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Would you turn with me in your
copy of God's Word to Ephesians chapter 5? Let me just ask you, I say it maybe
every three weeks, but let me ask you to just make it a habit.
When we're done with the reading of the Word, don't put your Bibles
up. Don't put your Bibles up, because a good sermon should
drive you back to the Scriptures over and over again. Paul told
us that the Bereans They they searched the scriptures
to see if these things were true and I want to challenge you to
do the same Search the scriptures to see if these things are true
Our text today will be Ephesians 5 verses 3 through 5, but I'm
gonna start at verse 1 just for context Remember this please
before we start this is the inspired inerrant infallible Word of God
and it is it alone is the only rule of faith and practice and Therefore be imitators of God
as beloved children, and walk in love as Christ loved us and
gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must
not even be named among you as is proper among the saints. Let
there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking which are
out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving. For you
may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure
or who is covetous, that is an idolater, has no inheritance
in the kingdom of God. The grass withers and the flower
fades, but the word of our God will endure forever. We're right
in the thick of a section of Ephesians where Paul is teaching
us how to live the Christian life. Now, that's very, very
important that we understand how Ephesians is broken down.
That Ephesians 1 through 3 have almost no commands in them whatsoever. They are all about how we are
saved. It's all about the work of the
Trinity in our salvation. That the Father predestined us,
that the Son redeemed us, that the Holy Spirit applies that
redemption to our hearts. But then we get to chapter four
and there's a shift of emphasis. So far, before chapter four,
we were given almost no commands. It's just what Christ has done.
Because beloved, your salvation is 100% accomplished by Christ. You cannot add to it. You do
not do a single thing to make yourself more saved. Christ alone
saves you. But then Paul, as he does in
almost every letter, he shifts gears a little bit and he says,
okay, now as God's people, here's how you're to live. And he's
given us all sorts of instructions about how to live. So we've talked
about putting off anger. If we're God's people, then we
shouldn't let the sun go down on our anger, Paul says. If you're
God's people, then you shouldn't speak in lies, but put on truthfulness. You shouldn't be lazy, but you
should work hard to the glory of God. You shouldn't be bitter
and angry and resentful towards each other. There should be no
malice among you, but rather you should love as Christ loved
you. These are the imperatives that Paul has been giving us
so far. Here is how you are to live as
Christians. Now, I don't want you to miss that fact. He is
not telling us how to be saved. That is utterly important. He's
not telling us, if you do these things, then you'll be saved.
That's works-based salvation. What he's telling us is that
if you are a believer and your past has been nailed to the cross
and you trust in Christ and you trust in his word and the Holy
Spirit is living in you, then this is how you're to live. We
can't lose those bearings. And now Paul comes to a very
important issue for Christians to deal with, and it's the area
of sexual immorality. Some of you saw the title of
today's sermon, and you probably thought, you know what? Polite
people don't talk about that stuff, and especially not in
church. Well, beloved, guess what? The
church is the only place that's not talking about this. Our culture
talks about it constantly, and we have been silent. We've been
too embarrassed to talk. We've failed to train our children
to think about sexuality because we haven't had the guts to talk
about it. How's that working for us, by the way? How's it
going? I'm just curious. Does the world
seem to be getting it with us keeping our mouths shut? Not
at all. So for those of you who are a
little uncomfortable, don't worry. You're no more uncomfortable
than I am. For those of you who are parents
and are a little bit nervous right now, I got kids here too,
and I'm gonna do my best to keep this PG, because I know there's
young children in here. I will say nothing provocative,
but I will say what the Bible teaches about this issue. Children, you may have some questions
today. And I hope you'll take as an
opportunity to ask your parents. And your parents will tell you
just as much as you need to know right now. And as you get a little
bit older, you'll need to understand a little more. But this is something
that needs to be discussed in the church. Parents, if you're
not talking to your children about this, guess what? The world
already is. The world is screaming at them through their television
screens and through their computers and all sorts of places. They're
hearing about it everywhere except for at home in most cases. So
parents, we need to take the opportunity to graciously help
our children to understand how God has created sex to work.
