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I brought recently three messages
on victory over fear, and I trust that when we went through those
messages that probably everybody can identify with some particular
sinful fear that perhaps you have struggled with and it's
something that you needed God's word to address in your life.
And today I'd like to speak on this subject, the great struggle,
pride, versus humility, the great struggle, pride versus humility. Now, you might have said, Pastor,
I needed the one on fear. I needed to know about how to
overcome sinful fears. But pride is not really my thing.
I'm just a humble person. That's just naturally what flows
for me. I'm just kind of small spoken.
I'm not quiet. I'm not a braggadocio like other
people. I don't talk a lot. Just kind
of keep to myself. I'm a quiet type. So that means
that I am not struggling with pride. But I trust, as we go
through it this morning, that the Holy Spirit hopefully will
bless that we will all be able to see that we all have the great
disease of pride. And we should take this seriously
because the first thing I want to do is read what God says about
it, what God thinks about our sinful pride. You will look,
first of all, in Proverbs, chapter 16. Proverbs, chapter 16. It
was really pride that led Satan to be kicked out of heaven. He
was the fallen angel, and he led a proud revolt and rebellion
against God. It is pride that leads us to
sin in so many fronts, and we see that pride in God's eyes
is just particularly odious. It's particularly repulsive to
our God. In Proverbs 16 and verse 5, he says, everyone that is
proud in heart is an abomination to the Lord. Though hands join
in hand, he shall not be unpunished." Everyone that is proud in heart,
so it starts with the heart. It's a heart condition that manifests
itself in perhaps the way that we speak or perhaps in things
that we do, motives that we have. It starts in the heart like every
other sin does. And so he says, everyone that
is proud in heart is an abomination to the Lord. I remember growing
up, hearing the word abomination being preached. I just knew the
way it sounded. It wasn't good, but I didn't know exactly what
it meant. It doesn't sound good. Abomination.
But we look up the word abomination. What it means is this. I'll give
you a word picture to illustrate the meaning. Some of us as young
parents, let's go to that dirty diaper. It's a repulsive smell,
isn't it? You drive by the city dump. Your
senses are assaulted, aren't they? It's too much. Perhaps
you been in a place where there's a certain restaurant food that
you couldn't handle or other smells or something that just
was particularly repulsive to you that even perhaps turned
your stomach. That's the idea of what the word
abomination means. It's something repulsive to God,
something that, if we can say it this way, that as it were,
something that would gross us out, something that would make us
sick. Well, that's the idea with the word abomination. So when
we're looking at pride. We're looking at how it relates
to God, obviously. But I can tell you this morning,
don't be a proud person because it's so annoying to others. And
that's true. And when we are walking in humility,
not only will it glorify God and be a blessing to others,
but our number one reason this morning is not to overcome pride
and fight against pride so that we can be less annoying to others.
Now, that's part of it. But I can tell you, listen, be
a loving person because it'll get you farther in life. Be a
humble person or at least act humble because it'll get you
farther in your career or it'll get you more friends. It'll get
you better in your social group. But is that really what we're
about? You see, if we believe in a God centered faith, everything
goes back to what it goes back to God. So the passage here says,
does not say everyone that's proud in heart doesn't get far
in life because they're annoying to other people. No, it says
it's an abomination to the Lord. You see, we have to set our focus
where it is due. What does God see about pride? So it's something repulsive to
God. Proverbs chapter six, another
very weighty passage where we see God's mind towards our sinful
pride. Proverbs chapter six. In verse sixteen. He says, These six things that
the Lord hate. We think about God, we think
God's loving, God is, or at least how some of the world portrays
God. God is soft and loving and the lights are dim and the candles
are on. That's just kind of how God is. God is a soft, warm,
fuzzy God. Well, there is none who loves
like God. We can say that. There is none
who has such deep, sacrificial, glorious love as our God. He's
full of grace. But our God is also holy. And
it's God that loves his people, that has redeemed his people,
also hates some things. It doesn't say here that there
are six things that just bother God a bit. No, six things that the
Lord doth hate. And so if we care about God,
if we fear the Lord, if we love our God, our ears perk up and
say, I better listen to this because I desire to please the
God who's been so good to me as we sung about this morning.
So these six things that the Lord hate, yea, seven are, here's
our word, an abomination to him. What's the first one mentioned?
A proud look. I'll read the rest for our own
benefit. A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent
blood, a heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, deepened
to be swift in running to mischief, a false witness that speaketh
lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren. So we see that
God hates pride, that pride is something repulsive to God. Let
me turn to James, chapter four, give one more of just a sampling
of verses that give us God's attitude towards pride. James, chapter four. James, chapter
four, if that if the others didn't seal the deal for you, hopefully
this one will. James, chapter four. In verse
six, it says, But he giveth more grace, wherefore he saith. God resisteth the proud, but
giveth grace unto the humble. Submit yourselves, therefore,
to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. God resisteth
the proud. The word, therefore, resisteth,
in the original language, it's a military term speaking of God
putting himself in battle position against the proud. Now, if you're
like me, that should get our attention, because we know that
our lives are difficult enough and hard enough without God putting
himself in battle position against us. None of us need that, do
we? We don't need God in battle array,
in battle position, forming his positions against us. That's
what he says here, that God, he resists the proud. He's standing
in opposition to the proud. He will not bless the proud.
