join me there in chapter
three. We're going to attempt to cover the first 12 verses
of chapter three this morning. We're continuing our study through
the entire book of Proverbs verse by verse, we will, you can anticipate
that we will probably take a break from Proverbs the next two Sundays,
I intend or hope to do a teaching that's more focused on Easter
week and the events of Easter week. So we'll take a break for
a couple of weeks and then come back to it after that, Lord willing.
Last week, what we focused on was the second half of chapter
two. And the concern of that second half is, of course, as
we've been developing this series of exhortations from a father's
heart to his son's heart, A young son, but young spiritually more
than young physically. We're probably talking again
someone in his teenage years that's being addressed by his
father as he's preparing this son to go out into the world
and to find his own way in life. And the Father's heart is appealing
to him from many different angles, many different directions, but
primarily communicating the Lord's own concerns through this Father's
heart. And last week the focus was the
dangers that are in this world that this son has to watch out
for. It's kind of like the line from the famous song Amazing
Grace through many dangers, toils and snares, we have already come. And the idea being that a person
who is discerning, a person who has spiritual perception, learns
to recognize early on that we don't live in a safe environment,
spiritually speaking, in this present world. The only safety
ultimately that we have even now is in very close relationship
with the Lord and ultimately to be with Him. But while we're
in this world, we're dealing with very specific dangerous
spiritual elements and we identify that those dangers are primarily
brought into our lives or we encounter them through our interaction
with two specific dangers and those are the dangers of what
the Bible describes as evil men and evil women, people that have
given over to wickedness in their hearts, people that are choosing
to ignore the Lord, ignore the ways of the Lord, and, of course,
order their behavior according to their own desires rather than
the Lord's ways. Now, what we're going to look
at today as we read in the first 12 verses is the next big danger
that faces the young man. So let's read these 12 verses.
My son, do not forget my teaching, but let your heart keep my commandments. For length of days and years
of life and peace they will add to you. Do not let kindness and
truth leave you. Bind them around your neck. Write
them on the tablet of your heart. So you will find favor and good
repute in the sight of God and man. Trust in the Lord with all
your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all
your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes.
Fear the Lord and turn away from evil. It will be healing to your
body and refreshment to your bones. Honor the Lord from your
wealth and from the first of all your produce. So your barns
will be filled with plenty and your vats will overflow with
new wine. My son, do not reject the discipline
of the Lord or loathe his reproof for whom the Lord loves. He reproves
even as a father corrects the son in whom he delights. Now, this section continues the
father's appeal to the son. And as I've said before, we should
hear the heart and the appeal of. the Father God appealing
to each one of our hearts about what it means to walk in this
world and to do so successfully. What I mean by success is not
just a certain financial outcome, but to make it through the dangers
that are in front of us, to not be overwhelmed by them, to not
be destroyed by them, but to arrive at the goal that the Lord
has marked out for us. And while the second half of
chapter two focused on two outside dangers, dangers of wicked people,
both men and women in the world, that we will encounter and have
to be ready to face and deal with properly when the time comes,
this section begins with a third danger. And this is an entirely
different kind of danger. And in a sense, it's a greater
danger than the two that we talked about last week. As dangerous
as As encountering a wicked person in your life is, in terms of
the effect and the influence that person can have potentially
on you, there's a greater danger that you have to face, that you
have to be aware of, and you have to deal with. And that is
a danger within. So there are dangers without
and a danger within. And when I say within, I'm talking
about a danger inside of you. The greatest danger as you walk
in this world spiritually is in your own heart, potentially. And what is that danger that
the father identifies for a son right from the beginning of this
chapter in verse one, my son, do not forget my teaching, do
not, but let your heart keep my commandments. So the greatest
danger is the danger of forgetfulness. Jerry was talking a little bit
at communion today about forgetfulness, about circumstances and events,
relationships that are established through those events and how
time passes. And you look, you know, you look
around and suddenly those relationships are not what they once were.
