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Now, as many of you know, tonight's
study in the Word of God is the fourth in a brief series of studies
begun last Lord's Day morning on the subject of the Christian
and Christmas in the light of the Word of God. And I gave an
extensive review this morning, and I cannot do that tonight.
The messages are available on tape for any of you who think
you may be profited by considering these things, but suffice it
to say that we've approached the subject recognizing that
there are natural impediments to any kind of objective treatment
of the subject, and therefore we must cry to God for the help
of the Spirit. We must get our facts clearly
established. And then we must seek to approach
the matter before us in a biblical framework that is appropriate
to the concerns in hand. And this morning I sought to
establish that the answer to the question of what should a
Christian do and not do in relationship to the celebration of Christmas
brings us into the orbit of that concern that is generally designated
as the sphere of Christian liberty. That is, it brings us into contact
with those practices which are neither commanded nor forbidden
by the revealed will of God, and concerning which each Christian
is responsible to act within the principles of the Word of
God which apply to the matters of concern. And there is no passage
in the Word of God that is more helpful in gleaning the major
principles to regulate issues of Christian liberty than is
Romans chapter 14. And this morning, we climbed
up three steps that brought us to the doorway of that chapter,
seeking to establish that any entrance into detailed consideration
of the stuff of Romans 14 must begin with step number one, namely
the recognition that in the exercise of our Christian liberty, we
must never violate the moral law of God or frustrate the goal
of the grace of God. According to Romans 14.14 and
verse 20b, the concerns of Christian liberty do not have to do with
issues that are either forbidden or commanded by the Word of God,
or issues which are an expression of the power and operation of
the grace of God in the gospel. Christian liberty has to do with
things that are clean in themselves, things that are not condemned
by God. Anything that is condemned or
commanded by the law of God and anything that is in keeping with
the goal of the grace of God is a Christian's duty. It is
not a matter of liberty. It is a matter of duty, and then
we sought to apply that to some of the issues relative to the
celebration of Christmas. And then step number two was
this, that in relationship to matters of Christian liberty,
our participation or non-participation are both equally valid expressions
of that liberty. We do not have to prove that
we understand our liberty to indulge, to enjoy, to participate
in a given activity by actually participating. As long as we
understand our liberty as purchased by Christ to be utterly free
from rules and regulations of men, we may nonetheless choose
not to indulge or to undertake to engage in an activity for
which we have complete liberty in Christ, because there are
other considerations that would make it wise for us not to indulge
in that liberty. And then we concluded on step
number three by simply saying, as we move into Romans 14, the
question of the weak and the strong brother will not be discussed
on this occasion, I hope, in the supplemental message to address
it, but it would be too complex and it would convolute the purpose
of giving some guidelines for this question, the Christian
and the celebration of Christmas. Now then, with that very brief
review of what we covered this morning, let us come now to Romans
14, and upon further reflection, I believe that it's realistic
to think we shall only be able to touch on two of the four major
principles in this chapter by which our judgment ought to be
influenced in this matter of the celebration of Christmas
and anything that fits in the category of Christian liberty. Follow now as I read Romans 14,
verses 1 through 4. But him that is weak in the faith,
receive ye, yet not for doubtful disputations. One man has faith
to eat all things, but he that is weak eats herbs. Do not let him that eats set
it not him that does not eat. And let not him that does not
eat Judge him that eats, for God has received him. Who are you that judges the servant
of another? To his own Lord he stands or
falls. Yea, he shall be made to stand,
for the Lord has power to make him stand. What is the first
great principle that is laid upon us with respect to this
matter of Christian liberty in general and as it applies to
various practices in conjunction with the Christmas season in
particular? Well, the first principle is
given to us in the opening text Let him that is weak in the faith
receive ye, yet not for decision of scruples." And then in verse
7 of chapter 15, we have precisely the same injunction, although
here it is not a limited command addressed primarily to the strong
to receive the weak. but the weak and the strong and
everyone in between to receive one another. Wherefore, and it's
exactly the same Greek word in exactly the same form of present