He will not honor the proud. God resists the proud, but he
gives grace to the humble, he says. So we think about pride. Again, someone might say, that's
not really my thing. That's not something I struggle with so
much. But we think about pride. Some
of the definitions for pride is the idea of putting ourselves
up, a higher opinion of ourselves than is appropriate. A exalting
of ourselves. In one sense, pride, let's just
say it, is self-worship, self-glorifying. I know it's painful for us to
hear that. It's painful for us to think that we actually sometimes
worship ourselves, glorify ourselves. But it's as ugly as that, and
we just see it for what it is. What are some manifestations
of pride in our lives? I'll just touch on a few today.
I saw a young man at a social event back in the summer. Probably,
I don't know, his early 20s. My heart really, I really felt
sorry for him. I actually talked to him about it at one point
because it just bothered me so much. But this guy, every, I
kid you not, every 30 seconds or so, was literally looking
at the reflection of his cell phone to fix his hair. Literally. And we all need to
look nice. It's not against looking nice
and grooming ourselves and looking presentable. But I really, my
heart went out to this guy. This guy apparently was a slave to
making sure that his appearance was so perfect. Why? So that he would look good to
others. Right? And we chuckle at that. Hopefully,
none of us have ever been that far, but we've all been there,
haven't we? To some degree or another, putting an overimportance
on how I'm coming off to others. Now, again, please groom yourself
before you come to church or go out in public. Look nice,
brush your teeth, all those things. But you see, so easily we can
take something that is legitimate and turn it into something else.
Why? Because we're going to put all
the attention, all the focus upon ourselves, not a manifestation
of pride, perhaps a young person, perhaps an old person who loves
the attention of others. Perhaps they walk into a room
and wonder how many people noticed me when I came into the room.
Have you ever done it? Can you look back in your life
and see some of the ridiculous things that perhaps you have
done just to get attention from others, just to get someone looking
at me? And how about this? How many
of us from time to time have just had the thrill of our heart
to hear others talking about us? How many of us have had the
thrill of our heart to hear our names spoken well of, had perhaps
our accomplishments to be thought well of? We've all been there,
haven't we? Now, encouragement is appropriate.
The Bible speaks of encouragement. We can encourage one another,
bless one another. But you know how quickly it is that we can
take something that's good? It's good to be encouraged. It's
a blessing to be encouraged, for faithfulness to be praised
in the right context. But you've been there where,
wow, your heart just leapt to hear others speaking well of
you. Perhaps it's the businessman who has had a great month, whether
he's sold a lot or he's developed some projects that have been
such a success. And finally, the boss at the meeting at the
end of the month brings him before everybody and says, this right
here is our employee of the month. This guy's going to have the
special parking place. I'll tell you, that guy, every day when
he parks into there and then he pulls out, he just loves to
think of him going in that parking spot and knowing that everybody
must be thinking well of him. Knowing, boy, Snow and Snow hadn't
gotten this award. Old Joe Blowdown the Hall, he's
never been the employee of the month, but I got it. I got it.
I'm smart, let's just face it, I'm intelligent, I've got talents,
I've got gifts, and I put them together and wow, look at me.
Now, you know what? We ought to strive for excellence.
This is not a sermon that says humility leads us to do a half
rate job. Not at all. We ought to strive
to do it well, as best that we can. But what's the motive? For
the glory of our God, using the talents and gifts that he's given
us to do well. But so often we turn it back
into a polishing of ourselves, turning it back to a self-exaltation,
a lifting up of ourselves. Pride can be manifested in subtle
ways. That's why it's so poisonous
and dangerous. Pride can be manifested even
in things that start out good. The diligent Christian, the person
who's faithful, the person who reads the Word of God, the person
who's serious about serving God and putting off sin and obeying
the Lord, the person who's committed and sacrificial in serving God.
But even that the enemy can use against it to where we begin
to compare ourselves with others to say, boy, you know, so and
so they as faithful as I am to be here at church or as faithful
as I've been to to give financially to the church and all these things
that I've done. And look at how little they've
done. Look at how ungrateful they are to the Lord for his
mercies. And certainly it's wrong to not be committed to the Lord
and to be faithful. And there are times for rebuke,
as we've talked about before, but oh, how quickly even good
things, even faithfulness to the Lord, we can take in our
sinful nature, compare ourselves to others and begin to lift ourselves
up into a place that is not right in the sight of God. Pride can
be manifested in the fact that sometimes we refuse to confess
our sins. And that we can refuse to confess
our sins. Confession of sin is painful.
