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Amen, turn your Bibles to Luke
chapter all Luke chapter 15 Luke chapter 15 gonna read a few verses
beginning verse 11 Luke chapter 15 You know since our young people
are just small us I Mean we were young people one
time weren't we? Yeah, we were. And I know it's hard sometimes
for young people to believe that one time we were young people.
But we were. And understanding us. But to
understand us even as young people, and understand us as young people,
to understand other young people, we have to go to the scripture. to get the answers do a lot of
things. And well, everything really. If we want to find a
word, we just go to the Bible, find out what the Bible has to
say. And there are things that we can learn about ourselves,
about those that are after us. You know, it seems like for the
last few years, we've had a name for every generation. from the
me generation to the X generation to the the millennial generation. We got all kinds of names for
different generations. And yet there are eternal truths
that do not change from one generation to another. Now I'll tell you
the problem that we have as people is that we forget a lot about
what we were really like when we were younger. Even when we're
willing to admit that we weren't so good we're not really admitting
exactly how bad we really were. Now every once in a while someone
will come along and with a very clarity of thought be completely
honest but you understand that most people, you go to the prisons
today and there's a lot of people sitting in the prisons today
who really think they're a lot better than most church members.
I mean, even if they drink and curse and swear and beat up people
and do all kinds of things, they still think that somehow they're
not as bad as a lot of people that come into the church. Now,
we realize that all the people that come into the church are
still sinners, hopefully saved by grace. If they're not saved,
then they're still lost because no matter how good or bad you
were or are, salvation is still only found in Jesus Christ. I've been thinking about this
story again about the prodigal son. And I think there are some
lessons to learn to help us. In the passage he says, and I'm
not preaching this as an exposition of the passage, simply to get
us started. And it says, and he said, a certain man had two
sons. The younger of them said to his father, father, give me
the portion of goods that falleth to me. And he divided unto them
his living. And not many days after the younger
son gathered all together and took his journey into a far country
and there wasted his substance with riotous living. And when
he had spent all, there arose a mighty famine in that land,
and he began to be in want. And he went and joined himself
to a citizen of that country. And he sent him into his fields
to feed swine. And he would fain have filled
his belly with the husk that the swine did eat. And no man
gave unto him. And when he came to himself,
he said, How many hired servants of my father's have bread enough
and to spare, and I perish with hunger? And I will arise and
go to my father and say unto him, Father, I have sinned against
heaven and before thee, and am no more worthy to be called thy
son. Make me as one of thy hired servants. And he arose and came
to his father. But when he was yet a great way
off, his father saw him and had compassion and ran and fell on
his neck and kissed him. And the son said unto him, Father,
I have sinned against heaven and in thy sight, and am no more
worthy to be called thy son. But the father said to his servant,
Bring forth the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring
on his hand, and shoes on his feet, and bring hither the fatted
calf, and kill it. and let us eat and be merry.
For this my son was dead and is alive again. He was lost and
is found. And they began to be merry. Now
his elder son was in the field. And as he came and drew nigh
to the house, he heard music and dancing. And he called one
of the servants and asked what these things meant. And he said
unto him, thy brother is come, and thy father hath killed the
fatted cat, because he hath received him safe and sound. And he was
angry, would not go in. Therefore came his father out
and entreated him. And he answering said to his
father, lo, these many years do I serve thee, neither transgressed
I at any time thy commandment. And yet thou never gavest me
a kid, that I might make Mary with my friends. But as soon
as this thy son was come, which hath devoured thy living with
harlots. Thou hast killed for him the
fatted calf. And he said unto him, Son, thou art ever with
me, and all that I have is thine. It was meat that we should make
merry and be glad, for this thy brother was dead and is alive
again, and was lost and is found. Now I got to meditating on this
passage. Now Jesus is telling a story. He's got a lesson here
for the Jews. Of course the older son represents
the Jews that were wallowing in their self-righteousness.
and would reject Jesus. And they were upset, of course,
that there was rejoicing over this one who had wasted his life,
had gotten right with the father, and now fellowship was restored,
even though his inheritance was gone, he had lost all that. And
I'm thinking, all right, we got two prodigal sons here. We got
a prodigal son that left home, we got a prodigal son that stayed
home. Because his heart was not where the father's heart was.
