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Amen. You can be seated. Let's
ask God's blessing on scripture reading for our sermon tonight,
if we can, together. Oh, our Father, we We do cry
out to you that we would not have to wait any longer, but
that you would come quickly. And Father, as we wait, we know
that you have given us means to encourage our faith and build
us up and strengthen us in our delight in you, our love for
one another, and in our waiting and witness in this world. Father,
we thank you for the bread and the cup that we shared in this
morning, and we thank you this evening for this word that you
set before us. Oh Father, enlighten our hearts and our minds that
we could receive from you that which you intend for us to receive,
even life and strength and hope and faith from these life-giving
words. Lord, bless the preaching of
your word. Let the words of my mouth and
the meditations of every heart here be found acceptable in your
sight, oh Lord. For we pray and bring these things,
requests to you in Jesus' name, amen. 1 John chapter 4, verses
7 through 11. I don't have the page number
of the Pew Bibles, but it's towards the back. 10-23, 10-23. If you've gone to Revelation,
you've gone too far. You've got to flip back further
again. If you get to Hebrews again, you've passed it on the
other side. 10-23, 10-23. Verses 7 to 11. This is what
God's Word says to us there. Beloved, loved ones, let us love
one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been
born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does
not know God, because God is love. In this, the love of God
was made manifest among us, that God sent his only son into the
world so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that
we have loved God, but that he loved us and sent his son to
be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us,
We also ought to love one another. Amen. Well, recently I've been
reading in a number of books is the nature of the job as you
prepare for sermons and such, and I was reading for something
else, I don't remember what it was, and I came across a man who's
a commentator on the Song of Songs in the scriptures, and
he was talking about what is supposed to happen while we read
the Song of Songs, so that when we come to the words there that
speak of a lover and his beloved, We should see in that love something
that transforms our loves, that we, as we read about the love
there, our loves themselves would be molded and shaped and directed,
channeled, as it were, so that we would live and love in that
way. And I think that's a principle
that all of us here, or most of us, if not all of us, would
affirm readily, that the scriptures are the means that God would
use to so shape our desires and our loves, the very things that
move and guide the feet and the hands and the things that we
do in our lives. And I don't think it's any different
in this passage. I think that John, by the Holy Spirit, in
this portion of his epistle, is seeking to turn our gaze toward
a love that would shape and guide us in our love for one another. He calls us, as it were, to set
our eyes upon that love, to look at it, to consider it, and in
our consideration of it, find there the means, the power to
love one another. Yes, he commands us, beloved,
love one another, but he also empowers us, providing us the
very means by which that love is accomplished. It's not any
different than the famous prayer of St. Augustine who says, oh
God, grant what you command and command what you desire. Oh Lord,
won't you just fill me with the things that you love and follow
after so that you can command me whatever you want and that
whatever you ask, I will want to do it with you. That's his
prayer. And I think John is accomplishing
something exactly like that here. We are called then, by what is
written, to consider love, to examine it, both positively on
one side and negatively on the other, both to see what it is
and to see what it is not, And in so doing, we will find the
ability there to love one another, to fulfill the command. So as
we look at the describe, as the love here described positively,
we'll see three positive things. And then as we look at it negatively,
we'll see one negative thing. The three positive things are
first, it is from God. Love is from God. And two, it
is God, or as John says it here, God is love. And three, it is,
the love that is, is in us. It's in us. And then, negatively,
we are reminded by John that the love that he speaks of and
that we should behold is not from us. And by implication,
we are not love. So notice then, as we follow
that line of thinking, as we read across this passage of scripture,
that God, that John, turns our eyes first and foremost up to
heavenly things, to God himself, where he sits in heavenly places,
to the nature of the most high. And then from that high place,
he shifts our gaze down, as it were, to the place where we dwell
among each other in humanity, beginning on high and moving
down toward us. John, interestingly, commanding
us to this very earthly task, first and foremost, doesn't turn
us to earth, but turns our gaze and our heart and our eyes towards
heaven first, and away from earth, so that we might find there our
direction. And we would do well to follow
him, setting our minds on things above, where God is. That would
be a little to get ahead of myself. First, come with me to the passage
