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Matthew 5, 27-32. Now at present, we're studying the
seventh commandment, thou shalt not commit adultery. And this
morning we look at our second in considering this commandment. So I want us to listen to Matthew
5, 27 and following. that it was said of them of old
time, thou shalt not commit adultery. But I say unto you, that whosoever
looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with
her already in his heart. And if thy right eye offend thee,
pluck it out, and cast it from thee. For it is profitable for
thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy
whole body should be cast into hell. And if thy right hand offend
thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee, for it is profitable
for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy
whole body should be cast into hell. It hath been said, Whosoever
shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement. But I say unto you, that whosoever
shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication,
causeth her to commit adultery, and whosoever shall marry her
that is divorced, committed adultery. Thus ends the reading of God's
holy and inspired word. If some of you want a few additional
sections of Scripture that cover this topic in a thorough way,
Paul in Ephesians 5, 1 through 14 deals with sexual uncleanliness. As well, he deals with it in
1 Thessalonians 4, 1 through 8, and then in Galatians 5, 16
through 26. Now, we've been looking at a
series of messages on the ten commandments. We've considered
the first table of the commandments, the first four commandments,
and we've looked at the object, and the matter, and the manner,
and then the time of worship. And we've recently begun to look
at the second table and consider the sanctity of authority, of
life, and now we're at marriage. We hope to look at property,
the sanctity of property in the 8th commandment, the sanctity
of our reputation in the 9th, and then consider the summary
of the commandments, really the heart of the issue for all the
other commandments, as we consider the sin of covetousness in the
10th commandment, which Paul in Colossians 3.5 says is idolatry. And so Paul in Colossians 3.5
basically says that a violation of the 10th commandment is a
violation of the 1st. And it comes right back to the
beginning. again. Now, we're considering
this sin of adultery and we need to recognize that we live in
a society that seeks to stir up lust in the heart. We live in a society that promotes
it, that does all it can in so many ways to stir up lust in
the heart. We also live in a society that
not only is actively engaged in promoting this sin, but we
also live in a society that thinks it's alright to commit this sin. So, not only do we live in a
culture that promotes it, but we live in a culture that is
really not very shameful about the sin. And so, we are clearly
running against the tide in this matter. Last Lord's Day we considered
the heinousness of the sin of adultery, and I gave us twelve
reasons why adultery is a heinous sin. It's sinful because it degrades
sexuality. It's sinful because it destroys
trust. It's sinful because it damages
others. It's sinful because it's destructive
to the body. It distorts our view of God.
It impairs our mind. It destroys our reputation. It's
inconsistent with the Spirit's indwelling in us. It's inconsistent
with Christ's sufferings for us. It's inconsistent with our
heavenly calling. It incurs temporal judgment. And we said, lastly, adultery
is sinful because it incurs eternal judgment if not repented of. So, it is a very heinous sin. Secondly, last Lord's Day, we
considered the sins forbidden in the commandment, or basically
tried to group them in four areas. Adulterous eyes, adulterous thoughts,
adulterous actions, and adulterous speech. You see, what we see
will eventually affect what we tend to think about, and once
we begin to think about something, it won't be long before we begin
speaking of it or acting it And that's why I read Matthew 5 here,
because Matthew 5.28 says, Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after
her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. Jesus wants the people of God
to know that the commandment regarding adultery is much deeper
than just the act itself. He wants them to know that though
that's a crime and it's a heinous crime, you've still violated
the seventh commandment if you've even thought about doing it.