imperative middle of that particular verb, wherefore receive ye one
another. even as Christ also received
you to the glory of God. So what is the first great principle
that God lays upon us with respect to this matter of the Christian
and Christmas in the light of the Word of God? Well, very simply
it is this. He says, receive one another
with your differing perspectives and practices in conjunction
with this particular aspect of your Christian liberty. That's
what God says to us. He says to us, receive one another
with your differing perspectives and practices in this particular
aspect of Christian liberty. Now why did the apostle have
to write to these Roman Christians and tell them, receive one another? In the opening verse, the word
being the word addressed primarily to the strong to receive the
weak. Well, think for a moment of what
you know about the city of Rome. It was the center of the Roman
Empire. We learn from this very epistle
that there were Jews or people of Jewish background in the church
at Rome, there were people of pagan Gentile backgrounds, people
who came from various segments of the then known Roman pagan
world, and here they were all in one congregation. with all
of the influences that had shaped and molded their ideas of what
was right and what was wrong in their unconverted state, and
now they are found in one church, and for some reason there were
some of them who were conscientious vegetarians. For some reason
they had scruples about eating meats. They were conscientious
vegetarians. Others had no such conscience
about eating meats. Furthermore, it's clear from
verse 5 that there was difference of opinion with respect to whether
or not all days should be considered alike, that is, all days except
the Lord's Day, the Christian Sabbath, which God does not leave
to our discretion whether we shall esteem or not esteem it.
He has already marked it out and given it a special place
of regard in His own eyes and mandated that we should do the
same. But with respect to other days,
there was a differing perspective among the membership there in
Rome. And furthermore, it's clear from
verse 21 that apparently the issue of drinking wine was a
concern to some. So here are these people, all
within one church, and they have differing perspectives and practices
in matters that have no relationship to the moral law of God and no
relationship to a life consistent with the demands of the gospel. Whether a man eats meat or not
has nothing essentially to do with whether he keeps the law
of God out of love to Christ in the power of the Holy Spirit. It has nothing to do with whether
or not he adorns the doctrine of the gospel in all things. This is a matter of indifference. These are things of Christian
liberty. And no doubt these various believers
were aware of their differing perspectives and their differing
practices. If they were not, then the directives
don't make sense. How could the one who is designated
weak in faith be the object of the strong's reception if he
didn't know who he was? If these perspectives were all
kept secret, and the expressions of them all kept in hiding, there
would be no social awareness of this diversity. But apparently
the diversity was not only existent, but it was evident. And the Apostle
here gives what is our first and foundational responsibility
in such matters, namely, to receive one another with our differing
perspectives and practices in these matters of Christian liberty. So that's the practice enjoined
upon all believers. While addressed specifically
to the strong in 14.1, we've indicated in 15.7 it is directed
to all, in a present imperative, be continually receiving one
another. That's the practice in joint.
But now notice the pattern of that reception that is given
to us. And the pattern is given to us,
verse 3, Let not him that eats, said it not, him that eats not,
let not him that eats not, judge him that eats. For God has, here's
our same word, received him. God has received him. Now look at 15.7. Wherefore receive
ye one another, even as after the pattern of Christ's reception
of you, even as Christ also received you to the glory of God. So the pattern of my reception
of my brethren, who have differing perspectives and practices on
non-moral issues, on matters of liberty, my reception is to
mirror, is to reflect God and Christ's reception of me. Now let me ask you, when you
came broken, by God's law, conscious of your hell-deservingness, aware
that if God gave you what you deserve, He would say, depart
from Me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire. When God came to you in
the gospel and spread before you that gospel feast of forgiveness,
of pardon, of life, of salvation, deliverance from the guilt and
the power of sin, and by the sacred but mighty operation of
the Spirit, God imparted to you the grace to repent and to believe. How did this God in Christ receive
you? Did He hold you off and say,
well, take hold of the pinky of my pardoning mercy, and then
I'll watch to see if you behave yourself for a week, and then
you can take my second finger. And if you behave yourself for
a month, you can have my third finger. And after six months,
one hand. And after a year, two hands.