It's painful, but it's a good kind of pain. It's a healing
kind of pain. Confession of sins means we have
to admit I was wrong. I messed up. It's nobody else's
fault but mine. Oh, but what a freedom there
is, what a joy there is. It's the first process of repentance
and of restoration where we confess our sins to God. We heard a message
yesterday at Ripley where the preacher said, you've heard the
name it and claim it gospel. He said, I preach to you to name
it and slay it. Name your sin, own your sin so
that you can mortify it and slay it by God's grace. But we often
try to make excuses for our sins, whether it's confession of sin
to God or confession to others. What about in the marriage relationship
or other relationships? Do you have a hard time admitting
that you're wrong? Have you ever struggled with
admitting that you're wrong? I've said this before, when you
have disagreements, when you have differences of opinion or
arguments, whatever it may be, we always, all of us, including
me, ought to remind ourselves there is a faint possibility,
as faint as it may be, that I could be wrong. That's a hard one for
some of us to swallow, isn't it? Because we tend to think,
I'm normally right. I normally see it the right way.
I normally do it the right way. But friends, God calls us to
live at the feet of one another. And if we really believe the
doctrine of total depravity, we'll recognize I'm a sinner
through and through, sinner saved by grace, but still sinner. And
I'm flawed and I'm not perfect. And I don't truly know it all. Or perhaps we confess that we're
wrong to somebody else or to God. But boy, that confession
is followed by a machine gun speed of excuses. We confess,
but when we say, honey, or whoever it is, I was wrong about this,
blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. But really, if you've done it
this way and think, well, I don't know about this, and I wouldn't have
done it wrong. But you see, the humble person,
the spirit of humility confesses when we've sinned. doesn't make
excuses, like David in Psalm 51, where he doesn't make excuses.
He doesn't say, Lord, there were accentuated circumstances. He
says, Lord, it's against you. I have sinned. It's my iniquity.
It's my transgression. No excuses. None of that. But
we live in a we are proud people and we live in a proud society
where we'd like to pass the buck, pass the blame, pass the guilt.
It's not my fault. It's somebody else. It's some
other reason. Oh, but there's freedom. There's healing. There's
humility. when we bow and own up to our
sins before God and our mistakes even before others. On the opposite
side, it's pride. It's exalting of myself. I don't
want to see myself as somebody who's failed. I don't want to
acknowledge I've messed up. I don't want to acknowledge I
was wrong. Because it's me. It's me here. I'm concerned about
me. I love me. And I don't want me
to look bad. I don't want me to be wrong. I don't want me
to be imperfect. I don't want me to be thought...
You see this? It's all about me. And that's why our Lord Jesus
tells us if you're going to follow me, who do you have to deny?
yourself, yourself, but he may come back to me, let him deny
himself, take up his cross daily to follow me. So pride can be
seen in all of those things. Pride can be seen in status,
finding great satisfaction in some kind of status. We don't
live in the days of like back in Europe where they had very
strict class societies where it was obvious that you were
either, I can't remember the names of their classes, but you
were a merchant or you were a servant, the servant class, or you were
aristocracy or whatever it may be. We don't have that so much
in our society, but we still have some class things, don't
we? Because our hearts is long, because of our sinful hearts,
we're longing to find something to find pride and glory in. So
it may be that new car. Is it wrong to have a new car?
No. Is it wrong to have a nice house? No. Is it wrong to enjoy
trendy clothes? To enjoy something that looks
nice? No. But you know where I'm going with this, don't you?
Oh, how easy it is to say, wow, I bet I'm driving down the street
and everybody sees this new thing. I wonder how many people looked
and turned and saw what I was wearing. And I can't go out unless
I've got the best possible thing on, because I could never be
seen as something less than perfect for all of my fan club out there,
as we think. Or perhaps we think, I've got
this. I've got this possession, whether it be house or wealth
or whatever. I've got this brand new gadget or whatever it is
that makes me more worth of a person. It makes me greater. You ever
notice how all of us sometimes, or some people, many people,
can tend to treat Perhaps the wealthy with more respect. Now,
listen, it's not wrong to be wealthy. Praise God for godly
wealthy people who are generous with what God has given to them
and have earned it in an honest way and uses the glory of God.
Do you ever notice how we sometimes can give respect, extra respect
in our hearts? Oh, it's Mr. So-and-so coming.
