Good to see you all. Glad to
be here this beautiful Lord's Day. On this October morning,
what a blessing. What a blessing to have God's
Word. Let's go to him to ask him to bless our time now and
then we'll. We'll look at the scriptures. Father, we love you and bow to
you now with grateful hearts that you are our father and you
always deal with us as a father in love. Thank you for giving
us your word. Thank you for your nearness and
your presence. We call upon you now. to draw
near by your spirit in and through the teaching of your word, that
you would reach hearts, that you would minister much-needed
grace today. Give me grace, Lord, give me
wisdom, the love of Christ in my heart, the grace to be truthful,
and may Christ be glorified. In the precious name of Jesus,
we pray, amen. So Hebrews 12, we're journeying
on in this great epistle. Hebrews 12, today's focus will
be on chapter 12, verses three through 11. So a little bit larger
of a swath of scripture here, but I believe it's one cohesive
thought. that the author's laying out.
And so, let's read it together here. Hebrews 12, three through
11. The author continues and says,
consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against
himself, so that you may not grow weary or faint hearted.
In your struggle against sin, you have not yet resisted to
the point of shedding your blood. And have you forgotten the exhortation
that addresses you as sons? My son, do not regard lightly
the discipline of the Lord, nor be weary when reproved by him.
For the Lord disciplines the one he loves and chastises every
son whom he receives. It is for discipline that you
have to endure. God is treating you as sons.
For what son is there whom his father does not discipline? If
you are left without discipline in which all have participated,
then you are illegitimate children and not sons. Besides this, we
have had earthly fathers who disciplined us and we respected
them. Shall we not much more be subject
to the father of spirits and live? For they disciplined us
for a short time as it seemed best to them, but he disciplines
us for our good, that we may share his holiness. For the moment,
all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later
it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who
have been trained by it." Amen. It's the word of the Lord
to us today. Now He had just exhorted us, the author of Hebrews
that is, to look to Jesus. Look to Jesus, the founder and
perfecter of your faith. Or you could say the author and
finisher of your faith. Look to Him who for the joy that
was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and
is now seated at the right hand of the throne of God. Keep that
truth always in the forefront of your mind and of your heart.
And earlier, you know, in chapter three, he had told us also to
consider Jesus, the apostle and high priest of our confession,
who was faithful to him. He was faithful to God in all
things and all that he did. And he was faithful over the
house. So if we're gonna be saved completely
by Christ, our need is to constantly to be looking to Him, to be listening
to Him, to be obedient to Him, anchored to Him, considering
Him. You see how central He is in
the Christian life. He's everything. Jesus is the
author and perfecter of your faith. He is the finisher. Not you. He is. If you're going to finish, it's
gonna be because of Him and His work in you. This is the message
to us. This is the truth coming through.
In our own strength, in our own striving, in our own willpower,
whatever, we're going to grow weary and faint. I think that's a lot of what
the men's retreat was about. Weakness. Weakness, human weakness,
but the strong one is Christ. And we're seeing the same truth
here. He's the finisher. And he gives grace and strength
to finish. The Apostle Paul, even as he
started off his letter to the Romans, talked about, I'm not
ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God to salvation
for all who believe. And he goes on to say that salvation,
this salvation is from faith to faith. From faith for faith,
it starts and ends with faith. You see, our salvation is the
fight of faith. Seems like a book's been written
about that. It's a fight of faith, not willpower and human ingenuity
and strength and all of it, it's about faith. So it starts and
ends with faith. That's what all of chapter 11
was about, wasn't it? But our faith has an object.
And it's Him, Jesus. And we're to consider Him. Now,
this word consider, interestingly, the English translations grapple
at times with Greek words to get the concept out to us readers
who only know English. But this word consider in verse
three, chapter 12, it's the only time this word's used in the
New Testament. And it's the word It has got
the word analog in it, so that helps me pronounce it. Analogizomai,
analogizomai. It kind of gives you the idea
of something of an analog or analogous. And so this, you know,
chapter three, when it used the word consider, it was a little
different. It was more along the lines straight out, consider,
consider the apostle and high priest who is faithful as a son
and who is the owner of the house. And then now here he's speaking
of something a little different. It's more of Jesus as your sympathizing,
faithful companion who has actually endured hard things. He's endured
hard things, right? That's what the scriptures show
us. He, of all people, has endured the hardest of all things. So
He's your companion when it comes to endurance and enduring through
hard things in life, hard trials. He's with you. We're to consider
Him in that way. We're to think of Him and look
to Him in that way. This patient endurance against
these hostilities against Himself. Don't forget that. that this
is who he is. He was a man of sorrows and acquainted
with much grief, wasn't he? And this is God's means of preserving
us from being weary and fainting. And that doesn't mean just getting
sleepy and like, oh, I fainted. No, it means you don't make it.