How can that be? How can that happen? He was asking
us. Well, here there's a particular danger of forgetting a spiritual
forgetfulness that involves, of course, something that if
we're going to live a good life, if we're going to have God's
purpose fulfilled in our life, if we're going to arrive at the
goal that God has marked out for us, this is the one thing
we can never dare forget, and yet it's the one thing we're
most in danger of forgetting. My son, do not forget my teaching,
but let your heart keep my commandments. How many of you have ever, and
if you haven't, I understand it's quite a discipline just
to do this much. How many of you have ever once
read through the entire Bible? Made it through one time at least,
okay. How many of those verses have
you already forgotten? All right, somebody tell me quick. Nahum 3.7. What does it say? None of us know. I don't even
know what Nahum 3.7 says. You know, what it is, it's an
interesting thing. We know, as believers, we learn
early on, or we should learn early on, that the single most
important thing for our hearts to anchor themselves to, to learn
and to embrace and to be soaked in, as I was talking last week,
is God's Word. God's Word is the make or break
factor in our spiritual well-being. And I'm not talking about just
certain knowledge about the Bible, certain factual information that
we accumulate over time. You know, because while you may
have forgotten Nahum 3 7, I'm sure if I asked you, can you
think of any specific verse in the Bible? There's probably verses
that you could remember and recount to me. What we're talking about
here is is a heart embracing of God's word to where the word
itself becomes part of us. And what we're describing here
is where having read God's word, having gone beyond reading it,
stopping and thinking about it, mulling over it, what what we
call meditating on the word of God and considering its precepts,
asking questions back to the Lord about what we're reading,
praying about the very things that we're reading in that ongoing
process. If, as God's purpose is, that
is an element in our daily life as we begin our new life in Christ,
day after day, spending time with Him in His Word in this
kind of way, what happens over a period of time is God's Word
begins to change our mind and our perspective about things. God's Word begins to change us.
It flavors all of our opinions, all of our thoughts. It even
begins to change the way we feel about things, not just the way
we think about things. And over a period of time, as
that soaking process becomes fuller and deeper and richer,
we arrive at a point in which we are safeguarded from the dangers
that we will encounter in this world around us. But before we
get there, the greatest danger is that we will begin the process
of reading God's word, studying God's word, meditating in God's
word. And somewhere in the beginning
phases of that process, something else catches our attention. It
doesn't matter what else it is. And you know how it is with reading
God's word, we can all, you know, we can all We could all describe
that it would be wonderful if we spent each one of us 10 hours
a day reading God's word, but that's just not realistic. And
I don't think there's any place that God requires that kind of
a discipline of us or that level of a discipline. But at the same
time, there should be some amount of time that each one of us spends
before the Lord, considering his word, what he is communicating
to us, what he wants to get across to us on a daily basis. And in
that process of going through this reading, this consideration,
this meditation in God's Word, while we know it should be the
most important thing to us at that moment. And even as we get
up from that moment, because the whole point of meditating
in it, not just reading it, is as we get up from our devotional
time and we enter out into the world that day, God wants the
influences of what we've read, what we've thought about, what
we've meditated on, what we've prayed about. He wants those
influences to remain with us throughout the day and beyond
even that single day. But there's all number of different
times of day that you could choose to study. I would recommend that
you pick a time that really is most effective for you and most
fruitful for you. For some people, that may be
in the evening. For some people, it may be in the middle of the
day. If you would ask me, though, theoretically, what is the best
time you can possibly spend to carve out time in your day, to
spend time with God and His Word, of course, what am I going to
say? first thing in the morning. Now, why would it be recommended
to spend first thing in the morning with God and in His Word? Because
it's going to have a better, you're going to have a better
hope of it flavoring your day than if at the end of your day.
And there's nothing wrong with reading God's Word at the end
of the day, I'd recommend that too, as opposed to instead of. But As you're about to enter
into your day, you need wisdom for that day. You need understanding
for that day. You need to have your heart and
mind reoriented to what the Lord is wanting to accomplish in you
and through you for that day. You know, I don't know. Different
things grab each one of our attention, a little bit different to each
one of us. I'll just share one of the things at a certain point
in my Christian life that was a distraction to me. What I'm
talking about here are things that would take us away from
a primary focus on God's Word. There was a time when I was really
struggling with which I was going to read first, the sports page
or God's Word. Now, why would that be a struggle
for me? Now, some of you guys may identify with this. Some
of the rest of you may wonder, how in the world could you ever
dream of reading the sports page before God's holy word? How could
that even possibly happen? Maybe sports is of no interest
to you. But sports was big interest for me. And I found a lot of
what in sports? Pleasure, enjoyment. I loved
it. I liked it. I liked the whole
sports thing. I liked following specific teams,
keeping track of statistics, and all of that kind of stuff.
