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Turn in your Bibles, if you would,
to the book of 1 John. Last week, I introduced this
series on the subject of sexual sin. We discussed that the turning
point of this battle is to engage in a scorched earth fight to
the death. It requires planting your foot,
determining to hate sin, to love righteousness. And this morning
we want to look at the Bible's insight further into
this sin. Does it provide any help for
this struggling fighter? Thankfully it does. The Bible
tells us of itself that all scripture is profitable for doctrine, for
reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness,
that the man of God may be perfect, thoroughly furnished, and do
all good works. And so this morning we're going to look at the subject
of the doctrine of justification as it relates to sexual sin. In 1 John chapter 1, a book written about the assurance
of salvation. Let me start in verse 5. This then is the message which
we have heard of Him in declaring to you that God is light and
in Him is no darkness at all. We say that we have fellowship
with Him and walk in darkness. We lie and do not the truth,
but if we walk in the light as he is in the light, we have fellowship
one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanses
us from all sin. If we say that we have no sin,
we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess
our sins, he is faithful and just, to forgive us our sins
and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say that we have not sinned,
we make him a liar and his word is not in us. We'll come back
to these verses in just a minute, but in this battle and fight
against sexual sin, the help that the Bible offers doesn't
happen by reading a few verses, and proof texting arguments. Successfully uprooting this powerful
sin requires a robust and experiential engagement with Scripture and
the doctrines of justification, regeneration, mortification,
and sanctification. which is what I hope to do in
the next couple messages. These truths of God's word must
be received with meekness and engrafted into our hearts. The doctrine of justification
by faith alone is essential to the existence of Christianity.
It is how a sinner is reconciled to God, cleansed from all sin. All believers are justified by
faith alone in Christ alone. No other alternative exists. There are no degrees in justification. No person in this room is any
more justified than any other. You cannot grow in your justification. You can't be more justified today
than you were yesterday. It's a state of being declared
righteous with all of your sins forgiven. That's why it's such
a glorious doctrine that we just sang about. before the throne
of God above and standing on the promises of God's Word that
your sins and iniquities I will remember no more. It's glorious. The imputed righteousness of
Christ alone justifies the sinner in the sight of God. His obedience
counted to us. and our sin counted to Him. And despite the uniformity of
all believers in justification, we have to experientially lean
into that doctrine to provide the foundation for fighting the
battle against sin. This means finding our personal
identity. in union with Jesus Christ. That
that is who I am. Internalizing the reality of
Romans 6.11 of being dead to sin but alive to God. And so we want to look at several
things this morning, three main things in this fight against
sexual sin and the doctrine of justification. Number one, I
want to look at gospel promises. The encouragement of gospel promises. I mentioned last week that sexual
sin is in some ways unlike other sins and in other ways it has
unique aspects. But certainly one way that it
is like any other sin is there is only one remedy. The blood
of Jesus Christ, we read in verse 7, cleanses us from all sin. If we confess our sins, he is
faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us
from all unrighteousness. All of it. But as we look at this verse,
and I don't want to get off too far on a rabbit trail, but I
want to throw something out there for your consideration and for
you to reflect on. But in these verses that we read
from 1 John, is the primary subject that he
is addressing, I'll frame it as a question, our justification
or our sanctification? And the reason I say that is
that the overwhelming majority of times that this verse is quoted,
it is quoted from the perspective of that it relates to our sanctification
and our confession of sins. And if we confess them, God will
forgive them. But I want to ask a question
and push on that a little bit. As I mentioned, the apostle is
dealing with the subject of the assurance of salvation. Is it possible that he's primarily
dealing with the doctrine of justification? And that if we
acknowledge our sins and confess with our mouth the Lord Jesus
and believe in thy heart that God hath raised him from the
dead, has he forgiven us of all of our sins? Or, as you look
at in verses 8 and 10, if we say that we don't have any sin,
or that we have not sinned. I'll give you just one commentator,
