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Matthew chapter 18 verses 15 through 22. A Church with Integrity part 3.
A Church with Integrity part 3. Matthew 18, 15. When you get
there, if you're able, please stand for the reading of God's
Word. Matthew 18, 15. The Bible says,
Moreover, if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and
tell him his fault between thee and him alone. If he shall hear
thee, thou hast gained thy brother. But if he will not hear thee,
then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two
or three witnesses every word may be established. And if he
shall neglect to hear them, tell it unto the church. But if he
neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as a heathen
man and a publican. Verily I say unto you, whatsoever
ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatsoever
ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. Again I
say unto you that if two of you shall agree on earth as touching
anything that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of
my Father which is in heaven. For where two or three gather
together in my name, there am I in the midst of them. Then
came Peter to him and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin
against me, and I forgive him, till seven times? Jesus saith
unto him, I say not unto thee until seven times, but until
seventy times seven. You may be seated. Thank you.
May the Lord bless the reading. the receiving of His Word this
morning. We'll wrap up our brief study on church discipline this
morning. I know there's a lot more obviously
we could go into, but we've looked at the qualifications of a pastor,
we looked at what a church is, or who a church is, and what
we do as far as our gifts that God's given us and how that is
shown in and through the local church. And something else that
we're having to look at is church discipline. You may ask, why
are we going over this? We've been going through the
book of Luke and the Lord willing this coming Sunday we'll be back in
Luke starting in chapter 3. I'm excited about that. So why
are we going over these qualifications? Well it's important that you
know the qualifications of a pastor. It's important that you know
that the church is bought and paid for by the blood of Jesus
Christ, and that it's His church. He's given His church gifts.
It's also important that we understand how the church is to conduct
itself. We've heard so much about church discipline. We've heard
horror stories about church discipline. And the fact of the matter is
that, according to the Bible, a church with integrity does
practice church discipline. And we're actually in the process
now of doing church discipline on some members. Something that
we don't like to do, but we have to. If we love them, we'll do
it. And if we love the Lord, we'll
do it. Amen? Last time we looked in verse
17, about the one being disciplined, not repenting. after much time
and many people going to that person in love with the spirit
of meekness. Galatians 6 says, you who are
spiritual, go to that person in the spirit of meekness. Amen. That's power under control. And
the result is that fellowship is withdrawn from that person
by the church because that person refused to repent from their
sin. The church did not go to that
person with the end goal to kick them out or to excommunicate
them. No, the church went with the
end goal and view as being restoration after they repented. But in verse
17 that person did not repent, so therefore there is no restoration
and there must be excommunication. And of course the church is grieved
over that. And if that person continues
to live in a lifestyle of open on sin, if that person lives
non-repentant, then at that point you have to question whether
or not that person was truly ever saved to begin with. And we'll see why here in a little
while. We are constantly repenting. of our sins after the Lord saves
us. Not to remain saved because we
are saved. We know that no one can earn
salvation. But what do sins do? Unrepentant sins for you and
I. They hinder our fellowship with the Lord. Not our relationship
that is secure that has been secured by the blood of Jesus
Christ. He saves our souls and we are
from that point forward in right relationship with God. What IS
hindered by sin is our fellowship. If you wonder if a man or a woman
can lose their salvation, if you read Romans 8, 28, through
39 we will see from the Word of God that that's not possible. Once we are saved we are secured
in Christ Jesus. Let's go ahead and turn there.
Let's read that. The Lord has given us a beautiful day today
so I know that we're not in a hurry. Romans chapter 8, we'll start
in verse 28. Romans 8, 28, and we know that
all things work together for good to them that love God to
them who are called according to His purpose. Verse 29, from
whom He did foreknow, this means to love beforehand. He also did
predestinate, this means to predetermine beforehand, to be conformed to
the image of His Son that He might be the firstborn among
many brethren. Moreover, whom he did predestinate,
them he also called. And whom he called them he also
justified, and whom he justified them he also glorified. What
shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be
against us? He that spared not his own son,
but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also
freely give us all things? Who shall lay anything to the
charge of God's elect? It is God that justifies. Period. Amen? Only God can justify. Who is he that condemneth? Now,
if God justifies us, who can condemn us? That's the question
here. It is Christ that died, yea rather that is risen again,
who is even at the right hand of God, who also maketh intercession
for us. And His intercession will never
end. The Bible tells us He ever lives
to intercede for us. Verse 35, Who shall separate
us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress,
or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword.
