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Happy Tuesday to everyone. We've
got a good number gathered together online here. Glad to see all
of you. It's great to see so many chiming
in on the chat box and greeting one another on this beautiful
morning here in Arizona. wherever you may be or whenever
you may be listening to this. We're glad that we're able to
share together in an hour of Bible study. We've got a single
topic that we're going to be looking at this morning. I mentioned
in our update earlier today that we're going to be looking at
how to discipline our thought life as Christians. We're going
to be thinking specifically about how to kind of control the more
random things that go on in our minds. And surely this is something
that all of us would be able to relate to or confess that
we struggle with. Maybe those that do not struggle
with it do so because they don't realize the need to struggle
in this area. And I want to begin by kind of
setting the table, helping us think biblically about our responsibility
with regard to our thought life. and then offer some categorizations
for the types of things that we think about. And then I hope
some practical ways in order to discipline our mind. Now,
I do want to say before we get very far into our session today,
that we're going to be thinking particularly about how to discipline
our minds in kind of productive, God-honoring ways. And yet this
topic is so large that there are a number of different applications
that we could make of it that I'm not going to have time to
delve into today. I'm thinking particularly about
the ways that this topic relates to depression, to kind of chronic
discouragement, even despair. We could relate this to struggles
with assurance. We could relate this to anxiety
over external circumstances in our lives, whether they're personal
circumstances or more global or national situations that cause
us fear and anxiety. I'm not going to really get into
those matters today, but I would commend this material to you
as a starting point for thinking about mental discipline in those
areas, because it's very, very important that we believe what
God says is true and that we speak what God says is true back
to ourselves. We need, in many of these cases,
regardless of the sin or the struggle that we're thinking
about, we need to stop listening to ourself and start preaching
God's truth to ourselves. Start preaching the gospel to
ourselves as our beloved brother and teacher, Jerry Bridges, taught
us to do. With that in mind, I just want
to acknowledge there's a lot more that could be said, needs
to be said about questions of depression, discouragement, anxiety,
but today we want to think just a little bit more broadly about
the principles involved in the mental discipline of the believer,
and then ways maybe to constructively work toward a more disciplined
thought life. So that's where we're going.
God willing to allow us strength for the hour. Let's go ahead
and bow and ask his blessing and prayer, and then we'll get
right into our study together. Gracious God and Father, thank
you so much for the blessing of this morning, for the opportunity
to meet together online, to record this teaching, O Lord, that we
hope and pray will be useful to others of your saints in days
and weeks to come. We're grateful, Father, for every
occasion that we are able to open the scriptures. And we pray
this day as we do so, that your spirit would open our minds and
our hearts, Lord, that we would not be calloused, that we would
not be uncaring. but that we would be sensitive
to your word, that we would be eager to know, that we would
be diligent to believe and to do what you teach. Oh, God, we're
talking today about a difficult matter, how to discipline the
thoughts of our heart. And we pray, God, that you would
bless us in this endeavor, that you would help us, that we might
glorify you in our heart and in our minds. Oh God, we thank
you for Jesus, our Savior, whose life and death and resurrection,
whose continual intercession as our prophet, priest, and king
is our comfort and joy. Please forgive our sins, strengthen
us in all that is good, and bless us this day, we pray in Jesus,
our Savior's name. Amen. Now this question that
we're gonna be looking at today actually came in maybe two or
three months ago. It's been in the queue for a
long time and it's one that I've wanted to talk about for a long
time and yet it just continually got postponed with other things.
Some things that I felt were more urgent and we wanted to
get to the point where we could do this topic justice. I don't
know that we'll do it justice today but we're gonna try and
do at least an adequate treatment of it, an adequate job with regard
to the conversation. So here's the question as it
was sent in, slightly adapted. The writer says, I am wondering
about how best to fight against thought sins. An easy and specific
example might be those days in church where my mind seems to
wander frantically all over the place. But of course, these thought
sins are everywhere. Jealousy, anger, lust, pride,
et cetera. I hear plenty of practical discussion
about how to fight against sinful physical acts, such as removing
internet access on your phone to resist pornography, but very
little practical advice about how to resist the sins of the
mind. I really appreciate this question
because I do think that many of the things that we struggle
against We address them in terms of practical sanctification,
almost as if there is an external habit change that can really
help us to overcome these issues. And that is not the case. You think about the examples
that the questioner gave, anger, jealousy, lust, bitterness, things
of this nature. A lot of times the solutions
or suggestions that are made for dealing with these problems
are like putting a Band-Aid on cancer. Yes, if a man is struggling,
for instance, with the sin of lust, having adulterous thoughts,
he's viewing pornography, sure, there are some practical steps
he can take to make that more difficult to access. But recognize
it's only making it more difficult to access. There's nothing that
you can do short of duct taping a person to the wall. that will
prevent them from accessing pornography because it is ubiquitous in the
world that we live in. So sure, getting rid of your
smartphone, getting rid of your home cable connection, putting
safeguards and software controls on your internet usage, all of
these can be useful things and we use them in working with men
in our own congregation. But the reality is you could
have no access to pornography in any form, and you could still
be struggling with lust because the issue is in the heart. It's
in the mind. And I'll remind you of something
we've said before. You may have heard me in the
prayer talking about the thoughts of the heart. You may say, oh,
Pastor, don't you mean the thoughts of the mind? Well, In most contexts,
heart and mind in scripture are interchangeable. They're speaking
about the inner part of man, the inner being, where we think,
where we feel, where we will to do whatever it is that we
do. Now, sometimes heart and mind are used in ways that create
subtle distinctions. For instance, when Jesus says,
you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul,
strength, and mind, When the two terms are set in parallel
or in a list like that, maybe then we would say the heart might
speak more of the emotional side, the mind might speak more of
the rational side, but understand that in neither case are we thinking
about the brain as the mind or the blood pump as the heart.