It means you basically, I'm not gonna call it a euphemism, but
it almost is for apostasy. So this is God's means, this
is what he says right here. This is God's means, this is God's
way of giving you both courage and patience that gives you that
endurance. It's considering Jesus in this
way. He faced the worst, the most cruel, the most malicious
attacks from the enemy, so to speak. He faced it all. It was,
you know what sadism is? S-A-D-I-S-I-M, sadism. It's like this cruelty that's
enjoyed to be cruel for cruelty's sake. You know, he faced sadistic
cruelty, endured it for you and me. And this is the same enemy,
though, that the author's saying, you're gonna have to consider
him, because we got the same enemy. And weariness and faithlessness
or faintheartedness in the spiritual journey are deadly. They are
deadly. And Jesus said wonderful things
in his I am statements to us. He would say things like, I am
the bread of life. That means we're gonna need nourishment,
we're gonna need strengthening. I am the way, I am the light
of the world. So we need to consider him. And
he endured these hostilities from sinners and he's the way,
the truth, the light, he's the encourager, the strengthener,
the one who empowers us. So he moves into this truth now
in verse four, because this is a progressive thought. He's taking
this, what may have been a young house church, maybe not a lot
of people, trying to encourage them not to turn away, remember?
So now he says, in your struggle against sin, you have not yet
resisted to the point of shedding your blood. So they had already
been through some things, we saw that. They had been through
some pretty hard stuff. They had faced mockings and ridicules
and struggles and sufferings of different kinds, even imprisonments,
confiscation of their property. And he said, you did it joyfully. Now, could you get your property
confiscated joyfully? So they had actually endured
some of that. And now it appears that the author
is, he's alluding to something that is coming. For the first
century church, and throughout church history, even up until
this day, some of these things happen. And it's blood. It's blood. You've not yet endured, or you've
not yet struggled against sin to the point of resisting and
shedding your blood. I think it's coming. It's coming. And they need to be ready for
it. And that's the truth for any of us. I know it's the extreme,
but it's the truth. And we know it happens. We're watching this in our family
devotional, this Eleanor Young videos that HeartCry has put
out. It's fabulous. But there are some faithful men,
no one knows their names. Let's just call them Phil and
Sam, these men were, y'all are laughing, what were their names?
You don't remember? Did I get it right? Anyway, these
men who went before Eleanor, they went to the same place she
went to and they were filled with arrows. Hundreds of arrows,
because one guy got shot up with arrows and actually survived
the attack, got home, got better, and went back to the same place.
And the tribal people were so scared of that guy that they
didn't shoot him with a few arrows. They loaded him down with hundreds
of arrows to ensure he died. See, this happens. This was not
that long ago. And what he's trying to do is
encourage them. And we're to be prepared for
a severe fight. A severe fight. And we're to
arm ourselves with the whole armor of God, right? That's what
the apostle says in Ephesians 6. That we may be able to stand. To stand. And it's, as Owen say,
it's a dishonor to go down or fall in the cause of Christ and the
gospel under lesser sufferings. Because didn't he say there were
others that had less light than you? They didn't have the greater
thing, the promise. And yet they got sawn in half
and lived in the woods and all this stuff. So for you to go
down with lesser things is a dishonor. It's a rebuke. Others died not
having received the better thing. And the great enemy, The enemy
himself, I said, was the same enemy. The enemy is named here,
and it's sin. The enemy's name is sin. Sin. And it's sin in other people
who are the attackers, the persecutors. It's sin from the spiritual forces
of evil. Call it demons, whatever, principalities
of darkness. Sin there on its attack, and
then it's sin from within. The indwelling sin he had talked
about. You better lay aside the things that so heavily weigh
you down and the sin that so easily besets you. So sin's the enemy. And we have
a worthy cause and honorable task to be at battle with and
at war against sin. And everyone in this room who
names the name of Christ is in that war. So why is it so important
And what's at stake? It's our souls. Our souls. I don't think sin just wants
America. It wants your soul. And that's
what's being fought for. And sin will spare no pains or
hazards to win them. It's, I think the word slimy,
grimy, some of that was used about the enemy in our men's
retreat. Crafty, subtle, some of it's
overt, but it'll spare no pains, no means. And that's why, you
know, the internal sins, the Apostle Peter would say very
directly, I urge you as sojourners and exiles in this world to abstain
from passions of the flesh, which do what? wage war against your
soul. See, your soul is what's at stake,
your soul. What did Jesus say about how
valuable your soul is? What is a man gained who gains
a whole world but loses his soul? So your soul's at stake, and
God's word gives us all the ammunition we need, and protections, and
instructions, and that we need to arm ourselves and be prepared.