where we find this section of John's letter, and let me give
you something of an idea of its context. He commands us, beloved,
let us love one another in the context of just completing a
reminder, a warning to us that we live in a world that is antagonistic
to the confession of our Lord Jesus, that we live in the midst
of false teachers and antichrists who would preach a Jesus that
is other than the Jesus that we know and love and follow and
confess. And the particular Jesus that
they would preach is one that does not, specifically does not,
come in the flesh. Somehow, he, this false Christ,
is not fully man like us. Verse 3 says, Chapter 4, verse
3, every spirit that does not confess this Jesus, the one coming
in the flesh, is not from God. This is the spirit of the Antichrist. The context is therefore important. The importance of the humanity
of Christ is before us as John lifts up his, or sets down his
pen, lifts up his voice and says to us, beloved, that is you,
beloved, loved ones, who have confessed Jesus Christ, come
in the flesh, who are not listening to the words of the false prophets
and the false apostles. Beloved, you, those, let us, He concludes himself. The apostle
joins us with this command and says, beloved, let us, you and
I, love one another. You and I who have a common confession. You and I who have a hope in
Jesus, the Jesus who we put the faith in that we just confess
together using the Heidelberg Catechism. We who live in a world
antagonistic to that very confession. We, John, the apostles of the
Lord, and you and I, let us. John says, love one another. It may not sound like it with
the let us, but it is an imperative. It is a command, and one that
he issues not only to you, but to himself. And I think there's
a worthy point to stop and notice there, that it's important when
you and I command or give the commandments of God to someone,
that we don't simply just command them and forget about ourselves,
but that our commandment should be a commandment that we're willing
to lay on our own shoulders along with the one whom we are talking
to. We should not fall into the the
error of the scribes and pharisees who were willing to lay heavy
burdens on people's shoulders but not willing to take it up
with the very smallest of their fingers, their pinky fingers,
but instead we should Well, I should preach to you as though I was
preaching to me. And John, just like John, who
commands us even as he commands himself, so we should do the
same. For the judgment that we measure
out, as our Lord reminds us, will be measured back to us.
And John commands us then, let us love one another. And having commanded us, he then
turns us to the very shape of the thing that he's commanding
us to. He gives us the means and the empowerment to fulfill
the command, like a good parent who says to his son or daughter,
hey, I need a loaf of bread. Go get the loaf of bread. And
right as he says, go get the loaf of bread, what does he give
to the child? Keys and a credit card or cash. Keys and a credit card. He tells
him to do the thing and he gives him the means to do it. And so
it is with our Lord. He tells us to do the thing,
and then he gives us the means to do it. Love one another. Well,
how are we supposed to accomplish such love? What is our motivation?
Where are our keys and credit cards, so to speak? Why should
we even want to do this? And he tells us plainly, beginning
in verse 7. Because love is from God. Love is from God. And the NIV adds an extra word
and said that the love comes from God. The love comes from
God. And also, it is a definite love
in the original Greek. There is a the there. The love
is from God. And so the very first thing we
ought to notice about love is that God is the very beginning
of it. It is from him. He is the fountain
from which all love flows. He is the root of the leaves
and the branches and the shade and the fruit of this tree, this
love. The very leaves and shade and
branches and fruit that you and I and so much of our life find
goodness and joy and health in. Do you experience love in your
life? I'm more than willing to bet
that every one of you do, in your families, with your loved
ones, with your friends, with your colleagues, wherever it
is, every place that that love touches your life, it has its
root in God. It is from Him, and without Him,
all of those loves, all of that joy, all of that goodness would
wither up and die. He is the root. Even our bad
relationships, like a branch broken off from the tree, all
of the good life that was in that thing that you sometimes
remember and think, oh, there was some good there. Yes, it
was good. And it was broken off from God, so it was bad. But
all the life that remained in it before it shriveled up and
died was from the tree, from the root, from God. God gives
this love to you. and all of its manifestations,
like He gives you the sun, like He gives you the rain, like He
gives you the breath in your lungs right now, and the heart
beating in your chest, all of it is from God, because love
is from God. The King James adds a little
nuance to this word from, and instead of translating it from,
the King James has of. Love is of God. Love is of God. So not only then
is he the source, but love is like the very stuff of God. It's the currency that he's always
trading in. It's the atmosphere of his very
presence. You cannot interact with God
apart from interacting with love. You want to get to know God?