And after six years, I'll embrace you. Is that how God received
you? Yes or no? They didn't receive
you like that. How does God receive us? How did Christ, to the glory
of God, receive us? Well, the answer is found in
the familiar story of the prodigal. For remember what precipitated
that story in Luke 15? The Pharisees were upset. This
man receives sinners and eats with them. He receives sinners
and eats with them. And what is the manner in which
God, through Christ and in Christ, receives sinners? Well, when
the Father sees the Son afar off, He doesn't stand there with
arms folded and say, well, let's see if He really means it. It
says, while the Father saw Him afar off, the Father ran to Him. and threw His arms about Him
and kissed Him. That's how the Father in Christ
has received us. He didn't say, here's a pinky
now, prove yourself and earn some brownie points and I'll
give you a second finger. No, no. Now God says to us, here
in this assembly, in many ways like Rome, cosmopolitan situation,
people from differing national, ethnic, religious backgrounds. Conscience is conditioned about
a host of things by many factors that on matters that are not
either forbidden or commanded in God's law, on matters that
have nothing to do with living a life consistent with the grace
and power of the gospel, but in matters of indifference, matters
that fall within the corpus of Christian liberty, we must do
what this passage says. Receive one another with all
of the unfettered, unreserved, passionate abandonment with which
God receives us in Christ through the gospel. Receive ye one another
as Christ received you to the glory of God. That is to be the pattern of
our reception of one another. Now why is that difficult for
us? For the simple reason, because we are social beings, we always
feel uncomfortable when we're not with, quote, our kind. Don't you feel uncomfortable
when you're thrust into a totally different social context? where
all of the little symbols and signals of social sensitivity
are unknown to you. I've recounted to you my baptism
the first time I went to Pakistan. Started to cross my leg and the
missionary knocked my foot down and I found out that was a no-no.
Reached for a piece of food by my left hand and got it slapped
back and found out that was a no-no. Went to reach out to shake a
woman's hand and got it slapped. I mean everywhere I turned it
was no-nos. And you feel utterly uncomfortable. And there's nothing wrong with
that. But you see, if we allow that
natural discomfort that we feel in the presence of those whose
perspectives and actions are different from ours on non-moral
issues, it can subtly allow a barrier to be erected in which the only
ones that we receive with unfettered, enthusiastic, passionate reception
is those who are exactly like we are. And that is a denial
of the gospel. Because in Christ, those distinctions
mean nothing. And as the new humanity, the
visible representation of Christ, His body on earth, we are to
reflect the disposition of the head, even the Lord Jesus. So we have the practice in joy
to receive one another. The pattern given, as God and
Christ have received us, but then notice the prohibition made.
God really boxes us up here. Look at the text. Him that is
weak in the faith, receive ye yet not for, now this is a difficult
task, two Greek words translated various ways, the old 1901 decision
of scruples. You know what that says to most
of us? Nada. It says nothing. Well, the marginal
reading is, in the 1901, to doubtful disputations. That says next
to nothing to most of us. Well, let me give you other attempts
to render those two Greek words. We have in the New King James,
without passing, I'm sorry, not to dispute over doubtful things. Ah, that's a bit clearer. receive
one another, not to dispute over doubtful things, the New International
version, without passing judgment on disputable matters. And I believe the sense of it
is given in the paraphrase given by Professor Murray in his commentary
on Romans, not for the purpose of subjecting the convictions
and the thoughts of another, to censorious scrutiny. See what Paul is saying? The
pastoral wisdom of Paul at times utterly amazes me. He had the
wisdom and the discernment to know that some people might say,
sure, I'll receive my brother with his vegetarian convictions.