Owen says, we cannot deceive ourselves and hope to preserve
our faith in times of trial without the utmost watchful diligence
against the assaults and impressions of sin. So the assaults, those
outward attacks, they're coming, the fiery flaming arrows, but
then there's the internal stuff. You have this impression, inclination,
or a desire Those are attacks too, and equally as deadly. And we can't deceive ourselves,
because he goes on to say, we shall be surprised, we shall
be wounded, and at last destroyed by our enemy. Don't you hate
those surprise attacks? I mean, it's that serious. And that's what we're talking
about here in Hebrews 12. And then now, now look what he does
when he moves into chapter 12, verse five, five and six. He's
gonna quote the Proverbs. He quotes Proverbs 3, verses
11 and 12 right here. And what we have is in the following
verses, seven through 11, is he's a Bible expositor. He's
expositing and expounding on Proverbs 3, which is awesome. You get a firsthand experience
of an inspired, divine, Bible expositor from the Scriptures
on display. So we're getting that right now
in Proverbs 3, because he quotes it saying, you have forgotten
the exhortation that addresses you as sons? That's more of a
direct statement. It's put in question form in
the ESV, but it's like a rhetorical, you know the answer. You have
forgotten. You forgot Proverbs 3. Isn't
that amazing? When you read your Proverbs,
do you view them as that important? You forgot Proverbs 3, 11 and
12. That's what he's saying to the Hebrew audience. And notice
again, he's saying the Proverbs are the same thing as God speaking
to and exhorting his children. That's what Proverbs is. It's
God speaking to you as his children. The Scriptures speak, they're
God's words to us, they're the voice of the Lord Himself to
us. So we ought to read the Proverbs
that way, shouldn't we? And cherish them that way. Man,
I need to hear from God. You don't ever want to say, like,
oh, I wish God would just speak to me. If I could just get a
word from God, God, just speak, just tell me something, anything.
When you have it, look right here. This is him really speaking
to his children. So the reason we're so often
ready to fall or faint is because we've not paid close enough attention
to the directions and the exhortations, the warnings in the word of God. It's like, did you forget what
Proverbs say about this and this and this? You have forgotten. That's why you're living like
this. And that's why you're also in trouble or potentially in
trouble. Oh, and again, he said, it's
the height of pride and ingratitude to not comply with God's entreaties. Think of that. He didn't say
it's just prideful. It's the height of pride and
ingratitude to not comply with Proverbs 3, 11 and 12. And that's
what we need to be asking ourselves. It's like, you know, getting
defeated in a battle while being so loaded and equipped with protective
equipment and mighty shields and weapons. You're going down
with all these weapons and shieldings. I thought of maybe a helpful
illustration. Imagine you're a jet fighter. You're gonna be trained to be
a fighter jet pilot, okay? We can all imagine this, picture
this, as far-fetched as that might seem. And your training
instructor, your flight instructor said, now you see this button
right here? You know what this does? When you push this, it's
going to send off these flares behind you. So when an enemy
fighter is shooting missiles at you, it's going to throw out
all these flares, and the missiles hit those, and not you. Don't
forget about this button. Don't forget. That's the exhortation,
that's the teaching. And you get in this, all of a
sudden, in a skirmish or a fight. Enemy jet comes up, they're behind
you, beep, beep, beep. Your alarm's going off and you're
trying to do all you can. I can't get away. And the missile
hits you. And you could never use the excuse,
well, I forgot. I forgot about that button. Because what's gonna happen? You're gonna go down regardless.
