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Preach, pastor, preach. All right, amen. Let's take our
Bibles and turn to 1 Timothy 2. 1 Timothy 2. Now, don't leave just after you
hear the scripture text, okay? This is one of those passages
that a lot of preachers would not touch with a nine-and-a-half-foot
pole, right? Or a 39-and-a-half-foot. Is that
the one that the Grinch, you know, you wouldn't touch him
with a 39-and-a-half-foot pole, right, in the old song? Certainly it is part of inspired
scripture and I think it is a fitting text to read in conjunction with
our series that we are going through, The Great Church Victorious,
Commitments of a Strong Congregation. So what are the things that a
healthy church is committed to? And that's what we want to consider
in this series. Of course, it's a bit of a diversion
from the series that we were doing in 1 Peter, and we will
get back to that, Lord willing, once we finish this series. But
I thought that this would be an appropriate rabbit trail,
if you want to put it in those terms, especially as we think
about our church. A godly pastor once told me that
every decision you make should be based on principle. And what
we do as a church needs to be based on the principles of scripture.
There are lots of things that you might see churches doing.
If you look in Paxton, if you look at the surrounding communities,
you might think, wow, if we did that, we could get all kinds
of people. Well, we probably could. But we don't base our
decisions based simply on what is practical, based simply on
what is likely to draw a crowd. We must base our decisions on
what the scripture teaches. So that needs to be our heartbeat,
and that's really the heartbeat behind this particular series
that we're going through. So I trust and I pray that as
we go through this series, that we will get a glimpse into what
God says a church should be, and not simply what the culture
says, not simply what the church growth experts say that the church
should be, but what does God say? That is our heartbeat. So we're gonna be reading as
we begin. Of course, we'll be surveying
a few different passages here this morning, but I wanna start
with 1 Timothy 2, and verse 11, 1 Timothy 2, verse 11. And Paul writes, let the woman
learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach,
nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then
Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but
the woman being deceived was in the transgression. Notwithstanding,
she shall be saved in childbearing if they continue in faith and
charity and holiness with sobriety. Father, we thank you that you
are the God of order. Lord, the structure that you
have put in place in the home, in the church, even in society
more broadly, is a perfect design. And Lord, we have gotten ourselves
into a world of trouble simply because we have failed to honor
the structure that you have put in place, and we have replaced
it with the schemes of humanity. But Lord, we praise you for the
inerrant scriptures. We know that they are a lamp
to our feet, a light to our path. May they serve that role today. O Lord, grant us willingness
to hear and obey your holy word. And it's in Christ's name we
pray. Amen. The American church is in a gender
crisis. This is not a matter of personal
opinion. It is a matter of factual record
based on hard data. In his book, Why Men Hate Going
to Church, David Murrow presents us with some very troubling statistics. The U.S. Congregational Life
Survey identified the average churchgoer as a 50-year-old married,
well-educated, employed female. ABC News and Beliefnet did a
poll in which they found that a worshiper is most likely an
older black female who lives in the South. Murrow combines
data from the U.S. Census and the Barna Research
Group to conclude that there are about 48 million adult women
in U.S. churches and 35 million adult
men. That is a gender gap of 13 million. In 2007, I know this has been
some years ago, but I highly doubt the statistics have improved
much since then, but in 2007, 69% of Baptist churches reported
having more women than men. Every other Christian denomination
survey reported that over 70% of their churches had a gender
gap with more women than men. The gender gap has affected the
Roman Catholic Church. 26% of US Catholic men attend
mass on a weekly basis compared to 49% of Catholic women. The traditionally black denominations
in the United States have had a particularly hard time. Researchers
estimate that 75% to 90% of adults who attend African-American congregations
are women. Now, by contrast to all of this,
Atheism, agnosticism, Islam, Buddhism, and Judaism are all
attracting more men than women. Now, you might look at all of
this and say, well, no big deal. At least the churches are attracting
a lot of women. And we praise the Lord for faithful women,
of course. But you have to understand something
about the hard data. Again, David Murrow's book, Why
Men Hate Going to Church, he helps us out, and he cites researcher
C. Kirk Hadaway of Hartford Seminary,
who undertook a study of 14,000 congregations, and he concluded
this. Even when controlling for the proportion of older participants,
a higher proportion of women in the congregation is associated
with decline rather than growth. Now, these trends have not escaped
the notice of a watching world. The most poignant discussion
that I have seen of this comes from the clinical psychologist
Jordan Peterson. Of course, he's a former professor
at the University of Toronto. Many of you know that he now
works with Ben Shapiro's The Daily Wire. He produced a video
on YouTube that is entitled, Message to the Christian Churches.