This is not a biblical way of thinking about heart and mind.
The heart and mind of man are the inner part of man. And this
is really where our struggles with sin lie. It's the heart
that is deceitful and desperately wicked. It is out of the heart
that man speaks and acts. And ultimately, the reason that
I struggle with sin is because on some level, sin is appealing
to my heart. If it wasn't appealing to me,
I would have no problems resisting it, right? I've never been tempted
to do certain things because they are disgusting to me, but
I'm profoundly ashamed of the sin that has tempted me and in
many cases overtaken me because on some level I find that appealing. So the issue with sanctification
is not merely to control external behaviors, as important as that
may be, as valuable a place as that may have in our walk with
Christ. The real issue in sanctification
is the work of God's Spirit upon the heart. And so when we think
about disciplining the mind, disciplining our thought life,
we need to see that this is a key issue in sanctification. You
cannot simply read your Bible more, pray more, or indulge your
lust less, and thereby be a holy person. The truth is you could
be entirely moral in your outward behavior, and be thoroughly corrupt
in your inner thought life. And so today we want to talk
about this issue of the difficulty and duty of disciplining our
minds and controlling our thoughts. Now some people do not realize
the difficulty of this because they don't think a lot. Now,
I don't mean that in a pejorative way, but the truth is, I say
a lot of people, probably not a lot of people, but a certain
number of people seem to just kind of coast through life without
ever turning their mind on. They never meaningfully engage
with the world in which they live. They're not thinking deep
thoughts. They're listening to their playlist
or they're surfing social media and they're just like moving
from one distraction to the next. They're watching cat videos on
Facebook and YouTube. And my apologies, if you like
cat videos, I'm not meaning to suggest that that's an immoral
thing, but I'm just saying that is the level at which they live
their life. That is, there's no substance
That's all that there is. And so maybe they don't think
about the difficulty of disciplining their thought life because they
don't really have much of a thought life. On the other hand, I think
there are a considerable number of Christians who believe, perhaps,
whether they would articulate it this way or not, they believe,
perhaps, that the difficulty of disciplining our thought life
means that we don't have a duty to do this. I think some people
look at this issue and they would say, that's impossible. I mean,
pastor, you can't control what goes on in your mind. You can't
control the dreams that you have at night. That's just a subconscious
rearrangement and interpretation of circumstances in your day.
Well, I grant that our thought life often seems to be undirected. But isn't that the whole point?
It's not supposed to be undirected. And yes, our dreams at night,
they are kind of bizarre sometimes, rearrangements and interpretations
of the circumstances of our day. But if we're feeding our heart
and our mind on things that are good, right, true, beautiful,
lovely, all of these things of God, well, Those are going to
be the things that most often pop up into our minds. Now, let
me hasten to say at the outset of this conversation, no one
does this adequately or even particularly well. No one does
it. But it was a conversation with
an uncle of mine when I was a fairly young teenager, as I recall,
early adolescence, that absolutely got me started thinking about
this issue, realizing I've never tried to discipline my mind.
I've never tried to control my thoughts. I've never tried to
put off and put on with regard to my mental life, my inner life. I've always thought about holiness
and sanctification as about my habits and not really about my
heart, but it is about my heart. And therefore it very much involves
how I think, what I think about and what I don't think about,
what I choose to repudiate in terms of my heart and my life.
