Thanks for Addressing 'Lent'
Thanks for your thoughtful consideration of a timely topic. I do agree with what you've said, but I'd like to add another point.
I'm involved in a little Baptist church, in a small town. Other than a tiny Brethren chapel (half a dozen people), we are the only evangelical work in the community. Each year, all the churches (liberal, Catholic, and all) are called upon to unite for ecumenical services and a luncheon, once a week, during Lent.
Our church does not participate, and receives criticism for this--even from one individual in our own congregation. The argument is that we are being "stand-offish," with the implication that we think we are too good to associate with others.
Yesterday, I was told that, after all, we're all trying to get to the same place (heaven). In other words, other than a few cosmetic or stylistic differences, churches are all the same. But this is precisely why I believe it's wrong to join in. It gives exactly that impression, and, in effect, expresses tacit approval of churches that do not preach the gospel of grace.
Thanks again for your message. God bless.