Martyn Lloyd-Jones, challenges this interpretation. And he says
this, is John's teaching here with regard to justification
only? He established that it was definitely
teaching about justification, at least in part. Or does it
go on to include sanctification at the same time? I suggest to
you that sanctification does not enter into this phrase at
all. That the whole time the apostle is concerned about our
justification. That we have been cleansed from
all of our sins by the blood of Jesus Christ. That is a glorious reality. That is something that we should
be vocal, I was going to say verbal,
vocal about. This should fill our hearts with
joy. That the basis of our assurance
is that we have been cleansed by the blood of Jesus Christ
from all of our sins. as a promise to grasp. And it even says that God is
just to forgive us our sins, which is maybe a hint that it's
dealing with justification, because He has laid those sins upon His
Son. And there is a great significance
to embracing gospel promises of the forgiveness of all of
our sins. Oswald Chambers said it this
way, if Jesus Christ cannot deliver from sin, if he cannot adjust
as perfectly to God as he says he can, If He cannot fill us
with the Holy Ghost until there's nothing that can ever appeal
again in sin or the world or the flesh, then He has misled
us. This guarantee of the forgiveness
of all of our sins does not only apply to us in the glorified
state, that we are under grace And if we're going to successfully
fight against sin, even sexual sin, it demands that by faith
we embrace these gospel promises. J.C. Ryle mentions the necessity
of embracing gospel promises to produce holiness. He says
it this way, the only way to make men holy is to teach and
preach free and full forgiveness through Jesus Christ. The secret
of being holy ourselves is to know, experientially know and
feel that Christ has pardoned our sins. Peace with God is the
only root that will bear the fruit of holiness. We have to
drink deeply from that well of the promises of God to forgive
our sins, all of them. Why? One example or reason is
that otherwise, if we don't stand on the promises of that full
forgiveness, shame and guilt can sever the believer from seeking
God's help. I can't go to him. He's offended. I can't ask for his help. Right? Because I have this shame and
guilt. Where he's saying, come! Come
to the throne of grace boldly. Not when you clean up your act.
to find mercy, to find grace, to find help in time of need. But if you don't stand on those
promises, you're thinking, I can't go there. He knows all about
it. And so we have to lean into these
gospel promises that God has given, that He has forgiven us
all of our sins. And I want to lay that foundation
clearly. I'll temper that in a minute
with other scriptures, but we don't want to let that sink in
deeply, let that saturate into our minds and hearts. That Christ has offered his life
to provide the necessary access for help in time of need. Prayer enlists the power of God
in the fight. and keeps it from becoming merely
a battle of willpower. Like David before Goliath, if
we in our own strength confide, our striving would be losing. Drinking deeply from the promises
that Christ died for sin, even sexual sin. He bore the shame
for sexual sin on the cross so that we would not have to. I
like how the New Hampshire Confession states it under the paragraph
of Gospel Grace. Nothing prevents the salvation
of the greatest sinner on earth. Do you believe that? Nothing
prevents the salvation of the greatest sinner on earth. It
goes on to say, but his own inherent depravity and voluntary rejection
of the gospel. Which rejection involves him
in an aggravated condemnation that pardon was offered and it
was rejected. Do we believe that? that the
greatest sinner on earth could come to Christ and be forgiven
for all of their sins. Do you believe that Christ can
save the chief of sinners? The Apostle Paul literally persecuted
and killed Christians. and was forgiven, and wrote the
New Testament. Christ did not come to call the
righteous, but sinners, to repentance. And nothing prevents the salvation
of the greatest sinner on earth. Do you realize how freely we
can offer that? Have you ever made the mistake
of seeing somebody who you thought was a great sinner and you thought,
nah, Christ couldn't, the gospel doesn't go to work there. That's
a trophy of grace, that it can save the great. How many in the
early church do you think thought Saul was a prime candidate for
the gospel? They would have thought if anybody
is outside, is past forgiveness, surely Him. The woman taken in adultery in
the very act. I don't condemn you, go and sin
no more. The harlot, the publican, the
greatest sinner on earth. There is pardon offered through
the life and death of the Lord Jesus Christ. Jesus said it this
way, wherefore I say unto you, all manner of sin and blasphemy
shall be forgiven unto men. But the blasphemy against the
Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men. Don't do that. The gospel is an embarrassment
