00:00
00:00
00:01
Transcript
1/0
You made it through. You made
it through the first day of classes. And I had the privilege of walking
around campus a little bit, even being in a class today, coming
to chapel, being in the dining facilities. And I'm so thankful
for so many of you that I was able to say hello to. And I just
praise the Lord for what God is doing in your lives by bringing
you to this place where you can be trained and you'll be sent
out from this place to serve the Lord. And I trust literally
for the rest of your lives. Would you please take your Bibles
tonight and open to the great book of 1 Peter. We're gonna
turn to 1 Peter 3 tonight, and I hope that God would use the
message to really inspire us, to exhort us that we would be,
as Peter tells these people to be, pilgrims and strangers in
the world. The apostle Peter is writing
this text of scripture to a group of scattered out believers. He
is probably writing from Rome to Christians that are scattered
out across Asia Minor. And according to chapter one,
verse one, to the strangers in these different cities, they
have been scattered and they have been dispersed, most probably
because of the persecution that they are facing. And really the
theme of this book is the theme of suffering. This was not necessarily
the typical suffering that the church would face where it was
literally an emperor or a king and the actual state and government
that was persecuting the church, but rather this was persecution
coming from all different sides and all different angles. And
so really the theme of the book is the theme of suffering. These
Christians were being ridiculed. They were suffering. They were
being persecuted because they were followers of Jesus Christ. And I believe the book of 1 Peter
reminds us that we must press on. We must not quit. And we
must be faithful to God even in a world that is pressing hard
against us. And there is great application
for us in the time period in which we live. I'm sure you are
aware that it is becoming harder and harder in our country and
in this society and the culture around us to be a born-again
Christian. The world is aggressively attacking
true Christianity. We are not just fighting against
the world. We are not just fighting against
the contemporary culture of our day. But even in the church,
the contemporary church of our day, there is great need for
real, true pilgrims and strangers to live for Jesus Christ. And
I believe in the book of 1 Peter, Peter reminds these people what
we need to be reminded of. We need to be faithful pilgrims.
You see, this world is not our home. We're just passing through.
We are going to a bigger and better place. Our citizenship
is in heaven. And the more you understand about
God, and the more you understand about our Savior, the Lord Jesus,
and being a true follower of Christ, you realize all of this
is just temporary. All of this earthly stuff will
pass away. But what is done for God and
what is done for the heavenlies will last forever. And the Scripture
reminds us of this over and over. That we should set our affection
on things above. Not on things of the earth. That
we are very foolish to be consumed with temporal things rather than
eternal things. And this, in essence, is a little
bit of the message of the book of 1 Peter. I believe if we were
to say there is a theme verse, it would be chapter 3, verse
14, where the Bible says this, 1 Peter 3, verse 14, but, and
if you suffer for righteousness sake, happy are ye. And be not afraid of their terror,
neither be troubled. How is it possible that in a
culture, in a society that is ridiculing us for our faith,
for being a follower of Jesus, how is it possible to actually
be happy? Listen, we are not dependent
on our circumstances for our joy. Joy comes in the riches
of God's grace. We've been singing about that
tonight in wonderful hymns. that remind us of what we have
in Jesus. We are clothed in His righteousness. In the song, Arise My Soul, Arise,
we have great confidence and boldness to come before the Lord
because of our salvation. And so it doesn't matter what
happens here. It doesn't matter who makes fun
of us. It doesn't matter what persecutions
we might face. We can rejoice in who our Savior
is. And so really this kind of gives
us the theme of the book. It's interesting that in chapter
four, verse 14, one chapter later in the same numbered verse, we
have another statement of that theme. Look at verse 14 of chapter
four. If ye be reproached for the name
of Christ, happy are ye. For the spirit of glory and of
God resteth upon you. On their part, he is evil spoken
of, but on your part, he is glorified. I find that in our culture today,
in the church today, there are many people looking for a life
of ease, a life of comfort, a life with no trouble. And yet Jesus, our Lord, didn't
even have a place to lay His head. Are we any greater than
our Master? We are going to suffer. We will
face persecution. And yet Peter writes this beautiful,
wonderful book to a group of persecuted, scattered believers
to tell them, don't quit, be faithful, press against the flow
of the culture. I don't know how many of you
have ever had the chance of going rafting. Whitewater rafting is
to some a very extreme event. But actually, if you're going
to go down a raging river, the easiest way is on a raft. It's
really not that extreme. It's the best way and the easiest
way to ride the current of the river. Working at the Wilds Camp
and going to other places around the country, I've had the chance
to raft often. And it's really a pretty awesome
event. You sit in that raft. It's basically a blown up air
cushion. And you are basically supposed to just paddle when
you're told to paddle. Usually, there's someone in the
raft that knows what they're doing. They're called the guide.