And if you've not watched that video, I would commend it to
you. I just want to give you a little snippet from that video.
Let me quote from it. He says this. Once again to the
churches, Protestant, you're the worst at the moment. Catholic,
Orthodox, invite young men. Put up a billboard. Say, young
men are welcome here. Print some flyers and put them
in a box by the billboard. Signal the existence of those
flyers with an arrow with the words, more information about
attending here. Tell those who have never been
in a church exactly what to do. How to dress, when to show up,
who to contact, and most importantly, what they can do. Ask more, not
less, of those you are inviting. Ask more of them than anyone
ever has. Remind them who they are in the
deepest sense and help them become that. Quit fighting for social
justice. Quit saving the planet. Attend
to some souls. That's what you're supposed to
do. That's your holy duty. Do it now before it's too late.
The hour is nigh. Now, for an unsaved clinical
psychologist, those observations aren't half bad. In fact, they
are far more perceptive than what we are hearing from most
evangelical leaders today. Shortly after I came as pastor,
we showed the documentary, The Essential Church. And you may
recall that in that film, John MacArthur indicated that when
he came to Grace Community Church in 1969, he had two goals. Number one, to teach the word
of God. And number two, to train men. And those have been my two goals
as well. To be frank, we still have a
ways to go in accomplishing both of those, but it is my passion
to see our men committed to the Lord Jesus Christ, to see them
engaged and not simply sitting in a pew in the life of the local
church. We've overdosed quite frankly
on absentee fathers who let their wives manage the spiritual affairs
of the household. We have men who don't know how
to open a Bible, men who don't know how to pray. It is my passion
for this church to be radically counter-cultural, to have men
with a passion for the Lord Jesus Christ, a passion for the word
of God, a passion for expository preaching, a passion for long
sermons. Yeah, I know. A passion for prayer. You know, there's a practical
benefit to emphasizing men. Some years ago, I heard Evangelist
Ron Comfort make an observation that I believe was based on his
experience of ministering to thousands, well, at least hundreds
of churches across our nation. He said this, if you focus on
reaching children, you'll have a children's church. If you focus
on reaching women, you'll have a women's church. But if you
focus primarily on reaching men, You'll have a family church.
That's what we want. My commitment to training men
is not simply based on practical considerations. It is based on
biblical considerations, as we're going to see. A strong congregation
is committed to the bold leadership of godly men. Now, I'll give
you a heads up that this is gonna be a two-part message. What we're
going to get into today is very foundational to all of this.
We wanna lay the groundwork of the need for male leadership
in the local church. And when I'm talking about leadership,
we are thinking in broader terms than simply the officers of the
church. We'll get to that in a moment.
But we're also thinking of lay leadership in this church. Maybe
you're not called to be a pastor. Maybe you're not called to serve
as a deacon. But men, you can play a vital
role in stepping up and being leaders in this church. Now,
what we'll get into next week, Lord willing, will be a little
bit more of the dynamics about the leadership structure in the
local church. You might be curious about some
of those things. Where does the pastor come in? Where do the
deacons come in? Where does the congregation come in? We'll get
into that in more detail next week. But I wanna lay a groundwork
to speak specifically to our men this morning. And women,
I don't want you to tune out, okay? Be engaged as well. For no other reason, you can
nudge your husband occasionally. But we want to deal with three
great needs for leadership in the local church. And we'll deal
with the first of them this morning. And really the most foundational,
number one, the need for men in local church leadership. the
need for men in local church leadership. The obvious place
to start is with the pastor. Now, you're in 1 Timothy chapter
two. I want you to look in chapter three and verse two. Of course,
you have in chapter three, Paul articulating the qualifications
for a bishop, which we'll discuss in more detail next week, Lord
willing. But I just wanna draw one of
these to your attention. 1 Timothy chapter three and verse
two, he speaks here of a bishop And as we will see again next
week, that bishop, pastor, elder, all of those three terms are
interchangeable for the office of leadership in the local church.
