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Page 60, Be Still My Soul. Be still my soul, the Lord is
on your side. Bear patiently the cross of grief
and pain. Lead to your God, to order and
provide. In every change, ye faithful
will remain. Be still, my soul, your best,
your heavenly friend. Through thorny ways, leads to
a joyful way. Be still, my soul, your God doth
undertake to guide the future as He has the past. Your hope, your confidence, then
the All now mysterious shall be bright
at last. Be still, my soul, the waves
and winds still blow. His voice to rule them while
he dwelt below the last. He's still my soul The hour is
hastening on When he shall be ♪ Forever with the Lord ♪ ♪ When
disappointment, grief and fear are gone ♪ ♪ Sorrow forgot, love's
purest joys restored ♪ ♪ Be still my soul ♪ ♪ When change and tears
are best ♪ ♪ All safe and blessed ♪ ♪ We shall meet at last ♪ Well, good evening. Good to see
you. I had the privilege last night
of going over and visiting Brother Dennis Horne as he was ministering
at Brookhaven Baptist Church. Brother Fred Daniel is a pastor
over there. Dennis is doing well. He's got a ministry with his
dad right now. He travels back and forth. and
spends a week at a time with his afflicted dad to help and
take care of him, which hinders him from being out in what you'd
call churches and so forth, because he has to be with his dad. So
he's got help, his brothers, they're rotating. But anyway,
it was good to be with him and to share a little bit of time.
We went to lunch with him yesterday, as a matter of fact, he and Fred. And that's an occasion within
itself. So anyway, I want to ask you
a question. You can turn to Ephesians chapter
4 if you would. I want to ask you a question
before we get started in the actual lesson. When Dennis was talking
about the cat litter box, how did it make you feel? Good? Come on, tell me how it made
you feel. Angry, grieved, disgusted, hopeless. Anybody got anything
different than those? Come on, help me. How'd it make
you feel? Sad? Okay. Anxious about our future
and the future of our children? Tremendously disappointed in
it. But Dennis knelt on the head finally after he got all his
frustration out. When he asked the question, where
are the parents? Now if I think I'm a dog, do
I go outside and hike or what? And what do I do? This is crazy,
stupid, as he said. I think that was a good word,
stupid. And I don't mean it as graciously as he did. You're
stupid, okay, as a parent to allow your child to think this
way. You're not only stupid yourself,
you're enhancing stupidity and propagating stupidity because
the child's gonna grow up and be just as stupid as this is
and so forth. And that's how I feel, okay? So everything affects us, our
feelings. 24-7, you are with feelings. 24-7. Now we're gonna change
the subject. And as we change the subject,
pay attention to your feelings. Some say, well, good. Some say,
well, hurry up. I've got to go home. Some say
this. Some say that. But your feelings are going to vary from
moment to moment, topic to topic, thing to thing, person to person,
on and on and on. Don't deny that, by the way.
That's sin to deny that that happens because we're created
by our Creator with feelings. Now, the first expression of
feelings in the Bible, and Dennis and Dean, you want to pay attention
to this, because they are Genesis people. Not that we're not, but
they are. When God created the heavens
and the earth, and after he created the heavens and the earth, he
said, it's good. As he created light, it's good. As he separated the day and the
night, it's good. All God's creation was good. Then he came to a point
where he completed his creation. And he said, it is very good. Now stay with me. The word good
in that passage of scripture means that God was very pleased
with what he had done. So pleasure is an emotion. And God first expressed pleasure. This is very good. So we move
on in the series in Genesis, and we find the first human expression
of feelings is shame. And then we find anger, and thus
goes the story. And after the fall of man, the
emotions became just as wicked at times as the actual activities
or thought process. The noetic effect of sin went
right along with the physical depravity of man, as a matter
of fact, because as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he. The mind
is depraved, we are depraved, our total beings are depraved. God sent forth his son born of
a woman in due time to deliver us or rescue us from our sins,
okay? Not to save us and leave us in
them, but to deliver us from our sinfulness. And we believe
here in progressive sanctification. And therefore, when God saved
us or gave us new life in Christ, he began to grow us into a Christ
likeness. Now if that didn't happen and
you're not being sanctified, you haven't been saved either.
They go together. It's incomplete to say you're
forgiven your sins and continue therein. 1 John chapter 3. It's
not complete. So no matter what they profess
and how many times they were baptized or pasteurized or any
other eyes, salvation delivers us from our sins. Romans chapter
6 is a tremendous passage. I keep telling people that. Well,
let's move ahead. Unto what? Glorification. Now,
thus far, I haven't made it to glorification. Now, glorification
would be a Genesis 1 experience where it was very good. That
it was totally pleasing to God. How about that? It's very good. Now, God's done some very good
things in your life that He's pleased about. He took pleasure
in saving you. He takes pleasure in your prayers,
the prayers of the saints. There's things about you that
God takes pleasure in that are very good because it's the Christ
we know that worketh in you. We understand that. So, but along
with these experiences and expressions of growth, so must our feelings
go as well. And they do, by the way, they
do go. So we want to look at that because
Why is this so significant? Well, it was significant to God,
it's significant to humanity. Period. Why did Cain and Abel,
Adam and Eve, their mother and father, why did they hide? They
were ashamed. Why was Cain so angry? Because
God refused his sinful offering. Why did he kill his brother?