I've found that sometimes the guide needs a guide. I've been
rafting, and the guide was the first one to go out. What do
you do when your guide is in the river and you're pulling
him in? It's really pretty simple. Kind of lock your leg in there,
paddle when you're told to paddle, stop paddling, and when you're
in a flat area, splash the other rafts. It's really pretty fun,
isn't it? It's an easy way to ride down
the river. Oh yes, you may go over some
class four or five rapids and somebody might pop out here or
there, but it's really the most comfortable way to go down a
raging river. But if you've ever rafted as
I have, I've noticed that there are some people in the river
who are not taking the comfortable ride. These people are called
kayakers. I'm sure there are some of you
out there who have tried this. I would say this is quite the
extreme event. You are by yourself in a very
small a simple boat, a kayak, it has a hole in the top, you
get yourself in there, I don't know how anybody even fits in
that little boat, and you paddle against the flow of the current. As I've talked to some people
who would be what I would call extreme kayakers, they actually
told me it is definitely the case that kayakers don't want
to go down the river, they want to go up the river. They actually
paddle against the current. They actually often go up small
rapids and small waterfalls. That's what they love to do.
And you know what? If you ever see a kayaker, they're
not coasting. They're paddling as hard as they
possibly can. You know, I've often thought
that that is a little bit what it's like to be a child of God,
a disciple of Jesus, a true believer in this world. We gotta be a
little bit like that kayaker that is aggressively opposing
the current of the culture, the spirit of the age. And I believe
one of the best things about this university, one of the best
things about training here is that we are training a whole
army of Christian soldiers, pilgrims, and strangers who can go out
into the world and be in the world but not of the world and
make a difference for Jesus Christ. And I believe Peter instructs
us in this passage about how we, as God's pilgrims, can go
against the flow of the current of this culture. I'm sure if
you were to talk to your pastors, if you were to talk to a number
of staff members, faculty here at the university, we could all
tell you testimonies of young people who are being swept away
by the current of the culture. The stories could be told all
night long of individuals, and sometimes families, and even
entire ministries, and sometimes entire denominations are being
swept away into the current of this age. And God is calling
us to come out from the world. God is calling us to be set apart
from the world. And so this is the theme, one
of the themes of the book of 1 Peter. And I believe he gives
us some powerful truth in chapter three. Notice chapter three,
starting in verse 15. We see the theme in verse 14
and he transitions and probably referring to a text in Isaiah
chapter eight in verse 13, where the Bible says, but sanctify
the Lord of hosts and let him be your fear and let him be your
dread. The apostle Peter gives us a
powerful command to help us to go against the flow. If we're
gonna go against the flow, here's the first command. Here's the
first truth that we must apply to our lives. He says in verse
15, but sanctify the Lord God in your hearts. Peter uses the
same word that we would translate in the New Testament for holiness. It's a word that is also used
in chapter one when he says, be ye holy for I am holy. Here we have it in the form of
an imperative. Here we have it in a command
to us that we would be set apart and specifically that we would
be setting a person apart. that we'd be making God, and
specifically Jesus, we would make Jesus the Lord of our life. In the oldest text of the New
Testament, the words that are used here are the words Lord
and Christ. In the King James it's translated,
but sanctify the Lord God in your hearts. Only one of them
has the definite article with it. Sanctify the Lord or Christ
as the Lord of your life. So the idea here is to make Jesus,
Christ is the word used here, make Christ the Lord of your
life. Make him special. He ought to
be special. For he is the one who has saved
us and he is the one who is also sanctifying us. Make him sanctified
in your life. So the first command here is
declare Jesus, declare him as the Lord of your life. You know, many years ago when
I became an evangelist, I thought to myself that I need to have
a list of sermons on all of the cultural issues. wanna preach
on entertainment, wanna preach on appearance, wanna preach on
music, wanna preach on all of these different cultural issues.
And I think those issues of culture are very important to talk about,
but I started to realize that I was missing the most important
thing. And the reason why we struggle
in areas of culture and the reason why we're pulled into the world
so often is because we are not fully surrendered to the Lord. Make Christ the Lord of your
life. I think you would all agree with
me that at the moment you get saved, You must believe in the
Lord Jesus Christ. The word Lord meaning master.