Why? Because we're proud and we value
things. We think this person has more value. They have more
status because they have more things or It may not just be wealth,
it may be other things. You see how that our hearts simply
do that. Pride can be seen in so many
ways. Pride can be seen in taking credit
for those things that really God has done. Pride can be the
preacher who's blessed to preach a powerful sermon that says,
wow, I really showed them today, didn't I? They must be very impressed
with my knowledge. Wow, they must be really impressed
with the skills with which the message was put together. Pride, pride, taking credit for
something that belongs to the Lord. Pride can be seen in, well,
we could go on and on and on, couldn't we? We could go on and
on. God resisted the proud. The proud heart, the proud heart
is something repulsive to God, something that God finds obnoxious
to Him. And so hopefully right now your
heart's hurting a little bit. I hope it is. I hope right now
our hearts are a little in pain. But we see that just a few manifestations
of the pride that looms from our hearts. And don't you see
how it must look to the holy gaze of God, this God that truly
has it all together, who's holy and pure and who's the giver
of life and all of our gifts to look and see us just this
grasping to find pride for ourselves, to glorify ourselves in something
other than in Him. And we see how that it's not
just a little peccadillo, it's not just a little small thing,
but that God resists the proud, that God hates our pride. May
we hurt, may we mourn over our sins. May God give us godly sorrow,
as 2 Corinthians says, a godly sorrow over sin that leads to
true repentance. It's easy for us to say, I want
to get that out of my mind, it hurts. But we need to see our
sin, do we not? But the sermon doesn't end there,
praise God, because the Bible doesn't end there, because the
gospel doesn't end there. It wouldn't be gospel, it wouldn't
be good news if it ended just with our incredible flaws and
sins. What are the remedies? What are
some remedies for us to help overcome our pride? Turn to Galatians
chapter six. Galatians chapter six. Paul is writing to people who
were boasting in something they had in themselves. In this particular context, they
were boasting in works, rituals of the Old Testament that they
thought would make them right with God, would make them accepted
with God. They were boasting in their law
keeping. But Paul would say in Galatians
6 and verse 14. Here's where you and I ought to plant our
flag. Here's where we ought to stake
our claim right here, Galatians 6, 14. But God forbid. That I should glory, save in
the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom the world is crucified
unto me and I unto the world. Notice Paul's language. God forbid.
Don't let it be. Don't let it be said of me that
I glory. The idea of glory is boasting, glorying in. That I
would boast in or glory in anything. Except what? Except the cross
of our Lord Jesus Christ. Do you know the remedy for our
pride, number one, is the cross of Jesus Christ? The first way
is our remedy is this. Is that Jesus Christ, if you
were his, get a hold of this. He bore every proud fault you've
ever had on the cross. Every motive that arose from
self-exaltation. Every time you refuse to admit
you're wrong. Every time you did something
to get the attention and the praise of others. Every time our hearts
swelled with pride. We heard people talking of us
or seeing what we had and somehow glorying in that. Every time
we foolishly took credit for what really was his. Every time
we compared ourselves and despised others because of what we thought
we'd attained, Jesus bore every one of those sins in His body
on the cross. Jesus on the cross in His work
of salvation, He was essentially saying this, Father, I will become
responsible for their pride. I will be chargeable for their
vanity. I'll take ownership of it. I'll
pay whatever, whatever that they lack because of their sin, whatever
they owe because of their pride. I'll take care of that. Now,
friends, that is that is grace. That is love to think of the
son of God, the pure, holy son of God, who has no sin, who has
no flaw, who has no evil. But say, Father, I'll bear it
and I'll suffer for every bit of pride they've ever manifested
or ever will manifest. Can I get an amen on that? Praise
the Lord. Because you know what? Either
you bear your pride before God or Jesus bears it. Either you
bear your pride and pay for it before God's justice or Jesus
bears it and He except for he bears the justice of God on your
behalf. Praise God for his grace. So
we glory in nothing but in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ.
But how else does the cross help us to remedy our pride, to build
a mindset in our hearts, to build a mindset and a frame of mind,
a way of thinking, a spirit within us that we glory in nothing except
the cross? Well, pride, again, is exalting
of ourselves in some shape or form. But what does the cross
tell us? The cross tells us who we really
are by nature. The cross tells us who we really
are by nature. When you look at the cross, I
recognize it is a scene that we think about that produces
tremendous comfort, and it does, the eternal comfort of salvation.
But, you know, the cross and what happened to the cross was
not warm and fuzzy in a sense. In a sense, it was gloriously
loved. But the cross was an ugly scene,
my friends. The cross was a filthy scene.
On the cross, Christ was stripped naked and he was whipped and
brutalized and blood flowed from him and they didn't even recognize
him as such. Isaiah 50 speaking of him said
his face was so marred more than any man. They jerked the hair
of his face out, blood flowing. And the Roman soldiers were having
a fun day. They're gambling over his clothes
to see who gets his clothes. And they're mocking him. And
the priests are just throwing it in his face and saying, if
you're really the Christ, show us, prove it to us. Come on down. You're the Savior. You can save
others. Save yourself. It was an ugly
scene. It was a wretched scene. And
then the earth got dark. In the middle of the day, it
was dark. on the earth. And Jesus cried out, my God,
my God, why has thou forsaken me? Words that he had never,
ever uttered and words that those who he was dying for will never
have to utter because the father turned his back on his son on
the cross as he was bearing sin. Now, why was that necessary?