of riches. pardoned, cleansed from all sin. That means to be held up, exalted,
and extolled that there is forgiveness in the Lord Jesus Christ. The blood of Jesus Christ cleanses
us from all sin. So why don't we end the message
there? We want to be clear there. We don't want to qualify except
for certain types of sinners. We have to have that deeply into
our soul. But to guard against a spirit
of continuing in sin that grace may abound, the Bible tempers
these gospel promises with gospel warnings. Scripture gives explicit
warnings about habitual sin. We'll talk a little bit more
about this this evening. So number two, gospel warnings. The scriptures provide the most
earnest warnings against the toleration of any habitual sin. And we'll talk about this tonight
with the doctrine of regeneration and mortification and how that
plays into it. These warnings are direct. and call for sober reflection
because eternity is at stake. Turn over to Ephesians chapter
5. In Ephesians 5, the first two verses, we are called to
be imitators of God. I mentioned last week from 1
Thessalonians, God has not called us to uncleanness but to holiness. We are called to imitate as God's
dear children our Father. But then in verse three, there's
a contrast. But in that high calling, but,
verse three, fornication and all uncleanness or covetousness,
let it not be once named among you as becometh saints. For this
you know, that no whoremonger nor unclean person, nor covetous
man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom
of Christ and of God." That sounds like, Pastor John, an absolute
contradiction of everything you just said. Let no man deceive you with vain
words, for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon
the children of disobedience. Do you feel that tension? There's
a tension there. It's similar to the tension that
we feel between the doctrine of eternal security and the doctrine
of perseverance. Right? That if you are saved,
you cannot lose your salvation. But those that are saved will
persevere, and if you don't persevere, you will perish. Sense that tension? So how do you resolve that tension? Paul gave this warning to the
Corinthians in 1 Corinthians 6, if you want to turn back there.
I'm sure it's familiar to you. 1 Corinthians 6 and verse 9. Know ye not that the unrighteous
shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived, almost the same
list here, neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers,
nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor
thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners
shall inherit the kingdom of God. I hope you feel that tension
that it seems like a contradiction. And such were some of you, but
you are washed, you are sanctified, you are justified in the name
of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God. These warnings carry the solemnity
of eternal consequence. No professing Christian should
cling to gospel promises while ignoring inspired gospel warnings. Habitual sin carries eternal
consequences. So the only appropriate response
is to take radical action to deal with habitual sin. And that's
precisely what Christ prescribes for these sins. He said that
one of your body parts should be cut off rather than your whole
body be cast into hell. Matthew 5.30. J.C. Ryle says, surely a Christian
should be willing to give up anything which stands between
him and heaven. A religion that costs nothing
is worth nothing. A cheap Christianity without
a cross will prove in the end a useless Christianity without
a crown. So how do we navigate this tension
between gospel promises and gospel warnings? God offers a full and free forgiveness
for all sin, and yet God warns that habitual sin will lead to
hell and you will not inherit the kingdom of heaven. It's similar
to the tension between faith and works. Right? You're saved by faith alone.
But a faith that is not without works, right? A saving faith
is not alone. There's a tension there. Faith without works is dead,
being alone. And so the way to resolve the
tension between gospel promises and gospel warnings, thirdly
and lastly, is gospel repentance. Gospel repentance. Building on the foundation of
gospel promises, heeding gospel warnings, requires the spade
work of gospel repentance. It is a difficult work. Begins
with confession. One man said, because sexual
sin lingers in the shadows, one powerful strategy is confession
and accountability. It has to get beyond confessing,
well, I've had another fall. Why is confession necessary? One man said, it's powerful to
speak our sexual temptations into reality in front of other
men. Doesn't sound pleasant. Why? When our fantasies remain in
our heads, they make sense to us. When we speak them out loud
to another person, their distortion and destruction become real as
we see them for what they truly are. This isn't just true with
sexual sin. Have you ever had an idea in
your head that just really seemed to make sense? And then you run
that out to your wife and bust it out to her, and she looks
at you like you fell out of the stupid tree and hit every branch.