The word Jesus meaning Savior. The word Christ meaning the promised
one, the Messiah. And so each of those names of
our Savior are very important. And so in some sense, the moment
we get saved, he becomes our Lord. And yet that clearly does
not mean that the very day we get saved, the moment we receive
Christ, we're born into God's family, that we understand all
the implications of what that means for our lives. And this
is why every day we need to examine our hearts and every day we need
to ask ourselves this question, am I fully yielded? Am I fully
surrendered? Is God really, and is Jesus really
the focus of my life? Really, as you come to chapel
each day and each week, as you hear the Word of God preached
from this platform, the goal is that you would love Jesus.
That you would make Him the Lord of your life. You see, when someone
is special, when someone is set apart in our lives, we long to
be with them. I have a very special person
in my life. Some of you are getting close to that moment where you
are gonna either be engaged or get married. I sure hope you
would say that about your spouse, your fiance, your future spouse,
that she or he is a set apart, sanctified person in your heart.
My wife is the only woman in my life that I love. I am a one
woman man. That's the way every man ought
to be. My wife is special. I don't care if you see me hold
her hand walking across campus. I don't care if you see me give
her a hug. I don't care if you hear me say I love you to her.
She is the most special woman in my life. And because of that,
I love to spend time with her. Now, wouldn't it be foolish for
us guys to tell our special lady that we love her and then we
never spend time with her? I don't think they would believe
you guys. They really wouldn't believe you. You see, if she's
really special, then you long to spend time with her. Can I
just say, To all of you as college students, if God is really special,
if Jesus is really special, then don't forsake spending time with
him. I am fully aware that in the
college schedule, you are incredibly busy. You jumped right in today
to a full schedule of classes, and even the rest of this week,
you're gonna start to gather how quickly your life is gonna
be packed in, how quickly your schedule's gonna be full, and
it will be so easy to go day in and day out and forget about
the Lord. He's your master, He's your Lord.
Are you gonna spend time with Him? Not only do I spend time
with someone who's special, but I sacrifice for them. I serve
them. I'm willing to do almost anything
to make sure my wife knows I love her. I will sacrifice. I'll spend
money. I'll buy gifts for her. I will
take her to nice places. I love to do that because she
is a set-apart person. And I just want to encourage
you as you jump into school that you would not forget about serving
your master. I do believe this, training for
ministry is a part of ministry. But while you are training here,
do not forsake a local church. Do not forsake getting involved
in ministry. Do not forsake pouring yourself
out for the sake of the gospel, for the sake of His name. And
I believe those who are gonna be stable and secure in the current
of this culture, Those who are not gonna be swept away are those
who have placed Jesus as the Lord in their life. Sanctify the Lord God. And notice what it says. It tells
us the person of the sanctification and it tells us the place of
it. Sanctify the Lord God where? In your heart. Now I want to
hasten to say, I do not believe at all that Peter is saying that
it doesn't matter what we do on the outside. I think it is
assumed in this text and even insinuated in this text and throughout
the book of 1 Peter, that the way you believe about Jesus affects
your behavior for Jesus. And that if it's in your heart,
it will come out of your life. But what we know is this, Proverbs
4.23 says, keep thy heart with all diligence for out of it are
the issues of life. And so yes, we live for God from
the inside out. Oh, it's possible for you to
do all the external deeds of righteousness here, to obey all
the rules, obey all the standards and not have a right heart. But
it is not possible for you to have a real heart for God where
he is on the throne. without proving it with the actions
of your life. Sanctify God in your heart. Why? Because we are pilgrims.
We are pilgrims and strangers in this world and he deserves
our full surrender. So I admonish you tonight, I
exhort you tonight to check up on your heart and your life.