You've committed adultery already. That's Jesus' emphasis. Not that
it's not a more heinous crime to go and commit the thing that
you've thought about, but what Jesus is saying is this commandment
is broad and it's deep. And it's not just about actions,
it's about eyes, it's about He does say in that passage, whosoever
looketh on a woman to lust after her, he suggests that looking
usually comes before lusting and before desiring. And so,
adulterous eyes will tend to increase adulterous thoughts
and adulterous thoughts will eventually lead to adulterous
actions and adulterous speech. Now, this morning I want us to
consider sins which lead to adultery. Sins are things that are sinful
in themselves, but things that aren't necessarily exactly a
violation of the seventh commandment, maybe violations of other commandments,
but that tend to promote this sin and lead to this sin. These
are accessories to the crime, as we considered accessories
to the crime or the violation of the sixth commandment, thou
shalt not kill. We considered anger and envy
and covetousness in the heart that can lead to the crime of
murder, so I think there are certain sins that lead to adultery
that we need to address. The first one is immodesty. or wearing immodest apparel. This does fit under the seventh
commandment itself. Remember, I read Isaiah 3.16
to us last Lord's Day. There it says, "...the daughters
of Zion are haughty and walk with stretched-forth necks and
wanton eyes, walking and mincing as they go and making a tinkling
with their feet." In other words, God says through Isaiah, the
women in the church amongst the people of God are prancing around. They're showing off their stuff. And they're doing it amongst
the people of God. So we have to deal with this
sin of immodesty. Paul deals with it in 1 Timothy
2.9 in the church. Peter speaks of it in 1 Peter
3.2-3. In Proverbs 7.10, we learn about
a woman that has, quote, the attire of a harlot. In other words, you can distinguish
a harlot from a non-harlot by the way they dress. So, dress
does matter. In Jeremiah, we learn that we
should not wear strange dress. Moses, tells us that men are
not to wear women's clothing or to wear effeminate clothing,
clothing that would make them appear effeminate or dress like
a woman. Certainly a prohibition against
cross-dressing. We have to accept the fact that
though the Scripture maybe isn't explicit in any one verse, The
predominant emphasis of the first eleven chapters of Proverbs as
Solomon speaks to his sons regarding the adulterous woman is, is that
men are uniquely visually oriented. It's assumed by the Scriptures. The Scriptures don't come out
and say it explicitly, but so much in the Scripture assumes
that that's the fact. We don't have exhortations to
women to watch for that man that's dressing a certain way. It's
not to say that that's never an issue, and that women don't
need to be on their guard, when they also need to be on their
guard uniquely in this culture, which is seeking in a unique
way to enliven women's passions in a way that's unhealthy and
unbiblical. But these are issues that have
been dealt with the church from its early days, even in the New
Covenant. Tertullian wrote a book called
De Cultu Mul, which is on the apparel of women. An extensive
book on how women ought to dress to prevent adulterous thoughts
in the hearts of men. Also, clearly, there is what
the Westminster Confession calls lascivious dancing. lascivious dancing. The Westminster
standards don't say that all dancing is lascivious, but they
suggest that there is dancing that clearly is provocative.
And that kind of dancing is immodest. It stirs up the passions of those
involved as well as those that watch. And so we need to be on
our guard in this regard. We live in a culture that's very
immodest, don't we? And so we need to recognize that.
We also recognize that some of us send our children to schools,
Christian schools or what have you, that might not hold the
dress code that we might be completely happy with. And in a very influential
period of their life, they're being exposed to dress that might
not be what their parents, what their father would approve of.
And yet they're tempted to want to begin to dress like everybody
else so-called dresses. And so, we need to face this
head-on as families in our congregation because it's a serious issue.
Immodesty. Secondly, idleness is another
sin. Now, this idleness is not only
a violation of thou shalt not steal, it's also a violation
of the fourth commandment where we're told to labor six days. In 2 Samuel 11, 1 and 2, we read
this, at the time when kings go forth to battle, remember
where David was in the time when kings go forth to battle? He
was in the palace. And it came to pass an eveningtide
that David arose from his bed. The time when David should have
been worn slap out from working, he couldn't get to sleep. So he cruises up on top of the
house and looks around to see what he can see. We learn a little bit more of
the danger of idleness in Ezekiel 16.49. And I'll quote this verse
again as we consider intemperance. But in Ezekiel 16.49, we learn
a little bit about the sin of Sodom and how the sin of Israel
was much like it. God says through Ezekiel, Behold,
this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom. Pride, fullness
of bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters. Neither did she strengthen the
hand of the poor and needy. She was comfy, and instead of
helping those that weren't comfortable, they were idle. and promoted
adultery of the most heinous form. So not only immodesty but idleness
are things that promote adultery or uncleanness. Thirdly, intemperance. And that would include not only
drunkenness but gluttony as well, because gluttony is a sin where
someone cannot say no to their desire. And so, continually saying yes
to every desire in the realm of food is weakening the ability
to withstand desire in other realms. Again, Ezekiel 16.49,
it was fullness of bread in Sodom. that had something to do with
their sin. In Proverbs 23, 20-21 and then
31-33, we learn of the drunkard and how dangerous it is. It adds
