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Father, we do thank You that
there's coming a time when tears and grief will be passed. We long for a new heaven and
a new earth where there will be no more sorrow and no more
tears. But, Father, until then, we pray
that You would teach us what it is to be still in You. And we pray, Father, even tonight,
that You would minister to us that You would strengthen us,
that You would teach us from Your Word. Father, we thank You
for Your goodness to us and we pray that You would draw near
and meet with us tonight for Your glory and for our good.
In Jesus' name, Amen. When we started this, I had originally
intended to do about four messages on a biblical understanding of
our emotions. I don't know what number we're
on, but I don't much care, actually. We started out by looking at
a biblical foundation for understanding our emotions. And in that, we
looked at the character of God. We looked at the character of
our Lord Jesus Christ, the character of Scripture. From there, we
moved to what we would call theologically a biblical anthropology. We considered
man in his pre-fall state. We considered man in his fallen
state. And the conclusion is that man
in his fallen state is wholly impacted and completely corrupted
by sin in every faculty of his being. Mind, will and emotions
have been ravaged by sin. This radical depravity ends up
disrupting the proper functioning of each faculty, namely mind,
will and emotions. which means that certain short
circuits occur and bring about tremendous turmoil in the person. Now we are actually subject to
a vast array of fallen emotions and their sinful displays. Then
we look at the fact that in redemption, when God regenerates the sinner,
not only do the emotions play an important role in conversion,
but also there's a renewing process in redemption which begins to
reclaim and to realign the emotions. And we all know, at least by
experience, that this does not happen all at once. What is started
in germ or seed form must be worked out in the process of
sanctification, which takes no less than a lifetime. Then we
begin to look at biblical sanctification and our emotions. Our emotions
are a part of us that need to be sanctified and brought under
the authority of the Word of God. By the way, at this point,
let me just make a side comment. I have been referring to the
self-confrontation manual a number of times throughout these messages
and there is, I noticed, it was brought to my attention previously
in the teacher's manual and then I saw it this week in the regular
manual where Basically, the writers of the manual say that God doesn't
expect you to change your emotions. And that God doesn't call you
to do that. And that really is not true.
The Bible authoritatively commands how we are to feel. The Bible
authoritatively commands us to exercise self-control. The Bible
authoritatively commands us to be people who are sober-minded.
And so, the how of that? Well, it's built on the foundation
of truth. Truth always comes first, not experience, not the
emotions, but truth. The emotions need to be impacted,
shaped, and directed by the mind as truth comes to the mind into
the heart. We also looked at a sound theology
of Christian experience, understanding the relationship between truth
and experience and the emotions, and then we looked at a number
of biblical examples of how the emotions should be controlled
through truth. Then we began to look at how
to put to death ungodly emotions. We started with anger and then
we went to fear, anxiety and worry. I suppose that we could
preach on the fear, anxiety and worry 52 Sundays a year and we
would always find relevance and application. It is one of those
things that end up impacting us in a huge way. Tonight we
get to depression. Now, you might have picked up
from the hymns that we sang that we might be talking about depression. All of those hymns that we sang,
of course, were directed to the sorrowful, grieving heart. And
so let's begin tonight, if you look at your notes, at understanding
depression. First, let me just give credit
where credit is due. Ed Welch, blame it on the brain.
That does not say blame it on Brian. It says blame it on the
brain. Has been of inestimable help. And I would heartily recommend
Ed Welch's book, Blame It on the Brain, where he deals with
issues like depression and chemical imbalance and a number of other
head injuries, a number of things. We live in a day and age where
people want to blame everything on body chemistry or mental dysfunction. And Ed Welch helps us navigate
through some of the silliness and helps us to see a good picture
of what the Bible says. Now, first of all, as we define
depression, I'd like to do two things. First, I'd like to tell
you that depression is described in the Bible. And let's just
look at these passages quickly without much comment. We begin
in Deuteronomy, chapter 28. Deuteronomy, chapter 28. This, by the way, is in the Covenant
Curse section of Deuteronomy. And I want you to notice each
one of the elements of this curse. And I promise you, if you have
ever experienced depression, these elements will be resonating
in your own heart and mind. Verse 65, Among those nations
you shall find no rest. There will be no resting place
for the sole of your foot. So, restlessness. But the Lord
will give you a trembling heart, failing of eyes, despair of soul. The heart trembling. The inability
to perceive, to see clearly. Despair that reaches the soul.