Because his brother's works were righteous or pleasing to God.
On and on and on. All out of passion. Passion is
an emotion. If you study the word feeling
and emotion, you'd find out they're synonymous. They're synonymous. In other words, my emotions and
my feelings happen simultaneously. You hear this? When I'm preaching
and teaching and so forth, I'm putting my heart into it, blah,
blah, blah, then all that passion, and that's emotion, and we preach
against emotion, and here I am expressing emotion, or expressing
God's Word in an emotional way, which needs to be done, because
preaching is different than teaching. Let me say that to you. Okay? It's different. Preaching is
a proclamation. Okay? Teaching is just what we're
doing tonight. Although there will be some proclamations.
But proclamations without dialogue. Here's the truth. It's without
debate. It's without discussion. It's
just simply declared and proclaimed as if it is official. That's
why Paul would write that I, Paul, an apostle of Jesus Christ. Why would he have to mention
he's an apostle? For authority's sake. You hear
this? For authority, he said, I'm not
just a lay preacher that picked up a King James Bible and headed
for a pulpit somewhere. I'm not just one of the old country
boys who was raised in this church and they just thought I ought
to be preaching because I can hack and holler a little bit.
That's not what Paul was saying. Paul was saying, I'm an apostle
of Jesus Christ. And he said also he was appointed
of Jesus Christ. So this is an appointment, he
said. So he did it by authority. And with his authority there
came the passion. for truth, and the proclamation
of truth, and the teaching of truth, et cetera, et cetera.
So Paul himself was affected, if you please, or expressive
of his own emotions, as God was as well. But why is this so significant
to us today? Well, we have taken, and I mentioned
this last week just by way of review, we've taken what is supposed
to be subjective and made it objective. Now, you know what
I'm saying? We've taken experience, which
is subjective, and put it over top of absolute truth. So absolute
truth, then, is under, if you please, the subjective. So we
do the subjective, and then we try to find an objective truth
to support the subjective. That's backwards. Absolutely
backwards. But we live this way. I mean,
this is how we live. We buy cars this way. Larry,
no, not you. We buy cars this way, we buy
houses this way, we buy clothes this way, et cetera, et cetera.
I have my, I was trying to figure out what watch I got on tonight.
I have my, what's it called, help me Edna, iPod something,
iSomebody, smart watch. I'm glad part of me is smart,
but anyway, it's a smart watch. Why have I got it on? I just
felt like wearing it. It don't tell any better time than that
old Timex I got laying in the drawer. And I wear it periodically,
by the way. Why? Feel like it. Feel like
it. You're dressed the way you feel.
Hear me? This is what bothers you about
some people sometimes. If everybody dresses the way they feel, whoa.
I mean, why do they have tattoos all over their bodies? They just
felt like getting a tattoo. Well, I hope you never feel like
getting rid of them. I mean, we just moved this way. Why is your kid in the school
he's in? I just felt like putting him in this school. Why'd you
send him to college? I just felt like that was the
best place for him to be. I just felt there's no objective reason
to do it. I just felt like doing it. I
looked at the campus. I talked to the teacher. They
don't really teach all the stuff that they're blamed for teaching
at this school. They do if they're under the
rule of the school. Okay? No objective truth. There's people
not here tonight because of subjectiveness, not objectiveness. Okay? Et cetera,
et cetera. And some of us may be here out
of subjectiveness and not objectiveness. We don't know how you feel, do
we? We don't know what mashes your button. We don't know what
moves you, do we? But let us talk for a little
while. and see how your feelings change even as we sit where we're
sitting, et cetera. I was in a conference one time
with a particular friend of mine who's like the rest of us. He's a little long-winded. It
was outside. It was packed, packed. We'd been at it for three or
four hours already. It was getting close to lunchtime. You know
what happens then? My little belly starts to growl,
you know. Not just that, but I'm old, and
the frequency to the restroom is more frequent than ever before.
And I thought he'd never close for my sake. You know what I'm
trying to say? And then he dismissed in prayer.
And he prayed, and he prayed, and he prayed. And I prayed that
he'd quit praying. And prayed, and he prayed, and
he prayed. And of course, I'm sitting right where if I get
up, I'm going to serve a half a row of people, and so forth.
So as soon as he said amen, I was out of there. And he said, what'd
you run off to later? What'd you run off to? I said, I thought
you'd never hush. That's the way I felt. Emotionally,
not just physically. But my physical being affected
my emotions. Now let's turn that around. And
my emotions often affect my physical being. Now let me prove it to
you, theologically. Theologically, if you study the
book of James, and you can disagree with me on this and be wrong,
if you want to. I'm adamant about this, by the
way. And I just tell you, you're wrong. I'm like Dennis, it's
time we quit push fitting around and say, hey, that's not good.