You die. This is a sinful forgetfulness,
and it has dangerous consequences. That's what he's saying, you
forgot Proverbs 3. And the warning is to not despise
this disciplinary action from God towards us or to faint under
the strain of it. He corrects, he chastises and
disciplines, and this is different than punishment. I know there's
a fine line between punishment and discipline or chastisement,
but if I could draw that line, I would say that punishment comes
from a love of justice in the law, not from a love of the person. Chastisement comes from a love
to the person. That's the difference. Yes, it's
upset with the sin, does not like that sin, but it's gonna
address it, but out of love. That's chastisement. That's the
discipline we're talking about. And God does chastise us. God will be honored as your father. If he's your father, there's
the question. If he's your father, he will be honored as your father,
and he will deal with you as children. One way or another,
he will be. And here's a fundamental fact
in life. This may step on toes, I'm gonna
step on my own toes. An undisciplined child is very
unpleasant to be around. Can I get some of these? And
I know that by experience. I know that there were occasions
and have been in times where my child's not very pleasant
to be around with our guests or company, and that's on me.
That's because they've had a lack of discipline. And I acknowledge
that, but this is a fact. This is a fundamental fact. An
undisciplined child's very unpleasant to be around. Even worse, they
can do great damage, and they can bring shame to their mother.
That ought to hit a man in the heart, shouldn't it? They can
do worse than that. They can hurt or kill people.
They can do great damage in society and all of this. And the Proverbs
say, also the rod of correction is to spare the child from what? Sheol, this realm of death. You know, the Proverbs 23, 13
and 14, we know probably by heart, says, do not withhold discipline
from a child. If you strike him with a rod,
he will not die. Now you know what the reverse
implication is? You know what will cause him to die? If you
don't discipline him. See, if you strike him with the
rod, you will save his soul from Sheol. That's the proverbial
principle at hand. Now, this is God speaking to
us as parents in this proverb. Do you not think that He will
abide by His same exhortations to us? He will, and He does for
His children. Psalm 94, 12 says, blessed is
the man whom you discipline. Blessed, O Lord, in whom you
teach out of your law. This is a blessed person whom
God disciplines. You're actually blessed from
this discipline. This is the only way to true
blessing or true happiness from God. You're experiencing God's
love for you in the discipline. That's what he's telling us.
I mean, some of you, are you struggling with assurance perhaps?
Need assurance? This is a big way to find it,
I believe. Are you under this discipline,
this heavenly chastisement? Because this is the companion
of all those who are on their way to heaven. This heavenly
chastisement, this discipline from God. Some of these pressures
are different things, or trials, or challenges. These things are
our companion by God on the way to heaven, and only those on
the way to heaven receive it. Because the psalmist and others
can ask, why do the wicked prosper? It seems like they just have
it easy. Things go so great with them at times and all this. How
is that? Well, they're not receiving discipline.
And we need this correction and discipline from the Lord, every
bit of it. This will be a reality for all of those that God accepts
as His children. We need this teaching, this education,
this conformity, these hard lessons. Because He's going to shape us
into the ways of His family. And He's going to work in us. Now, I want us to notice the
warning is against two things, and these two things would be
two sinful responses that could lead to the fainting that's warned
against, or backsliding, or even worse, this danger of falling
away from God. Two sinful responses are drawn
to our attention. He says, one, to not regard lightly
the discipline of the Lord, and two, to not be weary when reproved
by him. Now these are two sides of the
same coin, but they're opposite ends, or opposite responses.