And so it was easy for me to, when it came time to get up in
the morning, there's the morning newspaper, there's the Bible,
And I know in my heart I should go toward the Bible and leave
the sports page for later in the day if I have time for it,
but I found myself gravitating toward the sports page. Now,
if I do that day after day, and let's say a year of doing that
stretches on, and then another year. At a certain point in time,
between point A and point B, I'm going to come to a circumstance
where I'm in danger of living out what is described here in
verse one. My son, do not forget my teaching
and let your heart keep my commandments. You know, there was a time when
I could tell you every stat of the teams that were nearest and
dearest to my heart because I was prioritizing this Word page and
all of the information that came in that. I'm still familiar with
some of that stuff, but it's not as high a priority for me
as it once was. But maybe for you is something
entirely different. I know some people that, and
I've occasionally caught myself doing this, that before I crack
open God's word in the morning, I'll check my email. You ever
done that? No one? Why would you check your
email to hear what somebody else has to say before you're going
to open God's word to hear what he has to say to you at the beginning
of a new day? Somebody's having trouble back
there. If you can maintain your undistractedness
through that, then I give you kudos. All right. So my son, do not forget my teaching.
Speaking of distractions and let. but let your heart keep
my commandments." The issue of forgetfulness is the very first
danger that we face from within as a brand new believer. So what
does the Lord do, or what does He say to this young man to safeguard
his heart from the danger, from the tendency? Because the reason
the Lord says this, He knows it's the natural tendency of
every single one of us. To not focus on God's Word in
the way that we should, leading to forgetfulness. And of course,
you're going to tend to forget right when you most need to remember.
Right when you most need to have your heart and mind focused on
what God is saying about the circumstance you've just found
yourself in unexpectedly. You really need to remember right
then. But the natural tendency is to forget. And so what does
God do to safeguard our hearts? He speaks to us. In a particular
way, what does he say? Well, first he urges us to respond
to that danger by letting your heart keep my commandments. In
other words, he urges us. Keep hold of them. Don't let
it slip away. Focus on this. Invest time in
causing my word to be treasured, as he said earlier in the first
couple of chapters, in your heart. And then in verse 2, what he
begins to talk about is this. He strings together a little
series of statements about what will happen if you don't lose
your focus on God's Word. And if you don't forget God's
Word, what he does here is essentially encourages this young man's heart
with the promised benefit of holding on to God's Word. In
other words, and using worldly descriptions of this, what God
does is He dangles a carrot out in front of this young man. You
know, like a carrot on a stick that would lead the horse forward.
He's wanting to motivate this young man in a particular direction.
Keep focused on my word. He knows natural tendency is
going to be to not value that, to not prioritize that, to not
stay with the discipline of doing that. And so what God does, fully
understanding our tendencies, is he sets out in front of this
young man the hope of a specific reward, not at the end of life. This is not some of the rewards
as we've studied before. Some of the rewards that God
promises us are after our life comes to an end, when we stand
before the judgment seat of the Lord, when we have our life evaluated,
and he either grants us reward or withholds reward based upon
our obedience or disobedience. But here, he's talking about
rewards within this present life. And the rewards are these. This
is what he promises to the young man that lets his heart keep
the commandments of God. He promises him length of days,
years of life, and peace. I'm misspelling that. I'm just going to spell it this
way. He promises him long life and peace. Now think about it,
why would the Lord promise him these things? One of the two
things that the world, people that don't know the Lord, spend
their entire life in pursuit of. Stretching their life out
as long as they possibly can. You know, every gym in this world
exists for this reason. Every health food store in this
world exists for this reason. All the self-help books in the
bookstore, entire sections that are basically taking over bookstores
nowadays, exist for this reason. And, of course, the correlation
that goes along with it. People don't just want to stretch
their lives out to a long life of misery. They also want a long
life filled with peace. And people are searching for
peace. They are looking for peace. And of course, they're looking
in all the wrong places and all the wrong ways. But God promises
to this young man, if you will focus on my word in the way that
I'm instructing you to do so, I will give you what you would,
if you were ignoring my word, be searching for anyway, you'd
just be searching in vain. And this is what I'll give you.
I'll give you a long life and I'll give you peace. Now, it's
important for me to just clarify this first promise. Because we know that it's not always the case every
single time that a believer, a true believer, lives a physically
long life. There are occasions when believers
die young. But those are exceptions. They're
exceptions to God's plan. They're exceptions to God's purpose.