You want to be part of his life? Then the only way in is to participate
in this, the love. And isn't it like that in so
many of our relationships? When we want to get to know somebody,
we look at them and we observe them and we see the things that
make up what is the essence of their lived out life and we join
them in that very thing. Do we not? We enter into their
world. You watch football with him because
he watches football. You take a walk with her because
she likes to take walks. You eat that strange thing that
he always likes to eat because he likes to eat it. You read
that book that they read over and over all the time because
it's so important. It is like it's of them. this
book that they read. Why? Why do you do it? Because
it's part of their world and you want to enter into their
world and be part of what is part of them so that you can
get to know them. See, my kids have this funny game that they
like to play, your kids probably play something similar to it,
where they suddenly enter into our living room and that carpet
that covers our floor is no longer carpet But it is lava, hot and
bubbling and threatening our very existence. And the pillows
thrown all over the place are little rocks that are floating
about in that lava. And the couch that you have to
jump on the pillows to get to is a rocky outcrop, a mountain,
a shore, a safe place from the lava. And it's bubbling and threatening
and devouring fire. And that scary lava monster,
a.k.a. Job, that's running around that
could get you at any moment. You see, it's a game that comes
from their imagination. It bears the marks of their personalities
and their creativity. It has rules that they make up.
And if I want to know them fully as they are in their lives today,
then I, too, have to enter into that world with them. I have
to go and look at those pillows and see not pillows, but rocks.
I have to avoid that carpet as though it were flaming fire.
And I have to flee to the couch and away from Job with all my
energy and all of my strength. Because to play, to play is the
very essence of my kids. They love to play. And for me
to be part of their lives, I have to play with them. It's no different
with love in relationship to God. It is from Him. It is of
him and more. So that's the first point, it
is from him, it is of him. And second, God is it. God is love. The emphasis then
is upon God. Love then is defined, ordered,
governed by God. God is subject. In the truest
sense then, love is divine. Love is divine. All of us, I
think, experience this as well in some point in our lives, this
sense that the deeper, more important things can be found in those
loving relationships, in those experiences of love, that there
is where the deepness and the depth is in our lives. It is
why we enter into those experiences and things that are of others'
lives, because we want to experience the love that we know is there.
And in experiencing that love, we touch on something that is
more meaningful than the everyday stuff, something that is more
lasting than the continual changing stuff. We go there because we
know that there's something there that's bigger and better and
more important. And I think that's the very root
of so much of our popular spirituality, is it not? Love. Love. The sense of love. It is the
answer. Wouldn't we say it? It is all
we need. It creates peace, love, heals
division. It overcomes great injustice. You can hear it everywhere from
the mouths of men and women throughout the whole spectrum of humanity. Can you not? From the black-eyed
peas, to the preaching of Pope Francis, to the smile of the
Dalai Lama, all of them proclaim something of this love. And I think that all of them,
if they read just verses 7 and 8, Beloved, let us love one another,
for love is of God, and whoever loves has been born of God and
knows God, and anyone who does not love does not know God, because
God is love. If they were to hear that, I
think they would all affirm it apart from its context. Everyone
who experiences the deepness of the love in the world says
something like this, that they need to know it more deeply.
They need to know love. They want to know that this love
is somehow, they know it somehow is connected to something bigger
and more important, something like God, a God, a divine. And so they know that love is
associated with this one. And so often in the world, what
do we do? We content ourselves with our
various experiences of this love in our lives. Much like my walk
through the living room is so often experienced when the girls
are playing. I see them smiling and I hear
them giggling and I have a warm feeling and I am glad to have
them be joyful, and I hop over or sometimes trip over pillows,
and sometimes with and sometimes without frustration, I dodge
leaping children as I walk through, and I ignore the solemn warnings,
Daddy, it's hot lava! And I continue on my way, blissfully
unaware that I'm treading through the very means by which I may
be burnt up alive and devoured by the monster. You see, I'm
part of their game. I'm in it, and I derive a spiritual
benefit from it as much as I enjoy their joy in it. But even while
I'm in it, notice that I'm really not in it. I'm outside of it,
even while I'm in it. And so often I think that we
do this, that in our world. We walk through our world smiling
and sensing and enjoying this something deeper, this good thing. our sense of spirituality that
we derive from that. And even while that all happens,
we find ourselves tripping and dodging and avoiding things that
would interrupt this serene sense of our own spirituality and connection
to the deeper things. We gave no particular attention
to them and often close our ears to the voice of wisdom that cries
out in the streets to us. Yes, we would all agree love
is divine. It is of God. Yes, God is love. And out of the context here,
it all can be swallowed up and eaten as the world's own. But
But there is a context, and the context, like the pillows, trip
us up. And it demands that we allow
this God who has revealed himself in the flesh to define love for
us by himself. I do not walk into my living
room and see the pillows and think, there's rock in my floor.