You know why? It's because of us, because of us. You say, if
I'd been there, I would have stood right next to Jesus. I
would have been all the way there. But you know what? That's not
true. In a sense, it was you and I insulting Jesus. Not really, but in a sense, that's
what we would have done. In our rotten flesh, our sinfulness,
we would have mocked him. We would have been the one thief
on the cross who's there dying himself. And in this dying moment,
he can find nothing better to do than to mock the Lord of glory
himself. The reality is this, is that
you and I are that bad. You and I are that bad that it
took the cross of Jesus Christ to redeem us and bring us to
salvation. Romans chapter 3 verse 10 is
more than just a good memory verse to prove that we believe
in total depravity. Do you believe Romans 3 10 about
you? The Bible says this in Romans
3 10, there is none good, no, not one. Verse 23 says, for all
that would include all of us here today, for all have sinned
and come short of the glory of God. Do you believe that about
you? Do you believe it's true? No. I'm a good person. I'm sure I
make some mistakes, but deep down, I would never do some of
the things that some people on the news do. Deep down, I'm better
than most folks. And hopefully we are living a
better life if God's spirit has come into our hearts. But naturally
speaking, without Jesus, without grace, without the work of the
Holy Spirit, it's true of you and it's true of me. We are not
good people. I read it in Romans 5 this morning
in our scripture reading. In due time, when we were without
strength, Christ died for the nice folks. Is that what it says?
Christ died for the people who mostly had it together. Christ
died for the people who lived on the right side of the tracks
and had their life more arranged. No, it says Christ died for the
ungodly. Oh, friends, to really appreciate
the gospel, you've got to see, I've got to see, I in myself
am an ungodly person. I, myself, am a sinful person. I am a failure. I've fallen short
of God's glory and of his honor. Only then, only then will we
really love the gospel. Only then will we really love
Jesus, when we can see what he saved us from. If all Jesus came
to do was to help some people who are slightly flawed improve
some of their flaws, if that's all he came to do, why worship
him so much? Why praise him so much? What Jesus came to do is
what he did. Let's take a ruined, failing
people, ungodly people, filthy people, sinful people, and make
them perfect in the eyes of God. Make them complete. Make them
beautiful to God. Make them holy to God. Make them
redeemed from God. Make them clean in God's sight.
The Revelation says, Unto him that loved us and watched us,
from our sins in his own blood. And we who were dirty, he made
clean. We who were guilty, now because
of Jesus, the father says, not guilty, innocent, justified,
not condemned. Now, because of Jesus, we stand
forgiven, free from the from the payment of our sins, because
Jesus has paid it all. You see, the cross reminds us
who we really are. So how can I glory? How can I
boast? I want people to look at me when
I fit into the Romans 3.10 category. I want them to say, no, y'all
look at him. Look at him. Is there anything good in me
that came from him? Because I'm the Romans 3.10.
I've been one of the none good, no, not one. I'm not going to
boast in something so trivial. Praise God, I got the employee
of the month. I want to get the employee of the month. I want
to do well. I want to be excellent. I want to glorify God. I get
it. Thank you, God. Thank you. I
got it. Don't let me glory in that. That's just a temporary. That's for the month. Jesus saved
me for eternity. He brought me everlasting salvation.
I'm going to sit here and think I'm better than the guy down
the road. I'm going to sit here and think, boy, look at all that
I've accomplished. And perhaps I have been diligent
and I should be diligent. I should be faithful. I should
be obedient. We must be in light of the cross.
But, oh, God, instead of comparing myself with others and congratulating
myself on how far I've advanced, I just praise you because anything
good in me has all come from the cross ultimately. My brothers
and sisters, may we glory, may we boast and may we do it. May
we really boast in the cross. He doesn't say if you're going
to boast. No, he says, I'm going to boast. It's just not in myself.
It's just not in what I've done. It's just not in what I've accomplished.
I'm going to brag. I'm going to boast in the cross
of our Lord Jesus Christ. Because without the cross, no
eternal life. Without the cross, a life of
vanity and ruin. Listen, if we're not covered
by the blood, our lives, no matter how impressive to the world they
may be, no matter how many accolades we may attain from the world,
it's all vanity and waste and ruin and useless in the grand
scheme of things. But if we've been redeemed, our
lives count for the glory and the honor of our God. If we've
been justified, if we've been forgiven, if we've been cleansed
by the blood of Jesus Christ, our lives are no longer just
something vain and useless. But our lives count. for God's
glory, for His kingdom and for His honor. Without the cross,
there's no forgiveness. Without the cross, there's no
victory over death. Death wins. Sin wins. Without the cross,
all that's true. But with the cross, because of
the cross, all doing, all owed to the cross of Christ, God's
people are forgiven, justified, have victory over death, have
eternal life. Have the gifts now of faith,
of repentance, of living a life of righteousness. All of those
things, why we trace them back to what Paul said here, God forbid
that I should glory save in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ. Part of our problem with pride
is that we're trying to find significance somewhere. We're
trying to find significance somewhere. Some people join social groups
just to find significance. And then they feel like they're
worth something now because I have a group of friends, we have these common
interests. So now I've got significance. Some people seek to find significance
in their accomplishments. They can never do enough. It's
always the next thing. I've got to get the next whatever
because that's where my significance lies and what I've done and all
the accomplishments I've got. But you know what the cross tells
us? Here's where our significance
is. Our significance is that we are found as being identified
as the sons of God. That's our significance. That's
our identity. That's our identity. That's what
gives us worth and value is that we are owned by God as being
his children. What gives us worth, what gives
us significance is that we are friends of Jesus Christ. that
our identity is in Him, that we're actually, the scripture
says, in union with Christ. Like a husband and a wife, we're
united, we're bound, we're connected, we have a union with Jesus Christ.