And they're exceptions in which God is not absent from those
exceptions. He's involved in taking that person's life course
in an exceptional direction for some purpose that we can't always
see as it's happening. We may not see until later when
we stand in his presence and all things are made clear. But
what I do want us to see is that even though there are exceptions,
where believers will be given shorter lifespans than what we
would normally expect. It is God's purpose. It is His
intention. It is the desire of His heart
to grant to believers in general a long life here on this earth. Now, why would God want to grant
us a long life? You look back in the Old Testament
and then look at the patriarchs. One of the things that marks
almost every patriarch in the Old Testament is they lived longer
than average. Why? Because God is wanting to
establish his purposes in the earth, to establish and expand
his kingdom in the earth. And how is he going to accomplish
that? He could, of course, because he's powerful and he's sovereign
and he's God. He could do it entirely apart from us. But he
chooses not to do that. He chooses to involve us in his
plans, in his purposes. And he chooses to work through
us to accomplish what he wants to get accomplished in the earth.
So how else is God going to accomplish this other than by extending
our life and giving us greater and longer and more because longer
equals more, more opportunity to serve him in the earth? Like
we were praying for Frank and Nancy earlier. I mean, as the
world would look at them in their natural age, they might be considered
to be in their latter years winding down. But I don't believe God
is winding them down. I really don't. I believe God
intends to fulfill greater and greater things through them in
the years to come than he has in the years prior to this. And
how is that going to happen, though? Is this just an automatic
for every Christian? Absolutely not. Now, we talked
about the exceptional cases, but here's the other principle
that goes into play here, goes into motion here. This is one
of those. And we've talked about this in
the last couple of weeks, one of those conditional promises
of God. The words here are not specifically
mentioned like they are in other places, but they're clearly implied
and it's. An if-then kind of thing, which
is, if you will, as it talks about in verse 1, not forget
the teaching of the Lord. If you will let your heart keep
my commandments, then length of days and years of life and
peace they will add to you. The operative word in verse 2
is this little word, they. Do you see that if you're looking
in your Bible? focus for a moment on the word
they. They is what is adding length of days and years of life
and peace to the believer. Now, of course, When we're talking
about they, we're not talking about God directly. We are talking
about God indirectly, because we're recognizing that long life
is in the hands of the Lord. Whether we live a long or a short
life, that's the Lord's determination. Whether we live a life filled
with the peace of God is in the Lord's determination. It's not
something people can create for themselves. That's why they're
always searching for it and not able to find it. But here, the
way that the Lord describes the addition of long life and peace
to us is not by His direct hand, but by His indirect hand. Meaning,
this is God doing this, but He's doing it to us indirectly. He's
doing it like this, if I were to make a diagram out of this.
God is acting through His Word upon us. to bring about long
life and peace. He could skip his word and just
give us long life and peace, no matter what we're doing in
relationship to his word. He could do that if he chose
to do so. He just doesn't choose to do it that way. He chooses
to add these things to our life through the influences of His
Word acting upon our hearts and upon our minds and changing us,
transforming us from the inside out. If we go through that transformation
process, this is what He promises will be the fruit or the result
of being changed in the way that God wants to change us. Now,
how many of you here want, I mean, unless the Lord has some special
plan otherwise, how many of you want to live a long life versus
the alternative? Me too. Do you want to live a
long life of misery? I mean, if you can choose. And
here, what's implied is you have a choice in this process. If
you could choose, would you choose peace over misery? And the piece
that he's talking about here is the Hebrew word that you're
probably familiar with, at least in terms of the sound of the
word shalom. You've probably heard that at least once in your
life. And what we're talking about here is not just mental
peace, you know, peace of mind. Peace of mind is a critical aspect
of this. It's an element of what God says
when he's going to, through his word, produce a life of shalom
for us. But it's not just this, what
we call peace of mind. It's peace in every aspect of
our lives. It's a full-orbed concept. It
means peace in all of my relationships. First with him, and then with
all of you. It means peace in my circumstances. So that I'm
not at odds with anyone or anything. So that in a sense, I look around
at all of the elements of my life, my relationships, my circumstances,
and I'm blessed because I'm at peace with all of it. That's
what God promises to accomplish as we continue to soak our minds
and our hearts in his word. And then that word has its own
powerful transforming effect on us from the inside out. So
God motivates us with these promises. Sometimes we look at God and
we think that He doesn't deal with us in the way that we're
used to being dealt with. And it's true that God has His
own unique ways. But God does, God is not above
motivating us with promises of good things. God sets reward
in front of us and He says, you see that good thing? How would
you like that? Do you want that? Do you want that to be in your
life? Versus the alternative and then he'll show us the alternative.
