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On the way to a men's retreat
two weeks ago, he goes, the problem with our churches is we are passing
out jello, but we're not passing out uniforms and weapons. And
I really pray that this session, this second session, would be
passing out weapons this morning. Because we are in a battle to
the death. Sometimes the evil one is more
aware of that than we are. That we're in a battle to the
very death. One of our most powerful fortifications, if not the most
powerful, is the religious affections. That was Jonathan Edwards' magnum
opus. He wrote that book because so many people were professing
Christ during the Great Awakening that he was convinced there were
many false professors in that group. And so he wrote that book
as a litmus test of what a true believer is. Is at the foundation
of your faith a love for the holiness of God, or is your profession
of faith driven by self-interest? That's why he wrote that book.
So, it's extremely important that we understand how a saver
for heavenly things operates. When you were born again, a new
organ of sight was implanted into your soul. that new organ
of sight gave you the ability to see the glory of Christ. Because
according to 2 Corinthians chapter 4, to be unsaved is to be blind
to the glory of God in Christ, and to be saved is to have seen
the glory of God in Christ. So this new organ of sight is
implanted at the new birth. It's a sovereign act of God. A fiat creation, just as calling
light out of darkness was a fiat creation. God says, let there
be light. in the soul of that spiritually
dead man, and he's enabled immediately to see the glory of Christ. Now,
that's not just your entrance into the Christian life. Beholding
the glory of Christ becomes the vocation of the church. That
is the vocation of every believer, to keep beholding the glory of
Christ. So that, your highest treasure
and your highest pleasure is the glory of Christ. That's not
an automatic. That's not a passive situation.
You have to fight for that. This is our battlefield. Our
battlefield is not simply abstinence from sin. Our battlefield is,
as John Piper says, fight for joy. Fight for joy. This is central to our strategy.
That we have to labor and fight for this exercise where Christ
is our highest pleasure and treasure. And when he slips from that,
That's just as much a part of your repentance as repenting
from moral failure. Repentance is not just repenting
from moral failure. It is a repentance that restores
Christ to his proper place of prominence. See, this is where
we get off in our fight against sexual lust. We think that repentance
is simply, okay, I'm determining not to put that image in front
of myself again. I'm determining not to make a provision for the
flesh. I'm determining not to lust anymore. Your repentance
is not just seeking to cut off occasion that gives lust an opportunity. Your repentance, your ongoing
repentance is restoring Christ to that place of prominence He
deserves in your life. So, He's your highest treasure.
He's your highest pleasure. Now, that's the safeguard against
lust right there. Because as you're feeding upon Christ, as
you're looking upon His glory, as you're being ravished by who
He is, as you're rocked by His supremacy, and his preeminence,
that this infinitely vast being became sin for you, became a
curse for you. That's designed to rock you.
So you have to make regular presentations of Christ to your soul as a fortification
against lust. This is vital. Now, I think of
a couple of stories from centuries past that have helped me. One
is the story of Pastor Thomas Chalmers. He was an excellent
expositor. Love the Lord. He loved the Word.
He loved God's people. And as he preached from week
to week, he's tearing his hair out. Lord, why is this congregation
so dead? I'm preaching Your Word. I'm
preaching to the mind. I'm preaching to the conscience.
Why is this congregation so dead? And so he finally took a sabbatical.
He just poured out his heart to God. And the Lord made it
clear to him, you're preaching to the mind. You're preaching
to the conscience. You're preaching to the will. but you're not preaching
to the affections. You're not parting the heavens
in your sermons to show the beauty, the glory, and the desirability
of Christ. You're not parting the heavens.
You must show what a perfect match Christ is for the sinner's
ruin, the sinner's longings, the sinner's yearnings. You must
show what a perfect match Christ is for the sinner's poverty.
Spiritual poverty. Display Christ. So he went back
into his pulpit And he wrote his most famous sermon, and the
name of that sermon was, The Expulsive Power of a Greater
Affection. Or, The Expulsive Power of a
Superior Affection. And this was his whole point.
Idols will not go. Idols will not be thrust out. Heart idols will not budge unless
a higher object of desire replaces them. You cannot. Expel your idols, take them out
in the alley and crush them to bits unless you have a higher
source of happiness than your idol. Sheer abstinence won't
do it. Sheer ascetic self-denial won't
do it. You have to have a superior object
of desire. And this is what Chalmers discovered.
Puritan John Howe said the same thing when he wrote his treatise
on delighting in God. This is what John Howe said in
his comprehensive treatise on delighting in God. He says, since
God created you to be a worshipper, since God created you for happiness
and delight, since God created you to be an enthusiastic spectator
of excellence and to always be searching for excellence as a
source of happiness, your heart affections are made for an object
of desire. You have to reckon with that.
God created the affections of my heart for an object of desire.
says John Howe, your heart refuses to live as a salt waste. Your
heart will refuse to live as a barren desert. Your heart has
to be enthralled with something. Your heart has to be fixated
on an object of desire so that in the pursuit of that desire,
happiness is the byproduct. That's who we are. God created
us to be worshipers. And as my biblical counseling,
pastoral counseling professor always used to say, you're worshiping
all day long. You're constantly looking for
excellence. You're constantly fixated on objects of desire
which you believe will bring you pleasure and happiness. You
see, so our job is to keep presenting to the eyes of the heart the
beauty of Christ. That's our privileged labor.