Have you come to a place in your life where Jesus is set apart? He is set apart as the Lord in
your heart. I will warn you. If other things
become idols in your life, if God and Christ gets pushed out
of your life, and sports reign, or riches reign, or pleasure
of other people, or relationships reign, and other things push
God out of your life, I will warn you, you are a prime candidate
to be swept away into the current of the age. For those who are
strong and stable and secure in the ridicule and persecution
are those who know who their Lord is. Those who know in whom
they have believed. And He is set apart in their
hearts. And so Peter tells us the first
way to be like that kayaker, the first way to go against the
flow, is to declare Him the Lord of our life. And I hope if you
have not done that, that you would check up and make sure
and put Him on the throne. He deserves to be there. He's
our Savior. But Peter moves on in verse 15
and he declares to us as he builds on this truth, And I think in
essence, he's saying one of the ways that we make him the Lord,
one of the ways we set him apart in our lives is by being prepared
to give an answer, by being ready always to give an answer to every
man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with
meekness and fear. It's interesting that the word
ready, the word prepared, is actually not a verb. And so in
the King James translation, we have a word in italics, which
is inserted to, and I think properly inserted to help us understand
the intention of the text. And that is that we would be
preparing ourselves to face the lies of the culture, that we
would be preparing ourselves to face the false religion by
having an apologetic defense. He uses the word apologia. This
is a defense. Sometimes the word would have
been used in the courtroom setting in a legal sense, but in this
sense, he is talking about the multitude of different questions
that could come to these Christians. Remember, their persecution was
coming from a myriad of different places, and there would be a
myriad and multitude of different questions that would come their
way, and they need to be ready to have a defense, a reasoned
defense for their faith. And so number one, we ought to
defend him or declare him as Lord. Number two, we ought to
defend him as Lord. We must be prepared with the
truth. Now, I'm very concerned that
there are a lot of young people being swept away into false teaching,
into worldliness, because they really don't know why they believe
what they believe. You see, it's not enough to just
say the theology and talk about the doctrine. We must be firmly
convinced, we must be confident that it is true because doubting
Christians are drifting Christians. And I believe we ought to be
firm and solid with not only our theology, but also our practice. We ought to evaluate all the
things that are happening in our life and have a reasoned
answer, a reasoned defense for our faith. Can I tell you, college
students, if this is gonna happen in our lives, if this is gonna
happen in your life, it takes some serious time and some serious
intensity. Because the word of God gives
us the defense. The word of God helps us to see
that really, truly Christianity is the most logical, reasonable
thing anyone could ever believe. Oh, I'm fully aware there is
a limit to apologetics. Not everything can be proven.
And yet I do believe that Christianity is the most reasonable faith
anyone could ever trust in. If you could prove it all, then
it wouldn't be true faith. But I believe faith is based
on evidence. There's great evidence for what
we believe. And so he tells us here that we ought to be ready
to give an answer. Listen, maybe it's time we set
aside our devices, and we turn off the TV, and we stop entertaining
ourselves, and we get into the Word of God. So we know how to
answer. So we know how to face The problems
in the false philosophies of the world. Listen, it's not just
the world that is full of false philosophies. Do you realize
that the church today is full of false philosophies? Are you
aware that pragmatism is reigning in the church? The end justifies
the means. Let's just do whatever we need
to do in order to get more people. That's a false philosophy. We
need to have a reasoned defense. We need to know where we stand.
We need to know what we believe. Materialism is brought into the
church, the love of money. Postmodernism is in the church,
which is the idea that really there is no truth and truth is
relative. And that's a simple idea of some
of what postmodernism would teach. Hedonism is in the church. And
these are all false philosophies of the world that are being propagated
in our society and that are plaguing us and bombarding us every day.
And I haven't even mentioned false religions, cults, and false
philosophies. There are so many lies, so many
things that are out there to deceive you and to suck you in
and to pull you in and to get you to really be a lover of the
world and not a pilgrim and a stranger. We must be students of doctrine,
students of theology. We need to know what we believe
and why we believe it. A few years ago I was flying
out to California. Maybe we have some students here
from California. I love visiting California. It's
one of my favorite states because it's one of the most beautiful
places to visit. You can literally be up in the
mountains. and literally possibly even skiing in the mountains
one day and drive just a few hours away and be at the ocean
walking in the sand and even some nice weather. It's really
an awesome state. They got the big trees, the giant
trees, the tall trees. It's an awesome state. I love
going out there. This particular trip, I was going
out to visit several churches to preach in different places.
And I remember on this particular trip, I sat by several people
on the airplane which really kind of summarized for me some
of the philosophies and teachings that are very prevalent in the
world today. I don't know if you've ever had
a conversation with someone on an airplane, but they are a captive
audience, right? I remember I got on the airplane
in Kansas City, Missouri. I was flying through Salt Lake
out to San Francisco, and on the first plane, I sat down by
this lady. She was probably in her mid-70s. I immediately started
talking to her. As you can tell, I like to talk.
I was talking to this lady, I was introducing myself, I was asking
about her life, and she said, what do you do? I said, I'm a
preacher. I'm a Bible preacher. I'm a Baptist
preacher. And she said, really? That's
usually the response you get when you tell them that you're
a preacher. And she turned to me and she said, well, I'm a
Catholic. She said, I've been a Catholic
for 40 years. And then she got a real serious look on her face
and she said this. This is her exact statement.
I said, ma'am, I would love to. Would you mind if I took the
entire trip? And you know what? She actually
listened to me. We had a great conversation.
I opened my Bible and I tried to show her some of the truth
of the Word of God that would really contradict the doctrines
that are taught, the official doctrines of the Catholic Church.
And the main one is that they teach that the sacraments are
a means of grace. You know, it is interesting that
they talk about so many things in the Catholic Church that are
nowhere mentioned in the Bible. Purgatory, transubstantiation,
confession to priests, and so many things. Praying to Mary.
