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Ruth chapter one. In the days
when the judges ruled, there was a famine in the land and
a man of Bethlehem and Judah went to sojourn in the country
of Moab. He and his wife and his two sons.
The name of the man was a limelight and the name of his wife, Naomi
and the names of his two sons were Milan and Killian. They
were Aphrodite or fight. Sorry. from Bethlehem in Judah. They went into the country of
Moab and remained there, but Elimelech, the husband of Naomi,
died, and she was left with her two sons. These two Moabite wives,
they took Moabite wives, and the names of one was Orpah, and
the name of the other was Ruth. They lived there about 10 years,
and both Milan and Kilian died, so that the women were left without
her two sons and her husband. Then she arose with her daughter-in-laws
to return to the country of Moab, for she had heard in the fields
of Moab that the Lord had visited his people and given them food.
So she set out from the place where she was with her two daughters-in-law,
and they went on the way to return to the land of Judah. But Naomi
said to her two daughter-in-laws, go, return each of you to her
mother's house. May the Lord deal kindly with
you as you have dealt with the dead and with me. The Lord grants
you that you may find rest, each of you in the house of her husband. Then she kissed them and she
left them. They lifted their voices and wept. And they said
to her, no, we will return with you to your people. But Naomi
said, turn back, my daughters. Why will you go with me? Have
I yet sons in my womb that they may become your husbands? Turn
back, my daughters. Go your way. for I am too old
to have a husband. And if I should say I have hope,
even if I should have a husband this night and should bear sons,
would you therefore wait till they were grown? Would you therefore
refrain from marrying? No, my daughters, for it is exceedingly
bitter to me for your sake that the hand of the Lord has gone
out against me. Then they lifted up their voices
and wept again. And Orpah kissed her mother-in-law,
but Ruth clung to her. And she said, see, your sister-in-law
has gone. Back to her people, to her gods.
Return after your sister-in-law. But Ruth said, do not urge me
to leave you. or to return from following you.
For where you go, I will go, and where you lodge, I will lodge.
Your people shall be my people, and your God my God. When you
die, I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord do so
to me, and more also, if anything but death parts us, me from you."
And when Naomi saw that she was determined to go with her, she
said no more. So the two of them went on until
they came to Bethlehem. And when they came to Bethlehem,
the whole town was stirred because of them. And the women said,
is this Naomi? She said to them, do not call
me Naomi. Call me Mara, for the Almighty
has dealt very bitterly with me. I went away full, and the
Lord has brought me back empty. Why call me Naomi, when the Lord
has testified against me, and the Almighty has brought calamity
upon me?" So Naomi returned, and Ruth the Moabite, her daughter-in-law,
with her, who returned from the country of Moab, and they came
to Bethlehem at the beginning of the barley harvest. Amen, that's the word of the
Lord. As you can tell, tonight we are beginning a new series
that will be a short one, a four-week series in this great little book
in the Old Testament called Ruth. And if you have your Bible, I'd
encourage you to open it with me tonight to Ruth chapter one.
Ruth is right in the front of your little, in the Bible, right
behind Judges. So if you see Judges anywhere
and you get right to the end of Judges, Ruth is right there
in the midst of that. One book that I want to recommend
to you if you'd like to read beyond just what you hear on
Sunday evenings or check out some things elsewhere is this
book by John Piper called A Sweet and Bitter Providence, Sex, Race,
and the Sovereignty of God. This is his studies on the book
of Ruth, and it's just an excellent book. book that I read over the
Christmas break that really helped me as I developed this series.
And if you're looking for some additional reading and want to
pick up a good source to go along with that, I would deeply encourage
that you get that book. We'll have it on our website
and our bookstore as well, and a few other books that might be of
help to you if you'd just like to read and study on your own as we go
through this book. Well, you heard it there tonight
as it was read. This book promises us something that I like a lot
and a good story. I like a little drama, a little conflict. I don't
know how this is gonna turn out. Actually, I do know how this
is gonna turn out. If you've read Ruth, the whole book, you
know how this is gonna turn out. I don't wanna spoil it tonight,
but in hearing that first chapter, there's some things sitting under
the layers that we don't know how this is gonna go. I love
great stories because great stories, if they're well-written, well-told,
can really teach us some deep truth. It's one of the reasons
I think God uses narrative or stories so much in the Bible.