That's our privileged calling. Keep presenting to the eyes of
the heart The beauty of Christ, His perfect suitability for your
brokenness. His perfect suitability for your
ruin. His perfect suitability for your
dereliction, loneliness, weakness, ineffectiveness, inconsistency,
failure. His perfect suitability for who
we are. We know we are that as men, don't we? Our failures beat
us up to a pulp. And yet Christ is our perfect
match for all of that. We kind of oscillate back and
forth, that pendulum in our life. I call it the Nebuchadnezzar-Belshazzar
pendulum. What did Nebuchadnezzar do? Well,
he stood out on that balcony and he goes, oh my, my hands
made all these things. The glory of Babylon is sitting
before me and I constructed the whole thing. Well, God dealt
with him and he turned him out to a beast. He had to eat grass
on all fours until he came to his senses and was humbled before
God. See, sometimes the pendulum swings
in that direction. We want the honor and the glory of our accomplishments
as men. They say a man goes through three
stages as he gets older. Young man is fixated on the opposite
sex. Middle-aged man is fixated on
money and career. And the older man is fixated
on honor. It changes through the seasons of life. See, we
can't escape that but by having Christ in that place of preeminence,
that first place. So the pendulum can swing. We
go from the Nebuchadnezzar syndrome, look what I've done, look at
all my accomplishments. I am the sum total of my accomplishments.
The pendulum swings the other direction, the Belshazzar direction,
where the writing on the wall appears. Daniel interprets it,
you've been weighed in the scales and found wanting. He turns white,
his knees are knocking together, he's terrified. That's one of our fears as men,
that we shall be weighed in the scales, and found deficient in
one or all of our roles. That's what beats us to a pulp.
Oh my. I'm doing well in my career. My marriage is in trouble. I'm
doing well in my marriage. I've been neglecting my health.
I'm doing well at the office. I've been neglecting my extended
family. There's always some area that we have to catch up in,
right? There's always some area. So our pendulum goes back and
forth. Well, we have to practice finding our sufficiency in Christ.
And I think about the letter that Christ sent through John
to the church at Laodicea. And in that letter, Laodicea
was boasting that they were wealthy, they had wisdom, they were well
clothed, they were in need of nothing. And what did Christ
say to them? Your perception of yourself and
my perception of you are polar opposites. You're actually poor,
miserable, blind, and naked. And I advise you to come to Me
that you might have clothing, sight, wealth, food, everything
you need, come to Me. In that verse that's quoted so
often out of context, Behold, I stand at the door and knock,
is actually an invitation to fellowship with Christ by matching
our spiritual poverty with His infinite riches. And I just exhort
you men as a protection against lust, that you begin to practice
that in your thought life. We know how to fixate on our
own inadequacy, don't we? But we don't take it to the second
step and say, okay, Lord, I am weak. Christ is strong for my
sake. I am weak. My devotion to you
is often, the love I have for you is often so weak, so inconsistent. You see, when we start matching
in our meditation life, the complete sufficiency of Christ and match
that up with our spiritual poverty, we start living the exchange
life. We start living the exchange life. I had a quiet time the
other day. I'm just taking a walk in this
little wilderness area near my house. I felt absolutely a zero
in my ministry. And I said, Lord, can I just
exchange today my weakness for Your strength, my inconsistency
for Your... You are the perfect disciple.
Can I change? your perfect discipleship for
my inconsistent discipleship? Lord, I'm so self-centered. Can
I exchange my selfishness for your perfect love?" And I just
went through that in my prayer life. And after that prayer life,
the Lord just used me in a profound way that afternoon. It was Him,
not me. There's a conscious exchange which takes place when we bring
our spiritual poverty to Christ and then realize that He is perfectly
fitted for everything we need. Now, let me show you how this
works in your meditation life. As you go to Scripture with the
express purpose of feeding upon Christ and thinking about all
that God is towards you in Christ and the beauty that is Christ,
as you think upon the desirability of Christ, your affections embrace
that. Christ begins to have first place
in your heart again. He's restored to that place of
first love. And your affections embrace what your mind has explained.
Now, your affections inform the will that this is truly a worthy
thing to pursue. That Christ does deserve first
place. I will pursue Him. And then a conscience, educated
by God's Word, is flooding you with peace. Christ is first place
in my life. I can say no to the world's offers.
I can trample the world's offers and invitations to lust because
I see Christ as clearly as I possibly can at this moment. This is the
soul of a person who has, as it says in Romans 15, someone
who has peace and comfort and joy in believing because they're
explaining the beauty of Christ to the other faculties of the
soul. This is our protection against lust. This is so powerful
that we keep putting Christ first. It's interesting that we forget
that we were constructed for this. I've done a prison ministry in
a very large prison in L.A. County. Sometimes they'll lock
me in a room with 30 men. They're convicts at this huge
weigh station waiting to do hard time in the San Joaquin Valley. And as I sit with these men and
preach to them, two or three will come up to me afterwards
and tell me how they're going to improve their life. It's only
like one out of 30 once a month that really knows the Lord and
comes up and says, can I tell you what Christ means to me?