So I want to talk about this for a minute. Number one, do
not regard lightly. Now basically this means to esteem
lightly, or think little of. In the Old Testament, in the
Hebrew, if you read in the Proverbs, the word means to reject or despise,
or refuse. Now, if the Lord brings a disciplinary
word, or events, or trial into your life, to have this attitude
is on the way down. Like, it's bad. I mean, you think, oh, it's a light
thing. It's not that big a deal. It's something to blow off. I
don't really need to pay attention. Or like water off a duck's back,
right? You get the idea. This indicates
something that you really don't care about. You actually despise
it. And when I say not caring, it's
not because you're apathetic or just disinterested. No, it
goes to the heart. It speaks to the fact that you're
not caring. It's a not caring that's rooted
in a distaste or a disgust or contempt. And what this looks
like is someone simply disregarding the discipline. Not giving it
another thought, right? It's like just throwing something
away, in one ear, out the other. Now this kind of discipline usually
comes when the discipline comes in the form of a verbal or spoken
something from God. Like a parent trying to talk
to their children. I'm trying to talk to you, listen.
And you ever have some kids that get so stubborn, they're like,
Like, I'm not gonna listen to that. This is the idea. When
all they're trying to do is speak to you, they're not spanking
you yet. They're trying to talk to you.
And this can come in the form of teaching or preaching. This
can be a form of discipline in God's life. And you're just like,
in one ear, out the other. You've committed this wrong,
regarded it lightly. Okay, that's problem number one.
Problem number two is do not be weary. Do not be weary. It's the other side. It's the
equal danger. It's the other end of the spectrum.
This means to grow discouraged or depressed under God's discipline. It's a heart, an attitude of
despair, losing heart. Your heart just shrivels towards
God, or truth, or His people, or hardens. So what could this
look like? Because of the hard trial or
season in life, maybe, or because of the great disappointment or
the shattered dream, or the failed expectations, the unexpected
turn of events, you know, things turn hard, or the constant difficulties,
or afflictions. What you do in this problem is
you basically give up and quit trusting God. You fall into despair,
depression, discouragement, and you quit trusting God. You grow tired of it. You don't
want to strive or press on. And what's the key word here
in this passage? It's endure. You're ready to
quit. You don't wanna keep going on. You may have this sickening dread
come over you, the thought of hearing from God again, or preaching,
or going through something else, or something like that. You see,
holding on to your confession as a Christian becomes a wearisome
thing. And letting go seems to become more and more appealing.
This is the other side of the fence. So you can regard lightly
or you can do this, fall into all this discouragement and depression
stuff. When all that's going on is God
disciplining. Proverbs 3 goes on to explain,
for the Lord disciplines the one he loves and chastises every
son whom he receives. Isn't that amazing? God's saying
to us that His discipline comes to us because He loves us. God's love and God's chastening
are inseparable. It's like if His love's coming
towards you, you're like, yay, His discipline's also coming
right behind it. That's a fact. You see, He's
treating you as sons, not like sons, as sons. He really is your
Father, and you really are His son or daughter. And He's gonna
treat you like that. And faith lays hold of this and
realizes that God does all that He does towards me because He
loves me. He loves me. Love precedes all
of this discipline. It's conforming me to the image
of Christ. And this is the reason we're
to consider Christ. Or consider Jesus, to run our
race looking to Him, and considering Him and what He went through,
what He endured. And He says, it is for discipline
that you have to endure. Isn't that quite a statement? I think the Christian standard
got it in a way where I at least grasped the concept a little
better. And it says, it is that you have to endure suffering
as discipline. So are we enduring suffering
as discipline? That's the question, because
that's what it is. Those whom the Lord, this priest
king risen in heaven, those whom he intercedes for and bled for,
they will be getting the fatherly discipline from God, every one
of them. The pagan, the unbeliever, the
idolater, the false convert, those in love with the world,
the enemies of the cross, those at enmity with God, do not have
this blessing of discipline upon their lives. That word chastise,
it's a very strong word. Maybe a little stronger than
our English word chastise. It carries the notion of being
scourged. Scourged. These are heavy, painful
blows. A scourge. This is somewhat above
the ordinary, so to speak. This is God's way. And by faith
in Christ, we are God's children. We are adopted into the family. And you're as much His child
as Christ is, by faith. We're in the family and he's
our father and we have peace with him and are reconciled to
him, but he's not passive towards us. If we're his children, he
loves us and protects us. He's saving us from death. So
often this comes in the form of discipline. It's as a father,
not as a judge. Right, not as an enemy, it's
coming as a father. All forms of this come, all these
things. So when God disciplines us as
children, this is one of the most clear signs or evidences
you're his. It should help our assurance. This is one aspect of what you
could call experiencing the presence of God. We often, we want that, and that's
real. And so often we think an encounter
or experience with the presence of God will bring some warm or
euphoric or moving sensation or emotion of the heart, and
this is just so wonderful, and that's one piece of it. But have
you considered this reality? On this other hand, His reproof,
His discipline, or even His scourgings, hard things, it's also a clear
sign of His love for you and His nearness to you, His presence
with you. You're experiencing the Lord's
discipline and you're experiencing the presence of God in your life
and His love for you. Now, isn't that how one of the hardest
lessons a child has to learn? Like, son, I'm doing this because
I love you. They think, it hurts, how could you love me? But is
this not the truth? This is what we're experiencing.
