Matthew 7:2

being judgmental, you will be judged, speck in your brother's eye, consider the plank in your own eye, remove the speck from your bother's eye, having a plank in our eye, destroys relationships, judged by our heavenly Father, practical thing Jesus says we need to stop and think before we make any judgments, THINK--ask yourself is it true, helpful, inspiring, necessary, or kind, motivation--God is going to use these same standards against you