As it is written, For thy sake we are killed all the day long,
we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter. Nay, in all these
things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us. For
I am persuaded that neither death nor life nor angels, nor principalities,
nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height,
nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us
from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord." That's
settled, isn't it? We are secure in Jesus Christ. Nothing and no one can unsecure
us, not even yourself. very comforting scriptures. But
the fact of the matter is this, also, I should say, though we
are secure in Christ, we are still robed in flesh. And our
flesh, this fleshly body is not redeemed. It's not going to heaven. All of God's people said, Amen. This fleshly body, its members,
is drawn to sin. Each particular member of our
body is drawn to sin. It wants it. It desires sin. And therefore
we must continually beat our bodies to bring it under the
subjection of the Word of God and walk with Christ. So in a sense we could say that
we must do church discipline on ourselves every day. We could go as far as to say
that each church service is a form of church discipline. Say, wow,
each church service? No, it's not a form of it. Let's
go to 2 Timothy 4, look in verse 2. 2 Timothy 4, verse 2. The Bible says in 2nd Timothy
4 to preach the Word, be instant in season, out of season. Notice
this. Reprove, rebuke, exhort with
all longsuffering and doctrine. We could say that is a form of
church discipline. Why? Because by the Word being
preached, we are being reproved and rebuked and exhorted. by
the teaching from the Word of God. Another reason it's so important
that we teach and preach the Word of God, not man's traditions
or opinions. We could go further and say simply
by reading the scripture is also a form of church discipline,
which may be a reason why our flesh hates getting up and reading
scripture. It's so weary to us. We fall
asleep. We get tired. 2 Timothy 3, 16 and 17, again we
see all scripture is given by inspiration of God and it's profitable
for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in
righteousness. What are we seeing here? A form
of discipline. simply by reading the Scriptures.
I think this helps us see how beneficial it is for us to gather
together for every church service as much as we can. Because do
you know what we need? We need discipline. We need to
be held accountable. We should put forth much effort
to gather together. Those who are faithful to come
and hear the Word taught and preached and are obedient to
what they hear are less likely to be one that has to be gone
to and confronted over sin in their life. I thought about what Cain, I
mean what the Lord told Cain in Genesis 4-7. He says, If thou
doest well, shalt not thou be accepted? And if thou doest not
well, sin lieth at the door. James 4, 17, Therefore to him
that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not to him, it is sin. There is usually a pattern with
those who will be next for church discipline. Oh, come on, now
you're profiling. There's usually a pattern. Their prayer life is lacking.
Their study time is lacking. And even though that you and
I are not in their home to see this, we see the results of it. Where there used to be a crucifying
of the flesh and telling the flesh no, now they start to cater
to the flesh. Their attendance to gather with
the brethren is no longer a priority. Other things are more important.
Other things come up. And if they have nothing else
to do, then they'll darken the church door. They begin to lower their standards
and sin slips right in. Sometimes they even welcome sin
in. We have seen this time after time after time. The sad part
is when you see this and you know where they're going, amen,
you see this, it grieves you. You know the end result. And
you go to them and you say, Brother, Sister, this is where you're
headed. This is what you're doing. The majority of the time, they're
offended. Who are you to come to me? I can't believe you would do
that. You're trying to single me out. I heard what you preached
last Sunday. That was all about me. No, we
go verse by verse. So they're offended easily when
confronted, but yet it's beneficial for them
and the church that they are confronted. Sin is sin in the
eyes of God and there are different consequences for different sins,
right? Some sins are worse than others.