I mean, it would be kind of boring just to get some propositions
thrown out at you about, here's life under the sun, boom, boom,
boom, here's 10 bullet points for you, figure these things
out, get on with them and get on with your life. Ruth, on the
other hand, is seeking to immerse us in a story. God wants us to
feel the tension that Naomi felt. He wants us to wrestle with what
did Ruth deal with? He wants us to see, not just
to get bullet points, but he wants us to struggle through
how is God at work in our best days and how is God at work in
our very worst days? Ruth is a book full of story
that takes us from death to deliverance. We see at the beginning here
of this story, as it was read, a pretty sad situation. There's death all over the pages
of Ruth chapter one. It really isn't a pretty picture. As we think about looking at
our world, if you study or see the media lately, you'll notice
that this question often comes up in the midst of calamity and
hardship. The question is, where is God? When the Twin Towers
in New York City fell on September 11th, 2001, the Pentagon was
hit and a plane in Pennsylvania went down as well. There was
a lot, I think even a nationwide sense of that question of where
was God when that happened? When that thing went down, was
he out to lunch? Was he playing golf? Where was
God? How could a God who's so great
and powerful let something so tragic, horrific, awful, a calamity
of national scale happen in our midst? Where was he? Or a few
years ago at Christmas, when a massive earthquake happened
just off the Indian Ocean and this huge tsunami killed thousands. Again, the question got raised
by the media and the pundits. God, where were you? What were
you doing? What happened? This last summer
even, actually early spring, in a small, well, relatively
small city in southern Missouri, similar in size to Santa Rosa
actually, a massive tornado wiped out everything in Joplin. Just
devastated it. And again, the questions got
asked. God, where were you? What's going on? My guess is, that although we
might not be experiencing national, huge calamity like that on a
congregational level, maybe for some of you, things have hit
rough times. And there is a personal sense
of calamity going on in your life right now and suffering.
And that very same question is just as relevant to your heart
and life as it is to when a tsunami hits. the Indian Ocean, or an
earthquake. You say, God, where were you?
How do I take the suffering of my life, the calamity that's
befallen me, and the hardship that I'm in the midst of, how
do I reconcile that with the thought that you're a loving,
good God? I mean, where is happiness, where
is joy? All I've got is wreckage. All
I've got is suffering. All I've got is hardship. God,
where are you? Tonight, this chapter in Ruth, it takes us to a couple perspectives
that we can have about that question and really about our sufferings
and our calamities. Through the writing of this chapter,
There's really a couple different layers at it. For one, the author
of Ruth, probably written around David's day, this book seems
to give evidence that it was written after David became king,
and in a way is a book that helps identify his kingship and even
his family lineage. That's just a little spoiler,
you know, teaser for the end of the book. I won't get too
far down it. but seemed to be written around David's day to
explain and to answer the question of why do we need a king? Where
did our king come from? And at the outset, the writer
of this book, on one layer, he doesn't interject himself too
much. He just records facts. He's like a journalist, just
saying, here's what went down. Here's how things went with Naomi
and Ruth, and we'll meet a guy named Boaz next week, and what
happened in their life. But underneath the surface of
that, there's another editor in this. It's God's word. And
God is seeking to point us to himself and to answer a question
that you and I have in the back of our heads. God, where are
you? What are you doing in our difficult circumstances? What
are you doing in the midst of our calamity? How are you answering
our hardship? You notice in this book, just
in the first three verses there, this chapter, you see the stage
being set. In the days when the judges ruled.
This is referring back to the previous book in our Bible, the
book of Judges. It's setting the context for
us in the midst of a time when things weren't great nationally
for Israel. Moses had led them through the
wilderness. God had saved and redeemed his people out of Egypt,
split the Red Sea, brought them through, brought them into the
wilderness, gave them his law, provided daily for them bread
and meat, carried them through, even in the midst of their rebellion,
brought them to the Jordan River, split that, brought them into
the land, You read in the book of Joshua, they conquered the
land. God was faithful at working and
keeping his promises through that. And they get to a period
of steady establishment. Okay, we've got the land. Things
seem to be settling down for us. It's a time of, oh, there's
a little prosperity and a little peace, and yeah, there's some
nagging things around, but things seem to be okay externally. But
morally, internally, the time of the judges was really an awful
time. In fact, the last verse in the
book of Judges just sets the whole course for us. In those
days, there was no king in Israel. Everyone did what was right in
his own eyes. I mean, if you wanted to do something in the
day of the judges, you did it. You were the law to yourself.
There was no king, there was no law, there was God's law,
but I mean, is he really our king? It doesn't matter, we're
doing things our way, we're living out how we want to. It was a
deeply wicked time. And the people would sin, and
God would say, all right, I'm bringing judgment on you. And
he'd bring in a foreign nation, the Philistines or something
like that, they'd conquer. They'd make slaves of the Israelite
people. The people would realize, oh, we've sinned against God.
Once again, they'd go and repent. God would send a judge, somebody
like Gideon or Samson. That judge would redeem them,
save them, and they'd go right back to their old ways again.