It's not good. In James chapter five, when the
sick or the afflicted calls for the elders of the church, remember,
to anoint him with oil and pray over him. Now in the context
of that passage, we're dealing with sin. We're not dealing with
just physical ailments. And that sin is derivative of
emotional sins. I mean, that sickness. Depression, anxiety, worry, fear,
etc., etc., that promote biological ailments. Acid reflux is one. Ulcers is one. Sometimes migraines
is one. Sometimes. And sometimes there
are real medical reasons for this stuff. But it's a catch-22
on many occasions. Was it a medical reason that
caused, a biological reason that caused this? Or did this cause
the medical problem? Now the doctor will treat the
symptom, you know that, right? He'll never tell you what to
do. He don't know. I had a doctor tell me, we don't
heal people, we treat symptoms. Did you hear what I just said?
A doctor told me that. He said, well, why not? Because
we don't know, catch 22, what causes what here, right? So in
James, when we pray over the sick, the effectual prayer of
a righteous man availeth much, you notice in that passage of
scripture, and if there be false, you confess your faults one to
another, and you forgive one another of sins. That's the context. Now, I don't have time to get
into all that, but that's just an illustration how the two tie together and
how the two affect or could affect one another. And I'm telling
you, medicine cabinets are filled with medicines that treat symptoms
that are caused by emotional sins. Uh-oh. Uh-oh. I didn't look at your medicine
cabinet. I don't want to hear about it. Don't come talk to me about
it. Talk to your doctor. I'm not a doctor. I'm a preacher. I love the truth. And I'm telling
you, our churches are filled with sick people on occasion
because of emotional distress. How about this? Anxiety at work.
Now, none of you guys who work out in the field, none of you
guys have any anxiety at work. It's a cush job. No pressure,
right? No pressure. It's easy going.
My boss loves me. He don't care whether I work
or not, just so I show up, you know? So I show up at nine, take
a break at 10, go to lunch at 12, quit at three. He loves me. Yeah, anybody got
that kind of job? Because I'm sure it says want
one. No, there's pressure and stress and anxiety. When I was
in electronics, there was often days that I wasn't able to be
solution oriented enough in a problem in a device to actually repair
it on that occasion. And I've gone home and I've carried
that home with me many a night. because the customers are calling,
the bosses calling, people are calling from upstairs saying,
hey, what about so-and-so? What about this? What about that?
And all I can say, hey, I'm on it. I'm on it. Well, can you
get that out today? I'll do my best. And then what
about so-and-so? Can you get them out today, too,
and so on and so on? I have even gotten to the extreme.
This is a true story. I've gotten to the extreme in
that situation. I'll never forget this. I'd worked
on this piece of equipment for two days, and that's 16 hours.
Okay? Non-stop. Just that one piece
of equipment. And the boss was calling and telling me I'd work
16 hours on it. Let's try to get that out. Okay,
boss. I'd go home and I honest to you,
I dreamed about that piece of equipment. Now don't put any
stock in this. Don't go home and ask God to
give you a dream. But I had that so much on my mind that I could
actually see that circuit. I could see the devices and the
modules and all that stuff. I could envision it in that dream.
I'll never forget this. And I dreamed that I found the
problem. I went to work the next day,
Mark, and I put my finger right on the thing I dreamed about,
and sure enough, that was the problem. Now, tell me it don't
affect you. Of course, there was joy in the
house of the Lord that day. See how your emotions change?
How about relief? Is that an emotion? Now, I told
you last week that psychologists, psychiatrists have 271 terms
to describe your emotions. Now, they do overlap, okay? And there are many of them that
are synonymous. But if I asked you to make a list of emotions,
you probably couldn't give me 10. Why? Because we take these things
for granted. For instance, how do you feel
right now? Not physically. How do you feel
right now? How do you feel? Get serious
about it. How do you feel? Resentful? Reluctant? Regretful? I mean, just go down
the list. How do you feel? Nobody in here
feels like you feel. You feel a feeling that nobody's
ever felt before. You're unique. Don't you understand
this? We couldn't possibly be sad, you know? I listen to these
prayer requests. I'm not filled with hope when
I listen to these prayer requests. I'm filled with grief. Whoops,
sorry, Brian. I'm filled with grief. I'm just,
my smartwatch is talking too smart. It didn't know what I
was preaching right now. But anyway, I'm filled with grief.
When you're making a prayer request, my brother got cancer. Hallelujah.