Now think about the story for a moment because the father in
the story represents who? Represents God. Now God is the
perfect father. Isn't that right? There's no
fault in God. We find no fault with the father
in the story and yet he has two prodigal sons. And he's the right
kind of father. But I thought if you were the
right kind of parent, then all your kids ought to be godly. Is God not the right kind of
parent? Now there's a lot of lessons
to learn about the father himself in this story, but it is an interesting
thought that here the perfect father has two sons, the one
who went off and lived riotously, the other one who tried to obey
all the father's words, but his heart was obviously not with
the father either. And so what do you expect from
young people? What is it that you expect? Go
through the scripture wouldn't you expect for instance Goliath's
parents? to raise a Philistine I Mean
when you expect that they were Philistines When you expect the
last parents to raise a Philistine and they did and they raised
a champion for the Philistines He was their champion. You would
expect Herod for instance to raise Edomite children because
he was an Edomite and He was one who was born in the line
of Esau. And you would expect him to raise
Edomite children. And pretty much, although not
to the same degree that he did, he did that with his children.
His children ended up being kings, following after the same pattern
as him. You think, well, what about Christians
then? Shouldn't Christians then raise children to be Christian? And to be sure, we try. But we're
not always successful. Why is that? We go through scripture. We find the man that was after
God's own heart, David. Man, his home was an absolute
mess. Now, we don't know what happened
to Chiliab. Evidently, Chiliab died. Many of the writers of
the commentaries think that perhaps Chiliab died. You got Amnon. Boy, Amnon, what a washout he
ended up being. He ended up raping his half-sister. What a terrible situation. Then
Absalom comes along and Absalom murders Amnon. And of course,
he also runs his father off the throne. This was the man, David
was a man after God's own heart. You say, but boy, Solomon came
along. Yeah, Solomon came along out of that illicit relationship
that he never should have had in the first place. And Solomon,
when he became king, started out pretty good, but somewhere
along the line, as he began to multiply wives unto himself,
They turned away his heart and Solomon ended up in the last
part of his ministry doing that which was evil in the sight of
the Lord. Boy, David, for a man after God's own heart, sure did
have trouble in his home. But we still read his Psalms,
don't we? And we still get blessed by his Psalms, don't we? Now there's some lessons here
that we need to get. How about Eli? Eli was the high
priest, but his two sons were Hophni and Phinehas. Hophni and
Phinehas, their sins were so bad that God gave a message to
Samuel when Samuel was still a prophet in training in Eli's
house and told to tell Eli that his sons were going to die. And
sure enough, they did, as they had no respect for the house
of God. But what about Nadab and Abihu?
Nadab and Abihu were sons of Aaron, the high priest. But they
offered strange fire on the altar of God, something that they never
should have done, and God killed them for it. And God would not
even let Aaron mourn for their death. Boy, now that's a tough
call right there, wouldn't you say it? That's a tough call. But here's Aaron, the high priest.
Of course, we also know Aaron, the high priest, is the one who
made that molten calf that we preached on last week. Then you've
got Samuel's children. You would have thought that Samuel
would have known something, but God doesn't tell us a whole lot
about his home except for the fact that the people, when they
saw the children of Samuel, said, no, we need a king. We don't
want to be under their leadership. We'd rather have a king and be
like the other countries. Now, God does not give us any
indication as to exactly what the problem was with Samuel's
children, nevertheless they were. But let me go back even farther,
Adam and Eve. Now, you got the first two, there's
no internet. As a matter of fact, there's
no evil influences to influence them. You got Cain, the ungodly
line. Of course, Abel was godly, but
he never did get a line because he's killed by his own brother,
Cain. They both had, and then you got Seth. Now here's Cain
and here's Seth, same mom and dad. You can't blame the problems
on their friends. Their friends were all family.
Isn't that right? There was no outside influences.
There was no Hollywood. There was no rock music. There was no radio. There was
no TV. Explain that one. So what are we missing about
children? What do we need to get? What
do we need to understand about children? What about their attitudes? I don't know about you, but I
know in our home, we would have AA meetings. And I'm not talking
about Alcoholics Anonymous. AA meetings in our home were
attitude adjustment meetings. Now, you may have called yours
somewhat different, but no doubt you had those once in a while.