Hey, we have no king. We're cool with ourselves. Let
the party continue, let the sin increase. Cycles of that over
and over and over again. So the book of Ruth is set in
a time that's really not a righteous time period. It's a bad time
period. And we find at the beginning
of Ruth that a famine has hit the land. This is interesting. A famine has hit the land and
we read about a man of Bethlehem. Now what's interesting about
that is the word Bethlehem, the name Bethlehem means house of
bread. In the house of bread, there's no bread. How ironic. A famine's hit the land. Our
author doesn't tell us why. We can surmise and say, well,
the sin was high. God was judging again. But we
don't have a why on that. And we meet this man who decides
to sojourn. to the country of Moab. The word
sojourn there means to take a short visit. He's just trying to get
a little relief, get his family out of some hardships. He's not
gonna settle there, he's not gonna live long there. He's gonna
pass through. He's gonna spend a night, a month,
whatever it takes for this famine to break and for him to return
home. He, his wife, and his two sons. And the name of the man
was Elimelech. Here's another funny irony of
this book. Elimelech, the name means God
is my king. Here's a man of Israel living
in a house of bread, Bethlehem, which has no bread, whose name
means God is my king. And when famine hits, he decides
God's not my king and takes his family and leaves. You see, God
had told the people, this is the land I'm giving to you. I
will care for you. I will provide for you. If you
follow my law, if you obey me, if you trust me, it'll go good
for you in the land. Things will be plentiful. It'll
be all right. But if you sin and if you rebel
against me, if you trample my word underfoot and my law underfoot,
the opposite will happen. I'll bring some curses down upon
you. Things won't go well. Famine will hit the land. Your
prosperity will dry up. So a man whose name is God, my
King, who lives in the house of bread that has no bread, decides
God's not his King and takes his family and does what's right
in his own eyes. The name of his wife, Naomi,
and the names of his two sons were Malon and Chilion, and they
were Ephrathites from Bethlehem in Judah. That last verse there,
verse three, just gives us the sense of where they live and
the clan that they're a part of. And here's what they did. They went into the country of
Moab, and all of a sudden it's shifted from sojourning now to
remaining. The sojourn has not been so brief. They were just renting. They
had a hotel room for a little while. And then they decided,
you know, This extended stay place is nice, but maybe we should
just hang out here a little bit longer. Let's rent a house. Let's
get a place. And from verse 3 to the rest
of this chapter, we see calamity hit their lives, hit Naomi's
life, like never before. When the days of the judges,
everyone is doing what's right in their own eyes. And Ruth chapter
one has one strong message for us. When we see calamity, the
message that's there for us is that the sovereign hand of God
is working in our deepest sorrows for our greatest joy and his
greatest glory. I want you to get that tonight
from this chapter. I want you to see clearly that the sovereign
hand of God is working in our deepest sorrows for our greatest
joy and for his greatest glory. This tale is about to take a
nosedive real quick. And the question's gonna come,
why? Why did this happen? You're gonna sense Naomi asking,
God, why have you done this? And on one level, from one perspective,
which we'll see in just a minute, it's not gonna make any sense.
But if we look through eyes of faith, we're gonna see that the
sovereign hand of God is working, even in the midst of Naomi's
calamity, even in the midst of our calamities, for our greatest
joy and God's greatest good. You see, this chapter presents
for us two perspectives on seeing calamity. The first perspective
is the perspective of seeing on an earthly level. When we
think about suffering and we think about calamity, hardship,
we really have a choice to make. How am I gonna view this hardship
in my life? How am I gonna see what has befallen
me, what has happened to me? Am I gonna see it through earthly
eyes or am I gonna see it through the eyes of faith? Am I gonna
see it from the perspective of the ground level, Naomi's perspective,
if you will, or am I gonna see this from the way God intends
me to see it? Here's Naomi's perspective on
this. Couple things here, this is instructive for us, this is
how we see things. First of all, when calamity hits
our lives and we see just through earthly eyes, we believe everything
has been lost. It's the blackest day on the
blackest month of the blackest year of our lives. It is the
bottom of the barrel. When calamity hits our lives
and we're seeing suffering through earthly eyes, it's just all bad. Look at verses three to five.
Elimelech, the husband of Naomi, died. Just matter of fact, that's
how the author says it. He doesn't tell us why, he doesn't
tell us anything, he just died. Elimelech, the husband of Naomi,
died and she was left with her two sons. Now that's a bad thing.
This culture in this time was led by men. The men were the
providers, the men were the leaders, the men were the ones to take
care of their families. So much so that when a man died,
if a widow didn't have sons and family to protect and care for
her, it was a really dangerous situation. It was not a good
deal for Naomi to lose her husband. Most women in that day were not
educated. They didn't have jobs or careers outside of the home.
What's she gonna do? Well, all is not lost. She still
has her two boys. And verse four gives us a little
hope. These, her two sons, took Moabite
wives. Now again, Scripture never condemns
this, but it's certainly not in favor of this for the Israelites.
They weren't to take Canaanite wives, they weren't to take wives
of pagan gods. Moab wasn't in the list, but
the Hebrew here indicates the author is just kind of telling
us that wouldn't have been his preference. Certainly not the
best of situations, but her two sons take wives. The name of
one is Orpah, the name of the other Ruth. And again, things
have changed. They lived there 10 years. What
once started as a sojourn, an extended stay, turned into renting
a place, and now they've bought a place, and 10 years later,
they're settled in there. They lived there 10 years. And
verse five tells us both Mahalon and Chilion died. Here's where
the calamity really hits. Naomi's lost her husband. 10
years later, She loses both her sons. So that the woman, Naomi, was
left without her two sons and her husband. Imagine 15 years in a foreign
land with people that don't trust you, don't like you. It wasn't
like for us. moving from San Francisco to
L.A., this is another city. For them to move, they became
foreigners, outsiders, a different race. They were looked down upon.