And then even as you're saying it, you're thinking, yeah, never
mind, that was a bad idea. Because sometimes we can, it's
a power of deception in our own mind as we think that maybe this
is a good thing or maybe this will, no it's not. And so sometimes
just saying it to other people has a way of saying, yeah, that's
not good, is it? The work of confession is getting
into the specific thought processes, listen, leading up to the sin. This is key. Because it identifies
the roots and access points that lead to the moral failure. It's
following, it's like a crime scene where you're investigating
in the light of day, with the lights on, what led to this breakdown? Let's
follow the evidence. Let me give you an example. If I told you I was having a
conversation with a friend, things were going well, and I'm describing
this conversation, we'll say it's Phil here, just to put a
name on it. Phil and I are talking, we had
a good conversation, and then I picked up a knife and stabbed
him in the chest a few dozen times. Anybody see a problem with that?
We didn't get from here to there without some intermediate steps,
right? We weren't just casually going
about rejoicing in God, rejoicing in the Scriptures full of the
Holy Ghost, and then neck deep into our sin. There's some steps
there. And so if we're just ambiguous,
and, well, it was a fall. Yeah, sorry, Phil. You would want to know, where
did the conversation turn? Where did it go from you guys
having a pleasant conversation? There was a turn in that conversation. If we review the transcript,
we're going to know, well, right there is where it turned. That's
the issue. And so as we do the autopsy,
as we do the crime scene, and we evaluate the progression,
okay, here's the problem where it started. This is the seed
of it. And then Phil said this, and
then it escalated. And then you said this, and then
you're looking for a knife. There are several common pathways
that counselors identify that lead to sexual sin. Self-pity,
entitlement, boredom, Reward, as sick as it sounds, it's been
a long day or week. Seeking comfort is a way to ease
discouragement or depression. There are issues that are feeding
this that have to be exposed and brought to the light. They're
often not things we want to talk about. We would rather nobody
know about. This demonstrates a principle
in biblical counseling where it is a common thing for people to want to feel right
before I do right. But God didn't design our soul
that way. God designed us to think right,
do right, and then feel right in our conscience. That's the
way God made your conscience. So you can't wait until you feel
right to do right. A primary element of deception
is to be convinced to wait until you feel right. Right? I'll do this when I feel right.
Honey, I'll do the dishes when I feel like it. Well, you may
never feel like it. Mom, Dad, I'm just not feeling
it right now. Would you take that? I hope not. I'm not feeling it today. Well,
let me help you feel it. So confession and biblical accountability
is tracing these clues back to unbiblical thinking that rationalizes
sinful behavior of how I deserve this or how this is right. This is what makes accountability
difficult. It's not merely asking, how are
you doing? It asks specific questions, and
if there's been a failure, it calls for intense scrutiny. It requires the one being held
accountable to demonstrate what additional measures will be taken
to prevent history from repeating itself. Habitual sin is not random. Let me give you another example. You maybe have heard the term
retail therapy. I think this may be why scripture
mentions covetousness in the list of these sins. I'm gonna pick on ladies, but
no specific lady. What prompts a woman to buy a
hundred pair of shoes when she hasn't worn 50 of them? I hope
that doesn't hit anybody. Just illustrating the principle. Retail therapy begins when they
don't feel right. They're discouraged, they're
depressed, they're unhappy, and they're going to attempt to quench
that thirst by another 10 pairs of shoes. Which is like a dog trying to
quench its thirst by sticking its head out the window of the
car going down the road. It doesn't satisfy. We'll talk
about this in coming messages, but the expulsive power of a
new affection to fill that void. How do you deal with that void?