Paul writes that a bishop then must be blameless, the husband
of one wife. The term husband there is the
Greek word anere. It is a word that is distinctly
used for men. There can be no question, ladies
and gentlemen, that God restricts the office of the pastor to qualified
men and not to women. Now, we see the same thing in
verse 12, if you look, and here Paul speaks of the deacons. He
says, let the deacons be the husbands of one wife. There again,
you have the Greek word on air. But the most extensive discussion
of the issue of male leadership in the church is actually in
the passage that we began with in 1 Timothy chapter 2. Now this
is a passage that many pastors are embarrassed to find in their
Bibles. In many cases pastors spend more
time trying to explain away the passage than they actually do
explaining the passage. And friends, that cannot be.
This passage is so vital to our understanding of the church that
we cannot ignore it and we cannot explain it away. So let's dive
into it. Okay, back in 1 Timothy 2 and
verse 11. Paul writes, let the woman learn
in silence with all subjection. There's one verb that's used
in those words. It is the word that is translated,
let learn. That is the verb here. Now for
all the controversy that is engendered by this text, we have to start
by recognizing just how counter-cultural Christianity was in its day.
In the ancient world, it was often assumed that women were
not to learn anything when it came to religious matters. This
was true in both the Roman culture and in the Jewish culture. So
before you label Paul a chauvinist pig, Consider that many of his
contemporaries would have accused him of the exact opposite. But
we have to understand here the spirit in which women are to
learn. First, Paul says they are to
learn in silence. Now it is true that this Greek
word can refer simply to a peaceable disposition that doesn't try
to agitate or to stir up trouble. And certainly women should have
such a disposition. But I think it is far more likely
in the context that Paul has in mind a literal silence. There's a comparable text in
1 Corinthians chapter 14, verses 34 and 35. Let me read them to
you. Let your women keep silence in
the churches, for it is not permitted unto them to speak, but they
are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. And if
they will learn anything, let them ask their husbands at home,
for it is a shame for women to speak in the church. Now, we
do have to clarify that 1 Corinthians 14, 1 Timothy 2, these are not
absolute prohibitions against women doing any kind of speaking
on the church property. And we'll get into that, okay,
in a moment. But Paul's intention here, when
he says, let the woman learn in silence, is further clarified
by what we read in verse 12. Notice. but I suffer or I allow, I permit
not a woman to teach. When Paul refers to teaching,
he is referring to teaching that occurs in the midst of gathered
worship in the context of the local church. This is apparent
when you look at Paul's two other uses of this word in 1 Timothy.