temptation. Your guard is let down when you
have a buzz. And things that you might say
no to when you're sober, you're much more willing to say yes
to when inebriated. Whether it's by alcohol or by
drugs or what have you, your conscience is weakened at that
point. You're much more susceptible
to say yes when you know you should be saying no. Consider
Romans 13, 12 and 13. Paul says, the night is far spent,
the day is at hand. Let us therefore cast off the
works of darkness and let us put on the armor of light. Let
us walk honestly as in the day, not in rioting and drunkenness,
not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envy." He's
saying, you're children of light. Why would you behave like children
of darkness? Why would you commit the kind of crimes that people
know are criminal and that's why they do them in the dark. That's why they do it and want
to hide from letting people know that they're doing it. And these
are the kind of sins. Rioting or partying and drunkenness. Chambering and wantonness. These
things all go together. Strife and envying. You start
partying and sleeping with someone and being wanton towards everyone
else that you look at, Wanton means wandering. Wandering eyes. Then you can imagine that strife
and envy follow. So, intemperance is another sin
that leads to the sin of adultery. Fourthly, unchaste company. In
Proverbs 5.8 we're told that the man of God is to remove his
way far from her and come not nigh the door of her house. There, Solomon is speaking of
the harlot. But in Proverbs 7.11, we learn about a woman whose
feet abide not in her house. In other words, she always has
an itch to be somewhere else but home. You see, in 1 Peter 3.7, Paul
says, according to knowledge. And I
think sometimes we miss the word dwell. Unless providentially hindered,
men and women should be cohabitating. They should be living together. And when they find easy ways
to live apart, they're taking the first step to adultery. Now, there are obviously providential
cases, a man at war or what have you. There are cases where a
man is not home every evening, but that ought to be contemplated.
It ought to be taken into account and reckoned with. A man that
would go on the road and be a traveling salesman needs to consider the
added temptations that accrue to the job. It can't be ignored. It shouldn't be ignored. It might
be appropriate to take the job. The traveling salesman job is
not an unlawful job. Working in the military is not
unlawful in itself. But we have to be real about
the added temptations that certain vocations do lead to. And we have to be prepared to
address them personally and as a family and as a church. Church
leadership needs to consider that. It ought to affect the
way we pray for certain people. given what we know and where
the Lord has placed them and the unique temptations that they
face, that others may not face. So, there are some examples.
Also, Titus 2.6, the woman of God is to be discreet, chaste,
a keeper at home, good, obedient to their husbands, that the word
of God be not blasphemed. So, all these characteristic
traits characteristic traits, but the trait of chastity is
related to being discreet. It's related to discretion. It's
related to being focused upon the home and being good and being
submissive to your husband. All these things are wrapped
up together and portray the godly character
of a godly woman. That, the Word of God, be not
blasphemy. even though the heathen next
door might participate in all kinds of sin and want to tell
you that it's not sinful, somehow they still know when a Christian
is involved in those things that the Word of God is blasphemy.
They blaspheme God's Word because we don't live up to it as believers
in our generation. So unchaste company. And that
could easily roll into potentially a fifth, and that's pornography.
Our Westminster divines spoke of lascivious songs, books, pictures. Yes, they talked about lascivious
dancing and stage plays as all being sinful. But all the words,
songs, books, pictures, dancings and stage plays are modified
by the word lascivious. They're saying there's all kinds
of ways that impure thoughts can creep in. You can be exposed
to through the senses. We need to be on guard. And I'll
speak more about that in a few moments as we consider some directives
to keep ourselves pure. We've talked about four sins
that lead to adultery. I think we need to consider just
briefly the opposite virtues. Modesty versus immodesty. Industry versus idleness. Temperance
versus intemperance. Chaste company versus unchaste
company. It's not enough just to say no.
We have to say yes to something. What are we to say yes to? We're
to say yes to modesty. We're to appreciate modesty in
ourselves and in others. We're to seek it and promote
it. We're to appreciate it. We're to commend it. And I think
with modesty goes fatherly and husbandly jealousy. Jealousy is a word that we often
think of as sinful. All jealousy, just as all anger,
is not sinful. There is a lawful, righteous
jealousy. Paul could say, again, arguing
from the lesser to the greater, he says in 2 Corinthians 11-2,
for I am jealous over you with a godly jealousy. He tells the
Corinthians, I'm jealous over you. Paul's speaking under inspiration. He's not speaking sinfully. For
I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste
virgin to Christ." He says, I've been involved in this espousal
process. I'm the instrument by which you've
come to Christ. And what he's telling them is,
they're not married yet. We're espoused to Christ. We're
betrothed to Him. And full communion with Him yet
awaits us as the people of God. And Paul says, I was involved
in espousing you that I might present you a chaste virgin to
Christ. That's my desire. That you are the real thing and
that I will be involved in presenting you as a pure bride to Christ. But he's using language of the
family because God has been pleased to explain His love for us as
a father, as a husband. So, if Paul would say this regarding
the church, are we not as fathers to say this regarding our daughters?