Let me say a couple things about why we of all people need to
deal with this. The first is that it's pervasive.
Paul is writing here to the Ephesians. The Ephesians in Ephesus was
one of the great structures of the world, the temple of Diana. And what happened in the temple
of Diana was people would go in there and the way they worshiped
was through ritual prostitution. It's hard to get our heads around.
These people understood life in a sexualized culture. But
I want you to understand something, and I heard several commentators
say this as I was studying, and I think it's absolutely true,
although it hit me strange at first. If you took one of these
pagans from Ephesus who were used to that temple prostitution,
and you dropped them off in our culture, they would blush. Because
what used to happen, and it used to happen up till 20 years ago
in America, is this was something that happened in private. This
was something that happened behind closed doors. You had to look for it. Well,
guess what's happening today? It is looking for you. pornography,
sexual pervasiveness. It is looking for you through
billboards, through your computer screen. You do not have to look
for it anymore. It is looking for you. That is
a novelty of our day that I don't know that any other culture has
been able to parallel. It's pervasive. Second, we need to talk about
this. Because of the danger of sexual immorality, it destroys
marriages every single day. It destroys churches. I remember
being in seminary, probably the most sobering class in my seminary
career. We had a guest speaker who had
done a study on, he had done his doctoral dissertation on
pastors in the ministry who had committed adultery and how the
church responded. And here's what he said again
and again and again. He told the story and then he
said, and the church closed and the church closed and the church
closed. It is so destructive to our marriages
to the church. You can think about David, King
David, sexual sin led eventually to the downfall of Israel. But there's no greater danger
of it than what it does to our souls. Anyone who does not repent of
sexual immorality will ruin their souls for eternity, the scriptures
tell us. Third, we need to talk about
this issue because sex is glorifying to God when it is rightly understood.
Now, does that surprise you that we can say that when rightly
understood and rightly applied, God is glorified in sex? How many of us have ever thought
about that? That that is one way we were created to glorify
God. But you cannot glorify God and
you can't fully enjoy the marital relationship if sexual immorality
is all over the place in your life. You will not enjoy your
own marriage the way you could if sexual immorality has an undue
role in your life. This is interesting. I think
it'll shock you. Of all people in the history of the world,
do you know who I think best understood and enjoyed human
sexuality? The Puritans. That's why they
had so many kids. But they understood that this
was a good gift from God, but it's only a good gift when used
rightly. This is so difficult for us to
understand because we live in a society that on the one hand,
it is obsessed with sex, and on the other hand, it has no
clue about it whatsoever. And so we have to train ourselves
not to think like our world. There are only two understandings
of human sexuality that the Bible allows for. There's a godly view and practice
of sex on the one hand, and there's an ungodly view and practice
on the other hand. So let me ask you first as we
get started, does your view of it and your practice of it right
now in your life and things that perhaps you need to repent of,
do they reflect a godly understanding or an ungodly understanding? As long as immoral sexuality
has a role in your life, you will not experience what God
calls godly sex. Now onto the passage. This passage
actually contains a progression of thought. Paul starts with
sexual immorality. Now that'll include things like
adultery and fornication. And then it progresses to covetousness.
So that's just looking longfully at something. And then Paul makes
this really strange progression. to where he says, you can't even
joke about it. You can't even make crude jokes about sex. Now, we're going to think, why?