You can always tell the real Christian because they'll say,
can I tell you what Christ means to me? The other guys come up
and they tell you how they're going to fix themselves up for
God. May I say, we sometimes fall into that same trap. I'm
going to fix myself up for God. Sometimes we fall into that same
trap. Instead of seeing Christ as our complete sufficiency,
our complete adequacy, that Christ alone recommends us and commends
us to God. Christ took our place in order
to give us access to his own joy in the Father. Because of
his redemptive work, our future in him is glory. At the consummation
of the age, Christ's own joy in the Godhead will spill over
and fill the universe. Christ is like the sun in our
solar system. In this analogy, the planets
represent the goals, desires, and responsibilities of the believer.
Christ's majesty is like the blazing glory and gravitational
pull of the sun. The orbits of the planets are
held and guided by His preeminence. When Christ is central in your
life, the planets of your desires and goals and labors are ordered
by Christ and put into their proper orbits." I didn't think
that up. That's actually John Piper who
said that. But I completely agree with him. That when we're captivated
by the supremacy of Christ and we're ravished by all that God
is toward us in Christ and promised to be toward us in Christ then
our hearts are enlarged to take in more of the Lord. And that's
really our calling. That's our vocation. To keep
beholding that glory, having our hearts enlarged, our soul
broadened to take in more of the majesty of God. And when
we grow in that direction, where God is enlarging our hearts,
guess what? God is big and lusts are small. This is an inverse proportion,
brothers. When lust is big and God is small, it's time to go
back and start looking at the glory of Christ again because
it's an inverse proportion. I find cycles in my life. Man,
why is lust kicking down the door of my peace this week? And
I always have to come back to this. It's time to have my heart
enlarged by the glory of Christ again. As we grow in that direction
of God enlarging our heart, sexuality, with its little frill, assumes
its proper size and orbit in our life, and sexual lust loses
its power over us as a ruling desire. That is so critical. Now, contrast that with a professed
believer who is still dominated by sexual lust that gives evidence
that his soul has remained small for a long time. Little souls
make little lusts into big and powerful forces that dominate
like a tyrant. We must have our heart enlarged.
We must realize that as new creatures we were recreated to find unending
satisfaction in Christ. For in Christ God gives us Himself. And only the supremacy of Christ
is immense enough to enlarge the soul. Now you live in a state
with majestic landscapes. The Grand Canyon and some of
the craters I've seen. The Mogollon Rim, you have incredible
vistas here. But those things can inspire
you, can move you to praise, but they can't enlarge your soul.
Only a sight of Christ's glory can do that. And our problem
today is that lust has come in the back door of the church because
the church is full of souls that are small, little souls, that
aren't doing the labor to be enlarged by the glory of Christ.
Satan is using this. to compromise us. He's using
the world to send tsunami waves into the church and they're washing
over us in lust. There's a reason for this. Your
soul was created for soul-staggering grandeur. Your heart and mind
must be connected to the majesty of Christ or it will settle onto
trivial things if you're not making that your occupation.
The human heart was made to be lost in wonder, in love, in awe
and praise. And therefore, if it's not staggered
by the supremacy of Christ, it will reach for the greatest natural
high it can get. Sex. The deepest cure for sexual
lust is to be emotionally staggered by the supremacy of Christ. The
sheer weight of Christ in eternity constitutes the gravity of what
life is all about. So heavy is that weight of glory. To have felt the tiniest portion
of it makes it almost emotionally impossible to go to the internet
to view pornography if you have tasted the glory of Christ. To the degree your mind and heart
are awakened to the glories of Christ's supremacy, your power
potential for purity is ever greater. All our moral regimes
to fight lust have a certain futility about them if Christ
is not our greatest pleasure and treasure. We must press on
to know the Lord. If seeing and savoring Christ
then is the object of your desire and satisfaction, by comparison,
temporal objects of desire will pale in comparison. I'm preaching
this to myself as well as you men today, that I have to make
constant course corrections to stay on that path. I must make
constant course corrections to keep navigating toward the glory
of Christ, to make beholding Him My vocation, constant course
corrections. Well, I want to finish this address
this morning with a few sermons that I've been preaching to myself
in the interest of purity, in the interest of being that vessel
who is cleansed from these things that might be useful to the Master.
There are things that I must preach to myself. And one of
them is that when Paul was being examined Before Felix, if you
turn to Acts 24, let's see what he says about his conscience. Acts 24. Before I read that passage,
I want to share something that's just a little bit amusing. I
cut out a cartoon out of the comic strip the other day, Hagar
the Horrible. Hagar is a barbarian who goes
out pillaging during the day and he comes home and he's just
a regular guy at night. He sits down and asks what's
for dinner. hangs up his shield and his sword, his Viking helmet,
and he asks what's for dinner. Well, he comes home one night,
he's hanging up his shield, and the teenage daughter says to
the mom, you know, this is really unfair. I don't think the gods
were fair when they made men powerful and having all the privileges.
I just don't think that's fair at all. And the mom goes, well,
you'd be surprised. Women have a secret weapon. And
the daughter goes, what? What is it? And the woman goes,
well, the secret weapon is man's guilt. And the daughter goes,
well, what if a man's not guilty? And the woman goes, nonsense.