So after you have gone to the brother or sister in Christ in
sin, what's next? Let's go back to Matthew. You've
gone to them in two things. Either they have repented or
they have not. So what's next? Again, last week
we looked in verse 17. And if he shall neglect to hear
them, tell it unto the church. But if he neglect to hear the
church, let it be unto thee as a heathen man and a publican.
What do you do? You put them out. You excommunicate them.
You still love them. You don't hate them. Your hearts
grieve for them. You beg God for them. But you have to excommunicate
them. from the church. What's next? Well, here in the
scripture, verse 18 through 20. Verily I say unto you, whatsoever
ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatsoever
ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. And again
I say unto you, that if two of you shall agree on earth as touching
anything that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of
my Father which is in heaven. Where two or three are gathered
together in my name, there am I in the midst of them. And if we
keep this in context, this is speaking about church discipline.
I know we've probably all heard people take these scriptures
out of context. Oh Lord, you made us a promise where two or
three are gathered together, there you are in the midst of us. Well,
hang on a second, that's about church discipline, not a prayer meeting. Because if that was the case,
if you had less than two or three gathered together, then there'd
be a problem, wouldn't there? Got it! God can't make it tonight
because there ain't but one! But that's not what the Bible's
teaching. And then verse 19, I've seen people who are of the
health, wealth, and prosperity gospel take this verse out of
context and beat people with it, where it says, again I'm
saying to you, that if two of you shall agree on earth as touching
anything, that they shall ask, it shall be done for them by
my Father which is in heaven." So they'll pray and say, OK, y'all,
I need y'all to agree with me because if you agree with me
then God has to do this. I saw where a young family, they
had a newborn baby and it was in the NICU department And that
may not be correct terminology, forgive me if I say that wrong,
but the baby was struggling, so they had it in a special department
hospital and working on it. And this was back whenever I
was on Fakebook, and the father put this verse out there, verse
19, and says, I need y'all to agree with me. And I almost wanted
to respond and say, are y'all already doing church discipline
on that little boy? Not the place, right, to do that.
Not the time. Because they misunderstand what
the Scriptures actually say. But because they're not keeping
it in context. See what we're doing here is we're keeping the
whole text in context, which means we're getting the right
understanding, the right interpretation of what this verse actually means. So let's look at it. If the person
refuses to repent, and the church has to withdraw fellowship from
them, or if they repent, either way,
the action on earth is bound in heaven. Notice the words bind,
bound, in verse 18. saying to you that whosoever
you shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven. And whosoever
you shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. This bind
and bound, this speaks of the ancient manner of binding together
the doors of houses with a chain to which a padlock was sometimes
suspended. Now picture that. What is bound on earth figuratively,
with a chain and lock, is also bound in heaven. Figuratively,
with a chain and lock. This analogy is kind of scary.
If the church does church discipline biblically, then in the end the
person who refuses to repent is figuratively locked out of
the church. Again I want to stress that this
person is truly saved, his relationship is not hindered, but his fellowship
is. He is kept outside of the doors
of blessings and protection of a church family. Isaiah 59, 1 and 2, the Bible
says, Behold, the Lord's hand is not shortened, that it cannot
save, neither is His ear heavy, that it cannot hear. But your
iniquities have separated between you and your God, and your sins
have hid His face from you, that He will not hear. This takes us back to what we
learned last week from 1 Corinthians 5 and 11. 1 Corinthians 5 to deliver such
and one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh that the spirit
may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus. That person is put
outside of the protection and blessing of the local church. This act that's binded on earth
is also bound in heaven." What's the Lord saying? Church, you're
doing right. And what you're doing, heaven
is also going to do. Now just picture that for a second.