And yet the main problem they have is their teaching on justification. They teach that the sacraments
are a means of grace. And so I turned to Ephesians
2, 8 and 9, and I said, look what the Bible says, for by grace
do you say through faith and not of yourselves, it is the
gift of God, not of works, lest any man should boast. You know,
while I was saying those verses, while I was talking to her, she
was nodding her head like this. It was almost like she was agreeing
with everything that I said. You know what I learned? I learned
what I've learned when I've talked to many Catholics. Many of them
don't even know what their church teaches. Let's not be so hard
on the Catholics. There's a lot of Baptists, there's
a lot of Christians who don't know what their church teaches.
They don't know what they really believe. You know, the point
that I'm making is not that we had a glorious conversion there
and that she got saved. I'm just saying that when she
asked questions about my faith, then I was ready to give an answer.
You know, religion doesn't save anyone. It's a relationship with
Jesus that saves you, not religion. And if you don't have a relationship
with Christ, you cannot possibly be saved. I got off that airplane
after talking to her for about an hour on that trip, and I stepped
onto the next airplane, and I sat down by a college exchange student
from Pakistan. Guess what religion she was from?
You got it, she was a Muslim. Hey, college students, today
we better be ready to give an answer. We better be ready to
talk about Islam. Do you know anything about it?
I think you ought to know a little bit about the false teaching
and you need to know a whole lot about the truth. You need
to know a little bit about the history of how the faith, the
religion started. You know a little bit about the
prophet Muhammad. You need to know a little bit
about some of the terms that they use, but you need to know
exactly what the Bible says. You know, there are still some
people who are confused. They think that you can really
follow Muhammad or Jesus and you're fine by following either
one. And yet the scripture says, neither
is there salvation in any other than the name of Jesus. Muhammad is a false prophet.
Jesus is King of kings and Lord of lords. And so I tried to kindly
and humbly help her to see That she was believing in a false
religion. That Allah is not the true God, but Jehovah is. That
Muhammad is not the true prophet, but Jesus Christ is. That the
Quran is not God's book, but that the word of God is God's
book. You know what I learned very
quickly? That young college student, probably about 20 years of age,
was very well versed in Islam. Can I tell you something? One
thing we can learn from the Islamic world is they train their young
people how to defend their faith. She had an answer. She had a
reason. She had something from the Quran she would say on almost
every question I asked her. And she was very strong in her
faith. I thought to myself as I was
talking to her, I wonder how many college students in our
Christian universities would be so well-versed that if somebody
was confronting them and bringing up all the challenging questions,
they would have an answer. We need to know what we believe
and why we believe it. And again, the point is not that
she got saved. I presented her the gospel. I
tried to help her to see that Jesus was the only way, She was
very firm that her faith was true and real. And this is why
many of them will even die for their faith. They really believe
it's true. That's sad, isn't it? It's false
religion. We need to be ready to talk. We need to be ready
to give an answer, a reasoned defense. It's amazing. I got on the plane coming back
and I sat by a lady who was a scientist. Guess what she wanted to talk
about? As soon as she found out I was a Christian, She said these
words, now, you're not one of those people. I knew where she
was going. Now you're not one of those people
that actually believes that God created the world in six literal
days. I said, yes, ma'am, I am. I absolutely
believe the first verse of the Bible. You know, if you can't
believe the first verse of the Bible, how can you believe any
of it? In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.
You know, whether you are gonna believe in evolution or whether
you're gonna believe in creation, either one is a step of faith
because nobody was an eyewitness. It's not observable. It's one
of the most frustrating things for creationists, for those of
us that believe the Bible, is that evolutionists present theirs
as a fact, and then they try to push ours away as a fallacy,
as folly, when really, whether you believe evolution or creation,
you are taking a step of faith. Which one's more reasonable?
I believe design demands a designer. and look at the design of the
world, look at the design of the human body, look at the design
of everything that God has created. And that design demands someone
who designed it. And this is the most amazing
truth and really foundational to what we believe for we are
created by God in his image and yet we have fallen, we are sinners
and Adam sinned and so we have sinned and though Adam passed
us his sin, the second Adam, Jesus gives us his salvation.
And so really the bedrock of our faith is that God created
us in his image for his glory and yet we need help to get back
into his image. We need help to get back into
his glory. And so it's very important that
we know how to talk to an evolutionist and that we are firm in our faith
that God tells us how we got here. He created us. These are just a few of the issues.