That's so harmless. And Paul says, no, that's where
it starts. It starts with a low view of human sexuality. That's
where the covetousness comes from. And that's where the adultery
comes from because we don't understand it in our daily lives. We don't
know how to look at it. Paul is moving from the most
obvious with adultery and fornication to the most insidious with crude,
coarse joking. Is Paul prude? Is Paul just being
prude? Y'all, we live in a highly sexualized
culture. The things that we accept as the norm today would have
been appalling to every generation of Christians in history. So we have been conditioned to
accept things that we ought not accept. We have normalized things
that ought not be normal. I don't just mean in the world,
I mean in the church. We laugh at things that the world should
be appalled by. So I'm going to ask you to please
step outside your ethic of human sexuality and into the Bible's
ethic, which is this. Sex only belongs in the monogamous,
committed, heterosexual relationship, marriage relationship, and anything
outside of that is sin. Can we start with that as our
premise? It only belongs in the context of a monogamous, committed,
heterosexual marriage relationship, and anything outside of that
is sin. All right, we're done with the introduction. Let's
look, verse by verse. Verse three, Paul says, sexual
immorality and all impurity have no place among the saints. Now,
most of us are legalistic and we're gonna say, well Paul, what
qualifies as sexual immorality? And the answer is anything outside
of the bounds of committed monogamous heterosexual marriage. We've created all this gray area
about sex. The Bible has no gray area. It
is either godly or it is sin. And so any case of human sexual
activity outside the bounds of heterosexual
marriage is always sin. And Paul wrote this because there
are many in the church who came out of that Temple of Diana setting
where sex was a big part of their life and the misuse of it was
a big part of their life. undoubtedly he knew some of them
were still struggling with it. In fact, when he wrote to the
Corinthians, 1 Corinthians 5, he said, it is actually reported
that there is sexual immorality among you. Talking to the church
at Corinth. Let me say this, for those of
you who struggle with this, For those of you who have past struggles
or ongoing struggles, you're in good company because there
is not a church in the last 2,000 years where there has not been
an ongoing struggle with sexual immorality. I don't say that to give you
license to continue in it. I say that to say you're in good
company of saints who have gone before you, they have struggled,
and they have overcome through the Lord Jesus Christ. Perhaps you feel utterly defeated
in your struggle with sexual sin, so much so that you don't
even fight it at all anymore. Let me give you some encouragement,
beloved. As long as Jesus Christ lives at the right hand of God,
and he does, and as long as the Holy Spirit lives inside you,
and if you're a Christian, the Holy Spirit lives inside you,
then your battle is not over. You do not need to throw up your
hands and say, I give up. You are not condemned to a life
of defeat at the hands of sexual sin. And I want to encourage
you to continue to do battle with it. Perhaps you've already
capitulated. Let me encourage you to pick up the weapons again.
and do battle with it again, because here's what happens.
If you do not do battle with sexual sin, you will sink further
and further and further into it. I want you to think about
some ways that sexual sin hurts us. First, it steals from you
the joy that is reserved for your marriage. It steals from
you the joy that is reserved for your marriage. It will complicate
and it will damage your current marriage, and if you're single
and you think, what's the big deal? It will make it very difficult
and complicated for you in your future marriage. Another thing sexual sin does
is it robs us of our spiritual vitality. You will not grow spiritually
while you're in the midst of sexual sin. You will not grow in your understanding
of grace. If you are willfully, happily,
complacently engaging in sexual sin, you cannot grow in your
relationship with Christ. What will happen instead is you will
become laden with guilt. What will happen instead is you
will constantly beware of your hypocrisy. And your love for
the Lord typically grows cold if you do not fight this sin. One more effect of sexual immorality.
It is a downward spiral. It's a downward spiral. It might
start innocently with one act, but what happens is it goes from
one act to one habit to one addiction that you cannot overcome. That
is the pattern that man after man after man have confessed
to me. Here's what's so deceptive about
sexual sin is it feels like we're exercising freedom. What could
be more free than for me to do whatever I want to? And you end
up in addiction. You end up in bondage. You end
up with no ability to say no. Does that sound like freedom
to you? No, it is chains disguised as freedom. I want you to hear
something that happens when we are unrepentant of our
sexual sin. Romans 1. Paul's been talking about the
godless state of man apart from Christ, and he says there that
sexual immorality and especially homosexuality is one sign of
God turning people over to judgment. In other words, they think they're
practicing freedom. But here's what Paul says in
verse 26, for this reason because of their godlessness. God gave
them over to dishonorable passions. Their women exchanged natural
relations for those that are contrary to nature, and the men
likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed
with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts
with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error.