Again, figuratively, this person is, in a sense, locked out of
fellowship with who? The local church. 1 Corinthians
5 says don't even eat with that person. You don't fellowship
with that person. This is not to say that we are
holier than you. This is to cause them to see
and understand, help them see and understand that their sin
is truly sin. So if they're locked out from
the fellowship of the church, what else were they locked out
from if heaven is locked out to them? Fellowship with who? God. Man, that's pretty harsh. God takes sin serious. Look in
1 Timothy chapter 1. I know people say, oh, but you
should not call their names out in a church service. That is
so embarrassing, that is so unloving that you would call their names
out and let everybody know that they're being excommunicated. We should not view the Bible
from our American eyes. 1 Timothy chapter 1, look at
verse 18. This charge I commit unto thee,
son Timothy, according to the prophecies which went before
on thee, that thou by them mightest war a good war for a holding
faith and a good conscience, which some, having put away concerning
faith, have made shipwreck." What have they done? They've
destroyed their testimony. of whom are a couple of people that I
don't want to name because it's going to embarrass them. Is that what Paul put? Of whom
is Himanias and Alexander? No, Paul names them. And listen
to this, this is not just the church at Ephesus where Timothy
is that hears these names. You and I have been hearing these
names, people have, for over 2,000 years. God takes sin serious. Whom I have delivered, notice
this, unto Satan, that they may learn not to blaspheme." What
happened? Church discipline. They've been
put outside the Lord's church. They've been delivered over unto
Satan that they may learn not to blaspheme. So that's harsh. This delivering
unto Satan is for their benefit. How can that be for their benefit?
Listen, the Bible tells us in the book of Proverbs, I'm going
to use our vernacular, WHOOP YOUR CHILDREN EARLY. Beat the devil out of them. And don't restrain from their
crying. KEEP WHOOPING THEM. It's for
their good. And this here is for the good
of Hymenaeus and Alexander. Remember that Satan is a tool
of the Lord. He is not just running around
doing what he wants to do. We have been given multitudes
of Old Testament examples of this. A simple reading in the
book of Judges and we find the same principle where the nation
of Israel would do good under a certain leader. And that leader
would die and then they would dive off into sin. And as a result
of sin, God would put them under bondage of someone else who would
afflict them and persecute them. And through that, over time,
then they would cry out, Lord, deliver us. So God would send
a deliverer to them, deliver them from the oppression of whoever
it may be. And while that person was there leading and guiding
and directing them, they would do good. As soon as that person
would die, back off onto idolatry and sin again, they'd go. Process
over and over and over and over. Do you see why it's so important
to be under the Word of God? To be in tune, to be connected
with, to be a member of a local New Testament church. We do hold each other accountable
out of love, right? We must stress here again that
the last thing the church does is to excommunicate. That is
the last thing that we do as far as this goes. But we never
stop praying for that person. We never stop begging God for
that person. And like the father and the prodigal
son, we're always looking for the return of that person or
people. And if we're always looking for
their return, when they return, we will find ourselves rejoicing,
praising God that they've repented. and turn. And sometimes God must
chasten and scourge them before they will do that. And if they
don't, sometimes, as we learn in the Scriptures, God kills
them. Acts chapter 5, 1 Corinthians
11, we see that. In Hebrews chapter 12, let's
go there. Hebrews chapter 12, we'll pick
up in verse 5 for sake of time. Hebrews 12, 5. Some people say,
oh no, God would never do that. God is love. And since God is
love, He is too loving to whoop somebody. to chasten and scourge
them. Hebrews 12, 5 says, And ye have
forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children,
My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint
when thou art rebuked of him. For whom the Lord, what? Loveth. It would be good to underline
that in your Bible. For whom the Lord loveth, he
chasteneth and scourgeth every son whom
he receiveth. If you endure chastening, God
dealeth with you as with sons. He deals with you like you are
his son. For what son is he whom the Father
chasteneth not? Why is it that God chastens all
of His children? Because we always mess up. Can you all say Amen? Have any
of you messed up this week? I should say any of us. How about
this morning? Isn't it good that we have the
conviction of the Holy Spirit? And that we should immediately
deal with that mess up and confess it? Thankful to hear the preached
word which also reveals things. Scripture is light. Amen. And
we see these things and we confess it. That's the chastening. What
is chastening? Chastening is correction with instruction.
Look, you messed up. Don't do this. This is why you
messed up. This is why you don't do it.
This is how to get away from that and not to do it again.