Now, I wanna talk about for just a couple of minutes, the difficulty
of doing this and the duty, because I want us to be clear on the
fact that it is both difficult, i.e. impossible for man apart
from God, apart from grace, and impossible for even a regenerate
spirit indwelt man on this side of glory. It's impossible to
do this perfectly. And yet it is our responsibility
to pursue holiness even in our inner lives. Let me share a few
passages. Romans chapter 7. Surely you're
thinking of this one immediately when we think about the difficulty
of sanctification issues. Romans 7, beginning at verse
14, Paul says, we know that the law is spiritual, but I am carnal,
sold under sin. For what I am doing, I do not
understand. For what I will to do, that I
do not practice. But what I hate, that I do. Now, if Paul can say that about
his doing, how much more true is that of our thinking, of our
willing? Oh, I'm far more willing to think
of something in my mind or to desire something in my heart
than I am to actually go out and do it. There are all kinds
of things that we contemplate that if we were ever tempted
to physically act on that impulse, we would, I hope, rightfully
reject and repudiate such behavior. And yet, doesn't that behavior
first begin in the heart? Doesn't it first begin with the
desire that is distorted by our sin? Doesn't it first begin with
a thought that contemplates? Think about Eve and the original
sin in the Garden of Eden. When Eve saw that the fruit was
good, that it was pleasing to the eyes, that it was desirable
to make one wise, she's sitting there, standing there, looking
at the fruit, admiring it. looking at how appealing it is,
looking at how valuable it would appear to be. And it's not long
before she says, this makes sense, I'm gonna take the fruit. And
of course, disaster followed, but that's what happens. It's
the sin that begins in the heart. A man doesn't go to bed one night,
a faithful, strong, Orthodox believer, and wake up the next
morning and apostate. It doesn't happen that way. Apostasy
happens incrementally over time. One compromise leads to the next
compromise, which justifies the next compromise until one day
you wake up and you are far removed from where you once were. And
you're looking around and saying, how did I get here? I don't know. But
it was incrementally over time. Well, brothers and sisters, this
process begins in our heart, in our mind, in our inner life. And people who say, I could never
imagine cheating on my spouse, but it will happen as you begin
going down this road in your heart, in your mind, cherishing
lust, taking longer looks, contemplating possibilities. Oh, I would never
do that. Be careful because that inner
life is laying the foundation either for greater holiness or
more grievous sin. It begins in the heart and therefore
we have to address it at the level of the heart. Solomon says
in the book of Proverbs chapter 20 and verse 9, who can say I
have made my heart clean, I am pure from my sin. Isn't that
interesting? Who can claim to be sinless and
yet Solomon associates that with the purity of the heart? It's
not who can say, I've never outwardly broken these commandments. There
may be few people that could ever say that, but maybe there
would be someone like the rich young ruler who would come along
and say, teacher, I have kept these commands from my youth.
Well, it's probably not true, but at least in an external sort
of way, okay, maybe. Maybe you've sincerely tried
to obey the law of God, but who can say, I have kept my heart
clean. Who can truly say that? Nobody
can. It's a rhetorical question and
we need to realize the difficulty of this is really an impossibility
both for the unregenerate person as well as imperfection and impossibility
even for the regenerate believer. Proverbs chapter 27 and verse
19 says, as in water, face reflects face. So a man's heart reveals
the man. I want you to think about this
for a second. Let's say that we were one of
those churches that had a PowerPoint screen. Now we're not cool like
that. I know some churches in the OPC
have got PowerPoint screens and it is kind of cool, honestly. I served a lot of churches that
had PowerPoint and we came here and we don't have it anymore,
but we just have the hymnal. But let's say we've got a PowerPoint
screen up at the front of the sanctuary. And as you come in
on the Lord's day morning, As you walk through the narthex,
you pass through a scanner, and as you enter into the sanctuary,
that scanner has recorded all of your thoughts for the last
week, since the last Lord's Day when you were here, and it begins
scrolling those thoughts on the PowerPoint. I mean, none of us
could come to church. I mean, let's just, let's be
honest. None of us could ever come to church ever again. We
would have to stay home forever because every one of us would
be ashamed. We'd be appalled. We would be
looking around the room and saying, I'm not sure that anyone here
is a believer, but based on that, I'm sure that I'm not. It would
be terrifying. And yet what Solomon says is,
the heart is what reveals the man. It's not just how I live,
it's not just what I do. Oh, let's scroll on the PowerPoint. How many chapters of the Bible
I read this last week? How many verses I memorized?
How many prayers I prayed? How many good deeds I performed?
No, let's put the content of my heart on that PowerPoint screen. And, That'd be a terrible thing. It'd be a terrible thing. And
yet that heart reveals something about us. We say in the context
of biblical counseling, stress does not create or change character. Stress reveals and confirms it. You find out under pressure,
things about yourself that you didn't know were true and that
you wouldn't have believed were true unless the stress, the crisis
revealed it about you. So what's going on in our heart
is often very ugly. Now, don't hear me saying that
because what is in our heart is ugly and polluted and so imperfect
that therefore none of us are believers. That's not what I'm
saying at all. What I'm saying is if we were
to measure ourselves and see ourselves as God sees our hearts,
well, We'd have a lot more humility in the Christian life. We'd have
a much keener sense of our desperation, our desperate need for grace.
You see, I don't measure myself by my heart. I measure myself
by my outward actions and in relation to other people. And
the Bible says the man who does that is not wise. I'm supposed
to be looking at Christ. And I'm supposed to see the unbridgeable
gap between my polluted heart and the perfection and beauty
and glory of Christ and realize that only Christ can bridge that
gap. Only Jesus can come to me in
grace and mercy and rescue me where I am. I can never make
it to him because I'm not even close. I'm not even close. You
can't see Christ from where I'm sitting, but Christ can see me. The heart reveals the man, and
that should be a very sobering and humbling truth. Now, we continue. Matthew 5,
verse 22, Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount says, I say to you
that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall
be in danger of the judgment. Is it necessary to discipline
my thoughts? Yes. I can't help it that I get
angry. Yes, you can. And even if you
can't, you are still responsible for that anger. And Jesus says
there is a reason for anger. There is a righteous anger that
the believer not only can have, but should have. But whoever
is angry at his brother without a cause, without a just reason,
is guilty of a sin that God will judge. Now, Jesus can forgive
that sin, and he has for the believer, but it doesn't change
the fact that that's sinful. Do we need to discipline our
thoughts? Yes, yes, we have a duty to do so. And yet, who can say
that they do that well? Do you ever become angry without
a just reason? I sure do. I'm tired, I'm frustrated,
I'm stressed out, and then something makes me angry that doesn't merit
anger. The heart reveals man. I'm seeing
something about my own pollution and imperfection in those moments.