So if you go over to chapter four in verse 11, Notice Paul writes here, these
things command and teach. You notice that there's that
strong impetus there of authority with that word command. That
is exactly the role that women are not to exercise in the context
of the local church. Then if you go over to chapter
six, verse two, notice the end of the verse. First Timothy chapter
six and verse two. These things teach and exhort. Again, instruction being given
here to Timothy. And as you look through the context,
notice verse three. If any man teach otherwise and
consent not to wholesome words, even the words of our Lord Jesus
Christ, and to the doctrine which is according to godliness, he
is proud, knowing nothing. Paul goes on to describe those
who reject this kind of instruction. But you see here that the teaching
is connected specifically with the teaching of scriptural doctrine. And so to teach is to teach biblical
doctrine, biblical instruction to a mixed congregation of women
and men. That is forbidden to women in
the text of scripture. Now it has become fashionable
in recent years for evangelicals to argue that a woman might preach
from the pulpit as long as she does so under the authority of
the male leaders in that church. And friends, that simply will
not be sustained from the text of scripture because what Paul
is forbidding here is not simply the office of the pastor, it
is the task of teaching. That is forbidden to the woman
in scripture. That task has been uniquely instructed,
or uniquely given to men. Now Paul says something else
about the woman's learning. Back in chapter two in verse
11, Paul says here that she is to learn with all subjection. The idea of subjection communicates
the idea of submitting to authority. That becomes evident again in
verse 12. Notice how Paul further elaborates
here. He says, but I suffer not a woman
to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. That verb that is translated
to usurp authority means to control in a domineering manner. Now
that kind of approach is not allowed according to the Apostle
Paul. The woman must assume a submissive stance in the church and recognize
her subordinate role in comparison to the men that God has ordained
in leadership over the congregation. I want to again refer back to
David Murrow's book, Why Men Hate Going to Church. And I want
to quote these extended comments because I imagine that many of
us can resonate with what he says here. Listen to what he
says. He says, in the church, men have
always been in charge. Christianity was founded by a
man and his 12 male associates. 95% of the senior pastors in
America are men. Every Catholic bishop, priest,
cardinal, and pope is a man. Some church boards are composed
entirely of men. Christians sit in church, look
up and see a man in the pulpit, and assume the institution he
leads is a bastion of male power and privilege. But look beyond
the relatively thin stratum of professional clergy, and you
find a church dominated by women and their values. Dr. Leon Podol says it well. Modern
churches are women's club with a few male officers. Whenever
large numbers of Christians gather, men are never in the majority.
Not at revivals, not at crusades, not at conferences, not at retreats,
not at concerts. With the exception of men's events
and pastoral conferences, can you think of any large gathering
of Christians that attracts more men than women? Visit a church
during the week, and you'll find that most of the people working
there are female. Drop in on a committee meeting,
and you'll find a majority of the volunteers are women, unless
it's that small bastion of male presence, the building committee.
Look over the leadership roster. The pastor is likely to be a
man, but at least two-thirds of his ministry leaders will
be women. Examine the sign-up sheets for volunteer work, prayer,
Sunday school, and nursery duty. You'll be lucky to see more than
a couple of men's names on these lists. Male ministers come and
go, but faithful women provide a matriarchal continuity in our
congregations. Women are the devoted ones who
build their lives around their commitments to Christ and his
church. Women are more likely to teach and volunteer at church
and are the greatest participants in Christian culture. The sad
reality in many congregations is this, the only man who actually
practices his faith is the pastor. Now don't get me wrong, we absolutely
need both men and women to volunteer in the life of the church. But
haven't we all been in situations, maybe you've been in churches
like this, where the pastor was a man, but the ones who were
really running the show were the women. And maybe you've been
in situations where those women were particularly bossy and boisterous. What Paul is envisioning is not
just that men will be pastors, he's envisioning that men will
be the significant influencers, the drivers of the churches.
They will be the most dominant voices Mark it down. Whenever women are the most dominant
voices in the congregation, that church is on the steady pathway
to decline. Paul gives a rationale for his
instruction. Notice verse 13. For Adam was
first formed, then Eve. Isn't that striking? When Paul
wants to defend male leadership in the church, he doesn't go
back to the Gospels. He doesn't go back to the prophets.
He doesn't even go back to the law of Moses. He goes all the
way back to creation. The order in which Adam and Eve
were created proves the reality of male leadership in the home,
in the church, and in the society at large. Now you may remember
when we talked about Genesis 3, there was a deliberate design
of the serpent strategy in the garden. When the serpent wanted
to tempt mankind, who did he go to? He went to the woman. But you remember that when God
confronted Adam and Eve in the garden, who did he go to first?