It's a constant. Every day. Day in, day out. Well, some of us are hard-headed. And we don't listen to the chastening. We don't listen to the conviction
of the Holy Spirit. And we don't listen to the chastening
of God. So then what's God got to do?
Scourge us. That's put the hand to. Put the whip to. So what do we do? We go through
the chastening. That is an evidence that we are
a child of God. But look at verse 8. Before I read it, let's say this,
that we proclaim to be a Christian, yet we never see God's chastening
or scourging in our lives. Look at verse 8. But if ye be
without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye
bastards, and not sons. Furthermore, we have had fathers
of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence.
Shall we not much rather be in subjection to the Father of spirits
and live? For they verily for a few days
chastened us after their own pleasure, or how they thought
it to be right. But he for our prophet, that
we might be partakers of his holiness." So why does God chase
him and scourge him? Why is God always, in a sense,
whipping us back in the line? That we will be partakers of
his holiness. Look at verse 11. Now no chastening
for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous. And we can all say amen, can't
we? Nevertheless, afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit
of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby. Chastening and scourging from
God is profitable for the Christian. And God does this to all of his
children. Why? because He loves us. Because He loves us. Now we have
looked at the process and the consequences of church discipline
with someone who will not repent. You excommunicate them figuratively,
you put the chain and lock on the door outside the church,
and what we bind on earth is bound in heaven. This is done
according to the Bible. It's done, as the Bible tells
us, to do it out of love for the brother or sister. And because
of that, Christ says in Matthew that heaven will do the same
thing. That person is in a bad place. That person is in a place where
you can expect to see the chastening and scourging of God on their
life. You can expect them to be the
most miserable person in the world. On one hand, that should
be our prayer. Lord, that they would be miserable
in their sin. Miserable in their sin. But at the same time, we should
be looking for their repentance and their return. So, we have looked at one who
refuses to repent, but how about the person that DOES repent?
Same thing. When two or more gather together
in agreement concerning church discipline, the Lord is with
them. If the result is the figurative
change in lot, then the Lord is with them. If the result is
that the person repented, then the church receives them back
in the fellowship. And the Lord is with them in
this also." In other words, the chain and lock is either taken
down or not put up figuratively on earth, also in heaven. And that person can go and fellowship with their Lord
and Savior in prayer, in Scripture reading. Amen. If the church is biblical in
the way it handles church discipline, it will find that the Lord is
with that church, and that is very comforting. Why, listen,
again, church discipline is not easy. Do you want to go to another
adult whom you love and say, brother, sister, no one that
more than likely they're going to get mad at you? Do you want
to go to them and confront them over their sin? There's stress
there, I'm telling you. But who do we love more? And
why do we love them more? We love them more than they love
their sin. We want to go to them. It is comforting for the church
to know this. It is also comforting for the one or ones who have
repented. Why, it is great to be back in
fellowship with the brethren and with the Lord. You cannot
be in fellowship with the Lord if you're not in fellowship with
His bride, the church. Yes, we know that situations
may arise in someone's life that keeps them from meeting with
the brethren. For instance, they may be homebound or cast into
prison. But they don't just get up and
say, you know what, I don't feel like going today. I've got better
things to do. No, if they are able, it would
be meeting with the brethren. Actually, you'll see in their
life that They schedule family events, other activities around
gathering with the brethren. And I can remember a time when
Franklinton closed down on Wednesdays at 12 o'clock. Why? Because Wednesday evenings
is church night, midweek services. Saturdays, 12 o'clock, Franklinton
closed down. Sundays, ghost town. Why? Because people were focused
on being in God's house. How about today? Today, in Franklinton,
Sunday is one of the busiest days in town. Lord help us, small town. Let me keep going. When the one
in sin repents, what should the church do? Let's say that you
went through this whole process and that you had to put the chains
up for a little while, but then by the grace of God they repented,
what do you do? Do you say, well, we should be
ready and willing to forgive. And evidence of forgiveness is
full restoration. In other words, they are welcomed
back into the fellowship of the church. One of the things that
they miss out on is the Lord's Supper. Once the Lord saves us, the first
thing we are to do is to be baptized. And to be baptized, according
to what we understand the Bible teaches, you must become a member
of the church because there is a certain progression of baptism
from Jesus Christ to today. Amen. And I'm not going to go
over that this morning. There are two ordinances in the
church. They are baptism and the Lord's
Supper. Those who are able to go to the
Lord's table are baptized believers and write fellowship with the
Lord and the Lord's church. That's what we learn from the
scriptures. So one of the things they have been kept out from,
one of the things that has been chained from them is the Lord's
table. So once they repent and come
back, what happens? That chain and lock is dropped
and they again have access to fellowship, yes, with the brethren,
but also to and with the Lord's Table, the Lord's Supper. Ephesians 4, 32, And be ye kind
one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as
God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you. We must be careful that
we don't go from one extreme to the other, where they come
back in and we say, no, stay away from me. I remember what
you did. I remember what you said. Stay away from me. No, that's
censure. That's not full restoration.