Do you get what Paul's saying there? Homosexuality is judgment
for sin. It itself is judgment. It's hard for us to get our heads
around. But the biblical ethic of sexual sin is that it is a
downward spiral that always gets worse, and it never can find
relief. It always has to get more intense.
There always needs to be something new and something more. We need to understand this. Maybe
you're a man today, and you're in a marriage where you don't
sense that your wife loves or esteems you. And there's somebody,
along comes an attractive woman, and she's affirming of you, and
she's kind and sweet and everything that your wife isn't, and you
feel your heart being tugged in that direction. And the Apostle
Paul is saying, hey, think about your soul. Think about your family. Think about your children. Think
about your church. Think about the witness of Christ.
All those things are at stake with that temptation. Wives,
you're saying, look, I have a husband that's not there for me emotionally.
He's distant, we just don't connect. He doesn't understand me, he
doesn't care about me. And then someone comes along and provides
everything that your husband can't provide. And it seems so
right. Or maybe you're a young person.
You have no prospect of marriage at this point, and you think,
what can it hurt? What can it hurt? Maybe you're
a young couple, you're dating somebody, and your relationship
has gone in a way that it ought not. Paul knows that sexual immorality
takes on a myriad of different forms, and all of them are sin. And Paul wants to arm us here
to say, no, I will not, because it will destroy my home, my family,
my marriage, my soul. I will not do it. Paul says to
us, 1 Thessalonians 4 3, for this is the will of God for you,
your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality.
What does God want from you? Does he want you to be a doctor,
lawyer, Indian chief? I don't know, but he wants you to abstain from
sexual immorality. We know that. Then verse three, Paul moves
down the spectrum to something that our culture would probably
say is less harmful, what he calls covetousness. Now, we think
of covetousness as wanting something that belongs to somebody else.
But if you think about the original, the first application of the
10th commandment, you shall not covet your neighbor's wife. Covetousness in terms of sexuality
is longing for someone, lusting for someone who does not belong
to you, who is not yours to have. Adultery never just happens. It's always the product of taking
too long a glance, letting our minds wander where they ought
not, letting our flesh be tempted. That's why Job said, I covenanted
with my eyes not to look upon another woman. Well, here's what
we've got going for us. We've got modern technology and
it's piped into us, isn't it? And we look on the screen and
guess what? Covetousness. Let me share with you some statistics. 35%, so just over one in every three
internet downloads are pornography. Did you know that? One out of
three things going on in the cloud are pornography. Every
second, 28,000 users are watching pornography on the internet. 37% of families in the United
States report that pornography is a problem in their home. The US spends $11 billion annually
on pornography, more than the total of all other nations. The average age, this will hurt
your heart, the average age that a child is exposed to it now
is somewhere between 9 and 11. And most of the time, it's not
in print form, and it's not even on a computer. Most of the time,
it's on a phone. Boy, it's harmless, isn't it? Families, be vigilant in this
area. Dads, that starts with you. Home
computers, you need accountability software. We can talk about that. Parents, if you're going to give
your child a phone or a tablet, please make sure it's got a way
for you to hold them accountable. It's got filters. The chief desire
is that they not see it in the first place, but then if they
do see it, you need to know about it. Parents, be vigilant. And if you're sitting there saying,
my child wouldn't do that, let me ask you, would you? Because
if you would do it, guess whose sin nature they inherited? They
got yours. Your child would do that, and
your child might not do it on purpose, but guess what? It's
not just a matter of them looking for it. What did we say? It's
looking for them. As much as I would like to think
we are immune Christians or not, 60% of professing Christian men have
an ongoing struggle with pornography on a regular basis. 30% of Christian
women have an ongoing struggle with pornography on a regular
basis. Wives and husbands, you need to be allies for each other
in this fight. Don't be judge, jury, and executioner.