So the next time you're tempted to think, well, I've got to find
some significance. I've got to keep up with what everybody else
is doing so that I'll look good and I'll have the appearance
and all these things that we chase after. You say, wait a
second. Hold on. If God accepts me, if God calls
me His child, I need to have all the approval of everybody
else around me. I've got to keep up with all
the stuff so I can look good. Is that really where it's at?
No. See, it's freeing. It frees us to live, to live
a life of pursuing Him free from these things because of what
He's done for us. Jeremiah chapter nine goes along
with this. Our remedy is the cross of Christ,
glorying in the cross, boasting in the cross. Our remedy is seeing
those things which really are valuable. Jeremiah chapter 9.
I love this verse, one of my favorites for a long time. It's
what they call, some people call a life verse. It really is a
verse to build your life on. Jeremiah 9, verse 23. Thus saith
the Lord, let not the wise man glory in his wisdom, neither
let the mighty man glory in his might. Let not the rich man glory
in his riches. All those things we can see.
The person who has power, the person who has a title, they're
mighty, they glory in that, they boast in that. The person who
has great wisdom, great knowledge, great entertainment, they glory
in that. Look at all that I know. The person who has wealth, they
can be tempted to glory in that. This makes me more valuable.
This makes me better than others. This sets me farther ahead on
the road than most other people are. But God says, the word of
the Lord says, don't glory in those. temporary things. He says, But let him that gloryeth
glory in this, that he understandeth and knoweth me, that I am the
Lord, which exercise love and kindness, judgment and righteousness
in the earth. For in these things I delight,
saith the Lord. My brothers and sisters. Everyone
here today, if we truly know the Lord. Not just know about
him, not just going to name off some facts about him, but if
we have eternal life in the sense that Jesus spoke it in John 17,
where he said, this is life eternal, that they might know thee the
only true God and Jesus Christ who now has sent. If we know
our God in a living relationship and he has revealed himself to
us, If He's taken the blinders off of our eyes, given us eyes
to see Him and know Him and love Him as the God who is a God of
love and kindness towards us, then you've got something to
glory in. Think about it. You go outside this morning,
a beautiful fall morning. You see the sun shining, the leaves
turning. It's a beautiful, beautiful day. Think, wait a second. I know the one who made all that. But he knows me most importantly. I know the one who formed all
that. He calls me. He's my father. I mean, he loves me. He gives
me his word. He gives me promises. I've got
something to glory in. I know the Lord. I'm forgiven.
I've got God's spirit in my heart. Praise be to his name. That's
what I have to glory in. That's what I have to glory in.
Well, what other remedy can we look at? to help us to overcome
our pride. And hopefully we'll look more
at this next week. The Lord being willing. So the
first Corinthians chapter four, we have a principle here that
is so powerful to overcome our pride. So first of all, look
at the remedy of the cross, of what Christ has accomplished,
of boasting in the cross, of of glory and knowing God. And
here in first Corinthians chapter four, to give a little background,
a reminder of the church at Corinth. You remember, they were a church
that had a lot of problems, a lot of problems, serious problems.
But they were also a very gifted church. In chapter one, Paul
spoke to the church and said, you come behind no church in
gifts. This church was a very gifted assembly. Even back in
the days where they had the gifts of tongues and the gifts of healing
and miracles, all these various gifts of that age, this church
was chock full of spiritual gifts. And that was a blessing, obviously,
but also they kind of turned it to a curse. Because many of
them began to boast in the gifts that they had. And even later
on in 1 Corinthians 12, when he's talking about the church
being a body, remember that he said the hand, I'm paraphrasing,
but one member of the body can't say to the other, I don't need
you. As if the hand was saying to the foot, I don't need you.
But no, Paul made the point in 1 Corinthians 12 that every member
of the body had value. But they had a problem with boasting.
They had a problem with their status. Look at me, I've got
the gift of tongues. You only have the gift of hospitality
or something like that. I've got a great gift. In 1 Corinthians 13, though I
speak with the tongues of men and of angels, oh, I'm very gifted.
If I don't have charity, I'm nothing. I become a sounding
brass or a tinkling cymbal. Though I have the gift of prophecy,
though I understand all mysteries, I've got a lot of knowledge.