And he intends for us to see those contrasts and to make those
comparisons and to be motivated toward him and his ways and his
word as a result of that. Now, as I said, this isn't an
automatic thing. The danger of forgetfulness is
real. I'll just give you one example
from God's word. We could probably all stand up
and give examples from our own lives. What's significant about
and when I say this name, you'll probably anticipate where I'm
heading with this. What's the significance of the life of Solomon? Solomon was an interesting individual
in the plans and purposes of God. He was given a special blessing
by the Lord. Solomon was the first, following
David of course, but the first king of Israel to really experience
full peace in the kingdom of Israel. And he was given the
special privilege of the Lord to be the architect, the constructor,
the engineer of God's temple. and he built the very first temple
of God in the land of Israel, and was given special blessing
as a result of that. And as not too long ago we studied
together, Solomon, as we began the book of Proverbs, of course
this is the author of the book, that's why I'm using him as the
example, Solomon was known far and wide for one thing in particular.
What was he known for? Wisdom. And not just, hey, Solomon's
pretty wise in comparison with other wise people out there. Solomon was known as the wisest
man ever on the face of the earth. No one could be compared to Solomon
in terms of wisdom. And yet, what was the end of
Solomon's life story? What was the end? At the end
of Solomon's life story, let's turn and read briefly as a refresher
of the end. 1 Kings chapter 11. And we will
come back to Proverbs. 1 Kings chapter 11. And I'll read just starting from
verse one. Now, King Solomon loved many
foreign women, along with the daughter of Pharaoh, Moabite,
Ammonite, Edomite, Sidonian, and Hittite women. From the nations
concerning which the Lord had said, and where had he said this? He had said this in his law,
in his word. From the nations concerning which
the Lord had said to the sons of Israel, you shall not associate
with them, nor shall they associate with you. Why? Is it because
God doesn't like foreigners? No, God likes, He loves all the
people of this world. But this particular relationship,
type of relationship God had forbidden to His people because
of this. For you shall not associate with
them, nor shall they associate with you, for they will surely
Turn your heart away after their gods. These people, these women
from the nations around Israel, were given over to idolatry,
and God had forbidden Solomon, along with the other men of Israel,
to form intimate relationships with them, knowing that in the
context of the intimacy of the personal relationship, there
would be an exchange of ideas, and that one person's ideas would
tend to influence, in an adverse way, the other person's ideas.
And you would think, well, wait a second, Solomon, he's the wisest
person on earth. If anybody is going to influence
anybody here, Solomon is going to be the one influencing all
these foreign women. By adding more and more relationships,
Solomon could bring more and more of these women to the Lord
and teach them the right ways of the Lord, couldn't he? It makes a certain kind of sense,
right? It's just not the way it actually plays out. The Lord
knows this because what ended up happening here, let's read
on. For they will surely turn your heart away after their gods. And Solomon held fast to the
Lord in spite of these. Now Solomon held fast to these
in love. He had 700 wives, princesses,
and, as if that's not enough, 300 concubines. And his wives
turned his heart away. For when Solomon was old, his
wives turned his heart away after other gods, and his heart was
not wholly devoted to the Lord his God, as the heart of David
his father had been. For Solomon went after Ashtoreth,
the goddess of the Sidonians, and after Milcom, the detestable
idol of the Ammonites. Solomon did what was evil in
the sight of the Lord, and did not follow the Lord fully, as
David his father had done. Then Solomon built a high place
for Chemosh, the detestable idol of Moab, on the mountain which
is east of Jerusalem. as the Mount of Olives, by the
way, and for Molech, the testable idol of the sons of Ammon. Thus
he did for all his foreign wives. How many foreign wives did he
have? 700, right? He built altars for, you know,
probably not 700 altars because there were several from each
nation. But for however many nations there were that worship
these various gods, he built altars to them and didn't just
build them for them saying to himself, OK, I'll just do this
for my wives and I'll keep that separate from what I'm doing
in my relationship with the Lord. Their compromises, their rebellion
influenced him and led him astray. And so thus also we did for all
his foreign wives who burned incense and sacrificed to their
gods. Now the Lord was angry with Solomon
because his heart was turned away from the Lord, the God of
Israel, who had appeared to him twice. And it goes on to describe
what happened in those appearances. Solomon started really, really
well in his walk with the Lord. And at that point, he was accounted
to be by the Lord himself, the wisest man on the face of the
earth. At the end of his days, the Lord did no longer consider
him to be wise. Now, there may have been people
around Solomon that still thought he was great in wisdom, but he
had lost, by the end of his days, all of his wisdom. And it was
for one reason, one reason alone. He forgot the commands of the
Lord. Now, when we're talking about
in verse 1, going back to Proverbs, when we're talking in verse 1,
chapter 3, where it says, my son, do not forget my teaching.