No, no, no. I'm grieving for him. OK, I'm
sorry for him. So don't you have hope that the
Lord will heal him? Nope. Nope. I have hope that God's
grace will be sufficient. Where did God ever promise me
he would heal anybody? Now can God do it? Will He do
it? Let's face it, most people you
prayed for had cancer, died. Why don't you face that, huh? How do you feel about what I'm
saying right now, by the way? I'm not saying not to pray for people
with cancer. I'm saying my hope is not in their healing. The
psalmist said, I would not have known the law of the Lord had
it not been for your affliction. In other words, Marie, there's
things that God wants us to learn in times of affliction. Now in
times of affliction, now our emotions are really stirred.
We might even question what God's doing if we don't get what? Relief. Come on, I'm not the only guy
to ever do this. You sit out there like a Pharisee
or something. Come on, admit it. You'll never get over it
until you admit it, by the way. You're a feeling-oriented person
just like the rest of us. Now God did something wonderful.
God saved you. You remember when he saved you? Or brought it to your attention
that you need to be saved and convicted you of your sins. Put
it any way you want to. For Brian's sake, last Saturday
night, April 1973, he and I had these discussions. God gave me
new life in Christ. But you know what I found out
real quick? I found that although I have new life in Christ, I'm
struggling with some things that I had before I got new life in
Christ. How about you? Where are they coming from? They're
coming from that old man that taught me how to do these things.
That's where they're coming from. So Paul in Ephesians chapter
4 talks to a church, Ephesus. Now let me tell you a little
bit about Ephesus. For those of you in Monday night, I'll
get ahead of myself probably. Ephesus was a church that was
so well indoctrinated in three chapters, the first three chapters,
that you'd think they'd never have any problem, because after
all, theology fixes everything. I mean, we're talking about election.
We're talking about some of my favorite subjects, by the way.
Election, predestination, redemption, forgiveness of sin. We're talking
about the ministry of the Holy Spirit. I mean, we're just talking
about the richness and the fullness of Jesus Christ for God's people.
What a wonderful, wonderful truth that is, and truth that is. We're
talking about in chapter two how I was dead and trespassed
in sins, and now he's quickened me, given me new life. He's been
merciful to me. He declares, for by grace you're
saved through faith, not of yourself, Jim. It is a gift of God. And
we shout hallelujah. You'd think, man, I'm living
in the clouds. I'll never have another problem.
And then I walked out, and I saw Brad Houck with a sledgehammer
beating on my windshield. Brad. Now the reason I use Brad
is that would be a surprise, don't you think? To Deb and me. And Brad, probably. But you know Brad has the potential
to get so angry that he could kill. And you do too. Potentially. Potentially. Have you ever seen
people that are really angry and the blood vessels in their
head pop? And they turn red, I mean literally
red, and not just down to the neck. Literally. And they're so angry. They take
their fist and hit a wall, punch a hole in a wall. They get a
gun and threaten everybody in the room. Anger would cause you
to do just about anything. Get out of the jail and talk
to them and see. Go on. What about the girl out here
Down on Elm, I forgot exactly where it was, at the gas station.
They had a minor car incident. A minor car incident. She runs
over and kills the girl. Over a minor car incident. I
could have a major car incident before I do that, I hope. But
a minor car incident. I mean, a fender bender. Come
on, people. How valuable a fender was that?
And she murdered that girl. and got life in prison, by the
way, and she should have. You shouldn't have said, no,
I'm gonna say it. She's a murderess. And she did it out of passion,
which is nothing but an emotion. That's all it is. It's an extreme
expression of emotion, by the way. So Paul addresses this at
the church because we're talking about being saved Gentile Jew. We're talking about a mixed congregation
here. in the church at Ephesus. And
in the church at Ephesus, they obviously have these problems.
For instance, when he says in verse 26, be ye angry and sin
not, obviously anger was a common practice, if you please, to use
their anger in an unjust way. Thievery, I've got to mark Bracewell
disease. Thievery, corrupt communication,
all those things will come. He's not just writing a list
of don't do this and don't do that and don't do this. These
things are going on, okay? He gets down to the latter part
of the chapter, verse 29. Let's go there, in Berk chapter
four. Let no corrupt communication
proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use
of Ediphi, that may minister grace unto the hearers. And grieve
not the Holy Spirit of God, whereby you're sealed into the day of
redemption. Here we go. Let all bitterness and wrath
and anger and clamor and evil speaking be put away from you
with all malice, he says. Now this is not either or. This
is a package deal. So we're not just going to be
dealing with bitterness, but we're going to be dealing with
bitterness and wrath and so forth and so on. It's a package. You understand
that? It's kind of like a good illustration
would be in Galatians chapter 5, where he talks about the fruit
of the Spirit. Remember that? That's not one
or the other. You don't have one of the other
fruits of the Spirit, or two and you need three more. That's
not how that is. That's a package deal. You hear
this? The Spirit of God doesn't pour
out Himself in portions. You hear this? He's whole. He's complete. You've
either been born in the Spirit or you haven't. Remember 1 John
1, 2, 3, 4, 5? So you either have or you haven't. So in Galatians 5, I'm going
to read that because you look like you didn't believe me. Look
at this. In verse 22, chapter 5 of Galatians, the fruit of
the Spirit is love, joy, peace. It doesn't say love, joy, and
peace. It says the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long-suffering,
gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance, against
such there is no law. It's a package deal. This sinfulness
over here, this bitterness, wrath, and so forth, is a package deal.