I know more than you people. But I have not charity. It profits
me nothing. So they obviously had a problem
with pride. They were lifted up in the things that they'd
received, even from God's hands. They were even getting to the
point where they were boasting in preachers. I'm a preacher,
but God's Word says that anyway. You're supposed to honor your
preachers. I enjoy that. I like that. We're supposed to
respect those who lead us. Oh, but do you know that preacher
worship crosses the line, doesn't it? This is my guy over here.
This is the one I follow. Well, they were beginning to
fight over preachers. One said, I'm with Paul. I'm with him.
He's my guy. Another one said, no, I'm with
Apollos. He's my guy. He's a better preacher than Paul.
Others said, I don't need any preachers. I'm with Jesus. I'm
with Jesus. They had a problem with pride. Well, in 1 Corinthians
4, in verse 6, I'll start reading there. Paul says, And these things,
brethren, I have in a figure transferred to myself and to
Apollos for your sakes, that you might learn in us not to
think of men above that which is written, that no one of you
be puffed up for one against another. And then here's verse
7, For who maketh thee to differ from another? And what hast thou
that thou didst not receive? Now, if thou didst receive it,
why dost thou glory as if thou hadst not received it? Let's
just say for a minute that somebody were to give me a mansion. They
built it with their hands, they paid for it, and they gave me
a mansion. And people would come to visit me in my new mansion
and I'd say, do you like the house I built? Yes, it took a lot of work, but
I've really grown in my house building skills and I'm a good
architect and I can make the plans and look at what I've done.
People look at me and say, what are you doing? You didn't build
the house. This generous person gave you the house, but you're
acting as if you built the house yourself with your own skill
and with your own ingenuity. What are you doing? Paul says, who makes you differ
from another? What do you have that you did not receive? Now, Paul's talking here in the
realm of spiritual gifts, but I believe the principle can apply
to many things. Let's say that you're a person
of tremendous intelligence, that you just are. You're just a person
of great intelligence, more so than others perhaps around you.
So, the temptation is to despise people with less intelligence
around you and to glory in your intelligence, glory in your attainments. Quick question, who gave you
that intelligence? Who gave you that intelligence?
Let's say that you're a person who is naturally talented at
sports, and you can do it well. You can play ball well, and you
can do it so well that you're going to get the big head and
think, man, look at all these little pretenders around me. Look at what I've
done. Who gave you the talent? Who gave you the hand-eye coordination?
Who made you not? Bowleg, you know, you can move
around and get it done. Let's go to spiritual things. We might say, look at all these
lost people around here. I tell you what, this world is
so sinful. These people don't have a clue. They're living for
themselves. They're not living for God. They
are rejecting Jesus. And all those are serious things
and we ought to care about those things. Oh, but you know them.
We have to ask ourselves, wait a second, what makes me to differ
from them? It's not that they're victims,
they're wrong, they're sinful, they're to be called to repentance or
to be preached to and prayed for. But what made me to differ
from another? Why is it that you believe the
gospel? Why is it that your eyes have been opened? Why is it that
your heart hungers and thirsts after righteousness, but perhaps
one of your family members doesn't care? Was it because you were
naturally better? Was it because you just were
born in this world more of a spiritual person? You're more attuned to
God by nature. We all know that's not true,
don't we? Not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but
of God that showeth mercy. Why is it that we love the Lord?
Why is it we've been bought to believe upon him? The cause of
God's mercy is something that we received, something that we
were given by God. Somebody said, well, that doesn't
apply to me because I've worked. I wasn't naturally smart, but
I worked at it. And I developed my career or
whatever it may because I worked and it was me that did this.
Don't try to take that and give it to God. That's me. I worked
hard for that. Oh, my brothers and sisters. Who gave you the breath every
morning? Who gave you the ability every morning? who spared you
from perhaps a car wreck that would have ended your life or
injured you where you couldn't continue in your career. It all
goes back ultimately to the mercy and the grace of God. You see,
a proud spirit does not breed thanksgiving. A proud spirit
does not breed thanksgiving. A humble spirit breeds thanksgiving
because a humble spirit recognizes the source of all these blessings.
The humble spirit says, it wasn't me. If I had gotten anywhere,
I may have worked hard, I should have worked hard. But ultimately,
it all goes back to the grace of God. Ultimately, it all goes
back to his mercy and his goodness to me. Without his provision,
without his promise, without his grace, I would not have made
any of these attainments. But it all goes back to the Lord.
A humble spirit breeds a thankful spirit. It breeds a thankful
spirit. Who maketh thee to differ one
from another? One person may say, I have more
knowledge because I've studied God's word more. I've borne more
fruit than many people. The question is this, or the
statement is this, you should have. We should have. We should
have. Jesus said, when you've done
all the things I've told you to do, you're still just unprofitable
servants. You've simply done what your
master has told you to do. Sometimes we speak of, in God's
service, somebody going above and beyond the call of duty.