Then having received him, I'll get him in my living room the
first time we'll have him over for fellowship, and I'll straighten
him out. I mean, I'm not going to straighten
him out if he feels I'm holding him off at a distance because
of his kooky views about being a vegetarian. How am I going
to straighten him out? So I'll receive him, but you
see, my receiving of him has as its end to straighten him
out. Paul says, no. In receiving him,
your end is not to correct him. but to manifest that as God in
Christ received you for who and where and what you were in Him
by His grace, so you receive one another for who and what
they are by the same grace. Receive one another, not for
the purpose of subjecting the convictions and thoughts of another
to censorious scrutiny. And the Apostle understood the
human heart and knows how much there is in all of us a mini-Pope
that wants to legislate for everyone else on matters where God Himself
has not legislated. And, dear people, the day we
cease as a congregation Cultivate the spirit of obedience to this
first injunction. There will be imperceptible at
first, but eventually manifested scissors and cracks in true,
vital spiritual unity. We must be prepared to receive
from the heart every brother every sister with an unreserved,
wholehearted, passionate reception whom Christ has received with
a total, unreserved, passionate reception. Receive one another. Now, you see, it would make a
mockery of the genius of the gospel to say that Christ welcomes
sinners who don't forsake their sins. Oh no, he doesn't. The
scripture tells us, let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous
man his thoughts, and let him return unto the Lord, for he
will have mercy upon him and to our God, for he will abundantly
pardon. The sinner must abandon his willful
breaking of the law of God, whether by sins of omission and commission. He must be prepared to come under
the life-transforming ethical implications of the gospel. He is called to repent and to
believe. Yes! But when a penitent, believing
sinner has laid hold of Christ and the virtue of his saving
righteousness, He may still have his vegetarian head. And Christ
received him and didn't tell him, uh-uh, get rid of your vegetarian
head before I'll take you. Christ took him with his vegetarian
head and his vegetarian practices. As silly as you may think they
are, they were no impediment to Christ. He says, don't let
them be an impediment to you. Receive Him! not with a view
to straightening him out, but with a view to glorifying the
God who in grace has received you in Jesus Christ, and in the
new humanity wants to make it clear that our bond is not that
we have a social consciousness on every little detail of activity
that makes us feel comfortable with one another, Bigger things
than this have bound us into one body. And we need to make
it evident. And we will allow no lesser things
to fracture that unity. Well, that's the first directive.
Receive one another. But then the second directive
is given to us in verses 3 and 4. Let not him that eats said
it not, him that does not eat, and let not him who eats not
judge him who eats, for God has received him. Who are you that
judges the servant of another? To his own Lord he stands or
falls, yea, he shall be made to stand, for the Lord has power
to make him stand. What's the second principle with
respect to issues of Christian liberty? Principle number one,
receive one another. Principle number two, do not
despise or judge one another because of your differing perspectives
or practices in matters of Christian liberty. Do not despise or judge
one another because of your differing perspectives and practices in
matters of Christian liberty. You have two key words in verse
3. Look at them. Let not him who
eats, said it not, despise. The Greek word used here is exactly
the same word in the well-known parable of Luke 18. I want you to turn there for
a moment, or that introduces the parable. In Luke 18, verse
9, And he, the Lord Jesus, spoke this parable unto certain who
trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and here's our
word, and set all others at naught. They trusted to themselves that
they were righteous, and they looked down their sanctimonious
snoot at all others. And you want to see what it means
for them to look down their sanctimonious snoot? You just read the parable. Two men went up into the temple
to pray. The one a Pharisee and the other
a publican. The Pharisee stood and prayed
thus with himself, I thank thee I'm not as the rest of men. Here he is looking down his Pinocchio-sized
snoot, only instead of being turned up, it's down like a long
slope. He looks down his nose and says,
I thank you I'm not like the rest of mankind at the end of
my sanctimonious snoot. despising all others. Thank you,
I'm not as the rest of men, extortioners, unjust adulterers, or even as
this publican. You see what it meant when Jesus
said, it said of Jesus that He spoke this parable to those who
trusted in themselves that they were righteous. And they looked
down their sanctimonious snoot at all others. They despised
others. That's our word. And here in our text we are forbidden
to despise others. And then the second word is to
judge, that is, to pass an unfavorable judgment to criticize or condemn
another. It's the standard word for judge
in the New Testament. It's used in Matthew 7.1, Judge
not that you be not judged. Do not pass an unfavorable judgment. Do not engage in unjust criticism
and condemnation of others. Now, those are our two key words.
