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Abuse and Pornography: A Digest of Scott Johnson’s “Pornography and Abuse”
We have referred to Scott Allen Johnson’s great book before, Physical Abusers and Sexual Offenders when we summarized his tenth chapter on Empathy. Here, we will do the same with the 20th chapter of his book entitled Pornography and Abuse.... [ ... ]
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