That I'm unhappy. When I was in college, I particularly
remember this acutely. is my brother and I, when we
would have a bad day or bomb a test or whatever, you know,
first world problems we had, we would say, hey, let's go to
Jay's Sporting Goods. A new fishing rod could go a
long way in easing a bomb upon that bad day. But you understand
it's not seeing Christ as sufficient To go to Him to find mercy and
grace and help and to say, wait, how am I not thinking right?
What am I not doing right that's causing me to not feel this way?
Let's just forget all of that and let's just get a new rifle. Right? That just has a way. But you realize that once the
veneer of that runs off, it doesn't fill it. It doesn't deal with
it. The person receiving accountability
must retrace their steps and especially their thoughts. This
is why it's hard. Confession is telling on yourself. It gives up the information about
where the excuses, justifications, and where the defenses have been
penetrated. It evaluates the fortifications
to tighten the measures to prevent another breach in security. Now,
think about it this way. If Caleb came to me and said,
man, I've been robbed again. They keep robbing my house. This
is like the fourth robbery. And I said, well, where are they
getting, I mean, what's the first question? When is it happening? In case we need to be there to
meet with them and encourage them. And how are they getting
in? And he said, well, they're coming
in the back door. What's the next question? Do
you have a lock on the back door? No. The inconvenience of that,
I mean, I use that door. That's the door I go out in the
morning to go to the car and go to work. At some point you'd
say, like, are you serious? Are you ready to deal with this?
Do you want this problem to go away? I had an animal digging holes under
the foundation of my house. And I saw it, and as soon as
I saw it, the big dirt pile where they're, I'm thinking, I'm gonna
kill that thing. I don't even know what it is,
but whatever it is, it's gonna die. And then I walk around the
house, and would you believe, he had a second one. I don't
know if he had a tunnel going from one to the other. And so,
get a shovel and fill his hole back in. put stakes and fence
and then a nice little snare for him in case he just wanted
to push through. I'd have him. And so every time
I come out hoping that somebody is just suffocated, dead, laying
in that pile. Sorry for the graphic nature. Because I don't want that thing
digging out under my house and destroying my foundation. We went to, one more example. We went to my in-laws for Thanksgiving. Jess stayed over the weekend,
through the weekend with the kids, and she texted me to let
me know that while she was preparing for Thanksgiving, she found mouse
droppings before she left. And I was instructed to set traps
and that when there were confirmed kills she would be returning. I said, well last time when the
mouse came out you just screamed, freaked the mouse out so bad
that both of you in the frenzy darted and you stepped on it
and crushed the mouse, so that's a viable strategy. And seeing all that, I was such
a good husband. She wasn't real excited about
it. Jesus' call to gospel repentance
was for cutting off the hand and plucking out your eye. Measures that grasp the nature
of eternal life and eternal death consequences, failure's not an
option. And then lastly, before I'm done,
I want to talk just briefly about evaluating repentance. If there's
supposed to be gospel repentance, what does that look like? I'm
going to give a couple definitions, cite our confession in a couple
places that are very helpful, and I'll be done. Webster's helpful in how he defines
it between legal repentance and evangelical repentance. The basis
of it is the gospel repentance produces godly sorrow. Like Joseph,
if you remember, and I'll come back to this in future messages,
in Genesis 39 when Potiphar's wife was tempting him, what was
his response? How can I do this great wickedness
and sin against God? Gospel repentance views sin as
a sin against God. So Noah Webster, in his 1828
dictionary, distinguishes between legal repentance and evangelical
repentance. Legal repentance, he says, is
the pain, regret, or affliction which a person feels on account
of his past conduct because it exposes him to punishment. This
sorrow proceeding merely from the fear of punishment is called
legal repentance as being excited by the terrors of legal penalties
and may exist without a change of life. It's just the fear of punishment.