Things weren't gonna be easy for them, and even getting food.
It's amazing that these two men were even able to marry a Moabite
woman. So much so that everything, at the end of verse five, seems
absolutely devastating to Naomi. In her mind, she's lost it all.
Everything is gone. Her husband to provide for her,
to care for her, to protect, he's gone. Her two sons, she
thought maybe there's some hope there. They're gone. They married two wives that are
foreign women. There's no children in the picture
here. Everything is bad. Everything is not good. No kids,
no posterity, no lineage, no help, no support. I'm a foreign
woman in a foreign land with nobody protect or help me. Everything
is black. Everything is dark. All is lost. For many of us, when calamity
and suffering hits our lives, that's how we feel. I mean, when
it's a bad day, it's a really bad day. Nothing is good. I mean, the sunshine couldn't
be more annoying, couldn't be black enough. Most of us, when
we have a bad day, it's raining, and so we just, you know, again,
that's going on. How bad is this? To see things
through Naomi's eyes, to see things from an earthly perspective,
when all is lost, all is lost, there's no hope. It's really,
really bad. When we see things on an earthly
level, that's how we look at it. There is no glasses half
empty, glasses half full. It's all empty, all bad, all
lost. Some of you tonight might be
suffering through a calamity of your heart, a calamity of
your life. There are all sorts of suffering and trials that
we endure, physical, emotional, economic. You might be suffering through
something and you're sitting there going, God, why? All of
this is black. All is lost. There is no hope.
There is no goodness in this situation. There is no way out
of this deal. We're done. I wanna tell you
tonight, if that's your attitude and your heart, you're seeing
through earthly eyes. All is bad for Naomi from that
perspective. Another way that we reveal that
we're seeing through earthly eyes, that our perspective is
skewed, is that we distance ourselves from community. We distance ourselves
from those that God has put around us to help us and support us.
Look at how Naomi responds here. She's lost everything in her
mind. She has nothing. And verse six says, then she
arose with her daughters-in-law to return from the country of
Moab. For she had heard in the fields
of Moab that God the Lord had visited his people and given
them food. So Naomi gets a report. We'll come back to how she got
that or where it came from. But she gets a report that hey,
things back in Bethlehem aren't so bad anymore. There's food
in the fields. You can go back, the house of
bread is restocked. Good things are there. And so
she makes a decision, I'm out of here. I can maybe hear her
in her mind just calculating this. I'm out of this God-forsaken
place with these God-forsaken people, and I'm just, we're getting
home. I'm getting home. And so she rises up and leaves.
She set out from the place where she was with her two daughters-in-law.
So it seems like Naomi has Ruth and Orpah in tow, they're ready
to go with her. And they went on the way to return
to the land of Judah. Now Moab, to get to Moab from
Bethlehem, you've gotta do kind of a little bit of a hook geographically
to get from Bethlehem up and over the Red Sea, cross the Jordan,
then Moab is down on the eastern side of the Dead Sea. I should
go this way with you so you can get it backwards. Moab is on
the eastern side. So imagine there, there's Ruth,
Naomi, Orpah, headed back up the road north, and then beginning
to go west across the Jordan River. And they're having this
discussion, and Naomi realizes, I've got these two young ladies
with me. They're still eligible in age
to be married. I'm an old woman going back to
my hometown. How are we gonna provide for
each other? How are we gonna care for each other? This is just a bad
situation, even worse. And so Naomi turns, verse eight,
and says to her two daughters-in-law, go, return each of you to her
mother's house. May the Lord deal kindly with
you as you have dealt with the dead and with me. The Lord grant
that you may find rest, each of you, in the house of her husband.
So Naomi is gracious to her daughters-in-law. She sends them back with a blessing
even. May God be gracious to you. May
he take care of you and provide for you. Go back home. Go to
your mother's house. Dwell there. May the Lord deal
kindly with you as you've dealt with me and with your dead husbands. I mean, Naomi is full of grace
here, just saying, God bless you guys, I love you, may God
be with you, but go to your mother's house, go to your father's house.
In fact, the very last words that she gives to them is, let
the Lord grant you find rest so that you don't have to labor
so hard, each of you in the house of her husband. Naomi's a little
expectant here. Don't hang out with me, the old widow. Go home,
get remarried, live your life. May it be blessed, may it be
great. And yet what these two women
want to do is astounding. Naomi kissed them and they lift
up their voices and wept. They don't want to depart. They
love this woman. They love what she means to them.
She's a precious mother-in-law to them. And they say, they say
in verse 10, no, we will return with you to your people. Faith,
we're sticking with you, Naomi. Things aren't as bad as it seems
in your mind. We're coming with you, we're sticking this out.
Naomi is a calculating woman. She's got her logic down perfect.
It's bad, okay? It's bad with me. Everything's
black, all is calamity, nothing good. You guys aren't seeing
the big picture here, okay? You're not thinking right. This
is essentially what Naomi is saying to them. And in verse
11, she gives them three reasons why there's no way in the world
they should hang out with her. There's no way in the world that
they should continue associating with her. First of all, in verse
11, Naomi says, Turn back, my daughters, why will you go with
me? Have I sons in my womb that they may become your husbands?