Now, here again, see the pastoral sensitivity of the apostle. Why
didn't he simply say, Don't either of you, those who are Vegetarians
don't judge the non-vegetarians, and you non-vegetarians don't
judge the vegetarians. Why didn't he just use the same
word for both? Because he saw that there is
in the human heart a tendency to do a different thing from
the differing perspectives. First of all, the person who
can eat Anything that is set before him, so long as it's not
rancid, it's good food, any kind of meat, he can give God thanks
for it and eat it with relish and gratitude. And he sees that
poor guy picking over his bowl of veggies. And he has a tendency
to do what? To smile with disdainful contempt
upon this brother and say to him, don't be silly. You overly
scrupulous vegetarian, there you are picking around your bowl
of veggies. Man, look at my steak. Do you
want a bite? You see, the tendency of the
person who understands his full liberty in Christ, and can enjoy
the fruits of that liberty, whether it has to do with being able
to eat all foods, or to drink his wine, or to have an utterly
indifferent spirit to any kind of so-called holy days, except
the Lord's day, he can say no day is of any special significance
significance, but the Lord's Day, that I cherish in regard,
and to any other day that men institute, I say, Bah humbug,
I'm Christ's free man." And he sees someone very scrupulous
about keeping this day or that day. He sees the vegetarian scrupulous
about his bowl of veggies. And what's his temptation? To
look down his snoot with a smile of contempt and to say, Don't
be silly. God says, don't do that. Don't
you do that. Look at the text. The text could
not be more clear. Do not let him who eats who understands
and enjoys and indulges his God-given, Christ-bought liberty, do not
let him despise, do not let him have the smile of disdainful
contempt to the man whose conscience will not allow him to eat that
meat. How often Have I seen that spirit
in people who had come to some fresh understanding of their
liberty in Christ and then immediately began to look down their sanctimonious
snout at anyone who had a sensitive conscience about matters concerning
which they were now free in their conscience? God says, Don't do
it. Don't do it. At this point, it doesn't even
give us a reason. He just says, don't do it. Let
not him who eats, said it not, look down with contempt upon
him who does not eat. Why? Because God said it. Don't
do it. He'll give us reasons later,
but God's not bound to give us reasons. You parents know I've
emphasized this in matters of child training. Your child must
learn to respond to your directives simply because they're your directives.
And you don't need to justify those directives to your children.
And when they say, why? You say, because Daddy and Mommy
said so. And God says, children, obey
your parents. End of discussion. Now, you may
judge it wise as they get older that I'd sit them down later
and say, now, honey, Daddy and Mommy had a reason for what we
said. Now you've obeyed, we'll take you behind the scenes and
show you the reason. That may be part of parental
training. I do not deny that. I encourage
it. But the principle is, if God
is spoken, He needs give no reason for what He has said. And in
this matter, God forbids anything approaching that which would
be called a setting it not, a despising the disdainful contempt, the
attitude, oh, don't be so silly with your over-scrupulous conscience. Don't ever, ever, ever entertain
that disposition to one whom Christ has received with his,
quote, silly, over-scrupulous conscience. He's Christ's purchased
property, and your Savior takes account of how you treat His
property. Don't do it. But now there's another side
to it. Look at the other side of it. What's the temptation of our
vegetarian friend over there with his bowl of veggies? He
sees you there with your big piece of Western beef, well marbled,
and the red juices flowing out of it, and he says, Don't you know you're clogging
your arteries? And don't you know that it takes
so many pounds of grain to produce that pound of meat? And that
could be used for this, that, and the other? And what's his
tendency? His tendency is to pass unwarranted
judgment upon the brother who has liberty before God to eat
his ten-ounce New York sirloin strip steak. And the person whose background
and experience and the abuses of alcohol is such that he cannot
think of anything but the word demon in front of the word alcohol.