Now here's where I want to go with that comment. I want to
take you to where you are when you are either or, you think.
Some people express bitterness. You know the last person to realize
they're bitter is the bitter person. And bitterness is one
of those elements that defile many, according to Hebrews. So it's, let all bitterness and
wrath and anger, so when I'm bitter, I'm angry, okay? I bring about clamor or just,
what would you say, what's the ESV say there for clamor? Anybody
got an ESV with them? Anybody? Nobody? Anybody care? What? 431. Please, if you come to church,
bring a Bible, okay? ESV does? Okay. So I'm trying
to think. Disarray, disorganization, confusion. Yeah, scream, the confusion that
goes with that, the calamity, etc. That's how I was trying
to think. Evil speaking be put away from you with all malice,
he says. In other words, here's the root that drives the nail,
the hammer that drives the nail, as you're being malicious in
expressing these passions or these emotions. You're being
malicious toward others, etc. So you see how this sin affects
the fellowship of God's people as well, because I'm sure it
is directed to this church about members in this church and the
fellowship that's in this church. That's why he says to strive
for unity in chapter 4 because of this. So that's our idea. But I want you to know this. Since our culture has so perverted
this, here's some of the things we have to deal with. I'd like
to go to a church where I can feel God moving. He needs to feel the Holy Spirit
convicting him. I need to feel peace about my
decision. I just feel like it's either
right, and sometimes I feel like it's wrong. So right or wrong
are determined by you, by your feelings. Isn't that where we
are, by the way? In our culture, I'm talking about.
If it feels good, do it, kind of thing. I just felt like a
good pizza would help me. On what, your diet? I've tried
that. It don't work. And don't we often
eat by the way we feel, by the way? I just feel like I'd like
to have Italian food. I'm not going to start naming
foods, because you'll get up and go eat. So I don't want to do that. I'd like to just, I just don't
feel like the church loves me. Boy, I smoked a gallon of that
the other day. I said, you can't be right about that. Oh yeah,
you just don't go to our church and blah, blah, blah. We have
no choice but to love you. How about that? God has ordained
that we love you. And if we're born of God, we
love you. Whether you feel it or not. You don't know your theology,
do you? Or if you know it, you don't know what to do with it.
I just don't feel like I'm welcome, really. That's based on what?
Well, I just didn't know anybody there. What a subjective idea
that you have. He cried and cried and cried
and prayed and prayed and prayed so he'd be right with God. He'd
feel right with God. How does it feel to be right
with God, by the way? What's it feel like? It's going to be
a subjective answer. It's going to be peaceful, joyful, happy,
walking in the clouds, etc., etc. You'll never change being right
with God, Christian. You're either saved or you're
not. What's going to separate you
from the love of God that you have in Christ Jesus? I said,
Pastor, you're jumping all over it. You better believe it. It's
heresy. There's a lot of days I don't,
quote, feel the presence of God. Have you ever had one of those?
God, where are you? And you prayed and you wondered
if God even heard you. So you prayed a little louder. Why don't
you get a knife out and cut yourself? Build you an altar, build a big
fire, pour water on it. We'll see if lightning comes
down and burns the wood. I'm being silly, but that's where
that leads. How about this one? Let's take
it out of the church and get out where you work. I have a job opportunity. Should I take this job or stay
where I am? Well, how do you feel about it? Oh, it's right near the house.
I can save on gas. I just feel like this is the
job for me. Well, based upon what? Money? You know, you can
have money, Ecclesiastes says, but if that's your goal, money
has you. You don't have money. There's
people right now got businesses and jobs, but they really don't
have them. The job has them. Come on, because
they feel like, okay. How about this one? Should your
daughter or son date this particular individual? I just feel like
he's a wonderful person. Being wonderful is not based
on a feeling, by the way. Should I attend a school? I like
this one. Should I eat this dessert or
not? Now, if Miss Janice passes it around, take it. Take it. Don't hurt her feelings. And I've been good about not
hurting her feelings. She's even got Brad delivering
for you. You don't have to, I mean, he's the Uber guy. And the point of all that being,
are you in authority or are your feelings the authority? Which
one? Do you control life as God would
have it be? Or does life control you by the
way you feel? I don't feel like getting up
when the clock goes off. Well, who does? I used to. I used to just spring up out of
there. Now my spring has sprung. I don't feel like getting up whenever. It's not the point. Point is, there's things to be
done. We've got to get started. The day is going to be short.