And I could go on and on and on. I remember one time I talked
to somebody who claimed that they were an open thinker. Have
you ever talked to somebody like this? They are an open thinker. They're really open to anything
except when you tell them this is the only way. You may talk
to an atheist. You may talk to a Buddhist. You
may talk to someone from a different type of false religion. It is
so important that we are grounded in our faith because the world's
philosophies and the world's false religions are pulling on
us and challenging us in our faith. And this is one of the
great things about being in an intense place of study where
you're hearing the Word of God. This is why I think you have
made the best choice to come to a Christian college where
you can be trained in a biblical worldview so that you can go
out into this world and be a pilgrim and a stranger who defends Him
as the Lord. So he tells us that we are to
be ready to give an answer, to give an apologetic, reasonable
defense of our faith. This demands great study and
intensity so that we can know what we believe. Can I ask you
a question? Are you believing it because
your parents taught it to you? Are you believing it because
you came from a Christian school? Are you believing it because
you grew up in a church? Are you believing it because
you are just a student here? Are you convinced and confident
that what you believe is true? One of my favorite verses in
the Bible is a verse that I see every time I drive away from
one of my favorite places in America, the Wilds Camp. If you've
ever been there, you leave the camp, and on the back of the
camp sign is one of my favorite verses. 2 Timothy 3, 14, where
the Bible says, but continue thou in the things which thou
hast learned and has been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast
learned them. And one of the greatest statements
in that verse is something that often we don't even mention,
and it's that little phrase that says, and has been assured of. Can I tell you something? If
you are confident that what you believe is absolutely the truth,
then you will never forsake it. Doubting Christians are drifting
Christians. Maybe you're someone who is struggling
through some of these questions. Maybe you're already questioning
your faith. Maybe there are some things that
you really need to dig down deep and find the answers to. There
are good answers. And we need to be ready to give
an answer. to everyone that asks us the
hope that is in us. And notice how he tells us to
do this. Look at the end of verse 15. This is the attitude that
we ought to have as we defend our faith. We ought to do it
with meekness and fear. We ought to be gracious. We ought
to be kind. And most likely the word fear
means we ought to live in the fear of God as we defend our
faith. The Apostle Peter uses this word
fear, and most often he's referring to the fear of God. We ought
to do it with graciousness and reverence and awe of our God,
for we know he's our Lord and we know what he's taught us,
and we ought to be careful to say the words in the right disposition
so that we can reach people and stand for God, but don't ever
be swept away in the current of the culture. Many years ago, my dad taught
me this little formula that will help you and helped me to be
gracious and kind with the truth of the word of God. I think it's
really helpful to think of it this way. Conviction minus compassion
equals contention. You're gonna have conversations
like this even here at Bob Jones. where you'll have a significant
disagreement with someone. You believe what you believe.
You're telling them what you believe is the truth. You believe
you have good evidence for it. You're trying to be gracious
and kind. But then, there seems to be sometimes with a strong
intellectual position, a strong theology position, sometimes
there tends to be pride that comes along with that. It's one
of the biggest dangers of becoming an intellectual is that you become
proud and arrogant and you approach people with your convictions,
but you don't have compassion. Conviction minus compassion equals
contention. But then the second part of this
formula is this. Compassion, let's just love everybody, minus
conviction equals compromise. You see, the reality is it's
not enough to just love. We have to speak the truth. The
Scripture says we speak the truth in love. You have to have a good
balance. This takes a humble spirit and
an understanding of the truth of the Word of God to approach
people with the truth and to defend your faith, but to do
it with meekness, to do it with graciousness in fear of God. And then the last part of that
formula is really the formula for success, and that is conviction
plus compassion equals Christlikeness. That's the way Christ was. That's
the way we should be. It is not wrong to speak the
truth and to know what you believe and to speak it clearly and boldly,
but it is always wrong to create contention, to get angry, to
be bitter, to be ungracious, to be proud. Hold your truth. Hold your convictions with compassion
and you will be like Jesus. This is the way we ought to be.
Why? Because we need to be stable and secure so that we are not
drifting down the current of this age. We are pilgrims. We're on a journey. We're passing
through. And friendship with the world
is enmity with God. So be careful that you are that
pilgrim and stranger that God wants you to be. So he tells
us here, first, we need to declare him as Lord. Secondly, we need
to defend him as Lord. And then notice verse 16, he
says this, as he builds on this truth, make God special. And in a sense, he's saying,
by being ready always to give an answer, and as you are giving
that answer with meekness and fear, make sure you are doing
so with a good conscience, verse 16, having a good conscience
that whereas they speak evil of you as of evildoers, they
may be ashamed that falsely accuse your good conversation in Christ.