Every man's guilty about something. See, the point is, it's a rare
man who's got a clear conscience. I disciple nine guys and once
in a while I ask them, have you kept your conscience clear this
week? And it's rare that they'll say yes. We must keep our conscience
clear. It's not a matter of staying
perfect. It's a matter of staying cleansed. As Pastor Jim opened
up this section with, we must keep returning to that infinite
provision in the New Covenant for cleansing. Hebrews 8. I will
be merciful to their iniquities. The Holy Spirit keeps showing
us the blood. We get tired of running to the
atonement, but we shouldn't. We must keep going back for cleansing
as often as necessary. Keep short accounts between you
and God. Make sure there's nothing between
you and heaven. Nothing stands in the way of complete intimacy. Make that your goal. This is so vital. Look at what
Paul said when he's on trial here. Acts 24, 15 and 16. I'm going to start in 14, but
this I admit to you that according to the way which they call a
sect I do serve, the God of our fathers, believing everything
that is in accordance with the law and that is written in the
prophets, having a hope in God, which these men cherish themselves,
that there shall be certainly a resurrection of both the righteous
and the wicked in view of this. I also do my best to maintain
always a blameless conscience before God and before men." Brothers,
what's the context? You're students of the Bible.
the judgment to come. That's the context. Paul was
animated by the eschaton. Constantly animated by the return
of the Lord, or when he would see the Lord at his death. He
was constantly animated by that. He says in 2 Corinthians 5.9,
in view of this judgment to come, I make it my ambition to always
be pleasing to Him. That's my controlling ambition.
2 Corinthians 5.9. This controls his life. I've
got a pastor friend in San Diego and he has a sermon which he
calls, How Will You Greet the King? And his exposition of 1
John 2.28-3.2 where it says, Abide in him. Abide in him, little
children, so that if he should appear, you may greet him in
confidence and not shrink away from him in shame at his coming.
So the by-product of a lifestyle of abiding in Christ, maintaining
a clear conscience, maintaining intimacy, the by-product of that
lifestyle is When you greet Him, you'll greet Him in confidence.
You'll marvel. You won't shrink away in shame
and look to the shadows. You'll greet Him with confidence.
So the subtitle of my pastor friend's sermon is, How You Greet
the King IS Your Judgment. How You Greet the King IS Your
Judgment. Will it be confidence or shame? You won't sit there
and wonder, wow, I wonder what Christ is going to say to me?
You will either greet Him in confidence or shame. based upon
whether you've been abiding in Him as a lifestyle. You see,
this is critical in our strategy against lust. You must maintain
short accounts with the Lord. You must cultivate that intimacy
so that abiding in Him is your highest priority. Now, with that
clear conscience comes a host of benefits. And I'm not just
preaching pragmatic things to you. I want you to know that
a clear conscience results in numerous things that will assist
you in saying no to sin. One is a clear conscience means
your hope is thriving. It says in 1 John 3, whoever
has this hope fixed upon Christ, then when you'll see him, you'll
be like him. If that hope is fixed on Christ, you will purify
yourself just as he is pure. The apostle makes a direct connection
between purification and hope. So when you keep a clear conscience,
what does it do? It invigorates your hope. And when your hope
is invigorated, your power for purity is invigorated. Hope and
purity and saying no to sin are all bound up together. Now, when
your conscience is defiled, you're actually the weakest in the face
of temptation. A clear conscience gives you
strength in the face of temptation. Guilt is a rotten sanctifier.
The Catholic Church thought they could harness guilt and produce
sanctified souls as a result. All it did was produce slaves.
You cannot harness guilt to produce sanctification. I love what James
Haldane says in his Romans commentary. If you have even one sin circulating
in your conscience, it will kill your confidence that you can
go to God for love and grace and expect to receive it. Haldane
also said, you cannot mortify a single sin in heart and life
unless you get forgiveness for it first. See, that's our problem. Sometimes we try to mortify lust
without getting forgiveness for our compromises. Get the forgiveness
first. Confess the sin. Get the cleansing. Get washed in the blood. Then
mortify the sin. See, that's so critical. That's
gospel-driven sanctification. The staging area for all your
forays against sin is your radical identification with Christ. All
the benefits of his incarnation, his death and his resurrection
are yours. That's the starting point, the staging area for all
your forays against sin. It's right there. Get the sense
of forgiveness. Then go to work against the sin.
Guilt's a lousy motivator. Guilt's a lousy sanctifier. Keep
that conscience clear. So, a clear conscience invigorates
your hope, gives you power for purity, Let you say no to temptation,
gives you expectation and prayer that the Lord wants to meet with
you, wants to give you fresh installments of love and grace,
and you can have a high, holy expectation that He desires to
do so when your conscience is clear. When our conscience is
defiled and we leave it that way, what kind of optimism do
you have the Lord's eager to meet with you in prayer? It's
not very high, is it? Keep that conscience clear. As Paul says,
it's a vital, It's a vital piece of your strategy against lust.
It's absolutely critical. Well, that's one of the sermons
I preach to myself. Keep those accounts short. If
you sense anything between you and heaven, take care of it immediately. Keep those accounts short. I
often have times where my confession was inadequate during the day.
I wake up for a moment in the night and I go, this can't wait. I don't want to go the rest of
the night with anything between me and heaven and I'll have to
go into my prayer closet and pray through it. And I always
sleep peacefully after that happens. The Holy Spirit's right there.