Oh, there's fire all over the place in my floor. That couch,
that would be a good place for me to go and hide from the death
that could await me if I don't use the pillows to avoid this
fire. See, I don't have that in me
when I go into the living room, but my girls do. And so if I
want to know what's going on, where do I need to go? Them first. I need to go to them. And if
it is that way with my children and their play, how much more
is it with God and the love that he commands for us to walk in
and the love that we experience from him? How much more is it
with God who is love? And so I think that that confronts
us with the question in these verses, and the question is,
of course, if God is love, who is he? Who is God? And left to ourselves, that is
the most difficult question in all the world. On our own, we
would be at a loss. On our own, we have trouble defining
love. How can we define the God who
is love, who is behind all that love, apart from some idea or
force or impersonal being? You see, we can't do it on our
own. He must come to us. God must
do the initiating work, and that's exactly what he does. In verse
9, in this the love of God was made manifest. Among us, it says. And the NASB is a little closer
to the Greek and it says in us. In this, the love of God was
made manifest in us. This will be our third point.
First, love is from God. Second, God is love. And third,
love is the love that is God and from God is in us. It's a
strange statement if you think about it. The love of God has
manifested in us. It would make a lot more sense
to say the love of God has manifested to us or before us, but isn't
that exactly how we experience all our other experiences of
love? It's always manifest. It's always in the face of someone
that we love. It's always in the experience
of being with them in the flesh so that they're there in front
of us. But here, I think, is something categorically different. This is not like those other
things. This is a once for all time event. It is the very incarnation
of God, the Son, the Holy Spirit, uniting the second person of
the Trinity to our, yours and mine, humanity in the womb of
the Virgin. Love that is from God, the God
who is love, actually dwelling in our humanity. Love manifest
in us. First, John, the gospel of John
says in chapter one in the 14th verse, the word was made, the
word that was of God and from God and was God, the word was
made flesh and dwelt among us. And in him we beheld the glory
of the only begotten son, full of grace and truth. the only
begotten one sent, God sending his only son. You see, it confronts
us in the midst of all of our experience of love in the world.
It confronts us who have been reading along and thinking that
we are born of God because we are loving and somehow experiencing
love in the world. For here, love is manifested
by the one who is the only begotten. If we think that somehow we are
born just merely by experiencing love, We are most of all people
most mistaken, are we not? If you want to be born of God,
it must be through this one. If God is the source of all love,
the spring from which all love comes, then all begottenness
flows from this one who is the only begotten, the firstborn
among many brethren. And it continues, the end of
verse 9 it says, he was sent into the world that we might
live through him. And again we're confronted because
that implies something else, doesn't it? If we need to live
through him, then what are we before he came? Dead, are we not? Dead. We are confronted with the reality
that we are not alive apart from this one. We are not born yet
apart from this one. We need him to be born again. As John's gospel says in another
place, love then does not come warm and cuddly and feeling nice
to us, but instead it confronts us and reproves us. It would
be like, and this is very imaginative, so stick with me if you will,
my girls becoming me in front of me, like taking, like indwelling
me and entering into that lava room. And they, I would see me
indwelt by them, entering into their world with such great energy
and joy and fear of the lava and a desire with all their heart
to get to that couch that I would leap from one place to another
and dive and laugh that I escaped imminent death and that I was
not devoured. I would have this experience
of watching me do those things. And to do that would confront
me with something, wouldn't it? Just like Jesus coming into our
world and showing us what love is, it would confront me with
my half-hearted engagement with their reality. And I would see
it for what it truly was. This indwelt me would show me,
by his honesty, my falsehood. He would show me, by his selflessness,
my selfishness. I see his life, and I know mine
for what it truly is. Death. Death. And that's not a good place to
be, is it? But God is merciful to us, and it's a wonderful thing
that God doesn't only take on our flesh and blood living. He takes on, brothers and sisters,
your flesh and blood dying. Dying as one of us. Paul writes
in 2 Corinthians 5, chapter 5, verse 14, the love of Christ,
notice the reference to God's love in Christ, controls us because
we have concluded this. See, when we know the love of
God in Christ as it's revealed in him, it so controls our understanding
that we can look out on the world and make judgments appropriately
according to it. It has shaped us and guided us.