It's going to be busy. It's going to be this. It's going
to be that. Get at it. How about the old song? You've
lost that loving feeling. Whoa, whoa, whoa. Now it's gone,
gone, gone. And we laugh and have a little
bit of fun with this, but I counsel a lot of people. I just don't feel like she loves
me. He don't love me like he used to. How do you know? I just don't
feel the intimacy. I don't feel the this. I don't
feel the this. I don't feel the that. Well, based upon what? Well, it's just that way, it's
just how it is. We've just grown that way. Well, no, that's not
just how it is, et cetera. I don't even feel like we're
married anymore. Oh, so now marriage is a feeling. You know, I don't feel like driving,
after driving 70 miles an hour, dropping down to 55 mile an hour
on a highway either. But you know, Dean, there's a
sign there that says 55 mile an hour. And whether I feel like
obeying that or not, the sign's gonna say 55 mile an hour. And
there's a guy in between that sign and the next sign that drives
a funny looking car, or SUV or whatever, or an unmarked car.
But I know this, they all have blue lights on them. I know from
experience. He's going to stop me and talk
to me about, did you not know that this was 55? And I'm going
to say, yes, sir. Is there a reason that you're
going above the speed limit? Yes, sir. Could you tell me? This happened. I said, I was
just being stupid. So he checks out the license,
the registration card, the insurance, and all that, comes back to the
car, writes me a warning ticket. And he says, you know, I'm just
going to give you a warning ticket this time. He said, but let me give
you a suggestion. Take your stupidity into somebody else's zone. Would
you do that? I said, I promise. So now when I drive through that
section, I'm very conscious of the fact he's out there. He's looking for me. And I don't
drive how I feel. By the way, we just got off the
highway this route. and now it's dropped down to 45 and eventually
go back up to 55 and so we try to make sure we hit the speed
control and then that way I didn't have to yell at me and say, you're
not, how subtle she is, you're not speeding are you honey? I
don't feel like I am. Or I'll look at the speedometer
and I'll say 70, I'm not going over 70, GPS argument, but anyway. I feel like she or he meant what
they said or didn't mean what they said or whatever. And I'm
going to respond that way. I don't feel like he ever listens
to me anymore. Here's one. I don't feel good
about myself. I just feel like quitting. I
feel like I need to go to another church. I feel like our relationship
can't be reconciled. I feel like I'm going to tell
him off. I feel like I need a new whatever, dress, suit, whatever. You see how we are? All emotions. All emotions. The divorce courts
are filled with people that live by emotions. If they didn't,
they'd operate by covenant. As I told this individual the
other night, did you take a covenant when you married her? Yeah. Or
did that covenant not mean anything? I mean, what did you say? And
what was the promises? And what's the covenant? And
so on and so on. And I made him go through all that. Nobody broke the covenant. If you made that covenant in
the field, it doesn't matter. You made the covenant. You can't
get out of that. Better not to vow a vow than to make a vow
and break it, God says in Ecclesiastes. But let me say this too before,
and we won't get very far with this, but we'll get started.
Therefore, we have to conclude that feelings within themselves
are not wrong. Because our creator himself has
feelings. For instance, grieve not the
spirit of God. What is grief? What is that? You grieve sometimes,
don't you? What is that? It's an emotion
expressed out of dissatisfaction or disobedience or sorrow, et
cetera. But God is a God of emotions.
Okay, but not just of emotion, but Jesus Christ in Matthew chapter
nine, When he saw the multitudes, the Bible says he was moved with
compassion upon them. What is compassion other than
a feeling? What is that? It's a feeling of mercy and care
and love and all the things that go with that. It's an emotion. Jesus Christ was emotional. And
now remember this, he was God in the flesh. Don't ever forget
or forsake the teaching of the deity of Christ. That's what
the Gnostics do, Heretics do, Apostates do. He's God in the
flesh. I said, well explain that. Well,
you do it. Bless your heart. You need an
explanation. And the best explanation you're going to get, he was both
God and man. He was fully God and fully man. That's the best you're going
to get out of me anyway. Now, I know you can get detailed
about it and so forth, but don't forsake the deity of Christ.
And in his deity, he didn't hesitate to express emotions. What about
when he looked out over Jerusalem and wept? And he said, oh, Jerusalem,
Jerusalem, how often I would have gathered you, but you would
not. As a hen gathers her chicks, but you would not. And he cried.
What about the tomb of Lazarus? And Jesus wept. Anybody can memorize
that one. And Jesus wept. Now, we act like
this isn't significant. Let me tell you why it's so significant.
Because God put it in you to express his glory. That's why
it's so significant. And that's why it just flows.
And God's compassion just flows. And God's emotions just flow.