So, your life shall hang in doubt before you. And you will be in
dread night and day and have no assurance of your life. In
the morning you shall say, would that it were evening. And at
the evening you shall say, would that it were morning because
of the dread of your heart which you dread." Is that descriptive? The dread You will wish it is
evening in the morning and morning in the evening because of the
dread of your dread. And for the sight of your eyes,
which you will see. Psalm 42. I believe that probably
the majority of the Psalms are written from a depressed state. You can't help but read them
and realize that there is a tremendous amount of depression that goes
on in the Psalms. Psalm 42 ends up being a big
one. There's a lot of joy in the psalms,
obviously, but there's a lot of grief and sorrow in the psalms
as well. Notice the way the psalmist talks to himself in 42.5. Why
are you in despair, O my soul? Literally, why are you sunk down? Why are you cast down, O my soul? Why have you become disturbed
within me? Hope in God, and I shall again
praise Him for the help of His presence. The psalmist goes on
to say the very same thing in verse 11 and then in 43 verse
5. Turn over to Psalm 77. Psalm 77. Verse 7. Will the Lord
reject forever Will He never be favorable again? Has His lovingkindness ceased
forever? Has His promise come to an end
forever? Has God forgotten to be gracious?
Or has He in His anger withdrawn His compassion? Selah. Does God ever reject His people?
Does God ever turn His back upon His people? What you have in
this psalm and in other psalms is simply the accurate feeling
of a person who is under a dark cloud. Now, let's move on. Proverbs 13. Proverbs 13. So, do you think
the Scripture is doing a fairly good job so far at painting the
picture? Proverbs 13 and verse 12. Hope deferred. makes the heart
sick, but desire fulfilled is a tree of life." What do you
think Solomon means by hope deferred makes the heart sick? What do
you think it means to be heart sick? Proverbs 17. Proverbs 17
and verse 22. A joyful heart is good medicine. But a broken spirit dries up
the bones. A broken spirit dries up the
bones. One last passage, Proverbs 18,
verse 14. And notice the contrast here. 18-14, the spirit of a man can
endure his sickness, but as for a broken spirit, who can bear
it? What we have in these passages
really is a description of depression in its many different facets.
But yet, we not only have these descriptions of depression in
the Scriptures, we also have depressed people in the Scriptures.
Read the book of Job. Read the book of Job and what
you will see is a man who is absolutely filled with bewildering
grief and sorrow and his heart is deeply disturbed within him.
And he wants to die. Go to Job. You could go to Elijah. Elijah comes to a place in his
life where he's tired, he's fatigued, and he thinks that the whole
world is against him, and he wants to die. What about Jonah? Those rotten Ninevites repented.
My life is ruined. God, just kill me. What about
the Apostle Paul? You ever think of the Apostle
Paul as being a person who was depressed? Turn over to 2 Corinthians
1. Notice Paul's words. Verse 8. We do not want you to be unaware,
brethren, of our affliction which came to us in Asia. Notice that
we were burdened excessively beyond our strength, so that
we despaired even of life. That's the inspired apostle talking. And he's saying that the afflictions
that came to them in Asia were excessive burdens that were beyond
their strength. Does that sound very apostolic?