A child knows his father loves him when he hugs him, sweeps
him up, kisses him, and he feels that. But he equally feels it
when he's receiving the discipline. It is equal love to do both of
these. And that's the hardest thing
as a father to learn, honestly. Man, I don't wanna do that. But
we got to, why? Because we love them. So these
heavy blows are absolutely necessary for our endurance in this race. They gotta happen. The Psalm
118, verse 18 says, the Lord has disciplined me severely, but, Now, you gotta love this, but
he has not given me over to death. Now, let me ask you, which one
do you prefer? Do you wanna be treated as God's
child and disciplined by God's child, no matter what that looks
like or how that feels? Or do you wanna be delivered
over to death? Now, that's the thing. He does
not want you to die if he's bringing these things. Verse eight makes
it clear that if you're without this discipline, then you are
illegitimate children and not sons. Meaning you are not children
of God, but children of who? You know, in John eight, Jesus
talked about this openly. with some of the religious leaders
saying, God is my father. And he said, no, he isn't. Basically, if God were your father,
you'd love me. If Abraham were your father,
you would be doing the things he did, but your father is the
devil. So not all people are children
of God, that's a fact. And there are parables about
this, you know, the sower sowed the good seed and the enemy came
at night and sowed his seed in the same land. So these are the
people who are in fact given over to death. And that's a dreadful
thought to a true believer. The reverse implication that,
wait a minute, he doesn't love those whom he doesn't discipline,
hands them over to death, they're not children. That's a dreadful
thought to a real child. Now, he doesn't love them in
I don't know what sense, but maybe in the sense that he just
doesn't discipline and bring them to heaven. He may love them
in a sense otherwise, where he gives them air and rain and food
and all that. But this is the reality, and
he's moving somewhere on in this truth, in this exposition of
Proverbs 3 right here. It's for your life and salvation.
See, every parent wants their child to live and see good days,
every one of them, and that includes God. And every decent parent,
that's what the second half of verse seven's saying. Like, what
son is there whom his father does not discipline? And he's
talking about a decent father, a normal father, not some derelict,
abusive, awful, pagan, evil father. He's talking about the normal,
decent father. They love their children and want to discipline
them, and they do the best they can because they love them. And since I'm a father myself,
I've always found verses nine and 10 very helpful because I
know that I fall short in ways as a father, but God doesn't. See, that's the point of these
verses. It's another argument that's shown from the lesser
us measly fathers to the great father of spirits. There's a
comparison. Our earthly fathers or parents
did the best they could or what as seemed best to them. Now, that's what I find so helpful
as a parent. God knows you can only do what
seems best to you. He knows that. He knows you can
only do your best to discipline and train up your children, and
that's all he expects. He knows your judgments and your
parental discretions are imperfect, flawed, limited, right? There's an element of uncertainty
in all human training and discipline. There just is. This is what this
verse is showing us, that we as parents so often feel like
we have failed our children. And no doubt we have it to some
degree. And maybe some of the hard things
or disciplines from God in life will now come as a result of
that. But, however, we should still
see that as God's love in our lives. that we're grieved by
this, we're bothered by this. It's so easy to either go one
way or the other on those two opposite routes, right? And usually
this one's discouragement-depression route. And I'm so down because
I've blown it with my kids, or maybe I've blown it with just
one of them. Right, and they're evil, or they're no longer in
church, or they're in jail, or they're this or that, and they're
no longer walking with the Lord, or they're not living in a way
that honors us or the Lord, and I'm grieved. Or they're on the
streets, who knows? But I believe God's word to us
right here today is you can do one of three things. It's like
you've come to a three-way fork in the road. Maybe right now. And you can, number one, you
can turn left and despise the discipline of the Lord, okay? You can veer to the right, number
two, and you can sink under weariness, lose heart, fall into depression
and cave and buckle and grow hard-hearted. Or number three,
you can go straight forward, keep going, press on in faith,
And perhaps let this scourge of God draw you closer to Christ
and press on. That's all you can do. And the
author's arguments, he expounds this proverb, is that if our
view of decent fathers was, hey, I respect my dad for doing the
best he could, right? How much more should we respect
the father of like God for doing what he does? He operates in
perfect wisdom. This is a sharp contrast between
him and human parents. And the subject to, that's the
big idea. When the furnace of affliction
comes, or the discipline, or the chastisement from God, will
you be humbly submissive to Him, subject to Him, trusting Him?