Be a friend to your spouse in this battle. help one another. Remember 1
Corinthians 7. One of the reasons for marriage
is so that you don't burn with passion for others. It's to satisfy
that passion. Let me say this so that there's
no misunderstanding. Looking at pornography is sexually
immoral. So let me ask you, those of y'all,
and many of you did, and I commend every one of you for this, but
many of you have taken a bold stand over the issue of homosexuality. Let me ask you a question. Do
you stand for the Bible's whole sexual ethic? Do you accept the
Bible's whole sexual ethic? Or do you just condemn homosexuality
because it's something you don't struggle with? It's a hard question
for us to wrestle with, but to condemn homosexuality, but to
laugh at pornography and to be sexually immoral yourself is
hypocrisy. We need a whole, a fully-orbed
sexual ethic as Christians, and the Bible gives us that. Then
Paul moves on. He starts to make this point
there. Verse four, he says, let there be no filthiness or foolish
talk or crude joking which are out of place, but instead let
there be thanksgiving. He's moving further down that
spectrum. It started with adultery and fornication, sexual immorality,
then covetousness, looking where we ought not look, and now he's
talking about our thought lives, because guess what? You don't
act on something unless you first let your mind go there. So controlling
your thought life important. Now Paul, why are you being so
prude? Isn't humor a good thing? Yes, good humor is a good thing,
but this is not good humor. Joking about sexuality and body
parts shows ignorance of God's ethic of sex in the human body.
Here's why this matters. When we joke about sex and use
filthy language and coarse joking, we relegate the God-ordained
beauty of of sex to the realm of the tawdry and filthy and
nasty." Have you ever seen that before? People take something
that is beautiful and is good, and they make it disgusting.
They make it something to be embarrassed about. And here's
what happens. We grow up like that. Our parents don't tell
us how we should look at it. And then we come into marriage
totally confused about what this is and what we're to do. We feel
ashamed about it when we're in marriage. And the Bible has to
tell us, no, this is a really good thing now. Husbands and
wives, this is a good thing. Most Christians don't know how
to see it as a gift from God, but it is when done correctly.
That's why we can't joke about it. That's why we can't make
it nasty and tawdry and filthy, because it ruins the beauty that
God has intended. So recap, what Paul is saying
so far is that we're to have a zero-tolerance policy for sexual
immorality. And we're in a culture that has
a very high threshold, a high level of tolerance for sexual
immorality. We are to have a zero-tolerance
policy in our own lives, which means no covetous looking, no
pornography, no crude and harsh and coarse joking. That's what the Bible's telling
us. Women, let me ask you. Let me plead with you for a moment. There is a way that you can dress
that accentuates inner beauty rather than drawing and accentuating,
drawing attention to your physical body. Because when you dress in a way
that draws attention to your body, your brothers in Christ
look where they should not be looking and think about things
they should not be thinking about. Sisters, we need you desperately to dress in a way that does not
draw our attention to your body. That's hard because it's so counter-cultural. But ladies, your God made your
husband the only person that should be looking like that upon
your body. And so we'd ask, ladies, would
you keep that body for your husband and not for others? It's an area where Christian
women, the true inner beauty of our Christian sisters, can
be on display in a world that doesn't know what that is. All right. What's the big deal? Why should we, 150 or so of us,
be holy when we live in the midst of an unholy world? Why does
this matter? Look at verse 5. Are you uncomfortable yet? Because
we've got this thing we believe in called justification by faith
alone. The Bible doesn't teach you are
saved by faith and sexual purity, does it? We are saved by faith
alone. So how is Paul telling us here
that the sexually immoral and the covetous idolaters have no
inheritance in the kingdom of God? I think the key is something
Paul says here in this little caveat in verse 5. He says covetousness,
our version puts a parentheses there, that is an idolater. Paul
is explaining the heart of sexual sin, of unrepentant sexual sin,
it is idolatry. It is idolatry. You see, sex
was given for our enjoyment and our fulfillment, but on God's
terms. He created it to be fulfilling
only as he ordained it. But guess what Satan does? This
is not a new technique for Satan, but Satan comes to you and he
says, has God really said? Has God really said that this
belongs only in the realm of marriage? Has God really said
that we're not to look lustfully upon another woman? Has God really
said that? And then Satan comes to us and
says, God is holding out on you. He's got something better for
you than his agenda and his ethic. And so that's what leads us to
sexual immorality. When we engage in sexual immorality,
what we're doing is we're saying to God, God, you are wrong. Your laws and your rules and
your understanding of how this works are all wrong. We're not just breaking a law.