And sometimes our daughters, as sweet and wonderful and precious
as what they were, still needed attitude adjustments. And of
course, our job as parents was to take care of that. And we
sought to do that to the best of our ability. But, you know,
When you can't blame problems on friends, and you can't blame
problems on society, and you can't blame problems on Hollywood,
and you can't blame their problems on, well, you name it, right
down the line. There were no bars. There were
nothing like that. There wasn't a seedy side of town. There wasn't
anything like that. You say, well, about the only
thing we can blame is Adam and Eve. Really? You know, we need to understand
some things about children. Number one. And when I say children,
that would be, you know, right on through. I'm not just talking
about teenagers. I'm talking about right on up
and even explain us. But understand this about all
young people. And they have the same enemies
we have. Do you get that? They always have. They have the
same enemies that we have. For instance, the devil is their
enemy. As a roaring lion, he walketh
about seeking whom he may devour. The devil hates them. And he
especially hates the children of Christians. He may not, he
can't take away your salvation. He's going to do what he can
to keep that from ever getting saved though. He's going to be busy
about that. And no doubt, Satan's gonna use
certain things because that's not their only enemy to try to
entice them away. 1 John 10 10, Jesus said to the
devil, or in John 10 10, he said, the thief cometh not before to
steal and to kill and to destroy, but I am come, they might have
life. Never forget this truth, that there is a devil that wants
to devour your children. That's what he does. He is seeking
to devour you. He can't take away your salvation.
And if they've gotten saved when they were young, he can't take
away their salvation. So what's the next thing that
he tries to devour then? Their testimony. And he's zeal
for God. We have an enemy. Now thank God,
greater is he that is in us than he is in the world. But that
brings us to the second point. The world is their enemy as well.
And the thing is, they're young, they don't even understand that.
They don't get that. I think it would be interesting
for you, if you wanna do a little survey, if you've got younger
children, like junior age young people, to ask them this question. When God says we're not to love
the world, what is he talking about? What is it that we're
not to love? James 4, 4 declares the adulterers
and adulteresses know ye not that friendship with the world
is enmity with God? And whosoever therefore be the
friend of the world is the enemy of God. That's pretty strong
language. I given in the Word of God first
John chapter 2 He says love not the world neither the things
that are in the world if any man loved the world the love
of the father is not in him now that's strong language, but we've
we still have to deal I don't care how old you are I'm 67 you
might be 70 you might be 50 55 45 35 25 Do I hear 10? I don't
know 20 you get down there You have to deal with the world That world plagues every one
of us. It's after our hearts. It wants
to destroy our zeal. The world doesn't mind it if
you say you're a believer, but they don't want you to show them
up. They don't mind your children saying that they're Christians,
but it doesn't want them to be different. The world puts a lot
of pressure on keeping them different. Now you understand that the devil
and the world are not friends of your children. They want to
destroy your children. They want to take your hearts
from the things of God. Then they've got another problem.
It's the same problem Brother Mark's got down here. Same problem
that Brother Wally's got down here. Same problem Brother Greg's
got back there. They've got flesh. They're all covered with flesh.
Paul says, I know that in me that is in my flesh dwelleth
no good thing. For the will is present with
me, but how to perform that which is good, I find not. Man, we've
got a problem with this flesh. I hate that flesh. I hate it
because of what it wants to do. Turn over for just a moment to
Galatians chapter five. And in Galatians chapter five,
he gives us a list. of what naturally, what naturally
comes out of the flesh. Now notice, it's a number of
different things, but notice beginning in verse 19, he says,
now the works of the flesh are manifest. That word manifest
means that they're made known. You can see it, the works of
the flesh, these are things that you can see, which are these,
adultery, fornication, uncleanness lasciviousness idolatry Witchcraft
I always thought that was interesting that witchcraft is a work of
the flesh There's a lot of things we want to blame the devil for
witchcraft is a work of the flesh though No doubt it pleases the
devil, but it's a work of the flesh hatred Got anger problem
I mean a problem where you get angry at everything. There are
some things you get angry at. I don't know about you, I know
when I was growing up, yeah, I had a problem with, I had a
real problem with anger. Now you guys, you all got that
sweet look on your face right now, like you never had a problem
with that. That's what the flesh does. variants,
emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies. That's all the work
of the flesh. Envyings, murders, drunkenness,
revelings, and such like. We don't need to go on. That's
just a list of things that come from the flesh. They've got that
on them. Now, here they are, other people's
children. I don't care if we're talking
about teenagers, junior age young people, singles, young adults,
whatever. And here us adults, these young
people have got, if that was the end of the enemies, that
would be enough. It's not the end of their enemies, but there
are things that you have to face. By the way, are you always successful
against the wiles of the devil? Are you always successful against
the wiles of the world? Saying no to the world. I mean,
don't sometimes you feel very sorry for yourself? I need to
indulge myself a little bit in this, some worldly things, get
to liking the world a little bit. And are you always victorious
over the flesh? Apostle Paul wasn't, according
to what he said. The good that I would, I do not.