He went to Adam. And you remember that he rebuked
Adam because of the fact that he hearkened to the voice of
his wife. There was a reversal of roles. Adam was to be the
leader, but instead he was the follower. Now friends, we have
to face the harsh reality of the fact that I know it's not
popular in our culture, but the Bible is a patriarchal book. Adam was created first, not Eve. Noah was the preacher of righteousness,
not his wife. The patriarchs of the Jewish
people, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, were all men. The namesake for
the tribes of Israel were all men. Israel was delivered out
of Egypt by a man. Israel was brought into the promised
land by a man. The kings of Israel and Judah
were all men. Every book in the Bible, without
exception, was written by a man. The 12 apostles were all men. And of course, the Son of God
came to earth, not as a woman, but as a man. Now, yes, we acknowledge,
of course, that there are great women of faith in the Bible,
without which the Bible's storyline would, of course, be radically
incomplete. Women are indispensable to the
plan and purposes of God, but the normative pattern that is
established at creation is for men to be in leadership. This is commanded in the context
of the local church. Paul doesn't stop at creation.
Notice verse 14. And Adam was not deceived, but
the woman being deceived was in the transgression. And when
you read the account of the fall, you acknowledge in that reading
that Eve herself says she was deceived. She says in Genesis
3.13, the serpent beguiled me and I did eat. Now Paul's comments
here are important because of what he says in his second letter
to Timothy. If you go over to chapter 3 in
2 Timothy, and it is in this passage that Paul is describing
the sins that will be prevalent in the last days. There's sort of this laundry
list of all these ungodly traits. Notice verse 5. He says that
in the last days there will be those who have a form of godliness,
but denying the power thereof from such turn away. There's
this outward form of godliness without any real substance. And
then, notice what is said in verse 6. For of this sort are
they which creep into houses and lead captive silly women
laden with sins, led away with diverse lusts. What Paul is indicating
here is a greater vulnerability that women tend to have toward
deception. Now, I wouldn't take this to
mean that this is an absolute law that women are always easier
to deceive than men when it comes to spiritual matters, but it
does seem to suggest, when we read the text in 1 Timothy 2,
that there is a general pattern. And friends, the dangers of false
teaching in the local church are so significant that the task
of leading and teaching cannot be given to those who are more
likely to be led astray by error. Now, back in 1 Timothy 2, verse
15 has perplexed a lot of interpreters. It's a bit ancillary to our purposes
in this message, but to get the complete picture, let's look
at it. Verse 15, notwithstanding, she shall be saved in childbearing,
if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
What in the world is Paul talking about here? Well, first of all,
we have to understand what he's not saying. Paul is not saying
that women can be saved from their sins and have eternal life
by having lots of children. Nor is he saying, and I've heard
this before believe it or not, that women can be spared from
having lots of labor pains as long as they're faithful Christians.
The meaning, actually, in this context is this, that even though
women can't teach men in the church, and even though they
cannot exercise authority over men in the church, they can be
saved in the sense they are saved from having no role or no significance
in the church by faithfully caring for and nurturing children. These
instructions don't necessitate that a woman has to be a mother.
We know that that's not the calling in every woman's life. Even women
who are incapable medically of bearing children can still nurture
children in other ways. Many of you in this room can
testify to not just a caring mother, but perhaps a caring
Sunday school teacher, a caring teacher in your school system,
a caring neighbor, somebody who really took the time to nurture
and care for you. So women will not be preaching
behind this pulpit, but they can find fulfillment in many
other avenues of service, especially their care of children. Now,
if we haven't already had our fair share of controversy for
today, and I didn't, nobody's walked out, that's good, that's
good. I wanna turn our attention to another passage, and if you
didn't walk out with this one, maybe you'll walk out when we
start reading this one. 1 Corinthians chapter 11. Now, as we turn to 1 Corinthians
11, I have to say, we should never be afraid of what we're
going to learn when we study our Bibles. That is a particularly
striking temptation with this text, and I have to say that
it is a temptation that I personally succumb to. The Lord worked on
my heart about this, and I strongly felt compelled to study this
passage because it fit so well with what we're talking about
in this message. And if you really wanna dig deep
into this text, I would recommend to you, there's a YouTube video
that's out there that is six hours and 45 minutes long. So, you know, make sure you have
your coffee. But Pastor Mike Winger, he has
produced a video of that length on this passage, and he deals
with just about every conceivable issue of interpretation, so I
would commend that to you. But let's start out, we won't
be doing that long this morning, don't worry. Let's start with
verse 2 in 1 Corinthians 11. Paul writes, Now we mentioned
that term ordinances. Of course, Baptist churches generally
recognize two ordinances in the formal sense, the Lord's Supper
and baptism. But it's obvious that Paul is
using this term more broadly than simply those two official
church ordinances. He's referring here to any kind
of traditional practice that has been endorsed by the apostles.