What Naomi is tipping off here is the idea of leverite marriage.
In the Old Testament, there was a provision made to keep the
family lineage going that if a husband died, and he had no
children, no sons, and he had a brother. His brother had a
responsibility to care for the family, to see the family line
go on, and to take his brother's widow, and Lord willing, have
a child by her. And that child would be given
as the brother's son, the brother's child. It was a way of preserving
the family line. And so Naomi's sitting here going,
this isn't gonna work. My womb's dried up. OK, there's
no more buns in the oven. We're done here. I'm too old
for having kids. You can't be with me anymore.
They can't become your husbands. And she redoubles it. The second
reason is verse 12. Turn back, my daughters, go your
way. I'm too old to have a husband. Not only am I beyond the years
of being able to give birth to a child, and many scholars calculated
her age at about 60 here at this point. She says, I'm too old
to even get remarried. Nobody's gonna wanna marry me.
I'm too old, I'm close to death myself. I'm not gonna have another
husband. And she lays it further, one
step deeper at the end of verse 12 and says, if I should say
I have hope, now that just should tell you something right there
about Naomi's heart. She has no hope, because she's hypothesizing
that it would be there. If I should even tell you I have
hope, which I don't, even if I should have a husband this
night and should bear a son, even if I get married tonight
and get pregnant tonight, Could I wait for my kids? I have sons. Would you therefore wait until
they were grown? Verse 13. Are you gonna wait
20, 15, 20 years for these boys to grow up so then you can marry
them? Her logic in her mind is perfect. I'm too old, I can't
have any more children, and even if miracle of miracle happens,
I do, you're gonna wait 20 more years to marry that guy and then
have a son and keep the line going? No way. There's absolutely
no way you should stay out with me, that you should continue
on with me. In fact, she says, you're holding
back from yourselves. Would you therefore refrain from
marrying? Like, come on, ladies, you're
young, you're attractive, you're still in the prime time to get
married and have children. You're not gonna wait. You can't
wait. You're too restless. It's okay. Know my daughters. And again, we see Naomi's heart.
It is exceedingly bitter to me for your sake that the hand of
the Lord has gone out against me. Here's her attitude, I have
no hope, I can't have children, I can't solve this dilemma, God
is against me. And it's bitter to me. Her logic is really sound in
her mind. And so what happens, verse 14,
they lifted up their voices and wept again, and Orpah kissed
her mother-in-law, but Ruth clung to her. Now, I don't want to
disparage Orpah. She's heard the logic. I mean,
it was sound, it was tight, and she's out. Okay, my mother-in-law
wants the best for me, and the best for me isn't with her. I'll
trust her, I love her. I kissed her and was gone. It's
the last we read of her in the story. But what we see here in
Naomi's response is really a response of her trying to disconnect herself
from any sort of community and help. This is what seeing calamity
through earthly eyes does in us. When we think that all is
lost, that everything is black, when we think that God is against
us, that we're so bitter, there is no hope, God is, his hand
is upon me heavy, he is not letting up, it is bad and terrible, don't
we wanna run from others? We don't wanna, we wanna just
disconnect. In Naomi's mind, she was saying,
listen, God is against me, and if you continue hanging out with
me, if you continue living with me and caring with me, God's
gonna be against you too. Why would you want that? Get
away. Clear the zone. I mean, I'm ground zero for God's
anger right now. Get out. When we see our calamity
through earthly eyes, when we think like Naomi, no hope, all
is bitter, all is lost, Our tendency is to disconnect from others.
We cut relationships. I can't be with that person. I don't know how many times it's
been in my life when I've had a bad day. And it's not just
been a bad day, but it's been pretty hard on my heart, emotionally. And a good friend will want to
encourage me and say something to help me and help my soul.
And I'm the guy that's like, I don't wanna, no, I need to
go by myself and be alone for a while. I don't wanna hear your
little, God loves you and it'll be all right. Let me brood on
my unhappiness and my anger and my frustration and my calamity.
Let me drink my misery for a while, okay? I wanna be Eeyore. We disconnect
ourselves from community. Some of you are laughing. You
do the same thing, right? When it's bad, when it's a bad day,
you don't wanna hear, a friend. You just wanna stew in your complaints. This is what Naomi is doing.