Evangelical repentance is real penitence, sorrow, or deep contrition
for sin as an offense and dishonor to God, a violation of His holy law and
the basis in gratitude toward a being of infinite benevolence. This is called evangelical repentance
and is accompanied and followed by a change of life. You see the difference? Heath Lambert, a popular biblical
counselor, picks up this distinction and said, worldly sorrow is sad
over losing the things of the world, while the focus of godly
sorrow is God himself. Godly sorrow is pained over the
break in relationship with God. It is heartbroken that God has
been grieved and offended. And this is where our confession
is helpful. If you read our confession on repentance, it says, God does
continue to forgive the sins of those that are justified.
Amen. And although they can never fall
from the state of justification, yet they may, by their sins,
fall under God's fatherly displeasure. And in that condition, they have
not usually the light of his countenance restored unto them.
What is that? They don't feel right. They don't
feel the light of God's countenance encouraging them. Until they
humble themselves, confess their sins, beg pardon, and renew their
faith and repentance. A couple more, three more and
I'll be done. This saving repentance, this
is the confession, is an evangelical grace whereby a person being
by the Holy Spirit made sensible of the manifold evils of his
sin does by faith in Christ humble himself for it with godly sorrow.
Detestation of it and self-abhorrency praying for pardon and strength
of grace, there's prayer, with a purpose and endeavor by supplies
of the Spirit to walk before God unto all pleasing, well-pleasing
in all things. Repentance, it goes on to say,
is to be continued through the whole course of our lives. So it is every man's duty to
repent of his particular known sins particularly. One more,
maybe the best one. Such is the provision which God
has made through Christ in the preservation of believers unto
salvation, that although there is no sin so small but it deserves
damnation, yet there is no sin so great that it shall bring
damnation on them that repent. You see how it brought those
two together? There's no sin so great if they repent, which makes the
constant preaching of repentance necessary. Spurgeon, repentance is to leave
the sins we loved before and show that we in earnest grieve.
by doing so no more. Let me close. There is a foundation
of gospel promises for the believer to stand on, that Christ will
justly forgive and cleanse you from all of your sins. Our past
sins should not cut us off from access in prayer to the throne
of grace, to find mercy in time of need. We have the promise that sin
will no longer reign and have dominion over the believer, Romans
6.14. But these promises are tempered
with gospel warnings about the eternal significance of this
fight against sin. And this calls for gospel repentance
that views sin as primarily a sin against God. Feel the tension
between those truths. Gospel promises. Gospel warnings. And so we are to live, called
to live in gospel repentance. Appreciating what Christ has
done. Fleeing the warnings that scripture
gives us to persevere to the end. Amen. Let's pray. God, we're thankful for the spectrum that your scripture
gives us to understand the gospel, to understand sin, to understand
repentance, to understand how they apply in our lives. I pray
that the gospel promises that you give us would rejoice our
soul of being reconciled to you by the death of your son. That
we would stand on every promise of your word. That we can come
to you and receive forgiveness. I pray for an individual who
maybe thinks that their sin is too great. I pray that you would
make them a trophy of your grace. that you would cleanse them from
all sin. I pray that you would help us to hear your gospel warnings
about the danger of continuing in a lifestyle of habitual sin. God, we acknowledge our sinfulness. Help us to walk in repentance and to continuously preach the
necessity of repentance. As we long for the day when repentance
will not be necessary because there will be no more presence
of sin. God, we long for that day. Help
us in this fight to come to your throne to find mercy and help
in time of need. Help us to have a sensitive conscience
to not offend you. Help us. Help us not to in our
own strength confide, lest our striving be losing, but to have
the right man on our side, the man of God's own choosing. We
thank you for the Lord Jesus Christ. We ask this in His name,
amen.
Sexual Sin Part 2 - Justification
Series War Against Sexual Sin
| Sermon ID | 121241729251329 |
| Duration | 49:16 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | 1 John 1:5-10 |
| Language | English |
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