What is dating? What are some of the reasons for dating? Whom should we date?
What should we do on a date? How far may we go in our touching and kissing? Where do we draw the line? How do we know where to draw the line?
The subject of sexual purity is extremely important. It is not a matter of mere curiosity. It is of eternal importance, because the sexually immoral do not inherit the kingdom of God (I Cor. 6:9, 10; Eph. 5:5-7)!
The perspective used in this pamphlet for finding the answers to these questions will be, unashamedly, the Bible. This will spare you from having to hear my opinion and about my experiences. And it will spare you from having a standard set for you by a mere human, a standard which might change tomorrow. Not Masters and Johnson, not some "expert," not the prevalent moral standards of two hundred years ago, not even the ideas of your "ancient" parents are to be your standard of morality.
We want an objective standard. We need an objective standard. That objective standard is the Bible. The only rule for faith and life is the Word of God. And this is a rule which applies not only to Sundays, but also to Friday and Saturday nights! It is my goal in this pamphlet to present only what God says in His Word.
May God guide us to love Him with our all, to adhere to His standard of purity and holiness, and to exercise the fruit of the Spirit: self-control.