How about this one? He's angry with the wicked every
day. Didn't say he's going to get
up in the morning and see if he's going to be angry. He said
he's angry with the wicked every day. So you don't have to create
emotions is the point. You've been created with emotions. So I don't need, Brother Jimmy,
271 terms to tell me that I have emotions. I do have emotions. I have feelings. Feelings. Jesus had feelings. Hebrews 4, 15. We have a high priest which cannot
be touched with the feeling of our infirmities. Jesus Christ
was counted as a man of sorrow and great grief. Isaiah 53, a
man of sorrows and acquainted with grief. And I give you one
more about Jesus. I've got several, but I just
give you one more. As I stand behind the microphone. As I see
Brango. When he prayed in the Garden
of Gethsemane, Before he entered into prayer, the Bible says that
he was sorrowful unto death. In other words, he was so grieved,
so cumbered down with burden of what was going to take place,
he said, my soul is grieved unto death. It's killing me. Now he wasn't talking about his
soul dying and going to hell and all that. He was talking
about his life. My life is consumed in this right now. My whole being
and his whole emotions was involved in that prayer in the garden. What about that? Was that wrong? And he prayed. And he prayed
with emotion. When he prayed if it be possible, Father, if
it be possible to let this cup pass. And he moved on through
his emotions and said, nevertheless, not my will, but thy will be
done. So see, you can steer your emotions
rather than have them steer you. And I take you back, and we'll
be suppositional for just a moment. Speaking of his nature and character,
he could have done, had he been at liberty to, anything he wanted
to do. Well, we're talking about a creator
here. We're not talking about some wimp, you know, that come
off the Pharisee's bench and come out preaching. We're talking
about the Son of God, the Creator. We're talking about a guy that
Dennis read about a little while ago. In the beginning was the
Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. All things
are created by Him. This is who we're talking about.
So we hear about him calling 10,000 angels, could he? I mean, when the guys came to arrest
him and they fell backwards and he said, I am, I'm he. I mean,
he could have not just caused him to fall backwards, he could
have buried him in the sand. He didn't need Peter to draw
a sword. You hear this? He didn't need anything. This
is God we're talking about. Expressing emotions, godly emotions. Now, if we're going to follow
after Jesus Christ, we want to use ours in a godly way. Use
ours in a godly way. And I'm not going to get into
it tonight, but just by way of introduction for next week. The Psalms is
a book of emotions. You talk about a roller coaster.
Up, down, up, down, up. Sorrow, joy, sorrow, joy, grief,
fear, anxiety, awe. I mean, a whole gambit of emotions. And this was a man, after God's
own heart, David, who struggled emotionally. He said, well, pastor, if you
went through what he went through. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
See, that's the experience-oriented person. David needed to become
a command-oriented person. David was experience-oriented.
Now, what makes you say that? Well, the armies have surrounded
me, so therefore I'm sad. The people are begging, therefore
I'm grieved. His circumstances dictated his emotions. Read it
and see. If you want a real story on it,
read 1 and 2 Samuel and then read those Psalms so you can
know where he was and what he was doing. But he was acquainted
with grief and sorrow, et cetera, et cetera, as well. But what
was David's problem? What's his problem? I mean, he
got, we use the word depressed. They used to call it melancholy.
But I like depressed better. He was depressed. And I don't
mean he was depressed and took a pill and got over it. I mean,
he lived in depression. He's not the kind of guy I want
to have dinner with and listen to all his problems. You ever
do that? You want to have fellowship with
somebody and they got more problems than we got food? You get away
from the table, got indigestion, not because of what you eat,
but what you listen to? You've never done that? Edna and I were
in a Cracker Barrel one day in Princeton, West Virginia, and
the service was terrible. See, I got emotional. No. We
waited, we waited, we waited. Finally, she came over. I'm so-and-so, I'll be your server
today. And I said, well, I'm pleased to meet you, blah, blah,
blah. I said, I'm Jim, this is Edna, blah, blah, blah. I said,
how's your day going? And that stopped her right there.
I just was being congenial. I don't really want to know how
your day's going. Matter of fact, I really don't
care how your day's going. I was just being congenial. You've
never done this, I know. I'll get there someday. She sat down at the table. And for how long, Edna, did she
pour out her life story there on that table? I want a Diet
Coke. I want a biscuit with butter,
apple butter, something. And she poured it out. And she'd
had a rough one, and it was still rough, and so forth and so on. And I think, if I remember correctly,
that we finally ended up praying for her, and we finally got something
to eat. Well, I felt better about her
story after I had eaten, frankly. Now, if you don't know it, Princeton
is halfway between here and home. Okay, so we didn't eat here because
at halfway we're going to stop and eat at the Cracker Barrel.