Does that sound very spiritual? We had burdens that were beyond
our strength. Well, I thought God doesn't give
us anything that we can't bear. Well, that's true, but you know
what? It doesn't always seem like you can bear what God thinks
you can bear. That last line, so we despaired
even of life. The Bible describes depression
for us and it describes it in its vivid terms. What do we mean
when we say depression? And I don't mean to imply that
when a person is depressed that they experience all of these
things, but they may experience a number of these things. It's
a complex thing and this is just a list. There's an emotional
feeling of despair and hopelessness. There can be emotional pain or
Emotional numbness or both. No energy. No desire for anything. Even the pleasures of life. Insomnia. Weight loss. Fatigue. A paralyzing dread of the future. For instance, the holidays. An inability to maintain consistent
thoughts or to concentrate. Restlessness. Or thoughts of
death. Even of suicide. And even the
planning of it. My friends, I tell you that depression
should not be taken lightly. It is a destroyer. It is a destroyer. and it won't look the same in
every person, and it won't be in the same degree, but depression
is an awful, terrible, affliction and emotional state. What are
the sources of depression? Well, we really have to look
at it in two ways, physical sources and spiritual sources. The first
thing that we need to do under physical sources is to distinguish
body and soul. First of all, there is a very
clear, even biblically speaking, a very clear plane, interpenetration
and interdependence between the body and the soul. Therefore,
it should be no surprise to us that physical problems can lead
to depression, which can lead to spiritual problems, and spiritual
problems can lead to depression, which can lead to physical problems.
Both of those angles, both of those sides are true. The physical
can lead to depression that can lead to spiritual problems. The
spiritual can lead to depression which can lead to physical problems. Such physical things as an illness
can bring about depression. Such a thing as childbirth. In fact, this is such a common
problem that in England, There have been a number of cases where
mothers have murdered their newborn babies and have been exonerated
because of what's called postpartum syndrome. And we're certainly
not saying that that's an acceptable thing or a justifiable thing.
All I'm pointing out is that it is an observable fact that
after childbirth, many times, women will go through a period
of depression. After a major surgery, hormonal changes, chemical
imbalances, changes in diet, even fatigue. I would say that
was Elijah's primary problem, was simply fatigue. There are
a number of physical sources of depression, but there are
also a number of spiritual sources of depression. And it's not always
just really easy to tell where the depression is coming from.
The spiritual sources would be, first of all, sin. Sin of omission,
sin of commission, guilty consciences. We know that depression can be
the result of sin because we have in our Bible Psalm 32 and
Psalm 38. In both cases, the psalmist is
depressed and he's depressed because of his sin. A guilty
conscience can haunt the soul in such a way that it leads to
an incredible depression. Other spiritual sources would
be such things as grief. Loss of a loved one. Loss of
a job. Stress. Stress over children.
Stress over marriage. Stress over finances. Also, God's
discipline may bring about a state of depression. Psalm 32, David
kept quiet about his sin. What was the result? Divine discipline.
Day and night, your hand was heavy upon me. What was the result? My vitality was sapped away as
with the fever heat of summer. Satan himself can attack the
believer in such a way through such things as false guilt or
capitalize on the depression, putting thoughts into the believer's
head, doubting God's goodness and God's love. My friends, the
devil countless times has put into the minds of a believer,
if God loved you and if God were your Father, why would He let
you suffer like this? Many sources, physical and spiritual. There are also certain liabilities
of depression. When a person enters into a state
of depression, there are certain liabilities, there are certain
potential dangers. The first is this, it's very
easy to move into a state of self-pity. Depression can move
A person in depression can very easily move into a state of self-pity
where they all of a sudden become so absorbed with themselves that
all of a sudden nobody and nothing else matters. Also, another liability of depression
is that it can become patterned. Certain reoccurring things in
life can begin to precipitate the depression on an annual basis. The holidays are an excellent
example. For many people, the holidays are a wonderful time
of celebration and family and joy. And for other people, they
absolutely dread them and go into a state of depression and
don't get out of that depression until the holidays are long past.
PMS, menopause, other things like that that can bring about,
well I guess menopause only happens once. So PMS, there's a pattern
there and you start to feel a certain way and then you enter into a
certain state and it becomes patterned. Another liability
of depression is this. There can become a downward spiral
of chain sinning. You know what chain sinning is? It's the same thing as chain
smoking. Instead of smoking, you're sinning though, and you're
lighting up one sin on top of the other. It is very easy for
a person in a state of depression to start spiraling downward in
such a way that they begin to have sinful responses to the
sources. And once those sinful responses
begin, then the sinful response goes into the response to the
sinful response, which responds to the sinful response. And so,
for instance, a person can enter into a stage of depression and
overeating, drugs, alcohol, overwork, neglecting of duties, both spiritual
and domestic. Stop and think about that one
for a moment. A person enters into a stage of depression. They
begin to feel down. They begin to feel heavy hearted.