Here's what we're saying. We're saying, I will be my own
God. I get to make the rules around
here, not you, God. It's the ultimate expression
of idolatry. It's idolatry of self. And Paul makes this bold statement,
because he knows that idolatry is the product of a heart that
does not know Jesus. Now do me a favor, turn with
me to 1 Corinthians 6. We're gonna spend the rest of
our time there, because we need to figure this out. We need to
wrap this up. 1 Corinthians 6, Paul's talking with the Corinthians,
and boy, you ever think you got problems in your life? Just spend
some time in Corinth. Those people were a mess and
a half. Whenever you have a passage that
is difficult like this one, Scripture interprets Scripture. So look
at what the whole of Scripture says. Paul explains this to us
here in 1 Corinthians 6, 9 to 11. Do you not know that the
unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be
deceived, neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters. Look,
Paul's putting those two together again. Sexual immorality and
idolatry go together. nor adulterers, nor men who practice
homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor
revilers, nor swindlers will enter the kingdom." Well, I'm
out. How about you guys? But keep
reading. Verse 11. This will be the balm
of Gilead to your heart. He says, and such were some of
you. Such were That gives us hope that it can
be put in our past. And that gives us hope that it
will not be held against us. Such were some of you, but it
has been separated from you as far as the East is from the West.
Your past sexual sins, if you are in Christ, were nailed to
the cross and you bear them no more. Paul says you are washed,
you are sanctified, you are justified in the name of our Lord Jesus
Christ and by the Spirit of God. The beauty of the gospel is that
Paul can say such were some of you. You were unrepenting. You were defined by those things.
You were one who had no inheritance in the kingdom and you were under
the judgment of God. So what changed? Christ changed
you. All your sexual sin and your
past and those things that defined you were nailed to the cross
in Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ never sinned one
time, but on the cross, he bore the sin of a sexually immoral
person. He bore the sins of pornography.
He bore the sins of adultery. And friends, if that is in your
past, it was nailed to the cross. For all who repent and trust
in Christ, it is nailed to the cross with him. So important, because some of
you are in here and you have sexual sin in your past and you
feel like you're damaged goods, don't you? You feel like God will always
keep me on the bench. I will always be B team because
of what I've done. You feel like you're always wearing
the invisible Scarlet A. And here's the truth. If you
won't repent, that's true. All of that's true of you. But
if you trust in the Lord Jesus Christ, then guess what? It's
only true of Christ now. It was laid on Christ. And what
God sees when he looks at you is the sinless perfection of
his Son. You are no longer defined by
being sexually immoral, or an adulterer, or an idolater, or
a swindler. All of that is nailed to the
cross of Christ. And you get his righteousness
on your behalf. I want you to see how dear you
are to Christ. Don't you see how dear you are
to him? Look down, we're still in 1 Corinthians 6, look at verse
13. Paul's talking about why not practice sexual immorality. Verse 13, he says, the body is
not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord and the Lord
for the body. Essentially what Paul's saying
here is you belong to God. You belong to him. He owns you,
he loves you. And then verse 15, do you not
know that your bodies are members of Christ? Paul's saying, not
only do you belong to the Father, but Jesus Christ purchased you.