We're not talking here, and that wasn't the case with Solomon,
and it's not usually the problem with us. We're not talking about
passive forgetfulness. You know how it is, and this
works this way more and more as you get older and older. Trust
me, as someone that's getting older, it's already starting
to happen for me. And if you're anywhere near my age or beyond,
you know from personal experience, but if not, just anticipate this
is ahead of you. There are some things that you
just passively forget, even though you don't want to. I'll find
myself trying to recall something and my brain is just spinning
and I can't catch on to any particular memory. I can't name that thing
or that circumstance or that person. I'll see someone's face
that I know. I mean, it's even happened to
me walking in here. I'll see your face and I know
you and I say, what is that person's name? I don't want to forget
your name. I like you. I care about you.
But, you know, I just do sometimes I forget what your name is. And
it's not because I'm ignoring you. It's because passively I
sometimes forget things. The Lord is not concerned here
about passively forgetting his word. He's talking about the
active choice of disregarding the word of God that leads to
a deeper, more serious level of forgetfulness. to where you
forget what God's Word meant to you once you reach this place. And once you forget what it meant
to you, it's no longer affecting you in the way that it should.
It's no longer influencing your choices. It's no longer having
the role in your life that God wants His Word to always have. And so he goes on from there,
and I'm going to speed up my pace here because so far we're
only through the first two chapters, excuse me, first two verses of
chapter three. He goes on to add in verse three,
do not let kindness and truth leave you. Bind them around your
neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. What we have is
a word picture here, which is, all right, with this danger of
forgetting my word, how can you ensure that you won't forget
it? Here are two practical things you can do. Bind them. Them what? My teachings, my words. Bind them around your neck. How
are we going to do this? How are we going to accomplish
this? Shall we put a string through it and wear it like this? Is
that what he's after? wind the neck, bind them around
your neck and write them on the tablet of your heart. These are
two what are called Hebrew idioms. Let me just write that word down
here, I-D-I-O-M-S, idioms. They're figures of speech that
are familiar to the culture that they're spoken in. Every culture
has these, and what they are is little phrases or figures
of speech that mean something to those people that don't necessarily
mean anything much to people outside that culture. I was sharing
Wednesday with the Women's Bible Study that Brother Samuel, when
I was there in India, I was spending some time with him, of course,
and he is learning English. He's in the process. He speaks
very well, but he's in the process of really sharpening his English
skills. And the biggest thing that he
struggles with in his study of English, coming from an entirely
different culture, is understanding our idioms, our figures of speech.
So I can remember this one day we were driving this little Indian
car down this dirt road and he's asking me questions about English
and he says to me, Tim, what is this saying? I don't understand. What is this, the squeaky wheel
gets the grease? What does this mean? What is
this squeak and what is the grease that this is getting? He just
didn't understand. Now, do all of you understand
what the squeaky wheel gets the grease is describing? I mean,
it's describing simply that the person that puts up like that
young child in the back room was being the squeaky wheel a
few minutes ago. And I'm sure by now it's gotten
plenty of grease. All right. It's gotten all the
attention that it needed at that moment. But for Samuel, he had
no clue what this meant. He had no frame of reference.