Later in the same chapter, Jesus says in verse 27, you've heard
that it was said to those of old, you shall not commit adultery.
But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for
her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. In his
heart, if he never acts on it. But in his mind, in his heart,
That thought has brought him into a state of guilt over adultery. What about the latter part of
Matthew chapter 6, where Jesus says, do not worry about your
life? How's that going for you? That's not an external sin that
someone can easily see. Maybe you can observe worry in
someone's life. You could see it in their face.
You could see it in their speech. But a lot of times, worry is
just in our hearts. And yet Jesus expects us to discipline ourselves
with regard to that, and yet how difficult is that? Solomon says in Proverbs chapter
4 and verse 23, keep your heart with all diligence, for out of
it spring the issues of life. Keep your heart with all diligence,
protect your heart, your mind, guard your thoughts. In Ephesians
chapter four and verse 31, let all bitterness, wrath, anger,
clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you with all malice. These are things that happen
in the heart. Bitterness, wrath, anger. This is about your thought
life. This is about your inner life. It's about your disposition toward
the Lord. Now, there's another passage
that is relevant at this point. It's in 2 Corinthians 10. And
some of you may have already thought about this. Now, I want
to acknowledge that the original context is not thinking so much
about the individual private thoughts, but rather ideas, doctrines,
arguments that are raised up against Christ and against the
Christian faith. But listen to this passage, 2
Corinthians 10, beginning at verse 3. For though we walk in
the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh. For the weapons
of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty in God, for pulling
down strongholds, casting down arguments, and every high thing
that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every
thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ. Now again,
that passage is more about theology, philosophy, ideologies, bringing
those thoughts into submission to Christ. But if I could argue
from the greater to the lesser here for just a moment, if that
is true, if what I believe about God, this world, myself, my sin,
if what I believe about those things is to be brought into
submission to Christ, Well then, what about all of the other things
that my thought life reveals I believe? Like, I believe that
I deserve to be able to indulge my lust without interference.
I believe that I deserve to hold resentment in my heart because
I have been truly aggrieved. I believe that I have the right
to be bitter because other people have mistreated me. I believe
that I have the right to be worried because my circumstances are
so far out of my control. What do my thoughts say about
my belief system? And shouldn't those thoughts
be brought into captivity? to the obedience of Christ. Well,
more that we could say there, but we press on. We need to make
some distinctions in terms of the kinds of thoughts that we
have, and I want to suggest five categories. Now, this is not
necessarily comprehensive. I hope it's sufficiently comprehensive. It's not exhaustive, maybe. And
it could be that you might combine or further divide or rename some
of these categories. But here are the categories I'm
going to use for our conversation today. I'm going to think about
this issue in terms of five types of thoughts. There are worshipful
thoughts. There are useful thoughts. There are harmless thoughts. There are pointless thoughts. And then there are perverse thoughts. So let's think about those five
categories for just a moment. Worshipful thoughts. What is
this? This is explicit adoration, thanksgiving, and communion with
the triune God. This is when my mind is actually
focused upon, deliberately engaged with God. And how much of our
time do we spend every day engaged in this way? Thinking about the
Lord, meditating on His word, meditating upon His mighty works,
wondering at Him, engaging Him with our minds. Now, you might
say, well, Pastor, I do kind of a daily devotion every morning.
I have a quiet time and I pray throughout my day and I read
a little scripture again before bed. And so in those moments,
I'm engaged with God. Praise God. Praise God. But we
realize that's probably not a lot of our day. But couldn't it be
more of our day? I mean, what am I thinking about
as I'm commuting? What am I thinking about as I'm
getting ready in the morning, showering, dressing, taking care
of just kind of starting my day? What am I engaged with at those
moments? Couldn't it be adoration? Thanksgiving,
supplication to God, that would be the category of worshipful
thoughts. The second category is useful
thoughts, and this is a profitable thought that, while not explicitly
worship, is still glorifying God. It is still productive. It is purposeful. And we might
say in the believer, it is glorifying God because God is pleased when
we, as image bearers, exercise dominion in this world and work
in productive ways. Even for an unbeliever, these
kind of thoughts can be useful. They're not worshipful. They're
not good works in the truest sense. And yet they're productive.