She's just unplugging herself. Listen, I don't wanna be around
anybody that reminds me of that situation. I don't wanna be around anyone
that reminds me of Moab. My daughters-in-law, they're
great, but come on, they can't be with me. Get out, get away,
disconnect, unplug, all the way around. That's what happens when
we see suffering on an earthly level. We disconnect ourselves
from community. We make our perfect little list
of logic. Here it is, here's why it's not
good for you to hang out with me. I'm a grump, things are bad,
God's probably gonna get you too. Get out. It's seeing our
calamity through earthly eyes. A third way that this passage
tells us that we can see calamity through earthly eyes is finally
the last way that Naomi responds. Look, skip down with me to verse
19. Suffice it to say, Ruth stays
with Naomi. She said, I'm in. Your logic is crazy. It's good
logic, but I'm not falling for it. I'm staying with you. And
so she does, and we get to verse 19, and we see the two of them
went on until they came to Bethlehem. And when they came to Bethlehem,
the whole town was stirred because of them. Here's a woman that
left. over a decade ago. And by the
way, Bethlehem is not a large town, okay? Maybe a hundred people,
probably less lived in Bethlehem at the time. So everybody knew
everybody. Everybody knew everybody who
left and who came back and who was there. And so here comes
these two women. The way the story, the narrator
tells it, it's kind of funny. There's a stir. You see the women
around the well and they're like, Could that be? No, it's not her,
come on. Yeah, no, I think it is. Yeah,
it looks like her. Same pattern on the shawl. It
is, it is. Hey, there's a stir. Is this Naomi? Is it really her? She's back. How would you like
to be around this lady? The first word, hey, it's Naomi,
she's back. Don't call me Naomi. Don't you dare call me that name.
Naomi means pleasant. She's anything but. Call me Mara. Mara means bitter. Don't call me pleasant, call
me bitter. Here's why, for the Almighty
has dealt very bitterly with me. I went away full. I had a husband, two boys. and the Lord brought me back
empty. Do you see her accusation? God brought me back with nothing. I'm bitter. Why call me Naomi
when the Lord has testified against me? The Almighty brought calamity
upon me. When we see through the earthly
eyes, we experience everything as bitterness and God's to blame
for all of it. Everything is bitter to her.
Here's a town, a small village of people that have known her
and her family and she's back. They went for a little while
and they see her and they're ready to welcome her and all she can
tell and all she can say is her anger and her bitterness. It's
just like black just oozing out of her heart. Don't call me pleasant. Don't be with me. God's against
me. He's testified against me. He's
acted against me. He brought me back empty. He's
brought calamity upon me. It's just all bitterness. Do
you know that person? Do you know that person who's
had a hard life and they're only seeing through earthly eyes about
their trial and their suffering and they're just bound up in
their bitterness? Are you that person? Maybe things
didn't go according to your plan. Maybe your life hasn't been mapped
out the way you thought it was. And you gotta admit, your heart's
pretty bitter. I'm not happy with God. So angry
at Him for that loss. It's seeing our calamity through
earthly eyes. And this is the way Naomi is seeing it. God's
dealt bitterly with me. He's brought me back empty. What's
funny and or ironic about that statement is they left Bethlehem
because there was nothing there. There was a famine. They had
nothing. She's looking at it saying, I
had everything before I left. And now I have nothing. God has testified against me.
When we see our sufferings and see our hardship through eyes,
earthly eyes, all we can see is calamity, all we can see is
loss, all we can see is bitterness and anger against God and anger
at each other and we just want to disconnect and be alone and
stew in our misery and God says, wait. There's another perspective to
see all of this through. Tonight, if you are suffering,
or if you are, if that heart of Naomi, that bitter, hard,
angry heart is yours, tonight I wanna help you see God's perspective. I wanna help you see through
eyes of faith, because it's there. What God is doing in this passage,
it's little glimpses and rays of hope and little lights that
would teach us and show us Not all is lost. Not everything is
bitter. In fact, there are great promises
here that reveal God's kindness. and reveal His grace. I want
you to see again that the sovereign hand of God is working in our
deepest sorrows, in our greatest calamities for our greatest joy
and His greatest glory. God is carrying out His plan
in Naomi's life and He is carrying out His plan globally in Naomi's
life as well. And if she would have the eyes
of faith to see what God is doing, even if she can't comprehend
the whole picture, even if she can just see a little ray of
hope, a little glimmer which are there, I think she'd have a different
attitude. Certainly God would call us and commend us to a different
attitude. What's the second perspective?
Seeing suffering through eyes of faith. How would we see our
suffering through eyes of faith First of all, in the midst of
our deepest sorrows, God stands sovereign over them. That's a tough thing maybe to
say. Go with me back to the beginning of the story. Verse one and two,
in the days when the judges ruled, there was a famine in the land. Where'd the famine come from? Who brought the famine? It's
absolutely no hope, no hope for us to say, well, it's just random
chance. It's just laws of nature, famine just appeared. It doesn't
encourage anybody. It doesn't help us at all. It
doesn't help strengthen our faith. But if we see God's sovereign
plan and his sovereign designs behind that famine, we see a
God who is active, and taking our deep sorrows and creating
for us great joy and great glory to himself. The answer to the
question of who brought the famine is God brought the famine. God who is the creator and maker
of all things, who speaks the universe into existence, who
creates at the word of his power, who tells the winds blow east
and they blow east. who tells the clouds to give
up their moisture and rain or snow, and they do. God's the one who brought the
famine. Now time out here, okay, this is, Jeremy, you're saying
tonight, God brought hardship into Naomi's life. Yeah, I am. That calamity, that hardship
that you're sitting in tonight, that you're enduring in your
life, Maybe not necessarily directly, God is holy and he is not the
author of evil in any way. God is light and in him there
is no darkness, no, no darkness at all, 1 John 1. That God is
the one who has ordained and sovereignly orchestrated the
hardship in your life. He's put it there for a reason.