And then all of a sudden they start to neglect their duties.
Let's say they start to leave off spiritual duties or even
their domestic duties. Leaving off those duties then
produces guilt. And then that guilt feeds the
cycle even more. And there is a downward spiral
that takes place. Another liability of depression
is this. Depression can become a torturous
companion. Depression can become a torturous
companion. In fact, for the depressed person,
it can become hard or even frightening to think of living without the
depression. As strange as that may sound,
there are people who end up thinking that they wouldn't know how to
live if they weren't depressed. Sometimes the cause of that is
simply this. They think that getting over
the depression will mean that they will end up forgetting something
that they don't want to forget. Whether it's a sense of grief
or a sense of guilt. Take, for instance, the woman
who suffers from the guilt of an abortion. And she has that
guilt and many times it leads to depression. And that depression
just ravages her soul and her emotions. And yet, the idea of
getting over it might mean that I don't feel like I should towards
that sin. And the very thought of that
can become frightening. Or getting over grief. If I get
over this grief that leads me into this depression, then will
that mean I don't love my loved one who's departed as much as
I used to? Depression can become a torturous
companion that it almost seems impossible to live without. Well, how do we deal with depression
biblically? I just give these counsels. They're
practical. These do not just simply come
off the top of my head. I sought medical consultation
on some of these to make sure I was right. And my medical consultant
assured me with some nuanced refining that we were on the
right track. But let's begin with what we
just simply might call some prevention. Take care of the temple. Take
care of your physical being. One of the things that we need
to realize is that God designed us that we are to eat and to
sleep and even to exercise because it is good for us physically.
Paul tells us, you have been bought with a price, therefore
glorify God. within your body, do you not
know that you are the temple of the Holy Spirit and the Spirit
of God dwells in you? This body of ours, which has
this incredible interpenetration and interdependence with the
soul, is absolutely vital that we make sure that we take care
of it. When people start to get depressed, one of the things
that they can simply begin to think about is, am I getting
enough sleep? A lot of people actually become
atheists who are Christians because they don't get enough sleep.
When I start to feel doubts concerning God enter into my soul, do you
know the first thing that comes to my mind? I need more rest. I need more rest. You need to
take care of the temple. The Apostle Paul says that exercise
is of little profit. But notice he didn't say it was
of no profit. Godliness is great profit. Exercise, bodily exercise,
is of little profit. But that little profit might
be the thing that keeps you from losing your sanity. Exercise. It is a medical fact that physical
exercise helps to maintain physical equilibrium that may prevent
us from going into a depression. Watch your sleep. Watch your
diet. Some people shouldn't drink caffeine. Some people shouldn't
eat certain foods. The ingesting of certain things
can actually bring about a spiritual, physiological response of depression. My friends, there's really nothing
more practical than that. Watch what you eat, make sure
you sleep, take care of the body that God gave you. Now, it won't
cure everything, but it might go a long way in curing some
things. Second, See a good doctor. What I mean
by a good doctor is, I mean, don't go to your local drug dealer
who's an MD. You need to be careful when you
go to a doctor. If you're suffering from depression, you should go
to a doctor. But you should not go to a doctor whose first impulse
is simply going to be to medicate you. In the self-confrontation
manual, it says it is important that a medical diagnosis be made
by a primary care physician and medical supervision be maintained
with some of these conditions. At the same time, however, you
must make biblical changes in your life so that you learn to
live biblically in the midst of physical need and medical
treatment. Remember, God is sovereign and will never allow a physical
problem to come into your life that would make it impossible
for you to be obedient to his word. If you start to enter into
a period of depression, go see a doctor. Go see a good doctor.