They're purposeful. This could be constructive work
mentally. about our family or the work
that we do or the world around us. We're exercising our duty
as image bearers to work for the glory of God in all things
and not just in the church. So when you are looking at your
family budget, that's a useful thought. Now, you could sinfully
worry about it, but that's a useful thought to say, I want to be
responsible as a steward of what God has given me. Or you're out
in your backyard with your wife and you're saying, you know,
we could put in some raised beds and we could grow some vegetables,
or we could have the kids plant some flowers, or we could do
this or that with the landscape. That's not pointless. That's
not harmless. That's useful. That's good. That's exercising dominion as
image bearers of God. When we're thinking about anything
related to working, learning, growing, engaging in meaningful
matters, we're in this category. And opportunities for this kind
of engagement ought to be sought out because too many people waste
their downtime. They read their Bibles and think
about their work when they're required to, but when they're
not required to, they're on social media, or they turn on the idiot
box, also known as the television, or just foolishness. You and
I need to be investing ourselves, our minds and our lives in useful
things. And that doesn't mean that every
free moment of every day has to be saying prayer or has to
be memorizing a passage of scripture. But it does mean we want to fill
our minds with useful activity. Learn a language, study music,
read good books, think deep thoughts. and exercise that, practice that. We'll have more to say about
that before we are done. The third category is harmless
thoughts. These are unproductive, but harmless. And harmless thoughts are kind
of like sweets. It's okay to eat sweets from time to time,
but too much of them or too often, that will be detrimental to you. Harmless thoughts don't serve
a specific purpose, but they're not contrary to truth, goodness,
or beauty in any way. And a lot of our relaxed thoughts
may fall into this category. I want my mind and my life to
be purposeful, But I realize that it's hard to be on all the
time in terms of productive thoughts. And so I can't say that harmless
thoughts are sinful. I can't say that just because
they don't serve a meaningful purpose, therefore they are evil
in some way. By the way, the line between
what is useful and what is harmless can be kind of blurry at times. Let me give you an example. Is
watching a movie with my children useful or harmless? Well, it could be either. It
could be useful because, after all, some films have value. They help us think about issues.
We like to watch important movies and then have productive conversations
about them. Okay, there's a place for that.
It's also useful to spend time with my children, with my wife. It's good for us to spend time
together as a family. Now, at what point does that
become unhelpful? Well, if the only time that I'm
spending with my children is spent in front of the television
watching a movie, that's not very good. Because when we're
watching a movie, we're not at that moment engaged in any kind
of conversation. We're not really encouraging
one another in any productive way. There may be a time and
a place where that's a good use of my time and of my thought
life. But then at the same time, if that is all that I'm doing
with them, that might not be very helpful And let's face it,
a lot of times, a person may be binge-watching Netflix or
something like that solely for their own entertainment. And
at that point, you've got to ask, what purpose does this serve?
Now, maybe at a level, it's harmless. But maybe at some point, it becomes
pointless, and I need to be concerned about that. A good goal to have
would be to reduce as much as possible the time you spend on
harmless thoughts, and to devote as much time as possible to useful
and worshipful engagement with your mind. Try to think about
something all the time. I realize you can't do that all
the time, but try. Try to have ideas. scripture, and different things
to meditate upon. We'll say more about that before
we finish. The fourth category of mental engagement are pointless
thoughts. Now this is thought that, while
not inherently immoral, is a waste of time and a waste of our mind. And this is when that harmless
thought life crosses into a serious Waste. A counterproductive waste. And waste is not good. Waste
is not pleasing to God. Waste is not glorifying to God. Because these pointless thoughts
not only fail to serve any purpose in themselves, they are taking
time away that I could engage my mind in more useful activities
and leading me down paths that rob me of strength and joy and
peace. Pointless thoughts create space
for doubt and disbelief. That's what they do. So when
I am just checked out, when I am just pointlessly wandering, disengaged,
then it should be no surprise that I find I have less joy.
less peace, more anxiety, more frustration, always feeling like
I'm behind, always feeling like the world around me is just falling
to pieces. It's because I am not feeding
upon truth. I'm not feeding upon the promises
of God. I'm not engaging with my God
in any kind of useful way. And what you find is that when
you begin engaging your mind, your heart, your life, in more
useful and worshipful endeavors, you feel a greater sense of peace,
a greater sense of transcendent joy, because you realize that
there's not this empty space. that all of the doubt and disbelief
and distress of the world around us can creep into. The main distinction that I make
between harmless and pointless is the amount of time that I
spend and the relative opportunity that I miss. So for example,
one of the ways that I do my office work, my creative work,
my writing, my study is I'll set a timer. I'll set a timer
usually for 25 minutes. It's the Pomodoro technique for
those of you who are curious. I'll set a timer for 25 minutes
and I won't touch my email. I won't touch my phone. I won't
surf anywhere on the web or at least try not to. All I will
do is just intensively work on whatever is in front of me. And
then after 25 minutes, the timer goes off and I get up and I stretch
and I do a set of pushups and I go get a drink of water. At
that time, I may check my email or I may have saved a short video
on YouTube on some topic that I'm interested in. And I'll I'll
watch that. And then after a few minutes of break, I'll go right
back to my work and I'll just keep that same cycle going. No,
there's nothing wrong with that. As far as I can tell, that little
bit of a break, kind of resting the mind, refreshing the mind
for a few minutes. You want to go look at something
in your email or on YouTube or whatever it is that you prefer.