Number three, I think we ought to demonstrate Him as the Lord. We declare Him as Lord, we defend
Him as Lord, and we demonstrate Him as the Lord. You would all
agree with me that it is dishonest, it is disingenuous, it is totally
hypocritical for us to speak all the truth of Christianity,
for us to defend our faith and give a reasoned defense of our
faith and not prove it in our life and our lifestyle. And specifically,
he says here that in front of an unsaved world, even those
very people that are ridiculing us, those very people that persecute
us, in front of those people, we need to make sure that we
have a good conscience. Your conscience is that inward,
moral barometer that helps you to affirm those things that are
good and accuse you when you are doing wrong. That is the
conscience that needs to be trained and nurtured by the truth of
God. And the Scripture says in Acts
24 that we should even exercise our conscience to be void of
offense toward God and toward men. For the Scripture speaks
of searing our conscience and really ruining our conscience.
And maybe you're cold and calloused and you can sit through a message
and you can hear preaching and somebody can confront you about
sin and it doesn't bother you at all. Maybe your conscience
is seared. We will never demonstrate in
front of others a proper way of living, a proper Christianity,
unless we, first of all, from the inside out, we have a good
conscience. You know, probably in this auditorium
tonight, there are a lot of you who are covering up something
that needs to be dealt with in your life. Your conscience is
not clean. Maybe you've sinned against God
and others. Maybe there's a confession that
needs to be made. Maybe there's a cleansing that ought to occur
tonight because of something you're involved in, something
you have done, and your conscience is accusing you of the wrong
that you have done. You need a good conscience. Why
is this so important? Because as you approach people
that are persecuting you, and you speak the truth in love,
and you try to help them to see who Jesus is, there is great
peace and there is great confidence when your conscience is clean.
When you know you are right with God, and you know you are right
with others, and you just are trying to do what's right, and
you're just trying to please God. a good conscience. Maybe there's somebody that you
need to go to tonight that you've offended. Maybe there's a sin
that you need to deal with in your life. The Bible says in
Proverbs 28, 13, he that covereth his sins shall not prosper, but
he that confesseth it and forsaketh it shall find mercy. 1 John 1,
9, if we confess our sins, he's faithful and just to forgive
us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Aren't
you thankful tonight that God will clean your conscience? God
will forgive you. There is cleansing. There is
fellowship for you. You will never make it in this
culture if you are going to cover up and never deal with your conscience. A good conscience. Then he says
at the end of verse 16 that one of the ways we demonstrate is
not only with our conscience, that inner part of us, living
before God right, letting God do the work as we're trained
and nurtured by the words of God in the Bible. And our conscience
is being cleaned up and we're good before the Lord. Righteous
in His sight because of the righteousness of Christ and the sanctification
that's happening in our lives. But he tells us in v. 16, there's
something else that needs to occur. We need to have a good
conscience. But at the end of the verse, he says, we ought
to have a good conversation. This is the word that refers
to our conduct. We are to be holy in all manner
of conversation. And I just need to say tonight,
there is nothing that is out of bounds for us to examine in
our lives. Everything matters. Whatever we do, whether we eat
or drink, we do all to the glory of God. Yes, I agree, there are
some things that seem to be weightier matters. And there are other
things that maybe are not as important. But is there really
any choice that we make that refers to our life and our lifestyle
that doesn't matter? It all matters because God matters. It all matters because He's our
Lord. And we're pilgrims and strangers. And we're to be set
apart for His glory. Can I ask you, are you properly
evaluating everything that you are doing? The choices that you
make can either detract from God's glory or they can build
and lift up the glory of God. And so our conversation, our
conduct needs to be right before the Lord. And He says in this
verse that if you have a good conscience and you have a good
conversation, look what He says in the middle of the verse. He
says, they speak evil of you as of evildoers. They will be
ashamed. They may be ashamed that falsely
accused your good conversation in Christ. It's interesting that
this is actually most likely referring to a future time when
someday, even at the judgment, people will acknowledge that
you were living right before the Lord. They will acknowledge
the sincerity of your life. We've all heard people say this,
well, I'm not going to be a Christian and I'm not going to go to church
because there's way too many hypocrites. Well, by God's grace,
we will be real and sincere. We will make Him the Lord of
our life. We will defend Him with compassion and conviction.
We will defend Him and have an apologetic defense for our faith.