But to say, though I may remember what you did, I may remember
what you said. I love you." And what does love
do? It covers a multitude of sins. In 2 Corinthians chapter 2, in
1 Corinthians Paul wrote telling them not to accompany fornicators
and adulterers that were inside the church, right? And they ended up doing that,
and that person was repentant. But then they took it further
and continued, continued. Look in verse 1 of 2 Corinthians
2, But I determined this with myself, that I would not come
again to you in heaviness. For if I make you sorry, who
is he then that maketh me glad but the same which is made sorry
by me? And I wrote the same unto you lest when I came I should
have sorrow from them of whom I ought to rejoice. Having confidence
in you all that my joy is the joy of you all. For out of much
affliction and anguish of heart I wrote unto you with many tears. Not that ye should be grieved,
but that ye might know the love which I have more abundantly
unto you." Why did Paul write them? Because of the sin that
they were embracing. But if any have caused grief,
he hath not grieved me, but in part that I may not overcharge
you all. Sufficient to such a man is this punishment which was
inflicted of many. Paul said, y'all did right. Y'all
obeyed what I wrote. Paul is an apostle. He has authority,
okay? And we'll learn that in Sunday
school. They did what Paul said to do to that person in 1 Corinthians
chapter 5. So that contrarywise he ought
rather to forgive him and comfort him lest perhaps such a one should
be swallowed up with overmuch sorrow." What did this person
do? Because of church discipline, this person repented of their
sins. And if the church would have
kept on doing discipline after this person repented, it would
be much sorrow. Therefore I beseech you that
you would confirm your love toward Him. For to this end also did I write,
that I might know the proof of you, whether ye be obedient in
all things. To whom ye forgive anything I forgive also. For
if I forgave anything, to whom I forgave it, for your sakes
forgave I it in the person of Christ." Notice this. Why do
you forgive? Why do you restore? If you do
not, when they repent it, lest Satan should get an advantage
of us, for we are not ignorant of his devices." There is division,
discouragement, depression as a result of a church not conducting
church discipline properly. What do they keep doing? They
kept doing church discipline even though the person had repented.
Say, no, no, you stay over there, stay away. No. The Bible's telling
us we love them. They're repentant. We love them. Full restoration. Welcome back
to the Lord's table. Full fellowship. Amen. We don't want to give place to
the devil, do we? We don't want the devil making
a gain of us. When a person repents, we're to receive them back into
the fellowship. Now, we've got to be careful. This doesn't mean the person
is put back into a leadership role. That's not what this is
talking about. But that they have full and free
fellowship with the brethren. That is what it's talking about.
Fellowship. To become a leader they had to
prove themselves, so they must prove themselves again. Keep
this in mind. Also, different sins have different
consequences. We've learned from our study
about pastors. Lord help us. There are certain sins that disqualify
us for the rest of our lives. The sin of adultery. Disqualified
from pastoral ministry for the rest of our lives. It's over. Done. And it's not that that person
can't come back in the fellowship of the church. They can, as we
mentioned, fellowship back to the Lord's table, but they can
never again be where they were at as a pastor. Let me ask you this. King David. We've been looking at the life
of King David. Up to his sin with Bathsheba, things were going
great, weren't they? What happened after his sin with
Bathsheba? He was never the same again. Never the same again. Let's go back to Matthew 18.