In fact, the tradition, the ordinance that Paul is referring to here
is something that was universally accepted in the first century.
If you skip down to verse 16, notice. Paul says, but if any
man seem to be contentious, we have no such custom, neither
the churches of God. So in other words, Paul is saying,
look, if you're going to take issue with what I'm telling you
here, you're going to be on your own because all the churches
accept this practice. Now, let's look at how Paul reasons,
beginning in verse 3 of 1 Corinthians 11. But I would have you know
that the head of every man is Christ and the head of the woman
is the man and the head of Christ is God. That word head speaks
of authority. It's the same word that's used
in Ephesians chapter five when Paul says that the husband is
the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church.
And you remember that in that context, Paul tells the wife
to submit to the husband. There's a position of authority,
of headship. just as the body responds to the directions that
are given to it by the head, so the church responds to the
directions given to it by Christ, and so the wife responds to the
directions given to her by her husband. Now in 1 Corinthians
11, this general idea is broadened to the relationships between
men and women in the local church. Look at verse 4. Every man praying
or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoreth his head.
But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head
uncovered, dishonoreth her head. For that is even all one as if
she were shaven. For if the woman be not covered,
let her also be shorn. But if it be a shame for a woman
to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered. Now, you say, what
in the world is Paul talking about? Well, when you look at
the Greek words that are used here to describe being covered
and uncovered, these are the words that speak of cloth head
coverings. The woman who prays or prophesies
without such a covering is dishonoring her head. Now, I take that here
to mean not her physical head, but in the context, a reference
to her spiritual head, if you want to put it in those terms.
Namely, her husband and the male leadership in the local church. And Paul also condemns a man
who does wear a head covering, saying he dishonors his head,
who in this case is Christ. By the way, we shouldn't miss
that there's a two-way instruction here. It is not just the women
in this context that are told to wear the coverings. It is
the men who are told not to wear them. Somebody was recently telling
me about a pastor who preaches with a beanie hat on. And that
is entirely unbiblical. Now why is the covering important?
Well, look at verse seven. For a man indeed ought not to
cover his head for as much as he is the image and glory of
God, but the woman is the glory of the man. For the man is not
of the woman, but the woman of the man. Neither was the man
created for the woman, but the woman for the man. So, Paul here
appeals to creation just as he did in 1 Timothy 2. And he cites
here, first of all, origins. Of course, we know in that account
in Genesis chapter 2 that the man was created first, and then
the woman was created from a rib from Adam's side. So the woman
came from the man. Secondly, Paul cites purpose. The woman was created for the
man and not the other way around. The created order points to male
headship. Because of this order, Paul argues
that men should not wear head coverings, as we saw in verse
7, and that women should wear head coverings. Notice verse
10, for this cause ought the woman to have power on her head
because of the angels. That word power is the Greek
word for authority. In other words, the head covering
symbolizes the fact that the woman is under authority. That's
why man can't wear the coverings, because they are called to a
place of authority. And to wear the head covering
would be to negate that sense of authority. To further bolster
his case, Paul appeals to the fact that angels are witnesses
to the church gatherings. And earlier in 1 Corinthians,
in chapter four, he mentions that we are made a spectacle
to the angels. Angels need to see that God's
ordained order is recognized in the worship gatherings. Men
should be in leadership, women should be in submission. Now
as you continue reading, you find that Paul defends this particular
custom of the head coverings by appealing to nature. Look
in verse 14. doth not even nature itself teach you that if a man
have long hair, it is a shame unto him. But if a woman have
long hair, it is a glory to her, for her hair is given her for
a covering." And what Paul is arguing is this, that women,
the fact that you ought to pray or prophesy, we'll get to that
in a moment, with a head covering, is proven from nature itself. Because naturally, you have long
hair. Furthermore, the fact that it's
a shame for a man to have long hair demonstrates the inappropriateness
of a man wearing a covering when he prays or prophesies. Now there's
a whole lot of complexity in this chapter that we're not going
to get into this morning. But if you look beyond some of
the things that might distract us, the main underlying point
is clear. That God has called men to a
place of leadership. That's true in the home, it is
true in society, and it is true in the local church. And in Paul's
day, congregations recognized male leadership through the use
of head coverings. The infamous question at this
point is, Brother Nick, do you believe that women should continue
to wear head coverings today? And my answer to that question
is yes, under the specific conditions that are described in the passage.