He can't conceive how a man could bow over a glass of wine and
say, Father, I thank you for all of your good gifts, for food
and for drink. and drink his glass of wine,
he can't consider how anyone could do that to the glory of
God. What's his temptation? To say the only reason you can
go through that charade of thanking God for that glass of wine and
drinking it is you've got a seared conscience. Oh, so now God made
you the judge, Mr. Eater of Vegetables? Is that
right? Look at the text. The text says, And let him that
eats not judge not him that eats, for God has received him. Let
not him that eateth not judge him that eats. Paul saw that
the tendency of those with the overly scrupulous conscience
on matters of indifference was not to look with disdain and
say, don't be silly, but to pass judgment and say, don't be so
worldly. I have seen this with the issue
of Christmas. Those who have read their tracts
and read their booklets and they can prove the pagan origins of
December 25th, as I have stated them, it's a fact. And they have
shown that there in Israel, in Ezekiel 10, God condemned the
idolatrous practices of cutting down a tree and setting it up
and decking it with lights. And they say, there's the origin
of the Christmas tree. It's pagan, idolatrous worship. And they're so convinced that
in their heart of hearts, they really pass judgment. Though
they may not do it with their lips, they really pass judgment
on anyone who can with a good conscience sit and have communion
with God with an open Bible by the lights of his Christmas tree.
You say, I don't understand it. I can't. Well, that's your problem.
But one thing you must not do, admit you can't understand it,
but don't you judge. Don't you judge. God forbids
it. God flat out forbids it. And if you're doing it, stop
it, because God says, let not him that eats not judge him that
eats, for God received him. And when God received him as
a penitent sinner, turning his back upon all willful breaking
of the law of God, prepared to be cast into the mold of the
gospel and live out the fruits of the gospel, neither the law
nor the gospel demanded that he become a vegetarian, that
he throw out all his Christmas decorations, and that he throw
out his half-used bottle of wine if he was not an alcoholic and
an abuser of wine. God didn't demand it. Who are
you to demand it? God received him with his stripped
sirloin in the fridge, his Christmas decorations in the attic, and
his half a bottle of wine in the kitchen cabinet. Shame on
God! He received him of all those
terrible things. Yes, He did. That's what the
text says. God received Him. God received Him. You stop judging Him. God's freely
pardoned and justified Him in the virtue of the righteousness
of His Son. God implanted the graces of repentance
and faith And that penitent believing sinner has been received by God
through Christ to the glory of God. Don't you judge him. You see how wise this apostle
was? How incisive in his treatment
of the matter? He knew the tendency of the person
here called the weak. We'll call him the non-participant
in anything to do with Christmas practices, he knew the tendency
of those who can indulge in some measures of that practice without
violating the law of God to say to such, oh, don't be silly,
and to despise him, to set him at naught. And he knew the tendency
of that person to look at this person who can enjoy many of
God's gifts in his common grace as well as in his special grace. And with a good conscience, engaged
in the outward employment of his liberties in Christ, he knew
the tendency would be to take the posture of censoriousness
and have the frown of condemnatory judgment, and I'm in debt to
Professor Murray for those two terms, the smile of disdainful
contempt, don't be silly, or the frown of condemnatory judgment,
don't be worldly. Now, what reasons does God give
for the prohibition? He does give us reasons. Well,
we've already looked at one of them, verse 3, God has received
him. And though, again, this applies
primarily to the strong, whom the weak cannot understand and
therefore wants to judge him, arguing from the analogy of Scripture,
verse 7, God has received both the weak and the strong. So we
are warranted to say, whoever God has received, for who he
is, who are you to refuse? God has received him. But then he gives another reason
in verse four. Who are you to judge the servant
of another? In other words, God says, when
did I pass on my job as judge to you? I'm the Lord of the house. This is my household servant.
When did I give to you the assignment of passing sentence on him? And
then he uses another set of concepts. To his own Lord, he stands or
falls. You see, the reason God gives
for prohibiting these attitudes toward those who differ from
us, God has received all of us equally in Christ, and God alone
is the judge of each one of us. and he doesn't look kindly upon
anyone usurping his role as a judge. And then furthermore, though
this applies primarily in the disposition the weak would have
to the strong, it's a general principle, the last part of verse
4, yes, he shall be made to stand In other words, the weak looks
at the strong and says, how can he be so worldly and ever persevere
to the end? He eats 10 ounce New York strip
sirloin steaks and washes down the baked potato
with a glass of wine. How's he ever going to make it
to heaven? He's so worldly. You see what God says? Look at
the passage. It's beautiful in its incisiveness. He says, to
his own Lord he stands or falls yea, and he shall be made to
stand, for the Lord has power to make him stand. He's not someone
turning the grace of God into lasciviousness. He's a true believer
with a healthy conscience, who with a good conscience, enlightened
by the gospel and the law, receives his piece of meat and his potato
and his glass of wine as gifts of God, gives thanks to God,
and in the strength they give, he goes forth to serve God, and
God will make him to stand all of your scruples notwithstanding.