The evil that I would not, that I do. Oh, wretched man that I
am. All right, you say, well, yeah,
I struggle with those things. So why would you be surprised
that children do? yours or others. Same problems. Now, that doesn't mean that it
makes those things okay, but we should understand that a person
is not worthless because they've lost the battle. Thank God he's
won the war. All right, and that's what makes
restoration so possible and so wonderful and something like
that song we heard tonight It's under the blood. I thank God
for all the things that are under the blood just out of my life And it's not just the things
that I did before I got saved that are under the blood Hallelujah You said what other problems
do they have They got hearts. And the Bible says in Jeremiah
17 9, the heart is deceitful above all things and desperately
wicked who can know it. So that God warns us in Proverbs
chapter 4 and verse 23, keep thy heart with all diligence
for out of it are the issues of life. You understand, my heart's
right with God tonight. Well, if you don't keep it, it
won't be tomorrow. And you've got to keep it with all diligence.
Then he tells us how to do it. He says, put away from thee a
froward mouth. Whoa. If I don't watch what comes out
of my mouth, I'll lose my heart. So I've got to be careful. I
can't just say everything's on my heart. Matter of fact, Proverbs
warns us again that it is a fool that uttereth all his heart.
So there are things I need. And in some cases, when I'm talking
about others, I wanna be careful to not be like Job's three friends
and misapply a Bible truth. And find people guilty of things
they're not guilty of. Ooh, be careful what comes out
of your mouth. What you say about others. There are a lot of reasons
people may be having trouble and not necessarily linked to
these. They may be going through a very
hard time in their life. Young people. By the way, you
didn't go through any traumatic things when you were young, did
you? You don't have any miserable things going on, did you? They
have miserable things. You say, but that's so small
compared to the problems I'm dealing with. Well, wait a second.
It's big to them. It's kind of like puppy love, you know. It
may be puppy love, but it's real to the puppy. Isn't that right? So he says,
keep thy heart with all diligence, for out of it are the uses of
life. And the first thing he says is, watch what comes out of your
mouth. And then he says, let thine eyes look right on. You
gotta be careful what you see or you'll lose your heart. And
then he tells us about where we go, the path of our feet.
You gotta watch where you go or you'll lose your heart. Your
heart. I'm not talking about the young people's heart now.
I'm talking about your heart. Well, they've gotta, if you have
to keep your heart with all diligence, they have to keep their heart
with all diligence. You don't always, come out on top on that
one, should we be surprised that they don't either? They need help. It's one of the
reasons God gave them parents, to be a help in dealing with
it. You say, but you'd think they'd get it sometime. From
what I can tell by the looks on your faces, you still don't
get it sometimes. So why would you think they'd
get it in 15 years when you've not gotten it all the time in
50 or 40 or 60 years? I mean, let's be real. We got
the riding hours over here. They're getting ready to have
a little baby. Now we know they're gonna be perfect parents. I mean,
look at their faces. You can tell they're gonna be
perfect parents. But something else I can tell. That child's
got the devil as an enemy. It's going to be covered about
with flesh. It's going to have the world
enticing it. Think of all the things that
these young people are enticed with today that we never were
enticed with. I didn't have an internet I had
to even worry about. I never had to worry about. Back
when I was growing up, yeah, we had a TV, but they didn't
show anything like what TV shows today. I mean people having their
screens awfulest words, the terrible wickedness and ungodliness. We
didn't have that stuff. They had, believe it or not,
they had standards back then. We were spared a lot. There were
things that you had to go down to a dirty bookstore somewhere
and you couldn't go there if you were a young person. But they can pick it up in the
home today. They can go to the library and
get on a computer and see things they shouldn't see. So why would
we be surprised? Considering the battle that we
have and that they've got the same enemies, should we be surprised
that sometimes they're not what they ought to be? Well, he said, I mean, after
all, here's the father, the perfect father, and yet neither one of
his boys at this time were what they ought to be. Now, the one, his life was very
outwardly not what he ought to be, but the other one, his attitude
was not what it ought to be. He said, preacher sounded pretty
hopeless. Well, it gets better. There's
also the deceitfulness of sin itself. Hebrews chapter 3 and
verse 13, exhort one another daily while this call today,
lest any of you be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin. Sin deceives. Now, right now,
we live in a nation, just in this auditorium, how many here
are under the age of 43 years? You're under the age of 43 years.
