We had a vote that passed to allow gay marriage before the Courts made it a requirement for the whole Country. One of the activists demanding gay marriage married his partner. BUt he is still proud of going out on Friday nights and picking up a young gay man for a night of activities. I do not consider that a marriage. He degrades marriage by continuing to have sex with other partners. Just shows how far the Society in the US has fallen over the past two decades.
Why should queers really care about marriage? Their perversion is an act of total and complete inconsistency with all that is "normal." Application for marriage is a request for acceptance into society a la normal. Thus it can only be a maneuver to subvert the standards of human society.