So you know what God is saying to the person who would try to
pull down this man who understands his liberty in Christ? He's saying,
look, God's got more power to keep one of his own than your
silly man-made rules. Stop it. Now, if you're going
to live by your vegetarian rules, live with them until your conscience
gets further enlightened. That's why another message is
needed on the fact that God does not accept a weak conscience
as a constant. A weak conscience is to become
a strong conscience, never a defiled conscience. And that gets us
into another whole orbit, and that's why I don't want to get
into that, but I'll just tease you a little bit with the issues
involved. But the principle here is that
we must have confidence both directions. that we do not stand
in judgment on the person whose perspectives and practices differ
from ours, saying, well, if they just go on that way, they'll
be so restricted and have such a narrow view of God and hard
thoughts of God, they'll probably apostatize, cursing God under
their breath that He's a heavenly killjoy. Whereas this person
looks at the other brother and says, That man seems to be able
to enjoy God's gifts so freely and with such abandonment that
I fear he's going to apostatize as a libertarian. My friends,
let's have a little more confidence that the God who got us into
this in the first place can keep us. Isn't that what he says? Who are you to judge the servant
of another? To his own Lord he stands or
falls. Yes, he shall be made to stand. How? For the Lord has power to
make him stand. If he's the Lord's and the Lord
has put him in the way, he who hath begun a good work in you
will perform it, perfect it until the day of Christ. And he'll
bring those across the river with their weak consciences.
He'll bring those across the river with their strong consciences. He'll bring all of His people
with their differing perspectives and practices safe into the celestial
city. So stop wasting spiritual and
mental energy biting your nails for your brethren. If you see
them overcome in a fault, Restore them. If thy brother sin against
thee, rebuke him. Exhort one another daily while
it is called to day, lest any of you be hardened through the
deceitfulness of sin. I'm not discounting all of those
biblical injunctions, that if we see someone whose patterns
of so-called infuse of his liberty seem to have the signs of a form
of bondage. We have every right and responsibility,
lovingly, to put an arm around a brother or sister and say,
my brother, my sister, I would not encroach upon your blood-bought
liberties in Christ for all the world, but may I lovingly, graciously
ask you, my brother, are you sure that this area is an area
of liberty, or has it become a subtle area of bondage? My
brother, Taking your glass of wine is really a matter of liberty. I'd love to see you leave it
alone for three months to see if it really is a matter of liberty.
If for no other reason, brother, than to set my heart at rest. God knows I have no desire to
violate the principles of Romans 14. I do not stand in judgment
upon you. I know that to your own Lord
you stand or fall, and He's able to make you stand. But I know,
He says in His Word, He uses exhortation, lest we be hardened
through the deceitfulness of sin. My brother, could it be
that you're being hardened through the deceitfulness of sin? Yes,
you have your liberty. to watch your ballgames on the
TV, but the rate at which you talk about this game and that
game and the other game and seem to know so much about so many
games and so many sports, my brother! Would you mind? May I exhort you and treat you?
Keep a little five-by-car, three-by-five card next week and write down
all the hours you spend watching ballgames and the hours you spend
reading your Bible, nurturing your wife, spending time with
your kids, Would you mind just doing that, lest you be hardened? You see, that's a whole other
dimension of biblical duty and privilege and responsibility.