Seems perfectly harmless to me. When does it become pointless
when I'm constantly living in my social media, or YouTube,
or email inbox, or constantly, you know, continuously feeding
myself on these things rather than engaging in things that
are good, important, and true? I should be doing something else.
And that's the point at which what is harmless becomes pointless. And at that point, I would say
sinful. And then the fifth category are
perverse thoughts. Now, these are thoughts that
explicitly transgress God's law. They pollute, they defile in
some way. And some people mistakenly think
that these kinds of thoughts are not sinful unless I act upon
them. But that's clearly not true.
I hope you see that in the passages that we read at the beginning
of our study today. Did Jesus ever have lust in his
heart? Did he ever have unrighteous
anger? Did he ever harbor resentment? No. No, and this is something
that people misunderstand. They say, well, I'm not guilty
of sin if I'm simply tempted. That's true, that's true. I'm
not responsible for temptations that come to me from outside. And I may not be guilty of sin
if a temptation suddenly pops into my heart or my mind. But
understand, Jesus never had that kind of temptation. Jesus was
tempted in all ways that we are, but not with regard to a sinful
nature. He doesn't have sin. He has righteousness. He has an original righteousness. And so he is tempted as we are
externally. But you and I, when we have temptation,
so to speak, arise within our hearts, that temptation is itself
a type of imperfection, or we might say sin. In other words,
if I have the desire to commit adultery, that's adultery of
a sort. Now, I can repudiate that. I
can repent of that. I can run from that. But you
and I need to see the difference there. It's one thing if the
devil comes and he presents to you a temptation externally.
There's nothing sinful or corrupting in that. I can simply throw up
my hand and say, get behind me, Satan. I'm not interested in
what you have to offer. But temptation arises from within
me because my heart is sinful, because my thoughts are defiled,
because my desires are distorted, and I have to mortify those inner
desires. that inner corruption, those
inner thoughts and desires, as well as the external behaviors
that may arise from it. This is being badly misunderstood
and in some cases seriously misused in conversation, for instance,
over same-sex attraction. in conversations over sexual
orientation, which is not even a biblical way to think about
sexual categories. Yes, a Christian may experience
same-sex attraction. Of course a regenerate person
can. In the same way that a regenerate person can experience attraction
to someone other than their spouse. But you need to realize that
that attraction is something that needs to be repented of.
Repented of and mortified. That it's not just the behavior,
it's the desire for sin that is itself a manifestation of
the sinful world in which we live. Thank God that when we
are in glory, when we are with Jesus, when we are in the new
heavens and earth, we will not have sinful desires ever arise
in our hearts. And I am longing for that day
and I hope and trust that you are as well. There may be a difference
between having a thought pop into my mind and immediately
repenting of and repudiating it. There may be a difference
between that and then allowing that unrighteous thought to remain.
But even that thought that pops into my mind is a reminder and
evidence of my lingering corruption. So temptation is not sin, but
distorted desires that also tempt us are sin. And we need to see
that. The scriptures are very clear.
I am responsible for my inner thought life, and even if I do
not act on my thoughts, undisciplined and unholy thoughts are sinful. And that's why, again, if we
if we put all our thoughts up on the screen on the Lord's day,
we might conclude, I must not be a believer after all. Well,
that's not true, Christian. Praise God for that. Thank God
that Jesus died not only to pardon you for all of the external behavioral
sins of which you and I have been guilty and will be guilty
before we go to meet the Lord in glory, but he also died to
redeem and forgive us for all of the inner sins of the heart,
of the mind, and of the life. All right, let's begin making
some practical suggestions. Here is a basic principle that
you need to think about. Maybe this could be the subject
of some meditation for you this week. It is easier to think about
something than not to think about something. If your approach to
inner discipline, mental discipline, the disciplining of the thought
life is to say, I'm not going to think about that whatever
it is that's making me angry or bitter or resentful or jealous
or lustful or whatever it may be. I'm not going to think about
that. Well, good luck with that. And I don't say good luck about
anything, right? But good luck with that because
that's not going to be very successful. It's incredibly hard, i.e. impossible, not to think about
something. It's much easier to think about
something. And so the way that we do this
is we replace and displace inappropriate thoughts, unholy thoughts. By
meditating upon the truth, by filling our minds with the things
of God, the key to a disciplined thought life is to fill your
mind with God-glorifying thoughts and not allow your mind merely
to wander. You have to remain mentally active
and not allow yourself to become passive. And this is the problem. A lot of people are mentally
passive. As we said, they're just kind
of going through life, moving from one cat video to another.
They think about God when they read their Bible. They think
about their work when they're doing widgets on the assembly
line. And outside of that, they are
not mentally engaged. And you can't be content with
that, Christian. You need to be mentally active,
deliberately engaged. Don't be content to simply exist. Be loving God with your mind. Now, this is not as difficult
as it may sound. It's not as difficult as it may seem at first
to be. You can learn how to do this
with time and with practice. And again, no one does it perfectly.