Paul here, he does not say that women are required to wear head
coverings generally in the congregation. What he specifically says is
that they are to wear the coverings when praying or prophesying. So in other words, if a woman
is to lead in prayer, or if she is to exercise the gift of prophecy,
she is to be covered. Now we recognize that according
to what we teach as a church, we believe that the gift of prophecy
has ceased. It is no longer in operation
since we have the completed canon of scripture. But there are other
ways, I believe, that this principle could be applied. For example,
when My wife was in Saipan. She served as a translator for
a program that trained Chinese house church pastors. These instructors for those courses
were men, but my wife was a translator. In order to send a very clear
message that she was simply the translator, she was not the one
giving the instruction, she would wear a head covering to demonstrate
her submission to the male teacher that was teaching those courses.
Now you might say, Brother Nick, that's offensive. The question
is not whether it's offensive. The question is whether it's
biblical. Again, friends, I don't want to get overly distracted
by the point of the covering or the uncovering. The real greater
point here is male headship. The real sticking point in the
American church is not the hat, it's not the veil, whatever,
it's the heart. The fact that the reading of
a passage like this and the reading of a passage like 1 Corinthians
2 causes such controversy reveals that we are not in submission
to God's design for the church. Now, there's a method to the
madness behind what we do at Grace Baptist Church. The men's
prayer breakfast is not just an opportunity for guys to get
together and talk about guns and sports. Not that there's
anything wrong with those topics. I'd rather have that than gossip,
right? But we have the men's prayer
breakfast in order to raise up godly lay leaders, godly male
lay leaders in the context of the local church. In February,
we're gonna have a men's rally with multiple preaching services
and teaching workshops. Why? We're doing it so we can
raise up godly male lay leaders in the church. When you look
at our church services, they are intentionally dominated by
men. There's a man doing the preaching. There's a man doing
the pastoral prayer. There's a man reading scripture.
There's a man leading singing. Now there's a topic worth talking
about for a moment. A man leading singing. Most evangelical
churches have moved away from a single man leading singing. The norm is now the worship team,
where you have a mixed ensemble of men and women leading in worship. Now, it's not necessarily something
I'd be burned at the stake over, but it is my conviction that
that is a subtle erosion of male headship in the church. When
you walk into the doors of Grace Baptist Church, you are greeted
by a man. Now I don't think that's necessarily a matter of biblical
faithfulness. There are godly women who serve as greeters in
churches. But we send a clear message from the moment you walk
into the doors that this is a church in which men are committed to
service for Christ. The most significant things we
do as a congregation are led by men. The pastor is a man.
The deacon is a man. The treasurer, the assistant
treasurer are both men. And I have regular meetings with
our male church officers. Now you might think this is the
most chauvinistic sermon you've ever heard in your life. And
maybe you think, well, Brother Nick, it really doesn't seem
to me like women would be attracted to a place like this. And on
this point, biblically, I have to say I think you're wrong.