And I am not in any way, any way speaking against that. But this passage addresses the
disposition of heart that we have one to another. What is our duty? The Christian
and Christmas? And it applies to any other area
that comes within the orbit of Christian liberty. I lay before
you these two principles that come to us in the opening four
verses. Receive one another and do not
despise or judge one another. May God grant that we shall lay
them to heart that by the enablement of the Holy Spirit in this congregation,
we shall determine that as our own thinking goes back again
and again to how freely and unreservedly, and I say it reverently, how
passionately God in Christ received us, let us make it evident that
in spite of our knowledge that we have differing perspectives
and practices on matters of Christian liberty, We do not just gravitate
to quote our own kind, but that the brother or sister
with his bowl of veggies can sit down at the same table with
the brother or sister with his sirloin steak, his baked potato
and glass of wine and rejoice together before God. The man
with his veggie smiling saying, you look like you're enjoying
that steak, that potato and that wine. And this brother says,
well, I can't quite figure out how, but you sure look like you're
enjoying your lunch. And stretch out their hands and
clasp hands and say, Lord Jesus, thank you that the gospel is
bigger than our differing dietary perspectives. Thank you that
the gospel is bigger and the issues on which we have differing
perspectives and practices, and men beholding how diverse peoples
of diverse backgrounds with diverse perspectives and practices on
non-moral issues receive one another so freely, unreservedly,
so passionately that they get an idea of what God does to sinners
who come to Him through Christ. If you are here tonight as a
sinner, I say it on the basis of the Word of God. The God who
has a right to damn you is prepared tonight to receive you freely,
unreservedly, with all the passion of His heart. Turn from your
sin, trying to construct your own ladder to heaven. Throw yourself
upon the mercy of God in Christ, and He'll receive you. And once we've been received,
we have one Master to whom we're answerable. Therefore, we're
determined not to judge one another, not to look disdainfully upon
one another, But remember that by the grace of God, to his own
master, a servant stands or falls. I'd urge you, some of you who've
indicated you've had a good time as families working through the
chapter, to go home and have a score sheet tonight and see
how accurate you were on the first two. And God willing, next
Lord's Day morning, we'll take up the last two. And then, if
it seems appropriate, at a subsequent date, not too far down the line,
take up the weak and the strong, since Lord's Day evening next
week will be communion. I don't believe it would be appropriate
for a communion meditation, but hopefully sometime soon we can
take up that other aspect of truth. Well, let's pray. Our
time is gone. Thank God for this day and His
courts together. Our Father, we never cease to
marvel at the richness of your holy word. Oh, how we thank you
that it is a lamp unto our feet, a light to our pathway. We need
not be left at the mercy of men's opinions and be bullied by men's
laws and standards, but we thank you that your holy law The precepts
of your word are sufficient to direct us into the way of a life
that is well-pleasing to you. And in these areas where you
have not spoken with any degree of definitiveness, give us grace
to receive one another, to determine that we shall neither despise
nor judge one another. May we see all such actions and
attitudes as a contradiction of the gospel and refuse to allow
them any entrance into our hearts. And should they seek and gain
an entrance, O Lord, help us by thorough repentance and pleading
for the grace of the Spirit to have such dispositions cast out. We pray for those who do not
know the blessedness of being received by you through Christ. O God, as that note has been
sounded tonight, make them jealous, exceedingly jealous to know what
it is to be received by the God of heaven into the orbit of your
goodwill and favor through the Lord Jesus Christ. O God, give
them no rest till they know that they have been so received as
they come in repentance and faith. Seal then Your Word to our hearts. May these truths percolate into
the very stuff of the life of this congregation more and more
until by Your grace as the new humanity in Christ We embody
these principles. Hear us, receive our thanks for
this day in your courts. Be with us in our further fellowship
one with another, those who may be gathering in various homes,
those who gather with their families. O God, crown this day, your special
day, this day of resurrection, life, and power. Crown it with
added blessing from your hands. We plead through our Lord Jesus
Christ, Amen.
Christmas and the Christian 4
Series Christmas and the Christian
How do we deal biblically with our differences of perspective and practice on matters of Christian liberty? (Part 4 of 19)
We hear much these days about diversity and tolerance. In this message, we see a proper biblical application of these often misused concepts, as the apostle Paul exhorts us to receive one another as believers, even when we have differing perspectives and practices on matters not expressly forbidden or commanded in the Word of God. (TT-G-4)
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| Sermon ID | 1403142216 |
| Duration | 58:38 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - PM |
| Bible Text | Romans 14 |
| Language | English |
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