He is ready to emanate peace, joy through you. He is a person. When we sin and don't confess
it, He is grieved. And that grief to some degree
be there in your being if you don't confess that sin. So, restore
to me the joy of thy salvation. Keep that clear conscience. It
will be there. What else do I preach? I preach that God has a master
plot in redemptive history. And that master plot, I mean,
you guys are solid Calvinists. You know this better than anybody.
That that master plot is not God trying to make the best out
of a bad situation. That's the Arminian worldview.
We are proponents of sovereign grace. We believe that God has
not been taken by surprise. We believe what Jonathan Edwards
says in his most famous sermon, the reason for which all things
exist in creation, that the sin of man and the sin of angels
will not thwart God's purpose, that all things shall bring him
glory. And so, because we believe that, there's a plot taking place. And in this redemptive plot,
every man and woman is a player. As J. Adams says, whether you
want to or not, you will be an eternal object lesson to the
watching universe. Because human history is God's
grand demonstration. I am a player. I will be an object
lesson to the watching universe. And as the preachers of the Second
Great Awakening used to say, my friends, characters are being
formed right now. Destinies are being fixed today.
Though I believe in the decree of God from all eternity, characters
are being formed and destinies are being fixed. Because what
you say and do in your thought life is crystallizing your character
right now. This is why we must repent and
keep repenting. We are players in this redemptive
plot. Everyone will be an object lesson.
When God on the last day finally takes error and sin and rebellion
and blasphemy and hangs it on the gallows publicly forever,
then we will know that every single person is an object lesson
to the watching universe. I preach this to myself all the
time. I don't want to be an object lesson of what a hypocrite looks
like because God will display hypocrites as part of His display
on the last day. I don't want to be that hypocrite.
That's terrifying to me. I read the book of Jude And it
makes me shudder that there are individuals in the church who
think they can have heaven and their lusts both. And the book
of Jude puts that to the lie. Sorry. You can't have heaven
and your lusts both. Those people who use grace as
a license to sin are marked out ahead of time for condemnation.
If you use grace as a license to sin, it is a denial of Christ
according to the book of Jude. These are sobering sermons I
have to preach to myself. I will be an object lesson to
the rational universe. And by that I mean angels. I
will be an object lesson. What will it be? An object lesson
of a brand saved from the fire? A man saved by grace? What will
it be? Every man will be an eternal
object lesson. How this overturns the great
lie that religion is but a compartment of life. No. Everything is under
the Lordship of Christ. He will bring everything to its
consummation. So I preach this to myself all
the time. This is the end toward which
redemptive history is headed. This is so critical because we're
dealing with people who just live in a state of apathy, spiritual
lethargy, just a malaise. And God is calling you to wake
them up to some degree by your zeal, by your fervor for these
spiritual realities. God is calling you to wake him
up. See, we forget what the conscience really is. The conscience is
a little annex of God's courtroom. The conscience is a subpoena
to God's courtroom. The conscience is an extension
of God's perfect justice. It's God's moral mark upon us
and we will never escape it. We will have a conscience for
all eternity. In this life, it's possible to bribe your conscience,
lie to your conscience, and sear your conscience. But on the last
day, your conscience, God's verdict, and the law will be in perfect
unity. And on the last day, this is a horrific thought, on the
last day, the conscience of the unbeliever will rise up to its
full stature and take its eternal revenge on its ungrateful host.
That's an alarming thought. Every man's conscience will be
his source of peace or torment. His source of peace or the worm
that does not die. I had a baby Christian in my
living room. He'd been saved six months. And what I just told
you, the last five minutes I was telling him, he put his face
in his hands, he shook his head over and over again and uttered
four-letter words as he says, oh no, oh no, oh no. Though he was a baby Christian.
He'd not been keeping his conscience clear. This was absolutely terrifying
to him, that the implements of his eternal torment don't have
to be manufactured by God. He's already carrying them in
his conscience, because sin is its own punishment. We have to
keep a clear conscience. Lust sullies it up and dirties
it up quicker than anything. We've got to keep going back
to the blood, confessing the sin, getting that cleansing. running to the atonement as often
as we need to. Another sermon I preach to myself,
I have 12 here, I'm going to give you 4. But another sermon
I preach to myself is the violence that must be done for the Kingdom
of God. One of the greatest works by Thomas Watson is a wonderful
little book he wrote. It's not that thick. That particular book is taken
from a single text in Matthew 11-12 where Jesus said that since
John the Baptist, the Kingdom of God is suffering violence,
and violent men are taking it by force. And so, Thomas Watson
wrote the book, Taking Heaven by Storm. And he just opened
that text up and said, look, do you understand how much violence
is necessary to enter the Kingdom of God? Didn't Jesus tell us
In Mark 10, 24, children, how hard it is to enter the kingdom
of God. And in Acts 14, 22, by many tribulations,
trials, sufferings, we must enter the kingdom of God. You see,
the issue is, will we pay the price? Part of mortification
of lust and cutting off occasion to make opportunities for the
flesh is the violence necessary to enter the kingdom of God. I like what Watson says in his
book. The more violent you are in your spiritual disciplines,
in your rigor, in your self-discipline and self-denial, the less violent
Satan will be in your life. But start neglecting your spiritual
disciplines. Let compromise come in. Be a double-minded man and
Satan will be a vicious wolf, hounding you and ripping you
and being violent to you all the time. Satan has a goal. We know this from Job 1. Job
1, we can deduce from that chapter this very fact. That God is seeking
worshippers, as he said in John 4, and Satan is seeking hypocrites.