That's a lot of people. Their entire lifetime in this
country, in their lifetime, every year, this country has murdered
over a million babies a year. That's by abortion. That's the
culture they've been brought up in. They don't know any better
as far as they're culturally concerned. Their entire lifetime. I remember a day when it wasn't
legal. But they've had a totally different
culture they've been brought up in. I remember when I went
to high school, which I said I would never say when I was
in high school. Because you remember your parents
saying, well, when I was in school, I'll never say that. And then
you get older and you say it. when I was in school. When I
was in school, the girls could only wear dresses to church.
I mean to church. The girls could only wear dresses
to school. They couldn't wear pants. They
couldn't wear slacks. Now they wore them at home and
stuff like that, but as far as during the school day. And when
my wife was my girlfriend, in our senior year school. And one
day we were walking down the hall side by side talking. Now
this is a public school. We didn't go to a Christian school.
We weren't Christians. We're walking down, a teacher came
up behind us. I'm trying to think of that teacher's
name. Which one was it? You know I
didn't like him. That teacher came up behind us
And he said, separate. We weren't touching. We were
too close. We were just too close. I'm not
talking about 1920s now. That's 1960s. That's the era
of Woodstock. But in school there was some
decorum. There were things you didn't do. Why does all this
stuff seem okay today? The deceitfulness of sin. Sin
deceives. It deceives people. Now, it deceives
a lot of adults. So that you've got people in
churches today see nothing wrong with same-sex marriage. They
see nothing wrong with it. They're in church. You'd be surprised
the percentage of people in Bible-believing churches, not just Baptist, but
Bible-believing churches, they just think, well, if that's what
they want to do, it ought to be okay. There are people in our church
who think like that. Say, no way. Yeah, way. Why? How can they possibly think like
that? The deceitfulness of sin. aided by the flesh, aided by
a deceitful heart, aided by the world, and obviously aided by
the devil as well. Do you know it's a chore just
to stay straight for ourselves? So why should we be surprised
when our young people struggle with things? It shouldn't surprise us, should
it? Because you see, that is the reality. You say, but sometimes,
man, their attitude just stinks. Sometimes our attitude stinks. So what do we do, preacher? Do
we just let it go on? No, not at all. But understand something. You
say, but I don't know how many times I've told them. Well, you
gotta tell them again. Just like you've had to been
told again and again and again, you've had to tell yourself again
and again. Some of the answers are so easy.
What about the influence of others? Well, who did Cain have a wrong
influence from? He was one of the first, pardon
me, he was one of the first homeschoolers. And he ended up being the first
murderer. Think about that. He didn't even
have a public school to go to. We can't blame it on the public
schools on that one. But then you got Abel. He was homeschooled too, and
he was obedient to God. He brought the right sacrifice
to God. I know we know that Amnon was led astray by his cousin,
and we can be a little bit upset with David about that. I mean,
he was a king running the kingdom. But his problem was the same
problem that a lot of parents have today. He trusted family.
You know, it's not a matter of being careful about the neighbor's
kids. I mean, this is my nephew here that's with my son and surely
that would be okay. No, you need to understand something
about supervision and knowing what's going on. Before there was ever a A real
homeschooler, like we think of it today, or a public schooler,
or a Christian schooler, children went astray. They went astray
when there were none of those outside influences that we face
today. Now God gives us some things
to help us with that, like Deuteronomy chapter six, verses four through
nine. The reality is this, let me help you. It gets down to
the parents. One of the things you can do to help is you've
got to guard the relationships. The main relationship they need
to have is the relationship within the home. The home needs to be
special. We've got a lot of things to
take us out of the home and now we've even got, with all the
gadgets that we have, we've got gadgets that keep us from being
together even when we're all under the same roof. We all have
our own cell phone. You know, it would really be
good to make like a cell phone time in the house. Here's a half
an hour for you to look and do all your stuff and then they're
off for the rest of the night. You'd save yourself a lot of
trouble. That'd be good because otherwise, I mean, you see families
in the restaurant and here's mom and dad and the kids and
they're all on their phone. They're in the same place together
and they're not together at all. The family unit is not what it
ought to be. They don't know how to react
to one another. They don't know how to communicate
to one another. We've got to be very careful.