Are we not to have this godly jealousy that we would espouse
them to one husband? We would be desirous to present
them as a chaste virgin to that one husband. We're responsible
for our daughter's modesty. Yeah, they have a responsibility,
but we have the ultimate responsibility. Industry versus idleness. We've
got to be busy in the tasks that God has called us to. We need
to display temperance. That doesn't mean lists of do's
and don'ts, but it means that we can enjoy God's gifts, but
we can enjoy them properly. We can enjoy them without being
overwhelmed by them and allowing them to be gods to us. Paul speaks about those whose
God is their belly. The desire for fleshly pleasure
in eating and drinking was more important to them than obeying
God. So, temperance, chaste company.
We need to hang with those that are modest and chaste in their
language. Now, let me give you several
directives. Four directives to keep oneself or yourself pure. are from this sin. And this is
not original. It's from a minister in Ireland,
Ted Donnelly. And he says what we must do is
reduce, resist, rejoice, and redirect. Reduce, resist, rejoice,
redirect. Think you remember those four
R's? We need to reduce the stimuli to sin. were surrounded, as I
said earlier, by temptations. They're in the grocery store,
the video store, the bookstore, the billboards, advertisements
on the TV, the Internet. Very few products today aren't
sold utilizing sex. In whatever form the advertisement
comes to you. I get a Toyota. thing in the
news or in my mailbox about every month. And even Toyota tries
to sell preventive maintenance using a woman. I mean, where will it end? I've seen toolboxes at work with
men who have calendars given to them by the tool company that
sells them the tools that they work with. It's all over the
place. And the fact is we've become
desensitized to it. Because it's all over the place,
we sometimes don't recognize that it's all over the place.
But I would contend it's affecting us more than we recognize. It's
insidious. I think I've used this illustration
before, but it's like going into a smoke-filled room. You go into
a hotel room that someone's been smoking in the day before and
you know it and it's awful, but if you choose to stay there within
an hour or so, you can't tell it anymore. Now you reek. You
step out, you go visit someone, they'll recognize you've been
in a smoke-filled room. You won't any longer. And that's
the culture that we live in. We live in a culture similar
to that that Peter speaks of in 2 Peter 2.14, where people
have eyes full of adultery that cannot cease from sin. They beguile
unstable souls. They have a heart that they've
exercised with covetous practices. What's at the heart of their
eyes being full of adultery? That they don't cease from sin.
They're beguiling others and leading others into it. Because
they've exercised their heart, their inner man with covetous
practices. They just continue to dwell on
them and dwell on them and dwell on them and come up with more
heinous thoughts that lead to more heinous crimes. And that's
why children are being stolen and molested and raped and killed
in our country. And pornography is almost always
tied to it And yet, our judicial system and our media doesn't
want to admit it. I've seen some statistics that
tell us that most of the people in America don't think pornography
is that dangerous. We're in a sad state when that
is the case. We need to pray. like David did
in Psalm 119.37, "...turn away mine eyes from beholding vanity,
and quicken thou me in the way." Consider Job 31.1. And I would
encourage you men in particular, us that are given to things visual,
we ought to consider what Job did. He said, I made a covenant
with mine eyes. Why then should I think upon
a maid? I made a covenant with mine eyes.
Why then should I think upon a maid? I made a commitment not
to look at a woman to lust after her. Now why should I be thinking
about her? If I've committed not to look
at her to lust at her, recognize you can't always cease from looking. But there's a difference between
looking and looking, and we all know what the difference is.
