God's Word speaks to our self-centeredness. Here, Paul describes a mindset that is driven by the mercies of God. Life is not about you. Has the radical love and mercy that God has shown toward you affected your love toward others? Has it affected your attitude? Have empathy. Listen. Get in the Word and be of the same mind. Don't be high-minded, looking down on others. Don't think you're above other people. Make yourself vulnerable by loving others.