There's so much more I could say on that, but let's go back
to Matthew 18 and try to get finished with this little brief
study on church discipline. Remember the title of the message
is A Church with Integrity. Integrity is someone doing something
that they say they're going to do. And you and I say that we're
going to do church discipline, so guess what we need to do?
We need church discipline. Not just because we say it, but
because the Word of God tells us to. So back in Matthew 18, verse 21. Then came Peter to
him and said, Lord, how often shall my brother sin against
me, and I forgive him? Till seven times? Jesus saith
unto them, I say not unto thee until seven times, but until
seventy times seven. So how do we deal with the repeat
offender? When dealing with the repeat
offender, our flesh wants to say that's enough. Enough is
enough. But what's the Bible tell us? What does Christ teach us here? That we are to forgive. Seven
times seventy, that doesn't mean that we actually multiply those
numbers together. The word seven there talks about
perfection, completion, the whole of it. In the book of Revelation,
the seven churches speaks of all the churches in a sense.
Amen. This means an innumerable amount. We keep forgiving, keep forgiving. I know we say, but come on, why? Why do you keep doing this? And
as soon as we say that, we have forgotten what we're robed with. This flesh is wicked. How many
of your sins do you fall to every day continually? Be honest. We must understand that all of
us struggle with sin. That does not give us a right
to commit sin. Some struggles are more open
to censor. But no matter what, we are to
be ready and willing to forgive. And someone might say, I don't
think I can forgive them. Well then I challenge you to
read the rest of Matthew chapter 18. I'm not going to go over
it this morning, but I encourage you to read it and find out what
happened to a man who was forgiven, but would not forgive others
for lesser offenses. Church discipline is beneficial
for the whole church when it is done according to the scriptures.
Restoration is beneficial for the whole church when it is done
according to the scriptures. When we obey the scriptures,
we bring honor and glory to God. And we find ourselves being blessed
by Him. Isn't that what we want, people?
The blessings of God, not just in our lives and upon this local
church. We want God to be with us, to
fellowship with us. Amen. Sweet fellowship. must be sure that we don't have
unforgiveness in our hearts. I understand that this is not
easy. We've got to crucify our flesh,
tell our flesh no. One of the things that people
say is that you don't know what they've done to me. Again, read the rest of Matthew
18. What have we done to God? What
have we done to Jesus Christ? Every sin is a sin that is in
the face of our Heavenly Father. It's there. And when we sin,
we're saying, God, I know you love me, but right now I love
this sin more than I love you. How terrible is that? Remember while we do church discipline,
we go to gain a brother or a sister back. And we need the Lord's help in
doing this. What we've learned is if you
know someone who needs to be confronted, examine yourself
and then you go in the spirit of meekness to gain your brother
back. If he will not hear you, take
with you witnesses. If he will not repent, then you
bring this to the attention of the church. The church as a whole
reaches out to this person or people, and if they are still
unrepentant, then you must break fellowship with them, but at
the same time you're looking and longing for their return. Often it's out of sight, out
of what? That should not be our heart's desire. When most people
sit in the same spot, it's a habit. They come in, they'll find a
pew, and then they'll sit there, and that's where they're at.
When we look around and we see a spot empty, we should ask why? Where's so-and-so been? Are they sick? Are they in a
bind? Let's check on them. Or are they
in sin? Speak with them. Commune with
them. Find out. See how we can help. The person in sin, when they
repent and they return, we restore them to fellowship. We do this
for all of our good, including them, but ultimately for God's
glory. God's good, isn't He? Aren't
you thankful that God's given this to us in Scripture, dealing
with church discipline? I encourage you to pray one for
another. Let us pray.
Church With Integrity Part 3
| Sermon ID | 1020241538376002 |
| Duration | 54:19 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday - AM |
| Bible Text | Matthew 18:15-22 |
| Language | English |
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