In a sense, there's a place for that. But you know, in another
sense, we can never go above and beyond the call of duty of
service to our Savior. The Lord has been so good to
me, we sing. What shall I render to the Lord
for all his benefits towards me? And if we haven't done as
we should, if we haven't been as diligent and faithful as we
ought to be, then we ought to repent. And say, I want to follow the
good example of those who've done it. I want to love this Savior
who has been so faithful to me, who's been so generous to me
that I want my life to be lived for His glory. And if I do grow
and I must, I should grow. I want glory in that. I give thanks for that. I boast
in Him. Anything good in me all ultimately
goes back to the Lord. But do you know that human nature
will not have that? Human nature won't have that.
I've got to have some credit. I'm going to have some credit
for something good I've done, whether it be for my salvation or even
for my sanctification. I'm going to hang on to something
I can boast in. No, it all goes back to the grace
of God. Paul would say, God forbid I
would glory in anything, not even in my obedience. I want
to glory in what produced the obedience, ultimately, which
is the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ. A humble spirit. A humble spirit prohibits us
from glorying as if we have not received the things that we've
received. A humble spirit prohibits us from despising those who've
not come along, perhaps as we think as far as they ought to
have come. John Newton. Some of you've read the booklet
that I passed around here a little while back. John Newton was a
scoundrel. It's hard to really describe
how hateful a person he was. And he admitted it. He hated
everybody. Everybody hated him. He was a hateful, awful, wretched
person. We all are, but I'm not saying
he showed it. He lived it out. He lived it out. And then grace
reached him. Grace, amazing grace reached
him. That's why he wrote it. This
man was changed. He became a preacher. How sweet
the name of Jesus sounds, the hymn that we sung this morning,
just full of Christ. And this man was a godly man,
used to the Lord abundantly. John Newton was also a very compassionate
man. William Cooper, who wrote the
hymn God Moves in Mysterious Ways, was a troubled soul. William
Cooper struggled with depression. He struggled with he just he
had a very privileged life and he didn't have to do anything.
He should have been doing something. That was part of the problem.
He just sat there and did nothing. He was in a wealthy family. He
had a very just he was a tough guy. He was a tough person to
deal with. But you know what? John Newton had compassion on
William Cooper. He took Cooper under his wing
and Cooper actually lived with Newton for a time. And even later,
Newton would write him letters and would encourage him. And
Cooper wrote many of those hymns because Newton said, all right,
today we're going to write a hymn. You're going to write a hymn
today. And Cooper had a lot of Bible knowledge, so he would
sit down, he would make him do something to write a hymn. He would take
Cooper with him to go visit people, shut-ins and sick people. You're
coming with me. You're going to go with me. And Cooper didn't like
visits. He was kind of a shy guy. No, you're coming with me. John Newton could have said,
what is wrong with you? I mean, you are a privileged person.
Look at me. I'm not in the dumps all the time. I'm not depressed
all the time. Get with it, Cooper. But no, John Newton knew what
it was to receive grace. And so he dispensed grace. to
a person who wasn't really pleasant to be around. He dispensed grace
to somebody who didn't have it all together, to somebody who
struggled. But John Newton gave him grace. Why? Because he received
grace and that made him humble. That made him humble to see what
he had received, and therefore he gave it to others. Our remedy
to overcoming pride, one of our remedies is recognizing where
we have been blessed from, recognizing it didn't come from ourselves.
but has ultimately come from God. Ultimately come from God. God hates pride. He does. It's repulsive to Him. And we
ought to repent of our pride in the many ways that it manifests
itself in our lives. But you don't do it just in your
own strength, in your own figuring it out. One of the remedies,
the remedy is the cross of Jesus Christ. Not only that it has
removed our guilt, but also as we look at the cross, no matter,
that's who I am. That was because of me. That was because of me.
So therefore, I'm humble. How can I glory with the sinner
that I am? But I also boast in the cross
because in the cross of Christ, blessings are brought to me that
really matter, not the trivial things of the earth like status
and applause of men and all these different things. We have a remedy
for pride in recognizing where the blessings have come from.
Who maketh thee to differ one from another? May it produce
within us humility and thanksgiving to God and praise to God, compassion
and love to others. Let us bow. Our Father, I pray today that
your Holy Spirit has been at work. And I pray that he would
continue to be at work in our hearts, because we know that
overcoming pride is not a one time thing, it's a life journey.
to battle against our pride. Just as with fear, Lord, we'll
still have fearful thoughts. We'll still have proud feelings,
but help us to battle those by the cross of Christ. Help us
to battle those by the truth of your word. Make us more and
more a people that reflect humility, that reflect gratitude. Father,
we know that on the outside, perhaps we can fool people. But
we know that you see past our Sunday bests and you see right
into our hearts. And so we pray that you would
create within us, as David said, a clean heart of God and renew
a right heart within us. That we may be a people who praise
not ourselves, but praise you. For we ask it in Jesus' name
and amen.
The Great Struggle – Pride vs Humility
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| Duration | 52:07 |
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| Category | Sunday - AM |
| Language | English |
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