A good doctor, first of all, can run a blood panel and check
your blood chemistry. Examining a blood panel may end
up determining the physiological cause of the depression. It does
not always, but there are times where a doctor can identify certain
deficiencies just by a simple blood panel. A good doctor can
ask a lot of the right questions, physiological questions that
may lead to some insight and to some help. Of course, the
question comes up, well, what about medication? It seems that
such things as Prozac are as common today as, I was going
to say, as receiving the mail, but Prozac and the mail, I guess,
don't go together very well today. But the fact is, is that we have
to deal with medication. Is it okay for a Christian to
go and be put on medication? Well, first of all, let me say
this. There is no medical evidence whatsoever that antidepressants
or anti-anxieties actually restore body chemistry. Alright? There is no evidence that something
like Prozac or anything else restores body chemistry. They
can change the depressive symptoms but they do not treat the cause. Antidepressants and anti-anxieties
simply treat the symptoms. Second, some doctors are far
too quick to medicate today, often without any kind of physical
examination, blood work or examination. Third, medication, and please
hear me carefully, medication may be useful in extreme cases
and might be used to get a person back to some kind of level state
where he or she can begin to think clearly and take appropriate
action. Anti-anxieties and anti-depressants
can become addictive. I understand that the anti-anxieties
can become physically addictive, but a person can become psychologically
dependent. upon these things. And once an
addiction is formed, then there's a chemical dependence and hence
idolatry. Our trust always must be in the
Lord. But if you start to feel depressed,
go and see a doctor. Ernie, can you open the back
doors, please? It's sort of warm in here. Third, deal with any
known sin. How did David overcome the depression
that he talks about in Psalm 32? He confessed his sin. He dealt with his sin. One of
the things that we need to realize is that we need to deal with
our sins and sometimes that depression can come as a result of sin and
if we're ever to overcome the depression, we have to deal with
the cause, which is the sin. Ed Welch says, compassion cannot
ignore unbelief or sin. Listen carefully to this counsel.
Too often, family and friends think the depressed person is
very fragile and cannot handle any frank discussion about sin
or hard-heartedness. But to ignore these issues when
they are obvious in someone's life is to treat that person
without love and compassion. We often react negatively to
this idea. Isn't this a case of beating
people when they're down? Won't this crush their self-worth
even more? If we find ourselves thinking
this way, we are probably hearing the culture more than the Bible.
The Bible always portrays our sin problem as being deeper than
any pain we experience. To ignore sin, especially when
it is obvious, is to offer only a very superficial kind of love
and compassion, and to withhold help that is needed at the deepest
level. My friends, not all depression
comes from sin, but much of it does, and we need to deal with
any known sin if we are to overcome it. Next, we need to practice
biblical thinking. One of the things that is very,
very dangerous about the depressed state is that the thinking becomes
haywire. The thinking becomes convoluted.
The thinking becomes very unbiblical. And yet the Bible continually
tells us that we need to think in a biblical manner so that
we are not sorrowful, so that we do not grieve excessively
and so forth. In fact, just if you have your
Bible still open to 2 Corinthians 1, this is a wonderful example
In 2 Corinthians 1. Remember verse 8. We do not want
you to be unaware, brethren, of our affliction which came
to us in Asia, that we were burdened excessively beyond our strength,
so that we despaired even of life. And notice, indeed, we
have the sentence of death within ourselves. But God had a purpose
in it. so that we would not trust in
ourselves, but in God who raises the dead, who delivered us from
so great a peril of death and will deliver us, He on whom we've
set our hope, He will yet deliver us. There is woven into the Scriptures
this constant reminder that we need to think biblically. So
what does Paul do? Here he is excessively burdened,
beyond strength, despairing even of life. And then it comes to
him. God is doing this. God is using this to teach us
not to trust in ourselves, but to trust in Him who raises the
dead. To put our hope in Him. Because
he promises to deliver his people. The practice of biblical thinking
is absolutely critical to overcome depression many, many times.
If there is guilt, if the depression is caused from guilt, then the
person needs to be well informed of the biblical teaching of forgiveness. Stop and consider once again,
and I use the example of abortion because it is so common, Many
times, the guilt that comes from abortion is a long-lasting guilt. And even people who become Christians,
even women who come to embrace Christ as their Savior, there
are times where they will carry around for years this sense of
depression because of the abortion. And the idea is, really, even
though they're not even close to being a Roman Catholic, they're
a Roman Catholic of heart. The depression is a form of penance.