I may not be able to explain it in words. We all know what
it is in our heart, don't we? You can look at something as
you're stepping out the Walmart or the grocery store. You see
it there, but you don't see it. And then you can lock in on it
and see it if you want to see it in a whole other level. He
made a covenant with his eyes. to not look upon a maid so that
he wouldn't think upon a maid. The more looking you do, the
more thinking you're going to do. It's inevitable. And that hits right at Matthew
5.27 and following. Jesus in the midst of saying
that if you think on a woman to lust after her, you've committed
adultery. He goes on to say that you need
to be willing to pluck out a right eye and cast it from you. It's better to go to heaven without
a right eye It's better to go to heaven without a right hand
than to go to hell with all your eyes and all your hands." What's
he getting at? He's saying there are certain
things that you're going to have to say no to. Things that you
see and things that you do. Things that may be sinful in
themselves, may not be sinful in themselves, but if they're
temptations to you, and no matter how dear they are, as dear as
your right eye and right hand is, they're assuming that the
case is, as it really is, most people are right eyed and right
handed. Most of us here have stronger
right eyes and stronger right hands than our left hand and
our left eye. So, you have to be willing to
give up some dear things that you see and that you do to prevent
or to keep you from being tempted in this area. So, reduce the
stimuli to sin. Secondly, resist the temptation
to sin. Just say no. 1 Corinthians 6.18,
flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is
without the body, but he that committeth fornication sinneth
against his own body." Paul has a rationale here. He
says, you're hurting yourself. This is a unique sin. Again,
in Colossians 3.5, "...mortify therefore..." Put to death. Mortify
could be translated. "...put to death therefore the
members which are upon the earth." fornication, uncleanness, inordinate
affection, evil concupiscence, and cuppaciousness, which is
idolatry." He's giving us a list of sexual sins. Fornication,
uncleanness, inordinate affections. In other words, a desire that
goes beyond a normal God-given desire. It's inordinate. It's
excessive. It's out of bounds. A sexual
desire that's beyond being pure any longer. Evil concupiscence. Concupiscence is another word
for desire. An evil desire. And covetousness. He includes covetousness again.
Comes back to the Tenth Commandment. To break the seventh, you've
got to break the tenth. Which is idolatry. He says, then
you're breaking the first. Because now you're making some
woman that you're looking at Whether it's through the internet,
or in a magazine, or an advertisement, or what have you, you're making
her your God. You're making yourself and your
desire and fulfillment of your pleasure your God. That's why
all sin is insanity. Because at the moment that you
give in, you're basically denying God's existence. You're ignoring the fact that
God sees and God will. Recompense. Consider how Joseph
faced the temptation in Genesis 39.9. He said to Potiphar's wife, because
thou art his wife, how then can I do this great wickedness and
sin against God? You see, he was walking in God's
fear. He had an appreciation that even
in an ungodly nation, a nation that didn't serve the true God,
yet they still practiced marriage. They were illogical to do so
because if God instituted marriage, then why do people that don't
serve the true and living God practice the institution of marriage? They do so because they're created
in God's image and as much as that image has been effaced in
the fall, it's not defaced, it's not totally obliterated. So most
non-Christians still operate on a seven-day work week and
they still get married and they still do many things that they
shouldn't logically be doing. But they're doing it nonetheless.
And so he recognizes that this woman is uniquely his master's. He would be stealing. as well
as breaking the seventh commandment, he would be doing so before God. He recognized it a great wickedness
and so he fled. And so must we. And so we must
walk in the fear of God. So we're prepared for that onslaught. But if we keep saying yes in
our minds over and over again, we're much more likely when a
real flesh temptation hits and not be prepared to say no. That's
the reality. So, we need to resist the temptation.
We need to resist the temptation not only when it comes in the
flesh. We need to resist it when it comes in the book or whatever
else or in the mind itself. We need to resist. Reduce. Resist. Also, rejoice. Rejoice in the means God has
given. Proverbs 5.18. We read Proverbs
5 last Lord's Day. Proverbs 5.18 says, "...let thy
fountain be blessed and rejoice with the wife of thy youth."