Well, I was passing out, crying out loud. I still haven't learned the lesson,
don't ask people how they're doing. I still do that. How are
you doing? And some of them lie and say
doing great. But David expressed himself oftentimes
in an evil way. Listen to this. O Lord, rebuke me not in your
wrath, neither chasten me in thy hot displeasure. For thine
arrows stick fast in me, and thy hand presseth me sore. There
is no soundness in my flesh because of thine anger, neither is there
any rest in my bones because of my sin. My wounds stink and
are corrupt because of my foolishness. I am troubled, I am bowed down
greatly, I go mourning all the day long. Sounds like the kind
of guy I went out to breakfast with. I'm feeble and sore broken, I've
roared by reason of the disquietness of my heart. Lord, all my desires
before Thee and my groaning is not hid from Thee. My heart panteth,
my strength faileth, as for the... You think he was on top of clouds
right there? Now let me tell you what's wrong
with David. David built his life on experience. And Eddie's done a good job bringing
that out, why he's going through what he's going through. But
if you ever notice, the conclusion of the matter is when he returned
to the Lord, he got his thinking straight. In other words, this
army didn't look so great when he had his eyes on God. This
problem wasn't even near the size of God. It couldn't overcome
God when he got his eyes fixed back on God. And what am I saying?
Circumstances affect us, but don't let them direct us. Okay? I'm not going home and put out
a cat litter box. Well, we'll put one out, but
not for that reason. But not for that reason. If I
had a kid come home and tell me he's a cat, well, you can
have a mouse for supper is all I'm going to tell you. Circumstances. It's just like
the world that we're living in today. It's depressing. I don't
care how much money you got, it doesn't bother, it's worthless.
You get sick and see what good it does you. Okay? Try to buy
your health back, would you? When you start losing it. Try
to buy that, see if you get it back. Lay your money on the table. See what it does for that. See
what it does for you that are depressed when you're laying
in bed at night and can't sleep. Go ahead. When a child has rebelled
and you don't know what to do, go ahead, put your money on the
table. See what good it does you. Now, I'm glad you got it
if you use it for the glory of God. Don't misunderstand me.
Money within itself is not evil. It is the love of money that
is evil, the superiority of money that is evil. And don't jump
behind the banner of stewardship. Don't do that with me, please.
My tears have been my meat all day and night. So this is a continual
thing. Why? Because he was responding in
an adverse way to adversities. We can't do anything about the
government. I had a fellow tell me yesterday that we're responsible
for our government. I am not responsible for this
mess. I do have responsibilities to
the government, taxes, et cetera, elections, and so I got that.
My responsibility is to God first, primary, priority with God. No wonder he's grieved. If he's
responsible for this mess, we'll take him out and do something
with him. It's depressing. I watched, Oh, I forgot what,
it was the news. I don't do that if I have it,
but I did it this morning. And they're talking about the
economy, of course, and how that recession, as Dr. Joe said, would be mild. Right. Well, tell the guy with fixed
income how mild it is right now, would you? Tell him when he goes
to the grocery store and can't buy a dozen eggs. Tell him. Tell
him he pulls up to the gas pump and he can't afford to fill up
his tank. Go on. Tell him it's a mild recession, would you?
Go ahead. Liars. I'm not responsible for
that. I don't have an oil well to supply
the country with. I'm not responsible for all these
things. I'm responsible for this. And so are you. So are you. Why? Because my hope is in the
Lord. Now, if I look to Joe or look to some of these people,
even some of the good, if there are conservative folks, we're
in trouble. We're helpless. We've created
a monster. In this country. And there's
no stopping it. If you don't believe me, believe
the Bible, there's no stopping it. We're headed for the greatest
judgment that God has ever imposed on a country. We've had more
than the world throughout our history. And look what we've
done with it. We've taught them to use litter
boxes. People used to come to this country
for an education. Now I suggest you leave it for
an education. Find some place that teaches
right. I'm not depressed. I'm not discouraged. Got less now than I've ever had
in my life. Not really. Not really. A tent or a cottage,
the songwriter said, why should I care? He's building a mansion
for me over there. That's not fiction with me. That's
fact. So I can read a newspaper and
almost laugh. That's an emotion. I can get
angry, that's an emotion. I can do something violent and
tear it up, that's an emotion. I can do a lot of things and
I can also rejoice in the fact that Jesus Christ is the King
of Kings and Lord of Lords. Father, bless us tonight, I pray. Challenge us with our feelings. Lord, help us to evaluate why
Are we feeling what we're feeling? Why are we thinking like we're
thinking, doing what we're doing? Help us to realize there are
good expressions of emotions. So help us to do them well. Help
us to rejoice. Help us to be happy, to be glad.
Help us to have a countenance that shines for the glory of
God. Lord, help us to love people.
Help us to express that love. Help us to express righteousness
in all that we do and say. Help us, Lord, to put the Holy
Spirit and his work in our heart and life as a priority. that
you would help us to put off the anger and the wrath, the
bitterness, all those, that entire package that hinders us from
glorifying you. We pray in Christ's name. Amen. God bless you folks. Thank you.
Feelings and Emotions - Part 2
Series Feelings and Emotions
10/12/22 Bible Study with Pastor James Bledsoe
Biblical Perspective of Feelings and Emotions - Part 2
| Sermon ID | 101322141264815 |
| Duration | 1:00:36 |
| Date | |
| Category | Sunday Service |
| Bible Text | Ephesians 4 |
| Language | English |
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