It's demonstrating to God that I'm really, really sorry for
what I did. It's unbiblical. And they need
to be told it's unbiblical. And they need to be told that
there is a fountain open for sin and uncleanness. And that
the foulest offender can be pardoned and cleansed of all of their
sins. We need to approach depression
with the principles of suffering, realizing that God can be teaching
us during this time. And we need to be listening.
Next, we need to follow the pattern of changing how we feel. Now,
what is the biblical pattern of changing how we feel? There
are two fascinating passages to me. The first is Genesis,
chapter four. By the way, the first example, the person did
not take God's advice. Genesis, chapter four. We're
going to be reading about Cain. Cain was depressed. His countenance
had fallen, which is what we're talking about. Why has his countenance
fallen? Because of his anger. His uncontrolled
anger. His countenance had fallen. Then notice what God says. Isn't
this fascinating? Verse 7. If you do well, will
not your countenance be lifted up? Notice the pattern. If you do
well, will not your countenance be lifted up? In other words,
Cain, do right, do what is right, and this fallen countenance of
yours will be changed. Many, many times we neglect the
fact that the depression that a person feels can indeed be
overcome if they can just find it In the strength of the Lord
to start doing what is right. And many times in the change
in the behavior will come then a change in the emotional state. Of course, we know Cain did not
follow God's counsel and killed his brother. Isaiah chapter 58. Isaiah chapter 58. When we were going through this
passage a number of months ago, this passage absolutely just
jumped out at me. I would commend you, if this
is an issue for you, I would commend you to get the tape and
to listen to the exposition, starting in verse 10. Notice
what God says. If you give yourself to the hungry
and satisfy the desire of the afflicted, then Your light will
rise in darkness and your gloom will become like midday. And
the Lord will continually guide you and satisfy your desire in
scorched places and give strength to your bones. And you will be
like a watered garden and like a spring of water whose waters
do not fail." Now, notice the language. There is, first of
all, darkness and gloom. And you can read that up in the
previous section as well. Darkness and gloom. Do you want
to know how to escape the darkness and gloom? Give yourself to the
hungry. Satisfy the desire of the afflicted. Then, as you are serving others,
as you are getting outside of yourself and focusing on others,
then your light will rise and darkness, your gloom will become
like midday and God then will do all kinds of wonderful things
in your life. One of the very simple practical
realities is that the Bible says that certain action and even
serving others can bring us out of a state of a fallen countenance
or of gloom and darkness. Next, get help from a pastor
or a close friend. A close friend, by the way, is
just as effective, if not more effective, than a pastor. There
is no such thing as the professional. What we need in times like this
is we need somebody who loves us and who can counsel us with
the wisdom of God's Word and who can help us. And so, what
do the Scriptures teach us? Well, Proverbs chapter 17 verse
17. This counsel, by the way, is
both to those who are depressed and also to those who can help
those who are depressed. Proverbs 17 and verse 17, a friend loves at all times and
a brother is born for adversity. One of the things in talking
to depressed people over the years is they fear that if they
let people get close, that people will begin to see their depression
and then will withdraw from them. And the reason they feel like
that is because it's happened to them. But we are Christians. And a
friend loves at all times. Proverbs 18 and verse 24 This is the verse for teenagers. The first part, at least. A man
of too many friends comes to ruin. But there is a friend who sticks
closer than a brother. If you are a Christian, you are
in the body of Christ and you are surrounded by people who
love you and people who can help you. And so, help those who need
help. And be willing to open yourself
up and ask for prayer. Ask for help. Ed Welch has a
fascinating observation. He says, talking to those who
help, he says, how can you help? How can you present Jesus in
a way that is not condescending or oblivious to a person's pain? By the way, don't ever tell a
depressed person just to go home and to memorize Proverbs 3, 5
and 6 or John 3, 16 as if that's going to fix everything. Overly
simplistic approaches to depression can cause more trouble than more
good. be sensitive. So how can we present
Jesus in a way that's not condescending or oblivious to a person's pain?