Satan would like to prove that there is not one single person
on the face of the earth that really loves God for who he is.
Everybody's in it for self-interest and mercenary things. Satan has
something to prove. He wants to prove that your affections
are more tied to this world than to God Himself. And Satan has
the entire pleasures of the world to work with. That's what he
baits his hook with. And that's what he's trying to
prove. That God really doesn't have any worshippers at all.
How do we trample Satan and conquer him? By our love for the Lord,
come what may. Through losses and crosses, the
Lord gives and the Lord takes away. through everything, our
consistent love for Christ tramples Satan. Because in seeking to
populate hell, Satan is still trying to undergird the original
lie hatched in his soul, that God is not worthy of worship.
Therefore, all God can get are people who are transacting with
him for earthly blessings, earthly prosperity, health and wealth,
mercenary means only. God can't even get one true worshipper.
And that was the contest in Job's suffering, was it not? Is Job
a true worshipper or is he in a personal game? See, Satan is
not done with that agenda. And that's why he uses lust on
you and me. He wants to prove that your faith is nothing but
hypocrisy. I've got to preach that to myself. Satan is baiting
his hook with the pleasure of this world to try to reveal my
affections that are untrue. He wants to prove I'm a hypocrite
and not a true worshipper. He wants to do the same to you.
You must know the agenda of your enemy. Now, Satan is a roaring
lion. He's a wolf. He's a liar. He
seeks to kill and destroy. Most of you men have a security
system in your home of some kind, either electronic or deadbolts
or some type of security system. You want to keep thieves and
robbers out. And if a thief walked into your house, started taking
your possessions, accosting your wife and children, there's no
way you'd stand idly by. You'd grab anything, a lamp,
a baseball bat, anything, and you'd try to dispatch that guy
so he could stop his ravaging. The problem is we don't do that
when lust enters in. We let lust come into the house
of our soul and wreak havoc and mess things up and turn over
the furniture, bash our value system. And finally, a couple
of days later, well, I guess I better stop lusting. I'm always
reminded of this illustration of a father who took his eight-year-old
son to a very first drama, the very first play that eight-year-old
boy had seen. It was a play about the time of King Arthur, and
there was an incredible sword fight on stage. These swords
are clashing, and at one point a spark even came as this metal
hit. This little boy's eyes are like this. Finally, the villain
takes the sword to the side and falls to the stage, and the curtains
finally close, and the little boy is just breathless. The father
goes, how would you like to meet the cast? What? How would you
like to go backstage and meet the cast? This eight-year-old
boy agreed to do that. And as he went backstage, the
two men who had represented the antagonist and the protagonist,
the good guy and the bad guy, are sitting at a table having
coffee together. And the little boy is absolutely
scandalized. How could they sit down to coffee? I thought he defeated the bad
guy. This is crazy. You see, that's a picture of
the fact that in our words, in our speech, in our public testimony,
boy, we've declared war on sin. And in our private testimony,
we might have a peace treaty with it. We might actually be
a secret friend. We might actually have a detente
with our lusts. And I myself am even convicted
as I say this to you. We must declare war privately,
not just publicly, against our lusts. I used to run on the beach
in San Diego near where they had the SEAL team training facility.
A SEAL team member, water is his medium. He's trained for
search and destroy missions. Water is his medium. That's how
he conceals himself. He doesn't use palm tree camouflage. Water
is his medium. That's his stealth. And he goes
on these search and destroy missions underwater. And his mission is
always find and destroy. You see, that's your job if you're
going to subdue lust. Every single lust has a lie operating behind
it. We know that from Ephesians chapter
4. The lusts of deceit, it says. The lusts of deceit. Every single
lust has a lie which drives it. And the way you win is not by
toying with the lust, not by turning it over in your mind,
arguing whether it'd be pleasurable or not. The way you win over
the lust is you must out-truth the lust. You must deconstruct
the lie. You must attack the lie that drives the lust, because
every single lust has a deception factor behind it. You must be
a spiritual SEAL team member. Find and destroy. Find the lie
that gives the lust its appeal and kill it. That's your victory
right there. Find the lie that drives the
lust and kill it, drive a stake through it, put it to death.
See, part of our problem in our thought life is we're not honest
enough. We don't make that our goal.
I am on a mission to destroy every lie that comes across the
conveyor belt of my mind, including the lies that drive lusts. And
there's plenty of lies that come through there per day that need
to be destroyed. I think about an amusing story where one of
the emperors of the Roman Empire, someone said, look, why don't
you choose this gentleman as your advisor? Bring him on your
cabinet. He's so intelligent. He's so wise. And the Caesar
said, no, I don't think so. He said, why? Well, he's 100
pounds overweight. What does that have to do with
it? Well, if he's 100 pounds overweight, I already know he
lies to himself three times a day when he sits down at the table.