I want to draw your attention to the verse that we read in
the bulletin this morning, 1 Corinthians 16 and verse 13. This is part of Paul's concluding
instruction to the church at Corinth. He says, watch ye, stand
in the faith, quit you like men, be strong. The words quit you
like men, it doesn't mean quit being men, which is I think how
many men have interpreted it. It means act like men. Isn't
that something? Paul tells a local church to
act like men. And you notice that there are
other qualities here that are connected with acting like men,
being watchful, being steadfast or firm in the faith, and being
strong. Don't you think godly women would
want to be a part of a church that's characterized by those
things? It's a sad reality that spirituality has become the domain
of women. We associate spirituality with
feminine decorations, with Hallmark cards, with a sort of soft, milquetoast
type of disposition. Home decor that has Bible verses
on it is often connected with a very girly type of script and
flowers. You would never see those types
of things in a mechanic shop, and it's just assumed that you
would never see a Bible verse in a mechanic shop, because this
is what women do and not men, and that's a shame. But when you read through the
pages of the New Testament, you find that Christianity is not
a weak effeminate religion It is a religion of sacrifice. It
requires deep commitment even to the point of hating father
mother brother sisters wife and self It is a religion that calls
for courage in the face of persecution as they hated me so they'll hate
you Jesus said and We have something to offer the men of Central Illinois. In a culture that treats all
masculinity as toxic, we have a Bible that exalts bold manhood
in the service of Jesus Christ. A masculine environment centered
on that kind of boldness is attractive to all kinds of people, to men,
to women, and to children. Now let me swear honestly with
you. I refuse to pastor this church like a woman. As long
as I am the pastor here, we will not kowtow to female emotions
and hormones. We will not become engrossed
in female drama. This is the church of Jesus Christ. This is not an episode of the
young and the restless. Under my pastorate, we will hold
the bar high. We will demand holiness. We will
demand commitment from followers of Jesus Christ. Under my pastorate,
we will be bold and we will take risks, and we will not fear the
fallout from weak-minded people who want everything done their
way. Under my pastorate, we will have long, expository sermons
that engage deeply with the text of Scripture, not sugar-coated
sermonettes filled with trite, tear-jerking stories. Under my
pastorate, we will confront the forces of compromise, the forces
of wokeness, the forces of secularism, and we will not back down in
the face of opposition. Under my pastorate, we will preach
on sin, we will preach on repentance, we will preach on hell, we will
preach on the wrath of God. We're not just doing this to
be macho. We're doing this to be biblical. What we're doing
looks incredibly abnormal in the face of an increasingly weak
and androgynous culture in our day. So men, what about you? Are you going to stand for Christ? Are you going to lead your homes
in the path of righteousness? Are you going to give heart and
soul and mind and strength to serve the king of kings? Or are
you going to let women lead the way? The future. of Grace Baptist Church hinges
on your answers to those questions. Your Father, we thank you for
the Word of God. We thank you for the structure
that you have ordained in the life of the church. Lord, my
heart goes out to our men. Oh Lord, challenge them, provoke
them to be godly leaders in their homes. May they stand for Christ
in the home, may they stand for Christ in the culture, and may
they stand for Christ in this church. I pray that men would
be challenged to take bold leadership in this congregation, to take
a real stand for Christ. Lord, we ask these things in
Jesus' name. Amen. All right, I'm gonna do something
that's a bit unusual, so bear with me. And people will probably
tell me I shouldn't do this, but that's okay, we'll do it
anyway. I would like all the men, if you were a man, I would
like all the men to come up to the first two rows, if you could.
All right, if you were male, don't worry, we're not gonna
humiliate you or anything. I know, I frustrate our people
by throwing the curveballs, but I think we'll manage, all right?
That's good, I'm glad to see men up here. Excellent, praise
the Lord. All right, I want our men to
turn to 575. 575 in your hymn books. And I actually don't want instruments. I want this to be a cappella,
all right?
The Bold Leadership of Godly Men (Part 1)
Series The Great Church Victorious
| Sermon ID | 1022241521473251 |
| Duration | 48:55 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - AM |
| Bible Text | 1 Corinthians 11:1-16; 1 Timothy 2:11-15 |
| Language | English |
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