These are Hebrew idioms that we have no frame of reference
for. Binding something around the neck and writing it on the
tablet of the heart. The idea here is that in the
Hebrew perspective, the neck and the heart are the two focal
points of life. This is where life originates
and flows from the neck and the heart. The heart is pretty easy
for us to understand. It's the, you know, the blood
pump. It's the source of physical life in that regard. But why
the neck? Why would the neck be there? Well, the neck is the
source of life because it is where the throat is. And the
throat is what you breathe in or through. So this is all about
the breath. And the heart here is all about
the blood. And essentially what is being said, and I'm short
forming these idioms here, but essentially what is being said,
the Lord is saying with every breath you take and with every
time your heart beats, I want you to remember my word and I
want you to not lose your focus. Every time you suck in some air
and your life is sustained in this world for another moment,
recognize that it's my word that is really the source of your
life. Every time your heart pumps out a little bit more blood,
recognize like Jesus taught us later on in history, man does
not live by bread alone, but by every word which proceeds
out of the mouth of God. Alright, moving on from there,
let's look at verse 4. So, as a result of doing this,
as a result of this kind of intense focus on God's Word, You will
find favor and good repute in the sight of God and man. This
is another promise that God gives to this young man. This is this
is the kind of life that you can anticipate God's word producing
for you if you will focus on it in the way that you should.
And I'm just going to turn over and read. You don't have to turn
with me. This is a short description in the book of Luke of the life
story of the Lord Jesus himself as a young man. This is from
Luke. And I'll be reading chapter 2,
verse 52. This is immediately following
the adventure when he was 12 years old and he spent the overnight
time in the temple in Jerusalem. And he was briefly separated
from his parents and they came back and they were wondering
what had happened to them. And he described to them that
he had to be about his father's business and in his father's
house. And then following that it says,
but they did not understand the statement which he had made to
them. And so he went down with them and came back to Nazareth
and he continued in subjection to them. And his mother treasured
all these things in her heart. And Jesus kept increasing in
wisdom and in stature. and in favor with God and men."
Now, what kind of life was Jesus living? He was living a perfect
life. The life that God has mapped
out that is available to us to live. The kind of life where
every relationship is in right order. in good condition, the
first and most important relationship of life, of course, between us
and God, that he's increasing in favor with God. And to increase
in favor means that as the relationship is developing, God is looking
at him more and more favorably as time goes on. Now, you would
think with Jesus, how could this be? Doesn't God look totally
favorably at Jesus from the very first moment? because He is the
dear Son of His heart. In one sense, yes, but in another
sense, the Scripture very clearly describes that Jesus increased
in favor with God. And if He increased in favor
with God, how much more does that apply to the potential for
us, in terms of our need to increase in favor with God? God, if you
belong to Him, if you're His, looks at you favorably, but What's
available is that you could increase in that favor. You can grow in
that favor. Wouldn't you want to reach a
point in life where God would look more and more and more,
every time He looks at you, more favorably at you than He did
the last time He looked at you? Because if that's the case, you
know, then we can anticipate only good things. And I don't
mean anticipate only good circumstances. We can anticipate that our life
will be fulfilled and it will be everything God wants it to
be. And of course, also increasing in favor with other people, because
the two main categories of relationship in all of our lives is to be
in right relationship with God and right relationship with our
neighbor. And both in both relationships, we would be increasing in favor. Now, believe it or not, verses five
and beyond are really the meat of what I wanted to talk about
today. So I'm stuck here because I'm near the end of when I should
be ending. And yet I'm just getting started.
So what I'm going to do is I'm going to I'm going to put a stop
to the teaching today. I'm going to stop at the end
of verse four. We will pick up at verse five,
Lord willing, three weeks from now. By that time, I'm sure none
of you will have forgotten what I had to say. Exactly. Well, if we have to
review a little bit, I will do so. And then we'll pick up in
verse five next time. Let's pray. Father God, each
one of us is like this young man that's being described in
these early chapters of the book of Proverbs. We're just no matter
what our physical age, even no matter what our spiritual age,
we're just beginning on the pathway of what you really want to accomplish
in our lives. And I pray for your grace to
be upon each one of our hearts and lives, that we would value
you and your word and that we would embrace your word and that
we would grow and be transformed and become the people that you
desire in your heart. And I thank you for that grace.
It's one of those things, Father, that you promised to us that
if we ask anything according to your will, we can be very
confident about the answer. I really believe this is your
desire, your will for our lives. So I'm confident, Lord, you're
going to give us the measure of grace that we need to grow
before you in this way. Thank you for it. In the name
of the Lord Jesus. Amen. The copyrighted product
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Learning To Trust The Lord
Series Proverbs series
Proverbs tells us how to navigate the spiritual dangers of life -- not only the dangers of the world, but the dangers within us. Two of the dangers within us are our tendencies to forget God's word, and to allow worldly distractions to take our attention from His word.
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| Sermon ID | 3280416916 |
| Duration | 44:03 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | Proverbs 3:1-4 |
| Language | English |
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