No one does it even particularly well. I certainly don't. But
this is the idea. Filling your mind with God-glorifying
thoughts, actively engaging your mental faculties in a way that
is productive and pleasing to the Lord. And this is exactly
what David prays in Psalm 19. And verse 14, he says, let the
words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in
your sight. The meditation of my heart. I
want that to be pleasing to God. I want that to be acceptable
to God. And that means I am responsible for controlling what I'm thinking
about. So let me give you several mental
strategies and tactics. I'm going to make six suggestions
here as we begin to wind this down. First, practice thinking
profitably and purposefully. Practice it. Now, when I say
practice, I don't just mean live. I mean, think about this like
practicing a free throw on the basketball court. Think about
this like practicing shooting at the range. Think about this
like practicing your scales when you're playing piano. Think about
this like practicing a language that you're trying to learn.
You are trying to learn how to think profitably and purposefully. And so what you do is you take
an idea, a passage from your morning Bible reading, an idea
from the sermon on Sunday, an idea or principle from Bible
studies like this one, And you take that idea and you chew on
it. You think about it. You ask questions
about it. You roll it around. You look
at it from all sides. You begin asking yourself, how
does this apply to me? What are the areas of my life
that this needs to influence? And what changes might need to
be made? Practice thinking profitably
and purposefully. Deliberately practice. Take a
walk with an idea. One of the things that's unfortunate
is that we live in such a noisy world today. I have these earbuds
in all the time. I'm either talking to someone
or listening to an audio book or listening to a sermon. If
I'm not engaged verbally with someone, I'm probably listening
to something unless I'm actively writing. And yet, where is the
time for quietness? Where's the time for solitude?
Now you may say, but pastor, I'm thinking as I'm listening
to that audio book, or I'm thinking as I'm listening to that music.
And I agree that there is a type of thought that happens there,
but there needs to be time where we turn the sound off. So take
a walk and leave your phone at home. Leave your phone turned off.
Don't put your buds in your ears. Take an idea with you and take
a walk and think about it for a while. Practice this. Writing is simply a way of thinking. This is a conversation for another
day, perhaps, but writing is just a way of thinking. You can
tell by the way that a person writes how they think. You can
also tell by the way some people write that they don't think or
at least don't think very well. Sit down with a journal, with
a notebook. And take that idea that you're
wanting to meditate upon from the sermon, from the Bible study,
from your scripture reading, and start working on it. Start
writing about it. Start talking to yourself about
it. Deliberately practice thinking
in profitable and purposeful ways. Secondly, actively meditate
on the word work and wonder of God. Now this is where the Psalms
help us so much. The Hebrew word for meditate
means to murmur to oneself. It means literally to talk to
yourself. And so whereas in most forms of Zen meditation, you
empty your mind, you do not have a focal point for your mind,
you deliberately disengage and are trying to shut down kind
of conscious thought, Biblical meditation is just the opposite.
It's filling the mind so completely with one idea that everything
else is washed out. And the Psalms help us meditate
on the word, work, and wonder of God. of God. Pray through
Psalm 119. Maybe make a habit of that once
a month or on a more regular basis to pray aloud through Psalm
119. You'll find that it's an extended
meditation on the Word of God. And the Psalms can help you learn
how to do this. This is why praying the Psalms,
reading the Psalms, singing the Psalms is so important. God's
Word there, we're meditating on the content of Scripture.
Think about it. Think about ideas about it. Talk
to yourself about it. Talk to God about it. Pray through
passages. Secondly, God's work. Reflect
upon what God has done historically in creation, in providence, in
redemption, but also personally in his providence in your life.
Meditate on that. Look at your life through the
lens of God's revelation and see how much more you see than
you might have perceived before. And God's wonder. Just meditating
on who God is. Forget about everything he's
done for you. Forget about what he's told you
to believe and to do for a moment. Just think about who he is. How
wonderful He is. Beautiful beyond description. Beyond description. And yet,
we have this need to describe Him and to praise Him, to honor
and adore Him. Actively meditate on that. There
is time every day to do this. You can do this driving your
car. You can do this while you're in the shower. You can do this
while you're between activities. You can multitask. You can wash
dishes and meditate in this way. Now, I'm not suggesting that
you neglect your spouse, that you neglect your kids, that you
neglect other important things that you have to do. And I'm
not suggesting that every moment of every day has to be a deliberate
exercise of worship I am suggesting every moment of every day ought
to be engaged as much as possible in something profitable. And
there's nothing more profitable than meditating on God, His Word,
and His works. Third, memorize scripture, memorize
confessions, memorize hymns, memorize prayers, Memorize content
that will help you in this meditation. Now you notice we're getting
more specific as we go. We began by saying practice active
thinking. Secondly, meditate on God and
his glory. And then third, how are we doing
this? By memorizing things that you
can then meditate upon. Memorizing things that you can
murmur to yourself. Where do we start with this?