The whole point is our character is inseparable from how we attack
lies. If we allow lies safe harbor,
our character is defiled in the process. Your integrity is joined
to the fact that you keep putting the lies to death. You keep destroying
those lies and exposing them in the process. Well, one last sermon and then
we'll bring this to a close. I think Pastor Jim, if I have
time, is going to give me a couple of minutes for questions and
answers maybe. We can explore that a little bit. The book of 1 Peter, if we could
just go there for a moment, the book of 1 Peter, starting in
verse 3, and I'm going to close with this passage just so you
know, just a few more minutes here. Blessed be the God and
Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who according to his great mercy
has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the
resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead. to obtain an inheritance
which is imperishable and undefiled and will not fade away, reserved
in heaven for you, who are protected by the power of God through faith."
Through what? Faith. For salvation ready to
be revealed in the last time. In this you greatly rejoice,
even though now for a little while, if necessary, you've been
distressed by various trials, that the proof of your faith
being more precious than gold, which is perishable, even though
tested by fire, may be found to result in praise and glory
and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ. And I'll finish
that verse in a moment. But this passage is also strategic
in your battle against lust. The fact that you are kept secure
through faith. God keeps your faith alive, vital,
and vigorous. And that's the way He keeps you,
brings you safely to glory. Now, this faith must be proven,
refined, strengthened, exercised, and developed. And so, the Lord
has custom-designed things in the school of Christ to keep
your faith vigorous. And that needs to be our perspective
on a regular basis. We must see all of life through
that grid. God is constantly nurturing my
faith, refining it, and proving it. Testing it for one great
goal. when he presents you publicly
before the watching universe on the last day. And he synchronizes
the cleansing of the universe and the remaking of the universe
with your public presentation as the sons of God. When that
event takes place, your faith will be presented as the most
precious thing in the universe. More precious than galaxies made
of platinum, your faith will be presented as the most precious
thing It'll result in praise and glory and honor when Christ
is revealed publicly. And this is critical in our fight
against lust. Because in our fight against
lust, it's a fight over whose worldview we'll believe. The
worldview that Christ has told us or the worldview the devil
tells us. Faith is all about who we believe. This faith is
being tested. There's a kind of faith, it says
in James 2, which can't take you to heaven. That's a sobering
thought. There's a kind of faith which
can't save you. The kind of faith that can save you is preoccupied
with the person of Christ. Look what it says here. It says
of this kind of faith, that though you've not seen Him... I'm in
verse 8. Though you've not seen Him, you love Him. And though
you do not see Him now, but believe in Him, you greatly rejoice with
joy inexpressible and full of glory. Obtaining as the outcome
of your faith, the salvation of your souls. This is vital
in our strategy against lust. To know that God is at work on
your faith. Nurturing it. Refining it. Developing it. And proving it
as genuine. You've got an enemy. You've got
a personal enemy. The devil who wants to prove
your faith spurious. Fallacious. God is at work in your faith.
Developing it. Notice that our response to this
section on a faith ready to be revealed the last time is in
verse 13. Therefore, gird up the loins
of your minds for action. Pull up the pants of your mind
and get ready to run the race. Make your thought life weaponry. Make your thought life a source
of weaponry. Keep sober in spirit. Fix your
hope completely on the grace to be brought to you at the revelation
of Jesus Christ. As obedient children, do not
be conformed to the former lusts which were yours in your ignorance. See, it's always a tension between
being conformed and being transformed. How much energy does it take
to be conformed? None. All you have to do is be
passive. as my friend said, what do you
have to do to become a sensual humanist? The answer is turn
on the TV and close this book. It'll happen naturally. See,
the world wants to conform us to itself and push us into its
mold. But God is saying, gird your
mind for action. Use your mind as that which is
captive to the word of God so that scripture is always transforming
you instead of the world conforming you. See, if we see that that's
what God is up to, we can cooperate with His purposes, right? We
can cooperate with those purposes. Well, the challenges could keep
going on. Looking for a summary statement this morning, I'm just
absolutely so encouraged that this many men have come out in
a chapel of this size. And I just want to encourage
you so much that your willingness to sacrifice half of a Saturday
for this kind of teaching is just a delight to my soul. And
I'm convinced that you'll take the biblical material you've
heard today and use it in your relationships. Because God is
requiring of us that we do what? Admonish every brother and teach
every brother that we might present every brother complete in Christ.
That's not Pastor Jim's job, that's our job in our relationships
with one another. And that includes overturning
some of the greatest enemies to the soul, and that is lust.
We're desert survivors. You men who've walked with Christ
30, 40, 50 years, some of you, you've got a high responsibility.
You know how to teach people how to survive in this world
that wants to destroy their souls. And we need your wisdom. Praise
God. Let's take some time for Q&A
unless you'd like to transition, Jim. Is that okay? Yes, Alan. That's a great question. And
I've heard churches that have done really well and some that
the sheep have scattered. And I think the ones that have
done really well have been utterly honest about the principles involved.
So rather than putting the man up and saying, here he's good,
here he's bad, they went to the biblical answer that according
to James 1, sin sits there for a while before it's expressed. Look what it says here. It says
in verse 14 of James 1, but each one is tempted when he's carried
away and enticed by his own lust. Then, and that intimates a little
bit later or sometime down the road, then when lust has conceived,
it gives birth to sin. And when sin is accomplished,
it brings forth death. Now that last phrase only describes
an unregenerate person. But the other two phrases could
describe a Christian. So we need to be utterly honest.