It's his grand design and his great plan to bring you great
joy and to bring him ultimate glory. And so when we look at
this famine in Ruth's life, we're saying, why is that there? God
brought it. I didn't want to spoil the end,
I have to at this point. Because if you look at the end
of the book of Ruth, How many of you when you read a novel,
by the way, you just start at the back? Anybody do that? A few of you,
okay. I was reading a book about reading
books over the Christmas break. I know that's weird, it's just
me. And the author confessed that he read the last pages first. I never do that. But at the end
of the book of Ruth, there's a little list. Now these are
the generations of Perez. Perez fathered Hezron. Hezron
fathered Ram. Ram fathered Aminadab. Aminadab fathered Nashon. Nashon
fathered Salmon. Salmon fathered Boaz. Boaz fathered
Obed. Obed fathered Jesse, and Jesse
fathered David. Now those names might not mean
anything to you at this point, but we're gonna meet in the next
chapter a guy named Boaz. Remember, Naomi has a young,
eligible daughter-in-law towing along with her. I'll let you
connect the dots and figure out what Boaz and Ruth have to do
with each other. But there in that line is a son who's a father to another
son who's a grandfather to King David. King David being the one
that God makes the promise to in 2 Samuel 7 and says, from
your line, from your lineage will come a king who will reign
forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end. God brought a
famine in Naomi's life to move her, even in utter difficulty,
so that she could be the grandmother, the great-grandmother, to the
greatest, second greatest king of Israel, who would be the forerunner
and who would be the kingly father of the Messiah, the savior of
the world. God's taking this little famine
and this little, in comparison, calamity in Naomi's life, and
he's gonna bring her great joy, and he's gonna bring himself
great glory in it. Naomi gets written into the scriptures
as a character who's a recipient of God's grace, even in the midst
of her bitterness and hardship. If we see our suffering and our
hardship through eyes of faith, we would look and say, you know,
I don't know why this is here. We don't know exactly, I mean,
we have the big picture of why, but the little question of why
is this happening today and now and here in Naomi's life, and
we would say, why is this suffering, why is this hardship, why is
this health issue, why is this bankruptcy, why is this whatever
it is issue in my life here and now, why is it there? The eyes
of faith say, I might not get the full answer on that, but
God is sovereign in bringing and allowing that difficulty
in my life. If I trust him, it's gonna bring
great joy to me and great glory to himself. In the midst of our
sufferings and deepest sorrows, God stands sovereign over them.
God's the one directing things. He's the one who brought the
famine. He's the one as well in verse six who brought the
lack of famine back in Judah. God lifted his hand. And so now,
Naomi has Ruth in tow to bring back, and if you go
into Matthew 1, you'll find, listed in the genealogy of Jesus,
in his family tree, there's a Gentile Moabite woman, Ruth, who's honored
in the pages of scripture, because God brought a famine. In the
midst of our deepest sorrows, God stands sovereign over them.
A second way to see suffering through the eyes of faith is
that God is present with us in the midst of our deepest sorrows.
Now, I skipped verses 15 to 18, but there's an amazing thing
here. Naomi says, hey, ladies, leave. It's all bad. Just disconnect. There's nothing good for you.
And Ruth says, absolutely not. I am sticking with you. Verse
15, Naomi said, see your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and
her gods return after your sister-in-law. She's like, get out of here,
it's not good for you. And Ruth says, do not urge me
to leave you or return from following you. For where you go, I will
go. And where you lodge, I will lodge. Your people will be my people,
your God, my God, where you die, I will die, and there will I
be buried. May the Lord do so to me and
more, if anything but death parts us, me from you. That is absolutely amazing companionship. Naomi says absolutely, Ruth says
no way. I am throwing my lot in with
you. Whatever goes down with you,
it's gonna happen to me. and not just that I'm gonna be
with you. Your family's gonna be my family. Your people, my
people. Your God, my God. Ruth is rejecting
all of her past life. She's no longer a Moabite. She's
no longer a worshiper of foreign gods. She's saying, Naomi, I
am sticking with you. Your life, my life. Your God,
my God. Your people, my people. Nothing
will separate us. And if anything comes between
us, Before we die, may God bring judgment on me. I am with you
forever. I am sticking with you. Ruth here is a picture to Naomi
of a God who never leaves. Calamity may come, hardship may
come at His hand, but He never leaves. Ruth is showing Naomi
a Savior. She's giving her a glimpse forward
of a Savior who never leaves us. In fact, she is showing for
us a picture of Christ. Ruth had every reason to leave
Naomi. That's why Oprah's in this story,
to show us, yeah, it was right for her to do that. There was
no reason to stick around. And she stayed. Think about this,
Christ has every reason to abandon us. We've rebelled against him,
we've rejected him, we've hated and gone to war against him,
and he stays with us. Whereas Ruth could have left
the plight of this miserable Naomi, and Christ could have
left us in our miserable agony and sin, what did he do? He identified with us. He became
a man, not just God in heaven somewhere out there in the cosmos,
but God incarnate, taking on flesh and blood, experiencing
what we experience, walking in our shoes, living life on this
earth, suffering trial and temptation and hardship, enduring pain, to know us, to identify with
us, to be God with us. Ruth is just a foreshadowing
of what Christ does for us. God never leaves us in the midst
of our calamities. As he says, I will never leave
you or forsake you. If we see our suffering through
eyes of faith, we will see that God is there. He's with us in
the midst of our hardships and our deepest sorrows. He hasn't
left you. He hasn't walked off on you and
said, hey, help you figure this one out. See you on the flip
side. He knows your suffering. He knows
your hardship. He suffered and died himself
on the cross to say I know it, I'm with you in it. Trust me. Look for me. God is with us in the midst of
our deepest sorrows. It might not feel like it. In
fact, Naomi doesn't even recognize Ruth when she gets to Bethlehem.