You've heard me say often, one of our great problems today is
that we have swallowed all the technology without even considering
the ramifications and what it's doing to us in our relationships
with one another. So all relationships are to be
guarded relationships. Too much time with outsiders
without any supervision or even insiders without supervision
by mom and dad can be a problem. For the young children especially,
the main part of their life should be their home, not their friends.
Not their friends. You know, you get older and you
get some, You get responsibilities about things. Your friends can't
be the main part of your life. Because you've got to take care
of the things in the home, don't you? You've got things that you've
got to do and take care of. I mean, life gets busy when you
get a family going. And suddenly those responsibilities,
it's not being a kid anymore, it gets tough. In 2 Kings chapter 22 and verse
23, The Bible speaking of Elisha says, And he went up from Thence
unto Bethel. And as he was going up by the
way, there came forth little children out of the city, and
mocked him, and said unto him, Go up, thou bald head! Go up,
thou bald head! And he turned back, and looked
on them, and cursed them in the name of the LORD. And there came
forth two she-bears out of the wood, and tear forty and two
children them. Now it doesn't say that he killed
them, although I think that that is the implication that you get
from that, that all 42 of them died. Either way, they were sorely
wounded by those two she bears. 42 children. Now right away I
ask myself the question, where are their parents? 42 of them. You got a gang. Hey,
we worry about gangs in the cities today. This is a gang out in
the country. And they were mocking the man
of God, something they shouldn't have been doing. And the man
of God turned, with all his compassion, and he cursed them in the name
of the Lord. And 42 children, God doesn't
tell us their ages, doesn't record them for us. they had no respect
and of course they suffered. But I do ask the question where
were the parents? That tells me something about
their heart. Well their parents being their
main protection and I'm not going to go through Psalm 78 tonight
to deal with that. Even when it comes to their education
whether it's home school, public school, Christian school, whatever
it is that they're going to be educated in. The Bible says they're
under tutors and governors until the time appointed of the fathers.
The father is responsible for how the children get educated
and what they get educated. Whatever it is. Whichever one
it is. Now you can say what you want
about the public schools. Obviously they have a number
of problems. But may I say there are a lot of great champions
in the faith that came out of the public schools. Not that
the public schools made them that way. Don't misunderstand
what I'm saying. But let me go all the way back
to Moses. He was brought up in Egyptian schools and he came
out the deliverer for Israel. None of the ones brought up in
the Israelite schools were the deliverer for Israel. I know
a lot of preachers today, there are older preachers today, who
did a great work for God and they came out of public schools.
Some of the great revivals among teenagers back in the fifties
and sixties came out of the Youth for Christ meetings. And they
dealt with kids in the public schools. What about that? I'm just simply saying wherever
they get educated, or you say, but it's worse today. It is worse
today. But doesn't that mean then you
need to be paying attention to some things when they get home?
There are things you know they're not gonna get in the public school.
They better get it at the house. If they don't get it at the house,
they're not getting it. And you're responsible for that. So those
areas that even by law, the public schools can't teach, you have
responsibility to teach. you've got to make sure that
they get it. Now, what happens preacher, if you put everything
into them? Don't forget Job, his kids were
all grown. His family was meeting together
as a family, his kids were, and they were gonna have a get together
with great feasting. And we find Job giving sacrifices
for his children, less in their merriment. they curse God in
their heart. Do you know what Job understood?
Job understood that his kids, brought up by a parent that was
perfect and excute evil, that his kids, together, in a lighthearted
moment, could do some things in their heart that would be
displeasing to the Lord. He wasn't blind to it, he understood
it. All right, we understand, they've got enemies. So they
need us as well. But with all the enemies they
have, and with hopefully a loving mom and dad who will pour themselves
into them, we better pray. And just because they're out
of the house, that's not the time to stop praying. Job didn't stop
praying. We need to still be praying for
them and pleading with God for them. I realize as sweet a girls
as God has allowed us to have, they could go wrong tomorrow.
They can make wrong choices and get into sin tomorrow. I pray
for my daughters. I pray for my grandchildren.
And I'm going to have to do that until I die. I'm going to have
to keep doing that. Not because I don't trust them.
I don't. Because of the devil, the world,
the flesh, the deceitful heart, and the deceitfulness of sin.
