Thomas... I have pondered about how I dress and it has been considered. What does my jeans and or shorts and a t shirt reflect? I hope you understand it means nothing. But... you seem to think it does?
Where's the fear?... Paul himself told the corinthians( I believe) that the apostles were poorly clothed. Was he disrespectful to the Lord? Of course not! While I agree women should be modest in their clothing... the same goes for the men. What does that mean though? Not showing our bodies off, right? But it does not mean that we have to dress up either. That's not being modest. That in itself is showing off.