There's no mention of, oh yeah, here's my daughter-in-law. Everything's
still bitter. But Ruth hasn't left Naomi, and
Christ hasn't left us. The last thing is that in the
midst of our deepest sorrows, if we're gonna see our suffering
through eyes of faith, we need to look for God's rays of hope.
This story is littered with little rays of hope for Naomi and for
us. A famine comes. Verse six, Naomi
hears, this is interesting. She had heard in the fields of
Moab that the Lord had visited his people and given them food.
Now this is before the printing press, before radio, television,
internet, anything like that. She can't go on Facebook and
find, oh hey, there's food back in Bethlehem. Great, let's pack
up. How does she know this? Somebody had to come and tell
her. That tells me something. God
is sending someone to Naomi to say, hey, there's hope. There's provision in Bethlehem.
Go back home. Go back home. There's hope. Somebody had to come and visit
her and give her a message. God has visited his people. That's
the exact wording here. The Lord has visited his people
and he, the one who brought the famine, is the same one who has
given them food. A little ray of hope. And then Ruth, this faithful,
godly woman, who says, I am staying with you no matter what. Orpah,
she's gone. I'm not leaving you, I'm here
with you. Another ray of hope. Is all really bad for Naomi?
Is all really bitterness? Who among us wouldn't want a
faithful companion like her daughter-in-law to stick with us through the
trial and hardship? Who among us wouldn't want that
kind of friendship, companionship, love, that kind of kindness? Another ray of hope. And then
verse 22, the closing lines of this chapter. So Naomi returned
and Ruth the Moabite, her daughter-in-law with her, who returned from the
country of Moab, and they came to Bethlehem at the beginning
of barley harvest. It just so happens that they
show up right at the time when God has already brought in provision
and it's just ready to be pulled off. The grain is ready to be
harvested. The barley is there for them
to receive. Could God be using Naomi's calamity, her suffering,
her hardship, her loss, to do something great, to give himself
great glory, and to give Naomi great joy? Could he be? You see, if we see our suffering
and our hardship, even though, and hear me clearly, it's not
easy when we're in the midst of suffering to say, oh yeah,
there's hope there. It's not easy when things are hard and
rough to go, I see rays, I see glimmers. But stories like this
remind us, they point to the fact that God gives us hope.
If we look through eyes of faith, Instead of being bitter, Mara,
and saying, okay God, this hurts bad. But I trust you, so show me your
hope. Those rays of hope are there.
His grace is there. How do we respond to suffering? William Cowper, who was a friend
of John Newton, the pastor who wrote the hymn Amazing Grace,
William Cowper suffered intense depression, so much so that he
tried to kill himself on several occasions. He was a very good
poet. And he wrote this limerick, this
line that might be familiar to you, at least in the title, God
Works in Mysterious Ways. I think this is so helpful for
us. Judge not the Lord by feeble sense, by earthly eyes, but trust
him for his grace. Behind a frowning providence, he hides a smiling face. Sometimes we look at our calamities,
we say, I have no idea what you're doing, God. I can't see. But
if we look with faith, we can trust Him, that He is bringing
about our greatest joy and His ultimate glory, even in our deepest
sorrows. So how do we trust? How do we
respond? We trust Him. Tonight I want to call you, if
you're suffering, if you're enduring hardship, and your heart is leaning
towards responding like Naomi with bitterness, God's against
me, He hates me. He just brought heaviness to
me. I wanna encourage you to look
for his grace, look for those rays of hope, and to go again
and trust him. Say, God, I don't know what you're
doing in my life. I don't know why this is here. But I'm gonna
trust what you say in places like Romans 8, 28, that you,
God, work together all things for good, even this calamity. for those who love you and are
called according to your purposes. Do you believe that, that God
works all things together for your good? Those who love Him and are called
according to His purposes, you say, I love God, I know that
He's called me, then everything, even your calamity, even your
hardship, is designed by God for your great joy and His ultimate
glory. May we respond in faith and not
with bitterness, not with earthly eyes. This message has been brought
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Seeing Suffering Through Eyes of Faith
Series Death to Deliverance: Ruth
| Sermon ID | 19122232340 |
| Duration | 1:01:18 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - PM |
| Bible Text | Ruth 1 |
| Language | English |
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