I've got to pray for them. Remember, Brother Brown was here,
and in the morning he talked about a hedge around those that
we love. What a tremendous message. What
a great challenge. You mean as good as they are,
we don't get to let up? Nope. Not if you love them. And what about if your child
makes some wrong choices? I'm a child, and for you older
adults, you understand that a child, hey, I got one daughter in her
40s, another one in her 30s. They're children to me. Mean really they're children
to me And so you got a child. All right, they go astray. That's
not the time that you give up on That's the time you double
down in your prayer time for them But would you please understand
this that no matter what you put into them? They still have
to make certain choices for themselves. I You can't make, as much as
you want them to be saved and go to heaven, you can't make
them get saved and go to heaven. As much as you want them to obey
the Lord, you cannot make them obey the Lord, and there's nothing
you can put into them to make them obey the Lord. Just like
with all the Bible training you've had in all of your life, you
can still disobey God today. And the choice is yours. So what about these young people? I think parents, I think each
generation has complained about the generation that's followed
it throughout history. They've had it so much easier
than what we had it. And we were such perfect parents. And we
were such good people. And we taught them right from
wrong. I don't see how they could do those things. Read your Bible.
How could David, with all that walk he had had with God, how
could David, with all the time alone he'd spent with God, and
the things that God had used him to do, how could David do
what he did? Because he had a free will. And you know when he sinned?
Now, he suffered for it, but God still took him back. God still forgave him. And you
know that perfect father in Luke 15? Do you know how I know he's
perfect? I mean, there's the fact that
yes, he represents God. But how I know he's perfect?
When his son came back repentant, he threw a party. I don't find him saying here,
well, where is all that money I gave you? Wasted it all, didn't
you? Yeah, you can come back, but
you're going to sleep in a bunk out in the barn, buddy. That's
not this father. Killed a fatted calf. Put on
the best robe in the house. Now everything that's left now
still goes to the other son, but he's excited. His son has
come back repentant. Understand the basics about children.
There's a lot more I could say, but I'm gonna end on that note.
Let's pray. Father, we come to you in the name of the Lord Jesus.
And Lord, I pray that you would drive these truths to our hearts. Both so that we understand these
truths about ourself. They're also true about those
that follow us and come after us. May it help even our young
people and our young adults that are our children May they understand
these truths about their children and about themselves. These are
not excuses for sin. It lets us know why we end up
getting in the mess we were in a lot of times. And God I pray
you even tonight you might bring somebody back to you. I pray
you do a work in our lives. And Lord we will thank you as
you do that in Jesus name with heads bowed and eyes closed.
Now obviously to be God's child you must be saved. If everybody
that he saved was perfect then he wouldn't have to chasten us,
scourge us like he does. He saves us perfectly but he
doesn't make us perfect until heaven. Maybe there's someone
tonight though you don't even know you're God's child. You're
not really sure that if he died right now you'd go to heaven.
And you'd say, preacher pray for me. I don't know I'm saved
but I want to be saved. I sure don't want to die and
go to hell. Pray for me. Just slip up your hand anywhere in
the auditorium. Anywhere. Maybe there's some Christian,
young or old makes no difference because we all have the same
enemies. And there is the same God the Father and the same Lord
Jesus Christ who is the Savior and the same commands and the
same things provided for getting right. But are there some believers,
and I say preacher, God's dealing with my heart about some things,
and it might even be attitudes toward those that have come along
after us, who haven't fulfilled exactly what we've wanted for
them. You say, Preacher, God's dealing
with my heart about some things in my life. Please pray for me.
Would you slip your hand up, child of God? Would you do that
tonight? God bless you. God bless you. Yes. God bless
you on my right. Yes, others on my left. God bless
you here in the center. Amen. Amen. Act upon it. Thank God. Claim the promise
if we confess our sins. He is faithful and just to forgive
us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Father, we love you tonight.
Do a work, I pray, in our lives. May we be open to you and long
for our lives to be right with you. Thank God you don't throw
us away when we've disappointed you. But you're their force. You're looking for that repentant
heart. that'll come and return to you. Have your way in every
life. In Jesus' name I ask it. Let's stand to our feet. We're
gonna sing softly, have thine own way.
Understanding Our Children
| Sermon ID | 11916201536 |
| Duration | 45:50 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - PM |
| Bible Text | Luke 15 |
| Language | English |
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