Well, he says, consider simply asking depressed people how you
can help them see Jesus. Then he says, I have known depressed
people who have actually had the following ideas. Just to
be physically present with me. Just to pray with me. Just to
come over and clean house with me. just to sit down and read
Psalms together with me, or go through some of the old hymns
from a hymn book, or simply go for a walk together, or exercise
together. You do not need to be a mental
health professional to help a person who is depressed. All you need
to be is a good friend who will stick closer than a brother. Finally, Be alert and look for
warning signs. Proverbs chapter 4 and verse
23 is a passage that is applicable in many, many areas of life and
certainly applicable here. Proverbs chapter 4 and verse
23, Watch over your heart with all diligence, for from it flow
the springs of life. When we talk about being alert
and looking for warning signs, Those of you who are prone to
depression, you simply need to be sensitive to the workings
of your own heart. You need to be alert to the warning
signs. You need to be aware when things
begin to happen, whether it's the approaching of the holidays
or the approaching of of a certain time of the month or an approaching
of knowing that you're going to need to be visiting somebody
or a job situation or whatever the case may be. You need to
simply be alert and be looking for the warning signs. Watch
over your own heart and then try to get help before things
get too bad. My friend's depression can be
a life controlling emotional state that's absolutely destructive.
We've seen it in this very body. But I will also tell you, not
only have we seen the destructive power of depression, but we could
also give testimony to a number of people whose lives have been
changed through the truth of God's Word. I'll close with one
anecdote. A couple of years ago, I was
teaching the theology class up in Reno. After about the third or fourth
class, a young man called me on the phone from the class and
asked me if he could come and talk to me. I thought he wanted
to come and talk to me about a book report or about his exam
or something like that. And come to find out, here was
a young man in his early twenties who was in a deep state of depression
with frequent thoughts of taking his own life. And we talked. And come to find out, he was
on the verge of getting married. He was engaged. And although
he had suffered with depression on and off, the anxiety of getting
married, the doubt of him being able to be a good enough husband
to his new wife, wondering whether or not this was the right thing,
so on and so forth. And he was in the throes of depression
in a way that was absolutely terrible. We talked about these
things. He was open to listening to the
Word of God. He was open to praying with me. And then while we were praying,
I had an idea. For his book report, because we make all the students
do a book report, I would have him read Martin Lloyd-Jones,
Spiritual Depression. And so he said he'd be glad to
read it. And so he read the book. Martin Lloyd-Jones in that book
with the skill of a physician, of a surgeon, takes the truth
of God and applies it to the heart, unlike very, very few
books in this world. And by the time this young man
was done, God had lifted his countenance. By the end of the
year, he was a different man than at the beginning of that
semester. God worked in his life through
the truth. God changed his heart through
the truth. God delivered him from the darkness
and the gloom of depression through the truth. I have kept up with
this young man, talking to him every few months or so, and he
is doing wonderfully. Does that mean he will be absolutely
free from depression the rest of his life? Not necessarily.
But do you know what? He's learned a huge lesson. He's
learned a lot of truth that can help him. And now he knows what
it is. to have His darkness give way
to the shining of God's noonday sun. My friends, God's desire
for His people is not to live in a depressed and dark state,
but to know the light of His countenance and the hope of the
deliverance that He promises. So may God help us in these things.
Let's pray. Our blessed God and Father, we
thank You for the wonderful and matchless truth of Your Word.
And we thank You that You care for the downcast and the downtrodden
and the afflicted and the sorrowful and the grieving. Father, You
care for the depressed. And Lord, we pray that even tonight
You would take these feeble words and apply them to our hearts
in such a way as to breathe hope into our hearts and our souls.
Father, we pray that these things might be applied in such a way
that they would be help to your people. We thank you for your
mercy to us. Father, may we glorify you in
our hearts, in our emotions, in the way that we feel. In Jesus'
name, Amen.
Mortifying Ungodly Emotions: Depression
Series Biblical Emotions
| Sermon ID | 2604163737 |
| Duration | 46:29 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - PM |
| Bible Text | Proverbs 13:12; Psalm 42:5; Psalm 77:7 |
| Language | English |
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