Because what He's telling us is that we are to share His holiness. What an inheritance, that's what
you're getting in on. Belonging to the kids or not,
failed here or there or not, done this or not, he's gonna
now bring the scourge or bring the pressure, bring the heat,
the disciplines to continue on by grace that you share his holiness
and you make it to heaven. So is it worth it? The author
is saying it is. If it's blood ahead, it's worth
it. If whatever, it's worth it. So the final thing I want to
address in the last two minutes, give me two minutes here, because
it may be the question on your heart or mine right now, and
it's this. How do I know some of these hard
things or trials or challenges are in fact the discipline of
the Lord for me? And I'm not just being handed
over, like the Proverbs say, the way of the transgressor is
hard. So how do I know I'm not just one of those transgressors
finding it hard in life and will eventually end up in hell? How
do I know? And I think verse 11 is the answer. He says, for the moment, all
discipline seems painful rather than pleasant. Rather, but later,
but later, it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those
who have been trained by it. Do you hear the answer? All discipline
of its nature is painful, all of it. Yes, it hurts, and there
are various degrees of suffering, trials, challenges, pressures,
situations that are just awful or hard, but look at what it
yields. What does it yield? What's it
producing? Because in due time, God's sovereignly
at work producing something. In due time, it will always bring
forth this peaceful fruit of righteousness. Our Lord tells
us, you'll know the tree by its fruit, remember? This peaceful
fruit. As I understand it, this means
you've come through this discipline from God. And in a way, it proves
you're a child when your heart and attitude have changed for
the better. And some of these graces and
fruits, maybe not all of them at once, but they start cropping
up. Oh, I'm finding myself more patient. with people that struggle
with this, or I'm growing in godliness, or love for God has
increased, or I have a deeper, more abiding peace now than I
had before, or I'm more of a peacemaker than I used to be. You see, I
have more joy now. I'm more tender-hearted and kind. I'm more gentle with those who
are struggling with the same sins that I do or used to. See these key words? Love, joy,
peace, patience, kindness, gentleness. Are these fruits cropping up
out of the pressures, the disciplines, the struggles, the disappointments,
the heartaches, all this self-control? I didn't realize I had that kind
of self-control to not say what I really wanted to say. Or, you
know, you see how this works? That's evidence it's really God
disciplining your life. You're being trained in this
way because God loves you. Now, he moves next into the evidence
you're not, and that's that root of bitterness. All these pressures,
all these challenges, all this affliction, all this disappointment,
all this and that that's just bad. It's making me bitter, hard-hearted,
angry. I'm lashing out more, I'm all
this more, I'm that more. That's the aggressive side, and
there's a flip side of that coin, and it's this just wanting to
drift away, withdraw, sink into depression. I'm done, that kind
of attitude. If any of these things are happening,
today's word from us is that we need to repent. You need to
repent and cry out to God to help you and give you grace to
endure suffering as discipline. Okay, so this author and Bible
exposer just blessed us with something beautiful. So let's
receive it. I mean, he brilliantly went through
these verses 11 through, or seven through 11, the necessity of a father's discipline,
the appropriate response on our part, and then the benefits he
laid out, we're gonna share in his holiness. Father, bless this
word of your people now. We look to you to do your good
work in us. For your glory, may we leave
here loving Christ more, trusting you more. In Jesus' name I pray,
amen.