The kind of moral failure you're talking about does not strike
as a lightning bolt out of the blue. It's something that has
sat there and gestated and developed over time. And what you see on
the outside of the man may not be what's on the inside. His
doubts about God's goodness, his weariness of God, have made
a way for lust. This is critical. All lust is
related to weariness of God. All ruling lusts are connected
to doubts about God's goodness to you in particular. So we can look at these principles,
Alan, and understand that a man does not fall overnight. There's
an internal process which has been going on invisibly. You
see, we must encourage the sheep to fear the Lord all the more.
and guard themselves, as Jim read from Galatians 6. Anything
else on that that would help you? Okay, good. Someone else.
Yes. Thank you for being so practical.
That's a really, really terrific question. Yes. especially when you struggle
with that desire for companionship and an outlet for sexual desire. Yes. And then you think, okay,
I'll get married and lust will evaporate. I'm looking at 1 Corinthians
7 that when you're single, you can devote your time on the Lord,
but when you're married, your interests are divided. When I
was single, I read that and really didn't fully understand it, but
now being married for about 90 years, I can more appreciate
what it's written. Good. I thought you were talking
about the fact that a married man, a Christian married man,
can still have a lust problem. You weren't bringing that up?
Being single, when I got married, I wasn't having problems with
lust. you know for your mother obviously not being married or
not born again but thought in the context of marriage you would
have an outlet for that desire that luck but when you're married
you still have to struggle with like you say images that come
before sure well because i'm married now you can bring any
lady before me and i have No problems of lust because I'm
married. Well, that's true. Okay, good. And there's probably
a number of single men here this morning. Thank you for bringing
that up because sometimes it's easy to think, I didn't marry
until I was 36. And I would ask my Christian friends who are
married, does marriage cure the whole lust thing? And I love
the way he answers. It doesn't cure it, but it sure
takes the lid off or puts a lid on it, I think he said. But the
problem of lusting can still be there very much. So, how about
some practical answers, men? What does it say in Proverbs
5? That let your wife's bosom or breasts satisfy you at all
times. It is your affection and passion
for your wife that is designed to guard you from the strange
woman, both in your thoughts and physically. That's the strategy
scripture gives us, is it not? But see, also connected with
this is the fact that we're dealing with a sin like no other sins. There's never a time when covenant
is right. There's not a time when lying is right. There's
not a time when slander is right. There's not a time when idolatry
is right. But there is a time when sex is right with your spouse.
This is like no other sins. You can't find anything else
like it. Sex in the proper context is beautiful. It glorifies God.
It makes one flesh. Out of that context, it's destructive.
So, here's the problem. My wife looks beautiful to me,
and that woman that just won Miss Georgia looks beautiful
to me. What am I going to do? I want to stay focused on my wife, not
the one who won Miss Georgia in the beauty pageant. But I
might have to acknowledge that that woman who won that beauty
pageant is gorgeous. I'm not going to lie and say
she's not gorgeous. She is gorgeous. But what do
you do with that in your thought life? If you're in love enough, you're
going to compare that beauty queen and say, yeah, she's beautiful. I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't
let anyone compare her to myself. No contest. Amen. Amen. See, that's the kind of thought
life that keeps fidelity in place. And we have to think that way.
But if you're in love enough, that in love tickling can go
away. Well, I mean, I've been married
almost 65 years, but that woman's more gorgeous to me than she's
ever been. Okay, and David's bringing up something interesting
here. Even the ability to say that, that my wife is more beautiful
than another woman, I wouldn't ever even consider that other
woman. It's not a feeling. Love is a volitional act whereby
my commitment to my wife before God is the controlling principle
here. Because feelings come and go.
Some weeks my wife looks more beautiful to me than others,
but that's not the variable. It's a covenant until death,
which God says is beautiful and he wants it that way. Now sometimes
when I see a beautiful woman, I admit. I turn it into a prayer.
Lord, you sure knew what you were doing when you could make
that out of a rib. Sometimes I'll even use humor
in my prayers. Sorry guys, I don't want to say you have to follow
what I'm doing here, I have to acknowledge the fact that in
Southern California, there are many beautiful women. They're
going by me all the time when I'm at the coast or in a mall
or something. And I have to keep a constant
communication with the Lord. Father, You sure know what You're
doing when You made women. What a blessing. How good You are.
What a testimony of Your goodness that You gave me a woman who's
so perfect for me. Thank you. Thank you. That's
right. You bet. And when you maintain communication...
See, lust takes place in a very private, secretive way where
you're not even cultivating any relationship. That's why lust
makes you feel shameful when you engage in it. Because the
gift of sexuality is designed to produce oneness in a relationship
that's God-given. Sexuality by yourself can never
have anything but shame. Because the gift of sexuality
is to produce oneness between two people. So I diffuse that
lust by talking to God about what's surrounding me. Maintaining
the relationship, maintaining intimacy. Alan. Yes. So true. And that's huge. And there are times where I remind
myself of this. There is the proverb that a beautiful woman without
discretion is like a ring of gold in a swine's snout. And
I have to remind myself, yes, there are plenty of beautiful
women that have zero character. Their integrity is absolutely
absent. I think about the virtues of my wife and suddenly everything
is in perspective. She is a Proverbs 31 woman. What
a Ruby she is.
Every Man's Battle (Part 2)
Series Dealing With Lust
| Sermon ID | 32008032490 |
| Duration | 1:00:30 |
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