And what do we see but that this one has died for all? And if
he died for all, then all of us are dead. All of us have died. The coming of Christ, the God-man,
both living and dying, demonstrates a love that controls our understanding
of everything, including what it means to love. And in his
light, all our participation in the love that is God's is
shown for what it is. We have handled love, yes. We
have used it to receive spiritual benefit and delight in ourselves. We have misused it, abused it,
and treated it as though it was something that we owned and made
ourselves and could use and do with as we see fit in our own
light. We see that as we have treated
love, so we have treated him. Hammer, nails, scornful speech,
and all. False definitions and all. wrong
discernment and all. Seeing Jesus, I realize I've
really, truly never really known love. I've only known a casual,
self-centered, self-gratified acquaintance with it. Instead
of showing myself a member of the family and known of God by
my loves, I've only proved myself a stranger and more an adversary. And so we are confronted with
the reality that we cannot obey the command to love each other
apart from him. apart from Him, for God or our
part in Him. We must confess, I think, in
the midst of that, that we, in all of our attempts to love,
have been thieves and robbers, and that we do not love God or
anyone else without His help and apart from His moving in
us. And I think that brings us to the final truth, the negative
part. I've already said it in the most
part, but verse 10, And this is love, not that we love God,
but He loved us. That is, He loved you, and me,
and John, and all of us who have defined love wrongly and followed
after a God that we thought was defined by our experiences of
love, we who have followed our own experiences and wisdom and
trampled on the truth of the reality of God in those loves
to our own peril, like me walking through that lava carpet, except
here. The fires are true, and here
the threat is real. If not for the great mercy of
God, those fires would have devoured you and I long ago. We would have perished if he
had not first loved us and provided his son to be the quench quenching
element of those very fires, the quenching of the flames of
God's wrath, the blood that pacifies the justice that should be ours
for ignoring at every turn the reality of his truth in the loves
that we've experienced, a true and lasting atonement must be
provided or all would be lost. And that's what he's done. He
has sent his son to be the propitiation for our sins. Propitiation, the
great theme of Leviticus, which we've been working through in
Sunday school, is the great theme of all the Old Testament. Sinners
need a way to draw near to God. Sinners need a way to draw near
to God. Us faulty and false lovers need
a way to draw near to Him who is true love itself. And for
this purpose, he gave Israel animals and blood and a tabernacle
and a priesthood. And to us, he's given Jesus,
who's all those things, in one, a true temple, our great high
priest, the very Lamb of God. Here in him is love. love for us. And as it is true
that God does not accept our invitations to worship in any
old way, so it is true that he does not accept our loving in
any old way. We must love by the means and
in the way that he provides. Otherwise, our love is no love
at all. Love, brothers and sisters, is
from God. God is love. And he has manifested
that very love in us. And it is not and it never was
from you. Whatever love we show to one
another is but a demonstration of that reality as we have beheld
it and ingested it and made it our own. And it shines through
us and reflects through us to others. God who sent his only
begotten son that we might live through him as sinners atoned
for. Beloved, if God so loved us,
we also ought to love one another. One last thing and I'll be done.
If you hear that call to love and you think, I don't really
have the ability to do it, I think John would say to you, don't
go off and try to do it better, first and foremost. Don't go
and pretend that you're loving one another and expect that somehow
that pretending will eventually become reality. But instead,
first and foremost, turn your eyes upon Jesus. Look full in
his beautiful face and find in him the very strength for you
who are dead apart from him to be made alive. Find in him the
acceptance of the God who is love and who can shower it upon
you and fill you with it, shed his love abroad in your hearts
by his Holy Spirit, who he gives when you trust and believe in
that one, our Lord Jesus Christ. For from him and through him
and to him are all things. To him be the glory forever. Amen. Let's pray. Our Father
in heaven, we are thankful that there is a way for us who have
no way to draw near to you. There's a way for us who have
not loved as we ought to love to find the strength and the
power and the means to love as we ought to love, to shimmer
with the love that you first gave to us in your son. Father,
we give you thanks. We worship you and pray that
you would empower us and strengthen us by the love that we see in
your son. the love that is everlasting
and true and full of glory, the love that is from you, that is
you, and has been made true even in us, in your Son and by your
Spirit. In Jesus' name, amen. Let us turn and worship once
again using the 382nd hymn in the Trinity Hymnal. God himself
is with us. And notice in verse 3 that it
speaks of him being the fount from which all these things come.
So let's sing to him.
The Shape of our Love for One Another - 1 John 4:7-11
| Sermon ID | 1719129437574 |
| Duration | 34:18 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - PM |
| Bible Text | 1 John 4:7-11 |
| Language | English |
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