Acts 20, you are purchased by his blood. And he has nail prints in his
hands that serve as his receipt for your purchase. And then verse
19, so we've been told, you belong to the Father, you are dear and
precious to the Father, you are dear and precious to Christ,
because he purchased you. Third, verse 19, do you not know
that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom
you have from God? Just as the tabernacle and the
temple in the Old Testament were the place that the Holy Spirit
dwelt, they were holy ground, you are that now. despite your
past sin, despite your selfishness, despite all that is true of you
and more than you will ever know. The Holy Spirit says, I will
live in you. That is amazing. What that means is, regardless
of your past, you are holy to God. That's why he says here
in this passage several times, as is proper for the saints,
you are holy to God. Therefore, no sexual immorality,
no coarse joking, no covetousness, because you're holy to God. Let
me close quickly with an illustration. Many years ago, we had a president
who had such high regard for the Oval Office, he would not
go in there without wearing a coat and tie. He said, as far as our
country goes, this is the closest thing to a holy place, a sacred
space. So morning and night, alone or
with others, he would not go in there without a coat and tie. He thought it deserved better.
Then a little while later, we had a president who used that
same Oval Office to commit sexual immorality. And the sin itself
was disgusting, but people were more repulsed because he did
it in the Oval Office, the holy place, as far as America goes. Beloved, you are God's sacred
space. His Holy Spirit dwells in you, so when you look at pornography,
when you engage in sexual immorality, even when you make inappropriate
course-joking, you are bringing the Holy Spirit into something
very unholy. You are bringing Him into something
He has no desire to be a part of. Don't bring him into your
sexual immorality, but be holy as he is holy. And the beauty
is that in Christ, no matter what your past looks like, no
matter the last time you looked at pornography, there is an opportunity
for a fresh start in Jesus Christ. Let's go to him in prayer. Father, we confess this is absolutely
not easy. And at times we've wanted to
cringe and probably even run out of here. And there's children
that'll have questions. There's adults that'll have questions.
There are people in here who feel tremendously guilty. We
look around. We know that if 60% of Christian
men and 30% of Christian women are looking at pornography actively,
that means that at least some in this room are struggling with
it. Oh, Lord. Now is a time not for us to be judge, jury, and
executioner, but a time for us to show grace to one another.
Father, I pray that you, for those who are burdened by the
guilt of their own sin, I pray that they would seek out one
of our elders, seek out our staff, and confess their sins, and that
they would get accountability and help for it. Father, we know
that this is messy, but we are never so messy that
we are outside of the reach of the gospel. Father, the answer
to our sexual sin is not, I'll just try harder. The answer is,
I run to Christ and I cast myself upon him. Father, thank you for the gospel.
It's not just something that we believed one time and now
it's up to us. But day after day after day,
we return to it. Because day after day we forget
it, and we run after the world. Father, teach us to treat our
bodies as sacred space. Teach us to hate sexual immorality
as much as you do. Help us to enlist buddies, battle
buddies, for accountability. Father, there's so much more
to be said, and we trust your Holy Spirit to keep saying that
into our hearts. Father, if there are some in
here who realize that they have been idols to themselves, that
they have worshiped their own will rather than the Word of
God, would you grant them repentance now, that they would trust in
Christ, that they would experience the newness of life that's promised
to us in the gospel? We pray all this in Christ's
name, amen.
No Sexual Immorality! (Eph 5:3-5)
Series In Christ (Ephesians)
| Sermon ID | 322171250216 |
| Duration | 42:56 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | Ephesians 5:3-5 |
| Language | English |
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