How about memorizing all of the responses that we have in worship
every Lord's Day? The Gloria Patri, the doxology,
Glory be to God the Father that we open every Lord's Day evening
service with. How about the Nicene Creed? How
about the corporate prayer of confession that we use on the
second Lord's Day of every month? How about the 10 commandments
that we use on the first Lord's Day of every month? How about
memorizing some of the hymns that we enjoy singing? Now, the
truth is a lot of you already have a lot of these things already
memorized. Even if you've never tried to memorize them, we structure
the liturgy in the way that we do on purpose so that these ideas
become imprinted upon your heart. So that even if you've never
tried to memorize it, you probably haven't memorized. Or at least,
in large part, you haven't memorized. How do I meditate on God? If
you're not accustomed to this, you probably don't even know
where to begin. And so, begin with what you know. You know
Psalm 23? Then pray through Psalm 23 as
you recite it. You know the Nicene Creed? Then
think about every line of that creed as you recite it. you're familiar with great hymns
of the church, try praying them back to God and meditating upon
the significance of those words as you sing them softly, or not
so softly, to yourself. Fourth, Fill your life with God-glorifying
and profitable input. Now, I just talked about the
importance and value of silence for thinking profitably. Now,
let's talk about when you're living in a noisy world. What
kind of input do you want to seek out? How about sermons?
How about audiobooks? How about taking up reading projects
that are going to challenge you and stretch you? Don't just veg
out. Learn to relax in profitable
ways. I have to be honest. There are
some preachers that it is a guilty pleasure for me to listen to
them. And it's not guilty at all, right?
But for me to get to listen to them preach, I realized, oh,
I'm going to be in the car by myself. I could stick in my earbuds
and I can listen to this brother preach the Word of God. What
a joy. or to be able to listen to an
audio book. I've been listening to some great
audio books recently. I listen to a lot of audio books.
Why? Well, I'm traveling around constantly, visiting people,
counseling people, doing different things. I've tried reading in
the car, but you have to wait for a stoplight, and there aren't
enough stoplights anymore to get through large books, so I
put in an audio book. These can be ways of giving our
minds kind of nourishment, feeding our hearts on God glorifying
and profitable input. And it doesn't all have to be
works of theology. Again, maybe you can learn more
about history. Maybe you can learn more about
philosophy. Maybe you can learn more about the world in which
you live and ways that you can profitably live to the glory
of God. Fifth, seek opportunities to
learn, grow, and think. Besides prayer and spiritual
meditation and things of that nature, God is glorified when
we engage ourselves profitably. So learn a language, study music,
design a reading project. I mentioned that a moment ago.
Why don't you read through Calvin's Institutes next year? Why don't
you start this year? You know, there are reading plans
online to read through Calvin's Institutes and a lot of other
great theological literature. With just a few pages a day,
you can read through the entire work in the course of one year.
Why don't you do that alongside your Bible reading? You say,
take an entire year to read a great big thick theology book? Yeah,
absolutely. Why not? Seek out opportunities
to learn, to grow. It's going to stretch you. It's
going to challenge you. Learn a new skill. Don't just
plop down in front of the television. Don't just pull up social media
on your phone. Are those things sinful in themselves?
No, not in themselves. They're not sinful. But are they
profitable? Not very much. We can learn to
relax in more profitable ways. We can seek out opportunities
to grow and you'll find life more satisfying when you do so.
And finally, number six, fill up the empty spaces in your day. Fill them up with deliberate
contemplation. Again, we've talked about your
commute or when you're in the shower or when you just don't
have something else that's engaging you at that moment. Learn to
fill up those spaces You may not have 30 minutes to devote
to reading a significant work. You may not have an hour a day
to study a language, but you've got two minutes over here and
three minutes over there and five minutes over here where
you could be thinking profitably about the things of God and the
world in which you live and the way in which you can best serve
to the glory of God. We need to learn to discipline
our thoughts. Discipline your heart and your
mind. Bring every thought into captivity to the obedience of
Christ. None of us do it perfectly. None
of us do it particularly well. Praise God that Jesus's righteousness
covers our very disordered and disorganized thought life. But
I will tell you, these ideas have profound application in
dealing with depression, dealing with discouragement, dealing
with anger, dealing with anxiety, dealing with lust, dealing with
resentment. Those are all sins that come
from a mind that is disorganized and disordered, a heart that
has too much empty space in it. And we need to fill up that space,
fill it up with God, fill it up with good things. You're not
going to be tempted to eat junk food when you're feeding your
body well on rich, nourishing, wholesome, satisfying food. And
it's the same thing with the mind. All right, more that could
be said, but I hope that that will suffice for today. I'm thankful
to all of you who have tuned in live. I hope that there is
some profit and value in this. Please feel free to follow up. Send me an email. Reach out to
me by phone. Let me know if this was helpful.
Great. If it was not helpful, if you
have questions arising from any of the things that we talked
about, or maybe areas where we need to take this a little further
and discuss other applications of it, especially in terms of
counseling ourselves as believers and helping to encourage others.
I'm glad to have those conversations with you.
Disciplining Our Thoughts as Christians
Series Q & A - 2020
| Sermon ID | 111920215226075 |
| Duration | 59:52 |
| Date | |
| Category | Question & Answer |
| Bible Text | 2 Corinthians 10:3-5; Romans 7:14-21 |
| Language | English |
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