God has given an outlet for the desires that He has placed in
us as creatures made in His image. He's made us different, male
and female, and He's given us an innate attractiveness towards
one another. And He's given an outlet, He's
given a context in which that desire can be fulfilled pleasurably. So there's such thing as lawful
sexual intimacy, but there's also something called unlawful
sexual intimacy. The Bible says one of the ways
we prevent unlawful sexual intimacy is participating in lawful sexual
intimacy. Paul could say in 1 Corinthians
7, 2, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife. He goes on to say, come together
again. There in the latter verses, 3
and 4 and 5, he speaks about the fact that sometimes when
you are practicing abstaining as part of fasting, and you're
doing it for a biblical reason, he says, come together again
that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. He says, at
some point, if you stay apart, man and wife, you're tempting
one another. At some point, it's no longer
for your spiritual good. Consider with me Ezekiel 24-16
and the godliness of Ezekiel. God tells Ezekiel that God says,
I'm going to take your wife from you. But listen how He describes
to Ezekiel, Ezekiel's wife. He calls Ezekiel's wife, the
desire of thine eyes. This is God's description of
Ezekiel's wife It's a description of how Ezekiel's wife was held
in Ezekiel's mind. It's not a command. It's not
an ought. It's not, this is the way you should think of your
wife, Ezekiel. He's saying, this is the way you do think of your
wife. And this is God saying it. God
who knows Ezekiel's mind is saying it. Not someone that can just
look on the outer man and think, wow, this guy really loves his
wife. in a special way. No, this is God. God says it
to Ezekiel. God knew that man. He knew that
he was a one-woman man. Paul says in 1 Timothy 3 that
it's a one-woman man, literally in the Greek. That's one of the
qualifications for office, that he be a one-woman man. And it
reaches deeper than just being a one-woman man on paper. It
gets down to being a one-woman man in your heart. And Ezekiel
was. Ezekiel was. What an example
to us. Rejoice in the wife of your youth. Fourthly, redirect your energies
to the Lord's service. There are some here that can
and must, all of us can and must be involved in the first two
directives. We must reduce and we must resist. Females as well as males. But not all of us here can carry
out three. Because some of us in God's providence
do not have a wife or a husband at present. Some are eager to
rejoice, but God has not provided them yet the means to rejoice. So what does God say to you? In 1 Corinthians 7.32, we learn
a little bit about God's rationale, His wisdom in the fact that many
are married and yet God has ordained that some of His own never do
marry or marry later. He says in verse 32, "...but
I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for
the things that belongeth to the Lord, how he may please the
Lord." He says for a single person, you don't have to be worried
about how to please somebody else. You can uniquely be focused
upon serving the Lord. They're saying that is the thing
you should be focused upon. You should work diligently. You
should be involved in physical and intellectual and emotional
work. And all of us should be, whether we're married or not.
You should be trying to cultivate deep friendships. You should
be developing interests that are lawful. You should be helping
the needy. Pursuing God, seeking first His
kingdom. As you look at 1 Corinthians
7, preceding verse 32, verses 26 and following, particularly
through 29, we're reminded that, and I believe this is Paul's
argument here, is that sexual intimacy will not exist in heaven. I've just recently come to it.
I believe that's accurate. I've often wanted to deny it.
been unsure about it, clearly relationships we've established
in this life will continue and the intimacy will, but will it
be physical? Paul seems to suggest that what's
going to happen is that it's really irrelevant whether you
have a wife or not because very shortly you're going to be in
eternity. So, yeah, you bear a little bit
more not having a wife, but it's really not that long anyway.
Isn't that what Jesus is getting at in Matthew 22-30? He says,
in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage. If he just left there, I would
be confused about whether there is sexual intimacy in heaven
or not. But he goes on to say, but are
as the angels of God in heaven. We do know something about the
angels. We do know that they don't reproduce. And clearly, that was one of
the major reasons for sexual intimacy. So, I've given us three
R's. Reduce the stimuli. Resist the
temptation. Rejoice in your wife, in your
spouse. Redirect your energies in the
Lord's service. In closing, in application, I
want to give us three things to consider. Consider the danger
of this sin. Recover from it, apart from grace. I think that's what Solomon's
getting at in Proverbs 2.19. None that go into her return
again. Neither take they hold of the
paths of life. It's an insidious sin. It's generally
a downward spiral into more heinous and heinous sin until grace steps
in. Apart from grace, few recover.
from this sin. Secondly, consider the consequences
of this sin. Let me quote Wilhelmus of Brockville
at this point. He says, always consider the
consequences of this sin. It yields but a brief delight
for the flesh and a long and bitter aftertaste for the soul. And if this aftertaste presents
itself as a lively reality for you, you will then be able to
reject its brief delight that much easier. If you have a picture
of how bitter the aftertaste will be, you'll be more likely
to not bite for the bait. Thirdly, these are somewhat negative,
but I want to end on a positive note. Consider the blessedness
of the pure in heart. Jesus could say, blessed are
the pure in heart, for they shall see God. A very short verse. It's easy to sometimes neglect
those short ones. This is one of the Beatitudes,
one of those power-packed verses that just says so much to us
if we just let it If we just let ourselves dwell upon it,
bless it, all God's blessings are upon the pure in heart. Why?
They will see God.
The Seventh Commandment #2 - Mt. 5
Series The Ten Commandments II
| Sermon ID | 1230661158 |
| Duration | 45:39 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | Matthew 5 |
| Language | English |
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