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New life after whistleblowing — A Poem
It was the best and the worst of times. I lost my whole world and gained a new one. I grew small, completely disappeared then I became me. Goodness grew wings and fluttered away, as wisdom’s shoots came through the earth. Death rattled my bones, as... [ ... ]
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