And in front of other people, we will just simply demonstrate
by keeping our heart and conscience clean and right before the Lord
and with others, and by living out a proper Christian lifestyle,
that we would be right before the Lord and that we would demonstrate
in the eyes of others what true Christianity is. Look at chapter
2, and I want you to see a parallel verse to this. A parallel verse
to chapter 3 and verse 16 is chapter 2 and verse 12. It's
interesting that this is actually the positive response of people
while they are living on the earth. In chapter 3 verse 16
is the negative response or the final response. They've waited
too long to respond and they will finally be ashamed. But
it's actually interesting in chapter 2 verse 12 that there's
a possibility that people will see your conversation, and as
he says in v. 12, they will give glory to God
in the day of visitation. Look at v. 12, having your conversation
honest among the Gentiles that whereas they speak against you
as evildoers, they may be by your good works which they shall
behold, Glorify God in the day of visitation. I believe this
is a reference to people who actually will get saved they
will actually see your life and hear your words and hear your
defense of the faith and It'll be proven by your life and your
lifestyle that you're genuine and they will be in heaven and
give God glory because of your sincere Christian faith And so
I exhort you tonight as pilgrims and strangers abstain from fleshly
lusts which war against your soul We are on a journey. This world is not our home. We
are going to a bigger and better place. Do not cling on to the
things of this world. Be willing to be different. Love not the world, neither the
things that are in the world. Oh, there's a great burden on
my heart because such potential in this room to go out into this
world and make a difference, but you can't make a difference
unless you're different. You can't change the essence
of the world if you add more of the same. You are God's child. You are a pilgrim. You're on
a journey. Put Him on the throne. Declare
Him the Lord of your life. Give a ready defense. Defend
Him as the Lord with meekness and fear. Demonstrate Him as
the Lord. Many years ago, when I graduated
from high school, I graduated with a young man who, at least
at the time, claimed to be a true believer. Shortly after graduation,
he enrolled in a secular university and studied philosophy, and immediately
his heart was being pulled away by the false teachings of the
world. He was one of those guys that loved to talk about theology
in high school. He asked all the questions to the Bible teachers,
and yet there was really never a genuine, true faith in his
heart. He got swept into the culture.
Do you realize that after he graduated from that school of
philosophy, he enrolled in a German seminary? If you know anything
about German theologians, most often they're not very conservative.
And he actually was trained in theology. He now has a PhD in
Old Testament, and he is literally an atheist, humanist, evolutionist. He is basically teaching the
Bible today as a literary book, but definitely not the Word of
God. He got swept away. That's an
extreme example of, I believe, a true unbeliever. You never
really trusted in the Lord. And yet those stories could be
told of so many who have had every privilege, who have had
all the teaching, who have heard the truth, and yet they are consistently
being pulled into the ways of the world. Listen, we're not
supposed to be riding the comfort following all the fads and fashions
of the world. We are God's people on a mission. We are pilgrims and strangers.
We're like that kayaker going against the flow. It's not a
good thing to fit in and flirt with the world. It's not a good
thing to follow all the ways of the world. That's not a good
thing. I encourage you tonight to examine your life. Are you
a genuine pilgrim? Are you saved? And if you are
saved, is He set apart? Is He the Lord? Have you declared
Him? Full surrender. Put Him on the
throne. Are you giving a defense? Are
you ready to defend your faith? Maybe some of you tonight, you
just need to pray that God would teach you and train you to know
more about your faith. To know more about how to defend
your faith. And really, one of the great
things about being here is so many helpful resources. Faculty,
and books, and lessons that you'll be learning while you're here.
Maybe some of you tonight need to confess something that's on
your conscience. Something that's in your conduct that is really
not befitting a pilgrim. And I encourage you to take the admonition
that Peter gives here in this text. Sanctify the Lord God in
your heart and be ready always to give an answer. And demonstrate
in front of this world that you are a follower of Jesus Christ. Let's go against the flow. Let's
be who God wants us to be. Would you bow your heads and
close your eyes? Father, tonight we thank you for this clear text
of scripture. We do feel the pressure, the pressure to conform to the
world, the pressure to compromise our values. God, we acknowledge to you tonight
that we desperately need wisdom from above. We need discernment. God, I pray that you would give
us wisdom to know where we can change and where we should change
and where we should never change. God, help us not to compromise
truth, principles of your word. I pray that we would be careful
to be your people, pilgrims and strangers in this world. Lord,
I pray that you would grip our hearts tonight. Pray that you
would confront and convict young people here tonight, college
students, adults, faculty, staff, Christians in this room, that
you would convict of sin, convict of a seared conscience, convict
of laziness to know our faith and defend our faith, convict
us of a lack of surrender to you, And I pray that we will be your
people in this world.
Going Against the Flow
| Sermon ID | 11416958610 |
| Duration | 56:53 |
| Date | |
| Category | Special Meeting |
| Bible Text | 1 Peter 3 |
| Language | English |
© Copyright
2026 SermonAudio.